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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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What are the best casual dating sites out there?
Q. I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...
A. 2 September 2012: OP, I am going to say this ONE MORE TIME... and then I fear there is nothing else I can do.
THE UGLIEST men I know have wives who love them because they are confident....
my fiance is not all that attractive... spotty skin, lousy teeth, t... (read in full...)
How you heard of a long distance marriage? Do they work out?
Q. Hello! So, I'm going to have to move away for work for three years. My soon to be beloved husband and I have been discussing this and we've figured out we'll be able to meet 10 days a month on average (between his days off and mine), plus three ...
A. 27 August 2012: 3 years… so very doable.
I just finished a years LDR… we were two hours apart by car and we moved together after a year. OUR friends who are getting married September 15th are also 2 hours apart by car… and he does not drive. (they are 40 and 5... (read in full...)
How should or can I tell my husband I want to try swinging, without him doubting my assertion that I am satisfied with him sexually?
Q. Over the last few years my sex drive has increased and I've been a bit more wilder in the bedroom with my husband. We have done some role playing, taken a few photos, and a video. I know my husband dose not mind at all but there are some nights I...
A. 26 August 2012: I am a FORMER swinger.
You said: "there are some nights I need more then he can give me"
but then you said: "without him thinking I'm not satisfied by what he gives me."
they are two different statements that cannot stand together. ... (read in full...)
How do I avoid becoming pregnant by my husband who won't allow me to use birth control?
Q. My husband of 6 years won't pull out during sex. We are catholic so he refuses for me to use any birth control. I do not want to get pregnant. Please give me advice...
A. 26 August 2012: have you and your husband attended the church's Natural
Family Planning Clinic?
using mucus, temperture and cervical changes by charting daily will help you avoid pregnancy... withdrawal is not even remotely close to as effective as NFP.... (read in full...)
Dating a guy who says he loves me but he is divorced with a child, so will I always be the second choice? Should I continue seeing him?
Q. Hi dearcupid I need some advice before moving further with the man I'm dating. He's really nice and we get on so well, he has already told me he loves me after 6 months. It was a meeting through friends, but not planned or anything. I am worried ...
A. 26 August 2012: I think if you believe the myth of "the one" and that you will always feel second best to a woman he no longer chooses to be with (he could have stayed with her even if she cheated many spouses do stay and work it out)... then you are better off ... (read in full...)
My husband and his family do not believe I was a virgin because I didn't bleed after our first night together. Why did I not bleed?
Q. Hola I am from Mexico . Please forgive my English it is second language to me. I am originally from Mexico but live here in the united states. I am 21 years old and recently got married . I was a virgin when I married . I didn't bleed . My husband ...
A. 26 August 2012: I agree with Chigirl.
not all virgins bleed. I didn't.
it's a total myth that all virgins bleed... exercise, work, tampons... all of these things can break a hymen and that's the part that MIGHT bleed.
your husband and his family a... (read in full...)
Do you think our relationship could work?
Q. Hi! so just going through a break up and some advice would really be appreciated :) so I split with my long distance boyfriend a couple of days ago. we met online. he couldnt handle the distance anymore and said he needed to cool down even thou...
A. 26 August 2012: LDRs are very hard in general... when you have very little time together and you are at Uni... well then all bets are off in my opinion.
I think you need to be open to new relationships and experiences while you are at University and not tie ... (read in full...)
Fallen out of love with my girlfriend and don't know how to tell her
Q. Hi and help. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and a wonderful three years we do not live together but it is getting to that stage that she wants to. We spent last week on holiday together and although it was good i think i have sta...
A. 26 August 2012: you are very young I assume you are first bf/gf with each other or close to it... at least first "mature" relationship.
it's hard to walk away from something that's been around a long time.
but it's better to walk away and remain civil.
... (read in full...)
Very Mixed Messages
Q. I am very confused. I met a girl at work recently and we started to get on really well. At work I have helped her out as she is new and this extended to showing her round the area at lunchtime, walking and talking. Then we started texting ...
A. 26 August 2012: you are missing that this woman is unstable and irrational and that being involved with folks from work is never a good idea...
you need to end it with her and not worry about her insanity.... (read in full...)
Taking care of my boyfriend's sick mother and he doesn't appreciate it
Q. My boyfriend's mother who lived in new jersey fell really sick,she fell of the stairs,broke her back literally couldn't move,nor eat or go to the toilet..my boyfriend who was in spain at the time could not make it to her at the earlierst so I ...
