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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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How do I make it clear to women that I am NOT interested in dating right now?
Q. I'm scarred by a bad breakup. Now, I have a NASTY impression of the dating world. I have 2 questions. First, how do I give the signal to girls in general, that I'm NOT in the mood to date, so that they can look for someone that'll actually be ...
A. 21 October 2012: just in case what?
if you are TRULY not interested in dating, then you won't need to know what the subtle signs are as you won't even notice them...
me thinks you are interested.... and that you think pretending you are not is the way to go... (read in full...)
How do I stop gay guys from hitting on me? I'm straight!
Q. I don't know whether I should address it at other guys, gals, or perhaps gay men. The problem is that I keep getting hit by gay men. The thing is that I am in no way undecided, I am into women, point. And I'm not exactly the warm, romantic t...
A. 16 September 2012: Stupid American here... is there something negative about being profiled as German???
as for the rest of your update.. I'm sorry my brother is gay as is his husband (obviously) but that does not mean that they are different from any other ma... (read in full...)
My fiance isn't telling people that we're getting married. Is something up?
Q. Back in August, my boyfriend and I decided that we will get married this October. We're both have been divorced in the past (no kids), so we're keeping it small and simple (family only). I'm not the type that fusses over engagement rings, big ...
A. 14 September 2012: Well then see it's all good honey.. he was just trying to avoid being the center of attention....
best of luck to you
we get married October 6th..... enjoy a nice Fall wedding...
lovely time later on for a nice get away weekend.... (read in full...)
Why do people always say its good to be a virgin? what's so great about it?
Q. Im an 18yr old guy, just out of school, and I'm still a virgin...I don't understand why it's so hard...why I dislike it so much...I feel like I'm missing out...like everyone else is in on something that I'm not a part of. Then people say its a good ...
A. 13 September 2012: Therapy will help with the self-hatred. Therapy will help you get over your fear of female naughty bits…
There really is someone out there for you… but you are so full of self-loathing you can’t see it.
Listen to me… I’m 52. My back is cripp... (read in full...)
How do I make it clear to women that I am NOT interested in dating right now?
Q. I'm scarred by a bad breakup. Now, I have a NASTY impression of the dating world. I have 2 questions. First, how do I give the signal to girls in general, that I'm NOT in the mood to date, so that they can look for someone that'll actually be ...
A. 13 September 2012: I don't know what ALL the girls will do
will the tall girls feel that way or just the tall redheads...
the ones that understand will understand
the ones that think you are blowing them off will think you are blowing them off.
but t... (read in full...)
How do I let my wife know I found her vibrators without it looking like I was snooping?
Q. Hi Married for 10 yrs, wife and I have great sex, when we have it. Over the last 6 mth or so, we only have sex when she drinks, which is maybe once a month. I heard all the excuses...You smell like choclate, you smell like garlic, you are ...
A. 13 September 2012: I think not.
How about you take her out to a lovely dinner and DISCUSS with her that you would like to improve your sex life and then ask her if she has any suggestions....
if she does not then you could suggest it....
do not just "spring... (read in full...)
My fiance isn't telling people that we're getting married. Is something up?
Q. Back in August, my boyfriend and I decided that we will get married this October. We're both have been divorced in the past (no kids), so we're keeping it small and simple (family only). I'm not the type that fusses over engagement rings, big ...
A. 12 September 2012: Again OP if you don't know you really have to ASK HIM....
and if you are AFRAID to ask him what's going on, then you have to question if you are ready to marry a man whom you can't ask why.....
It may not be that he cheated on you... why in... (read in full...)
My fiance isn't telling people that we're getting married. Is something up?
Q. Back in August, my boyfriend and I decided that we will get married this October. We're both have been divorced in the past (no kids), so we're keeping it small and simple (family only). I'm not the type that fusses over engagement rings, big ...
A. 12 September 2012: Well we don't know what he's thinking but I can kind of understand it... He's told the family, and you've told close friends... you have a date set and finalized plans... so it sounds to me like he just likes to keep work as separate from home as ... (read in full...)
My Co-worker has a Gf but keeps on winking at me. I'm interested, but how should I indicate that? Or could I be mistaking his intentions?
