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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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I thought my trainer was my friend but he has upped his prices!
Q. Over the past year I have become good friends with my personal trainer. But recently he told me he had to raise his rates and asked me for more money. Of course I was surprised he would do this to me and I am hurt by it. I thought he conside...
A. 16 July 2012: Ah your update sheds more light on this… he’s stringing you along and you want more….
Yes you will have to pay him to keep seeing him… he’s int this for the business…
You have to make the call sweetie… sounds to me like while he likes you w... (read in full...)
My husband wants me to wait 6 years to have children but I'm all ready at 27
Q. So my husband and i had a huge argument about having children. He's 23 and I'm 27. We had spoken about it before we got married and i had stated quite clearly that (at 26) I didn't want to wait more than four years as i think having children late ...
A. 16 July 2012: Again the only issue i see here that I'm most concerned about is that you are so worried about what HIS FAMILY thinks... what does HE want...
The issue is what YOU and your HUSBAND want not what anyone else wants.
I can tell you that I had m... (read in full...)
I thought my trainer was my friend but he has upped his prices!
Q. Over the past year I have become good friends with my personal trainer. But recently he told me he had to raise his rates and asked me for more money. Of course I was surprised he would do this to me and I am hurt by it. I thought he conside...
A. 16 July 2012: do you see him outside of training sessions?
just because he flirts with you during sessions does not mean anything.
so what I'm getting from you is that you hired him as a trainer... the sessions go well, you talk intimately and flirt... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont give me oral sex anymore
Q. my girlfriend and i have nearly broke up over a debate we had . i asked why she will not give me oral sex anymore and she said it was because my penis is wet from precum so its disgusting . in te past she has given me oral sex alot but now its been ...
A. 16 July 2012: no she's not selfish...
the issue is that she used to give it to you but now she does not.
so she was more of a "bait and switch" she needed to tell you in the first place that she didn't like giving blow jobs.
my partner told me from day... (read in full...)
I thought my trainer was my friend but he has upped his prices!
Q. Over the past year I have become good friends with my personal trainer. But recently he told me he had to raise his rates and asked me for more money. Of course I was surprised he would do this to me and I am hurt by it. I thought he conside...
A. 15 July 2012: Did the relationship start out as friends or did you become friends after he became your trainer?
IF you have paid him all along then his rates go up and you have to pay them too. he already told you he's not raising you as much as his other cl... (read in full...)
Depressed guy at start of short long distance relationship. Any advice would be great!!
Q. Hi I think im suffering from depression from a short long distance stint with my GF. Shes been living with me for the last 8 months and we've spent a lot of time together. Shes now working abroad for a month, will return for a month then will move ...
A. 15 July 2012: You need to tell her...
the problem with an LDR is that you have to learn to balance together time with being alive where you are too...
that means she's going to have friends and go out and do things with her friends...
With a young co... (read in full...)
LDR b/f sent me a package and says I can't open it until we're on the phone together. What could it be?
Q. So i've been in a long distance relationship with a guy for a little while now (9 months)and he kind of popped the question i think over the phone... obviously there's no ring yet. I told him I wasn't too concerned about a ring. He said he spoke ...
A. 15 July 2012: It might be a teddy bear for all you know....
have you MET this boy?... (read in full...)
What would be positive signs that he's interested in me?
Q. I work with a man 10 years younger than myself, and, over time, have become attracted to him. I get the feeling he is interested as well. I have seen him watching me every now and then, he'll find me working somewhere and start chatting away, ...
A. 15 July 2012: You just say to him like any other person, Hey wanna go do insert whatever you want to do with him an see what he says....
just be FRIENDS... if he was a younger woman you liked maybe you would ask her to go out to dinner and just talk... ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of my younger lover without a scene? He's helped me in the past but now I'm sick of him.
Q. I am an older lady who has always had men who worked and helped with most bills. I have been widowed 4 times; what a drag!!! I met a younger guy online and he eventually moved in with me. All was well at first; he quit his job where he prev...
