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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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He won't officially end it if that's what he wants? What to do? I feel stuck!
Q. Dear all, Please advise. My Bf of 18 months moved recently ( not too far away) and he has been seeing me less and less. We had an argument and he left for two weeks, then came back breifly and I had it out with him then when I called him the next ...
A. 23 September 2012: hang in there OP.... it will get easier..... (read in full...)
He won't officially end it if that's what he wants? What to do? I feel stuck!
Q. Dear all, Please advise. My Bf of 18 months moved recently ( not too far away) and he has been seeing me less and less. We had an argument and he left for two weeks, then came back breifly and I had it out with him then when I called him the next ...
A. 21 September 2012: NO. NO NO NO NO NO!
Sorry that was my first response…. I’m calming down now… of course he wants to “be friends”
He doesn’t want to tell you what’s going on….
You asked if he’s seeing someone and he said NO…. do you believe him? Wh... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting to the constant texts and calls
Q. Boyfriend constantly texting and calling another woman.... Please help, i have been with my partner for 4years and to be honest it hasnt been easy, after the 1st year he dumped me as he had feelings for a female friend. we got back together a...
A. 21 September 2012: Not making first contact is only part of it.
NOT replying is also part of it....
if you are hurting and he's not responsive to your requests and needs.... well the writing is on the wall.
you have to do what you need to do to make you ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents I'm soon to be engaged?
Q. How do I tell my parents about my relationship? I'm just 20 and my girl is also 20 and we are going to get engaged..my girl's parents got to know about the relationship and asked me to break up... I'm not in a situation to break up.. I have gone ...
A. 20 September 2012: Do your parents know you are dating her?
what's the rush to be engaged?
why do her parents want you to break up?
... (read in full...)
Truly love my wife, only been with her, want to try another woman though.
Q. Hello there, I married my high school sweetheart. We have been together for near 15 years, married only about 5 years. We had kids "really" young. I have only ever slept with her and she has only ever slept with me 100% fact. So in technical ter...
A. 20 September 2012: Do NOT do it and then seek forgiveness.
IF your wife is ok with it
and you are wanting it
DISCUSS it first
GET PRE-approval
keep her in the loop
you may find however when push comes to shove she's all talk and her jealousy may ta... (read in full...)
How can I tell if I've had a miscarriage?
Q. so today i got my period well i think i was about 2 months late and didnt know if i was pregnant or not i took a at home pregnancy test and it came out negative but i still thought i was pregnant. so what if im having a miss carriage would i know? ...
A. 20 September 2012: Third vote for CONTACT the doctor.
NOW!
we have no clue what's going on and false positives (and false negatives) are very common with home pregnancy tests.
... (read in full...)
I'm concerned about my 45 year old boyfriend's friendship with a 22 year old French woman
Q. My boyfriend who is 45 has a female friend who is 22, who is French, who he met 4 years ago when she was visiting England. She visits every year and they hang out, also he has been to stay with her and her parents in France. The thing is, I...
A. 19 September 2012: he may have been like my now ex husband.. telling her those things so she would reciprocate and stroke his ego.
or he could be lying to you
either way it's not a good sign.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps files on all his previous girlfriends
Q. My boyfriend keeps files on all his ex-girlfriends. Is this normal? He was on a dating site before he met me and he had files, manila folders, with print-outs of the women he dated and their correspondence back and forth through the computer. ...
A. 19 September 2012: MEMENTOS are one thing Cerberus but a folder on each woman with info such as how nice their homes were, what they wore when they slept together, whether they showered together or not, and what dates he called them, are NOT mementos.. mementos are ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend blocked me on Messenger
Q. Hi My bf of 2 years blocked me in messager saying I'm disturbing his work. I don't send messages often, I send one in morning to say good morning and one at night. He never responds when I asked about that, he blocked me. What should I do now?...
A. 19 September 2012: are you guys local or is this LDR?
... (read in full...)
Does this sound like a double date? And how can we stop getting angry with each other so often? General life advice needed.
Q. hey so i have been with my amazing boyfriend around 5-6 months its been so great we really do love each other and i cant imagen my life without him, we get on well but we bicker in a kinda married cuple way and well its fine but now it gotten wrost ...
A. 19 September 2012: You are young dear…. 5-6 months is not a lot of time…
If you are fighting at 13-15 (like a married couple) and you still are both in school and living with your parents that’s not a good thing…
You say you really do love each other but I think ... (read in full...)
Do steroids affect relations with others?