Q. I have a coworker that has been winking at me for sometime. I didnt really pay it any attention at first because I thought that he was just friendly. However,I really noticed it this last time when he winked really slow and pointed his finger at me ...
A. 12 September 2012: my first thought was that maybe he has tourettes syndrome.... the wink and all...
how flattered you must feel that a younger taken man is going after you.... don't be. many men that are aggressive towards older women (and you are quite yo... (read in full...)
My fiance feels diminished because I'm working and he is not
Q. I need help, my boyfriend whom is my husband to be on the 23rd of February this year, is not working @ the moment, he graduated his degree in Motor Mechanics, this means I know that soon he shall be working,I am working already and have a good job, ...
A. 12 September 2012: What does he mean you don't treat him well?
is it ONLY because you are working?
or when you get home are you short tempered and tired?
I know that the 9 months my Fiance was not working were very stressful on us...
but not because ... (read in full...)
Can she really be faithful to me?
Q. I am currently living with my girlfriend whom I've been dating for nearly a year now and she is pregnant with our first child. We fell in love while she was married to another man. I've always been slightly worried if she cheated on him she is ...
A. 11 September 2012: I think I already answered another of your questions about her...
with her downloading the porn and lying about it right?
my first husband was emotionally abusive... I didn't cheat on him I left him
my second husband tried to kill me whe... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I'm a virgin? I want the first time to be special.
Q. Hey everyone I am 23 years old and I am a virgin..I have never really had any serious real relationship,I have just french kissed 2 men that's it..I was just waiting for the right man..now i'm finally in a real relationship but my boyfriend doesn't ...
A. 11 September 2012: it's not a V card.
it's not something you GIVE to someone else
it's not something someone takes from you...
It's going to suck
it always does when you wait for that special someone.
it won't be romantic... not the actual sex...
... (read in full...)
I found my boyfriend has been masturbating on webcam to four other girls
Q. Hi everyone. So, I've been dating this guy for 6 months - but I found out he had been masturbating on webcam to four other girls, including two girls who I know personally, one of whom used to be one of my best friends a few years back. He also ha...
A. 11 September 2012: no honey it doesn't change anything.
read what Honeypie and FA wrote again...... (read in full...)
How can I make myself more approachable to women?
Q. Hi, there everyone. I recently asked a question a couple of weeks saying that I was 22 years old and a virgin. to be honest I worry about attracting girls and how to be approachable. when I'm in college, there are so many nice girls who I would to...
A. 11 September 2012: are you well groomed?
are you wearing fashionable clothing in the proper sizes?
do not wear baggy pants... ugh...
do not walk around with your clothes 2 sizes to big UGH
oh wait... I'm old... maybe the young girls like that...
be wel... (read in full...)
Some days I get a lot of male attention and other days nothing
Q. Same dress, same hair, same make up, same place. One night guys are all over me askin for my number, buying me drinks. Went out with same girlfriends yesterday night there, no attention whatsoever. One asked my friend if I'm having fun. I was act...
A. 11 September 2012: the moon was out of alignment?
a million reasons could be why...
maybe they were the same guys the last time you wore the dress
maybe it was different friends
maybe the guys had different friends
or they were just out for drinks
i... (read in full...)
How do I flirt with a girl I've just met?
Q. I was just at the hospital picking up my cousin. While I was roaming around the gift shop, an extremely beautiful girl came in to buy something. We instantly locked eyes for like three seconds. She gave a friendly smile that seemed to say "I like ...
A. 11 September 2012: honestly... it's not a big deal.. the problem is if she's as clueless as I was a that age she wont' get it... ROFL...
but Bond Girl has it down.
you smile..
say hi
how are you
make small talk
from there you can see if she maybe w... (read in full...)
My cheating ex seems to be trying to inch his way back into my life
Q. Hi all got a problem with the ex. We was together for a year or so and things was great between us,lived together, we was like best friends until i noticed he was a bit controlling, didnt like me going out without him drinking, was always on my ba...
A. 11 September 2012: you would be the backup
you would take him back
and he would cheat again
is that what you want
then he will leave
and go to the new woman because NOW he knows you will TAKE HIM BACK...
ugh... do not fall for it.... (read in full...)