A. 15 July 2012: Hard to do this when they give up their lives and jobs and move to be with us.
Have you told him how you feel that things are not working out for you now?
have you said "you need to get a job NOW I don't care if you dig ditches" or do you... (read in full...)
Does this married older woman want to sleep with me?
Q. Ok im 21 and i work in an office with only one other male, all the rest are female. There is one woman in the office who is constantly flirting with me and complimenting me--and i mean outrageously. At a recent night out too she stayed with me all ...
A. 14 July 2012: Yeah it's up to him if he wants sex with a married woman and that's not a judgement on him...
the question is even if she is willing, does he want the heartbreak that goes with it?... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before I turn 22 in a month's time, but I do not want my first time to be horrible.
Q. Growing up I was taught to respect women, and to never use them. As I finally turned twenty one last year I realized something very sad, that I'm the last of a kind. The 21st century dating world is very different from what I was taught to live in. ...
A. 14 July 2012: so you only want to date women who like tall guys.....
funny I dated a "little person" once... he was about 4 feet tall... we had fun...
you really do miss the point... your criteria is such that you need a woman who wants a self-hating ... (read in full...)
How do I react to in-laws who've threatened a wedding boycot unless we agree to their demands?
Q. ok so a few days ago i proposed to my girlfreind (she said yes) we are both keeping are own faiths even though i offered to convert. she says its when we have kids that we can raise them as a mix of our respective religions, so they know about th...
A. 14 July 2012: Well my take on this as a jewish woman (because it has huge bearing on it religious wise) depends on if you are both of a similar faith (i.e both of a Christian sect).
IN Judaisim, the religion is defined totally by the mother. That means if... (read in full...)
Why does my ex say hello in person and then block me on facebook?
Q. My ex and I broke up a few days ago. I ran into him at the mall today. He came up to me to say hello and how are you, then we said bye. Then tonight I logged onto Facebook and saw that he deleted me. What is this conflicting behavior? ...
A. 14 July 2012: It's not conflicting at all.
seeing someone IRL it's perfectly ok and proper to be polite.
you do not have to subject yourself to watching their lives unfold on facebook.
He sounds like a mature man...
be polite in public when you run in... (read in full...)
My fiance was killed in the army and I don't know how to make myself keep going
Q. I'm a CNA working overtime constantly to keep my mind occupied while my fiance has been in the Army. I've been working towards my nursing degree when I got the worst news any young woman whose man is in the military could get. Its been a month since ...
A. 14 July 2012: You need to get to a professional grief counselor and work this through. That's the only way to fix this.
I can't imagine your pain and the feelings you are having...
Your feelings of betrayal and anger are NORMAL so do not beat yourself... (read in full...)
Will I still bleed the first time I have sex?
Q. I'm a virgin buh a week ago i masturbated nd fingered mysef then i notice dat i'm not as tight as before.do u tink i will still bleed when i decide 2 hav sex?...
A. 14 July 2012: Truthfully in this day and age the hymen (the part that will bleed when you break it which used to happen with the first intercourse) breaks from exercise, tampons, masturbation etc...
many women do not bleed when they lose their virginit... (read in full...)
Does this married older woman want to sleep with me?
Q. Ok im 21 and i work in an office with only one other male, all the rest are female. There is one woman in the office who is constantly flirting with me and complimenting me--and i mean outrageously. At a recent night out too she stayed with me all ...
A. 14 July 2012: Does it matter what SHE wants? She's married. Are you the kind of man that is willing to have sex with another man's wife?
... (read in full...)
How can I stop my 2 year old from calling every guy he meets daddy?
Q. I am a single mother of a 2 year old boy. His father is not currently around and has only seen him a handful of times in his whole life. Hasn't seen him in months. The problem is everytime I go to a function or hang out with friends every man thats ...
A. 14 July 2012: Sweetie.. I was a married mommy and my son called EVERY man he saw daddy... which was funny to me when he did it to the men of different races...
folks just laughed. I think for some kids DADDY is the word they use to mean MAN...