Q. I want to know if any of you have had a friendship or relationship with any man whose done steroids? What mood changes did they experience? How did you deal with them? Etc thanks for any input....
A. 19 September 2012: I cannot begin to improve on Maverick94's last post.
read it again and again...
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He won't officially end it if that's what he wants? What to do? I feel stuck!
Q. Dear all, Please advise. My Bf of 18 months moved recently ( not too far away) and he has been seeing me less and less. We had an argument and he left for two weeks, then came back breifly and I had it out with him then when I called him the next ...
A. 19 September 2012: GOOD girl.
stay strong it will pass in a few weeks.. the weekend will be hard... ... (read in full...)
Is this a crush or something more?
Q. I've had a crush on him for going on 4 years now. Even though he has admitted past feelings for me, it's probably never going to happen, but my crush doesn't show any signs of clearing up. I've never had any feelings for anyone else. (Just to clear...
A. 19 September 2012: well then it's a crush... nothing more.
and I'm betting when you go off to college (UNI) then you will meet new people and the crush will fade..... (read in full...)
Is this just some fun for him, or could there be more?
Q. I recently started a online chat relationship with a guy I met in a chat room. Things progressed and became more sexual in nature i.e. cybersex but the without the benefits of a cam, we would call each other or send IM messages. The thing is...
A. 19 September 2012: ok you met online strike one
he's much older than you strike two
EVERY time he contacts you it deteriorates to cyber sex STRIKE THREE
you have never had a real boyfriend and are naive about this STRIKE FOUR
and the biggest issue YOU AR... (read in full...)
He's a good friend, but he wants more. Am I leading him on?
Q. I've been texting my male friend very often these days. He is my classmate, class project group mate, and two years younger than me. From our chats I learned that he has never had a girlfriend and from our friendship I know he is very genuine and ...
A. 19 September 2012: yeah I would be a bit less accessible for him
and i would talk about lots of other boys you have met even if you are not totally interested in him.
totally "friendzone" him.
if that's what you really want
he's your best friend
... (read in full...)
Pregnant and in love with someone else ..
Q. I dated a guy for almost 2 and a half years , he was my high school sweet heart. I literally love everything about him. We've been through so much an supported one another through many many problems. Unfortunately a few months ago we broke up. One ...
A. 19 September 2012: fathers are sperm donors... daddys are the ones kids need...
any man can be a sperm donor... it takes a special man to be a dad.
do not think that the sperm donor is your only option to parent this child.
you really need to be alone a... (read in full...)
What can I say to my friend? I was not sure what to say about a 13 year old teen wanting to read 'Fifty Shades of Grey' Could a 13 year old handle reading it?
Q. I've asked a question here before and I got very good advice, which I used very well, thank you. I have another question and it concerns my friend. I don't really sit with her in lunch very much, and I only have one class with her which is civi...
A. 19 September 2012: if she doesn't want to ask her parents then I think she's not ready to read it.
... (read in full...)
I need to stop! But how? I can't stop contacting an abusive ex boyfriend. Any tips on how to get stronger?
Q. I can't seem to stop contacting my ex! Any tips? I was with him for 3 years and he turned out to be verbally and emotionally abusive that recently escalated into physical abuse on more than one occasion. We had a condo together and he stil...
A. 19 September 2012: Why are you contacting him? What’s the reason?
Why does who he hangs out with bug you? Why is the age an issue?
It’s not YOUR bed.. you moved out right? It’s HIS bed… what he does in HIS bed (he’s your ex after all ) is NOT your concern... (read in full...)
Are we allowing this to move forward too quickly? My 42 year old school teacher from the past and I have just started dating. Is this a good idea or not?
Q. Hey everybody my name is katie and i am 24 years old. And i am currently dating my former high school science teacher. You see 3 weeks ago i bumped into him waiting in line for coffee at starbucks. And we exchanged number as a way to catch up. And...
A. 19 September 2012: big age gap... even I'm not so sure this is a good idea and I'm probably the biggest supporter of age gap relationships on this site...
is he divorced or never married?
making out at a dinner or a diner? cause one is private and one is p... (read in full...)
What if she doesn't call? Should I still attempt to talk to her if she does not call, or leave her alone?
Q. Hi, sorry this is so long. I met this girl. We started talking recently, since we started talking she offered to buy me lunch once and gave me her e-mail address. She is extremely nice to me and she always smiles at me. Recently she mentioned sh...
A. 19 September 2012: be aware that WOMEN for the most part like to VENT about their problems but do NOT expect you to fix them or try to fix them.. often they just want you to listen
MEN like to fix things so they try and it pisses women off.
