My husband said it's "just texting" and I have nothing to worry about! What do you reckon?
Q. So, found text on my husband's phone of naked girl and dirty talk. She is my sister in law's best friend.. Lives 2,000 Miles away, so a lot of talking on phone and dirty pics. I set him up with a facebook account and this is were they connected. ...
A. 27 February 2009: It's what's called an emotional affair. What he should do is put all that time and effort into you and your marriage not flirt/horny mail some chick 2000 miles away.
Been in a situation a lot like yours.
What I did was write him a long ass m... (read in full...)
Husband takes viagara but I'm not reeping the benefits!
Q. I think my husband is cheating, were do I begin. 6 Years ago I fund a pack of 4 viagra hidden in his wallet (I only picket it up because I though it looked a bit tatty and I would buy him a new one), I cuckled at first until I realised 2 were ...
A. 27 February 2009: Remember it doesn't matter what he says. What matters is how you feel. When a significant other cheat, everyone in the family is affected. How YOU deal with it is what matters.
You knew in your gut he was cheating. You preferred status quo. ( W... (read in full...)
Do drunken mistakes really exist?
Q. My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship, in which we just went through a period of saving it. We came clean about everything we had done, and he told me he had slept with one of his best friends, who was also living in the room next to him ...
A. 27 February 2009: I think making drunken mistakes can happen.
IF you two are serious about your relationship you need to work on forgiving each other. Once that is done you concentrate on the future.
You two also need to talk about your boundaries in th... (read in full...)
Should I tell her that I'm a virgin?
Q. Should i tell a girl i been on a couple dates that im a virgin? Im 22, she is 27 and definitely not a virgin, lol. Please reply soon cause im suppose to see her tommorrow.... Thanks a bunch *Mod Note: Fixed some txt speak. Please try to write out...
A. 27 February 2009: I guess if the subject comes up you can tell her. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
Be aware of her body language and please don't be afraid to ask her what she likes. ... (read in full...)
Friend using my ideas to do well in another subject!
Q. i have recently found out that a close friend of mine has been going through my work with the intention of using my ideas to do well in another subject. I am in my final year of school so this is a big issue as it is considered my final work for ...
A. 27 February 2009: I had one of my (at the time) best friends do that to me. I did not tell the professors, they approached me. I had NO idea she "stole" my ideas. I was pretty miffed, however as it turned out I had done the better research, the better analyzing, ... (read in full...)
Is my ex trying to get a certain reaction from me by being so mean to me?
Q. Dear everyone My ex bf is being really horrible 2 me, we stayed friends after we split in november last yr,he now has a gf, but he says im hounding him,and ot getting over him,and on sunday he had a huge go at me over the phone,saying he ...
A. 27 February 2009: He's your ex, stop having contact to him. You are hanging on to something that is not "yours" no more. The fact that he is abusive is all the more reason for you to cut ALL contact. Concentrate on you. On your life, don't waste time on him anymore. ... (read in full...)
Husband takes viagara but I'm not reeping the benefits!
Q. I think my husband is cheating, were do I begin. 6 Years ago I fund a pack of 4 viagra hidden in his wallet (I only picket it up because I though it looked a bit tatty and I would buy him a new one), I cuckled at first until I realised 2 were ...
A. 27 February 2009: IF your gut tells you he is cheating I would listen to it. I think it's right :(
You need to figure out what you want to do. Time for you to think of yourself. Your kids are big enough to handle whatever comes.
Like many people who cheat... (read in full...)
I'm 27 and not interested in sex
Q. Why do i feel like this? Im 27 and not interested in sex! I have a gorgeous boyfriend of almost 2 yrs and we have a beautiful 8 month old daughter. I do feel tired a lot what with lookin after my daughter all day so maybe thats why, but even when im ...
A. 26 February 2009: I agree with Natasia. However I do suggest you go see your doctor as well, since the sex drive is gone it could be hormonal, as in your hormonal balance is way out of order.
Having kids is hard on the body. Mentally and physically. Fro some the... (read in full...)
He dumped me because I nagged too much. Is it too late?
