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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Is my Long Distance Relationship worth it?
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Men, do you watch porn? Woman, are you okay with your man watching it?
Q. Okay I need to know answersfrom men an women! Men do you all watch porn? Me an my boyfriend of 6 years has had this issue I the past year I found him lookin at porn. So it hurts that he has to look at other women it's not like he's watching a video ...
A. 15 April 2012: Yep what Cerberus says
he won't mind that you look at porn or get off on it.
and just because you have two kids with a man does not mean you have to stay in a marriage....... (read in full...)
I just cant seem to like girls my age!
Q. So in a weird flip of the coin i have recently started seeing older women. I am 24 and im seeing a lady who is 34 and another who is 42. i have fooled around with a lady who was 63 last week. i really dont know what it is. i find them attractive and ...
A. 17 February 2012: NO it won’t happen with a woman that doesn’t want or can’t have more children.
34 is still young to have kids…. The issue is that she already has 4 and may not want more… but a single 34 year old probably does want kids… so don’t discount the enti... (read in full...)
I'm starting to see sex as another job/chore. My husband jokes its my "duty" but I really feel like telling him he can shove it
Q. My and my H have been together for over 10 years and have 2 children we both work full time. I am 27 and he is 35 we get on great and normally I have the higher sex drive however atm I just don't have the energy/need to have sex I haven't lost my ...
A. 26 January 2012: OP I hear you… so this is a new problem for you and yours?
My guy does not do the laundry and when he puts it away he leaves my stuff on the bed for me to put away and that’s fine… he just doesn’t know where my stuff goes or how I like it and that... (read in full...)
I'm starting to see sex as another job/chore. My husband jokes its my "duty" but I really feel like telling him he can shove it
Q. My and my H have been together for over 10 years and have 2 children we both work full time. I am 27 and he is 35 we get on great and normally I have the higher sex drive however atm I just don't have the energy/need to have sex I haven't lost my ...
A. 26 January 2012: To the Anonymous OP who has never refused to cuddle… I have one of those men now. He’s a delight… but his sex drive is very very low and I often settle for a kiss and a cuddle when I want more… sometimes to the point that I OFFER a blow job and he ... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 26 January 2012: well then for sure you tell them. have some faith in human nature.... (read in full...)
I'm starting to see sex as another job/chore. My husband jokes its my "duty" but I really feel like telling him he can shove it
Q. My and my H have been together for over 10 years and have 2 children we both work full time. I am 27 and he is 35 we get on great and normally I have the higher sex drive however atm I just don't have the energy/need to have sex I haven't lost my ...
A. 26 January 2012: ". As far as being clean...what is that about."
I was just responding to the poster before me when he said:
"et's apply that concept a little more broadly and see how most women like it. For example, let's put "cuddling" and "romance" and "c... (read in full...)
I'm starting to see sex as another job/chore. My husband jokes its my "duty" but I really feel like telling him he can shove it
Q. My and my H have been together for over 10 years and have 2 children we both work full time. I am 27 and he is 35 we get on great and normally I have the higher sex drive however atm I just don't have the energy/need to have sex I haven't lost my ...
A. 25 January 2012: No we don’t compromise we get divorced or we fight and have affairs . I have NEVER met a man who is willing to cuddle and romance and be cleaner than he wants for a woman. And I’ve had MANY husbands and partners and I have always had the higher ... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 25 January 2012: Not before you have sex with them.
If you are looking for a long term relationship then you will spend lots of time with them getting to know them BEFORE the sexual conversations come up...
ONCE you are ready to be sexual with them is the time... (read in full...)
My friend plans on using her boyfriend as a meal ticket!
Q. This isn't about me but a friend. She's the same age as me, 20, and a sophomore education major. However she sees her boyfriend as a meal ticket and doesn't think she will work after graduation. She actually believes she will get married within the ...
