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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Am I Co-Dependent?
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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Why is my boyfriend so distant?
Q. hi everyone im in a ldr situation. and ny boyfriend is cold to me like hes always grumpy at me. and bot mood to talk, i dont know whats going on to him, whats bothering him. theres one time i ask him if he is ok? and he said hes fine! but hes bery ...
A. 19 July 2012: He's telling you just enough to string you along and keep you on the hook...
he's not that into you..
when he says your relationship needs to level up and you say "OK what do you propose to make that happen?" what happens?
if y... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before I turn 22 in a month's time, but I do not want my first time to be horrible.
Q. Growing up I was taught to respect women, and to never use them. As I finally turned twenty one last year I realized something very sad, that I'm the last of a kind. The 21st century dating world is very different from what I was taught to live in. ...
A. 14 July 2012: so you only want to date women who like tall guys.....
funny I dated a "little person" once... he was about 4 feet tall... we had fun...
you really do miss the point... your criteria is such that you need a woman who wants a self-hating ... (read in full...)
Can you tell the difference between love and lust?
Q. Dear all, Is it possible to be affectionate and miss someone a lot but not love them? I'm 5 months in a relationship and have developed strong feelings but I'm not sure if its love? What's the difference and how do you know? We currently on...
A. 13 July 2012: Person12345 is right it's different for everyone...
and you may love him.
if things are going along well, then just keep going along and it will fall into place eventually.... (read in full...)
My husband of 20 years left me for a sugar girl who is 24 years his junior. Any advice?
Q. my husband of 20 years left me for a girl that is 24 years younger than him. im new to the site but could use all the help i can get. im getting better each day. i still love him very much, and unfortunatly and am still in hopes that this ...
A. 13 July 2012: I am not saying the OP should be VINDICTIVE. I think she needs a good lawyer to PROTECT her 20 years of marriage effort. I suggest a good lawyer to make sure she gets a fair settlement for being abandoned after 20 years of marriage.
IF her ... (read in full...)
Can you tell the difference between love and lust?
Q. Dear all, Is it possible to be affectionate and miss someone a lot but not love them? I'm 5 months in a relationship and have developed strong feelings but I'm not sure if its love? What's the difference and how do you know? We currently on...
A. 13 July 2012: “Is missing someone so much and wanting to hold tbem an indication?”
Not always. They may just be filling a need right now….
Again what else besides the physical are you missing about him?
... (read in full...)
Can you tell the difference between love and lust?
Q. Dear all, Is it possible to be affectionate and miss someone a lot but not love them? I'm 5 months in a relationship and have developed strong feelings but I'm not sure if its love? What's the difference and how do you know? We currently on...
A. 13 July 2012: “Is it possible to be affectionate and miss someone a lot but not love them?”
Of course… you can feel affection for someone and not love them. You can like a person and want to be close to them and miss them when they are not there but it may n... (read in full...)
Why does my live in partner of 10 yrs. not make any attempts to have sex?
Q. Why does my live in partner of 10 yrs. not make any attempts to have sex? I always have to initiate and then it's to pleasure him as he just lays there, maybe he touches my nipples, but that's it. He does not get ontop of me and have intercourse. ...
A. 13 July 2012: I live with a man who smokes pot daily, who drinks daily, who watches porn and masturbates.. who still wants to love on me on a regular basis….
I agree with YouWish… he’s not a good partner… I would stop rowing the relationship boat and see ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before I turn 22 in a month's time, but I do not want my first time to be horrible.
Q. Growing up I was taught to respect women, and to never use them. As I finally turned twenty one last year I realized something very sad, that I'm the last of a kind. The 21st century dating world is very different from what I was taught to live in. ...
A. 13 July 2012: Based on your last update I can see that the problem is in your head. Usually when we can’t connect to folks it is because we are putting up walls that we don’t even realize.
5’5’ is a perfect height for a tiny girl… at 5’2” I find my 5’6” fia... (read in full...)
Paternity process - how long could it take?
Q. I have a question. I am a 17 year old father ( I know don't judge) and the mom is 17 as well. Her parents forced her not to let me on the birth certificate, and now are not letting me see either one of them. My question is how long will this process ...
A. 13 July 2012: Even if it's going to work out between you with the mother you need to be on the birth certificate for other reasons.
Do the DNA test no matter what.
and stop letting her parents bully you. what do your parents say?... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'm insecure. Why does it bother me so much that other guys check her out?
Q. Well, where do I start? I have been dating my fiancé for 2 ½ years. Our relationships have grown and are getting married next year. Here’s the issue (s)..when we are out and are drinking, she becomes “flirty” and “wanders”. What I mean by wa...