A. 26 August 2012: you demand the respect you deserve by leaving him.
if you care about the mother you can maintain a friendship with her but honey you are not a slave... you are just being treated like one.
... (read in full...)
Just can't shake this bad love story..
Q. Hi, I don't do this much but I have no one to talk to. Just over a year ago I met a man. I don't believe in love at first sight but I was instantly attached to him. After a few short encounters I got to know him better and found out he was twice my ...
A. 25 August 2012: why did you break up?
if the ONLY reason you aren't together is age that's BS... you are both over 18 and men can father children long past women being able to bear them (normally my big concern in age gap relationships with a young partner)... (read in full...)
Boyfriend can't forget about football even while on vacation?
Q. In november my boyfriend and i are travelling around south east asia for a month. he's already informed me that he'll be checking football scores of his local team back home - i thought he'd be having such a great experience with me that he could ...
A. 25 August 2012: he will have fun but to ask him to not check football scores for a month seems unrealistic to me.
normally when we travel we take our laptops with us... and while for a short trip it may not come out anything over 3 or 4 nights is going to warra... (read in full...)
We broke up but I want to remain close friends
Q. Hello everyone, To make it short and simple I want to start by saying my boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 years. We've had our ups and downs in the relationship but always knew how to steer it back on the right track when things were goin...
A. 25 August 2012: I'm sorry you are hurting but I have to say that I have never found it possible to be friends with an ex. Friendly Yes. Civil yes... able to be around each other with new partners Yes.... able to work together if need be yes... but FRIENDS... ... (read in full...)
Am I being to insecure? Do you think he is thinking of me as more like a FWB?
Q. Am I just being insecure? Been seeing a guy for a few weeks. At first I could tell he was really interested. I have known him for years as an aquaintence, through friends and always thought he is a really nice guy. I didn't know he liked me this way ...
A. 25 August 2012: So very glad for this update! thanks for letting us know. I"m glad it worked out.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is putting his dog before our relationship!
Q. This situation is very complicated. Myself and my partner have been together and split up again several times in the past. Each time we split up we have got back together and this time I am totally ready to put 100% into making our relationship work ...
A. 24 August 2012: I am a dog lover and I love BIG breeds.... they need very strong owners... Strong in personality not body wise.
I agree totally with Cerberus..
For what it's worth OP, I love my dogs... BUT my fiance is very allergic to them and he's also a... (read in full...)
I'm worried about the size of my penis
Q. hi, so im worried about my penis size... im 19 still a virgin, i have recieved oral sex before and im just worried about the size of my penis, its roughly (ive never had it measured by a doctor) 3 inches depending on how warm/cold i am, i might get ...
A. 24 August 2012: if you have PAIN that's a sign to talk to the doctor.
the younger a man the stronger the errection that means it will hug your belly but as you age it will change angle.
for the pain and the fact that it never gets totally flaccid and ... (read in full...)
But he's had the same Gf for 4 years. So what can I do? He's older than me. There is an attraction between us.
Q. Hey guys, i've got a situation that i'd really love some help with. So i've been getting to know a guy recently whos quite a lot older than me (im 17). However, our personalities just click.. He makes me laugh, and we just get on so well. We have ...
A. 24 August 2012: if he's much over 19 he's a predator.
He has a long term GF and he's CHEATING ON HER with you... what a wonderful man that makes him.
a liar
a cheat
a predator....... (read in full...)
Is this really a 'break'? Or is this essentially a 'break up'?
Q. My GF initiated a 'break' five days ago. She insists she loves me and sees a future with me but has lost her sense of identity during our 2+ year relationship and thinks a 'break' is the only thing to do to regain her sense of self and save ou...
A. 24 August 2012: I strongly agree that we can't take breaks from life.
Now if she had said no sleeping with others I might be less concerned... but i'm betting that she's already doing just that...
I think it's best that you not take her back even if she com... (read in full...)
Is a water infection a STI?
Q. My wife cheated on me a month ago, we are working on things and hopefully will be able to move on from this. However she now has a water infection, is this an STI? How do you get a water infection?...
A. 24 August 2012: UTI or urinary tract infection is caused when bacteria gets into the urethra and the bladder... IT's very common in women... because all the parts are so close together...
I had them very frequently when younger and even bubble bath could c... (read in full...)
He's so much taller than me, will this work?
