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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Is my Long Distance Relationship worth it?
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What are the laws of marriage, regarding sex?
Q. Dear All, this is a general question about relationship. Does a husband and wife are really restricted to have sex only between them! If so what shall happen after a divorce. or in case of a demise. if they are getting remarried in either case the...
A. 21 August 2012: The cons? Seriously well my last marriage broke up because of being OPEN.. but then my partner could not handle it. He had no self-esteem and needed the ego stroke of other women. When I added other men our marriage did not survive. In order ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why is he acting this way?
Q. I met what seemed to be a really genuine guy on an online dating site. We spoke everyday for a week and arranged to meet. We had a fabulous first date and both agreed we clicked. We met up the next day and he came to my home and spent the night ...
A. 21 August 2012: From you most recent follow up it's clear that you need some professional help with a good therapist to work through the feelings you have.
Sexual Assault is horrible and it stays with you for a long time, working it through with the guidance... (read in full...)
I am concerned about the young man living in the house with my Cortland.
Q. I am 60 dating a retired 54 year old woman.she has a 22 yo son and his best friend age 22 year old friend living in the same house. I could accept her son in our relation but I am concerned about the male friend living in the same house in terms of ...
A. 21 August 2012: Wow that’s quite a jump you’ve got here. I realize you find her attractive and therefore think everyone will find her attractive but to make the assumption that she’s sexual with a boy that is her son’s friend is wrong.
I think for her sake you... (read in full...)
How do you deal with pubic hair growing back?
Q. For people who have sex regularly, how do you deal with the growing back of shaved pubic hair? It loses the smoothness after only 1-2 days, so doesn't it get uncomfortable for your partner with the stubble? Shaving the stubble creates hell for me. ...
A. 21 August 2012: I find waxing is much better. the regrowth is softer and it tends to thin out the more you wax...
I do shave my arms and legs and I just do that EVERY time I'm in the shower.
IF you must shave, do it in the shower and use hair conditioner... (read in full...)
Does being a stay at home mom mean I have no say in this relationship??
Q. Do I have no say over anything because I am a stay at home mom and I don't make any money? Does that give my husband the right to act anyway he wants because he is the sole bread winner and I just have to except all the things he does.. He can ...
A. 20 August 2012: Don't do all the things you do all day and when he comes home and asks "what did you do all day?"
(clean, dress kids, run errands, prepare dinner, get dressed)
you say "you know all the things I "don't" do all day? I didn't do them)
He ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a cheater to end up happy with the person he cheated with?
Q. My boyfriend of six years cheated, and left me for the woman he cheated with. Although I'm past the hurt, sometime I wonder is it possible for a cheater to be happy with the person he cheated with.I wish him and her the best and hope he is a better ...
A. 20 August 2012: yes I've seen it happen including a couple of long term marriages.
so yes it's possible.... (read in full...)
What are the laws of marriage, regarding sex?
Q. Dear All, this is a general question about relationship. Does a husband and wife are really restricted to have sex only between them! If so what shall happen after a divorce. or in case of a demise. if they are getting remarried in either case the...
A. 20 August 2012: well I think after being in an open marriage that a marriage should be two people and two people alone without extra partners.
If you are not married then you are free to be with whomever you wish.
IF you are divorced you can be with whomever... (read in full...)
Is he uncertain about marriage? The indirect way he answers the question bothers me.
Q. Hi :) I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and now have been living with him for about 3 months. He is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with, without a doubt. We both have two children from previous marriages. About 6 months ag...
A. 20 August 2012: he's not in the market to marry.
He likes what he has with you just the way it is...
if you want to marry, he's not the one at this point...... (read in full...)
My mother has a problem with me being two months older then my boyfriend.
Q. And so dear cupid,my relationship has started going very well.but my new problem is that I'm two months older than my boyfrnd.we so into each other.but my sisters and my mum seem to have a problem with it.what do I do.I'm so into him.leaving him ...
A. 20 August 2012: two months is NOTHING..
and your mother and your sister are not dating him so their feelings are not much to worry about...
why would you leave him to please your mom and sister.
my son ended a relationship with a girl since h... (read in full...)
