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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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Havent heard from my guy for a week
Q. I have been seeing this guy for 5 months.He had been a lot more smitten than before last month.He spent almost every night at my place.However,we had a fight over some stupid things he did when he was drunk.Our last talk was on the phone,he went ...
A. 12 July 2012: I would end it. Not much to end to be honest… the next time he contacts you just say “I really don’t’ have the time for this” and end it. What you are saying is you don’t have the time for his game playing… he’s just not that into you.... (read in full...)
Should I confess to my boyfriend that I got drunk and kissed another guy?
Q. Me and my best friend (girl) went away camping for the weekend. On saturday we met some guys who took our numbers and invited us over to their camp site for the evening, so we got there and just hung out. They offered us beers and I took one, then ...
A. 10 July 2012: Congrats OP on being adult and brave....
now work hard to earn his trust back... be aware it takes a long time and he will be a bit shaky about it for a long while...
... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend's engaged brother
Q. I don't know what to do. I am in love with my best friends brother and he likes me too. He has a fiance and a 2 year old son. I have felt like this about him since 3rd grade and i am going to be a senior. He has felt this way about me for the same ...
A. 9 July 2012: Ok he's not lying to YOU he's lying to her... does that make it better?
He's still capable of lying to someone he supposedly cares deeply about (the mother of his baby that he's ENGAGED to is of the belief that he loves her and wants to build a ... (read in full...)
His ex can do no wrong, and me and our baby are stuck in the one room with AC while I' get continually criticized!
Q. I have been needing some outside advice about this situation for some time. This is a bit long, so thank you for bearing with me. My husband and I have been married for 2 years, and we have a 6 month old daughter together. The main problem...
A. 9 July 2012: GO HOME!
Babies don't eat when they aren't hungry
she's moved stuff to the side of the house she has no claim to?
he says he can't sell as she will be kicked out? why is this his problem.
He's too entwined with her and he's not ratio... (read in full...)
I think I'm bi-sexual but I'm not sure what to do
Q. Ever since I was little I've always liked boys but there's also something that has made me admire some women more than normal. When I was 6-7 there was a female teacher that I really admired (though at that age I doubt it meant anything) but there ...
A. 9 July 2012: You are bi-curious… you may be bi-sexual but until you have an experience with another girl you won’t know.
I am bisexual. I prefer men to women but I enjoy sex with women too…. I have opted to be monogamous with a man at this point in my life ... (read in full...)
Is it true that girls my age are more attracted to guys who know how to drive and own a car?
Q. Recently I've felt pressured into learning to drive. Here in the UK you can learn at 17 and im currently 19. Quite a few of my friends can drive but I've never got round to learning, most of the places I go to in my spare time are local or I can ...
A. 9 July 2012: I'm going to agree it has to do with where you live.
my son lived in Philadelphia for 5 years for school and had no license and no car and he did fine as they have good public transportation.
Once he moved back home to Baltimore he nee... (read in full...)
I'm pretty much a walking hormone and masturbate daily! Is it normal?
Q. I'm 19 this year, never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never had sex, nothing. And most of you will understand that at this age, I'm pretty much a walking hormone. I'm gonna be honest and say that I'm horny 70-80% of the time and have a lot of ...
A. 9 July 2012: I used to at a younger age do it twice a day....
even at 52 in an active relationship I can still manage to masturbate three or 4 times a week....
you sound normal to me as long as your daily life (work, school, friends, exercise etc) is not... (read in full...)
Why would my mother in law turn on me?
Q. I have been dating this guy for 6 years we live together for 5 years, we just got married cause I was pregnant with our son he's 9 months old now. My mother in law was always cool with me and I liked her a lot, she always stays out of our busi...
A. 9 July 2012: Your husband needs your "OK" to put his mom in her place?
give it to him.
this is between him and her.... and until he stands up to her and tells her to back off she will bully him.
there's a line in a famous song and it says about m... (read in full...)
Should I confess to my boyfriend that I got drunk and kissed another guy?
Q. Me and my best friend (girl) went away camping for the weekend. On saturday we met some guys who took our numbers and invited us over to their camp site for the evening, so we got there and just hung out. They offered us beers and I took one, then ...
A. 9 July 2012: you've already been told all the important things
15 yr old girls should not be alone camping
15 yr old girls should NOT be drinking
and you need to be totally honest with him.
it's going to be hard and it's going to hurt and if he leav... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hasn't contacted me in three days
Q. Dear Cupid My bf usually never calls. i am the one who always initiates the call. lately he is often hanging up the call saying he is busy when i call him. I got pissed off and told him i wont call him anymore unless he calls me, Its been ...
