My pregnant partner and I keep rowing. Could it be down to her hormones?
Q. Good morning, Me and my partner are expecting a baby in 7 months time. We are going through a rocky patch at the moment, maybe its her hormones I'm not sure. We nearly broke up last night because things are getting in our way. She thinks e...
A. 8 September 2009: It is not just hormones. I think she expects you to grow up. Playing Xbox while on the phone with her might mean nothing to you but we all know how distracting it can be to play a game and try and have a conversation.
You two need to sit down and... (read in full...)
So my FWB wants me to get pregnant. I'm not interested in having kids. What is going on here?
Q. I've been in a friend with benefits "situation" with a guy for 2 years now, and so far everything has been good. Last month he said he wanted me to stop taking my birth control so I can get pregnant. I don't know what 2 think. Is he seriously ...
A. 2 September 2009: That is just odd. To be really frank, I suggest you dump him and find another FWB ( if you don't want a relationship), I think he is one of those guys who thinks the more women he knocks up the more of a man he is.
Seriously, I would cut ties.... (read in full...)
Will a 20 year old get in trouble for dating a 14 year old girl?
Q. What trouble could a 20yr old male get in for dating a 14yr old girl even if both familys are happy with this and give them there full support?...
A. 2 September 2009: I believe the legal consensual age in most of Europe is 15 so the answer is YES.
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I got an abortion, and my ex skipped town with a girl
Q. I've been on and off with my boyfriend for about a year. He has been back and forth between me and this girl. This is why we are always on and off. Finally, I thought it was all over and done with. He was commited to me and I didn't think I had to ...
A. 1 September 2009: You picked a guy who can not commit, then you thought you could "snag" him and "make" him stay because you got pregnant. It rarely works in reality.
Learn from this mess. Next time do not play the on again off again with a guy, either it's on ... (read in full...)
He punched and body slammed me several times... but he was drunk!
Q. My husband of two years seem so perfect for me until we moved together in 2005 he choked, body slammed and punched me several times but only when he was drunk. I saw the signs but still married him in 2007 because he said he would stop drinking. ...
A. 1 September 2009: Is he manic depressive?
And sorry honey, but you lying for him and bailing him out of jail is not loving him, it is enabling him to continue to beat you up when drunk.
WHAT will your kids do if you get killed in one of his drunken stupors?... (read in full...)
Sex positions for females?
Q. Can you briefly mention sex positions that can make sex less painful for females. Thanks!...
A. 1 September 2009: Spooning works too. Male behind the female on their sides.
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Problems with oily hair.
Q. I have shoulder length oily hair and it irritates me to the core. After 2 days of shampoo only my hair gets oily. Please advise. ...
A. 1 September 2009: It is most likely hormones. Wash you hair every other day, switch shampoo every two weeks ( just need two kind of shampoo - just different brands). You don't really need expensive shampoo either.
If you use conditioner DO NOT put that on you scal... (read in full...)
New relationship, what should our conversations be based upon?
Q. To begin with.let me say i'm a guy who just got into a new relationship.i need advice on how to begin,i.e d type of conversation we should start having.cos any time we talk,she always wants to hear more from me.so i just nid to know what our ...
A. 1 September 2009: Best way is to have her talk about herself first, LISTEN to her. If she is really interested, she will fire of some questions of her own.
Talk about yourself, school, hobbies, favorite movies, books, places.....
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I don't want a thrillsome threesome with my friend!
Q. Me and my bf has been talking about haveing a three some...and i was okk with it so i also have a gf I'm biisexual and my gf was my bestfriend 1st soo now my bf is talking about haveing a three some with her i don't feel rite with him haveing sex ...
A. 1 September 2009: I think till you are emotionally able to understand the the emotional ramifications of a 3-some you shouldn't consider having one.... (read in full...)
Why the hell would my boyfriends dad send me 7 friend requests on Facebook?!!
Q. I'm 24, been living with my boyfriend for 5 months now, been together for 5 years. I was checking my Facebook profile the other day when I was surprised to get 7 friend requests from my boyfriend's dad! Why would anyone need 7 Facebook acc...
A. 1 September 2009: Very odd. First of, he is your boyfriends dad not a friend, you don't have to add him at all. Personally I wouldn't. Not a single of the 7 accounts.
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Embarrassed that I have to be tested for an STD again!
Q. I need to go for an STI check-up as I stupidly participated in drunken fore play with someone who I don't know that well. I have been disagnosed with an STI before (my ex-boyfriend cheated on me) and I'm just worried about the reaction of the people ...
A. 1 September 2009: Better safe then sorry. Maybe you learned something from this.
Remember this next time you get naked :) And remember you are not the only person out there with a STD/STI so the sooner you get checked ( and cured) the sooner there will be one less... (read in full...)
How do I punish my son for what he did?
Q. Our 3 year old is very intelligent. He can write his name, sing the alphabet and ride a bike without training wheels. He is an excellent talker and even uses big words to describe things in detail. HOWEVER, he is mean to our dog. I keep ...
A. 1 September 2009: OMG that must be horrific. I have 3 children and I "trained" them ALL at an early age, how to interact and respect animals, specially our pets ( we have 2 cats). We also walk a neighbors dog ( owner has a broken foot) and they are doing great. ... (read in full...)
My cousin's husband is "flirting' with me! What should I do?
Q. Okay! Im 14 years old. My cousin is 21 and married to this guy who is 23. They have a 4 month old baby together. I went to there house for a week to hang out and babysit. It was a blast. i drove around with her husband all the time he is still like ...