Nervous about hooking up with older guy!
Q. Hello. I posted a rather long question a few weeks ago about how to handle a newly growing friendship with a former teacher of mine (I'm 18 and he's 31) and since then there have been developments. He's a very sweet guy, I really trust him and we...
A. 20 August 2012: hooking up is for children IMO...
just go and be social and be friendly and remember that ADULTS talk about their concerns not play games.
FWIW I am 13 years older than My fiance but if he was 18 there is no way I'd have been interested in h... (read in full...)
My friend's boyfriend is hitting on me and it's causing trouble.
Q. Hey everyone, So lately I noticed that a friends boyfriend has been checking me out a lot,like it gets really awkward..when we are hanging out he would come sit next to me and talk to me more..and you know text at night..so I decided I'm just goi...
A. 20 August 2012: so he was "checking you out" and he would talk and text... was he being friendly or sexual?
what makes you think he was hitting on you?... (read in full...)
He thought I was seeing someone else, because I was happy.
Q. Hi everyone , I am in a long distance relationship .we see each other often ,but money is tight .I saw him over the weekend ,and he thought i was seeing someone else and the reason was because i was happy . I was shocked when he told me and i said i...
A. 20 August 2012: IF you are doing nothing wrong then his not trusting you is his issue.
His belief that you are happy means you are seeing someone else screams self-doubt, insecurity and lack of self-esteem.
how long have you been dating?
how far apart are... (read in full...)
He is seven years older and treats me like trash!
Q. Should I leave him? Im a 24 yr old woman I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 yrs now things havent been perfect i must admit we have gone through a lot, and it seemed all is behind, we have a 1 yr old daughter and she is my world, main rea...
A. 20 August 2012: I'd leave. IF the only reason you stay is for your child go ahead and leave... never stay with someone for a child... kids are resilient and bounce back easily.
... (read in full...)
Kiss and run! What's up with this younger guy?
Q. Hey. I am SO confused right now. I met Jay on a work training course, he is 13yrs younger than me. We hit it off, all was good until he walked me to my car, we spent over an hour kissing. He followed it up with a text straight away saying 'wow that ...
A. 20 August 2012: he likes you but not as much as he needs to pursue you for a real relationship.
he's seeing you as fun and games.
and most younger men (especially in their 20s) are of the impression that older women are hot and sexually available with n... (read in full...)
I am the one who always has to text or call my boyfriend, I've spoke to him about it but nothing changes! What should I do?
Q. Dear cupid,so my bf loves me and can do anything for me no doubt.but since we went back home for our holidays,I have been doing most of the calling and texting.I talked to him about itbut he always comes up with the excuse of 'I was going to call ...
A. 20 August 2012: well honey if you are doing all the work it's not a very even relationship... you need to let him miss you enough to contact you.
if he does not contact you after a reasonable period of time, then he's not as into the relationship as you are.... (read in full...)
He's my ex. I accidentally saw him out wearing the shirt I gave him. But he ignored me. Why would he wear THAT shirt?
Q. okay so i havent seen my ex since his birthday last month, where i gave him a shirt. we've only spoken a couple of times since then and they were not pleasant conversations. he started dating his ex before me and i moved on. ive never felt so reli...
A. 20 August 2012: you are way over-thinking this.
he's a guy
it was clean
move along... nothing to see here...... (read in full...)
So much pain. I don't know what to do now. save marriage? how? then what? Or divorce?
Q. I need help. I have not been married for long. when dating my future husband, he was quite emotionally abusive, and i ended up cheating with another guy. i got pregnant, and only realised i was pregnant after i got married. I told hubby and ...
A. 20 August 2012: you are married to an abusive man.... if you have the physical, mental, emotional and financial ability to leave, I'd suggest leaving.
... (read in full...)
Too soon to share past sexual history? It scared me. Do ALL guys do this during online relationships?
Q. Is this a red flag?...I just started talking to someone I met online, and things were going great until he starts asking me about what is the most wildest and crazy thing I have done sexually. I didn't want to answer that because I feel that it ...
A. 20 August 2012: no not all guys do this.
you met him online, he's trolling for sexual pleasure.
gentlemen never change... he was never a gentleman...
good luck finding a new fella that has some manners and couth... cut this guy loose honey... (read in full...)