I'd call and touc... (read in full...)
Why has my friend of 10 years cut me off? I'm so confused. I've dug deep to try to figure out why she's mad at me
Q. I have been good friends with another woman for almost ten years. We met right after we graduated from college and moved to the city. Throughout the years we shared a lot of laughter and tears. Two years ago she and her husband had a ba...
A. 19 September 2012: my best friend when we were kids from like 14-21 and i lost touch after i had a child... we just had NOTHING in common.
now my kids are grown and we have after 25 years reconnected.
it's not the same but we are trying to see each other every... (read in full...)
I need my ex to be part of my life, how do I get him to be my friend despite me dating someone else?
Q. How do i get my ex to at least try to be friends with me?? Despite of me dating someone else. He was an important person and in a way still is... i mean i feel like someday we will have another chance. But when we are more mature because we were ...
A. 19 September 2012: I don't believe we should be friends with exs.
friendly yes.. say hi when we see them ask how they are then keep going..
calling them NO
texting them NO
emailing them... depends... i just got an email the other day from my first husb... (read in full...)
How do you make someone fall back in love with you? There has to be a way!
Q. Lots of people say once the love has gone it can never come back. Yet so many people get back together and even remarry each other after a divorce. So people obviously can fall back in love. My question though, is how? I'm desperate for my husband ...
A. 19 September 2012: Well if you live a life full of joy and happiness and he sees you being happy and joyful perhaps that will reignite his interest?
... (read in full...)
Is this implantation cramp or normal cramps?
Q. A few days ago i fingered my girlfriend that might have traces of dry precum on my finger,4 days later she is feeling these cramps,she said that it feels like her period is coming earlier than usual. Our clothes and everything were on so there is ...
A. 19 September 2012: OH Please this is the second post worrying about her being pregnant from fingering... do you understand she CAN'T get pregnant from fingering.....
if you don't understand that you need to stop being sexual.
you said her period was due ... (read in full...)
Am I being used as a sugar mama in this marriage?
Q. I am 34 and my hubby is 30. We have been married for two years. I told him my age just when we met, and he hid his till about a year and half into the relationship. I never bothered much cos I thought he could be just a few months to a year old...
A. 19 September 2012: Honey FOUR years is nothing at your age. When I was 34 my fiancé would have been 21…
Secondly, if he has stopped all contact with her it’s clear she was trying to make trouble
I make 25% more than my fiancé and we have OUR home and OUR money no... (read in full...)
Can you break your hymen during masturbation?
Q. Im a 19year old virgin girl who has become quite addicted to porn and mustarbation..thing is i want o wait till marriage so if anyone can answer me truthfully if its possible to push back or break the hymen after mustarbating by opening my legs high ...
A. 19 September 2012: it's possible to break your hymen skipping rope, riding a bike, climbing trees, riding a horse or doing yoga... so yeah it's possible.
it does not make you a NON virgin (in other words until a penis enters your vagina you are a virgin)
and not... (read in full...)
I think my friend might have an eating disorder and she won't listen to anyone
Q. My friend has just come back to university, but it's strange because she doesn't eat as much as she used to. We went for lunch the other day and she chucked more than half in the bin, then we bought food out at the end of our night out and she ...
A. 19 September 2012: well if she has pain or discomfort then that may be a sign that there is a problem.
I was eating very little last summer... I thought I was ok because I had gastric bypass and I was supposed to eat small amounts. I HAD NO CLUE I WAS GROWING ... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting to the constant texts and calls
Q. Boyfriend constantly texting and calling another woman.... Please help, i have been with my partner for 4years and to be honest it hasnt been easy, after the 1st year he dumped me as he had feelings for a female friend. we got back together a...
A. 19 September 2012: IF it bothers you then you have to tell him that he has to make a choice.
BUT be advised that the last time someone told me to make a choice I chose the person not making the demand... so you have to decide are you willing to lose him over thi... (read in full...)
I just found out my friend likes my girlfriend! Can I lose her?
Q. Dear agony aunts, There was an uneasy moment at the university I want to discuss with someone badly. There is a guy, we used to be friends with, 4 years ago when I entered the university, the kind of friends you meet first when you enter a ...
A. 19 September 2012: you are not friends with this guy... you are acquaintances..
and no one can STEAL a person from another person...
if she is able to be "stolen" then she was not that into you in the first place.
I'd not worry at all.
... (read in full...)
My Boyfriend has forbidden me to talk to my best friend. How should I deal with this?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for a year now. things are great between us but he found out 4 months ago that i used to have feelings for my best friend and my best friend has feelings for me this made him very upset and he forbidded me to speak to ...