Q. Hello everyone! Basically I'm writing because my love broke up with me. We had been dating for around 1 year. We had an intense relationship and it also got a bit serious because we would spend time with friends and his and my family. I used to...
A. 26 February 2009: It might be to late. It might not. However I hope you learned something from the relationship.
You might want to spend sometime working on your self esteem and insecurities. We all have those insecurities but how we let them rules us makes a ... (read in full...)
I think she's cheating as she's alot wider down there than she used to be...
Q. i think my girlfriend may be having sex with some one else. she is a lot wider down there than what she used to be, i have been seeing her for a year know and i dont fit aswell as i used to. am i write in thinking this way. can some one help me out ...
A. 25 February 2009: She might not be doing kegels. After all if she is in her 40's her muscles aren't as tight as they used to be.
If you suspect cheating I hope you have more then that to bring to the table....... (read in full...)
What are your thoughts on a 24 y/o male masturbating to pictures of a 16 y/o girl?
Q. What are your thoughts on a 24 year old male masturbating to pictures of a 16 year old girl? There is a girl I know that is 16 year old and I have masturbated to the thought of her. She is very cute and quite nice. I would never do anything with...
A. 25 February 2009: First of I think it's natural for us to find others sexually acttrative, however you need to think here. What is it about her you find so much of a turn on?
I think you should not do it. For the simple reason that you condition your brain to think... (read in full...)
Pregnant with his child, but suspect he's gay... I'm so confused!
Q. Me and my partner are about to have our first child, although he's very manly ie:- sports, beer, sex, the usual, I've seen a few times now that he has been on gay porn for straight guys and shemales websites. It makes me feel sick but I don't wa...
A. 25 February 2009: I think it's more of a curiosity thing then gay thing. If I recall right a survey showed that 70% of men who look at she males are in fact straight. I think it's a fascination thing. A lot of men are curious as to things as anal sex and the more ... (read in full...)
He shows me no affection outside the bedroom
Q. I have a boyfriend we are both in our upper 30s and he shows me no affection outside the bedroom what soever. hell/ goodbye kiss thats about it. I want more, not to sound selfish or greedy but that is what I need. when we are not sleeping together...
A. 25 February 2009: If you want more affection from him start giving him more affection. I know it sounds backwards but he might just figure it out with out you having to tell him.
Don't always wait for HIM to initiate stuff, even a hug. You want a hug? Go get it f... (read in full...)
Mum fell out with me because I went round to see my friend!
Q. I have a friend who lives round the corner from my Mum's boyfriend's house. Mum decided to go round to see him one night so, by the way, I dropped in on my friend too. I had a fab time with my friend and spent almost four hours there! When I went ...
A. 24 February 2009: Get a driver licence and a job so you can buy your own car. You mom is not you chauffeur.
If you expect her to drive you then have the courtesy to ask her when to met her and BE there or get home on your own.
... (read in full...)
Please someone tell me am I going bonkers and reading far too much into this or is she really sniffing round him cos she fancies him...?
Q. I don't know where to begin! I had been with my partner for 12 years. We fell out and were both too stubborn to make up. We sold out house and went our seperate ways. Before this I tried to reconcile but he didnt want to know. He had started going ...
A. 24 February 2009: If the two of you aren't really together anymore then I don't think you can really demand who he can and can not see. (though I do think you can ask him to NOT include this women when your son is at his house)
She could be interested in him. It ... (read in full...)
What's the best penis size?
Q. What is the best penis size? because im like at 7 inches and my penis is 5"thick so i want to know if ill be hurting my gf or not pleasuring her...
A. 24 February 2009: The best penis size is whatever size is attached to the guy a women cares about.
So, really size don't matter. Doing it RIGHT matters. Th means since you are thick you should consider lube or make sure she is really ready and wet before sex. She... (read in full...)
Do I tell my friend from overseas how I've been feeling?
Q. Back in '98 i went on a bus tour through Great Britain. As i stood there, waiting to find out which bus i'm on and when it leaves, i saw him and prayed that he'd be on my bus. He was! I became really close with him and his sister (who was there as ...
