Are my nan's tarot predictions correct???
Q. Im 16 and had my period about a week ago, but now im worried im PREGNANT! I keep getting brown discharge in my underwear and feel quite bloated and keep farting a lot. My boobs are sore sometimes, on and off. Im on the contriceptive pi...
A. 31 July 2009: 2 words for you:
PREGNACY TEST
Only way for you to move on. Sore boobs can be a sign of pregnancy but also a sign og fluctuation in hormones which, is quie normal. Take the test, use condoms ( even you are on the pill). Better safe then sor... (read in full...)
He deleted his Facebook because of me!?!?
Q. hey thanks so much for this im really struggling with something... alright, I met this guy on facebook a few months back commenting on my friends status and we added eachother and we hit it off as good friends you know? He is a famous pro wre...
A. 31 July 2009: Im sorry, but you and a LOT of young people, need to realize that there is a WHOLE world out there. It is not a way to live or have friendships/relationships on a darn website, be it Facebook, MySpace or whatever.
Another thing is this, You migh... (read in full...)
I'm 14 is that to young to be in love?
Q. OK so im 14 and recently I've been wondering if I can truly be IN love, because I think I might be. There was this guy and I liked him for quite a few years but nothing happened between us and I was beginning to think I'd never get over him, but ...
A. 30 July 2009: I don't think there is an age limit on love. I don't think you can be too young or too old to fall in love.
But as you grow you will find that love changes, means different things, even feels different.... (read in full...)
He chats to other girls when we're online - what should I do?
Q. my boyfriend is always flirting with other girls. i know it's his nature, because before we were just really good friends and he would also flirt with me and my other friends. we've been together for almost a year now. i've always had a slight ...
A. 30 July 2009: It's kinda hard but, you KNEW what he was like before you started dating him. He's a flirt. Either you can accept that or you can not. Don't expect him to change because you two are now a couple.
As RUDE as I find it that he will start to chat ... (read in full...)
Why is life so hard when you've found your soulmate?
Q. What do I do???? I am 45 and in a relationship with an 18 yearold!!! Where do I begin? Well for nearly a 10 months I have been seeing a woman/girl whos is nearly 27 years my junior!!! at first we knew each other as we live close and saw each other ...
A. 30 July 2009: Exelent advice Babymama99
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Do you think she'll cheat and be with another guy?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 9 months. She is on holiday at the moment in Italy with her aunt, but she has gone camping, and has her own tent. For some reason, I keep thinking she is going to cheat on me, depsite the fact that she ...
A. 30 July 2009: Forgot to add :
It is QUITE possible to go on vacation to Italy and NOT have sex with a tall,dark and handsome Italian.. :) Specially if she is already in love.
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Do you think she'll cheat and be with another guy?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 9 months. She is on holiday at the moment in Italy with her aunt, but she has gone camping, and has her own tent. For some reason, I keep thinking she is going to cheat on me, depsite the fact that she ...
A. 30 July 2009: I can see why you have trust issues, BUT just because your EX cheated doesn't mean this girl will.
Don't set yourself and her up for failure.
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I turned him down and now he's threatening me!
Q. I met this guy recently who i thought i could be good friends with. i thought he was nice at the time but when i told him i didn't want to date him after he asked me to go out with him he changed. He started saying things like he was looking for sex ...
A. 30 July 2009: I think you have cause for concern here, he seems unstable and definitely stalker potential. IF you feel threatened I would call the police and ask advice.
Here is a super good link, that I think you need to familiarize yourself with.
http://... (read in full...)
Question: do women tell their friends everything about their sex lives?
Q. Exactly how much do women talk about their sex lives with their girlfriends? I know that everyone has a different personality and of course that would dictate what they would tell their friends about their privage moments with their significant ...
A. 30 July 2009: When I was younger, yes me and my girl friends would talk about EVERYTHING. Now that I'm older and married we have other topics on the top of the list :)
I have some friends who still like to share and that doesn't bother me, they also know tha... (read in full...)
My ex forced me to have sex with him! How do I get over this?
Q. Please help me.. Last april i had an abortion because i was only fifteen and my current boyfriend was allot older, i was scared he could of got done by the police so we both decided to have an abortion. It was really hard and i was very upset. ...
A. 30 July 2009: I think you need to try and find a rape hot line, website support group and maybe even get some counseling.
Even if he WAS your boyfriend it is still rape. Besides, having an abortion is a HUGE emotional event in any woman's life, you were onl... (read in full...)
My ex wants to keep in touch with me, but I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thing?
Q. my ex lover came to her home town where she still has friends; i also live in the same town. she wanted to visit me while she was here, but i refused, telling her over the phone that i had moved on and i didn't feel comfortable about seeing her, ...
