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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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What started out innocent has turned into a trouble situation with a man old enough to be my father
Q. I got myself in a unhealthy situation. - Short version: I befriended a new member of the archery range I'm at. He's in his mid fifties. He assured me all he wanted was friendship. Stupid and naive as I was I accepted this. I even accepted a job o...
A. 14 July 2012: WOW! you are great.... and how in the world would you have known how to handle this without some perspective from some older BTDT kind of ladies...
As for the archery place having no idea... that's how predators work sweetie... they come ac... (read in full...)
Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 6 July 2012: if the man in question is with a girl he does not like, or who does not like him, then their time together is limited... trust me, men will choose the woman they love over a mate...
so if he breaks them up and the guy ends up with you, an... (read in full...)
Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 6 July 2012: is it possible your mate does not like this girl and she takes him away from your mate so he's trying to break them up?... (read in full...)
Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 6 July 2012: I agree with EWO that the OP does not really want advice rather she wanted affirmation that her plan was moral and ethically acceptable.
I NOTE that my questions were IGNORED... not that I said she should or should NOT do it but I wanted h... (read in full...)
What started out innocent has turned into a trouble situation with a man old enough to be my father
Q. I got myself in a unhealthy situation. - Short version: I befriended a new member of the archery range I'm at. He's in his mid fifties. He assured me all he wanted was friendship. Stupid and naive as I was I accepted this. I even accepted a job o...
A. 6 July 2012: Well let me ask you a question.... what's to say some other young woman like yourself joins archery and they don't know about him and he goes after her but she's not as wise as you are and she ends up in a situation with him that she can't cope ... (read in full...)
Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 5 July 2012: If you have a "coffee date" to test the waters and you like him then what?
will you date him while he's with this girlfriend he currently has?
Do you expect him to tell her he has a coffee date with you?
What will happen if you date him ... (read in full...)
HELP! I think my boyfriend's brother has a crush on me!
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 7 months and I love him so much! But we went on a date recently and his younger brother and friend dropped us off. No biggy. That's normal. The real problem was when his brother picked us back up. I was ...
A. 5 July 2012: if you are 15 and the younger brother is 17 that means your bf is what 18/19
honey that's a big gap....
and red flags are showing to me....
how old are you?
how old is your boyfriend?... (read in full...)
Dating for four years, we have a child together, and he still hasn't introduced me to his other children.
Q. I have been with my boyfrien for 4 years. I've known him for 10. He has a 9 year old son and a 16 year old son with 2 women. I've seen his youngest son a few times but he didnt formally introduce him to me. Ihave never met his older son. We now have ...
A. 5 July 2012: I agree with YouWish.
something is odd.
YOU are part of the PRIVATE and the kids have a right to know they have half siblings.
are you two living together? when does he see the other kids? if you live together what happens?
so... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend being selfish?
Q. This may at first sound like I'm seeking money advice, but bear with me! I need to explain everything in case you get the wrong idea! Boyfriend and I will be soon moving in together. The flat is actually owned by our flat mate who will be sharing ...
A. 5 July 2012: going into the OVERDRAFT is taking out a loan to pay a bill.
it's not fiscally sound.
normally it's first month's rent, last months' rent and one months' rent for a security deposit. ONE month in advance is a good deal.
BIG concern for ... (read in full...)
My partner wont let me touch my own baby girl! How do I get him to stop this?
Q. me and my man just had a baby girl about 3 months ago. he will not let me touch her,i have held her only 2 times since she was born and fed her once and that was at the hospital. last night i thought he was asleep so i went to her crib and picked ...
A. 5 July 2012: Does he go out of the house without the baby?
IF he does then you should call CPS and the police and get professional help.
I'm thinking that you may need to go to a shelter with a restraining order if he's that strict with you and he may ... (read in full...)
How can be emancipated given these circumstances?
Q. Hi, I live in Washington, 17 yrs old and I need help getting emancipated in some way. Ive looked up how to get emancipated in WA, problem is, i cannot get a license because im not recieving help, nor can i get a job because i cannot get taken...
A. 5 July 2012: can you go to your school and make calls from there?
enlist an adult to help you make the call...... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend and I can't agree on vacation plans!
Q. im in a ldr situation. my boyfriend and i plan to have vacation together. but theres an arguing thing about me and him like i want to go to beach but he knows it that i want to go there but he always asking me if i really want to go and why i like ...
