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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Is my girlfriend easy?
Q. my girlfriend told me what she did before we met telling me how she let a guy fuc` her in the as` on the first night .she tell me this when we are fighting as she know it hurts me. she just told me she had 4one nightstands a guy told me she was easy ...
A. 25 March 2012: you make it sound like she had no choice.... sounds to me like you couldn't deal with her being comfortable with her sexuality. ... (read in full...)
What does it mean to "use" someone?
Q. I recently recalled an argument I had with a woman some time ago. She slept with men for money. She tried to keep it secret, but once I found out, I was very troubled by it. One reason was that she did not really need the money--it was not like she ...
A. 16 February 2012: Ah so this is NOT philosophical… this is personal… you said:
“I began wondering if she was real with me, or if she was just saying things to get things.”
So you figured if she had “arrangements” with others, perhaps she only wanted that with... (read in full...)
What does it mean to "use" someone?
Q. I recently recalled an argument I had with a woman some time ago. She slept with men for money. She tried to keep it secret, but once I found out, I was very troubled by it. One reason was that she did not really need the money--it was not like she ...
A. 16 February 2012: I'll just quote my post from yesterday:
"A young woman who is kept by an 80 yr old man who knows she’s just there for the money but she takes care of him and treats him well and is with him, is that fine line where everyone may be deluding... (read in full...)
Man is 13 years my senior and shows a bit impatience to meet again. Is this cause for doubt?
Q. I'm Irish moved to Germany 2 years ago , and i'm 29 . I met this guy in a pub a German over here in Germany. He is a lovely guy-- very, very nice guy . Have a small few issues. Met him two weeks ago. Then last weekend i met him for beer and i'm...
A. 14 February 2012: I agree he's too pushy... and that's not about his age it's his personality.
how in the world could you know after two beer dates if you want to have a relationship with him...
sounds to me like you are not sure you what you want and you nee... (read in full...)
Should I start a relationship with him?
Q. Hi everybody, Good day. I need some good advise from you guys here. As I have never have a relationship before and came to know this guy who is a Myanmar (30 yrs old) while I am a Chinese (34 years old) We known each other through online dating...
A. 14 February 2012: never have a relationship by text.
call him... you are not agreeing to live with him or marry him or even have sex with him.
you are agreeing to date him and spend time with him and see if it works out... ... (read in full...)
I messed around with a jock at a party 4 days ago, and haven't heard from him since. I have feeling for him, but am afraid he was just playing with me...
Q. My friend asked me to go to a party with her.. I went. I met this guy. He was really cute. A real stud.. graduated and was a popular football player. We did a lot of stuff together and he seemed like he cared. Which i'm stupid to think he would, ...
A. 14 February 2012: Sweetheart... sit down you are about to get a very hard lesson from Aunt SVC.... (that's me)
If I was with you, we'd go out for starbucks hot chocolate and a cookie.. and I would tell you that you just learned a very very hard and painful ... (read in full...)
I am 29, she is 18! But we each like each other very much. Should I continue this relationship?
Q. Hey Everyone.....! Please help! I’m a 29 year old man and I’m in love with an 18 years old girl! She is 11 years younger than me!!!!! It was she that liked me at first and always very nice with me. She used to say, "Everything to do for you is a ...
A. 14 February 2012: IF she was 28 and you were 39 I'd be more inclined to be very positive... but a lot can change in 5 years at 18
I am 13 years older than my partner... and as the younger partner he is more fine with it than I am....
tread carefully as whi... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to celebrate V day?
Q. is it weird that my boy friend isn't interested in celebrating on valentines ,,, you know go out ,,, he's like valentines is for kids ?by the way he's 23 ...
A. 14 February 2012: nope not weird... lots of folks don't celebrate it.
we are being very very low key about it
our big celebration is March 14th Steak and BJ day!... (read in full...)
He's spending Valentines Day with his ex?!
Q. My partner has remained good friends with his ex of 10 years. This has always bugged me, but its something that he wants, they speak on a daily basis, either thru txt or phone calls, and catch up when time allows, as she works very long hours. Any ...
A. 14 February 2012: He has daily contact with a woman who he SAYS is his ex?
I'd be his EX now... that would not be acceptable to me.
I personally do not think you are being unreasonable
if he likes her enough to have daily contact with her why aren't ... (read in full...)
What does it mean to "use" someone?
Q. I recently recalled an argument I had with a woman some time ago. She slept with men for money. She tried to keep it secret, but once I found out, I was very troubled by it. One reason was that she did not really need the money--it was not like she ...
