Masturbation and pregnancy?
Q. my bf told its not good for girls to mastrbate because it will give them problems later in pregnancy. is this true? thank you...
A. 20 February 2009: Well all I can say is, it's HIS insecurities it shouldn't be yours. And from my standpoint masturbation is a good thing. Never let anyone makes you feel dirty about something like that. Now if you had to play with yourself all hours of the day and ... (read in full...)
I want to give all my love to my wife but she doesn't seem to want it!
Q. I am a 57 year old husband, married for the last 32 years. For the last couple of years my wife has been totally unloving (could be the menopause?) and I am tempted to seek closeness elsewhere. I love my wife dearly and fancy her to bits, she's ...
A. 20 February 2009: PS I forgot to add, two worngs don't make a right. You are still married and so is the younger woman in question.
Turn that energy onto your wife. Talk to her. Don't start something you WILL regret.
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Am I right to be concerned about my boyfriend's strange behaviour???
Q. Do you guys think im over reacting an should just forget it or do I have cause for concern? My boyfriend of 6 months is very loving but a few things are really worrying me. 1- he hsa no problem with looking at my phone but snatches his off me if I ...
A. 20 February 2009: First the phone business. If you can't see his, he can't see yours. That is only fair. Games likes that is lame but if he wants to play, he needs to play fair.
Taking his phone to the bathroom is just.. bizarre.. Why not just turn it off and lock... (read in full...)
Where did you propose to your girlfriend?
Q. Where did you propose to your girlfriend?...
A. 20 February 2009: I didn't propose my husband did, but I'll tell you what he did :)
I love Chinese food, so one night he calls on the way home from work ( I was on vacation visiting him for the 3rd time since we first met) and says that he's picked up Chinese ... (read in full...)
Masturbation and pregnancy?
Q. my bf told its not good for girls to mastrbate because it will give them problems later in pregnancy. is this true? thank you...
A. 20 February 2009: Nope neither sex nor masturbation is harmful during pregnancy. Some women actually prefer to have sex instead of being induced if they go past their due date.
If you are really concerned ( or he is) go talk to your doctor:)... (read in full...)
Questions about breasts
Q. Hey. I got a couple of question about thing i like to talk about the least. Breasts. ok; 1. Do sore breasts ALWAYS indicate that you're about to get your period, or can they be sore from something else? 2. Do they get filled up with someth...
A. 20 February 2009: 1. Do sore breasts ALWAYS indicate that you're about to get your period, or can they be sore from something else?
A :They can be sore from wearing the wrong bra, form excersice, pregnancy and just from the general influx of hormones thruough... (read in full...)
I want to give all my love to my wife but she doesn't seem to want it!
Q. I am a 57 year old husband, married for the last 32 years. For the last couple of years my wife has been totally unloving (could be the menopause?) and I am tempted to seek closeness elsewhere. I love my wife dearly and fancy her to bits, she's ...
A. 20 February 2009: I understand your frustration. You have a gorgeous wife but she's lost her interest in sex ( or so you think) so it's easy to get flattered and tempted by a women who IS interested in you sexually. Everyone wants to feel sexually attractive.
The f... (read in full...)
How do I go about telling my mother of the age gap in my relationship?
Q. Okay, i need some advice. I have been with my Fiance for over 3 years now, and we plan to get married next year and hopefully move country to live together. We both still live at home and however, to cut a long story short, he is 8 years older th...
A. 13 February 2009: Kinda late to worry about that :) You guys have been together 3 years. She might not be thrilled about the age difference but hopefully she will respect that you love him and he loves you.
Good luck,
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My FWB wants to spend Valentine's Day with me, what does this mean?
Q. I have been having a fwb relationship with a close guy friend of mine. We talk every night and we spend quite a bit of time together, and most of it is not just about the physical things. I was pretty upset before because i felt like he paid more ...
A. 13 February 2009: Enjoy the Valentine's Day with him. If you want more from him you need to be open and HONEST about it. It will wither work out or not. That goes for FWB too. Most people have a hard time not getting emotionally attached to someone they have sex ... (read in full...)