A. 24 February 2009: If he has a partner now then I suggest you do not tell him.
What you two had was very nice and cute and all, but he has had 10 years of history, partnership & love with this woman, you really think he is going to throw that away?
And you would... (read in full...)
My husband has cheated over and over again
Q. I know you will read this and say i deserve what i get here goes. 12 months ago(feb 08) i was told my husband was having affair,i confronted him and he admitted to seeing this girl whom he worked with but said it had only been going on for a couple...
A. 24 February 2009: I think habit is part of it. Low self esteem is another. Your husband has conditioned you to over the years "accept" that he cheats. In your heart you don't accept it but your actions (you come back and stay with him does). You need to make sure you ... (read in full...)
Should his penis be darker than the rest of his skin?
Q. My boyfriend's penis is a darker shade than his skin. He has no medical problems etc and is perfectly healthy. Is this normal or should i be concerned?...
A. 21 February 2009: - Just like nipples - they come in all colors and sizes :)
Perfecdtly normal.... (read in full...)
My b/f has a son & ex-wife, how do I deal with that?
Q. Me and my boyfriend work together, and thats how we met back in July. We've been together just about 2 months now. He is in the process of a divorce, but the courts won't finalize it until after his ex wife gives birth to this second child, whether ...
A. 21 February 2009: Support him. Don't get into any arguments with the ex-wife. If you spend time with his son and him, don't pretend to be the mama but go by your BF's rules. It is his child. Also any discipline should be done by him. If you two stick it out that will ... (read in full...)
He got a private nude dance!
Q. I feel exactly the same and am going through the same shitty feelings as you. It was on my now husbands!?!?!? stag night. im quite an open minded girl especially when it comes to sex. thing is he said to me prior to the stag and hen parties that he ...
A. 21 February 2009: Honestly I would be furious. But like ArmyMedic pointed out, he might not really have had much of a choice as far as where they went. BUT with that said he could have turned the naked lap dance down, make his best man take the "shot" out of respect ... (read in full...)
Do I have an infection or are they just heat spots?
Q. Any answers are appreciated, thank you. On the outside of my vagina, I have a small bump - like a heat spot I think. I have a few on the creases of my legs. They are very itchy. Is this a vaginal infection? I looked up vaginal warts, and it de...
A. 20 February 2009: I think if you have any concerns that it "might" be an STI to get checked out. It doesn't hurt.
Also doesn't hurt to be careful who you sleep with. :)... (read in full...)
I don't think he should eat lunch with his co-worker, even if she is just a friend.
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months has been having lunch with a girl he works with. They only work at the same office one day a week and when that happens they ride together to Subway or Quiznos and eat together. He insists that they are simply friends and ...
A. 20 February 2009: I have to agree with Phil, I see no reason why he can't have lunch with a co-worker. It's not like the have "lunch" at Motel 6.. it's a Subway...
And you are his GF not his mother. Starting to dictate only 6 months into a relationship who he c... (read in full...)
I'm scared he'll pick up on my pain and kick me down again.
Q. I need help ASAP. My husband has been extremely mentally and verbally abusive towards me for the past 3 years. I can probably count on my fingers how many times he has even spoken to me in the past 6 months and it was usually only to say shut the ...
A. 20 February 2009: Ok, first off good that you are educating yourself about abuse. Maybe it is time for you to let him go. You can not cure him with love. He's going to be a verbally abusive cruel guy no matter what. NOT your fault.
Secondly STOP playing his game... (read in full...)
Do I have an infection or are they just heat spots?
Q. Any answers are appreciated, thank you. On the outside of my vagina, I have a small bump - like a heat spot I think. I have a few on the creases of my legs. They are very itchy. Is this a vaginal infection? I looked up vaginal warts, and it de...
A. 20 February 2009: Do you shave or bikini wax? if so that could be the reason. Ingrown hair. Could be irritation towards detergent. If they seem like pimples ( yeah I know gross but that is the best description) then it could be. Hormones do affect the skin below ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of him pouting because I'm not ready to have sex!
Q. Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for almost a month now. :) He keeps pushing the sex issue. I feel I'm not completely ready just yet. And when I say 'no' he pouts! I'm getting a little sick of it.. For example: This morning I had an appt. to ...