A. 25 January 2012: Umm I got married at 21 and stayed home and made babies and was working my butt off to run a home. MY husband was NOT a meal ticket as I contributed very meaningfully to the running of a home. Clearly you have no idea how much time and effort is ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to see sex as another job/chore. My husband jokes its my "duty" but I really feel like telling him he can shove it
Q. My and my H have been together for over 10 years and have 2 children we both work full time. I am 27 and he is 35 we get on great and normally I have the higher sex drive however atm I just don't have the energy/need to have sex I haven't lost my ...
A. 25 January 2012: Eddie,
As in life, the person with the lowest level of commitment or desire sets the guidelines. The person with the higher drive has to accept it or move on... it's easier to give up then to give in when it comes to wanting sex.
I want ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with sexting someone else while in a committed relationship?
Q. why is sexting (sending racy/sexually suggestive texts and FB messages) wrong? I can't see a problem with it and have been sexting an ex-colleague who i have no intention of seeing in reality. My gf of 6 months (who i love and am serious about) ...
A. 25 January 2012: This is how I define cheating: ANYTHING you can’t won’t or DON’T tell your partner. That being said if you are being open and totally honest about what you are doing and she’s not happy then you need to stop.
Personally I had an open mar... (read in full...)
Is she interested or..is she just treating me as a brotherly figure/adorable platonic friend?
Q. I have a crush on my colleague and I have no idea how she feels. We are both 18 and part-timers at a restaurant, both moving onto uni in 8 months. We have gotten close on a night out before, as in kissing in a corner, although we were tiddly. It ...
A. 24 January 2012: you really need to ask her... but I am betting she might say she's interested....... (read in full...)
I'm starting to see sex as another job/chore. My husband jokes its my "duty" but I really feel like telling him he can shove it
Q. My and my H have been together for over 10 years and have 2 children we both work full time. I am 27 and he is 35 we get on great and normally I have the higher sex drive however atm I just don't have the energy/need to have sex I haven't lost my ...
A. 24 January 2012: Next time he says "fine we'll never have sex again" I'd say "great works for me" and go on about my business...
what does he do around the house to help you?
does he do chores?
does he do child care?
does he romance you? cuddle you? ... (read in full...)
I think I like multiple women.
Q. Hey all, I'll keep this brief. I have three lady friends at my university. And whenever I see one of them I think: "ooo, I think I like you because your personality is ________________". Or "you're attractive". Then I'll see the next woman maybe 1 ...
A. 24 January 2012: What do you mean this isn’t normal??? Of course it’s NORMAL. You are very NORMAL. You are a young healthy male… you just haven’t met “the one” yet….
There is nothing wrong with dating many women… as long as you are open and honest about th... (read in full...)
Sometimes cooking meals is just too much work! Is anyone else like this?
Q. Hi over the past year I have had days where I haven't eaten purely because I can't be bothered. I'm not anorexic or anything like that, I'm extremely happy with my body, but sometimes just the thought of cooking food just makes me feel like its the ...
A. 24 January 2012: I always cook enough for leftovers and freeze in single serving containers so there's always something to grab for lunch or a quick dinner.
and why make something so difficult?
I make crockpot (slow cooker meals) or all in one pan meals...... (read in full...)
Will I have to wait around all my life?
Q. Hey everyone, I am 20 and I have been seeing this man (35) for two years. I know I care for him and though I realize that something like marriage cannot happen right now (I want to finish school and be settled in my career first) I wanted to at ...
A. 24 January 2012: Bearer of bad news here…. I agree that men when they meet “the one” know within a year or so if they want to marry her. Men that say “I don’t want to get married” or “I find marriage complicated” are saying “I don’t want to marry YOU” …. Sad ... (read in full...)
I love him like I've never loved anyone before, but should I marry him and be in a long distance marriage for so many years?
Q. Hey guys and dolls there :-) my head is about to explode. I'm in a longdistance relationship with my bf- soon to be husband. He lives a bunch of hrs away by plane. We get to see each other very often, we're both very committed to making things work. ...