A. 14 February 2012: I am so far over my head with this conversation… it’s really beyond my skill level to make my points clearly… but I’m going to try…
There is use
There is what I call use and abuse
There is mutual use
FWB is a mutual use kind of thing… so you bo... (read in full...)
Should I start a relationship with him?
Q. Hi everybody, Good day. I need some good advise from you guys here. As I have never have a relationship before and came to know this guy who is a Myanmar (30 yrs old) while I am a Chinese (34 years old) We known each other through online dating...
A. 14 February 2012: 4 years does not make you an old gf.... I'm 13 yrs older than my fiancé....
i would tread cautiously... but I can't see why you don't give him a chance and try it out....
are you guys local to each other or long distance?... (read in full...)
Does she fancy me?
Q. I like this woman at work who works in the coffee shop while I'm the stores janitor. One day I was collecting the rubbish we accidently touched fingers which made her smile, just before New Year's she asked what I was doing on on New Year's Eve then...
A. 14 February 2012: you should ask her... can't hurt... and you will always wonder if you don't.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend told me I act weird when I receive blow jobs
Q. My girlfriend of 6 months is 12 years younger than I am, but very much more sexually experienced than I me. I got married young and I have only been with two women in my life while she is very adventurous and loves sex. She is also blessed with bei...
A. 14 February 2012: She's NUTS!
I love good feedback from my man.... how else do you know your doing it right.
Next time, do that just lay there. do NOTHING give her NO feedback.... ugh she needs to mature a bit....... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to put my life on hold for a while is that right of him to ask?
Q. A couple of weeks ago I got a call from a former navy recruiter, and he told me of a new opportunity that would let me enlist in the military, but it is only valid for the next two months. I was very happy about it since i have been wanting to do ...
A. 14 February 2012: He is being selfish. You want to do this.. and the time is good.. I say you should do it. If you two are meant to be together your relationship will weather the separation…
What’s his rationale for being so selfish and asking you to wait a y... (read in full...)
Love him or leave him? Or would FWB work?
Q. What should I do about my new lover? I met him at Christmas time through my sisters boyfriend and although I wasn't sure at first, we ended up being lovers. As he lives in my home town (he has a four year old son who he sees as much as possible...
A. 14 February 2012: Well if all you wanted was a “Wee Winter Warmer” (god I love that term) and you are falling for him, then you have a problem…. Because if he falls for you (which is what happened with my FWB from last year) you have to deal with alcoholism and drug ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I miss the way we used to be? Or leave it?
Q. I'm kinda seeing this guy on and off for a year. We're not official thagether, but it feels like we are. Recently though we've started to drift apart. We've had a lot of fights this past year, and I think it has something to do with that. But a few ...
A. 14 February 2012: If you are fighting a lot and are on and off a lot are you sure you want to patch it up?
I would sit down with him and figure out if it's worth trying to fix... sounds to me like you are both beating a dead horse and it's time to let it go...... (read in full...)
He said me breaking up with him was the best Valentines gift ever! I know he doesn't want me, but I still feel like I made a mistake by breaking up with him....
Q. Dear cupid i am in love with a guy for 2 years. He knows that and we are in fwb. He is not seeing anyone and im not either. But he never introduced me as his gf. I am his friend, thats all he wanted from me, but i want more. I told him today i...
A. 14 February 2012: No you did not make a mistake. You told him you wanted more. He knew he could not give you what you wanted so he’s happy to be done.
K C100 is correct, he took what you gave him… he never will give you what you want… I’ve found over and over tha... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend easy?
Q. my girlfriend told me what she did before we met telling me how she let a guy fuc` her in the as` on the first night .she tell me this when we are fighting as she know it hurts me. she just told me she had 4one nightstands a guy told me she was easy ...
A. 14 February 2012: worried about 2 particular guys or worried about 2 guys at once...
either way it's her past... why is this such a huge problem for you is she not supposed to have a past?... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you're a good kisser?
Q. hiya. Right, this may sound a little awkward and slightly weird but I'm with my 3rd boyfriend and it's only with him that I've kissed. Thing is, i'm afraid to ask him if its ok because I don't know how your supposed to kiss. I think I'v been rea...
A. 14 February 2012: some people just don't want to kiss in public... it doesn't mean they are ashamed of you or kissing you...... (read in full...)
Is it enough? He's only tell me that he 'likes me enough'
Q. What does it mean when the guy I've been dating for 7 months can't tell me how much he likes me, but only says "I like you enough"?...
