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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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I'm confused about a guy abroad...
Q. i have known this guy who is a year younger than me through an online chat site. He's not in the same country as me but we've talked and all for more than a couple of years now. Ive been in a relationship with someone from my own country during this ...
A. 15 August 2012: Oh sweetie, I’m so glad you will be ok… You feel betrayed. You feel stupid. I know those feelings. Hugs to you… it will be better… I promise that.
You have my permission and encouragement to spend the next 6 weeks, crying and feeling sorr... (read in full...)
Why do women insist on pursuing a man knowing that he's in a relationship?
Q. This question is primarily for females. Why is it when u meet someone new or connect with someone from ur past and one of u are in a relationship with someone else, WHY DO WOMEN PERSIST ON SEDUCING THE PERSON KNOWING THEIR IN A RELATIONSHIP? Is it ...
A. 11 July 2012: "So daily she works her ass off treating him like a king hoping its enough to tell him he has everything he needs here. Wow. So the day it gets tiring, the day its dull, the day another woman comes along to seduce him, he'll be taken like a thief in ... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity?
Q. I'm a 17 yr old virgin buh i masturbated a week ago nd i fingered mysef with 2 fingers,do you think i've lost it?...
A. 11 July 2012: Lost what?
your hymen... yes...
your virginity.... no...
... (read in full...)
Will I ever be able to forget what he's done to me?
Q. My boyfriend has beat me more than a couple times before and hasn't in a period of time and has told me he wouldn't ever again but I am scared of him im scared a lot of the time and if he gets really mad at me he threatens to choke me or beat me but ...
A. 11 July 2012: The first thing you MUST do is end the relationship.
You are a statistic waiting to happen...
http://www.domesticpeace.com/ed_nationalstats.html
just a few pieces from the above page:
•Anywhere from 1-3 million women are battered each ... (read in full...)
If the scar on my thigh going to turn guys off when I start having sex?
Q. When I was little I was bitten by a donkey, and I have this massive scar on my thigh. I worry that when I finally have sex, men will be repulsed by the scar. Should I try and hide it with make-up or something??? ...
A. 11 July 2012: NO sweetie.. not at all.
get a copy of the movie Working girl... there's a scene in it where Melanie Griffin is in bed with Harrison Ford and she is asking him about how he got that famous scar on his chin (he got it before he became an actor)..... (read in full...)
Why do women insist on pursuing a man knowing that he's in a relationship?
Q. This question is primarily for females. Why is it when u meet someone new or connect with someone from ur past and one of u are in a relationship with someone else, WHY DO WOMEN PERSIST ON SEDUCING THE PERSON KNOWING THEIR IN A RELATIONSHIP? Is it ...
A. 11 July 2012: Wow FA’s post makes me wonder if I’m just too good for my own good.. I’ve never considered that folks would do things as a power play like that… Oh wait.. that’s why I give my younger man blow jobs… it’s about the power….. but that’s a different ... (read in full...)
It's hard to be half a planet away from somebody, especially when you're aching to be in their arms.
Q. After talking for 6 months to the same man online, admittedly "love" eachother and talking almost daily when given the chance I'm still confused. Maybe it's because I've never been in a LDR. This is easier than it should be but also more difficult. ...
A. 11 July 2012: OP, I know you are not going to listen to what I am going to say nor are you going to like it but I have to address this as a person who has done LDRS with folks farther away than driving distance and who has successfully navigated and ended an LDR ... (read in full...)
What are some of your ideas/experiences with having sex outdoors?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are in a extremely happy relationship. We have been together for 5 years and I am planning to spend the rest of my life with him (cheesy I know!) We have had sex before however we want to know places outside were we could do it. ...
A. 10 July 2012: after one outdoor sexual experience my then boyfriend's new nickname for me was "twig ass"
nuff said.... (read in full...)
Is it acceptable to ask certain family and friends to give us a wedding service as a gift instead of cash?
Q. Both my fiance and I have larger than comfortable families and quite a few mutual, and otherwise, friends. However, we have a VERY tight budget (strictly $3000 here; plus or minus a couple hundred). We don't want to compromise our guest list even ...
A. 10 July 2012: NO it's tacky and rude to ask folks to pay for wedding services.
IF they OFFER that's different.
you have to scale your plans back. Or take out a loan (not that I recommend that)
3000 is a very VERY small budget for a wedding now ada... (read in full...)