It's n... (read in full...)
What started out innocent has turned into a trouble situation with a man old enough to be my father
Q. I got myself in a unhealthy situation. - Short version: I befriended a new member of the archery range I'm at. He's in his mid fifties. He assured me all he wanted was friendship. Stupid and naive as I was I accepted this. I even accepted a job o...
A. 14 July 2012: WOW! you are great.... and how in the world would you have known how to handle this without some perspective from some older BTDT kind of ladies...
As for the archery place having no idea... that's how predators work sweetie... they come ac... (read in full...)
After five years of being together, I don't love him anymore, and he can't let go. What should I do?
Q. I've been with this man 16 years older than me after I ended my marriage of 20 years. Five years on, I found him too old for me and he is not a caring person I've always wanted in my life. We live in separate home and he has been helpful around my ...
A. 13 July 2012: It will be easier for both of you in the long run if you go no contact... he needs to learn to be alone again....
of course if there is a true emergency (needs to be driven to the hospital or something) and there is no one else that could be don... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is mad at me for something that isn't really my fault. I don't know what to do.
Q. Hi, I have a boyfriend working outside the country, he flies back every few months and I have been to see him twicein the pasy year. I bought him a plane ticket to come home for my birthday in April and his first words at the time were'when it's my ...
A. 13 July 2012: Clearly he can't afford it and is ashamed to say he didn't budget well.
he'd rather be mad at you than take responsibility for his behavior.
I wouldn't mention it again....
... (read in full...)
I've been married two years, and have nothing in common with my husband, not even sex.
Q. Hi there, im all new to this! I met my now husband 2yrs ago, we married year after we meet. We did get on well, but very quickly i found we hav nothin to talk about, we can go a whole evening without so much of an exchange of a single word, we ...
A. 13 July 2012: You met a man and a year later you married him.
When did you discover you had nothing to talk about? Was that before or after the marriage?
My partner and I do not like the same music but I listen to his. We don’t like the same foods (I pre... (read in full...)
I'm 44 and still a virgin. Should I lose my virginity to an escort?
Q. I am a virgin at 44 and was looking for advice on how to remedy the situation. In my case i have always had comments aimed at me because i'm let's say not exactly nice-looking. Ugly in fact, let's not beat about the bush.Because of this i have never ...
A. 13 July 2012: Is this a good idea for who?
what is the point of losing your virginity to an escort?
I doubt you are ugly...
I am thinking that your bigger problem is self-esteem...
will that improve if you are not a virgin and have lost it via an e... (read in full...)
Why did he meet me for coffee, if he thought I lived too far away to date?!
Q. Hello everyone, I will try and make this short, and thank you for reading. I met a guy online a few months back, (he's 42, me 46yrs) and slowly over a month we began to get to know more about each other, and we spoke a few times over the telepho...
A. 13 July 2012: I agree with honeypie... if he really liked you two hours means nothing... I lived that way for a year... put 15,000 miles on my car in one year.... it's hard but it's doable.
he was very nice and polite and he has moved on as should you.
... (read in full...)
Is my wife not satisfied by me after 22 years of marriage?
Q. enis is to small to satisfy my wife and she secretly desires a larger penis : when we where first dast over 22 years ,but I feel I have been married now ju that my pting she told me she had only 2 previous lovers prior prior to our ...
A. 13 July 2012: Thanks for the update. You are in your 40’s and married 22 years and having sex once a week or so… sounds good to me to be honest.
Would she prefer a different time… I hate having sex at bed time.. I’m tired… I want sex either in the morning ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend say this during sex?
Q. During sex (when we're both really into it), my boyfriend will tell me to make love to him; what should I do?...
A. 13 July 2012: ask him....... (read in full...)
Is to okay to experiment with girls?
Q. Hey everyone, I am 23 years old,lately I have been very curious about having a sex with a girl..is it because I want to experiment or I'm just curious or bisexual I don't know.. I have never kissed or made out or even done it with the girl,but bef...
