What is the best and most discrete form of pubic hair removal for a female?
Q. What is the best and most discrete form of pubic hair removal for a female?...
A. 4 January 2009: I prefer waxing, but I have done it for years. Shaving might be a good start -
Here is a link to an awesome instructional of how to shave right:)
http://www.de... (read in full...)
Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?
Q. Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?...
A. 4 January 2009: I'm not a male, but I have never met a guy who gave or received oral for any other reason then for the sheer joy and huge turn on it is.... (read in full...)
I think my body is unattractive and it's holding me back from sex.
Q. I find my body very un-attractive i am an english size 12-14 a 36C bust size. I have a boyfriend and am afraid to further the relationship into a sexual one because my body holds me back, please can someone help me?...
A. 4 January 2009: Why do you think your boyfriend likes you? Solely because of your looks? Or maybe because you have a great personality and is generally lovable?
Stop any woman on the street and ask her if she can find fault with her own body, they will ALL say ... (read in full...)
She's insecure because of her abusive ex, what do I do?
Q. This is a two part question so might be a bit confessing. My girlfriend (of 2 years) had a very abusive ex-boyfriend (he physically and emotionally abused her) and she's afraid I hit her as well. I honestly wouldn't because it isn't right. I t...
A. 3 January 2009: Patience is key, but I think she could seriously benefit from some counseling. She will ruin any future relationship if she keeps living in the past. She obviously don't trust herself to find a man that treats her right and now that she has she ... (read in full...)
Love at first sight - do you believe?
Q. do you guys believe in love at first sight? ...
A. 3 January 2009: I believe in lust at first sight :) Like Uncle Phil said, Love at first conversation is more accurate.
My first BF was lust at first sight for sure, turned out I fell in love too, we were together for 5 years. Not bad really.... (read in full...)
How can I confront my step brother about me and him needing to stop?
Q. im am nerly 16 and ma step brother is 17 but when i was 10 he did sexual things to me and i thought i was ok...it stoped when i went to live with my mum which was wen i was 12 but now i know it was wrong but im with my dad alot and everytime im ...
A. 3 January 2009: I don't feel qualified to give you really good advice other then talk to you family - look into getting help.
www.rainn.org could be a good start. It doesn't matter when he did it, the fact it he did this to you. The feeling you have for him are ... (read in full...)
My wife & I don't talk anymore
Q. I live in a relationship where my wife and i dont talk anymore . We have a beautiful 3 and a half year old girl and she is the reason we are still together . We have'nt made love for over 10 months and i cant handle it anymore . I am the type of ...
A. 3 January 2009: Ok this one sounded so familiar that I had to reply. It can be fixed !
First let me tell you about me and mine. Been married little over 10 years with 3 kids.
Over the years and after 3 kids we had less and less intimacy. He increased his po... (read in full...)
Does watching lesbian porn means I'm lesbian? I've never been attracted to girls!
Q. Dear ppl, Lately I've been thinking about my sexual orientation. I used to watch porn and I stopped because I hated it and I felt disgusted every time I do it. I watched lesbian porn and I felt sth during watching it but I HATED it afterwards and I...
A. 3 January 2009: Stop watching porn, you don't even enjoy it. Watching so much porn already at your age I bet is desensitizing your understand of sex. Why do you want to ruin something so amazing ?
No, watching 2 girls having sex doesn't make you gay.
Get ove... (read in full...)
He is asking me for no strings sex, what should I answer him?
Q. This guy is with me since 2 years ago. We have kissed and caressed each other. He is asking me for sex, but without love and emotions. On New year eve he called me up and again asked me for sexual relations. I said him that i love him, and i also ...
A. 3 January 2009: If you feel like you HAVE to reply, then reply with a Yes, you are right, I'm not into a F-buddy relationship, that is not who I am. Have a good life.
That is it. Don't waste more time on him. He's a himbo.. move on.... (read in full...)
I want him back but won't be his game
Q. Exboyfriend came back from vacation and wanted to talk. I met him and conversation was light and I asked for my apartment key back he would not give. He asked if I worked Saturday and I said yes he said you get your key then. He went to kiss me ...
