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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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I want to fit in but I don't!
Q. For a long time I've been having a lot of problems with my virginity...I can't stand it. It makes me angry, and I can't stand it...but I met this girl. She's changed my life...made me see that the world isn't as dark and depressing as I thought...I ...
A. 5 July 2012: “The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.”
EXACTLY. That means that once you get to the other side (i.e. lose your virginity) you will meet a wonderful girl who you will wish you were a virgin for.
Chigirl is very correct... (read in full...)
I'm seeing a married man and don't know how to handle things
Q. I'm in a tough situation. I'm seeing a married man. I've known him since I was around 14 years old, I've also been in love with him since the day we met. We had a fling back in high school. After high school, I took off and left the state. He ...
A. 29 June 2012: Ok so he’s getting a divorce and his wife is an evil thing. If he’s still living with her how in the world has he filed for the divorce. In many states you have to live apart…
And that doesn’t answer my question… does he tell his wife he’s see... (read in full...)
How do I know my online guy is for real?
Q. I have meet a guy in on a dating site , we only send mails with each other within a month and he tells me he loves me and wants to be his wife,i am confuse as of now if i'll believe him or not ,what will i dont know if his for real...
A. 28 June 2012: Yes it's a SCAM. He is a con man a cheat and a liar.
cut all contact NOW.... (read in full...)
I think I have a foot fetish. Why would I be like this?
Q. I am 18 and for a couple of years I've had this soft spot for a certain porn video. It is all about foot fetish. It's just licking and kissing etcetera and the people are kind of clothed but in real life I have a foot fobia and in any other video ...
A. 27 June 2012: Something about the video caught your attention. I prefer younger men but there’s always Sean Connery… .so even occasionally we go for things not normally in our repertoire… I’d relax and not worry about it.... (read in full...)
Want to date but want freedom too
Q. I have a question that I feel is slightly odd tbh. I seem to have a bit of a fear of commitment, in the respect that when I'm in a relationship, I obviously won't have the freedom of a single man... It's not like I have a huge amount of fem...
A. 27 June 2012: oh and quite honestly why would a taken man go to a club without his woman anyway?... (read in full...)
Want to date but want freedom too
Q. I have a question that I feel is slightly odd tbh. I seem to have a bit of a fear of commitment, in the respect that when I'm in a relationship, I obviously won't have the freedom of a single man... It's not like I have a huge amount of fem...
A. 27 June 2012: I'm getting married in October. I flirt all the time. I just don't flirt to pick people up for sex or dating...
my fiance knows I flirt and he likens it to breathing for me, that's how natural it is for me. I don't even think about it... I don't ... (read in full...)
I feel a fool for hooking up with somebody who only wants sex!
Q. Me and this guy had been talking for 6 months online (I'm english, he is german) we eventually meet up and we end up sleeping together. Big BIG mistake. We were on different wave lengths in regards to what was happening, I thought we were going to ...
A. 27 June 2012: You like him
You miss him
The sex is fun
But you want more right?
He’s not going to give you more.. it’s always going to be just about sex… if that’ s NOT ok then you need to tell him that you can’t do this and cancel the next meeting…... (read in full...)
After five years we just don't talk about 'us' anymore
Q. Hello. This may become a bit longer post, I am sorry for this. Help is needed because I'm 26, and I must start to figure out what I'm gonna do with my personal life If I am to do anything at all. Excuse my bad english. Five years ago I had a cl...
A. 27 June 2012: I think you should end the relationship. IF after 5 years of this she is not leaving her husband you are just sloppy seconds… is this how you want to spend your life, getting her in bits and pieces when she has the time?
I met a man. I was marr... (read in full...)
I know she gave her number to a random guy so I want to go with her when the meet
Q. ok this is abit of a wierd question Just say ur gf gave her number out to some random dude on the internet and u found out, and they havent met yet, but u forced them to meet , woud it make the situation better or worse? say for isntance, i call...
A. 27 June 2012: How did you find out?
and what do you mean by "some random dude"
you can't FORCE them to meet
it's not your place to be involved with THEM but it is your place to talk to your girlfriend about it.
KC gives great advice...
per... (read in full...)
I think I have a foot fetish. Why would I be like this?
Q. I am 18 and for a couple of years I've had this soft spot for a certain porn video. It is all about foot fetish. It's just licking and kissing etcetera and the people are kind of clothed but in real life I have a foot fobia and in any other video ...
A. 27 June 2012: you are the way you are because that's how you are...
it does not make you a bad person or a pervert..
btw if you can't have sexual relations without the fetish object that's the concern... if it's just something you like that turns you on, w... (read in full...)