A. 13 July 2012: If you are interested and curious, it's not wrong.
I'm bisexual. Girl play is fun. I will miss it. I'm engaged now and cheating is cheating even if my guy says I can have a girl I won't do it.
If you are not attached and take the right p... (read in full...)
I'm having some trust issues with my fiancée, please help!
Q. Well, here is my problem, I've been dating this girl for a number of years, and we are engaged and even living together. Things sometimes are smooth, but recently I found out she had been talking to guys on Skype, nothing too bad at first, but then ...
A. 13 July 2012: I’m a bi-sexual woman who has given up women to be with my partner… much like giving up other men…. It is what it is and I agree with you… cheating is cheating…
You forgave her in the past for cheating, and sadly many people think that same sex acti... (read in full...)
I am worried that a re-organized date could ruin my chances with her.
Q. Hi Guys, I met a girl ( 26 ) online and we emailed and chatted on the phone for 4 weeks before meeting up. The 1 st date was fantastic, market date then extended to a game of pool where she bet a kiss on the result of one game and me cookin...
A. 13 July 2012: what you do is not as important as just doing it.
relax and enjoy.... (read in full...)
After being married 16 years I wonder what it would be like to be with a woman?
Q. I think I'm bisexual not really sure I've been married for 16 years and I have a pretty good marriage bit I have always wondered what.it would be like to be with a woman ...
A. 13 July 2012: have you talked to your spouse about it?
I'm bisexual. I am with a man now who would be fine with me having another woman for a sexual partner but I've opted not to do so since I do not want to give him the same option...
because if he... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriend want to have sex with me because he got turned on by the other girl?
Q. I have been with this guy for 3 years. He is really good about not staring at women, or at least when I am with him. But the other night when he came in from work he was flirting around with me and he said something about picking out some sexy ...
A. 13 July 2012: You are over-reacting…
Why would a man being turned on by someone else and wanting to come home and sex it up with his woman make you feel stupid?
I have learned that I don’t care where my partner gets his appetite as long as he eats at home... (read in full...)
What can we do to prove to my boyfriend's parents that we aren't just another high school relationship and that we have a real future?
Q. Okay, so I am 19 and my boyfriend just 20 last week. We have been together since we were 16 and have been through so much together. Last year he, and his family, moved 1,200 miles away and we made the choice to break up. His parents, who claimed ...
A. 13 July 2012: Neither of you are children… young adults is more like it but YouWish brings up a good point
Is he your boyfriend or did you break up?
How can parents refuse to let an adult child do something?
If they are refusing I’m sensing that there i... (read in full...)
The man I'm with love with said ,"I care about you more than you know". Does that mean he loves me too? If yes then why doesn't he just say that?
Q. Help please Aunts, I am having trouble trying to understand what this man i'm in love with is trying to say to me. He knows how much i care about him very much,and he has said he cares about me.but we had a little tiff and i challenged him a...
A. 13 July 2012: I feel your pain. I am with a man who told me early on “I do not say ‘I love you’” I heard him and it’s true. I have told him I love him and I have asked him if he loves me and he does. And I know he loves me by how he treats me… not by what he ... (read in full...)
Can you tell the difference between love and lust?
Q. Dear all, Is it possible to be affectionate and miss someone a lot but not love them? I'm 5 months in a relationship and have developed strong feelings but I'm not sure if its love? What's the difference and how do you know? We currently on...
A. 13 July 2012: Person12345 is right it's different for everyone...
and you may love him.
if things are going along well, then just keep going along and it will fall into place eventually.... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about where this thing is headed?
Q. I just recently started talking to a ex girlfriend of 6 years and everything was going fine for the first weeks, now we go days without talking. We decided when we first started talking again to take things slow, and i have asked her if anything is ...
A. 13 July 2012: I’m a daily contact person too.. in fact before we moved in together, we were LDR and my fiancé had to learn to accept I wanted twice daily contact with him… he did it to make me happy… if you need more contact then you need to talk to her about ... (read in full...)