Q. This guy i've met we get along really well as if we've known each other a lot longer than the past couple weeks, we like the same things so we have a fair amount in common. He's really sweet and fun to be around, and good thing is he's funny in such ...
A. 24 August 2012: total NON issue. Mom was 5'2" Dad 6'2"
I'm 5'2" my last husband was 6'4"
height is a total non issue.... (read in full...)
Were they more interested in porn than in me? would this behaviour bother you?
Q. My two last boyfriends didn't seem to have a sexual interest in me when I wasn't there but yet both looked at porn, they rarely said anything suggestive or dirty by text. Has anyone else had something similar happen to them? Would this behaviour ...
A. 24 August 2012: sounds perfect and normal to me...
your problem is that you assume that dirty texting is normal. sexting is actually against the law if you are under 18 it's that nasty...
... (read in full...)
Do dreams mean something
Q. I slept at a girls house with some friends and i got on with all of them but i just had 2 dreams in 2 days one was she was giving me a blow job and the other one was she jerked me off now i don't really have any feelings to this girl but i am ...
A. 24 August 2012: dreams are just your brain's way of working through stuff that you don't think about when you are awake... it's your subconscious.
does it mean you want to be with this girl no?
you sound like a very normal typical young man...... (read in full...)
What are the best casual dating sites out there?
Q. I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...
A. 24 August 2012: Richard,
you are wrong.
my fiance is not all that attractive. when we first met he was too skinny, now he's got too much belly... he has bad teeth and wears his hair too short and his nails too long... he has glasses and he's a real hot mess.... (read in full...)
Pregnant and scared, I'm making the wrong decision.
Q. I am 7 weeks preganant and very scared. I am due to have a termination on saturday and am very confused if its the right choice. I am in a stable relationship. When i found out i was pregnant i thought i would be happy but i have become more and ...
A. 23 August 2012: if i had known back when i had my kids that my mental illness would be passed on to them genetically (both my kids are ADHD, my older one is Bi-polar the younger one is a depressive) I am not sure I would have had them.
I think that your concerns... (read in full...)
I love my husband but his habits of selfishness and laziness are starting to makes me feel unimportant and undervalued, and is putting me into a state of depression.
Q. I love my husband, but his habits of selfishness and laziness are starting to really eat at me. While I feel he loves me, I don't feel he cares about me. He doesn't seem at all concerned with what I might need or want, and everything seems devoted ...
A. 23 August 2012: of course they've increased ten fold.... folks relax and become themselves when they get settled in a relationship.
your problem is you married a man you barely know.
I'm sorry you had 5 years of LDR with 3 months visits once a year so that's a... (read in full...)
I'm having inappropriate sexual thoughts. How can I stop this?
Q. Currently I have been extremely turned on and have been craving oral sex. My boyfriend is the best I had ever had, but recently I have been having awful thoughts. For some reason I am craving being gone down on by someone with full lips and I ...
A. 23 August 2012: we really can't control our dreams and fantasy tends to take on a life of it's own....
it doesn't make you dirty or nasty...
it's your brain.... not your actions. there are no thought police.... (read in full...)
Will having a threesome with my wife ruin our relationship? She's the one who brought it up.
Q. My wife asked me to have a 3sum with another female. I'm up for the idea but I thought about it more and I don't know how it will change our relationship, am I not pleasing her enugh, she orgasms at least three time every time we have sex. What she ...
A. 23 August 2012: have you ASKED her Why all of a sudden she's game???
I mean she's the one who would know what's changed.
but again it's a bad idea.... (read in full...)
Is it worth continuing?
Q. My bf of 3.5years has a job that takes up most of his time. Between June-start of August I saw him for a total of about 4 hours. Now he's freed up for about a month and a half. We have spent 2 weekends together and now the next two he's busy with ...
A. 23 August 2012: you saw your BF less than my LDR guy and I saw each other last year....
have you told him you need more time from him?... (read in full...)
I've had sex twice, and both times were painful. What can I do?
Q. Hi, I had sex for the first time yesterday with my boyfriend. My question is that it wasn't pleasurable for me. I expected that though because it was my first time, but we did it twice, and i still found it uncomfortable. Is there anything i can d...
A. 23 August 2012: when orthodox jews consumate their marriage with intercourse for the first time, a new bride is then not touchable for 5 days... it's to give her time to HEAL.
doing it twice on one day didn't give you time to heal...
are you proper... (read in full...)
Will having a threesome with my wife ruin our relationship? She's the one who brought it up.