A. 5 July 2012: he who pays gets to choose.... he's paying so it's his choice.
let him go without you if you don't like camping... and you save up and go to the beach by yourself.
... (read in full...)
Is he going off me already?
Q. hi there, I met a guy at a friends country house wkd away and we just clicked and hit it off and were inseparable for most of the wkd. We did not exchange numbers as we both left at different times, but as soon as I returned from the wkd he ha...
A. 5 July 2012: you both have a lot going on. I'd give it time and see what happens... ... (read in full...)
Are children a dealbreaker?
Q. Okay, a little survey i have. I was watching a tv show, and the woman in question wanted kids, the man already had a grown son and didn't want anymore. The woman just rolled over and agreed to no children! I want children when im older, i think if ...
A. 5 July 2012: It would have been a deal breaker for me before i had my kids... yes.
I wanted kids and I was not going to settle for not having them.
Some folks do not want them, my fiance for example is a 39 yr old man who does not want (and wisely so) ... (read in full...)
Should I Reconcile With My Emotionally Abusive EX?
Q. I really need advice as I've backed myself into a corner. I recently broke up with my boyfriend after I realized he'd been emotionally abusing me, lying to me, cheated (via email and asking for a girls number at a bar) and one time pushing me ...
A. 5 July 2012: Personally if it's a large amount of money he owes you, get a lawyer and make it happen.
DO not reconcile with him. Once he has you back in his grasp he will go back to abusing you...
I speak from personal experience. You are young, do no... (read in full...)
My girlfriend said I can sleep with prostitutes if I wear a condom
Q. I have the most loveliest girlfriend in the world. She is so sweet and adores me. I love her so much and I can't imagine not being without her. Then 2 days ago she said to me she allows me to have sex with prostitutes if I wear a condom. She sai...
A. 5 July 2012: I’m not sure why you feel so bad about yourself because of what she said. Just because she said you can does not mean you have to.
Tell her that it’s not an option and take it off the table. She may be very relieved that you feel that way... (read in full...)
Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 5 July 2012: Why does what she does matter in terms of what you decide to do? Do her morals and ethics dictate yours?... (read in full...)
I want to fit in but I don't!
Q. For a long time I've been having a lot of problems with my virginity...I can't stand it. It makes me angry, and I can't stand it...but I met this girl. She's changed my life...made me see that the world isn't as dark and depressing as I thought...I ...
A. 5 July 2012: “The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.”
EXACTLY. That means that once you get to the other side (i.e. lose your virginity) you will meet a wonderful girl who you will wish you were a virgin for.
Chigirl is very correct... (read in full...)
Do you think that he is prolonging this because I know she filed but he was supposed to pay her attorney. or do you think that I'm just being paranoid.
Q. hi im 24 years old and i have a 3 year old girl, i fell in love with a man that is 48. when we met at work i did not know he was married until 2 weeks after we started talking. his wife found out about the both of us and called and told me to get ...
A. 4 July 2012: What are the time frames necessary for divorce in your state?
Do you need grounds?
In the state I live in a couple must be separated for one year before they can even FILE for divorce...
every state is different
you are talkin... (read in full...)
What started out innocent has turned into a trouble situation with a man old enough to be my father
Q. I got myself in a unhealthy situation. - Short version: I befriended a new member of the archery range I'm at. He's in his mid fifties. He assured me all he wanted was friendship. Stupid and naive as I was I accepted this. I even accepted a job o...
A. 4 July 2012: Very nice email and very good!.
Now he will continue to try... you must ignore him totally from now on.
and as to the open relationship... it's what honeypie said.
he wanted to bed you...... (read in full...)
An attached man is giving me alot of attention and it makes me feel good. Is it wrong to feel this way?
Q. hey guys i really need advice im panicking and cant understand why ive worked with a guy for 18 months and in the last 7 months weve become friends and told each other stuff but in the last 2 weeks hes confided in me about some major stuff. he...
A. 4 July 2012: I'm of the belief that you are what we lovingly call "the work wife" he likes you... cares about you but it's strictly platonic... it may look like something is going on but it's not...
at least that's how it's worked for me in the past... ... (read in full...)
Is this the behaviour of someone who is mentally disturbed?