My husband wants me to wait 6 years to have children but I'm all ready at 27
Q. So my husband and i had a huge argument about having children. He's 23 and I'm 27. We had spoken about it before we got married and i had stated quite clearly that (at 26) I didn't want to wait more than four years as i think having children late ...
A. 13 July 2012: If you married with the plans to have children within a few years and he’s changed his mind, well that happens. It’s NOT fair but it does happen.
I don’t buy the whole he’s too young thing. I became a mom at 24 and my ex was 26 at the time… m... (read in full...)
I've been lied to again but don't know how to confront her...
Q. I've just found out from my girlfriend's brother in-law that she deceived me again. To cut a long story short, she's lied to me a few times on about where she's been and other different things. I met up with my girlfriends brother in-law to ta...
A. 13 July 2012: Well the next time you see her you can say “Hey I saw your BIL the other night and when I asked him how the visit with you went he was clueless that you had been there… coupled with other changes I’ve seen, dear, such as your behavior changes and ... (read in full...)
Would you stay in a sexless marriage?
Q. Would you stay with your husband, if he would go impotent, and it would not have medical cause? And on the top of. That, he would lose his affection too, so, basically the marriage becomes sexless? ...
A. 13 July 2012: I would stay with an affectionate impotent man. Especially if he was aware that his penis was not why I married him or loved him and he was still affectionate.
I'm not sure I would stay with a man who was NOT impotent but not affectionate... (read in full...)
My abusive ex owes me stuff worth up to $3000 which he refused to return and now he wants me to give him another chance
Q. Hey, I'm 20 years old , from France and i go to school in US i met a guy from Ohio , we had been together for 2 years. After he proposed to me last Christmas( We've in distance relationship for 2 years)i moved and transferred co...
A. 13 July 2012: Personally my take on this is that if you can't get your stuff back you should chalk it up to experience and move on...
My fiance has a few items from a woman he was involved with a long time ago. She wanted them back and he refused to r... (read in full...)
What does your boyfriend do when you are sick?
Q. I am curious to see what your boyfriend does when you are sick/unwell. Do they check in to see how you are? i have been off work for 5 days with the flu which is going around pretty badly where i am. I rarely take time off work (last year i pro...
A. 13 July 2012: Oh dear... has he had contact at all with you?
When I have a cold, my fiance (we live together) will make me tea and soup and make sure I take my medicine.
I had major surgery last June and he took off work and stayed with me and cared for me... (read in full...)
Is it possible to love two people at the same time?
Q. Is it possible to love two persons at the same time? actually i am in a relationship, and we love each other a lot. i never want to loose him. but few months before i met a guy. he is my classmate. we also both love each other. but we have not ...
A. 13 July 2012: I think you can.
I had at one point when I was married to my last husband and still have very loving feelings for him, very very deep feelings for my now fiance as well.
I kept wishing that I could just have both of them....
... (read in full...)
My husband of 20 years left me for a sugar girl who is 24 years his junior. Any advice?
Q. my husband of 20 years left me for a girl that is 24 years younger than him. im new to the site but could use all the help i can get. im getting better each day. i still love him very much, and unfortunatly and am still in hopes that this ...
A. 13 July 2012: I am not saying the OP should be VINDICTIVE. I think she needs a good lawyer to PROTECT her 20 years of marriage effort. I suggest a good lawyer to make sure she gets a fair settlement for being abandoned after 20 years of marriage.
IF her ... (read in full...)
Can you tell the difference between love and lust?
Q. Dear all, Is it possible to be affectionate and miss someone a lot but not love them? I'm 5 months in a relationship and have developed strong feelings but I'm not sure if its love? What's the difference and how do you know? We currently on...
A. 13 July 2012: “Is missing someone so much and wanting to hold tbem an indication?”
Not always. They may just be filling a need right now….
Again what else besides the physical are you missing about him?
... (read in full...)
Can you tell the difference between love and lust?
