Sperm bank problems...
Q. Hi, I'm going to cut to the chase, me and my wife have been in a domestic partnership for about 3 years, we had talked about having a baby through sperm banks once she was in her last year of school which is next year, well she couldn't wait and ...
A. 3 February 2009: If you want to be 100 % sure she is pregnant or not - she need to see a doctor and have a blood test. They don't give false positive.... (read in full...)
Is my friend acting this way because of her boyfriend?
Q. My best friend and me went to this party. She heard her boyfriend was there as well and she started looking for him. Long story short I saw her running down the stairs crying. When I ask her what was wrong (in private) she wouldn't tell me because ...
A. 30 January 2009: She is trying to deal with it all by herself. Give her time. Be there for her but remember a couple of things. Don't rub it in, don't talk too much smack about her BF's because you never know if they get back together and then things can get really ... (read in full...)
Porn crazed soon to be deployed husband wants sex tape!
Q. My husband of one year is getting deployed in a few months. We just had a son. While pregnant, he was always looking at porn. It hurt me so badly. We had several talks (he did it more than once) and he FINALLY stopped right before the baby was born. ...
A. 30 January 2009: My husband asked for the same thing before his deployment and since I didn't want to do a sex tape, he didn't get one. I know just how good he is at forgetting things here and there, and I don't need for someone to sell/give a tape or CD to some ... (read in full...)
Porn crazed soon to be deployed husband wants sex tape!
Q. My husband of one year is getting deployed in a few months. We just had a son. While pregnant, he was always looking at porn. It hurt me so badly. We had several talks (he did it more than once) and he FINALLY stopped right before the baby was born. ...
A. 30 January 2009: My husband asked for the same thing before his deployment and since I didn't want to do a sex tape, he didn't get one. I know just how good he is at forgetting things here and there, and I don't need for someone to sell/give a tape or CD to some ... (read in full...)
How can I stop feeling pressured about sex?
Q. I'm in a new relationship that is going well, however he keeps bringing up sex. He says he has a high sex drive and would like to have sex everyday but that he doesn't have to. I myself have a lower sex drive and i tend to shy away from talking ...
A. 30 January 2009: First off SEX between two people who love,respect and trust each other is wonderful. It can be quite magical.
What you need to do is tell him how you feel. Maybe the two of you need to focus on the more "Karma Sutra" stuff. It's about turning ... (read in full...)
Have I advertised "I want sex ASAP" because I talked about birth control?
Q. To start off- I'm 19 and a virgin and my boyfriend is 25 and not. We were talking last night about contraception and I told him that I've just started the pill perscription to be on the safe side but want to use a condom as well. He was a bit odd ...
A. 30 January 2009: Well you seem to be able to handle yourself quite well. For you to start on the pill I think is a smart thing. I don't think it screams SEX NOW! But it can send the signal that you are considering it.
As for the whole "I don't like condom's... (read in full...)
Boyfriend talking to another girl on MSN but says there is nothing in it???
Q. Last week my boyfriend left his MSN open. I went into it and seen that he had been messaging a girl. The messages were not of a sexual nature however he was saying that they must mail in secret so that I would not find out, he was saying how bad ...
A. 30 January 2009: I wouldn't trust him any further then I could throw him. If your relationship is so bad he should either break up or work on it, not look for a replacement. And yes, I would guess he is looking for a replacement or something on the side.
... (read in full...)
My virginity... or lack of!
Q. I'm not a virgin and now I'm getting married. Is it possible that my husband would come to know that I'm not a virgin and moreover can it is possible to know all that through a DNA test?...
A. 30 January 2009: No you can not "DNA test" for virginity. But a gynecologist can easily see if you are one or not. Why not be honest about your sexual status? Starting a marriage of on a lie I don't think is a good idea.
If you are in the age-group of... (read in full...)
Gang intimidation!
Q. The other day my daughter came to me with a problem that she is having and although it is horrifing me, I am not quite sure how to handle this because I am afraid that taking the wrong actions on my part could possibly place her in a dangerous ...