A. 30 July 2009: I think you are being VERY smart. You do NOT want to be in the middle of HER drama with her partner. ( if there is any)
Good luck :)
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Ladies: Could she possibly want more?
Q. I got some great answers from some guys on this but was hoping for a female point of view :) Hi, please help im getting sad :) I have worked with a girl for a year now. up until 2 and a half months ago i had a girlfriend. i always liked th...
A. 30 July 2009: Like Gina said, be her friend first. You don't want to be the rebound guy..
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I am not going to continue rewarding abusive behavior! Any suggestions?
Q. I am a single mother and have an 11 year old daughter who has been used to seeing me being abused by her father, my mother, my sister and my father. This abuse from her father escalated when I tried to have a relationship with a man that I was ...
A. 30 July 2009: Stop asking your family for help an go with your gut instinct.
You are the one raising your daughter so YOUR rules count.
Sit your daughter down, tell her about abuse and what it is. Verbal, physical, mental.. all of them. Explain that the... (read in full...)
I look like a circus tent compared to other women! Any weight loss advice?
Q. i am 30 yaer old and i am size 16 and 14 stone. i find it hard to lose weight since i got older, to make things worse where i live there is no gyms,no swimming pool ,no sport shops,i can,t effort personal trainer.i can,t run i have asthmas,i am ...
A. 30 July 2009: You need to go see a doctor, find out if there are any other underlying medical reasons for you weight, then if he can send you to a dietician so you can learn about how to eat right.
Also, GET of your bum and start walking 30-45 minutes EVERY DA... (read in full...)
I have the most annoying fiance, hes doing my head in!
Q. I neeed advice omg im soo stressing out and seriously think ive lost about 1 stone in the past week! I have the most annoying fiance,hes doing my head in! His nana was dying the other week and he rang in sick that day and told work he was up...
A. 30 July 2009: He seems very immature as well. He obviously have a obsession with his Xbox, especially if he lies to stay home from work to play on it.
Not sure what you can do, but the fact that he lies to you, is work and asks his mum to lie too is bad.
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My mother in law insists we have a baby when we are not ready!
Q. Dear all, Im married for a year and half. We love each other a lot. My father inlaw and mother inlaw have come to visit us and they are here for a month. During this time my mother inlaw is insisting me to give birth to a baby and she give a kind of ...
A. 30 July 2009: I hope your husband keep supporting your ( both of you) wishes about wanting to wait to have a child. There is nothing wrong in waiting til you both feel ready Ignore the threats.
Can't you husband deal with his mom?
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Any advice on why she is acting crazy?
Q. What is worse - being cheated on by the man who said he wants to marry you, or having him accidentally break your nose during an argument? I want to be with my girlfriend more than anything in the world but she just doesn't understand me so...
A. 30 July 2009: I'm with Eyeswideopen on this one.. Man, I hope she starts running and never look back. From you post she really don't seem crazy (even if you try hard to paint her that way) but YOU? .....
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I ended our relationship because he is too close to his ex. Did I make the right decision?
Q. My boyfriend talks of his ex girlfriend's body or what happened between them, He call her and she calls him he says she is only a friend and a close friend I got angry and upset and I said to him I don’t want him to have any contact with her or t...
A. 30 July 2009: Only you can tell if you did the right thing.
To be honest demanding whom he can talk to and whom he can't seems a tad controlling. However if you do not trust him around her, better be honest about how you feel about the contact or it would le... (read in full...)
Does Plan B work?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months and having sex for 2. He sometimes asks me if he can just pull out but I've always been too afraid to risk it (because I'm not on any other type of birth control) so we always used a condom. ...
A. 30 July 2009: Plan B doesn't work as birth control, not would it prevent any STD's.. It's not a smart thing to do.
Sperm can live up to 6-7 DAYS inside a woman's body - even if he "thought" he pulled out in time, you can definitely STILL get pregnant... (read in full...)
Why did my ex add me on Facebook when he has just got married?
Q. my ex fiance who i split with badly 6 years ago contacted me on facebook the other night requesting friendship. i thought this weird as ive only just got on there-we have no mutual friends so therefore confused to get this email. anyway ou...
A. 30 July 2009: If you have nothing to say to him ad he really has nothing to say to you, I would honestly take him off and block him.
Either he wants to rub it in that he got married or he is one of those attention whores, who thinks the more people he knows on... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't like making out!
Q. hey guys im 17 and my girlfriend is 14 and she thinks making out is gross. im not sure if its a maturity thing or she had a bad experience or what, i know for sure she has hooked up before, i don't know how much but i know its hasn't been much...
A. 30 July 2009: Maybe the FACT that she is 14 should tell you she might not be ready for the same things you are.... She is still a kid.... (read in full...)