Why is my girlfriend lying about watching porn?
Q. I recently found out my girlfriend is downloading porn. This wouldn't concern me except for the fact that she has said she has no interest in porn and scoffed at the idea when we talked about it recently. She has expressed numerous times that I am ...
A. 11 September 2012: I often have the urge to cuddle and kiss my partner but have sex with him... naw I'd rather masturbate... faster ,easier, less mess, I can control it...
doesn't mean I don't love him...
and he likes to look at porn of young Asian women... s... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and my 25 year old friend hints that he wants to date me. Is there anything wrong with this?
Q. Hy. I dont know if this is a bad idea or not. Lately ive been friends with an awesome, kind ,funny an intelligent guy for 8 months. I like him so much. He s been telling me the past whole week that one day 'when the time is right' he would ...
A. 11 September 2012: If you have to worry about what mommy and daddy think, you are not ready to date this man.
At 16 I would NOT allow my child to date an adult male. At 25 I had children. I was married for years already.
There are tons of things wrong with a man... (read in full...)
My fiance isn't telling people that we're getting married. Is something up?
Q. Back in August, my boyfriend and I decided that we will get married this October. We're both have been divorced in the past (no kids), so we're keeping it small and simple (family only). I'm not the type that fusses over engagement rings, big ...
A. 11 September 2012: yeah if it's just family that's all you have to say...
I think SageOldguy was trying to be funny....
as for your fiance... if he has a valid (in his mind) reason... i"m not sure you can force him to do it...
october is only a... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping with a guy who has a girlfriend. I want a bit more but not a relationship, I don't know how to tell him without scaring him off. What do I do?
Q. I just got out an 8 year relationship about 6 months ago and I cant separate my feelings from sex. Ive always considered myself to have a high sex drive, but majority of the time I was in relationships, so I didnt have to have casual sex but I have ...
A. 11 September 2012: I agree that the fact that you think it's perfectly ok to sleep with someone who had a girlfriend is the issue you need to address... just because he has a partner does not mean he won't start to care for you. (betting you think that a partnered ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was touching himself during foreplay. Does this mean he wasn't turned on by me?
Q. Hi, Hope you can help. I am in a new relationship with a guy. I am not very sexually experienced, so was nervous when we slept together for the first time. During our second time together in bed, we had lots of foreplay as I told him I did not...
A. 11 September 2012: nope it means he was touching himself because you were so hot that he needed to relieve more tension... you didn't want sex and he didn't want to push you so he figured he would take matters into his own hands...
sounds Normal to me.... (read in full...)
Why is my girlfriend lying about watching porn?
Q. I recently found out my girlfriend is downloading porn. This wouldn't concern me except for the fact that she has said she has no interest in porn and scoffed at the idea when we talked about it recently. She has expressed numerous times that I am ...
A. 11 September 2012: she's pregnant... our hormones are insane then... there should actually be three genders... male female and PREGNANT as pregnant woman are unlike NON-pregnant women or men...
just because she's looking at porn of different ethnicity do... (read in full...)
How do I stop gay guys from hitting on me? I'm straight!
Q. I don't know whether I should address it at other guys, gals, or perhaps gay men. The problem is that I keep getting hit by gay men. The thing is that I am in no way undecided, I am into women, point. And I'm not exactly the warm, romantic t...
A. 11 September 2012: "I'm flattered but I'm straight, thank you for the lovely compliment"
and that's what it is my friend, a LOVELY COMPLIMENT...... (read in full...)
My fiance isn't telling people that we're getting married. Is something up?
Q. Back in August, my boyfriend and I decided that we will get married this October. We're both have been divorced in the past (no kids), so we're keeping it small and simple (family only). I'm not the type that fusses over engagement rings, big ...
A. 11 September 2012: I'm getting married in 3 1/2 weeks and my fiance has STILL not told his family..... (they are not invited to our wedding)
maybe he's just not telling folks because he does not see the need if they are not coming to the wedding and he does not want... (read in full...)
Does she not like me?
Q. I like this girl. I sent her flowers. I don't see her because we are not close or have any friends in common, but we are friends so I have her phone number. I left her a message with my phone number saying that the flowers are from me. She did n...