A. 24 January 2012: NO one can tell you what YOU should do… I can tell you that I just ended an LDR with him moving to me… and he’s going to have to give up his job shortly because of it… but we felt that being together was more important…
Why can’t one of you move... (read in full...)
Rough sex got out of control and I hurt my girlfriend.
Q. I really feel bad about hurting my GF. My girl friend likes it when I get rough. like when we have sex or fingering her, she likes it when I really slam her. or she likes to be slammed against the wall sometime. well last weekend I was fingering her ...
A. 24 January 2012: yep a safe word is critical because "don't" and "stop" are part of the game...
I often have scratches and bruises that are a bit hard to explain... we play rough too... I get it...
On the show "Two and a Half Men" the mother's code wo... (read in full...)
Is he worth waiting around for? Commitment phobic boyfriend of 4.5 years!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 1/2 years now. We have lived together for 3 1/2 years. Whenever I bring up marriage or our future he doesn't say anything. He says he will propose some day, but that's not good enough for me. He says, ...
A. 24 January 2012: Well you have already told him that he’s more important than the engagement and marriage when you stayed past the deadline. NOW he knows he can string you along….
If you want to marry and he does not, you need to leave. He’s not ready and you ... (read in full...)
I want more freedom
Q. I'm a straight A honors gifted student. In the 9th grade I am taking a college course already. My parents have always been strict, but I want them to know they can trust me more than they do and that I'm a really smart girl. Whenever I bring it up ...
A. 24 January 2012: Book Smart and STREET smart are two different things. Congrats on Book Smart. My younger son was much like you in high school and went on to a very nice college career but he was very slow to mature socially. I get that you don’t want to be ... (read in full...)
He hasn't contacted me since Saturday. Has he lost interest in me?
Q. Ive been on a date with this guy and we have kissed and stuff. He's been in touch and we text sometimes and he's a bit touchy feely when we meet in uni. Recently we have been messaging on Facebook and talked about the weekend. I said it would...
A. 24 January 2012: Asking someone out at 5 pm on the same day indicates you were fill in... that it wasn't planned... mum is right.. usually if they ask early they really like you but asking at the last minute means they didn't give it much thought in my book
... (read in full...)
Why can't I say the LOVE word?
Q. whats wrong with me i am with a man who is the most wonderful man i have ever been with its LDR been together for nearly 3 years we are comitted and loyal to each other and i am due to move in with him soon to end the LDR been tough but been worth ...
A. 24 January 2012: why do you feel like you have to call him love?
we use HONEY, sweetie, darling... my gf calls her bf BABE all the time... my dad called my mom Bub
we also have pet names that we call each other so that when he's done something EXCEPT... (read in full...)
Does this mean he likes me and it might go somewhere? Or is he just being friendly?
Q. Hey guys! I am feeling very lonely lately. This thing that i'm not in a relationship, and never really had one, is really putting me down. So i got some points that i wanted to ask you a question about. If a guy: *you saw only once, and you ad...
A. 24 January 2012: you need to relax and enjoy this... sounds very much like he likes you and wants to get to know you... ... (read in full...)
Porn woes!
Q. Looking for a male perspective; in the throes of a wonderful new relationship and I'm the happiest I've been for years. The emotional side of the relationship is perfect and the physical side the same. I'm very open-minded!! The only niggle I have ...
A. 24 January 2012: Do you not believe him that he’s the happiest he’s ever been? I’m technically a MILF but my kids are on the late side of 25…. So I get called COUGAR all the time… My fiancé is 13 years younger than I am but he loves his porn… young Asian women ... (read in full...)
Why would he email me after 3 months of no contact? Should I reply with this?
Q. Why would he email me after 3months of no contact? should I reply with this? ? I loved my ex boyfriend so much. Thought he was the one. But he dumped me saying he didn't want a relationship then I found out he was cheating all along. He wan...
A. 24 January 2012: I would just delete the email and NOT respond at all...... (read in full...)
Going to his house to do oral...does he like me?