A. 20 February 2009: Yup I agree with Emily as well, talk about acting like a child.. Urgh. That would be such a turn off.
When you are ready, you are ready. If he can't wait, fine you will find someone who will.
Though, I still think oral is sex. Can't she why is... (read in full...)
His new sex move is amazing, but I feel guilty for loving it!
Q. Dear girls Pse help me with a rather embarrassing question. A few months ago my bf was going down on me and suddenly switched tactics and flicked his tongue across my ass. After a few protestations I had my biggest orgasm EVER and a huge headache ...
A. 20 February 2009: Enjoy it and praise your man for daring something new!
... (read in full...)
Masturbation and pregnancy?
Q. my bf told its not good for girls to mastrbate because it will give them problems later in pregnancy. is this true? thank you...
A. 20 February 2009: Well all I can say is, it's HIS insecurities it shouldn't be yours. And from my standpoint masturbation is a good thing. Never let anyone makes you feel dirty about something like that. Now if you had to play with yourself all hours of the day and ... (read in full...)
He is very upset and unsure if he should marry a 'loose woman' (because of her past).
Q. OK, I don't have a problem, but I have a friend who is having some serious thoughts about his fiancee. I intend on getting as much advice from this site as I can, then either print out the answers, or log on (not at work) and have him read all your ...
A. 20 February 2009: What is he marrying ? the woman or her past?
Yes our past shapes us, but we ourselves can choose to let past experinces mold us or not. She is NOT JUST the sum of her past. She is who she is partly because of her past.
She had obviously been h... (read in full...)
What is the objective?
Q. I split from a girl 14 month ago after 2 years, she was seeing someone else in the same work place and I found out. I caused no trouble said right ok, if that’s your decision/choice, I respect that so good luck with it. Of course I was hurt. Anyway ...
A. 20 February 2009: She's an attention whore.. You decided to stop playing the game and she didn't. She is now mad that you don't want to keep playing her back-up fiddle. She's had two guys attention the last year and finally you don't give her attetion no more.. It ... (read in full...)
How can I keep away from him?
Q. I am starting to feel very stupid, there is a guy I work with same building different areas we only see each other 3/4 times a week very briefly but we have stayed late to chat sometime for over two hours, I thought he felt the same as me (I am ...
A. 20 February 2009: Stop the staying late to chat, aviod the places tyou usually bump into each other. Is he perhaps already in a relationship?
Change your routine.
... (read in full...)
I want to give all my love to my wife but she doesn't seem to want it!
Q. I am a 57 year old husband, married for the last 32 years. For the last couple of years my wife has been totally unloving (could be the menopause?) and I am tempted to seek closeness elsewhere. I love my wife dearly and fancy her to bits, she's ...
A. 20 February 2009: PS I forgot to add, two worngs don't make a right. You are still married and so is the younger woman in question.
Turn that energy onto your wife. Talk to her. Don't start something you WILL regret.
... (read in full...)
What do girls do when they like a guy? How do they act?
Q. How do you know the difference between when a girl is being friendly and she actualy likes you. So far no girls have been able to answer this question. Ladies what do you do when you actualy like a guy not just being nice....
A. 20 February 2009: That my friend, depends on the girl and the guy.
But, if there is interest,she will try and spend more time with him. She will seek eye contact. She will want to be physicall close. She will NOt make up lame excuses or lie. She will learn close wh... (read in full...)
Why always the porn? Does he not enjoy sex with me?
Q. I been married to my husband for three years now, but for the past few months I had realized that whenever we have sex he always have to put on a porn movie to watch. It hurts me so much because I feel like I am not good enough for him and while we ...
A. 20 February 2009: I'm with LazyGuy. This is not common guy behavior and YOU need to ask HIM those 3 questions if you want answer you can actually use in your relationship.
Have you ever asked him to turn it off? To be romantic/sexual without the porn? He might ac... (read in full...)
How can I decide what the truth is here?
Q. I recently heard rumours about my husband cheated on me, a year ago! The girl in the rumour would be one person that I would not doubt he slept with, because they worked together and she was bold enough to tell him she would sleep with him, married ...