Q. what do you think of this behaviour? Is this person mentally dirturbed? I just met a guy to whom i gave my mobile number. He immediately started to text me. He said he was really smitten by me. I barely know him but he started to tell me that he ...
A. 4 July 2012: he's a user. He's a louse. he just wanted to get laid. he got what he wanted and he's done. not mentally disturbed just like Honeypie said... amoral.... (read in full...)
From FWB to relationship back to FWB?
Q. Friends with benefits to relationship then back to FWB? I met a single guy 6 years ago,we chatted started seeing one another once a week,he used to come to my house,i wouldnt allow anymore than once a week as i had my son living with me and thats ...
A. 4 July 2012: It's just about the sex dear one. You know this but hold out hope that it will be more. It won't.
What I have discovered about men when it comes to women, if they love you then you know it. If you love them back it's great... if you don't we... (read in full...)
Is timing everything in a relationship?
Q. I told my best friend that I fell Inlove with him. He told me he felt the same way and had never met anyone like me, but wasn't ready for a relationship and we are no longer friends. 2 months later I found out he has a girlfriend and I'm still not ...
A. 4 July 2012: Timing is not everything. Chemistry is and while YOU felt it for him he does not and will NOT feel it for you...
You need to accept that he lied to you... "I'm not ready for a relationship" really means "i don't want a relation... (read in full...)
If I haven't had sex in years, would I be a virgin again?
Q. i have sex when im only in grade school.. but after that i never commit sex again, now im 22 years old.. did my virginity win back after so many years?...
A. 4 July 2012: nope. you are not a virgin again although it may feel like that...... (read in full...)
My wife never buys me gifts that I like. Am I making a mountain out of a mole hill here?
Q. My wife of 20 years never buys me gifts I like and never has. This may seem like a small matter, but it is a festering issue in our marriage. She says that I am unappreciative and that she can't do any right by me. From my perspective, I feel l...
A. 4 July 2012: I'm clueless with hints.
My fiance sent me an email that said "buy me this for my birthday" with the link to purchase it.
DONE!
What is it that this gift represents to you? Because I sense it is not about the item. IF you wanted th... (read in full...)
What started out innocent has turned into a trouble situation with a man old enough to be my father
Q. I got myself in a unhealthy situation. - Short version: I befriended a new member of the archery range I'm at. He's in his mid fifties. He assured me all he wanted was friendship. Stupid and naive as I was I accepted this. I even accepted a job o...
A. 3 July 2012: YOU DID GREAT! I am so very very proud of you! I wish I was as wise and strong at your age as you are... I'm glad my mistakes were able to properly guide you.
I know you hate to give up archery... and you hate confrontation...
suggestion.... (read in full...)
What are the unwritten rules about living together?
Q. what are the rules of moving in togather? Does the man always have to tell the wife/gf where he is going,what hes doing, vice verser with the girl, does she tell her man where she is going if she steps out the door, visitin rules who can visit who ...
A. 3 July 2012: Each couple has their own rules.
we always say where we are going and who we are with....
company is planned in advanced by both of us.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't love me
Q. I have been in a very up and down relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years now. It was so amazing for the first 10 months until we split, since then we have been very on and off until the start of this year when we have been getting back on ...
A. 2 July 2012: If you KNOW he doesn't love you and you've been on again off again for nearly the entire relationship, no matter HOW MUCH you love him, it's not a good or healthy relationship.
If you are lonely and don't feel good enough then what are you gett... (read in full...)
Phone calls about boyfriend visting ex wife?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, he was married before and he had affairs when married to his ex wife,some one will only ring me up every now and again and say he has been to the ex wifes house and also the lady he had the affair with ...
A. 2 July 2012: you've changed your number and still getting calls... it's someone who knows you...
stop answering calls that come in from numbers you don't recognize....
... (read in full...)
How to get rid of my down there odour?
Q. Every boy I have slept with (2 boys, which were relationships) and after the relationships had finished they would say that I smelled down below (of fish) I was so humiliated, I'm a very clean person, and take pride in my hygiene and appearance. But ...
A. 2 July 2012: ah stop with the bubble baths first of all they are very bad for your "area"
If you are itchy it could be from the bubble bath...
have you been to the gyn and been cultured? you could have a bacteria called vaginosis that leads to smell
... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my husband's family recognize me?