A. 9 July 2012: He’s not a very good boyfriend if when you stop rowing the relationship boat (you did this when you didn’t call him) he does not pick up and start rowing it…
In other words, all this time he’s been sitting in the back of the rowboat with you... (read in full...)
Did showing and explaining sex safety precautions really reassure her or just add more pressure?
Q. So I was just wondering if y'all though I did the right thing. Me and my gal have been getting closer and closer every time we are together. We do not have sex but we do fool around a bit, she lets me go farther with her than she lets herself go ...
A. 9 July 2012: It was a very thoughtful thing.
If you two have discussed it (and it appears you have) then it makes sense.
Personally if she's that afraid of getting pregnant, she should go to the health clinic and discuss going on Birth Control Pills (s... (read in full...)
His ex can do no wrong, and me and our baby are stuck in the one room with AC while I' get continually criticized!
Q. I have been needing some outside advice about this situation for some time. This is a bit long, so thank you for bearing with me. My husband and I have been married for 2 years, and we have a 6 month old daughter together. The main problem...
A. 9 July 2012: Babies should not have their intake limited.
IF he is trying to limit what you feed the baby he's being abusive.
I personally think he's still very hung up on her...
would you possibly consider leaving him? do you have family or frie... (read in full...)
Besides condoms are there any other precautions we can take to avoid pregnancy?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months now and I would really like to take my relationship to the next level and have sex with him. I am not on any form of birth control, we have a condom. but is that enough? I'm scared something...
A. 9 July 2012: I would recommend Birth Control Pills, or an implant of some sort.
In other words, a hormonal way to stop ovulation so that without an egg to fertilize, pregnancy can't happen....
Condoms IMO are not so much about Birth Control (although th... (read in full...)
My girlfriend acts like my mum!
Q. anyones gf act like your mum? LOL strange question i know, but at times my gf does this, just wana know if anyone else out there experience same thing, and what is the meaning behind it etc, is it a bad or good thing? is it psychological for women ...
A. 9 July 2012: How does she act like your mum?
it might be a good thing if it's nurturing and supportive
it might be a bad thing if she's overbearing and is wiping your mouth and cutting your food....especially in public...
is she combing your hair ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for wanting to get out of my relationship?
Q. Am I wrong for wanting to get out of my relationship? .... We were together 3 years. He abused me emotionally and physically. Everytime i tried to leave he'd manipulate me into giving him anther chance. This time I didn't let him though he tried ...
A. 9 July 2012: Best piece of advice… block his number and his email… have NO contact with this manipulative man who is trying to make what you did (a healthy sane rational move to leave him btw) YOUR fault.
Do not reply to or engage him in any way. IF you are ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't trust me around my guy friends
Q. Well ive been dating my boyfriend for 5months. were very happy. i have well alot of male friends. i dont make friends with girls as good because most of them always have drama. i dislike drama. so yeah. but i just hung out with my best friend e...
A. 9 July 2012: Since your boyfriend wants to be (or is) sexual with you, he assumes that all boys want to be sexual with you and are just pretending to be your friends in hopes of getting in your pants.
If your boyfriend does not trust you in general (bec... (read in full...)
I lied about my real age online.
Q. I met a man online a year ago and we became friends ,he's 40 and im 58 but i never told him that.I never thought we would continue to talk so what did it matter.Well the unthinkable happened ,we fell in love ... he is single and so am i .He is the ...
A. 9 July 2012: You never told him you were 58… what age did you tell him? Has he seen recent pictures?
The first thing you must do is tell the truth about your age… I’m 13 years older than my partner and we make no bones about it…. More and more it’s not... (read in full...)
What can a 33 year old man possibly see in a 66 year old woman?
Q. I am a healthy, attractive 66 year old female who is being ardently courted by a very handsome 33 year old male. That is a big age gap! What can this man possibly see in me?...
A. 9 July 2012: Tell me about this courting OP.
How much time do you two spend together?... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend's engaged brother
Q. I don't know what to do. I am in love with my best friends brother and he likes me too. He has a fiance and a 2 year old son. I have felt like this about him since 3rd grade and i am going to be a senior. He has felt this way about me for the same ...
A. 9 July 2012: You have a crush. He is engaged with a two year old. How old is he? You’ve had a crush on him since you were what about 8 or 9?
You say he’s felt this way about you too… so let’s say you were 9 when you got this crush on him and he was g... (read in full...)