A. 30 January 2009: For a 14 year old I think she did fine. Yes, stooping to stupid people's level is never good. Once you get "down" to their level their win. Hopefully these "gang" kids are all verbal and that is it, it was a good learning experience. It is hard when ... (read in full...)
I'm scared he'll run away if I bring it up...
Q. Recently a co-worker I'd invited to my house party hit on a man I had just begun dating. I am not sure what happened between them but something started at least because he did go to her house a few times she said when she blurted it out to me a week ...
A. 29 January 2009: Honestly I would dump that guy and end all communications with him. Tell your co-worker that your personal life is off limits for her.
Yes, it's odd that she didn't ask you ( the hostess) about the gu before hitting on him. But what is even mor... (read in full...)
Will being sick with a fever and strep throat hurt my baby?
Q. Will being sick with a fever and strep throat harm my baby? i am about 7 months pregnant.?? what can i take to feel better faster?...
A. 29 January 2009: At 28 weeks, you are beyond the sensitive period. So your baby should be safe, BUT it is important that you go to a health care provider if you suspect strep, because strep throat infections can lead to rheumatic fever and kidney disease if left ... (read in full...)
Gang intimidation!
Q. The other day my daughter came to me with a problem that she is having and although it is horrifing me, I am not quite sure how to handle this because I am afraid that taking the wrong actions on my part could possibly place her in a dangerous ...
A. 29 January 2009: I would try and find someone to drive her back and forth to school. When she starts high school maybe a responsible student, who lives close by? You can pay the gas money for it. Or preferably an adult. I would NOT let her walk by herself anywhere ... (read in full...)
Sexy calendar good? Or cheesy idea?
Q. Hey all! I am just looking for some male opinions here. My boyfriend is in Iraq right now, unfortunately. While over there he is not allowed to have any pornography. For a Valentine's Day gift I decided to create a whole calendar for him with ...
A. 29 January 2009: I think it's cute. BUT don't forget that he lives with a BUNCH of guys who don't "get any" and he can't really hang it up unless he allows others to look at it. So I guess it comes down to you. Do you want his fellow soldiers to see those photos? Do ... (read in full...)
I looked into his account to see he was in contact with the ex
Q. Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and i love him with all my heart and he tells me the same. However theres one thing that he does which really upsets me. He still talks to his ex daily, by this i mean he often has long text conv...
A. 29 January 2009: First, you need to stop snooping. It is not only degrading to do but it show a lack of trust and respect for your BF. I know it's hard not too, specially when it's RIGHT there for you to do, but trust me when I say NOTHING good comes from ... (read in full...)
Goof gift for my b/f coming back from overseas?
Q. Hi everyone, My boyfriend is 35 years old and has recently went for an overseas trip to Japan for skiing. He went abroad on 25th Jan and will be back on 5th Feb about 1am. I want to be there to welcome him back and at the same time want to give him ...
A. 29 January 2009: Look up personalization on goggle. You may get some inspiration there. I have made some photo lazer engraved dog tags for my hubby for Valentines. ( The can double as key chains if he doesn't want to wear dog tags). The came out amazing.
Whate... (read in full...)
I think my husband is cheating on me
Q. I think my husband is cheating on me! I know this is true because of the things he’s been doing to me and my kids. His behaviour has changed dramatically towards me ion the last two months and I could really kill right him this very moment. Let...
A. 29 January 2009: Most people have gut instincts, but don't follow through on then. We rationalize and analyse everything and because we want things to either stay the same or be something it's not, we pretend everything is "fine".
Marriage is hard work. It can b... (read in full...)
Coping techniques for turning 30
Q. coping techniques for turning 3 0.its really depessing to i need techniques to cope.because i don,t want to turn 3 0,3 1 and 32 ,33 ,34,35 36,37,38,39 .knowning me i,ll be 4 0 before i know it, nothing to do pulling guys.it just i always hate ...
A. 28 January 2009: First to the anon male writer, you think guys don't lose their figure? their hair? Get really big ears and nose? Grow hairs like crazy out of the eyebrows, ears and nose? Yeah, guys have it way easier.. For one reason only. Females tend to love a ... (read in full...)
Which kind is prefered? Straight or bent?