A. 12 July 2012: OY... fine line...
color this by my age and physical limitations....
but while the going into the men's room is a bit of a stretch... if I had to REALLY go to the point that I was going to pee myself (and women my age do that)... I would use... (read in full...)
I didn't know we had to have the same IQ to be married.
Q. What hurts me the most is I've been married to my husband for four years but together for five. We have 3 kids together and every time we fought he decided it was best to take off for days then come back and tell me it wasn't any of my business and ...
A. 12 July 2012: He's NOT good enough for YOU....
how's that.
no you don't need to have the same IQ.. oy that would so limit us.
he does not sound like a very good partner.
disappearing for days on end and then not telling what where or when?
we do... (read in full...)
Is he just being jealous and protective, or should I be worried?
Q. My boyfriend gets kinda weird when i text other guy friends. It doesn't bother me when he texts his friends that are girls. Is he just being jealous and protective or should I be worried? Thanks!...
A. 12 July 2012: jealousy is an emotion rooted in insecurity.... not love.
and what in the world do you need protecting from your friends for?
if a boy is jealous of male friends, he may have self-esteem issues, he may be insecure..
we need more info... (read in full...)
My husband would rather look at porn than initiate sex!
Q. Hi I am a mom of 3 and a working wife but I strive to do everything right in my relationship. However I have recentlyh found that my husband would rather look at porn than inniate sex. I take good care of myself and he tells me I'm beautiful so why ...
A. 12 July 2012: have you asked him why?
to be honest porn is faster and easier for men than the whole
foreplay
oral sex
intercouse
after play
wash up
make ice cream
cuddle
porn is "rub one out be down in ten minutes" kind of thing.
maybe he's ti... (read in full...)
When can we become physically intimate?
Q. So I'm just curious as of what guys/girls think. At what point in a relationship should a guy and a girl start doing physical things / sexual things? I've been In a relationship for about two months is it too early for making out. Handjobs... ect? ...
A. 12 July 2012: no rules on this one.
if you are ready and he's ready then it's time.... (read in full...)
Why does my live in partner of 10 yrs. not make any attempts to have sex?
Q. Why does my live in partner of 10 yrs. not make any attempts to have sex? I always have to initiate and then it's to pleasure him as he just lays there, maybe he touches my nipples, but that's it. He does not get ontop of me and have intercourse. ...
A. 12 July 2012: He's lazy and selfish.
stop pleasuring him
take care of yourself
and start looking for an exit route to this relationship..
as you stop trying to make it work you will see more and more things that are not working for you...
I live... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mention of my recent weight gain has lowered my self esteem. I need some advice!
Q. Recently a close family friend died and ive put on a little weight because of it. My boyfriend mention the other day that i had put on a few and when i asked him if it bothered him he swore it didnt but i think it bothers him even if he wont admit ...
A. 12 July 2012: I disagree with YouWish that it bothers him.
Were you underweight before the gain?
were you average weight or already overweight?
how much did you gain? 5 pounds? ten? 50?
these answers will help me formulate what I want to say SPECIFIC t... (read in full...)
Do I sleep with our roommate to get the excitement back with my boyfriend or just over my crush on him?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and think I've started falling for our roommate. Our relationship has always been rocky because of his ADHD and being Bipolar. He's expressed wanting to sleep with new girls just for the excitement ...
A. 12 July 2012: Honey I have ADHD... my fiance is probably bipolar (his mom is and he has wild mood swings)... sleeping with your roommate is a lousy idea....
you don't know if you will ever live "happily ever after"
life is about risks.
I can tell... (read in full...)
How do you know if you are just a hookup or a guy wants something more?
Q. How do you know if you are just a hookup or a guy wants something more? So I'm in college and from what I know about guys is if they just want a hookup, it usually after a drunk night and then the only time they want to talk to you is when you are ...
A. 12 July 2012: you don't know... you just go out and spend time and play it by ear and table sex for a while and see if he sticks around.
if you are not sleeping with him and he keeps coming back then he's probably interested.
... (read in full...)
I'm broke, unattractive, not successful, no education. What can I do?
Q. I'm young but I'm broke, unattractive, not successful, no education. Couldn't secure a scholarship to study in the top college and hence am still at my hometown. I'm unattractive with acne. I am penniless. I'm very upset with where I am now a...
A. 12 July 2012: What do you want to hear?
are you depressed? it sounds like it. It may be hormonal. it may be situational. it may be chemical or it may be a combination of all of the above.
best advice... see a medical professional, get a medi... (read in full...)