Q. My 45 year old step-daughter forgot my Birthday again.I have been with her father for almost 7 years,we are married for 1.5 year.I was trying to do my part to be a good grandmother for her children.We even took her children with us to our honeymoon ...
A. 2 July 2012: My father has been with my (quasi) “step mom” for 16 years. I think her birthday is in June. While I like her very very much, I just don't do birthdays...
I do remember my dad’s birthday but that’s because I’ve celebrated it for 52 years wit... (read in full...)
Guys, how do I stop him hitting on me? He makes me feel uncomfortable.
Q. There's this guy, friend of a friend. He keeps complimenting me, which makes uncomfortable to begin with because I don't know how to accept compliments. He bought me coffee, held my hand and kept holding me by the waist. Yesterday he hugged me so ti...
A. 2 July 2012: Well lets start with he’s NOT flirting.. he is invading your space. And you are allowing it.
When he (or anyone compliments you) if you have nothing to say all you have to say is “thank you” and move on.
IF he buys you coffee you are not unde... (read in full...)
I want to be sexy for my guy but don't have the money for new clothes
Q. Hey! Im gonna be spending some intimate time with my boyfriend. We've been together for a year and almost 2 months (yay!) Well im looking for some lingerie ideas but i cant really go out and buy anything so im trying to use some clothes that I a...
A. 2 July 2012: yep i had a boyfriend once when shown lingerie that would say "it will make a lovely pile on the floor." that's all they care about...
Sexy is all in the mind...
I wore a skort the other day (shorts that look like a mini skirt) it's just... (read in full...)
In my LDR we Text and I phone. But he has Never phoned me. Can we make this work? He's in the Military
Q. Hi, Do you think that in 6 months my boyfriend has never actually rung me up? We text daily and I've called him a few times but even if he misses my calls he will text back? I've asked him and he said his just always texted and doesn't really...
A. 2 July 2012: have you told him you would prefer to talk on the phone?
perhaps he doesn't know?
and perhaps like someone said he can't really talk on the phone?
if you have told him and he still can't or won't...the fact that he contacts you is a g... (read in full...)
None of my relationships last a month. We have sex and they're gone. How do I attract a guy who wants more?
Q. I'm 17 about to be 18 at the end of july. well my problem is i cant hold a relationship for longer than a month. it sucks. and it's become worse - where i dont even have a month long relationship, i just have sex then boom thats over. its not t...
A. 2 July 2012: STOP having sex. That’s the first thing you need to do. EVEN if you like him. ESPECIALLY if you like him… just say NO… not forever but until you know he’s in for the long haul….
YOU can’t make a boy stay with you with sex… there has to... (read in full...)
Should I relocate to end a LDR?
Q. what are the pro's and con's of moving in with your loved ones? can anyone share there experiences, and is this something that wil be good for long term effect or short? i want my relo to last i am in a sort of LDR (long distance) but unsure if we...
A. 2 July 2012: Let me tell you my story:
Met my current partner in August 2010 (at least that he remembers), Tried again to get his attention in November 2010… Started Dating LDR December 2010… by late March 2011 we knew we were getting serious… our once mont... (read in full...)
We met online. We are meeting soon. Should I ask her to be my girlfriend?
Q. So there is this girl that i meet online and we are going to meet in a couple of days, we live far away from each other, so it will be a long time before i can see her again. So i was wondering if it was okay to ask her to be my girlfriend, as i kn...
A. 2 July 2012: I’m sorry but if you have not met face to face yet and you won’t be able to see each other for at least 4 months, I don’t recommend you ask her to be your girlfriend.
You are very young to have an LDR. They never worked for me till I was an a... (read in full...)
I can hear my parents having sex, and really would rather not
Q. Don't know whether this is the right site but I need some advice. I can constantly hear my parents having sex. I completely understand that this is a natural thing and I am happy that they are still in love and can still experience that together but ...
A. 2 July 2012: one word: HEADPHONES.
OP it's their home and they have the right to do as they please. Short of going to your mom and saying something the only other thing you can do is put on your headphones when they go at it.... (read in full...)
He came home from a strip club wanting sex
Q. My boyfriend of over a year now came home the other night from hanging out with his friends that had come into town. I thought nothing of it, they usually just go out to eat or play video games, etc. But, when my boyfriend came home this last time, ...