What are my rights on a lease contract with my boyfriend?
Q. Im from australia, and i was wondering what are my rights on this.?! Me and my dickhead boyfriend got a rental house together. Both names are on the lease contract but tonight he kicked me out, and said once the 6 months are up hes going to leave an...
A. 30 July 2009: I would call the rental office and talk to them. I am pretty sure you ca remove your name of the contract if he kicked you out.
PS. If you still havve stuff at the hosue I suggest you call the police or bring someone with you when you need to ... (read in full...)
My ex wants to keep in touch with me, but I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thing?
Q. my ex lover came to her home town where she still has friends; i also live in the same town. she wanted to visit me while she was here, but i refused, telling her over the phone that i had moved on and i didn't feel comfortable about seeing her, ...
A. 30 July 2009: I think she is a tad unstable. I would suggest you do what you feel is right, so not feel pressured or "blackmailed" into keeping contact. Sometimes when a relationship is over - it is over.
Are you currently in a relationship? Because there is... (read in full...)
Should I try a new hospital for possible answers?
Q. Hey, just so you know I am from Canada and have had a pregnancy test that was negative I've been feeling really sick for the past two and a half weeks. My symptoms are: nauseous but only in the morning however NOW its starting in the evening as w...
A. 30 July 2009: If the blood test did not show any raised HCG, the likelyhood of you being pregnant is really low.
However I still say go see a doctor, if you don't feel right, then something isn't right.
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Do a few beers each night amount to addiction?
Q. Torn between loving my boyfriend of 5 years and worried about his drinking habits becoming more of a problem -he seems to need at least two / three bottles of beer a day after work and if its a night out he has to get full drunk. I just have a few ...
A. 30 July 2009: Some say that 7 drinks ( that would be a glass of wine/beer/shot) a WEEK is fine for a woman and 14 for a man is ok - but anything over is considered alcoholism.
I found this:
How much alcohol is safe?
Government guidelines advise ... (read in full...)
Should I try a new hospital for possible answers?
Q. Hey, just so you know I am from Canada and have had a pregnancy test that was negative I've been feeling really sick for the past two and a half weeks. My symptoms are: nauseous but only in the morning however NOW its starting in the evening as w...
A. 29 July 2009: When you did the pregnancy test was it blood or a pee test? The blood is usually more accurate.
Uncle Phil might be right about the food poisoning, but as I am not a doctor I can only suggest that you go see a REAL doctor.... (read in full...)
Does less foreplay equal better orgasms?
Q. My wife and I a wonderful relationship. She normally reached orgasm very quickly. She says that if we have too much foreplay, she loses the ability to have an orgasm or her orgasm is not very intense even with a vibrator. Is this common? I always ...
A. 29 July 2009: I think it comes down to the individual women. For some the more foreplay, the bigger chance of a multiple orgasm.
If it works better for YOUR wife with less, then by all means do less. :)... (read in full...)
Does anyone know why I bled so heavily?
Q. Ive been on the pill of the Microgyn 30 (not sure how you spell it) for 2 packets now. However on both withdrawal bleeds on the placebo break, my 'period' has stopped and then came back after a day. Last night, i was ill and whilst being sick i came ...
A. 29 July 2009: I can be that your body can not ( or have not) adjusted to the level of estrogen in the pill. I am glad you are going to see a doctor. Did you however ASK the nurse at the doctors office if you needed to discontinue the pill for now? Heavy bleeding ... (read in full...)
He left his ex and started dating me, then he left me to go back to his ex, now he wants me back - should I take him back?
Q. I am an avid reader of DearCupid, and for once, I actually have a question to pose. Ten months ago a person who was in my graduating class in High school contacted me. He had been a quiet boy that was the definition of an outsider. I have...
A. 28 July 2009: Unless you want to do this yo-yo dating.. On and off again.. Over and over then please take him back..
If you want a stable loving relationship then, no. Find someone else who isn't involved.
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I use the term 'make love' and he uses 'f*ck'! What are your views on this?
Q. In need of some answers/advice my boyfriend and i have been together for more than two years . His made a few kinky suggestions b4 and we tried anal but never got any where as it really hurt and he promised not again will we try. Well just yester...
A. 28 July 2009: It's really simple.. Most guys F*ck and most women "make love".
Some guys ( and gals) just want the physical connection of sex others ( more often women) wants an emotional connection AS well..
If you don't like to talk dirty or play his game... (read in full...)
Is the guy I met on holiday playing games with me??
Q. met a guy on holiday, we got on brill. he did show signs of being insecure and a bit jealous. and i think he liked me to chase after him. since i got home i txt him the other week and he did not reply to me although my text did not require a ...
A. 28 July 2009: I totally agree with Emily.
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I get wet before having sex, is there something wrong with me?