Q. iv a question for the female population, but iv been wondering. what kind of penis do you prefer? a straight up one, or one with a bend?...
A. 28 January 2009: I prefer a penis that is attatched to someone I love:) The shape is less important.... (read in full...)
Am I the father?
Q. Hi, I have been seeing an ex and having sex on a pretty casual basis for the last year. She has always been on the pill. I last slept with her on the 1st January. A couple of weeks later she said she couldn't see me anymore as she had met someone ...
A. 27 January 2009: There are lots of things that can render the pill uneffective so yes there is a possibility you could be the father. Either of you guys. But like Satin said... Noone here can tell you if you are the father.
Only a DNA test can. So either she gets... (read in full...)
I dropped him off at the bus stop and left him stranded with no money.
Q. Today I made a harshest decision. I dropped my boyfriend off at the taxi rank and he didn't have money for the bus fare. I left him there to find his way. I know it is mean, especially for someone who has zero cents in his pocket. I have been dating ...
A. 27 January 2009: I don't think it was harsh at all. A grown man expecting his girlfriend to pay everything for him, when he has a job? Was he kidding?
He needs to grow up.
You did fine. That kind of man will find someone else and have them pay for his way.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is being so clingy.
Q. My boyfriend is being so clingy and I am so scared of ending things because he says I am the only good thing in his life and he couldnt take it if things ended. I think he can read the signals that I am not happy. He relies on me for lifts here ...
A. 26 January 2009: Honestly if you aren't happy together, maybe it's time to move on.
You can not change an man unless he truly want change, and still that would be HIM changing himself.
Find a man who you can love for who he is, not for how you would like him t... (read in full...)
I don't think he has enough room for her and me
Q. ok how should i go about this relationship and am i wrong to feel this was? that is the question now here is the scenerio...i have been dating this man seriously for near a year, he is overall good to me and a joy to be around BUT he has an ex that ...
A. 26 January 2009: Personally I don't believe in telling your partner who he can talk to and who he can't. BUT I do believe in talking about limits and boundaries.
1. she needs to give the key back. ( if she needs to fed a pet or water flowers while the two of y... (read in full...)
I got divorced, he didn't, should I wait around or what?
Q. short version of the long story. I fell in love with my boss (though we are the same age). We started as great friends and everyone thought we were soulmates. Then he told me he was thinking of me all the time and that he could not get me out of ...
A. 26 January 2009: It's Karma..
I hope you learned one thing from all this. A cheater lies. They will tell anyone whatever they need to in order to get what they want.
Your boss and lover is a cakeman. He wants his cake (wife & marriage) and eat it too (you). He... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend a complete miser for not spending on me?
Q. My girlfriend and i have been together for approximately 3 months now. We have a fantastic relationship, we never argue, spent plenty of time together and have an incredibly loving bond. I can without doubt say that she fulfills my every need both ...
A. 26 January 2009: I agree with baddog. As much as women ( and men) likes to be spoiled with presents and stuff, it really shouldn't be the focus in a relationship. Giving an expensive present is NOT love, it's easy. Showing love - having a romantic outing (which can ... (read in full...)
Have I ruined the best thing that I've ever had in my life?
Q. I don't really understand this situation. I started talking to this guy online. We use to talk 3 years ago but stopped when he went into the army. We started talking again after New year i;m 18 he's 24 and he was really into me, gave me his numb...
A. 26 January 2009: I, like Emilysanswer, is an military wife and I agree with her 100%.
First of, if he asks you to do something you don't want to (dirty pictures whatnot) then for goodness sake, don't do it. YOU will regret it later. Dirty pictures can always b... (read in full...)
I need to block his past out of my head...
Q. I'm in a loving relationship with an amazing man. We're having a baby in August and we're really excited and happy. The problem is that his past keeps interfering. A few months before we met he slept with a girl in his close group of friends...
A. 26 January 2009: Well first of all your BF is being a pretty good guy. He's told you the past and he's moved on. He's also minimized the amount of time around this girl - ALL for you. Which in turn might mean less time with his best friend.
What I suggest is that ... (read in full...)
Sperm bank problems...