A. 13 February 2012: I like you enough to date you
I like you enough to sleep with you
I like you enough to spend time with you
he's not that into you...... (read in full...)
My height has grown and I'm too slim. How can I put on weight in healthy way?
Q. I am too slim how I can put weight ? Have muscles?my height has grown very well but I am very slim.....plz help here..I am new here...
A. 13 February 2012: are you getting enough calories?
are you eating high protein foods?
do you get any exercise?
sometimes your build is just slender.. are you actually underweight or just want to build muscles?
eat and drink high protein foods like milk and... (read in full...)
His balding is becoming such an obsession lately...how do I get him to embrace it?
Q. I have been dating my guy for hitting 2 years now. I am 29, he is 35. His hair is thinning, just as it was when I first met him. It has become such an obsession with him over the last six months, and its driving me nuts. He has stopped going out ...
A. 13 February 2012: Gawd bald men are sexy.
Jean-Luc Piccard was a much sexier Captain than Jame T Kirk.... (read in full...)
What's up with this attraction to a historical figure?
Q. Is it possible to be in love with someone who has been dead 67 years? I have recently seen a picture of someone who died at the age of 18 during the holocaust and ive found myself pining for him. i cant seem to let him go. what is this?...
A. 13 February 2012: I had a crush on Thomas Jefferson when I was 14...
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Is there light at the end of the tunnel? This new relationship is a nightmare.
Q. Three years ago, I gave up my career, left my two teenagers with my ex-husband(divorced 12 years), left my home, parents, and friends to move to the East Coast for a guy that I love. I moved in with him and his 10 yrs old son from his previous marr...
A. 13 February 2012: DO NOT MOVE OUT without consulting an attorney... you can be charged with abandonment...
second marriages often have issues about child rearing and money....
the light at the end of the tunnel comes when the children are grown and gone... my g... (read in full...)
Why am I not enough for him? Why is he active again on those dating sites?
Q. Hello, I need some advice and I hope you can help me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now. We've had our ups and downs, but for the most part (at least in my mind) it's been good. I've enjoyed spending time with him and he'...
A. 13 February 2012: Dump him. Sounds like ONE woman (regardless of who it is) will NOT be enough for him…’
This is not personal. It’s not about YOU it’s about him… don’t take his bad behavior as a reflection on you….
Dump him. Get into some counseling t... (read in full...)
How can I stop my father controlling me when I'm 18 and an only child?
Q. Hi. So simply as im going to put it... I'm 18. An only child still live at home Have a controlling father who yeah, you could say...im scared of... So, my father thinks he has the right to control me, given I still live at home... He...
A. 13 February 2012: I’m sorry you are scared of your father… I know that feeling my father was a tyrant when I was younger and had an evil temper… of course in retrospect I provoked a lot of his anger with a sassy mouth and attitude…. (just saying hindsight is 20/20)
... (read in full...)
Old flame, old rumours ...
Q. I have reacently been in contact with a guy I knew from late high school, we had been messaging one another on and off for about 6 months. We had said we would meet and catch up. Then I get a message from him that said he had heard a rumour about me ...
A. 13 February 2012: Why in the world do you want a chance with a man that is so intolerant of past behavior. BIG HUGE RED FLAG… FLAPPING in a STRONG WIND…
RUN AWAY,….
... (read in full...)
Feeling pressure to be straight
Q. Hi Agony Aunts! I think I'm gay and have thought that I am for over a year but I can't help feeling that I might be bi. The thing is I don't see straight porn attractive I see gay porn attractive I don't like boobs but I am slightly attracted to...
A. 13 February 2012: You may be straight
you may be gay
you may be bi
whatever you are... it is what it is.... and you have to learn to accept and love yourself there...
no rush to put a label on yourself... this is the time of your life when you figure out what... (read in full...)
Why is my B/f trying to make me feel guilty when he is the one at fault?
Q. About 5 days ago,I hung up on my boyfriend due to his behavior.He was intoxicated, not nice with his comments etccc...He hurt my feelings by the way he was acting so I hung up on him. 2 days ago,I had cooled off and felt guilty to hang up on him so ...
A. 13 February 2012: he is an active alcoholic. we can't explain his behavior. there is no rhyme or reason to it.
it's fueled by addictions. Trust me I live this life daily....
he needs to stop drinking 100% not just heavily.
I suggest you contact you... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you're a good kisser?
Q. hiya. Right, this may sound a little awkward and slightly weird but I'm with my 3rd boyfriend and it's only with him that I've kissed. Thing is, i'm afraid to ask him if its ok because I don't know how your supposed to kiss. I think I'v been rea...