A. 20 February 2009: If he did have sex with his co-worker, what are you going to do with that information? Are you going to leave is cheating ass or what? Do you really want to know?
He is obviously a serial cheater and he isn't going to stop because you know the... (read in full...)
How can I decide what the truth is here?
Q. I recently heard rumours about my husband cheated on me, a year ago! The girl in the rumour would be one person that I would not doubt he slept with, because they worked together and she was bold enough to tell him she would sleep with him, married ...
A. 20 February 2009: If he did have sex with his co-worker, what are you going to do with that information? Are you going to leave is cheating ass or what? Do you really want to know?
He is obviously a serial cheater and he isn't going to stop because you know the... (read in full...)
What is wrong with my housemate?
Q. what is wrong with my housemate!!! I officially can not stand her any longer! We got our place together but i swear she lives like i'm living in her house. She constantly talks to herself and you know when she is around or in a bad mood. she hu...
A. 20 February 2009: Who knows what is wrong with her. As I see it, it really doesn't matter since you are about to move out. She could be jealous of not having a life, she could be a little delusional thinking she does everything in the house and so on...
She m... (read in full...)
My g/f thinks it's weird when I cop a feel of her breasts a little, do other girls think the same?
Q. quick queston for all the girls out there: my gf thinks its weird that ill always want to randomly cop a feel on her breasts here and there. say for example we're laying down watching t.v and i notice shes not wearing a bra under her shirt, ill put ...
A. 20 February 2009: I guess it depends. I like it personally. You need to talk to you. Tell her why you like to do it and LISTEN to her reason for why she doesn't.
Then respect her. ... (read in full...)
Weird female masturbation technique which is bad?
Q. Hi.. Well first things first- I have been mastrubating since I was 5 years old. I found this new 'game' and kept it secret. Soon I developed my own 'technique' of getting an orgasm. I've been doing this for 14 years now.. What bugs me is the wa...
A. 20 February 2009: Order a pu$$y pleaser.( that is the name) It's a small vibrating suction cup ish thing, that will tickle you to a climax, use it while you have sex with your boyfriend. You Can use it as soft or hard as you like. Or another vibrating toy.
There... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to be friends with a married man who is your ex of 13 years?
Q. Is it okay to talk to a married man who happens to be your ex 13 years ago? Its stricty friendship and platonic. We have no feelings for each other, but just want to be there for each other as friends. is that so wrong ..and his wifes knows of the ...
A. 20 February 2009: I'm with Starfish.
You were together and have history together. Why rekindly a friendship? I have a friend who is also my ex. We rarely talk but we do exchange emails a few times a year. I have NO huge interest to keep him in my life, he's an ... (read in full...)
Am I right to be concerned about my boyfriend's strange behaviour???
Q. Do you guys think im over reacting an should just forget it or do I have cause for concern? My boyfriend of 6 months is very loving but a few things are really worrying me. 1- he hsa no problem with looking at my phone but snatches his off me if I ...
A. 20 February 2009: First the phone business. If you can't see his, he can't see yours. That is only fair. Games likes that is lame but if he wants to play, he needs to play fair.
Taking his phone to the bathroom is just.. bizarre.. Why not just turn it off and lock... (read in full...)
Masturbation and pregnancy?
Q. my bf told its not good for girls to mastrbate because it will give them problems later in pregnancy. is this true? thank you...
A. 20 February 2009: Nope neither sex nor masturbation is harmful during pregnancy. Some women actually prefer to have sex instead of being induced if they go past their due date.
If you are really concerned ( or he is) go talk to your doctor:)... (read in full...)
I want to give all my love to my wife but she doesn't seem to want it!
Q. I am a 57 year old husband, married for the last 32 years. For the last couple of years my wife has been totally unloving (could be the menopause?) and I am tempted to seek closeness elsewhere. I love my wife dearly and fancy her to bits, she's ...
A. 20 February 2009: I understand your frustration. You have a gorgeous wife but she's lost her interest in sex ( or so you think) so it's easy to get flattered and tempted by a women who IS interested in you sexually. Everyone wants to feel sexually attractive.
The f... (read in full...)
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