Should I just stay single for life? Or am I getting way too anxious about how I will be when I finally find myself in a relationship?
Q. I don't think I am ready for a relationship right now. However, I think that when I feel I am ready it will be too late to start learning and no one will be patient enough to teach me unless they are trying to use me. When the time comes should I ...
A. 20 August 2012: When you meet someone and the time is right, go for it.
you are very young and you have plenty of time...... (read in full...)
Will the age difference come between us? I'm not feeling right about how this is going. Am I worrying too much?
Q. Hi readers. I met a guy a few weeks ago who works 3 weeks on 1 week off. We finished up going to bed the first night and I didn't expect to hear from him again. He has since contacted me and wants to catch up again. He asked me if I'd like to ge...
A. 20 August 2012: If the only reason you don't want to date him is his age (and you don't even know it yet) I'm thinking you are punishing him for someone else's issues.
Some folks just are not texters. I personally do NOT think that relationships should be carri... (read in full...)
Is it likely that he's really cheating? Or just boasting? If true, then I feel as though I'm not attractive enough for him
Q. My partner recently put password locks on his mobile phones, I was suspicious and managed to get into his phone and found he's frequently sending txts to his mate about all the hot women he's seeing while making deliveries. Plus how he's going to ...
A. 20 August 2012: What part of "blow jobs from one of the women he delivers to" doesn't scream CHEATING to you?
It's not that YOUR not attractive enough for him, it's that he's a dog. He's not going to be satisfied with ONE woman so he needs all these women to... (read in full...)
I don't understand why is he acting this way?
Q. I met what seemed to be a really genuine guy on an online dating site. We spoke everyday for a week and arranged to meet. We had a fabulous first date and both agreed we clicked. We met up the next day and he came to my home and spent the night ...
A. 20 August 2012: What everyone else said.
so not fair but so true.
he only wanted sex
and telling him all your demons just meant he just wanted sex
next time... hold back no matter how horny you are dear one.... (read in full...)
What else can I do? Worried I might be infertile, but the Doctors have said come back later. Do not want to test me yet.
Q. Hi. I know this isn't a health forum but I have run out of solutions. I am worried about my fertility and the doctors won't do a thing until I am "trying" (which won't be for a good few more years!). By then it could surely be too late? I started ...
A. 17 August 2012: I was very prone to UTI's in my younger years and had NO fertility issues.
Are you currently trying to get pregnant or is this a pre-emptive strike?
Are you having other symptoms or issues that require medical care?
IF you are ju... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 17 August 2012:
those are the only terms there are. To be honest I know that you would know if you had issues that required accommodations in school. If you are not sure, ask your parents.
OP let's start with this:
how far did you get in scho... (read in full...)
My Wedding soon, and I'm on track to lose some weight. Can you help motivate me more, with some happy weight loss stories?
Q. Hi! I will be married in 8 weeks and want to lose some weight (5-6 kilos) I've already talked to a doctor and a nutritionist: they say I can do it and gave me a diet which I'm following. But, man, it's so hard! Can you please tell me some happy we...
A. 17 August 2012: 5-6 kilos is 11-13 pounds. that is too much to lose in 8 weeks... that's more like a 6 month project.
You may be able to drop about 4 kilos (9 pounds)
You have to keep your eye on the prize...
eating healthy and being fit is har... (read in full...)
Ex's g/f is all psycho -- what's up?
Q. So I was walking down the street with this guy i'm seeing and I happen to run into my ex and he is with some friends and his girlfriend. He didn't see me because he was talking to someone then all of a sudden his girlfriend looks at me and then ...
A. 17 August 2012: just insecurity and childishness on her part.
she needs to grow up.
you need to continue to take the high road and ignore them.... (read in full...)
We seek each other once a week. He wants to change the way I dress. Is that controlling?
Q. My boyfriend and I love each other a whole lot. He loves spending time with me and always tries to make time for me. I love spending time with him too, but unfortunately we get the chance to meet just once a week. he asked me to change my clot...