Either I pretend I enjoyed sex when I didn't or he accuses me of being loose
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and was a virgin before meeting my boyfriend. Because I was a virgin, I was hesitant to have sex with him and when we finally did, I felt nothing,besides the initial pain even though he couldn't stop telling me how much he enjoyed ...
A. 10 July 2012: He's got some serious sexual issues.
1. he doesn't give you oral because he thinks it makes him less of a man. He thinks wrong.
2. he wont' discuss your sex life with you and it directly affects him.
3. he is telling YOU what YOU can ... (read in full...)
I met this girl online, we were chatting every night and out of the blue she stopped showing up on skype and even stood me up when I went to visit her!
Q. About 6 months ago I met a girl online, She lives in Spain and I in Norway. We really hit it off, we have been seeing eachother for about 2-4 hours on skype every night, and eventually we start text other during the whole days also. She also decided ...
A. 10 July 2012: I have not heard of this
have you tried to contact her?... (read in full...)
How can I convince him we shouldnt have a 'break'?
Q. Okay, so I have been with this guy for six months, and I love him to absolute pieces. We haven't only been a couple, we have been best friends, and he has been like a brother to me and I have been like a sister to him. we have the most incredible ...
A. 10 July 2012: You can't make someone love you or want to be with you.
"we need a break" is often the precursor to "we need to break up forever"
even if you are together when he goes out he probably eventually will find someone else and so will you... (read in full...)
Is he nervous or does he not find me attractive?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 4 years (I was 14 when we got together and he was 15). When we first got together we didn't even discuss sex and just kept with kissing and fooling around. Once we had been together a year we decided ...
A. 10 July 2012: of course he finds you attractive...
do not have sex in a car... it's not conducive to a good experience.
rent a hotel room if you don't have the privacy at home you need....... (read in full...)
Our parents don't know about each other yet, what excuse can we use for him to come and visit me?
Q. I finally got a good boyfriend but the problem is he lives 1 state away. We need an excuse for him to come down when he gets his licence to be with me on the weekends and a place to stay. Our parents dont know about us yet so it kind of complicated...
A. 10 July 2012: why would you need an excuse?
why is it complicated?
why are you keeping it from your parents?
at 16/17 most kids are dating and permitted to date
if you have a guest room he could stay there... would it be different if he was a gi... (read in full...)
Should all men last an hour in bed?
Q. My friends all think a guy should last an hour in bed, but my bf and i dont. We were both virgins and lost it to one another, and we are still getting use to it so therefore he cums quickly. Do you have any proof that this is a normal thing, and my ...
A. 10 July 2012: Last an hour as in an hour of thrusting during intercourse?
0h hell no!
that would be boring and hurt after a while.. ugh...
I've never had a man last that long... not with just thrusting or a blow job...
now the entire sessi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't understand how bad my problems are?
Q. I have a huge amount of family issues going on. My boyfriend knows this, but somehow it doesnt seem to effect him and he goes on with his own life. This is making me really angry, because everytime I really need to confide something in him...
A. 10 July 2012: Men are fixers.. the don't understand that women need to vent about things and don't expect them to fix it... just listen...
he may not ask because he has no way to fix the problems so for him it's better to leave it alone.
have you told... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm a freak because I used a male escort once. What do you think?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months now, things are going great and he's showing signs that he's about to pop the question, which I'm very excited about as I love him so much. Oh my God that sounds soooo girly and I'm not a girly girl at ...
A. 10 July 2012: I'm very open sexually and it never occurred to me to hire a male escort (of course in my state even escorts are illegal)
my parter was a huge user of escorts before we met... and that was his past and I don't care.
I was a swinger and that... (read in full...)
I met this girl online, we were chatting every night and out of the blue she stopped showing up on skype and even stood me up when I went to visit her!
Q. About 6 months ago I met a girl online, She lives in Spain and I in Norway. We really hit it off, we have been seeing eachother for about 2-4 hours on skype every night, and eventually we start text other during the whole days also. She also decided ...
A. 10 July 2012: Is it possible something happened to her? have you verified that she just disappeared and is actually alright?
she stopped texting and showing up on skype at all...
no clue that anything was wrong?
before we go further... verif... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a fetish for plus size women, and I am thin. He has profiles on multiple dating sights for men with fat fetishes. I need some advice please!
Q. Ok so my bf of nearly 4 years have been on and off for a few months as he keeps messaging other girls and lying to me. He blames this on the fact that I am a 'control freak' by which he means I don't care for him getting drunk and trying to buy ...