A. 2 July 2012: Dear OP,
I am the one famous for “I don’t care where my man gets his appetite as long as he eats at home” so I won’t dump that on you as you don’t want to hear it.
If you don’t want sex that starts somewhere else, then I suggest you tell him... (read in full...)
2 girls and I don't know which one to date
Q. ok im 19 and i've just startd talking to these 2 girls. they both live equal distance from me and both of them would like to try things with us like long distance. the first girl is about 18/19 and we get on well and she is really cool as w...
A. 2 July 2012: You are 19 and she is 13... the other is 19
honey this is such a no brainer for me I can't even imagine you had to ask...
she's 13 and her last boyfriend was for three years? that means she was dating at 10... sounds really really REALLY ba... (read in full...)
13 years without having sex and now I want to but am hesitant
Q. I am 52 years old.Haven't had sex in 13 years I was in a abusive relationship so it did some damage. I have met a Guy that I really am Crazy for but can't get to the point of having sex.What can I do to get past this? Any suggestions? Thank you! ...
A. 2 July 2012: have you talked to him about it? does he know what he's dealing with in terms of your past? He should know as it will color how you react....
do you guys have any intimate time? kisses? cuddles? foreplay?
I need way more info before I c... (read in full...)
Could taking Plan B cause my period to be this late?
Q. Ok so to begin with, Im kind of paranoid about everything all the time and I worry about being a day late for my normally 28 day cycle. I took plan b after a mishap on June 5th. (He did not finish inside me but I was still worried). My last period ...
A. 2 July 2012: I don't know much about plan B but worry and stress can also make a period late....
If you are that worried about it you need to get on a more reliable method of birth control.... (read in full...)
I have been having an emotional affair
Q. Mine is related to an emotional affair. I am married andI work 4 hours from home. I have an apartment i maintain 4 days a week. There is a woam I work with, and I am her boss. I am deeply attracted to her. We have gone to lunch, have gone out for ...
A. 2 July 2012: I'm sorry you are so unhappy at home. I suggest that you consider a real separation (i.e. NOT going home any more and figuring out if a divorce is viable)
as for your co-worker... sounds like she's done. She's being polite but clearly you ... (read in full...)
My LDR says he does not love me but has feelings for me. Is that enough and is it OK?
Q. Hi, Do you think its OK that your LDR boyfriend whom you see every other week still doesn't love you but has feelings for you? We met online and have been dating for 6 months? I'm the longest girlfriend his ever had and his 28 years...
A. 2 July 2012: DO I think it ok that your LDR boyfriend that you see every other week doesn’t love you? What do YOU think?
You’re LDR but close enough to see each other every other weekend… When we were 6 months into our LDR (and a 2 hour drive) we basicall... (read in full...)
I don't want to date a man with kids. Am I expecting too much?
Q. So I have a son who is 16 months old. And for some reason I don't think dating a man with a kid is an option. I find that men with kids tend to have a lot of baggage; child support, baby mom drama, and no money.. I simply don't want a guy who is ...
A. 2 July 2012: I think if YOU have a child yourself that expecting a man without children to want to date you is a bit unrealistic.
I also think that you have other unrealistic expectations like wanting YOUR son to be HIS priority.
My kids (albeit grown) a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to make it obvious that I'm not that glamourous
Q. Hi everyone, as anyone ever been in a relationship with someone where they knew the person didn't find them as physically attractive as other people and felt like you were being wasted on them? My boyfriend seems to make it obvious that I'm not that ...
A. 2 July 2012: your BF sounds like a tool.
when my fiance and I started going out originally I was NOT his type. I was attractive but not gorgeous. I'm still not gorgeous and I'm still not his "type" in terms of what initially attracts him but now to him, I'm... (read in full...)
I want to fit in but I don't!
Q. For a long time I've been having a lot of problems with my virginity...I can't stand it. It makes me angry, and I can't stand it...but I met this girl. She's changed my life...made me see that the world isn't as dark and depressing as I thought...I ...
A. 26 June 2012: What do you want to fit into? Do you walk around with a giant V on your forehead that labels you a virgin? What is this total obsession of folks with virginity?
Seems to me those that have lost it want it back and those that have not lost it ... (read in full...)
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