A. 17 August 2012: “he loves spending time with me” “but unfortunately we get the chance to meet just once a week”
How can you love spending time together but only meet once a week? Are you long distance?
Here’s my take on it:
When I met my fiancé, I had mad... (read in full...)
He's 14 and I'm 15 and we are cousins. Is it wrong to have these feelings? Should we have sex and what are the consequences?
Q. Im a 15 year old female, and my cousin is a 14 year old male. We've always messed around, like flirted. We have like dry humped, had oral sex, basically everything but real sex. We have a cottage, and we're always at each others houses. We went...
A. 17 August 2012: More states than not prohibit first cousin marriage.
http://www.ncsl.org/issues-research/human-services/state-laws-regarding-marriages-between-first-cousi.aspx
if you are first cousins it's not going to go over well with the family.
EVERY... (read in full...)
We've just broken up. How do I deal with it?
Q. I JUST broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months. I'm a little happy to have my freedom back, but he treated me so badly. He's drunk every night and said that he thinks I don't love him and such. But he went away last week on vacation with his family. ...
A. 17 August 2012: As a woman with a man who drinks and smokes daily, I can tell you that if a woman crawled into his lap and offered him sex drugs and rock and roll free of charge, even in his high and drunk state he would easily say NO....
just because a person i... (read in full...)
Is it over or is he just sweating me?
Q. Dear all, Please advise. I Have had a very rocky relationship with my BF. We had an argument last week in which I told him he is selfish, which he is. Usually, when we fall out , things kinda get sorted wihtin 2 - 3 day, (it' usually me who init...
A. 17 August 2012: Sometimes folks can't give an answer that will make you happy and their option is using NO RESPONSE as their answer.
... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 17 August 2012: I have asked tons of questions and NONE have been answered. Do you have a DSM diagnosis? This means you have been evaluated for emotional and mental issues such as Asperger’s Syndrome, depression, bi-polar disorder or Autism. Had dinner with ... (read in full...)
Is it over or is he just sweating me?
Q. Dear all, Please advise. I Have had a very rocky relationship with my BF. We had an argument last week in which I told him he is selfish, which he is. Usually, when we fall out , things kinda get sorted wihtin 2 - 3 day, (it' usually me who init...
A. 17 August 2012: No sweetie.. he has NOT left you in the lurch...
YOU do not have to base YOUR decisions on HIS behavior.
NO answer is an ANSWER.... what exactly are you needing and/or wanting him to say?... (read in full...)
Why did he do this? He has blocked my number, blocked me from his facebook and on other social network site
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years always put me down whenever he talks to me, he talks as if im invalid, good for nothing,uses me just for my money. I had enough and i told him im not going to call him anymore. I thought he might chnage his ways...
A. 16 August 2012: You said he uses you
he's good for nothing
you broke up with him
he did what was sane and rationale he blocked you
Did you really break up with him via text?... (read in full...)
Why does he need a pin on his iPhone and why is it such a secret? What are your thoughts?
Q. Hi im just wondering what everybodys view are on their Partners phones? my bf and I have had a few up and downs over the last two years but recently there has been an issue since he got his iphone. Basically he has a pin block on it, which he say...
A. 16 August 2012: well I can understand the pin to protect it from strangers, but from the SO, I have a problem.
In my current relationship we have no secrets.. we open each other's mail (snail mail)... we look at each others phones as needed... we share password... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: “No woman will say yes to a man who wants a wife”…. INCORRECT.
I’ve said yes. FOUR TIMES… well three if you count the fact that this time HE wanted ME to propose… but OP, why do you think he wanted to get married? WHY do you think a man who did ... (read in full...)
I am about ready to just tell him that I don't want to talk to him until we can be together again in the same city because I can't spend my time just waiting around for him. Is this a good or bad idea?
Q. My boyfriend and I are having to spend our summer vacation apart, long distance and when school starts, we'll be able to spend our time together again. He tends to have his whole day filled up with lots of things to do, really enjoying his vacation. ...
A. 16 August 2012: Bad idea.... is there a reason you don't even try to do things?
did you try to find a summer job?
a person who defines their entire life based on their partner is boring and needy and not desirable.