A. 10 July 2012: It's not about the weight... truly although you don't understand how men find fat women attractive...as a formerly fat chick I can tell you there are many men out there that for many reasons want heavy women.
The issue for you as I see it is you f... (read in full...)
How do I get this new man in my life to open up to me?
Q. My question is how do I get my bf to open his life to me? We have been dating almost 2 months and we have mutually agreed to only date eachother, we are sexually active and he pretty much drives to see me 6 out 7 days of the week. He lives an hour ...
A. 10 July 2012: HUGE RED FLAGS….
If his mom is not doing well with his dad’s death and he’s helping her along why is he with you 6 or 7 days a week? Does he spend the night or just come over for dinner and sex???
HE CLAIMS… this tells me you don’t trust ... (read in full...)
should I just bite the bullet and tell my parents that I’m gay
Q. A few months ago I took a huge step by telling one of my friends that I’m gay. She was the first person I told. The risk paid off as she confessed that she was also gay, which I had previously suspected, and we talked about it. I recently had my ...
A. 10 July 2012: Coming out to your parents is so hard. My brother who knew he was gay by the time he was 14 told me... I kept that secret for him for 4 more years and then he told mom...
we waited a few more years to tell dad... who now is fine with it. My brot... (read in full...)
It's hard to be half a planet away from somebody, especially when you're aching to be in their arms.
Q. After talking for 6 months to the same man online, admittedly "love" eachother and talking almost daily when given the chance I'm still confused. Maybe it's because I've never been in a LDR. This is easier than it should be but also more difficult. ...
A. 10 July 2012: Both Bernard and Bond Girl make very valid points….
Not sure what else I can add…
You have talked to this “man” online for 6 months. LDRs are easy when it’s all just fun and games… but once you meet and know you click and want to be together... (read in full...)
I really like him,, but I'm, not sure how he feels about me.
Q. so me and this guy have been seeing each other for a while, but we fall out now and then. today i see him because all of our friends meet up - he doesn't look at me, doesn't really talk to me. i ask him why, he said because i haven't spoke to him i...
A. 10 July 2012: my father has been with his partner for 16 years and he still slips occasionally and calls her by my mother's name...
I call my kids by each other's name... and the kids get confused and sometimes call me by their stepmom's name and call her mom.... (read in full...)
Is he Sweet or Creepy? One date and he objects to the online dating profile still online?
Q. I had one great date with a guy I met on an online dating site. He texts me everyday / a few times a day and asked me for a second date. We've been in contact now about a week and a half. However - one thing is troubling me! He saw me "online" ...
A. 10 July 2012: He sounds anxious and a bit insecure.
I'm not sure i would label him as controlling.
... (read in full...)
Will I always be crushing on someone no matter how much I love my boyfriend?
Q. Hey peoples. So I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend, I love him to bits. However, I find myself attracted to my other guy friends and I think I'm developing crushes. Just out of curiosity does this happen to anyone else besides me? Will ...
A. 10 July 2012: I have been madly in love with my partner and had crushes.
It's not the crush that matters... it's what you do with it... NOTHING...
sometimes if it's a mad crazy crush the best way to diffuse it is to tell the crush and your partner a... (read in full...)
Should I confess to my boyfriend that I got drunk and kissed another guy?
Q. Me and my best friend (girl) went away camping for the weekend. On saturday we met some guys who took our numbers and invited us over to their camp site for the evening, so we got there and just hung out. They offered us beers and I took one, then ...
A. 10 July 2012: Congrats OP on being adult and brave....
now work hard to earn his trust back... be aware it takes a long time and he will be a bit shaky about it for a long while...
... (read in full...)
Either I pretend I enjoyed sex when I didn't or he accuses me of being loose
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and was a virgin before meeting my boyfriend. Because I was a virgin, I was hesitant to have sex with him and when we finally did, I felt nothing,besides the initial pain even though he couldn't stop telling me how much he enjoyed ...
A. 10 July 2012: 1. Stop faking orgasms. IF you can bring yourself to orgasm, that’s great… and involve him in it if needed. Most women do not orgasm from penetration. I do not. My partner is on the small side of average and it works for us.. we have a limited ... (read in full...)
How do you stand the pain of separation in an LDR?
Q. So my boyfriend is going to the east coast to finish up his schooling and I'm staying on the west coast because he's a school year older than I am. We are going to do the long distance thing for sure. But I'm just wondering, how do you stand the ...