My depression is really destroying my sex life. What can I do?
Q. Sex and depression, My depression is really destroying my sex life. I love him and want to get our spark back. I am attracted to him,It just doesn't feel the same as it used to. What can I do? [MODERATOR NOTE: Please specify why you are depresse...
A. 12 July 2012: are you being medicated? that can wreck your drive...
if not, can you seek medical care and get on some medications to help with the depression?
what feels different?... (read in full...)
Why won't he help me out with household bills?
Q. i have been with the same man for 30 years we have been married for 26 years..he has never worked much.i have always been the one to work i got sick 3 year's ago and i can not work anymore..ok he started a job back in nov 2011i very glad he went to ...
A. 12 July 2012: he won't help you out now because he's never helped you out before.
are you asking for advice on what to do or just want to know why a man who is allowed to be abusive to a woman who allows herself to be abused will do so... easy because he can. ... (read in full...)
I am so heartbroken that he uses porn when we are apart, how do I cope with it?
Q. i have a hard time making real friends. i dislike people who are fake. i prefer to not have friends at all if they aren't going to be honest with who they are because if they aren't, they won't be honest with me. i only have a few people in my life ...
A. 12 July 2012: Dear Op,
I wish I had an answer for you. I wish I knew why porn did not bother me… It does not… whether we are apart or together… I find it funny that he watches it. Sometimes in bed while I’m sleeping… mostly on his computer when I’m not home... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend right to be annoyed about this, or was he wrong?
Q. Was my boyfriend right to be annoyed about this, or was he wrong ?. He was supposed to meet me at my house on Tuesday afternoon and then we were going to go to his house, but he didn't turn up. I was tempted to go round to his house anyway, but i ...
A. 12 July 2012: He was supposed to meet you at your house and he never showed up… and then he got mad at you for not being a mind reader and just showing up at his house? HE should have called you to say he was not going to make it. OR if he was too sick to do so ... (read in full...)
I am confused by my male friend
Q. Hello everyone, I am so grateful for this wonderful site and would really value your advice on a new contact I have made. I will outline my question and then maybe you well meaning folk out there can tell me if I need to be worried or not. I'm a ...
A. 12 July 2012: I think you are very right to have your guard up.\
The only contacting you at lunch time... well I do a lot of work at work.. BUT, no phone number, no details, it's been going on a while...
I would cut and run.... yes I would... he does... (read in full...)
What can I do about Mum's comments about my relationship and why do I respond this way?
Q. I have been away for two days and my boyfriend didn't meet me at the train station on my return. The train station I was getting off at was a 10 - minute drive from his house. As I was close to home, he claimed he had a headache and therefore wa...
A. 12 July 2012: If he was supposed to pick you up and he didn't and he didn't let you know in advance and just left you stranded I don't care if you live next door to the train station that's wrong.
IF he does it consistently, then there's an issue.
I gotta... (read in full...)
Paternity process - how long could it take?
Q. I have a question. I am a 17 year old father ( I know don't judge) and the mom is 17 as well. Her parents forced her not to let me on the birth certificate, and now are not letting me see either one of them. My question is how long will this process ...
A. 12 July 2012: DO it
DNA takes a few weeks it's not instantaneous like you see on TV...
once you have that then you get a lawyer and go to court and they could delay it for a long time...but that does not matter...
your daughter will not remember Xmas o... (read in full...)
My husband of 20 years left me for a sugar girl who is 24 years his junior. Any advice?
Q. my husband of 20 years left me for a girl that is 24 years younger than him. im new to the site but could use all the help i can get. im getting better each day. i still love him very much, and unfortunatly and am still in hopes that this ...
A. 12 July 2012: I would get a good attorney and hit him where it hurts... his wallet.
She is with him for the money and when he does not have it she will leave...
then he will want you back and you can say NO... because by then you will realize you are ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to get rid of excess fat in "private area"?
Q. Hi, I am 34 year old woman, not too fat but not too skinny either. Recently I embarked on a weight loss program and I've lost some by eating better and consistent exercise. The thing is...and I am horridly embarrassed to say this, is that...
A. 12 July 2012: yeah liposuction.
it's actually called a "fat pad" it's the Cushion you need for the pushin...... (read in full...)
Should I move in with my b/f to ease family's fiancial burden?
Q. Hello all, I'm having a bit of a dispute here within myself and my family. My parents are very loving and caring people and I know they would do anything for me, but my mom is sick and the company my dad works for is slowly on the decline. My older ...