Q. Hi um recently I've been talking with this guy and he is in my science class. I've known him for two years now and were friends. Not close but were friends. And recently we've gotten much closer than ever. It started over Christmas break. He texted ...
A. 23 January 2012: he's telling you what you want to hear so you will think he likes you so you will give him a blow job
DON'T DO IT!... (read in full...)
Questions about a large life insurance policy! Any advice?
Q. My boyfriend of two years was thinking about Marriage and he wants to set up an insurance policy of one million on my name so that he said, that if he pass away (God forbid) I will have money to start with. Should I agree with this? That this kind ...
A. 23 January 2012: NO one here can give you legal advice. you need to contact a lawyer.
if you think that he is taking a policy out on you to kill you then I'd rethink marrying him...... (read in full...)
I saw him kiss her on the lips, am I wrong to bring it up?
Q. Hi I have a question recently I saw my boyfriend getting too warm and giving kisses on lips to his freinds wife in front of everyone it looked everyone was okay but I found it uncomfortable. I am an Indian so is my boyfriend and I am eleven years ...
A. 23 January 2012: It does not matter if it's cultural or not... you need to talk to him about it and let him know it bothers you.
it's probably nothing much to him or them but it bothers you and that's enough.... (read in full...)
Can this relationship really work out for us??
Q. A little over a year ago, I met a guy online. To this day we have never met. We talked a lot, and things got serious, he asked me out, and I said yes. I really really love him, he's 95% what my dream guy would be if I could make one from scratch. We ...
A. 23 January 2012: Have not read the other replies…
Relationships are hard. LDRs are harder… LDRS when you are young are even harder… so it’s not looking so great is it?
You really love him? What about him do you really love?
You say he lives in another coun... (read in full...)
Relationships, cheating, possessiveness. Help!!!
Q. Hi. I recently posted in "I cheated and he just won't stop bringing it up!! Advice pls?" Anyway... off that topic now... here's a new one: Possessiveness... My boyfriend (he's 21) of whom I have been with for 6 months, not only bring...
A. 23 January 2012: My rule is that anyone who makes me make a choice over friends is the loser.
I am with a man who is difficult now. I have friends that do not like him. I was told to choose... Him or US... they were SHOCKED that I chose him. He likes them les... (read in full...)
How do I keep things casual in a message?
Q. I sent a message to this guy that i like on friday night on facebook asking if he'd like me to go to his place the next day. he sent me a message back today saying " i can't believe this !. i only use the internet on weekdays, 9-5 ". I'm guessing he ...
A. 23 January 2012: agreed... sounds perfect.... (read in full...)
Why do my parents never want me to leave home? How to become more independant and not alienate them?
Q. My family thinks we have to be married just to leave home. I don't know why, as we aren't remotely religious and not an ethnic minority. NONE of my extended family is like this at all. So why are my parents? Even the movie Failure to Launch m...
A. 23 January 2012: why don't you leave?
do they physically restrain you?
what will they do if you move out?... (read in full...)
Matters down under!
Q. I was wondering how most women have their pubic hair, i guess? Just because idk if a guy will be freaked out if I have hair down there, or if it's normal too. If you don't have hair down there, how do you remove it? What do guys prefer? Is having ...
A. 23 January 2012: @AbigailBradbury...actually most of the younger men do shave now... in fact I had to negotiate with my partner to get him to NOT shave fully. He prefers to be totally shaved... I prefer trimmed nicely... he's gone to trimmed for me and I am ... (read in full...)
Can I wear black to a wedding?
Q. HELP NEEDED!!! I know this has nothing to do with relationships but all input wanted!! My cousin gets married in April...and from my direct family (mum, dad, brother) im the one who has to attend the whole day (as in ceremony at church and party...
A. 23 January 2012: exactly what tennisstar said... Black is fine as long as you are not 100% in black.. a splash of color (gold under the bustline and gold shoes sounds perfect)
go have fun!... (read in full...)