A. 10 July 2012: LDRs SUCK. It can be done short term.
You have a lot going against you for this to work
1. You are both young and at a point in your life where many new experiences and people will be coloring what you do.
2. The distance is very gre... (read in full...)
I'm confused about a guy abroad...
Q. i have known this guy who is a year younger than me through an online chat site. He's not in the same country as me but we've talked and all for more than a couple of years now. Ive been in a relationship with someone from my own country during this ...
A. 10 July 2012: Dear Angel90,
I realize that it’s hard to hear the truth… and I realize that kinder responses get better ratings and are received better… but to be honest I think of support much like an underwire bra… not always comfortable but often needed… ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure who my baby's father is.
Q. I am 20 years old and just had my first child. She was born March 27 2012 . Problem is is I don't know who her father is. I had sex May 30 2011 with my ex boyfriend e and on June 29 2011 with my current boyfriend. I remember the doctors giving me an ...
A. 10 July 2012: have a DNA test for peace of mind but I agree it's probably the current BF...... (read in full...)
If things are going great in a relationship, what is a reasonable amount of time to expect a marriage proposal?
Q. If things are going great in a relationship, what is a reasonable amount of time to expect a marriage proposal? We are both in mid thirties, been together going on 2 years. When is it time to walk away in search of finding someone who will wanna get ...
A. 10 July 2012: For me, I knew long before 2 years that I wanted to marry someone (granted my track record is not great)
I agree that discussing long term plans and goals (i.e. I want to get married one day in general) is a good idea early in a relation... (read in full...)
I'm confused about a guy abroad...
Q. i have known this guy who is a year younger than me through an online chat site. He's not in the same country as me but we've talked and all for more than a couple of years now. Ive been in a relationship with someone from my own country during this ...
A. 9 July 2012: Just because HE means more to YOU than a person you’ve never met…
Just because YOU think it’s a real relationship does not make it so.
How do you know he gets hurt if you don’t call him? Oh he tells you? And that carries so much weight… ... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend's engaged brother
Q. I don't know what to do. I am in love with my best friends brother and he likes me too. He has a fiance and a 2 year old son. I have felt like this about him since 3rd grade and i am going to be a senior. He has felt this way about me for the same ...
A. 9 July 2012: Ok he's not lying to YOU he's lying to her... does that make it better?
He's still capable of lying to someone he supposedly cares deeply about (the mother of his baby that he's ENGAGED to is of the belief that he loves her and wants to build a ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to give my blowjobs again?
Q. Dear Cupid... I am 26 years old and I have been with my girlfriend or should I now say "fiancée" for almost 2 years and a half now. I can remember back when we started "hanging out", there was so much passion (to say the least) in the bedroom. ...
A. 9 July 2012: "Is it because I stopped giving you oral sex?",
did you stop giving her oral sex?
why?
is it possible it's the same reason?
you both are unemployed and depressed... who wants to have sex then?
have you asked her "what can we do ... (read in full...)
I can't accept his daughter!
Q. Dear Cupid I am 24 and my boyfriend is 36. We have been together for going on 3 years. We have a great realationship and I love him so much but there's one thing mentally and emotionally holds me back for him, he has a daughter. She is 14 years ...
A. 9 July 2012: I agree with Aidan, your BF and his daughter are a package deal.
14 is a lousy age in general as I'm sure you remember it... I'm 52 and I remember hating being 14....
WHAT about the relationship bothers you?
Is he inappropriate with he... (read in full...)
Would it be odd to want to be "friends with benefits" with my ex?
Q. Would it be odd to want to be "friends with benefits" with my ex? Back when we were dating I asked him if it was okay for us to become "friends with Benefits" if we were ever to break up and he said yes. It's a been a few months now since our break ...
A. 9 July 2012: I did a FWB with an ex once... it worked for us... we never really took a break just realized the relationship was not going to work and moved from trying to be bf/gf to seeing each other on thursday nights for dinner and sex (and then eventually ... (read in full...)
Why does he want to keep sabotaging my healthy lifestyle?
Q. I am trying to lose weight. I am not huge at all, but I am too big for my frame and would feel more confident if I lost weight. I also can’t eat a lot of sugary things as they make me feel ill and give me bad skin. My boyfriend knows this, ...
A. 9 July 2012: Just because he brings them home does not mean you have to eat them. You could have my problem. I want to lose 10 pounds but my fiance likes me at the weight I'm at. HE FEEDS ME IN MY SLEEP.... the other night he woke me at 3 am to eat bacon... ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about a guy abroad...