What do I do if he never mentions Valentine's Day?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about a month and a half and he hasn't mentioned Valentine's Day at all. He is a really nice thoughtful guy, he goes out of his way to do nice little things for me and I have seen him do the same for friends of his. I ...
A. 13 February 2009: Give him a card ( or email). You guys have only been going out for a month and a half so maybe he's not sure how you would like to celebrate it.
You could ask him out for a dinner for Valentine's.. It's not written any where that the guy has to m... (read in full...)
Could I forgive myself?
Q. here goes, my confession. its been a long troubled relationship, we met when i was 16 he was 18 we had a daughter a year later and held it together, BUT we both had different lives, seperate lives,we have always been in love in a strange way. ...
A. 13 February 2009: Honey, you need to concentrate on yourself and your child. Partying and all that jazz means nothing in the long run.
The only one who can forgive you is you. It might not happen overnight but eventually you will understand what you did and why,... (read in full...)
I worry he will kill himself if I leave him but if I stay he will destroy us, what to do?
Q. Hi please I hope someone can advise me on where to go I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years we have a three and a half year old boy together he is an alcholic and is very unpredictable he has been in rehab twice and only just left one treatment ...
A. 13 February 2009: As sad as it may sound you can not save him from himself, HE has to do that. So far he hasn't be able to do it.
If you do not leave and start on a life with self respect he will ruin not only his own life but yours as well.
It might be the wak... (read in full...)
Does milk make your skin break out?
Q. Hi there, okay so I've started drinking milk for a change in my daily diet, before I didn't drink milk that often. The thing is my skin started breaking out on my back and chest, and I haven't had skin problems for years so this is something I ...
A. 13 February 2009: Most people with lactose intolerance gets diarrhea with intake of milk.
You can be tested for it and it's an easy test to have done. However I don't think the outbreaks you are having have anything to do with your milk consumption. You might wa... (read in full...)
A car accident a couple of years back have left my breasts mis-shapen.
Q. Okay a bit of a boobie question. I really hate my breasts, I know I should try to accept and 'love' them but I can't. I am a 36a and they seem mishapen. I was in a car accident a couple of years ago and they are scarred and slightly puckered, also a ...
A. 13 February 2009: Depending on how bad YOU feel it is, maybe talking to your doctor isn't a bad idea.
I personally isn't a big fan of plastic surgery - specially not for people who are still growing and in their teens. Reconstructive surgery can be done.
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Why am I so intent on hurting the only man I love?
Q. I'm awful. Morally bankrupt. I feel disgusted with myself to even admit this to anyone, let alone me. I've been with my partner for three years now, and love him with all my heart.We're soulmates and best friends. However during the three years ...
A. 13 February 2009: I think you need to consider AA and get some counseling. Figure out why you do what you do. You obviously know it's morally wrong yet you keep at it. You can not keep blaming the alcohol. The alcohol doesn't MAKE you do anything. You just care less ... (read in full...)
He just keeps cheating..shouldI leave or not?
Q. hey every one i need some advice other than my close friend my mom and others close to me well....here it goes.....iam 18 yrs.old i have a 5 month son and his dad is now in jail i broke up with him bc he cheated on me and i found this out until now ...
A. 13 February 2009: Who do you let anyone treat you like that? That isn't love.
Start to have some self respect and to love yourself. Put you and your son first.. The daddy isn't worth a darn. He can not be "cured" of cheated and obvisouly he likes then skany an... (read in full...)
I've been having sex with many women and now my wife wants to end the marriage but I don't!
Q. hello i love me wife and kids. for the last years i have been having sex with many women. as this action has no reason my sexual realationship with my wife has been down hill, following the birth of our son. this action on her part did not help me ...
A. 13 February 2009: Amen Gina, Could not have said it better. I wish your wife good luck.
What goes around comes around, stop whining.... (read in full...)
My best friend is seeing my ex, am I right to be upset?
Q. Why do i feel like this? A couple of weeks ago i found out my best friend is seeing an ex of mine. I was so angry, mainly because i feel she should of spoke to me first and asked if im ok with it. I would have if it was me and one of her ex's! But ...
A. 13 February 2009: Yes you have a right to be upset. It's in the "Girl's Code" to not chase after or date a grilfriends ex. But with that being said, if you can stand to look at the two fo them together knowing that you have a better man at home, you might be able to ... (read in full...)