What can a 33 year old man possibly see in a 66 year old woman?
Q. I am a healthy, attractive 66 year old female who is being ardently courted by a very handsome 33 year old male. That is a big age gap! What can this man possibly see in me?...
A. 9 July 2012: have you asked him?
if you don't have a lot of money and your not being a sugar momma... maybe you just have a lot in common and he likes you?
... (read in full...)
We had sex then he deleted me from Facebook
Q. This guy I met last weekend, he's 25, 26 next month and I'm 18. We were getting on well. The next night I went to his but the thing is I was really shy and just blamed it on being tired. Anyways, we had sex. I know I shouldn't of but it just ...
A. 8 July 2012: saying something just makes it worse.
use this as a learning tool....
he got what he wanted and he's done...
move on and chalk it up to experience....
put it on the bucket list... meaningless sex with a stranger...
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I had a one-night=stand, he said he would call and didn't. How long should I wait before I delete him as a friend?
Q. So, I had an unplanned one night stand on Sunday. I normally never do one night stands. Only did it once before. I have heard so much from friends about guys being all nice and then never calling back and that has been my experience too last time, ...
A. 8 July 2012: He asked you out for a date! you go and enjoy and RELAX...
and see how it goes.... see what he says and how it goes
he may be as besotted with you as you are with him... that's life...
relax.
enjoy
don't push
don't make ass... (read in full...)
Is it a guy thing, or should I expect him to make more of an effort
Q. Hi, I've been in a long distance relationship for 8 months. we have always been two hours apart and never in the same city. we started talking through facebook and chatted for about 6 months before ever going on a date or anything. it was going re...
A. 8 July 2012: I was in an LDR where we were two hours apart by car... it was all we could do to want to be together... every weekend after we got serious and then it was thursday nights through Sunday nights... and then we moved in together...
Men in lo... (read in full...)
"Just stop looking blah blah" somebody please tell me how that works!
Q. I've heard this over and over again... That the reason I can't find a girlfriend is because I'm looking for one, and that as soon as I stop looking, I'll suddenly end up in a relationship. "Happens when you least expect it," "I found my partner when ...
A. 8 July 2012: it's a paradox... but what it means is that you go out and accept that you are single.
you have to embrace it and learn to love your life as it is. This means you do all the things you want to do and that interest you and when you meet som... (read in full...)
I love him but feel he is rushing me into marriage next year. I haven't accepted. Should I accept?
Q. I love my boyfriend so much and he obviously loves me more than i love him.it was him i gave my virginity to. we are both just 17. he proposed to me to marry him.he said he wants us to do it as soon as possible(next year when we turn 18). But i dont...
A. 8 July 2012: no you don't accept. you are way too young.
what you tell him is he will lose you if he keeps pushing you.... that he will push you right away if he keeps pressuring you....
... (read in full...)
Seriously considering having an affair.
Q. I'll get straight to the point. I am very seriously considering having an affair. My husband has turned into a complete dead fish in the bedroom. He used to be very excited about me, he used to love to touch me, kiss me, lick me, sleep with me. He ...
A. 7 July 2012: have you cleared this sexual behavior with your husband?
because my take on this is different from most of the aunts here....
if you want it
and he agrees to it
and you are honest about the situation with the lover
so that
there are ... (read in full...)
I didn't love him so I broke up with him. Did I do the right thing?
Q. Hey everyone I just broke up with my boyfriend, he was a great guy and he said he loved me so much, he told he would take a bullet for me. But I didn't love him, I told him and he said that's just one of the challenges of a relationship. We were goi...
A. 7 July 2012: you did the right thing.
if you don't love someone you know it...
he's behaving like a lovesick teenager (oh wait he is)...
yeah this feels bad right now sweetie but in the span of life it is a very short and not too painful lesson.
... (read in full...)
Will I get pregnant from anal sex?
Q. I had anal sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated inside me.will i get pregnant?Im scared.smh....
A. 7 July 2012: Probably not unless the semen drips out and drips into your vagina and then the sperm swim up past your cervix into your fallopian tube where you will release an egg about once a month...
so highly unlikely you will get pregnant.
it's more lik... (read in full...)
I feel like he is teasing me to see how much I can take.
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy of about 6 months. Recently, we had some issues with trust and ever since that happened, I feel like he is testing me to see how much I can take and if I will get jealous. He told me tonight I can't ...
A. 7 July 2012: Honey, he's no boyfriend....
he doesn't want folks to know on facebook so he can continue to date them.