A. 3 January 2009: First of, have your locks changed. If the two of you start dating again he can get a new key.
Secondly, it's hard to guess from the little you wrote what he's thinking. How your relationship went and so forth. You really want to know you should t... (read in full...)
He's upset because I took the morning after pill!
Q. I took some emergency contraception pills yesterday after unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I told him that i need to take them and he sounded like he understood. Last night when i was talking to him again, he mentioned that he didn't really like ...
A. 3 January 2009: Start using either the pill full time or him a condom. You explained it perfectly.
And Emily is 100% right :
*****Tell him that every time he masturbates he is killing possible babies, and that if he feels that way then he should not have sex... (read in full...)
I don't want to have sex now because it hurts!
Q. this is slightly embarasing to ask but i really dont know whats wrong with me... me and my bf have been having sex quite regularly and it never used to hurt, but the past two times it was extremely painful, not because i was tensed up or i wasnt we...
A. 3 January 2009: Well, maybe you should try some positions where he doesn't hit your cervix (which is properly what happened)- he might need to do less deep penetrations. Go slow, take your time find a position and tempo that works for the both of you.
Howev... (read in full...)
Period cramp.
Q. My friend has her period and when she usually has it she doesn't usually have cramps but she has been complaining that her stomach has been killing her for the past 3 days. She took pills but it's still killing her.. What should she do?......
A. 3 January 2009: I know it sound unreal, but exercise helps. When you exercise you body release endorphins (happy chemicals) and they ca reduce pains and aches.
Eating right and sleeping right (get you 8 hours), a warm water bottle/ heating pad, A nice hot long... (read in full...)
Love to hear about the past!
Q. Hi There, This is the first time I have done this sort of thing so here goes. I want to know if anybody else feels the same way I do about my wife's sexual past. I have known her since we were in high school. We dated a bit in high school and ...
A. 3 January 2009: I suggest the two of you role-play something totally different then her ex-boy friends. She is over and done with them, so should you be.
Seriously.
She said she doesn't want to go there. Maybe get her to talk about fantasies. ... (read in full...)
If a boyfriend punches a wall when he's mad does that mean he's abusive?
Q. Quick question. If a boyfriend punches a wall when he's mad does that mean he's abusive? I've heard it does but I was wondering if anyone has a boyfriend or is a boyfriend who gets mad and punches something but would never punch a female. Thanks....
A. 3 January 2009: No he isn't abusive in the sense that he doesn't beat you he beats the wall. Which is anger issues, however the fact that he will punch a wall is not just anger it's about control, he wants you to be scared. That can so easy lead to violence.
... (read in full...)
My parents are splitting up...help!!
Q. My Parents have been married for 21 years...ever since they were teenagers themselves but my dad was offered a job which meant he would be away a lot coming back every 2 weeks but after about 4 months of this he started coming home less often and my ...
A. 3 January 2009: Be open with your dad. If you get him for a few more days, make sure you let him know that you will always love him and need him, but that you also is hurt by all this.
Keep the lines of communication open.
~hugs~ Hang in there~... (read in full...)
Do all men feel it's okay to cheat if they don't get caught?
Q. Do all men feel it's ok to cheat if they knew they wouldn't get caught? And is it true that men are not naturally monogamous? Do every one of them really feel trapped by women who want a monogamous relationship?...
A. 3 January 2009: I know it's crazy with them dolphins lol
Anyways back to the new question.. Once a cheat always a cheat?
Um not necessarily. I think it depends on a lot of things. Some people are serial cheater because they simply can not maintain a relat... (read in full...)
I need help from the girls!
Q. Hey this question is short and to the point for girls... why do you guys wear the kind of underwear you do??? I'm wondering because my girlfriend is really plain with her underwear so I don't know how I can change that or even if I can!...
A. 3 January 2009: Maybe start by buying her a pair you find sexy ( and be modest when you buy some - ok don't go for tiny open crotch g-strings if she is a white cotton panty girl.) They can always get smaller and smaller. Or you could go wit ha cute bra-panty set. ... (read in full...)
Me and my bf were having sex yesterday and the condom broke without us realising and he came inside me.