Matters down under!
Q. I was wondering how most women have their pubic hair, i guess? Just because idk if a guy will be freaked out if I have hair down there, or if it's normal too. If you don't have hair down there, how do you remove it? What do guys prefer? Is having ...
A. 23 January 2012: I remove my hair now FOR ME. Thankfully my fiance prefers me hairless down there...
I have professional waxing done every 4-6 weeks...
The decision to keep hair below is yours and yours alone.
whatever YOU prefer is what the guy you are ... (read in full...)
How do I handle this relationship? He's 22 and I'm 15. My parents do not know about him yet
Q. I've got a situation.. I'm a 15 year old girl that's in love with a 22 year old man. I met him when I had just turned 15 one month before and he had been 21 for about 7 months. We started talking and when we hung out for the first time it was like...
A. 23 January 2012: For RIGHT NOW he is too old for you and YOU KNOW it and that’s why you have NOT told your parents.
IF you are having physical contact with him he can go to jail for statutory rape. So that must stop now.
YOU MUST tell mom and dad about him an... (read in full...)
Should I be upset and jealous over his remarks??
Q. I was watching TV with my boyfriend and Faith Hill came on for a moment. This is what he said.... "Mmmm Faith Hill is a scrumptious treat. I want to eat her up. She is sooooooo fucking hot!!!" I got upset and we had a huge argument about it...
A. 23 January 2012: Yep agreed with all the other aunties… BF is OVER THE TOP with his comments… Yes all people look and even going “yummy” and “she’s hot” is ok in my book but the whole “I want her more than you but I can’t have her so I settled for you” sucks.
... (read in full...)
LDR advice please?. Because I need it. He's stressed out over his exams. He's not giving me the attention I need. He thinks it's not big deal..
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together going on two years, we're pretty serious about each other and are planning on moving in together after I finish my Foundation degree next year. We're both 18 and we've been in a long distance relationship for ...
A. 23 January 2012: You need to CHILL out babe.
it's been a lousy WEEK.... try doing this for MONTHS on end.
While some of us can multi-task easily many folks need to focus ON ONE THING... that would be EXAMS for your man.
His goals are for the future while you... (read in full...)
I want my bf to show more affection.
Q. Ok, so i need help big time. I've been dating this guy for about four months now. We've spent almost every day together and i honestly feel like i have totally fallen in love with this man. There is a huge age difference but i've never dated ...
A. 22 January 2012: I don't think it's the age gap at all. I think it's more the personal style of the OP vs the BF..
IF you need more affection and attention and he cannot provide it then you are mismatched.
If in the early stages of your relationship he ... (read in full...)
Should I go to Paris alone?
Q. My parents have offered me an amazing deal, but i'm not sure if I should do it.. They asked if I wanted to go to paris for the weekend by myself, as an independent experience and to see Paris as i've always talked about. Sure it'd be incredible an...
A. 22 January 2012: GO! I went when I was 21 and even if I was in a group I veered off and did my own thing... so much better on those days.... btw it was over 30 years ago and the days I remember the most are the ones I was alone.
GO! enjoy.... (read in full...)
What makes a girl a "safe bet"?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says you are 'a safe bet' ???????...
A. 22 January 2012: if it's about marriage... and not sex... ugh... lovely... is that the kind of proposal you want?... (read in full...)
What makes a girl a "safe bet"?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says you are 'a safe bet' ???????...
A. 20 January 2012: I Need more context.
it will depend on how he said it and what the conversation was about
you could be a safe bet to take home to mom
to mother his children
or to have sex with him...... (read in full...)
What are girl's erect penis shape fantasies?
Q. I Always wonder what erect penis shape makes girls more horny when they look at it (upward , downward or straight) ? and why? what shape of erect penis(upward , downward or straight) do you girls imagine in your fantaces? PLEASE answ...
A. 20 January 2012: To be honest, naked men are funny looking... they just think they are all that and a bag of chips when they FLING themselves about... it makes me laugh...... (read in full...)