A. 13 February 2012: the only way to know if you are a good kisser is to ask the person you are kissing if they like how you kiss them.
because the way you kiss one person may be the way they like to be kissed but another person may not like it.
but if you ask, t... (read in full...)
At my age I'm wondering if I'm bisexual
Q. I have a question for all of you out there. I am a guy and as odd as this may seem, but I wonder if I am bisexual. Why? Well, I really like women, I find everything about them a turn on. Why the wondering? I like looking at pictures of men's ...
A. 13 February 2012: Sounds like you are just open to sexual experiences with men and that's ok in my book
I consider myself Bisexual as I like to have sex with other women but I prefer to have relationships with men and have always had men as my primary partners... (read in full...)
Is this dating? every time we meet we end up in bed together
Q. I have been dating this guy who is 16 years older than me. I say dating loosely, it seems like every time we meet we end up in bed together. He is a nice guy in general, but as time goes on I feel like he likes to spend more time with his fami...
A. 13 February 2012: IF you are with a man that reinforces negative feelings, and you choose not to leave him, you may want to consider getting some therapy to determine why you think you are not worthy of better treatment.
... (read in full...)
Is my ex jealous that I have met someone else?
Q. Is my ex boyfriend jealous that i have met someone else?. The guy i am currently dating is a lot older than me, but me ex is a bit younger than me. My ex sent me a text message saying " The old dirty b*****d can have you. I wash my hands of you ", ...
A. 13 February 2012: Who cares what an EX thinks...
sounds to me like you are keeping the EX around for security... lousy reason to keep an EX around
he's an EX for a reason.... (read in full...)
Why does he get an erection every time we kiss? He says it's not usual for him
Q. What does it mean when the guy I'm dating, who is 29 and I'm 19, gets and erection every time we kiss? And he says this has only happened to him once before in his past long term relationship....
A. 13 February 2012: IT means he's turned on and likes you enough to want to have sex with you.... (read in full...)
How can I explain to my parents that I am planning to move interstate with my 26 year old boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend (26yrs old) and I have been living together for a year and are planning to move interstate within the next couple of months. I have not told my parents yet. The problem is my boyfriend works with my father. I cannot tell my father ...
A. 13 February 2012: Well this is an interesting plan... you don't know where you are going or why.. you have not found jobs you just want to move....
I think you need to firm up some plans FAST or else find something to do where you are right now...
IF I had a ch... (read in full...)
My best friend/room mate found my vibrator and won't stop teasing me about it!
Q. I've been single for a couple years now and I've been living with my best friend (who happens to be a guy) for four years. We've known each other since we were 16, though, so it's not a huge thing and he's also been single for longer than I have. ...
A. 13 February 2012: oh a happy ending.... (so far)
I kind of wondered if that was what was going on...... his reaction did seem VERY over the top for just a friend...
I need to learn to trust my instincts more...... (read in full...)
Is it too early to be discussing marriage and children?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we are 23 and have discussed moving in, but he says hes not ready yet and mayb in a year or 2. Also he says at the minute he doesnt want kids or marriage in the future. It is something i would probably ...
A. 12 February 2012: Should we?
If you want it now and he does not then your timetables are off... this can be a problem.
Are you too young? I was married and pregnant at 23 my first son born when I was 24 so for MY timetable not too young... for yours maybe not ... (read in full...)
My sister-in-law is a cougar and I think it's unwise
Q. My sister-in-law is a 43 year old single mom to an autistic son. He is now 15 years old. Now that he is getting older she is getting back into the dating scene. She has been divorced for more than 10 years now. Good for her, I think. The p...
A. 12 February 2012: Yes you should butt out...
if their age was not a problem you would not complain about how she's a cougar... or that they were so young...
would it matter if the guy was 15 years older but still treated her badly...
As a mother of a di... (read in full...)
How can I give my boyfriend pleasure without actually having sex?
Q. can someone tell me how I can make more pleasure my boy without sex?we don't have sex I am virgin. in my country it is not normal before merriag have sex.but my bf want this and i can not please help me and tell me can I make more pleasure without ...
A. 12 February 2012: Ok so you know momma will say the same thing..
let's see if we can help you get past him
you miss him so much...
exactly what do you miss about him?
do you miss the fighting?
do you miss him pressuring you for sex?
do you miss him... (read in full...)
What to do with old sex tapes? When to get rid of them?