Q. Me and my bf were having sex yesterday and the condom broke without us realising and he came inside me. As it was New Year's Day, none of the chemist's were open but we went to the hospital and managed to get the morning after pill and I took it ...
A. 3 January 2009: Maybe you should consider getting birth control pills but keep using condoms. Sperm can live up to 7 days in the fallopian tube.. Scary thought.
I have no experience with Day-after pill what so ever, but broken condoms have happened plenty o... (read in full...)
I know he wants to join the Navy after getting his degree later on this year and this depresses me...
Q. Theres a guy who I've liked for ages, but he lives 3 hours away. When we do see each other (which isnt very often) we act like we're a couple, hugging, kissing, holding hands, being sweet with eachother etc. Since seeing him again in November I've ...
A. 3 January 2009: Talk to your guy, express your feeling and fears. If you two can not communicate openly, what do you have?
I'm an Military wife. Have been our whole marriage. It is what it is. No less no more. My husband loves his job, he good at it. There ar... (read in full...)
My guy is obsessed with anal! - Aunts... I need your thoughts!
Q. Hello My boyfriend is obsessed with anal sex. Any naughty texts I receive are always about how excited he is about "being in my ass later". I don't mind anal sex but it seems like it's all I know these days. He does have sex with me the n...
A. 3 January 2009: I would talk to him about it. It that is just about all he wants to do, but not what you want to do there is a bit of lacking communication.
There are sooo many others thing you can do in the bedroom ( as I'm sure you know :) ) Make tell him that... (read in full...)
I really don't know what to do there's 3 years of a difference between us and now I feel folk will talk about us for the year gap
Q. I really like this guy who has a child but I used to go with him a couple of years ago and when we split he got into a relationship a couple of weeks later which he was unhappy in but within a few weeks his girlfriend announced she was pregnant what ...
A. 3 January 2009: Go with your gut. You are just not that into him anymore, which is fine. It just means you know what you don't want in a guy or yourself.... (read in full...)
How close can friends of the opposite sex be?
Q. Guys please, My best friend is a man in his mid-forties (I am in my mid-fifties and a trained nurse), we are not romantically involved (even though I would like to be), but my friend talks to me about everything, I mean everything. He h...
A. 3 January 2009: I don't see it as being strange at all. I grew up with more male friends the female friends. Mostly cause I was into every sport out there and because I just didn't really get the whole clique thing. Some of my male friends I have known since we ... (read in full...)
Did he take advantage?
Q. Background Info: A lad I'm good mates with, questioned me a lot about about the lad I was going with and seemed to flirt with me at school. He's cute and a good friend to me. Whenever I would be out with my bf and he was there he used to look at ...
A. 3 January 2009: Seems odd. Go with your gut. Honestly you shouldn't cuddle and snuggle with someone who isn't your boyfriend. Dump your boyfriend before you move on. You didn't HAVE to let him sit and hold you , you know... Even your friends thought it was odd.
... (read in full...)
Are there any places where abortions are free?
Q. Are there any places where abortions are free?...
A. 3 January 2009: I believe Planned Parenthood provide that. But you might want to check it out yourself.
Check out their website:
www.plannedparenthood.org or call them toll free 1-800-PLAN
PS. If this is for you, make sure that you also get some counseling... (read in full...)
I was just wondering if I could've caught it off him by doing what we were doing?
Q. Hey, just a quick one. In the summer me and this boy had a bit of a fling. We weren't in a relationship or anything and one night after a couple of drinks we did stuff. Stuff as in I sucked and tossed him off and he fingered me. Now, in January ...
A. 3 January 2009: If you have doubts go see a doctor, you DO NOT want chlamydia as it can it left untreated make you infertile.
You can get it thru vaginal, anal & oral sex so YES :
SEE a doctor.
You may no show any symptoms but like I said, the sooner you t... (read in full...)
Should it be allowed for teacher's to date students?
Q. I've been searching google and stuff, about the laws and reasons of teacher's not being able to date students. I was just wondering what people's views on the law was.... Because, I understand that teacher's are in high authority position and in ...
A. 3 January 2009: *****Love has no boundaries. Age does not matter. If age does matter - well, Tom Cruise did it, Nicolas Cage did it, David Letterman did it, Harrison Ford did it - and I beg to disagree that these fine gentlemen are a bunch of pervs.********
The m... (read in full...)