Q. Hi, I'm going to cut to the chase, me and my wife have been in a domestic partnership for about 3 years, we had talked about having a baby through sperm banks once she was in her last year of school which is next year, well she couldn't wait and ...
A. 26 January 2009: I'm guessing that her clock was ticking, so loudly that it was all she could hear. She SHOULD have talked to you about it, it SHOULD have been a decision you two made together.
You can't always plan your life down to the last detail. Would be... (read in full...)
Now he's "damaged goods" I should have went out with him when I could have
Q. The boy I like now, liked me back in High School for 3 courses in a row. He asked me out several times but I never went out with him. I didn't want a boyfriend back then but now I started to like him. Unfortunately, I came to like him too late ...
A. 22 January 2009: Well thank you for clearing that stuff us with the title of your post. If you have feeling for him, go for it. Don't look back, look to the future.
... (read in full...)
I need some (non-abusive) abortion advice, please.
Q. I guess i am remaining anon because i am ashamed... Im 16 soon 17 in my first year of college studing for my A levels live a life with good people in it such as my friends and a very lovely boyfriend. Ive been with my boyfriend for a few months now...
A. 22 January 2009: I would honestly advice you to seek counseling. If you go ahead and have the abortion you will feel so many emotions (some due to pregnancy hormones and some due to what you hear/see from peoples reactions, and ofcourse from your own set of morals ... (read in full...)
Now he's "damaged goods" I should have went out with him when I could have
Q. The boy I like now, liked me back in High School for 3 courses in a row. He asked me out several times but I never went out with him. I didn't want a boyfriend back then but now I started to like him. Unfortunately, I came to like him too late ...
A. 21 January 2009: Wow damaged goods, that is way harsh.
If you regard him as "damaged goods" because he had sex with someone else then you, you need to not start dating him..
... (read in full...)
How do you tell if a hymen is broken or not?
Q. so...i'm not sure if my hymen's broken or not. I know this is so embarrassing but like i've done...alot...but there's been no bleeding or pain when i'm...active....i'm just curious really. i'm not sure how to tell if it is or not....
A. 21 January 2009: Most active girls (riding, sports and the likes ) don't really have much of a hymen to "show" for in the first place. Just be glad you aren't in pain or bleeding during sex.
If you have had insertion you have "lost" your hymen most likely. ... (read in full...)
What is he talking about? What does it all mean?
Q. I met this guy online, we talked everyday on there and then on the phone. After several weeks we met and it was good. We talked here and there, He told me he likes my bubbly personality, i am very attractive and he would like to date me. Well he ...
A. 21 January 2009: Is he married by chance? ... (read in full...)
Unhealthy to immediately kiss after oral sex?
Q. I've heard that it can be really 'unhygenic' if you have oral sex and kiss immediately afterwards. Obviously I don't need an explanation as to why lol, but was wondering if there's any risk of catching something (not neccessarily STDs) and if there ...
A. 21 January 2009: It would be "her" own body fluids, so nope. Nothing she didn't have before.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't dress classy
Q. My girlfriend doesn't dress very classy (she like to show off her body). When I first started dating her (we been together for a year now) she wouldn't even dare to dress like a slu*. She wears clothes leave a little imagination and its really ...
A. 21 January 2009: Take her shopping and pick out an outfit or two, something you like.... Compliment her when she wear something you do like.
Most women go thru phases of dressing a little slutty.
And yes it would seem a little controling if you te... (read in full...)
Is this considered cheating?
Q. I went on my bf of 1 years my space account and saw that a girl emailed him something called a hubby appliction. On it he said that he wants to have sex with her, kiss her and stuff like that. He has never met this girl and she lives across the ...
A. 21 January 2009: To me, cheating is doing stuff you normally wouldn't do in front of your partner.
It can easily be a start of an emotional affair if you ask me. But the fact that he is open and honest about it is a good thing. If it upsets you, you should l... (read in full...)
To have sex? or not?
Q. im 16 and my boydrien is 20, we have been 2gtr for 7months should i have sex with him or wait longer?(im still a little scarde) In if so how much longer?...