Five months? Is it too soon to say to her, 'i love you'?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months now and i want to tell her i'm in love with her but i'm afraid it may be too soon as 5 months isn't a huge amount of time. I have had feelings for her for a couple of years now as we have been close flir...
A. 27 June 2012: IF you feel it you should tell her. But you must be prepared for her to not say it back.
My fiance RARELY says "I love you" and never EVER says "i love you too" so his response to my infrequent "I love you" is "thank you"
it d... (read in full...)
Too soon to move on?
Q. I was with a guy for over a year. Without going too much into that relationship- we got engaged at the very end and were only engaged for a few weeks. Being engaged to him made me realize that something was not right between us. I didn't want to ...
A. 27 June 2012: You can’t find THE ONE if you don’t date…
You were very wise and very brave to end the engagement and the relationship when you did… a very hard thing to do.
You need to NOT care what your ex thinks.. he’s an EX… he won’t be happy but sadly fo... (read in full...)
Everything I do seems to be yet another painful reminder.
Q. So here is my situation: I got dumped exactly one month ago, by my girlfriend of two years, who I dated throughout high school and into university. It was completely unexpected,I had no idea what was coming up, she simply stated that she didn't ...
A. 27 June 2012: 4 weeks into being dumped you wanted answers. you thought you were ready. clearly you were not.
she could have lied and cheated instead she hurt you by doing the stand up thing and ending it... it still hurts especially since you were not expe... (read in full...)
She doesn't get 'wet' before sex, is it me?
Q. I have been dating a girl and mostly things are fine but i have a bit of an issue with sex. The problem is that my girlfriend does not get 'wet' very easily. I usually initiate sex and we have it pretty regularly... 3 times a week. When using...
A. 27 June 2012: Oh and I strongly urge that you use silicone based lube not water based.. they have a silkier feel (water based lubes tend to be sticky IMO) and they last longer... they cost more but you use less in the end as you don't need to keep reapplying it.... (read in full...)
I'm seeing a married man and don't know how to handle things
Q. I'm in a tough situation. I'm seeing a married man. I've known him since I was around 14 years old, I've also been in love with him since the day we met. We had a fling back in high school. After high school, I took off and left the state. He ...
A. 27 June 2012: What do you want help with handling?
Do you want help in how to continue helping him cheat and lie to his wife?
Do you want help with how to end what is a BAD situation?
Do you want help in figuring out why you think it’s ok to sleep w... (read in full...)
He's been talking with women on webcam when he promised he wouldn't do that anymore!
Q. So, i've had this problem of my boyfriend looking at naked women on webcams. He promised me that he wouldn't do it again because it made me feel so hurt and not good enough for him. Well, i know i shouldn't have but i snooped through his computer ...
A. 27 June 2012: Thanks for the update OP... best of luck to the two of you.... (read in full...)
Dating an older man, I don't want to stop but what's the point if it won't progress?
Q. Dear Cupid I am 21years old and I am currently dating a 33 year old man.I know that is a big age difference but age is nothing but a number right? We have been dating for almost two months and I really like him. I have never met a man like him ...
A. 27 June 2012: His age is not the problem. The problem is that he’s NOT giving you what you need. You want and need affection and he’s not providing that.
My partner told me when we first started that he never says “I love you”…. But he’s been known to... (read in full...)
My g/f is 17 years younger than me and I worry about holding her back
Q. I'm a 41 year old man in a relationship with a 24 year old woman. I have questions about the future and holding her back and essentially cutting her life experiences short because of the age difference. She said it doesn't matter to her, but I ...
A. 27 June 2012: You have a good reason to be justified in your concerns. However, you can’t make the choice for her. At 24 I was happily married and making babies with my 27 yr old husband. Our marriage ended because what I wanted at 21 when I married him was ... (read in full...)
Why would he go away so far, with a woman 24 years younger? And leave his devoted loving wife?
Q. so i know this is out there a lot but my husband left me for a younger girl 24 years younger. they are living together oh and she has a 2 year old. Anyway just wanted to know if anyone could shed light on why he would leave a good wife that woul...
A. 27 June 2012: Hello,
I’m sorry that you are hurting like this. Sadly, it’s not as out there as you would hope. It sounds to me much like a mid-life crisis on his part. Would have been better if he’d gotten a motorcycle for his new ride huh?
First o... (read in full...)
Is she interested in a threesome or not?
Q. I have discussed with my wife having a threesome. We were watching porn one evening and I asked her if she would prefer mfm or fmf, she said mfm of course if she was to do it and she was not that interested. Ok....I did get an answer. The ...
A. 27 June 2012: She has made it very clear she is not interested.
She has said NO. What else do you need to hear?