Q. i have known this guy who is a year younger than me through an online chat site. He's not in the same country as me but we've talked and all for more than a couple of years now. Ive been in a relationship with someone from my own country during this ...
A. 9 July 2012: This is NOT a relationship.. this is you trying to build a relationship out of some bits and bytes of a computer screen...
STOP rowing your relationship boat with this man. Don't call.... get on with your life... make it a game to see how long... (read in full...)
His ex can do no wrong, and me and our baby are stuck in the one room with AC while I' get continually criticized!
Q. I have been needing some outside advice about this situation for some time. This is a bit long, so thank you for bearing with me. My husband and I have been married for 2 years, and we have a 6 month old daughter together. The main problem...
A. 9 July 2012: GO HOME!
Babies don't eat when they aren't hungry
she's moved stuff to the side of the house she has no claim to?
he says he can't sell as she will be kicked out? why is this his problem.
He's too entwined with her and he's not ratio... (read in full...)
Should I take them to court over this and see my daughter if she's mine
Q. Well I'm a young father 17 years old (please don't judge) recently my baby's mom and I had a very bad break up. Things were said on both sides that shouldn't have been, but now she is keeping my child away from me. I was not allowed on the Birth ...
A. 9 July 2012: Thinking of the long term... if you want to be a part of her life forever and she's yours, then by all means with your parents support and help (after all it's Their grandchild) I would get the testing done and get court ordered paternity and then ... (read in full...)
I feel I'm putting in all the effort in our relationship... how can I get him to step up?
Q. I met my boyfriend at university and this is the first summer that we're apart. I am always trying to talk to him, asking how he is, initiating the conversations and he never gives me anything back. So I left it and thought I'd let him talk...
A. 9 July 2012: If you are the only one making an effort, then it’s not a fair relationship. For some folks “out of sight is out of mind” while for others “absence makes the heart grow fonder” works. In your boyfriend’s case it appears to be the former.
You h... (read in full...)
Why do couples brag about their relationship?
Q. I have a question that is more general: how do you relate to couples that, you know, are so fond of each other that they can't stop bickering, and saying "I love you" every 30 seconds, making in-jokes that no one understands, and going on about how ...
A. 9 July 2012: IF I had couple friends like that, I'd not spend time with them...
I love "get a room"..... occasionally we will be kind of cute that way (I'll sit on his lap or something)and folks will say "get a room" and we say "we have one thanks" ... (read in full...)
I think I'm bi-sexual but I'm not sure what to do
Q. Ever since I was little I've always liked boys but there's also something that has made me admire some women more than normal. When I was 6-7 there was a female teacher that I really admired (though at that age I doubt it meant anything) but there ...
A. 9 July 2012: You are bi-curious… you may be bi-sexual but until you have an experience with another girl you won’t know.
I am bisexual. I prefer men to women but I enjoy sex with women too…. I have opted to be monogamous with a man at this point in my life ... (read in full...)
Should I confess to my boyfriend that I got drunk and kissed another guy?
Q. Me and my best friend (girl) went away camping for the weekend. On saturday we met some guys who took our numbers and invited us over to their camp site for the evening, so we got there and just hung out. They offered us beers and I took one, then ...
A. 9 July 2012: you've already been told all the important things
15 yr old girls should not be alone camping
15 yr old girls should NOT be drinking
and you need to be totally honest with him.
it's going to be hard and it's going to hurt and if he leav... (read in full...)
His ex can do no wrong, and me and our baby are stuck in the one room with AC while I' get continually criticized!
Q. I have been needing some outside advice about this situation for some time. This is a bit long, so thank you for bearing with me. My husband and I have been married for 2 years, and we have a 6 month old daughter together. The main problem...
A. 9 July 2012: Babies should not have their intake limited.
IF he is trying to limit what you feed the baby he's being abusive.
I personally think he's still very hung up on her...
would you possibly consider leaving him? do you have family or frie... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend's engaged brother
Q. I don't know what to do. I am in love with my best friends brother and he likes me too. He has a fiance and a 2 year old son. I have felt like this about him since 3rd grade and i am going to be a senior. He has felt this way about me for the same ...
A. 9 July 2012: You have a crush. He is engaged with a two year old. How old is he? You’ve had a crush on him since you were what about 8 or 9?
You say he’s felt this way about you too… so let’s say you were 9 when you got this crush on him and he was g... (read in full...)
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