DO not sit around and wait for him.... (read in full...)
Why? What to do? He does not want to discuss any plans to move in yet, nor any plans to buy property nor propose, nor have children?
Q. Hi, I'm in a 4 yr, faithful relationship. We share a lot in common, and our future goals are a strong match. We have had a few major issue with his parents not accepting me and intentionally going out of there way to break us up. We stayed t...
A. 16 August 2012: If at your age, after 4 years (assuming he's not in his early 20s) he should KNOW what he wants.
His telling you it's ok for you to date others screams loud and clear to me that he's ok with losing the relationship, that he's not as committe... (read in full...)
I am a separated woman trying to date. After you've read it all do you think I should see a therapist?
Q. Apologies! This situation description isnt as short as I'd hoped it would be. Click back if you dont want to read a long story. I want responses, but if I dont get any because my post is too long, at least I'll have cyber-vented! My husband an...
A. 16 August 2012: Do you really want to get involved with a person who's either depressed or bipolar?
cause that's what it sounds like to me...
in addition, getting involved with someone you work with... not a great idea....
I'd chalk it up to a pleasant ev... (read in full...)
I don't know if this is workplace bullying :( what can I do?
Q. First off thanks for reading, i know it's quite long but today this has really gotten to me and i don't know what to think, hence why i am turning to you lovely people :) I have been working for a small but successful company for the past 4 years...
A. 16 August 2012: I agree with Bond Girl.
My fiance had a hard time with his boss at the last job.
He was very young and inexperienced in the managerial department and he was a micro manager and he ended up losing most of his staff... he was a friend of the ow... (read in full...)
I can't orgasm with my boyfriend!
Q. hi guys. Me and my boyfriend have a great relationship...the problem is he can't make me orgasm. To begin with I thought it would probably sort itself out as we got more used to what each other liked etc, but we've been having sex for about 2 months ...
A. 15 August 2012: Do NOT fake it.
what is he doing to try to bring you to orgasm?
penetraion alone will not do it for most women
most women I know need oral or good manual to bring them to orgasm...
most men think their magic penis thrusting in and out... (read in full...)
I've been with her for 6 years but how do you know if she's the one?
Q. HI Im wondering if i with the right person.Im with her a few years and we plan on getting married.Every day I have moments that i think she is not for me and other times im happy.I think im 65 to 70% happy with her.Is this enough to spend your life ...
A. 15 August 2012: what are you thinking that marriage is?
it's day to day living...
we are together two years and we are like an old married couple... having been married before I can see this.
we don't have sex often... once a week is a good amount of tim... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 15 August 2012: OP, do you even READ what we write? I was a mother before YOU WERE BORN honey. MY BABY is older than you… I was NEVER unsure of what I wanted. I am NOT getting married AGAIN to have children. I am way past that phase of my life… my fiancé ... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 15 August 2012: First of all I never said you were wacko. By you saying that I said you were wacko that tells me that you think you are wacko and are looking for other wackos to validate your opinion.
I also don’t think your views of man/woman relation... (read in full...)
Is it over or is he just sweating me?
Q. Dear all, Please advise. I Have had a very rocky relationship with my BF. We had an argument last week in which I told him he is selfish, which he is. Usually, when we fall out , things kinda get sorted wihtin 2 - 3 day, (it' usually me who init...
A. 14 August 2012: why in the world do you need for HIM to end it? YOU can end it. In fact, you have... contact is over.
IF he contacts you, tell him "you didn't respond to me when I called or texted, I assumed it was over and moved on, now you do the same"
... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 13 August 2012: So you don’t think that women have sexual needs or that men have emotional needs? How can a woman have a connection with a man that sees a marriage as a business deal?
You could not, in the scenario you present convince me that you could meet a w... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 13 August 2012: If you date someone and it doesn’t work out, you end dating them.. no marriage
If you date someone and it works out… marriage… not sure what the disconnect is for you OP…
And to be honest I Think that most of the women that answered you are marr... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 13 August 2012: I have a question for you OP, why would you approach a woman you do not know and ask her to marry you?
What do you think that marriage is about?
If a man I did not know came to me and asked me to marry him citing financial security a... (read in full...)
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