You are trying to push what you want on her.
I can assure you that it will not work out the way you think.
As a former swinger who now... (read in full...)
Does sex really matter all that much?
Q. Hey everyone. Lots of magazines and articles talk about "sexual compatibility" and paramount on sexual pleasure with your partner. I haven't had an orgasm yet with my boyfriend (still testing things out and finding what I like), so I wonder does sex ...
A. 27 June 2012: I think that sexual compatibility is important. That means that you guys have similar sex drives in terms of frequency, duration and acts...
I also think that open minds and acceptance is critical. I accept that my orgasms are MY responsi... (read in full...)
He's been talking with women on webcam when he promised he wouldn't do that anymore!
Q. So, i've had this problem of my boyfriend looking at naked women on webcams. He promised me that he wouldn't do it again because it made me feel so hurt and not good enough for him. Well, i know i shouldn't have but i snooped through his computer ...
A. 26 June 2012: Ok so if you don't leave, what will you do to cope with the pain?
how in the world if him doing this makes you sick do you propose to cope with this?
... (read in full...)
Is a guy always serious with a girl he calls his girlfriend?
Q. If a guy has a girlfriend, is it possible he could be with her casually and not seriously and maybe for sex and companionship but not true love? Is it possible she is NOT the one or that he will be with her long term? If he is so happy with her, ...
A. 26 June 2012: There's "Mr. Right" and "Mr. You'll do for now"
I'm sure men do the same thing.
Human nature is such that we don't want to be alone and sometimes we LIKE someone enough to spend time with them but NOT enough to marry them or be serious with ... (read in full...)
I want to end this with him walking away calmly
Q. how do i end a relationship with my boyfriend who last time got angry and said im stupid to give him up. he does control me and get jealous and i want out of this relationship without him getting angry or sending angry texts etc. how do i keep him ...
A. 26 June 2012: he makes you feel bad
he puts you down
why do you care about making him feel good?
oh well... you could tell him the classic
"it's me not you"
have you stopped calling him and texting him?
are you giving him CLUES that things are ... (read in full...)
I want to marry Bobby someday, but I don't want to rush into anything. What should I do?
Q. Hi there everyone. I haven't posted on here for quite a long time, so I apologise if I'm a bit rusty. To make a long story short, I'll just say my family is unstable to the point where they can hardly take care of me in the basic sense. I have bee...
A. 26 June 2012: if you don't want to do it (and you are right not to do it at such a young age) then tell him you want to wait.
if he can't accept that answer then he really is all about himself... not your comfort.... (read in full...)
Asian men and White women.......
Q. Well as an Asian i have got a very important question to all the white girls and I am pretty sure other Asian men need the answer.So here's my question do white women like Asian men? and if the answer is yes please let me know the things that mak...
A. 26 June 2012: some white women I'm sure like Asian men just like some White men like Asian women... but not all...
I do not think you can classify an entire race of people with the same personality.
culture is one thing that defines us
religion is anot... (read in full...)
How do I know my online guy is for real?
Q. I have meet a guy in on a dating site , we only send mails with each other within a month and he tells me he loves me and wants to be his wife,i am confuse as of now if i'll believe him or not ,what will i dont know if his for real...
A. 26 June 2012: DO NOT believe him.
You have only sent email
no meeting IRL
no phone calls
no texts
no skype
no contact OTHER than email?
he could not possibly love you....
and how could he know he wants to marry you...
you need to meet him IRL... (read in full...)
How long does it take for your pubic hair to grow back?
Q. Okay ladies, I have a question for you. How long does it take for your pubic hair to grow back? I tried shaving almost all of it off, thought I liked it at first, but now I can't stand it...the maintaining is too time consuming and I am startin...
A. 26 June 2012: I prefer waxing it all off... I can go 4-8 weeks between waxes depending on how fast it grows (faster in the spring and summer than fall and winter)...
When I was shaving it I would run the razor with either shave cream or hair conditio... (read in full...)
How can I make him jealous on Facebook?
Q. Im dating a guy and everything is going on well. The only problem is sometimes i don't feel like he loves me. So i have come up with a plan that is to make him jealous. I know it might sound silly but thats the only plan i can think of. He really ...
A. 26 June 2012: I’m sorry your asking for a recipe for disaster.
If you are dating a guy and it’s going well why do you want to wreck it?
IF you don’t feel like he loves you then you need to TALK to him about it.
If you say “but I can’t tell him how I f... (read in full...)
Want to date but want freedom too
Q. I have a question that I feel is slightly odd tbh. I seem to have a bit of a fear of commitment, in the respect that when I'm in a relationship, I obviously won't have the freedom of a single man... It's not like I have a huge amount of fem...