I'd beak up with him.
he's dating other women blatantly in front of you...
he has a double standard where you can't ask him... (read in full...)
I really like her and want her to be my girlfriend
Q. I really need some help. There is this girl that im falling in love with. Ido not know if she likes me but she did say i was an amazing guy. We havent seen each other lately. I want to ask her to be my girlfriend but do i wait until i see her again ...
A. 7 July 2012: Yep, do not text her... pick up the phone call her and ask her out...
if it goes well....
lather
rinse
REPEAT...
in other words.. just start spending time together and see how it goes...
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Why is my husband watching porn when we have sex every week?
Q. Can anyone help me out here? I accidentally click on the history on my husband's mobile and realise my husband have been watching porno films in it. In fact, quite oftenly. We have sex like every week once or twice, but I just feel very bother...
A. 7 July 2012: NO OP do not ask him if there is anything wrong with you. There is NOTHING wrong with you and his use of porn again has NOTHING to do with how hot you are, how attractive you are or how much he wants you....
Read the books Person12345 ... (read in full...)
Would a trial separation simply extend the toxic situation?
Q. I am in a place where I am afraid to take what is likely the next step. Not sure what to do. Have been married for 10 years, no children (we can't have children and Husband is against adoption). My husband was raised in a verbally abusive ...
A. 7 July 2012: I think you are headed for divorce and I think that a trial separation would just prolong the inevitable.
But what it may do is get him to see that he's at the bottom of the barrel and needs to fix things in order to have his life back.
The que... (read in full...)
He left me out of his birthday celebrations ...
Q. Today is my boyfriend of 3 years birthday. We have spent my birthdays and his with friends and family and even had our own little celebrations. I had told him last week that I found a babysitter and that we could hang out. Birthdays are special and ...
A. 7 July 2012: I totally agree with ImmortalPrincess...
if it's the first time you've been left out it's a concern especially if it was not discussed in advance with you.
have you asked him what's going on?... (read in full...)
How can I leave someone who's too attached to let me go?
Q. Hello everyone, I have a small problem with a guy. We both like each other but we are a little bit long distance. I said since the start "I'm not interested in a relationship " he says he knows ad that he wot let me go and is even willing to leave...
A. 6 July 2012: He's long distance. What does he mean that he won't let you go? how can he hold you if you are not there with him?
You have to take care of yourself and not worry about hurting him...
he keeps begging you... how? email? block him?
phon... (read in full...)
Dating? not yet, though I am so proud I lost so much weight.. But how do I deal with insecurity re scars after surgery and dating, after weight loss?
Q. The last couple years was a life changing experience for me. I lost more than a hundred lbs of weight, leaving me with lots of hanging skin but only in the stomach and thigh area to the point that I couldn't wear a swim suit. It was a huge decis...
A. 6 July 2012: Congrats on the major weight loss and the plastics.
I am one year out from my tummy tuck and breast lift… best thing I ever did… still need thighs back and butt done…
To be honest honey my scars are a year old and still very visible and red ... (read in full...)
Using Olive Oil to unclog a stuffy ear, does anyone know of this?
Q. Hey guys this question is health related but i need opinions bad and i dont know where else to ask. I heard that a few warm drops of olive oil will unclog a stuffy ear afer a couple days is this true? Also if it turns out its just an ear infection ...
A. 6 July 2012: I would not use olive oil...
if you have water in your ear a few drops of alcohol works GREAT...
are you just stuffed up and not in pain?
tilt your head with the stuffed ear up...
use either an eye dropper or a q-tip soaked in alco... (read in full...)
How broke is too broke in a relationship?
Q. I have asked twice before. I still didn't break up with my long distance boyfriend in spite of aunts and uncles telling me so. Some aunts told me his insecurity would cause problems. One uncle said this is a fantasy relationship. My mom told me t...
A. 6 July 2012: He has THREE dating profiles that alone is a huge red flag after a year of dating...
it's been a year and you don't feel close RED FLAG TWO
he makes no effort to see you more often (honey at only an hour away my guy and I would have bee... (read in full...)
Do I move with my boyfriend? My parents are against it
Q. Hey, My boyfriend recently got offered a job in another part of the country, I really want to go with him as he said that he can financially support me till I get a job, and we don't want to lose our relationship! Although we started off long...
A. 6 July 2012: are you 18 or 19 or 20/21... big difference between 18 and 21 to be honest...
why are your folks against it???
learn early on that living your life to please your parents will never work.... they will be gone and you will be miserable if... (read in full...)