A. 19 September 2012: your feelings for your "best friend" are not resolved and are not merely those of FRIENDS....
your current boyfriend while NOT RIGHT in his execution of his feelings (telling you what you can and cannot do and who you can and cannot see i... (read in full...)
Isn't it a bit extreme for my boyfriend to just cut certain people out of his life?
Q. This really weird interaction happened when I was out with my boyfriend. We were walking along holding hands. We saw a friend of his in the street, my boyfriend called out to him to say hi. Then they were chatting briefly and then his friend looked ...
A. 19 September 2012: OP your update is worrisome.
He's cut off his OWN CHILD? with or without remorse?
he's cut off his SISTER? what did she do?
he's cut off a woman he once loved so much that he had a child with her? and what did she do?
While mos... (read in full...)
What colour scheme for a room of a 20 year old would look nice?
Q. this isn't a relationship question, just more so of a question. I'm decorating my room and I wondered what colour scheme is nicest to have, it's a plain room with cream walls. I don't know whether red, dark gold and some black or green would look ...
A. 19 September 2012: YOUR taste is all that matters.
for me I like gray and raspberry or brown and blue...
my fiance would like black and more black...
your room should be what YOU want... if you are not ready to choose... then you can wait...... (read in full...)
Is this a crush or something more?
Q. I've had a crush on him for going on 4 years now. Even though he has admitted past feelings for me, it's probably never going to happen, but my crush doesn't show any signs of clearing up. I've never had any feelings for anyone else. (Just to clear...
A. 19 September 2012: It's still a crush...
are you cutting yourself off from others because of it?... (read in full...)
Isn't it a bit extreme for my boyfriend to just cut certain people out of his life?
Q. This really weird interaction happened when I was out with my boyfriend. We were walking along holding hands. We saw a friend of his in the street, my boyfriend called out to him to say hi. Then they were chatting briefly and then his friend looked ...
A. 19 September 2012: I know people like this... once they decide you are no longer welcome in their lives it's like you are dead to them.
It seems very unforgiving to me... and inflexible.... and it raises some concerns about how he will be with you if you do somet... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps files on all his previous girlfriends
Q. My boyfriend keeps files on all his ex-girlfriends. Is this normal? He was on a dating site before he met me and he had files, manila folders, with print-outs of the women he dated and their correspondence back and forth through the computer. ...
A. 19 September 2012: my first thought is to ask if he is that OCD in other parts of his life?
I vote on the EWWWWW factor... it's a bit stalkerish to me to have it in such detail. I can see a folder for each woman with mementos and maybe dates they were together... (read in full...)
Need help with a long distance relationship
Q. My fiancee and I are in a long distance relationship. She moved about 5 hours away for college. I try to visit her whenever I can (about once a month). The issue is about 24 hours before I have to go home she starts to get depressed and sad and ...
A. 19 September 2012: oh leaving is so hard...
my fiance, without realizing it, started picking fights the afternoon before I had to leave... it was easier for him if we left and he was angry.... I finally told him he needed to stop trying to pick fights..... (read in full...)
My 48 year old husband left me for a 24 year old woman and I'm in need of more advice
Q. i will ask my question and leave it at that you all know me. im the one who was left for a 24 year old my husband 48. i want to know why he insists on hurting me with his words. i have to pick up my temporary spousal support from him. and everytim...
A. 19 September 2012: yeah he does not want to feel like a bad guy
get yourself a lawyer
get your spousal support court ordered and have it mailed to you or garnished out of his paycheck if he has one.
have a no contact order from your lawyer to him.
have... (read in full...)
Do you think my wife has forgotten what losing her virginity felt like?
Q. My wife lost her virginity to one man (had sex just once before me) and I have been fucking her three times a week for over twenty years. Has she forgotten about that first experience by now or will she always remember how it felt the first ti...
A. 19 September 2012: why do you care?
btw do you ever make love to her or do you just fuck her?... (read in full...)
He won't officially end it if that's what he wants? What to do? I feel stuck!
Q. Dear all, Please advise. My Bf of 18 months moved recently ( not too far away) and he has been seeing me less and less. We had an argument and he left for two weeks, then came back breifly and I had it out with him then when I called him the next ...
A. 19 September 2012: I vote for not only ignore but block... makes it much easier...
... (read in full...)
Should I break up with the love of my life?
Q. I don't know what to do. My relationship has gone in a downward spiral from the minute it started. We met while I was visiting the East Coast from the West Coast. He moved to the West Coast for a job, and for me. We lived together in a nice little ...