I've never had to share my boyfriend before, his little girl makes me mad at times!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been togeather for 4 months now and we both have daughters. Mine 8 and his 5. I love him sooo much but i am jelious of his daughter and his relationship with her.We dont fight about anything but his daughter or his ex. I know ...
A. 13 February 2009: I am sorry if it is not what you want to hear, but his child should come first. I can't see why him getting more time with his daughter is a bad thing. She is his child. It is not HER fault her mom and dad aren't together.
She is 5 years old. It ... (read in full...)
Normal? He wants bj twice a day?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to do bj for him twice everyday(at least once,but doesn't have to make him cum though), if we ever see each other in that day(we don't live together). I just want to know is it normal for guys or it's just he has too much ...
A. 12 February 2009: I agree with Gina nad Phil. You need to tell him you aren't that big of a fan of the whole giving BJ's. However most men love and adore getting one and some of us women love giving them.
Sex should be good for both parties. It shodl be fun for ... (read in full...)
I don't think she knows what she wants
Q. I've been dating a girl for 4 months now we got drunk and went to ponderosa to eat which we do often. After we ate she asked me if I wanted to go get married I told her I would have to get to know her better that we just met and that she would ha...
A. 12 February 2009: First off if you don't want children yet, USE a condom! Don't let it come down to someone else and wheather they use birth control or not. People lie and people forget. You can only be close to 100% certain that no baby pops up if YOU take ... (read in full...)
Should I do something for him on Valentine's Day?
Q. Hi, I need help with what to do next about my ex, I’ve posted some questions earlier (thanks for all the help :)). To give an update and for those who don’t know, I’d been with my ex for 1 year 8 months but we broke up about 4 months ago. I still ...
A. 12 February 2009: I think something cute and small ( don't go all out) might be appropriate. Though I would not add the 2 year "anniversary" to it.
Good luck,
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14 in love with 31 year old!
Q. i am in a secure unit and there is this one woman called angela and omg she is stunning i mean i am head ova heels in love but she is about ten years older than me and she has just dropped a bombshell on me she is leaving i am broken hearted ...
A. 12 February 2009: I think you need to keep it a fantasy honey. A 31 year old have very little in common ( in general) with a 14 year old. As with all things relationship wise it is always a good idea to spend a long time actually getting to know the other person ... (read in full...)
Should we keep this as just a fantasy?
Q. My husband and I have a fantasy we want to act out. I want him to go out and sleep with another woman and then come home and talk dirty to me about it. Should we do it or keep it fantasy?...
A. 12 February 2009: I agree with Wonderingcat - do the Role Playing instead. He can go out and "pick" you up and you two go from there.
I know so many people have fantasies about adding another person sexually to the mix and I also know that in 9 out of 10 cases it... (read in full...)
He cheated on me with an ex, and says its the biggest mistake he's ever made
Q. i was with my boyfriend for 4 months and never had reason not to trust him. he always wanted to see me, never dissapeared with his mates and always made me feel special. then over christmas he had no work so had to get a job he hated, he was always ...
A. 9 February 2009: I think it's all up to you. Is what you have worth working on? Is he willing to do what it takes to rebuild your trust in him? Are you willing to forgive? Those are the major questions you need to answer yourself.
Treat me like crap once, shame on... (read in full...)
Would you ask the guy to get circumsized? Would you pay for it?
Q. Girls you really like this guy you have gone out with for a couple of mouths, he decided he wants to have sex with you and he is not circumcsied,would you ask him if he would go and get cut because you only like men cut and if he does would you pay ...
A. 9 February 2009: Wow no. Would you have implants - lets say, size triple E cause he likes big boobs?
Or would you have a hysterectomy cause he likes to be 100% sure you don't get pregnant?
If you can not have sex with him, because he isn't cut then he isn't fo... (read in full...)
What is up with this married GUY???
Q. Hello: there is this married guy at work who always complains and badmouths everythiing, pretty much, every one is miserable there...I'm happy all the time so people gravitate toward me. Well, this guy and I have common interests that revealed...