Q. I think it's fairly likely that I will be in a new relationship soon and I'm not quite sure what to do with sex tapes that were made with about 7 or 8 different partners over the past ten years or so. I suspect that if we become a couple she'd b...
A. 12 February 2012: Safe deposit box at a bank if you must keep them.... (read in full...)
My best friend/room mate found my vibrator and won't stop teasing me about it!
Q. I've been single for a couple years now and I've been living with my best friend (who happens to be a guy) for four years. We've known each other since we were 16, though, so it's not a huge thing and he's also been single for longer than I have. ...
A. 12 February 2012: He's being an immature jerk.... IGNORE him totally when he gets on you about this stuff.
It will stop shortly if you ignore him.
when he starts, if you are in a common area... pick yourself up and go to your room and shut the door. Do ... (read in full...)
He came to visit so we could meet in person, but I caught him talking on the phone with other women during his visit.
Q. Dear Aunts, I finally met the man I was talking to online, and that was afraid to meet because I am too shy and did not drive. We met in person two weeks ago, and he is the sweetest and most gentleman man I have ever met; he drove the whole time s...
A. 12 February 2012: Goodness it was your first visit... why can't he have other friends and other interests?
DID you think you were "going steady" after a first date???
He should not have lied
You should not have snooped.
He should have been more up front w... (read in full...)
Is masturbation harmful to a man around 80 years old??
Q. is masterbation harmful for an old man,say 80 years old? ...
A. 11 February 2012: not at all!... (read in full...)
How can I give my boyfriend pleasure without actually having sex?
Q. can someone tell me how I can make more pleasure my boy without sex?we don't have sex I am virgin. in my country it is not normal before merriag have sex.but my bf want this and i can not please help me and tell me can I make more pleasure without ...
A. 11 February 2012: so when he's pushing YOU to do things you don't want is that when he is sweet?
ask mom what she thinks...... (read in full...)
Is this dating? every time we meet we end up in bed together
Q. I have been dating this guy who is 16 years older than me. I say dating loosely, it seems like every time we meet we end up in bed together. He is a nice guy in general, but as time goes on I feel like he likes to spend more time with his fami...
A. 11 February 2012: Sounds like you are FWB.... friends with benefits... not really a part of his life.
you need to ask him what he feels and where he thinks you are going if you are not happy...
If you are happy then that's fine but I sense it's not enough and y... (read in full...)
How can I give my boyfriend pleasure without actually having sex?
Q. can someone tell me how I can make more pleasure my boy without sex?we don't have sex I am virgin. in my country it is not normal before merriag have sex.but my bf want this and i can not please help me and tell me can I make more pleasure without ...
A. 11 February 2012: he is a sexual predator and he is using you.
STAY away from him!... (read in full...)
How can I give my boyfriend pleasure without actually having sex?
Q. can someone tell me how I can make more pleasure my boy without sex?we don't have sex I am virgin. in my country it is not normal before merriag have sex.but my bf want this and i can not please help me and tell me can I make more pleasure without ...
A. 11 February 2012: ok let me get this straight
you are no more than 17
you give this person hand jobs
this person is your neighbor
you are not getting any sexual pleasure from this relationship
he's demanding more sexual behavior from you
how old is this... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend easy?
Q. my girlfriend told me what she did before we met telling me how she let a guy fuc` her in the as` on the first night .she tell me this when we are fighting as she know it hurts me. she just told me she had 4one nightstands a guy told me she was easy ...
A. 10 February 2012: the question is not IS she.... because that's a judgment.
she was honest with you and told you the truth
the question is what do YOU wish to do about it.
if you can't cope then you end it. and it sounds to me like you think less of her be... (read in full...)
How can I give my boyfriend pleasure without actually having sex?
Q. can someone tell me how I can make more pleasure my boy without sex?we don't have sex I am virgin. in my country it is not normal before merriag have sex.but my bf want this and i can not please help me and tell me can I make more pleasure without ...
A. 10 February 2012: If you feel nothing when you are close to him then maybe he’s not the right fella for you…. Why would you want to pleasure him if he can’t pleasure you?... (read in full...)
How can I give my boyfriend pleasure without actually having sex?
Q. can someone tell me how I can make more pleasure my boy without sex?we don't have sex I am virgin. in my country it is not normal before merriag have sex.but my bf want this and i can not please help me and tell me can I make more pleasure without ...
A. 9 February 2012: do you WANT to please him?
if so and you are comfortable with it you could give him an hand job or a blow job.. but then he should return the favor to you if you want...
but do not do it unless YOU WANT to... do not be forced into it... there... (read in full...)
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