My baby's father questions the baby is his, I'm hearbroken and alone...
Q. I'm currently pregnant and due on Valentines Day, February 14th. I am depressed and alone. I mean..my family is around but having my sons dad around during my pregnancy would be grateful unfortunately, we've been in and out of our relationship...
A. 3 January 2009: Having one heck of a mom beats out having no dad or a sucky dad any day. You can do and thankfully you got a good family behind you. Keep your chin up and don't let him back in your life. He just isn't worthy.
Do what's right for you and it will ... (read in full...)
Should it be allowed for teacher's to date students?
Q. I've been searching google and stuff, about the laws and reasons of teacher's not being able to date students. I was just wondering what people's views on the law was.... Because, I understand that teacher's are in high authority position and in ...
A. 2 January 2009: No I don't think a teacher should be allowed to date his students or her students.
A grown ass man (or woman) wanting to date a 13-16 year old is just not looking for love, he is looking to fulfill some perverted fantasy.
He might claim love... (read in full...)
Am I making a move on a man or a statue?
Q. I'm always the one making the first move, he just sits there, makes me feel so unattractive. He says hes no good at this, just wish i could get him to touch me, kiss me. I feel as though i'm kissing and feeling a statue what can i do?...
A. 2 January 2009: Talk to him. It's that simple. Tell him all the stuff you DO like about him, what about him turns you on.
If he's no good at it isn't it about time to start learning? Teach him. Don't tell but show him. Men are visual.
I'm sure the two of you c... (read in full...)
What are some good erogenous zones?
Q. Hey everone I have a question. I am wondering on how best to pleasure my gf when I go down on her. She insists on staying a virgin till she's 18 and I respect that but we do have our fun. And I'm wondering how best I can pleasure her when I go to...
A. 2 January 2009: This site might give you some answer and idea:
http://www.health24.com/sex/Great_sex_guides/1253-2487-2525.asp... (read in full...)
Cousin chasing her and he molested her years ago
Q. Hello, i need some advice.um 16, Well i m wid dis gal for 18months,she s 15.she was molested by her cousin when she was 11.that cousin apologized to her after some day. Now da boy is back.i hate him like anything.now he s doing things to impress my ...
A. 2 January 2009: Yes she needs help dealing with what happened. Being molested is not something you "just" get over. She truly needs help. find a hot-line for her to call.... (read in full...)
Spice up the sex life?
Q. How can i spice up our sex life if he won't even touch me, it seems i'm the one doing all the touching. How do i get him to do more foreplay...
A. 2 January 2009: First of all the two of you need to talk. A sexlife don't spice itself up. Tell him what you want/need and ask him what he want/need - Telling him that you would love to spice it up in the bedroom is not a bad thing - you can browse the we together ... (read in full...)
14 dating a 23 year old with kids
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfirend is 23. i have know him since i was 5 and we started dating 3 mounths ago. but he has a girlfriend and 2 kids. i am bi and so is his girlfriend and we have had a three some. he says he loves me but i don't know what im getting ...
A. 2 January 2009: No No No. Don't do it. A guy who has things in common with a 14 year old is not worth keeping around. Dating a guy with kids when you are (and sorry hun don't take offense) but you are still a big kid yourself. And having all kind of kinky sex is ... (read in full...)
What is wrong with me? I've got wedding jitters??
Q. Hi there. I'm glad I found this website. I have something I need to get off my chest, and would really appreciate any comments. I'm sorry this is going to be a little verbose. I've been with my g/f over 12 years. One year ago, I finally took t...
A. 2 January 2009: You need to tell her. And honestly if the both of you were comfortable not being married ( and you must have been after 12 years) then why cave in to demands now?
Secondly, if you have been together for 12 years in some states she could actually... (read in full...)
Do I tell him I regret him being my first?
Q. Everything is a bit of a mess really lol.im going to tell him how i feel, how he's making me feel etc etc. I dont know what we are. Seeing each other, the next friends - with him saying 'for now/not ruling it out' and then theres been a few things ...