Q. My wife asked me to have a 3sum with another female. I'm up for the idea but I thought about it more and I don't know how it will change our relationship, am I not pleasing her enugh, she orgasms at least three time every time we have sex. What she ...
A. 23 August 2012: oh wait... now you are setting some serious red flags up for me.
just because they do something together does not mean they have to do it to you nor will that ensure avoiding jealousy.
Jealousy is an emotion rooted in insecurity
IF you... (read in full...)
What things really matter and really impact on a true relationship and dating?
Q. Does fighting matter in a real relationship? Does sex matter in a true relationship? Do money matters also affect a true relationship? Please i ned your help dear cupid. And what's a good age for a gal to be to start dating?...
A. 23 August 2012: well for me, we fight but as long as we fight fair and we make up it's all good...
sex matters... if you want more sex or less sex than your partner it's not balanced. if you want kinky sex and your partner wants vanilla it's not balanced... (read in full...)
Will having a threesome with my wife ruin our relationship? She's the one who brought it up.
Q. My wife asked me to have a 3sum with another female. I'm up for the idea but I thought about it more and I don't know how it will change our relationship, am I not pleasing her enugh, she orgasms at least three time every time we have sex. What she ...
A. 23 August 2012: IF both partners are on board and the extra person/people are not trying to steal them (i.e. they understand their boundaries)
AND it's well discussed by all parties openly and honestly, then it CAN work. I know of at least 3 couples that are... (read in full...)
My husband has been sneaky lately and I found a flavored condom in his pocket that he blamed on our son!
Q. Lately, my husband of 9 yrs. has been a little sneaky. he talks to all kinds of women, first of all he's a photographer OK. Now it's one particular friend that he tells her he loves her. Just recently, while I was doing laundry,a flavored condom ...
A. 23 August 2012: Why would you think your husband has someone else's condom in his pocket... you gave him an out with the question.
My question would have been... "I found a chocolate flavored condom in your pocket... I'm glad you are practicing safe sex whi... (read in full...)
I'm upset that my boyfriend didn't get me anything for my birthday
Q. I'm kind of bothered by the fact that my boyfriend didn't care to get me anything for my birthday. I'm not materialistic and I don't really want any specific item but like the saying goes, "It's the thought that counts" and I feel like he didn't p...
A. 23 August 2012: Your update tells me everything..
You were together
You broke up
Now you are together again but he’s “coasting” honey you are FWB…. The minute someone that catches his eye comes along and he get’s “that feeling” he will be gon... (read in full...)
He is a true gentleman. Am I worrying too much due to past experiences in relationships?
Q. Hi, I have begun a relationship with a wonderful man but need advice on a small matter. Every time we have a date, he will walk with me to my nearest transport stop - whether bus or train - before saying goodbye and going on his journey home We...
A. 23 August 2012: he's making an effort.... make sure you let him know that you appreciate it and enjoy it but that you worry that it's adding to his stress.
It's his choice to do this...
he sounds lovely...... (read in full...)
What are the best casual dating sites out there?
Q. I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...
A. 23 August 2012: Richard,
While YOU may not judge anybody concerning their looks, others are going to base wanting to contact someone on first impressions of looks (especially online where the visual is most important) so that putting your best foot forward ... (read in full...)
I love my husband but his habits of selfishness and laziness are starting to makes me feel unimportant and undervalued, and is putting me into a state of depression.
Q. I love my husband, but his habits of selfishness and laziness are starting to really eat at me. While I feel he loves me, I don't feel he cares about me. He doesn't seem at all concerned with what I might need or want, and everything seems devoted ...
A. 23 August 2012: Either you are going to have to upset the status quo and him and shake him up or end the marriage OR you can suffer in silence….
So if you don’t want to make him feel bad, then you have one option and that’s to just suck it up and accept t... (read in full...)
Old friend keeps blowing me off for her new friends!
Q. This isn't a relationship q, but about friendship and I would really appreciate the input. I have been best frinds with a girl since I was 12, and we are now both 26. She used to be quiet and shy, but the past couple of years she has been coming out ...
A. 23 August 2012: you guys have outgrown each other... time to let it go..
here is my story about this:
I had a friend at age 14 till I was about 29 we were very very very close friends.
I had kids, she never did... we lost contact... recently (we are ... (read in full...)