A. 26 June 2012: “I have the freedom to speak to any girl I want”
What makes you think that once you are in a relationship the freedom to speak to someone based on their sex becomes limited? My fiancé cannot DATE anyone else.. he cannot be intimate with any... (read in full...)
They Like Him, But Won't Let Us Date.. Help!
Q. Please help me. There is this guy I have fallen for. I am just about 18, and he is 20. He is 2 and a half years older than me almost exactly. My parents love him and think he is a sweetheart. But they won't let me date him. Their reasons: he is too ...
A. 26 June 2012: If you are just about 18, why can't you wait till you are 18?
once you are 18 it's legal. right now with you 17 and him 20 it's not legal for him to touch you....
your parents like him
the best thing to do is NOT try to convince your par... (read in full...)
He's been talking with women on webcam when he promised he wouldn't do that anymore!
Q. So, i've had this problem of my boyfriend looking at naked women on webcams. He promised me that he wouldn't do it again because it made me feel so hurt and not good enough for him. Well, i know i shouldn't have but i snooped through his computer ...
A. 26 June 2012: he's lying to you
you don't trust him
you're not happy
at your age, I'd leave the relationship and NOT settle for less than happiness.... (read in full...)
He lies about watching porn and its damaging our sex life
Q. Hi everyone, Ive been in a relationship for almost 2 years and i always make it clear at the start of a relationship i don't accept porn, reason being i don't feel its needed when you have a partner willing to please you, it just makes me feel una...
A. 26 June 2012: If he doesn't try to please you
If sex lasts for a mere minute
if he's lying to you about his porn use
if he's using porn and it's a deal breaker...
and if you don't trust him,
i'd get out.
you are not being unreasonable at all.... (read in full...)
He shouts in his sleep, should I tell him what I hear?
Q. Hi there, My boyfriend often has angry dreams at night. Her figits which I why I wake up, then he breathes deeper and faster and then starts shouting and swearing. sometimes its at his dad (his parents are divorced a long time ago) and sometim...
A. 26 June 2012: why would he feel embarrassed. we have no control over our dreams.
I would not wake him when he's dreaming... if he doesn't wake up he might not even remember it when he does...
usually we have an inability to move during sleep...
h... (read in full...)
I think he likes me, should I text him or wait till he does?
Q. hey so theres this guy at uni in my class, and he's always starring at me whenever im out with my friends, i see him starring at me. even in class he would try to talk to me at first, im not too sure if i seemed dry towards him at first. a few weeks ...
A. 26 June 2012: Texting is a lousy way to have a relationship...
if you like him and he's been accepting of your advances so far... ask him if he wants to get a coffee or soda or something...... (read in full...)
She doesn't get 'wet' before sex, is it me?
Q. I have been dating a girl and mostly things are fine but i have a bit of an issue with sex. The problem is that my girlfriend does not get 'wet' very easily. I usually initiate sex and we have it pretty regularly... 3 times a week. When using...
A. 26 June 2012: I rarely get wet... it's just the way my body works. WE keep good lube on the night table and use it for everything.
My not getting wet is NO indication of how much I desire my partner.
It's not a reflection on you in any way shape or form, i... (read in full...)
My father abused me as a child, do I try to talk to my parents about it again?
Q. I have a complicated situation. Without going into too much detail; my father sexually abused me as a child. I told my mother and together they shrugged it off saying I was lying / it was a dream. It was never spoken of again. Fast forward 1...
A. 26 June 2012: When I confronted my parents (in a supervised therapy session) about the fact that my dad abused me (he had a temper and physically would hurt me in anger) and my mom ENABLED him to do it (driving me to the hospital to get stitches in the EARLY 70s ... (read in full...)
I want to fit in but I don't!
Q. For a long time I've been having a lot of problems with my virginity...I can't stand it. It makes me angry, and I can't stand it...but I met this girl. She's changed my life...made me see that the world isn't as dark and depressing as I thought...I ...
A. 26 June 2012: What do you want to fit into? Do you walk around with a giant V on your forehead that labels you a virgin? What is this total obsession of folks with virginity?
Seems to me those that have lost it want it back and those that have not lost it ... (read in full...)
He ended what I thought was a great relationship, what happened?
Q. Hello everyone I have a problem which i would like to see if anyone could shed some light on. I met a guy 8 months ago and we stayed in contact with each other for 8 months, he lived 4 hours away at the time but recently moved 1 hour away, so fr...
A. 26 June 2012: You just stopped contact yesterday... give it time.
Abella hit it on the head... LDRs when you are not committed are easy... they don't interfere with life all that much and the time you spend with the person is limited.