Q. Dear all, Is it possible to be affectionate and miss someone a lot but not love them? I'm 5 months in a relationship and have developed strong feelings but I'm not sure if its love? What's the difference and how do you know? We currently on...
A. 13 July 2012: “Is it possible to be affectionate and miss someone a lot but not love them?”
Of course… you can feel affection for someone and not love them. You can like a person and want to be close to them and miss them when they are not there but it may n... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before I turn 22 in a month's time, but I do not want my first time to be horrible.
Q. Growing up I was taught to respect women, and to never use them. As I finally turned twenty one last year I realized something very sad, that I'm the last of a kind. The 21st century dating world is very different from what I was taught to live in. ...
A. 13 July 2012: Based on your last update I can see that the problem is in your head. Usually when we can’t connect to folks it is because we are putting up walls that we don’t even realize.
5’5’ is a perfect height for a tiny girl… at 5’2” I find my 5’6” fia... (read in full...)
My husband of 20 years left me for a sugar girl who is 24 years his junior. Any advice?
Q. my husband of 20 years left me for a girl that is 24 years younger than him. im new to the site but could use all the help i can get. im getting better each day. i still love him very much, and unfortunatly and am still in hopes that this ...
A. 12 July 2012: I would get a good attorney and hit him where it hurts... his wallet.
She is with him for the money and when he does not have it she will leave...
then he will want you back and you can say NO... because by then you will realize you are ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before I turn 22 in a month's time, but I do not want my first time to be horrible.
Q. Growing up I was taught to respect women, and to never use them. As I finally turned twenty one last year I realized something very sad, that I'm the last of a kind. The 21st century dating world is very different from what I was taught to live in. ...
A. 12 July 2012: Thank you iamHereToHelpYou… very nice explanation and one I agree with…
I’ve always been supportive of teens in long term healthy relationships being sexual with each other (with parental knowledge and the proper precautions) and I was the one ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before I turn 22 in a month's time, but I do not want my first time to be horrible.
Q. Growing up I was taught to respect women, and to never use them. As I finally turned twenty one last year I realized something very sad, that I'm the last of a kind. The 21st century dating world is very different from what I was taught to live in. ...
A. 11 July 2012: I am sorry to tell you this but you are far from the last of a kind. Nice that you have such a high opinion of yourself… that will stand you well over time.
Why do you want to lose your virginity before you turn 22? Why the self-imposed time fra... (read in full...)
What started out innocent has turned into a trouble situation with a man old enough to be my father
Q. I got myself in a unhealthy situation. - Short version: I befriended a new member of the archery range I'm at. He's in his mid fifties. He assured me all he wanted was friendship. Stupid and naive as I was I accepted this. I even accepted a job o...
A. 6 July 2012: Well let me ask you a question.... what's to say some other young woman like yourself joins archery and they don't know about him and he goes after her but she's not as wise as you are and she ends up in a situation with him that she can't cope ... (read in full...)
What started out innocent has turned into a trouble situation with a man old enough to be my father
Q. I got myself in a unhealthy situation. - Short version: I befriended a new member of the archery range I'm at. He's in his mid fifties. He assured me all he wanted was friendship. Stupid and naive as I was I accepted this. I even accepted a job o...
A. 4 July 2012: Very nice email and very good!.
Now he will continue to try... you must ignore him totally from now on.
and as to the open relationship... it's what honeypie said.
he wanted to bed you...... (read in full...)
What started out innocent has turned into a trouble situation with a man old enough to be my father
Q. I got myself in a unhealthy situation. - Short version: I befriended a new member of the archery range I'm at. He's in his mid fifties. He assured me all he wanted was friendship. Stupid and naive as I was I accepted this. I even accepted a job o...
A. 3 July 2012: YOU DID GREAT! I am so very very proud of you! I wish I was as wise and strong at your age as you are... I'm glad my mistakes were able to properly guide you.
I know you hate to give up archery... and you hate confrontation...
suggestion.... (read in full...)
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