A. 18 September 2012: OP,
I will tell you that right now I am getting married to a man who I love and adore...
he's got issues but he's functional.
I've got so many issues i have subscriptions... but I work and I'm functional
we both say that we are two b... (read in full...)
Is this the way? I want to make him jealous. In retaliation for how he has treated me.
Q. i want to make my ex jealous. do you have any ideas on how to do this? He has always told me that i need him and we are meant to be together, but I am done. I think he wants me back, then dump me. Every two months he comes crawling back to me. I w...
A. 18 September 2012: Do not try to make him jealous. LIVING well is the best revenge… he won’t be jealous… it’s not about YOU it’s all about him.
BEST thing to do to get back at him… block him… no phone, no email no facebook no twitter… BLOCK HIM totally. IGNORE H... (read in full...)
I helped pay for 2 friend's lunches and they haven't paid me back. Are they mooches or an I gullible?
Q. I feel pretty dumb but hear me out. This classmate of mine and I were out to lunch on campus. She forgot her wallet so I insisted on buying her coffee and a soup from the salad bar. It wasn't that expensive but that's not the point. She seemed ...
A. 18 September 2012: If you feed them when they look at you with sadness and hunger they will never learn to feed themselves honey.
offer them a fry or something but not a full meal
and stop trying to save the world... the only part of the world you need to wo... (read in full...)
7 year itch. Why would she leave without even talking to me and telling me what was wrong?
Q. I am still a little confused about why my wife left me. She says she left because I was having an affair with a friend of mine, which I wasn't and she knew this, we have been together for 7 years, always have been able to talk, but in the last few...
A. 18 September 2012: I'm afraid no one but your wife knows why she left.
why did she think you were having an affair with a friend?
you do know that affairs do not have to be physical right?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is having white discharge 2 days after I fingered her.
Q. Alright so.. about 2 days, 16th September ago me and my girlfriend started to get a lil horny and after awhile i started fingering her, i think i could have precum on my fingers but i wiped it off and fingered her a few minutes after that. 18th S...
A. 18 September 2012: no she's not pregnant.
you really need to study how the human body works and how women get pregnant...
if you are concerned about her medical condition take her to a doctor..
she may have a yeast infection if there is heavy cottage ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with the love of my life?
Q. I don't know what to do. My relationship has gone in a downward spiral from the minute it started. We met while I was visiting the East Coast from the West Coast. He moved to the West Coast for a job, and for me. We lived together in a nice little ...
A. 18 September 2012: my first thought is has he applied for Social Security Disability... that takes a while to get approved but it takes some of the stress off..
as for "should I stay or should I go"
sometimes we stay as long as we can and that's too long, and... (read in full...)
I helped pay for 2 friend's lunches and they haven't paid me back. Are they mooches or an I gullible?
Q. I feel pretty dumb but hear me out. This classmate of mine and I were out to lunch on campus. She forgot her wallet so I insisted on buying her coffee and a soup from the salad bar. It wasn't that expensive but that's not the point. She seemed ...
A. 18 September 2012: OP, I read your post yesterday and I didn't quite know what to say but after Tisha pointed out that you OFFERED I can say this.
USE it as a learning experience and stop offering.
I know you want your friends to be happy and healthy but no o... (read in full...)
He won't officially end it if that's what he wants? What to do? I feel stuck!
Q. Dear all, Please advise. My Bf of 18 months moved recently ( not too far away) and he has been seeing me less and less. We had an argument and he left for two weeks, then came back breifly and I had it out with him then when I called him the next ...
A. 17 September 2012: Ah you have your closure.
mourn the loss of what might have been had he been a different person.... and then get on with life...
... (read in full...)
Do steroids affect relations with others?
Q. I want to know if any of you have had a friendship or relationship with any man whose done steroids? What mood changes did they experience? How did you deal with them? Etc thanks for any input....
A. 16 September 2012: My brother was a competitive body builder in his youth. He used steroids. I'd be happy to ask him why he stopped.... they destroyed his skin, his bones, his teeth... his body... and he had terrible mood swings and unpredictability. It was NOT ... (read in full...)
Do steroids affect relations with others?
Q. I want to know if any of you have had a friendship or relationship with any man whose done steroids? What mood changes did they experience? How did you deal with them? Etc thanks for any input....
A. 14 September 2012: is he still on them?
if he is I'd be careful and read what Cerberus has written
if he's been off of them for a while it should be fine.... (read in full...)
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