A. 9 February 2009: My best advice is to NOT get involved. No matter how much his bad mouth his wife and how little sex he "get" from her, he is married. That means OFF limits.
Seems like he is trying to get you to be his little
office" fling. A wise man once sai... (read in full...)
My fiance won't get rid of the pictures from his ex'es, I dislike this!!!
Q. Ok...I have been with my guy for a little over 2 years. We moved in with eachother after dating for 4 months. When i moved in I started to notice that he keeps pictures (Both of his ex-wife and ex-girlfriend) I asked him to get rid of them. I let it ...
A. 9 February 2009: I hate my husband's ex-wife and girlfriend. No doubt. But if he wants their ugly mugs on a piece of paper, who cares?. However, they don't hang around the house. He have kept a stack of photos ( 17 year old stuff) in a box in the garage and it ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him to make out a living will and a will. How strong would this hold up?
Q. I will try to get to the point. In my last post I wrote that my husband is still legally married to his ex. They haven't been together in over 15 years now and we just found out a few years back. He said we will take care of this (meaning he will ...
A. 9 February 2009: Honestly I would talk to a lawyer. Seems truly odd not being divored if they haven't lived together for 15 years. HE should get the papers on that ready not you....
Good luck and sorry I'm not help on this one.... (read in full...)
I want pay back... but is it worth it?
Q. I was talking to a guy I met online. We talked forever. And I really enjoyed the conversation. We made plans to finally meet, and he stands me up. I was devastated. I thought he liked me. 2 weeks later, I'm over it. Somewhat. But I find out, I pers...
A. 5 February 2009: Ok here is my advice. Getting even will feel great for a minute or two. It's like peeing your pants in winter trying to get warm. Not a good idea in the long run.. ( yeah icky analogy but easy to understand) lol
Just know what kind of guy he is an... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to wear my military uniform for her!
Q. hey Connor again lol. ive been talken to my gf more about valentines day and somits come up. she wants me to were my ACF uniform (Military Kit. she really likes puttin on outfits and all. that dont bother me one bit :D. but , and this sounds silly, ...
A. 5 February 2009: Have nice picture taken of you in your uniform and give it to her. And yes if sex in your ACF is not for you then don't.
For some women a guy in uniforn is a huge turn on. So if you are willing you can always put it on while she watches, then ahv... (read in full...)
Strange circumstances and I'm pregnant, should I tell the boyfriend?
Q. Last week i and my boy friend went to a party where i was given a soft drink and i fell unconsious and the next morning when i woke up i found my self on my boy friends bed. on that day we broke up and are'nt speaking to each other but since tw...
A. 5 February 2009: You might be pregnant. Though I don't know of anyone who fell unconscious after 1 soft drink. I find that part pretty scary. Do you remember nothing from that day?
There is a lot more to this story, I can tell.
If you think you are pregnant you... (read in full...)
I think the boy I like is disguising himself as a girl on msn to get to know me
Q. Hi, i liked this boy for ages and lately this person added me claiming to be a girl howevere i don't belive so, but the person keeps askin questions etc... and already has the answers to them, were i live, etc.. who i am etc...... but they claim ...
A. 5 February 2009: I think you shouldn't give out your personal info to people you don't know. It can land you in some pretty unsafe situations.
It could also be someone who knows you but do not have nice intetions, so watch what you say. Don't talk smack about an... (read in full...)
Is my Army guy interested in me or not?
Q. I am "seeing" a army guy who has just recently been deployed. I thought we had made a connection before he left and we said that we would here for eachother and talk on msn. However when i emailed him 4 days ago, i did not get a reply which is u...
A. 5 February 2009: Don't put it on you. It's not a money you want to own. Like I said before just because you see him online doesn't always mean that he is sitting in front of his computer.
You put the "ball" in his court. He can then choose to do what he wants wi... (read in full...)
How to invite female to flat for first time?
Q. how can i invite a female friend to my flat for first time. I need a good excuse, maybe invite her to watch movie and order food? Please give lots of suggestions! Thank you...
A. 3 February 2009: If you can cook, then cook her a meal. If you can't talk about movies with her and maybe suggest to rent one and watch it at your house. Be a little creative!... (read in full...)
Is my Army guy interested in me or not?