Fathers in the delivery room: who should have the final say?
Q. I had an interesting conversation with my boyfriend earlier about fathers in the delivery room. I'd like to find out what others make of the issue! My boyfriend said he'd rather not be in present, but if the mother wanted him there he'd compl...
A. 6 July 2012: who has the final say?
THE DOCTOR!
sorry but that's really the truth...
i had my children's father with me for both births... never occurred to us not to. even though it ended up with c-sections he was there for both babies.
my gf'... (read in full...)
My fiance is insecure about receiving oral sex
Q. Hi, my question is regards to performing oral sex on my fiance. In most cases she does not want me to go down on her. She has assured me that she enjoys it when she does let me go down on her, just that most of the time she feels insecure about ...
A. 6 July 2012: why is it that the men that like giving oral always end up with the females that don't want it and us girls who would happily accept it end up with men that wont' give it.
OP i feel your pain...
you need to continue to try... for some wome... (read in full...)
We have a connection, but run out of topics to discuss. How do we learn to communicate with soul searching conversations?
Q. So I've got my girlfriend, whom I'll have been dating 5 months on the 10th. I really really want to have a real relationship with substance and communication and love. She desires the same. From an objective standpoint, we're really good togethe...
A. 6 July 2012: So many times we just sit and watch tv together (cuddled but watching tv)…. We don’t have these DEEP conversations … we did at the very beginning but now we kind of know what the dance between the two of us is so it’s not necessary.. more often it’s ... (read in full...)
I'm not seeing any love and she's putting me through hell
Q. I am a 51 white male and I met a 51 black female on a sex site. We hit off great and with in 3 months we had fallen in love and were almost inseparable during that time. She had a sales job set up before we met that was to last 6 months. I live in ...
A. 6 July 2012: she's using you hon.
do not call her
do not send her money
if you offered to bring her to you and she has nothing to keep her in FL then she's not interested in a full time real relationship.
you said you met on a sex site.. that sou... (read in full...)
Havent heard from my guy for a week
Q. I have been seeing this guy for 5 months.He had been a lot more smitten than before last month.He spent almost every night at my place.However,we had a fight over some stupid things he did when he was drunk.Our last talk was on the phone,he went ...
A. 6 July 2012: When did he go to spend ten days with them and when did he return?
If he returned before july 4th then I think you may want to consider that it’s over and done and text him for some closure… if he was away through the holiday hold off a few more... (read in full...)
My father doesn't like my boyfriend. Should I tell him we're getting married? Or wait till afterwards?
Q. Hi! I'm getting married to the love of my life in a couple of months. I lost my mom a year ago and my father is... well, he's never been there for me and he is always pretty scary and judgmental. I still love him, in a way, you know, he's still my ...
A. 6 July 2012: not only should you tell him you should invite him and let him make it his decision.
my parents were married when mom was 19 and her parents did not approve of my dad and did not attend the wedding.
I think till the day they died the regrett... (read in full...)
I said no to going further. But am I still a virgin, based on what happened?
Q. Okay so there's this military guy i met with. I just wanted someone to date.. we went out to dinner. i dropped him off to on base i get out the car we made out he was groping me and hugging me tight. Then we meet up again the next day ( i am a vir...
A. 6 July 2012: I think you need to get some sexual education.
A person is not a virgin when they have intercourse. There are “technical virgins” where girls give blow jobs and receive oral sex and even will have anal intercourse but will not allow a penis in... (read in full...)
I had a one-night=stand, he said he would call and didn't. How long should I wait before I delete him as a friend?
Q. So, I had an unplanned one night stand on Sunday. I normally never do one night stands. Only did it once before. I have heard so much from friends about guys being all nice and then never calling back and that has been my experience too last time, ...
A. 6 July 2012: don't delete him...
sometimes life happens.
if you really like him then contact him,
your comments to him may have made him think YOU are not the interested party.
I'd call him and ask about getting together next week and play it by ea... (read in full...)
Why is my husband watching porn when we have sex every week?
Q. Can anyone help me out here? I accidentally click on the history on my husband's mobile and realise my husband have been watching porno films in it. In fact, quite oftenly. We have sex like every week once or twice, but I just feel very bother...
A. 5 July 2012: You are not ugly
your worth as a person is not based on if your husband looks at porn.
I know it's a big huge issue for many women but I'm not seeing a problem (at least for me)
but if it bothers you, maybe you need to ask your husband why he'... (read in full...)
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