A. 11 September 2012: you do not see her
you have no friends in common
you like her.. you have her number..how did you get it?
sounds to me a bit stalkerish....
... (read in full...)
How can I make him fall for me instead?
Q. I have a crush on this guy since last year and at first he was really into me but then he got closer to another girl from school and nothing happened between us. Is there a way that I can make him like me? I am honestly realy bad at being flirty ...
A. 11 September 2012: there is no way you can make someone want you over another person... chemistry is just that confusing...
even if you were excellent at being flirty and sexy it WOULD NOT MATTER... he does not want you that way...
... (read in full...)
Help me overcome my fear of performing fellatio
Q. I have not given a blow job, I believe I have a fear of giving them. I need help getting over this fear so I can have a good sexual relationship. Please give me any tips or advice to get over this....
A. 11 September 2012: well what is your fear? choking? you can control that...
gagging... we all gag from it now and then...
do you currently have a partner?
is he pressuring you? or is this something you WANT to do?... (read in full...)
He left his mistress to reconcile with me but he keeps comparing me to her
Q. I'll try to keep this short. My husband and I had been married only 3 years when I caught him having an affair. Long story, but the short version is that he told me he had to visit a sick relative over Xmas. What really happened is that he was 1...
A. 11 September 2012: Why in the world did you take him back?
Why do you want to be with him?
What do you get out of this relationship?
What keeps you from kicking this idiot to the curb?
I know lots of men that want taller women… they think of me as FUN SIZED... (read in full...)
Do I accept that she doesn't want a reconciliation?
Q. Hi Guys, My ex girlfriend recently told me she wanted me back, but she's not ready for a relationship, we kissed and cuddled. We have been out a few times, but her attitude to me is always very blunt in messages and phone calls, I get zero affe...
A. 11 September 2012: you accept that yes...
sounds like she's agreeable to a fast game of "slap and tickle" if you want it but not a relationship...
you're a known person... safe and easy...
but the minute she finds someone else you will be history.
do ... (read in full...)
How do I take on a company protected by the Government?
Q. Hello all, I'm writting about how the world lets law breakers break the law. I was hurt in a bad work accident were a law was changed on crane operations. I had 3000 lbs of pure hard concrete fall on me and ruined my life and made my life ...
A. 11 September 2012: Honey I have a standing scrip for Tramadol (synthetic morphine) Vicodan AND muscle relaxers so strong I can only take them if I'm in bed.... I feel your pain...
and I have no one to blame as mine is newly genetic...
I know the pain is very... (read in full...)
We keep bumping into each other and having one night stands, should we keep it this way or should I ask him to meet up and talk?
Q. Hey everyone, So when I was 20 I had a one night stand with a guy I met at my flight actually,he was sitting next to me we spoke we had a stop at a place for 5 hours and we had sex..and that was it.. When I turned 22 my girlfriends took me to cabo ...
A. 11 September 2012: so you keep running into this guy...all over the world but not at home... weird... very weird...
personally my take on it is that he hooks up with anyone and everyone he can.. and if you were jealous of him with friends and he's traveling al... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend that his girlfriend cheated on him?
Q. Hi.. I recently found out that my friends girlfriend cheated on him with one of our mutual friends about 6 months a go. My friend told me about a month a go that he had slept with her. Apparently it happended once when they were drunk, after a bad ...
A. 11 September 2012: If it was me I would mind my own business.
YOU are not part of THEIR relationship.
I realize you feel a loyalty to him but if he sides with her you may wreck your friendship with this guy forever.... (read in full...)
Has anyone got herpes and how do you tel people and how do they react do you get rejected often?
Q. a few days ago a guy that i had been dating about a year ago contacted me and informed me during the time i was with him he had herpes. this was very upsetting for me because he said he knew he had it and didnt want to tell me.even when i asked him ...
A. 11 September 2012: My cousin has Genital warts.. she's never passed it on and has never had a problem.
My brother has HEP-C his husband is HIV positive
both had their respective disorders over 15 years ago. they are together 12 years, have a normal life and ... (read in full...)
Why do people always say its good to be a virgin? what's so great about it?