Q. im in a sexual relationship and my fella always comments on how wet i am down below before we have sex. he always mentions it and has also mentioned that he has had to use lube with some of his exes and never with me so im starting to wonder if ...
A. 28 July 2009: being wet = female arousal
It's a good thing! ... (read in full...)
Why is he still in contact with his ex when she clearly is after him!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for a year. His ex won't stop texting him. They had an on /off relationship for 2 years where she cheated on him a lot and eventually got pregnant by somebody else. They split up nearly 8 months before we met. ...
A. 28 July 2009: I think the fact that he deletes his own replies is the bigger red flag. I don't think he is totally over her. Most people who have been cheated on DUMPS they partner and CUT contact.
I don't believe in telling a partner/spouse whom they can talk... (read in full...)
I've lied about trivial things, but he broke it off anyway. Will he ever take me back?
Q. I've been dating this taurus for a year now and unfortunately I've lied to him about trivial things about myself simply because I have low self confidence and I felt that I needed to zest myself up a bit to make me look interesting to him (I'm...
A. 28 July 2009: Maybe it was just an excuse to break it off? Maybe he can't really handle the long distance thing.
You need to realize that lying is a dumb thing. It will get you caught sooner or later. He might not be able to trust you enough to want to date you... (read in full...)
I'm being pursued by a married man! Not interested! Is it time for me to find another job?
Q. I work with a married man..nice guy but married so I am not interested. The problem is that he is interested in me...I think. He will talk about his wife all day long and then email me in the evening saying he is looking forward to seeing me the ...
A. 28 July 2009: Ignore his e-mails ( just delete them) and try not to engage in to much chit chat around work.
I can't see why YOU need to try and find a new job, but if you do find one I would take it.. I just wouldn't be unemployed because he is being an oddba... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to handle myself and my neighbor?
Q. When I moved into my neighborhood, the first woman I met was very friendly and she and her husband were out immediate next-door-neighbors. We became very cordial, and exchanged cards, did samll favors for each other, such as taking in parcels and ...
A. 23 July 2009: Her problem might be some serious esteem issues, specially if her hubby cheated on her. She wants attention, confirmation that she still "got it" and all this from a male.. Right now that is your husband she thinks can help her with that. ... (read in full...)
19 and looking to get my tubes tied
Q. I am currently 19 and looking into getting my tubes tied. I know that this is a risky operation and I can blow my chances of ever having children but I am strongly curious about this option. Does anyone know what the chances are of pregnancy after a ...
A. 23 July 2009: I think a tubal is the worst idea for birth control. Talk to your doctor. At 19 I think it is a really bad idea. I can understand the wish for not having unplanned children, but there are other ways to prevent pregnancy. TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR. ... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to handle myself and my neighbor?
Q. When I moved into my neighborhood, the first woman I met was very friendly and she and her husband were out immediate next-door-neighbors. We became very cordial, and exchanged cards, did samll favors for each other, such as taking in parcels and ...
A. 23 July 2009: Be glad you have a good husband. Maybe he can tell her to get lost in a nice way and she might actually understand it.
As for her to want your husband (instead of you) for the golf tournament, well, maybe she thinks bringing a woman would make her... (read in full...)
I found out I'm pregnant and he says he can't even be a friend to me right now!
Q. I'm really at a stand still at this point in my life and I just need some advice.I started seeing a guy about a year ago, this is the first man i've been with in eight years.We are not in a relationship but we do or I should say did things as if we ...
A. 23 July 2009: Well, I think you need to focus on you and the baby. He has already told you that he doesn't want part of it. He will still have to pay child support. Other then that, as much as it sucks you CAN'T make him a Daddy. Any Tom' Dick or Harry can Father ... (read in full...)
I need a man I can call my own!
Q. hi i am with a married man but the thing is that he an his wife lives 1000 miles apart 4 the summer an christmas they hook up an i am left on the back burner till i see himm again i do love him an i no he loves me but i cannot handle being the ...
A. 23 July 2009: I agree - if you don't want to be the "other woman" then don't - it isn't really that hard. Let him go, he obviously is having his cake ( wife) and eating it too (you), as long as you LET him.
Move on. Learn from this experience. Married men are ... (read in full...)
After 11 years he left me for another woman but I don't think he knows what he wants!
Q. my boyfriend left me just before christmas after 11 years he moved straight in with her after only knowing her for 3 weeks and this is true as she told my ex sister in law that they been together for that period so i know its true. she has a 8 year ...
A. 23 July 2009: Don't worry about what HE wants... He is history. (so to speak) He keeps texting you because he likes to have you as back up, just in case his relationship with her doesn't work.
Don't accept that you are the "second" prize. Ignore or block hi... (read in full...)
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