Men, do you watch porn? Woman, are you okay with your man watching it?
Q. Okay I need to know answersfrom men an women! Men do you all watch porn? Me an my boyfriend of 6 years has had this issue I the past year I found him lookin at porn. So it hurts that he has to look at other women it's not like he's watching a video ...
A. 20 January 2012: There is NOTHING wrong with the OP! NOTHING aT ALL.
There are just differing views on what is and is not acceptable.
I happen to be a rare minority. I have no issues with porn nor do I have issues with sharing my partner as long as permissi... (read in full...)
I just cant seem to like girls my age!
Q. So in a weird flip of the coin i have recently started seeing older women. I am 24 and im seeing a lady who is 34 and another who is 42. i have fooled around with a lady who was 63 last week. i really dont know what it is. i find them attractive and ...
A. 20 January 2012: when my fiance was 24 I was 37... I see no issues with being with older women.... (read in full...)
Why are only older girls attracted to me?
Q. i seem to attract mostly girls older than i am and i know am a cute guy of 22.firstly i have attracted of 25 who loved me so dearly that she does many things for me.there was a time a girl of about 23 also got attracted to me and she also loved ...
A. 20 January 2012: the ages you are offering are minimal age differences.
My fiance is 38. I'm 51 nearly 52....
when I was 22 he was NINE...
why is it so important to you at 22 that they be younger?... (read in full...)
Do guys like it when u kiss them all over their body and tell them that u love every inch of them
Q. do guys enjoy the sensual loving touch of woman ? do they love to cuddle, snuggle with their girlfriend and hold them close?...
A. 20 January 2012: just like women, some will some will not...
my current partner is a snuggle bug and we cuddle every night at bedtime and every morning at wake up.
we also cuddle on the couch watching TV...
my last partner was not a cuddler... and rarely cu... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't fulfill my sexual needs. What should I do?
Q. Hey, I don't know what to do about the mismatch between my high sex drive and my bf's lower sex drive and need some advice please. We've been together 16 months now. At first, as in many relationships, were we all over each other whenever we met ...
A. 20 January 2012: Have you TOLD HIM you miss kisses and hugs? I get that. The ONLY reason I am happy with my sex life is that I get hugs and kisses pretty much 24/7. I am cuddled every night and every morning in bed. Kissed goodbye… kissed hello… cuddles on the ... (read in full...)
Men, do you watch porn? Woman, are you okay with your man watching it?
Q. Okay I need to know answersfrom men an women! Men do you all watch porn? Me an my boyfriend of 6 years has had this issue I the past year I found him lookin at porn. So it hurts that he has to look at other women it's not like he's watching a video ...
A. 20 January 2012: Banshee I am not sure what porn you are watching but none of that is what's being watched at our home.
Granted it's not love, flowers and romance and it's not soft porn, but there's no bondage, no abuse being portrayed...
occasional bu... (read in full...)
What are girl's erect penis shape fantasies?
Q. I Always wonder what erect penis shape makes girls more horny when they look at it (upward , downward or straight) ? and why? what shape of erect penis(upward , downward or straight) do you girls imagine in your fantaces? PLEASE answ...
A. 20 January 2012: upward downward and straight are directions not shapes...
the younger the man the harder the erection and the firmer towards his belly it will be...
to be honest I never think about an erect penis in my fantasies and don't much care where he po... (read in full...)
Men, do you watch porn? Woman, are you okay with your man watching it?
Q. Okay I need to know answersfrom men an women! Men do you all watch porn? Me an my boyfriend of 6 years has had this issue I the past year I found him lookin at porn. So it hurts that he has to look at other women it's not like he's watching a video ...
A. 19 January 2012: I'm female and 51 years old my partner is 38 and male.
He watches porn
I have and will watch it with him.
I am pretty sure that when we watch it's not for the women but for the act.
as to what you should do... if it's a deal breaker ... (read in full...)
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