Q. Im an 18yr old guy, just out of school, and I'm still a virgin...I don't understand why it's so hard...why I dislike it so much...I feel like I'm missing out...like everyone else is in on something that I'm not a part of. Then people say its a good ...
A. 11 September 2012: OP what you said in your follow up speaks volumes: “but I am ultimately what I hate. “
You said what the core issue is… YOU HATE YOURSELF… virgin or not you will HATE yourself without some strong therapy to work on this issue.
I have to ... (read in full...)
Is it normal that my boyfriend and I don't talk when we're apart?
Q. Me and and boyfriend has been together for almost a year. When we were together in same city, we meet around 2/3 times a week and almost everyday when we have to study together. but whenever either of us is traveling/ back home, we don't talk at ...
A. 11 September 2012: If you are happy and he is happy then it's all good.
for me personally it would make me nuts to not hear from my LDR every day.... but that's me... ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my friend with her much older, possessive boyfriend
Q. The situation is this. I am friends with a work colleague, and lately we have gotten a bit closer, so she has started to confide in me about her relationship. I've heard gossip before about her partner, people have mentioned that he is a great de...
A. 11 September 2012: The only thing you can do is let her know that if she ever needs a place to stay or a friend you are there for her.
OTHER than that... .don't do or say anything.
FWIW, I have a partner who some deem abusive. I'm happy to deal with him... and... (read in full...)
What would you think of an otherwise decent woman having a one night stand in the distant past?
Q. If you were dating a woman of good standing, moral fibre and integrity.... what would you think of her if you found out she made one big mistake several years ago in the form of a one night stand found from the internet? Would who she is today be ...
A. 11 September 2012: “If you were dating a man of good standing, moral fibre and integrity.... what would you think of her if you found out she made one big mistake several years ago in the form of a one night stand found from the internet?”
I fixed it for you…. ... (read in full...)
How do I let my wife know I found her vibrators without it looking like I was snooping?
Q. Hi Married for 10 yrs, wife and I have great sex, when we have it. Over the last 6 mth or so, we only have sex when she drinks, which is maybe once a month. I heard all the excuses...You smell like choclate, you smell like garlic, you are ...
A. 10 September 2012: I asked my fiance the other day how come he never masturbates in front of me and his comment was 'it's private"
perhaps that's how your wife feels about HER masturbation... it's HER TIME... and NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS...
why is she keepin... (read in full...)
Whats going on with my life?
Q. Hi aunt Agony, I use to be really fit and active, hiking, indoor and outdoor sport, working out, but recently stopped because I have major injuries from rhe start of this year. I am outgoing and good looking (I have been told).For a time now I feel ...
A. 10 September 2012: no motivation
injuries
stress
lack of funds
I'm casting my vote for depression....
see a doctor for a workup for that...... (read in full...)
I told him I love him but he said he would never love me
Q. i met a guy 2 months ago on a dating site. we agreed we were only going to be friends with benefits. but now i am in love with him but he says he will never love me. we have seen each other 16 times now and thats alot. i give him blow jobs and we h...
A. 10 September 2012: stop seeing him NOW
block his calls
block his email
delete all his info from everything.
HE is not EVER going to love you back dear one...
he is using you because you let him.... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a man to respect the woman with whom he has a sex only arrangement?
Q. Is it possible for a man to REALLY have respect for a woman with whom he only wants to have a sexual relationship with? And....why would a man who is 47 years old NOW in his life be looking to get married and have children? I'm not judging anyone, ...
A. 10 September 2012: well I know a guy who is getting married Saturday. He's 52 and it's his first... he just never met the right woman.
In 4 weeks my fiance is getting married. He's 39 and he's never been married... thankfully he does NOT want children... ... (read in full...)
I no longer enjoy sex with my fiance
Q. Please help. Im 23yrs old been with my fiancee 3 yrs we have kids. I do not enjoy sex at all. I think the problem is i cant get horny or wet. It used to be that i would get horny and we would have sex and sometimes id love it and sometimes i would ...
A. 10 September 2012: how about using some LUBE????
we use lube a lot... invest in the very good silicon based stuff... more expensive but worth it.
if he won't use a vibrator then you can tell him that you will have to find a lover who will.
my man can't us... (read in full...)