A. 12 July 2012: Dear OP,
I didn’t expect you to type it out but I’m very very VERY glad you ran the numbers and can see that your plan while good is a bit premature…. I make a very very good living.. I own my own home and I’m always worried about money… and to... (read in full...)
The guy I broke up with is threatening to harm himself if I don't give him a second chance. What can I do?
Q. I broke up with a guy who didn't treat me right. But when I refused I give him a second chance, he threatened to commit suicide. This is worrying me. I told him we could be friends but he did not want to. And he just went from blaming himself and ...
A. 12 July 2012: What everyone else said.. he’s bluffing. He’ trying to manipulate you and blackmail you emotionally.
Call his bluff… This is NOT your fault… DO NOT feel guilty.
If you think he is really a danger to himself are there authorities you can repo... (read in full...)
I've moved to be with my boyfriend and now I'm depressed thinking I've made a big mistake...help!
Q. Please help! Feel like i'm losing it all :( I will try and make this short. Been together with my boyfriend 11 years we have had our ups and downs. We are compatible for the most part and sex is not an issue. But I have put up with a lot and have...
A. 12 July 2012: “but I guess because I was not producing enough to contribute I was not deserving.”
Oh this sticks out to me like a big huge elephant in the room.
He told you to move to be with him… therefore he needed to be prepared in this economy that wor... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'm insecure. Why does it bother me so much that other guys check her out?
Q. Well, where do I start? I have been dating my fiancé for 2 ½ years. Our relationships have grown and are getting married next year. Here’s the issue (s)..when we are out and are drinking, she becomes “flirty” and “wanders”. What I mean by wa...
A. 12 July 2012: I live with an active alcoholic. He’s very functional. He holds down a job and shows up for work as needed. He can go a day or two without a drink… he doesn’t get drunk every night.. he doesn’t even get drunk every week… but he’s an alcoholic ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend so distant?
Q. hi everyone im in a ldr situation. and ny boyfriend is cold to me like hes always grumpy at me. and bot mood to talk, i dont know whats going on to him, whats bothering him. theres one time i ask him if he is ok? and he said hes fine! but hes bery ...
A. 12 July 2012: Ok it’s an LDR… how often do you see each other?
It’s also an age gap as you are 22 and he is 34… that’s a big difference (although 34 and 46 is not as big….. it’s about the place you are in life that is the issue)
He says he is confused abou... (read in full...)
I understand he wont leave his girlfriend but I can't not have him around!
Q. Confused by his behaviour My story is concerning someone I knew years ago who I had a short fling with. We then went our separate ways for about 15 years and then found each other on facebook again 3 years ago. To start with it was great to ...
A. 12 July 2012: he wants you when he wants you because it adds excitement.
if he didn't love her and want to be with her he would leave.
folks stay in relationships for their own reasons. I stay with my broken man out of love and obligation...
... (read in full...)
I'm thinking about moving there to be with him, is it possible with this age gap?
Q. Hi.. First thing excuses for my English. I will try to explain myself the best I can. I been separated for one year and a half. We didnt divorced yet. I live alone and have my own/independent life so I started to meet people here and there. ...
A. 12 July 2012: Your English is FINE…. My fiancé is 13 years younger than I am and older than you are he is 39 to my 52…. My only concern for you with such a young man is if he wants children later on what will you two do?
IF the ONLY reason you are not doin... (read in full...)
My peers pick on me for not dating in my age group, but I'm only attracted to older men/
Q. So I'm seventeen(Will be eighteen in a few months) and I am not at all attracted to guys my age. I only have crushes on men thirty and older. I have accepted this by now whether it because I have "daddy issues" as someone once told me or not. The ...
A. 12 July 2012: at 17 you should NOT be dating men who are 30 or even 25...
to be honest if MEN that age want to date a girl of 17/18 they have maturity issues that need to be addressed.
I have no problem with adults dating older partners.
TEENS are not a... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before I turn 22 in a month's time, but I do not want my first time to be horrible.
Q. Growing up I was taught to respect women, and to never use them. As I finally turned twenty one last year I realized something very sad, that I'm the last of a kind. The 21st century dating world is very different from what I was taught to live in. ...
A. 12 July 2012: Thank you iamHereToHelpYou… very nice explanation and one I agree with…
I’ve always been supportive of teens in long term healthy relationships being sexual with each other (with parental knowledge and the proper precautions) and I was the one ... (read in full...)
Havent heard from my guy for a week
Q. I have been seeing this guy for 5 months.He had been a lot more smitten than before last month.He spent almost every night at my place.However,we had a fight over some stupid things he did when he was drunk.Our last talk was on the phone,he went ...