Q. I am "seeing" a army guy who has just recently been deployed. I thought we had made a connection before he left and we said that we would here for eachother and talk on msn. However when i emailed him 4 days ago, i did not get a reply which is u...
A. 3 February 2009: It's kinda hard to know what's up with him. First up if he's deployed there are so many tings going on where he is at that usually starting arelationship in not high on the priority list.
The fact that he was logged in but didnt talk to you can ... (read in full...)
Sperm bank problems...
Q. Hi, I'm going to cut to the chase, me and my wife have been in a domestic partnership for about 3 years, we had talked about having a baby through sperm banks once she was in her last year of school which is next year, well she couldn't wait and ...
A. 3 February 2009: If you want to be 100 % sure she is pregnant or not - she need to see a doctor and have a blood test. They don't give false positive.... (read in full...)
He wants me to be his next baby mom.
Q. Hello, I'm 17 years old and I've been dating my boyfriend since Febuary 22 2008... and it's going on a year. Okay now we have had sex already but we don't have sex very often like maybe 2 times a month and he has a baby. Let me tell the story - ...
A. 30 January 2009: My only question is WHY? Why would you at 17 want to be a baby momma? Babies can wait. Wait til you are in a STABLE, HEALTHY, LOVING relationship with someone who will be there for you and the child 100%.
Well not only question, I guess. :)
He... (read in full...)
He says he does it because he just has that "need"!
Q. I am just starting my 6th month of pregnancy and my libido is through the roof! I also have been having severe migraines and nausea. Even though I want to have sex my husband doesn't want to make me sicker or hurt me. I know he "relieves" himself ...
A. 30 January 2009: Both Ice and Gina said it so well. He's not jerking off because he doesn't want you. He is jerking off because he wants sex,but don't want to hurt or bother you. That is kinda nice of him :)
There are like Gina said plenty of things you can do f... (read in full...)
I feel like my friends are bullying me! What do you think?
Q. Hi. I'm starting to worry about what people think of me at university where I'm studying. I don't feel like I've been under very much stress lately, but for whatever reason, I just have a feeling that people are starting to like me less than they ...
A. 30 January 2009: Let it run of your back honey. You are at Uni to study to get educated further, not to win a popularity contest.
If you feel any of your friends is being derogate towards you, then take some time of from that friend. If they later approach... (read in full...)
Trying to get pregnant and having symptoms not sure what they mean?
Q. I have been trying to get pregnant, I don't know if I am and i just got off of my monthly over a week now. My stomache is getting a little bigger I have been eating a little more then I used to. I just started bleeding again what can that mean?...
A. 30 January 2009: Having a child is not like having a puppy. It's a 24/7 commitment. It's WAY more work then most people who HAVE kids will EVER let you on.
I have a friend who's daughter decide to get pregnant at 18. She wanted someone who loved her uncondit... (read in full...)
He wants to fool around. Should this be ok?
Q. Is it wrong for my husband to feel no jealousy? A man at my work recently made it clear he would fool around if it was OK with me. I told my husband, and he said to (not do anything, but to) be nice to him, and not make him feel uncomfortable. ...
A. 30 January 2009: I'm with Gina on this one.
But I have a question. Do you want him to be jealous?
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Is my friend acting this way because of her boyfriend?
Q. My best friend and me went to this party. She heard her boyfriend was there as well and she started looking for him. Long story short I saw her running down the stairs crying. When I ask her what was wrong (in private) she wouldn't tell me because ...
A. 30 January 2009: She is trying to deal with it all by herself. Give her time. Be there for her but remember a couple of things. Don't rub it in, don't talk too much smack about her BF's because you never know if they get back together and then things can get really ... (read in full...)
Sperm bank problems...
Q. Hi, I'm going to cut to the chase, me and my wife have been in a domestic partnership for about 3 years, we had talked about having a baby through sperm banks once she was in her last year of school which is next year, well she couldn't wait and ...
A. 26 January 2009: I'm guessing that her clock was ticking, so loudly that it was all she could hear. She SHOULD have talked to you about it, it SHOULD have been a decision you two made together.
You can't always plan your life down to the last detail. Would be... (read in full...)
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