My wife is more like a room mate
Q. I guess I'll get right to it... I have been married for 6 years and have a 4 yr old daughter. I have known my wife for 18yrs. We started dating when we were both young (21 me, 23 her) and broke up 4 yrs later. Then 6 years after that she was passing ...
A. 10 September 2012: well the FIRST thing you must do is grow a pair and TALK TO YOUR WIFE.
yes reaching out to total strangers on the internet is always the best way to go...but in this case, since you are pretty sure she is clueless that you are miserabl... (read in full...)
This hot guy might be a player who thinks I'm easy
Q. Dear Cupid, I met this guy recently at hard rock cafe. In fact, i met this bunch of guys. Let me start from the beginning. My friend and i went to HRC on the weekend...we were just having some fun and chilling. My friend got a bit tipsy and i ...
A. 10 September 2012: well then just be yourself and if he treats you like property then don't see him again...
... (read in full...)
How do I make it clear to women that I am NOT interested in dating right now?
Q. I'm scarred by a bad breakup. Now, I have a NASTY impression of the dating world. I have 2 questions. First, how do I give the signal to girls in general, that I'm NOT in the mood to date, so that they can look for someone that'll actually be ...
A. 10 September 2012: Why does it matter if they want you... if you are not interested you are not interested and what THEY want is not an issue.
see to me, what that tells me is you WANT them to want you so you figure if you play it cool they will.... what's up wi... (read in full...)
How does one go about ending a marriage amicably?
Q. I've decided to go for a divorce with my marriage of 9 months. I can't talk to my wife and have not been laid for 3 months. This is crazy and she's driving me out of her arms. I've tried and tried to let her know that I'm not happy. I do well in ...
A. 10 September 2012: have you asked her what's going on?
for us it has come to a near complete halt because no matter what my guy does he will never satisfy me...
how old is your wife? I'm 52 now and my back is so very painful for me most of the time I just w... (read in full...)
Would it be illegal or considered disgusting for me to date a former teacher?
Q. I am 18 years old and I'm a college student now. I have a huge crush on my English teacher in secondary school. He's 20 years older than me. However, he's baby-faced and he's a real gentleman. When I was still in secondary school, we used to hav...
A. 10 September 2012: not illegal
not disgusting
but probably not feasible either....
what makes you think that he's really interested that way?... (read in full...)
Is my wife losing interest in me what is going on?
Q. I'm married almost a year to my wife , I am 44 and she is 21 . For the past 3 to 4 weeks I am noticing a dramatic change in her and I'm wondering is there something wrong or is she losing interest in me or what.? For the past few weeks she has been ...
A. 10 September 2012: she sounds VERY pregnant to me... has she peed on a stick?
what birth control do you two use?
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This hot guy might be a player who thinks I'm easy
Q. Dear Cupid, I met this guy recently at hard rock cafe. In fact, i met this bunch of guys. Let me start from the beginning. My friend and i went to HRC on the weekend...we were just having some fun and chilling. My friend got a bit tipsy and i ...
A. 10 September 2012: he just wants to notch his belt with a virgin...do NOT have sex with him....... (read in full...)
How do I make it clear to women that I am NOT interested in dating right now?
Q. I'm scarred by a bad breakup. Now, I have a NASTY impression of the dating world. I have 2 questions. First, how do I give the signal to girls in general, that I'm NOT in the mood to date, so that they can look for someone that'll actually be ...
A. 10 September 2012: well have women changed so much in 30 years that they are asking men out?
if they aren't asking you out then what's the problem?
if they are asking you out, then all you do is say
"I'm sorry I'm not dating right"
however the... (read in full...)
How does one go about ending a marriage amicably?
Q. I've decided to go for a divorce with my marriage of 9 months. I can't talk to my wife and have not been laid for 3 months. This is crazy and she's driving me out of her arms. I've tried and tried to let her know that I'm not happy. I do well in ...
A. 10 September 2012: have you told her you are not happy and want out of the marriage?
she may be relieved that you want to go and not sure how to tell you she's sorry too...
btw ROMANCE is not a requirement of marriage... and the comment "I have not bee... (read in full...)
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