A. 21 January 2009: I think if you are still scared about the prospect of having sex then you aren't ready, which in turn mean wait.
there is no set time. Wait til you are ready to do it. NOT when a boy wants it. If he's waited 7 months he can wait longer, and if h... (read in full...)
I'm 16, he's in his 40's what to do if he asks me out?
Q. Hi, I have a bit of a problem that I am VERY confused about. There's this guy at my gym, he's (I guess) in his late 30s or early 40s. Anyway I like him, a lot, and he seems to like me as well, but I am 16. He doesn't know that. (Most people seem to ...
A. 21 January 2009: Kc100 wrote : ***If you told him your real age then if he is a decent person it would put him off because you are too young for him, but lying is not an option either as trust is the most fundamental part of a relationship.***
I agree 100%.
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Do you think he'll want me tosleep over?
Q. I have been seeing this guy i met online, We have been talking online and on the phone for 3 months now. The last 3 weekends we have seen each other and gone out...after the first date i still had the impression that he was still keen as he would ...
A. 21 January 2009: It's hard to tell if he wants you to stay over night or not. ( if it's something you want make sure you pack some stuff that you might need - makeup remover - tooth brush condoms whatnot, just in case - but don't bring a HUGE overnight bag.) I think ... (read in full...)
Unhealthy to immediately kiss after oral sex?
Q. I've heard that it can be really 'unhygenic' if you have oral sex and kiss immediately afterwards. Obviously I don't need an explanation as to why lol, but was wondering if there's any risk of catching something (not neccessarily STDs) and if there ...
A. 21 January 2009: No and yes. With a steady partner it's not unhealthy. Bu if there are STD's or STI's (sexually trasnmitted infections) involved, and if there is you shouldn't even do oral with out using protection.
At anytime you are doing unprotected sex ( ye... (read in full...)
His ex is a friend of mine but sometimes I questions her motives
Q. Hi guys. My boyfriend and I have a mutual friend, who is a girl, who happens to be his ex from about 4 years ago. We have been together for 3, and have lived together for 1. The thing that upsets me is that a long time ago, I know that when h...
A. 21 January 2009: What it boils down to is trust. You say you trust him, but you seem unsure if you can trust her. He will pick up on that insecurity and think you don't trust him.
You need to talk to him. Get it out of your head and into a conversation.
As f... (read in full...)
G/f & I want to live in different countries & neither of us wants to give in
Q. Hi. I've been with my g/f for the last 18 months now in UK. All is great but I have an issue of her wanting to live in the UK when I want us to live in Oz. Seems that neither of us are willing to budge. Seems that she expects me to let go of ...
A. 21 January 2009: Been there done that. I gave up my (really well paying job) my family (though I still talk/write to them) my friends( ditto), my day to day life for a life with my husband. He in turn gave up a lot for me as well, it wasn't one-sided for us.
I do ... (read in full...)
B/f's fantasy is a threesome but I have reservations
Q. I'm in a stable loving relationship with a great guy. we are living together and engaged. One of his fantasies has always been to have a threesome with an older guy. I'm not entirely adverse to having a threesome but I have major insecurity and j...
A. 21 January 2009: ****He has said he loves me and never wants to do anything to hurt me so he feels a threesome would be a 'safe' way for him to do what he feels he missed out on as I will be there involved and know about it.****
Basically he wants to cheat wh... (read in full...)
B/f's fantasy is a threesome but I have reservations
Q. I'm in a stable loving relationship with a great guy. we are living together and engaged. One of his fantasies has always been to have a threesome with an older guy. I'm not entirely adverse to having a threesome but I have major insecurity and j...
A. 20 January 2009: So he is interested in guy/guy action with you participating? Or did I misunderstood?... (read in full...)
B/f's fantasy is a threesome but I have reservations
Q. I'm in a stable loving relationship with a great guy. we are living together and engaged. One of his fantasies has always been to have a threesome with an older guy. I'm not entirely adverse to having a threesome but I have major insecurity and j...
A. 20 January 2009: Unless it's something you TRULY want don't do it. You will regret it.
I know loads of people have fantasies about 3-somes. And I know quite a few people, who tried to live that fantasy out and most of them regretted it 100%.
I don't belie... (read in full...)
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