A. 12 July 2012: I would end it. Not much to end to be honest… the next time he contacts you just say “I really don’t’ have the time for this” and end it. What you are saying is you don’t have the time for his game playing… he’s just not that into you.... (read in full...)
After 1 date he decided he didn't want to see me anymore
Q. what do you think of such a person? I recently met a man who acted as if he was very much interested in me. He gave me so much attention, I was the centre of his world and he firmly believed that I was the right person for him. We talked a lot, he ...
A. 12 July 2012: Ah, yes your update helps… the ONLY thing he was interested in sweetie was getting laid.
... (read in full...)
Why do women insist on pursuing a man knowing that he's in a relationship?
Q. This question is primarily for females. Why is it when u meet someone new or connect with someone from ur past and one of u are in a relationship with someone else, WHY DO WOMEN PERSIST ON SEDUCING THE PERSON KNOWING THEIR IN A RELATIONSHIP? Is it ...
A. 11 July 2012: "So daily she works her ass off treating him like a king hoping its enough to tell him he has everything he needs here. Wow. So the day it gets tiring, the day its dull, the day another woman comes along to seduce him, he'll be taken like a thief in ... (read in full...)
After 1 date he decided he didn't want to see me anymore
Q. what do you think of such a person? I recently met a man who acted as if he was very much interested in me. He gave me so much attention, I was the centre of his world and he firmly believed that I was the right person for him. We talked a lot, he ...
A. 11 July 2012: He thought it might work... you had that first date and thankfully for both of you he knew that the chemistry was not right.
this is part of the problem with meeting folks online (and then dragging out the meeting in person part)... sometime... (read in full...)
Should I date this man? I'm afraid he'll compare me to his ex
Q. Hi everyone, thank you in advance for anyone taking the time to read my problem and giving me advice. I went on internet dating, I asked for men 40-50 but the sites sent email from me to everyone. A guy of 56 contacted me. I talked to him, ...
A. 11 July 2012: IF your son is going to university in September why aren't you job hunting now?
I'm a mom of a disabled child.. he can't go to UNI... or even work.. he lives in a group home and works in a sheltered workshop... but as a child he was in school a... (read in full...)
Should I move in with my b/f to ease family's fiancial burden?
Q. Hello all, I'm having a bit of a dispute here within myself and my family. My parents are very loving and caring people and I know they would do anything for me, but my mom is sick and the company my dad works for is slowly on the decline. My older ...
A. 11 July 2012: Your sister is right.. she moved out at 15 and she KNOWS from experience that this is a bad idea.
Let me ask you some questions that you need to answer (for yourself if not to us to prove to us that you know what you are doing)
THERE are some fol... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before I turn 22 in a month's time, but I do not want my first time to be horrible.
Q. Growing up I was taught to respect women, and to never use them. As I finally turned twenty one last year I realized something very sad, that I'm the last of a kind. The 21st century dating world is very different from what I was taught to live in. ...
A. 11 July 2012: I am sorry to tell you this but you are far from the last of a kind. Nice that you have such a high opinion of yourself… that will stand you well over time.
Why do you want to lose your virginity before you turn 22? Why the self-imposed time fra... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity?
Q. I'm a 17 yr old virgin buh i masturbated a week ago nd i fingered mysef with 2 fingers,do you think i've lost it?...
A. 11 July 2012: Lost what?
your hymen... yes...
your virginity.... no...
... (read in full...)
Why do women insist on pursuing a man knowing that he's in a relationship?
Q. This question is primarily for females. Why is it when u meet someone new or connect with someone from ur past and one of u are in a relationship with someone else, WHY DO WOMEN PERSIST ON SEDUCING THE PERSON KNOWING THEIR IN A RELATIONSHIP? Is it ...
A. 11 July 2012: Wow FA’s post makes me wonder if I’m just too good for my own good.. I’ve never considered that folks would do things as a power play like that… Oh wait.. that’s why I give my younger man blow jobs… it’s about the power….. but that’s a different ... (read in full...)
Havent heard from my guy for a week
Q. I have been seeing this guy for 5 months.He had been a lot more smitten than before last month.He spent almost every night at my place.However,we had a fight over some stupid things he did when he was drunk.Our last talk was on the phone,he went ...
A. 6 July 2012: When did he go to spend ten days with them and when did he return?
If he returned before july 4th then I think you may want to consider that it’s over and done and text him for some closure… if he was away through the holiday hold off a few more... (read in full...)
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