A. 2 January 2009: Having sex should be 50-50 Both making the decision to do it. You can NOT put that on him. IF you regret having sex with him, then that is on you. It's not like a pair of shoes that when you get home you find ugly and can take back.
Basic... (read in full...)
He dumped me for another girl and lives next door!
Q. I have just been dumped after a relationship of 17 months. I met him just as he hit on a very difficult time in his life financially and was very reticent to get involved at first. But i did. i stuck with him through the hard times and fell head ...
A. 2 January 2009: Wow be glad that piece of crap man moved on. That is just wrong. He most likely had no intentions of having a fully committed relationship with out. Most likely he won't with her either. I know that doesn't help you much now, but be glad that you ... (read in full...)
Wife cheated while wearing her wedding dress
Q. My wife cheated on me. The guy she did it with wanted her to wear her wedding dress while she sucked him off and while he fucked her. She did this for him, and let him cum all over her dress. I'm not sure what i should be feeling here, but its not ...
A. 2 January 2009: That is a super odd thing to do. Have you asked her why? You and your wife obviously have some serious communication issues. To me it sounds like some kind of revenge, but revenge for what?
I honestly don't care about the wedding dress part, bu... (read in full...)
My baby's father questions the baby is his, I'm hearbroken and alone...
Q. I'm currently pregnant and due on Valentines Day, February 14th. I am depressed and alone. I mean..my family is around but having my sons dad around during my pregnancy would be grateful unfortunately, we've been in and out of our relationship...
A. 2 January 2009: I'm so sorry. I didn't know a guy can "just" sign over his rights. On the other hand, having him out of your life and their life have got to be a blessing.
However he hasn't signed over the rights to your un-born son yet? Specially since he don't... (read in full...)
Do all men feel it's okay to cheat if they don't get caught?
Q. Do all men feel it's ok to cheat if they knew they wouldn't get caught? And is it true that men are not naturally monogamous? Do every one of them really feel trapped by women who want a monogamous relationship?...
A. 2 January 2009: I really wasn't kidding about the dolphins.. :)
http://www.sexwork.com/family/dolphinrape.html... (read in full...)
Do all men feel it's okay to cheat if they don't get caught?
Q. Do all men feel it's ok to cheat if they knew they wouldn't get caught? And is it true that men are not naturally monogamous? Do every one of them really feel trapped by women who want a monogamous relationship?...
A. 2 January 2009: Goodness, I hope not. There is a very big line between felling attracted - lusting after - having fantasies whatnot - til actually cheating.
I wouldn't do it. And no Patrick Dempsey or Johnny Depp or another gorgeous man would make me want to ... (read in full...)
My parents are splitting up...help!!
Q. My Parents have been married for 21 years...ever since they were teenagers themselves but my dad was offered a job which meant he would be away a lot coming back every 2 weeks but after about 4 months of this he started coming home less often and my ...
A. 2 January 2009: ~HUGs~
I'm so sorry. Unfortunately it happens that people grow apart, that they hit a midlife crisis and cheat, fall out of love and so forth. And it all sucks.
Your dad is a bugger for cheating on your mom. And you can be mad at him for that... (read in full...)
My baby's father questions the baby is his, I'm hearbroken and alone...
Q. I'm currently pregnant and due on Valentines Day, February 14th. I am depressed and alone. I mean..my family is around but having my sons dad around during my pregnancy would be grateful unfortunately, we've been in and out of our relationship...
A. 1 January 2009: If you have already reminded him and given him a copy of the US, I wouldn't do anything else til the baby is born. When your son is born seek child support.
Does he doubt your daughters paternity as well? If so seek child support for the daughter... (read in full...)
My baby's father questions the baby is his, I'm hearbroken and alone...
Q. I'm currently pregnant and due on Valentines Day, February 14th. I am depressed and alone. I mean..my family is around but having my sons dad around during my pregnancy would be grateful unfortunately, we've been in and out of our relationship...
A. 28 December 2008: Concentrate on you and the baby because that is all that matters really.
Let him know in an e-mail (again) the due date and tell him that you will request a paternity test for his sake. Don't forget to fill out child support papers. With the DNA ... (read in full...)
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