I ended an LDR in ... (read in full...)
He went to a strip club, I confronted him and he got mad, what do I do?
Q. I have been dating a new guy for about 4 months now. Our relationship moved pretty fast but we were both happy about it.He is a friend of my brothers, totally opposite of any guy I ever dated. I have a little boy who will be 2 in a few months and he ...
A. 26 June 2012: Well he probably didn’t tell you because he was afraid of how you would react. Would having only ONE lap dance be different? Is it the fact that he had two from the same stripper?
I don’t know where YOU are but in my state a stripper must kee... (read in full...)
We had sex on first date, deal breaker?
Q. I met a guy the other night through friends and he was fantastic. Great looking, well educated and smart. We are about the same number (attractiveness) and went to the same college. I asked him to do something towards the end of the night and he ...
A. 26 June 2012: If the sex ruins it, it won't be because it was horrible but rather because you "put out" on a first date...
I had sex on a first date with my last husband... no big deal for us and we married... the marriage did not last but it was not due to h... (read in full...)
Why would he date me and hold hands, hold me, and that kind of thing if he didn't want a relationship?
Q. Met this guy online through a dating site. We chatted for a few weeks and then decided to meet up after we texted each other for a while. Things were going good, we connected very well, laughed a lot, etc. But here's the thing, he said very early on ...
A. 26 June 2012: I'm thinking he went on a dating site to find some quick and easy sex. Many men will SAY they want a relationship when they really just want sex with a known person (same person over and over without paying it's FWB)
but they will give the "gir... (read in full...)
I'm being stalked at work by a customer.
Q. I work in a convenience store on the same three days every week, and have to deal with a lot of bullshit from our clientele on a regular basis. Getting harassed, talked down to and hit on by men is a regular occurrence. While this is experienced by ...
A. 26 June 2012: I agree with the female reader who says you have blown the whole thing out of proportion. You are not being STALKED.
A customer who probably has a crush on you asked about you and was told what day you work.. BFD…
If he starts showing up and h... (read in full...)
My wife does not initiate sex!
Q. My wife and I have been married for 3yrs. we have 1loving daughter together but she has no sex drive and never initiate sex I always initiate and when we have sex she just lay there she gets into it but we only do it like 8 times a year if that and ...
A. 26 June 2012: “when we have sex she just lay (sic) there”
What are you doing to get her to NOT just lay there? Do you pleasure her? Or is this about her laying there and letting you stick it in and have your orgasm?
You have a YOUNG child at home… she spent 9 ... (read in full...)
I trust my boyfriend but he has an attractive roommate!
Q. Advice? My bf has to find a roommate and found a nice place to live...I helped him look. Now he is completely trustworthy but he found a very nice place but the roommate would be female and she is decent looking. Should I worry? I have a male ...
A. 26 June 2012: Why would you even question it? If you have a male roommate I agree with Serpico, you don’t have a leg to stand on.
Why would you think it would be different if you have a male roommate and he has a female roommate?
This confuses me…
... (read in full...)
My mom breastfeeds my brother in public and I hate it!
Q. I hate it when my mom breastfeeds my baby brother in public. What should I do? She has done it several times. Why the hell would she wanna do it in public? She's crazy. It embarrasses the hell out of me. It's also disgusting. Is there a way I ca...
A. 26 June 2012: Dear Batman lover,
I can understand how you feel; young teenaged boys are so easily embarrassed.
When mom feeds the baby in public is she unbuttoning her shirt and opening her bra and exposing herself or is she being discreet…. I once was sit... (read in full...)
How should I handle my insecure and jealous boyfriend?
Q. Here is a background of me and my boyfriend. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-not-a-talker-but-my-ldr.html My boyfriend has a few times said to me that because I am quiet on the phone, he thinks I am distant, and that I must be talking w...
A. 26 June 2012: Oh sweetie… this is so NOT good… He’s irrational and jealous for no reason and he’s accusing you of cheating and lying.
I don’t see this ending well but to be honest when he had said “how was your date” I would have said “it was fine the youn... (read in full...)
How should I handle my insecure and jealous boyfriend?
Q. Here is a background of me and my boyfriend. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-not-a-talker-but-my-ldr.html My boyfriend has a few times said to me that because I am quiet on the phone, he thinks I am distant, and that I must be talking w...
A. 26 June 2012: Oh sweetie… this is so NOT good… He’s irrational and jealous for no reason and he’s accusing you of cheating and lying.
I don’t see this ending well but to be honest when he had said “how was your date” I would have said “it was fine the youn... (read in full...)
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