Bf saying picture of porn with girls that look nothing like me
Q. Hello guys:) Recently, I've been having a few problems with my boyfriend, not major ones at all, just little ones. Now, I found out he watched porn because I went to type in youtube on his computer and it came up with a porn site in his history...
A. 23 August 2012: downloading pictures of men or you watching "women's porn" won't bother him. Men are visual more than women usually and they see nothing wrong with it.
Personally I see nothing wrong with it either... but then I'm secure enough to know tha... (read in full...)
Young Woman attracted to a man over twice her age or just really fiendly?
Q. I'm a mid 40's guy who works in the IT sector. Most days I have been going to the same local Subway for lunch over the last 6 to 8 months. There is this young chinese girl who looks about 17 or 18 and I think is interested in me. I say "think" ...
A. 23 August 2012: she will not come right out and give you her number... that's NOT going to happen.
based on your follow up, (and I am sorry for the loss of your wife)... I would say that you may want to "step up your game" a tiny bit...
more eye cont... (read in full...)
I'm 24 years older than him but am so attracted to him! What do I do about it?
Q. OK this is a question that I hope all you male readers out there will chime in on, as I need a man's perspective. I am a 54 year old woman, routinely told I look at least 10 years younger. I keep my hair colored, exercise every day, try not to dress ...
A. 22 August 2012: If you are interested in him you must take the plunge and talk to him about it. It’s a risk but you can’t continue like this. Tell him what you told us… and then let him know that if he’s serious with the girl out of state you respect that and ... (read in full...)
I'm upset that my boyfriend didn't get me anything for my birthday
Q. I'm kind of bothered by the fact that my boyfriend didn't care to get me anything for my birthday. I'm not materialistic and I don't really want any specific item but like the saying goes, "It's the thought that counts" and I feel like he didn't p...
A. 22 August 2012: @Cute Angel, I didn’t say that he because he didn’t buy her a gift she should leave him.
The OP said: “I feel like he didn't put any thought or effort into my birthday.”
She is correct he did not.
So I asked: “if you feel like he... (read in full...)
What are the best casual dating sites out there?
Q. I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...
A. 22 August 2012: ok have you been to an image specialist....
do you have clear skin? if not see a dermatologist
do you dress well? if not see a salesman at a good's menswear store for help?
spiffy haircut? do not get a 10 dollar barber look... find a st... (read in full...)
I'm upset that my boyfriend didn't get me anything for my birthday
Q. I'm kind of bothered by the fact that my boyfriend didn't care to get me anything for my birthday. I'm not materialistic and I don't really want any specific item but like the saying goes, "It's the thought that counts" and I feel like he didn't p...
A. 22 August 2012: if you feel like he doesn't care why in the world are you keeping him as a boyfriend?
my fiance is turning 40 his next birthday it's a huge one (as is 25 IMO) and I'm already plotting what to do....
sounds like your BF is just coasting alon... (read in full...)
What are the best casual dating sites out there?
Q. I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...
A. 22 August 2012: well to be honest without a photo most women won't even give you a look.... you need a photo
but OK CUPID is a great hook up site...... (read in full...)
Young Woman attracted to a man over twice her age or just really fiendly?
Q. I'm a mid 40's guy who works in the IT sector. Most days I have been going to the same local Subway for lunch over the last 6 to 8 months. There is this young chinese girl who looks about 17 or 18 and I think is interested in me. I say "think" ...
A. 21 August 2012: I think you may be reading too much into it to be honest...
Sounds like she's just friendly with a regular customer.
While I don't have an issue with age gap relationships at all (my fiance is 13 years younger than I am) I have learned now... (read in full...)
Am I being to insecure? Do you think he is thinking of me as more like a FWB?
Q. Am I just being insecure? Been seeing a guy for a few weeks. At first I could tell he was really interested. I have known him for years as an aquaintence, through friends and always thought he is a really nice guy. I didn't know he liked me this way ...
A. 14 August 2012: “A FWB would just want to get down to it, no?”
NO…. FWB does not mean cold callous show up get fucked and leave…. It means you have no ongoing long term, permanent relationship. The first word in FWB is FRIENDS… friends can hang out and watc... (read in full...)
Am I being to insecure? Do you think he is thinking of me as more like a FWB?
Q. Am I just being insecure? Been seeing a guy for a few weeks. At first I could tell he was really interested. I have known him for years as an aquaintence, through friends and always thought he is a really nice guy. I didn't know he liked me this way ...
A. 13 August 2012: you are very much FWB...
... (read in full...)
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