A. 1 September 2009: Honey, YOU did nothing wrong. In the future don't send guys photos unless YOU want to send that person some, ok? Never let people like that tell you what to do.
You wouldn't be the reason for their divorce. That is all on him. HE is the one beha... (read in full...)
After a threesome, my gf is pregnant. What do we do now?
Q. My girlfriend and I are both 25. Normally she has a very regualar menstrual cycle, the pill make her sick so we avoid sex on the days she ovulates. Her last period was period was July 1, which means she should have ovualted from June 12-15, we had ...
A. 1 September 2009: I'm sorry but you both are stupid and careless. You are BOTH old enough to have heard about condoms, birth control pill is not the only available contraception out there.
Who knows which of the guys is the father.
And actually sperm can live l... (read in full...)
Is he trying to make me feel guilty for turning down sex? His use of words were inappropriate and put me off!
Q. Ok, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out on Saturday and I wanted us to sit down and have a grown-up conversation. I have to admit (I'm a chatterbox). Anyways, it was good because we brought a lot of things out in the open. In between that we were ...
A. 31 August 2009: Maybe you should tell him: "If you ever want to talk about things I want to talk about, come on over..." I think he felt it as a rejection, no one likes to get turned down when they are trying to "sex" up a situation. Maybe he felt you two ha... (read in full...)
I want to go out with him, but I feel that the age difference is holding me back! What do you think?
Q. Ok so Ive met this one guy online a few months. We live close and I actually found that we go to the same college. Well we met one day and hit it off. He is a sweetheart and I really like him. I think he has serious boyfriend potential. He is pretty ...
A. 31 August 2009: Go out a few times see how you feel. Take it slow, take it easy. When you say you "think" he is way to young for you do you mean his maturity or the number on his drivers license? I think 22 and 20 (19) is fine. I dated a guy who was 10 y... (read in full...)
Went snooping through all of his things and found stuff from his past - do I have a right to be upset?
Q. I need to know if this is a *me* problem that I should work on personally, or if I need to talk to my boyfriend about it too. I'll apologize for this being so long now. I just have a lot to say about the issue at hand. This morning, I have no i...
A. 31 August 2009: I think snooping is bad. ( I know we ALL get tempted, but it shows a huge lack of trust, if he hasn't given any reason for you not to trust him, you need to have respect for him AND his privacy.) I think your background is a big issue for you. T... (read in full...)
I sometimes give him head - will it affect our friendship?
Q. Ok so ill give a lil bit of our history to this day so you can see whats going on.... We met in high school year 9.. and i had a lil bit of a crush on him when we became friends.. used to talk all the time.. He left at the end of year 10 and had a ...
A. 31 August 2009: Stop getting drunk around him, if that is the excuse you two use when you end up having sex. Giving him head will not convince him to go from friends to BF/GF...
Right now you are more like friends with Benefits then anything else.
If you ... (read in full...)
It appears he ended things because I didn't gel with his friends?
Q. hi all , sorry this is long Im really struggling just now with the end of a relationship of 5 years .my ex is a widower , of whom i knew his wife , and we got together 6 months after his wife had died (she comiited suicide ), when which he asked m...
A. 31 August 2009: I think you need to let him go. You did what you did in your marriage/divorce, but from now on you need to understand that every action has a reaction.
That everything you DO in a relationship affect the partner. Everything your partner does aff... (read in full...)
B/f constantly accuses me of cheating but I'm not!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 months now and we jus recently broke up and got back together bc he thought I was cheating on him and I've gave him my email address and password give him my phone everything jus to prove to him ...
A. 31 August 2009: I think your BF have some serious control issues and trust issues, that really doesn't bode well for relationships..
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Do you think he only wants me around for sex, without a comitment?
Q. I have an unusual relationship with this guy, which is why I need help with it. Normally my relationships follow the same pattern - Guy likes me, I want to get to know more about guy, we get to know each other for about 6 months, he asks me to be ...
A. 31 August 2009: Maybe the two of you are each others rebound. Maybe it is more, always hard to tell.
Talk to him. Don't guess, don't over analyze. And last but not least, don't forget that men aren't mind readers.
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Did he tell me those things because he was drunk, or did he really mean it?
Q. Please help me out here, as I'm not sure what to think. It's a little long but please bear with me, any advice helps. On Friday night at around 12:30 I recieved a phone call from this guy that I used to see/talk to pretty regularly from O...
A. 31 August 2009: Friends with benefits? Is that what he wants? I don't know. Like Uncle Phil said, he didn't have the courage to tell you how he felt unless he was wasted.
He likes to have sex with you, but he isn't in love with you nor does he want to date you... (read in full...)
Where do I fit in with him?
Q. I dont get it.... There's this guy who asked me out and asked was I single etc... I said I was and he met up with me. I knew him just from being in a club I'm a member of. He obviously took a shine to me. He then tells me he has a gf away he had i...
A. 31 August 2009: Maybe he wants you to be his FWB ( Friend with benefits) - which means someone to hang out with and have sex with when he can't see his GF.
Honestly I would back away til he has figure out what he wants. ( Or til you find a single guy who knows ho... (read in full...)
I took a pregnancy test and it was negative, but I've missed two periods! Could I still be pregnant?
Q. hello im 20 and in a bit of a pickle i could be a mum to be im showing signs or pregnancy im feeling sick in the morning and sometimes in the afternoon, gone off certain foods, and one minute im ok then the nxt im moody and in tears for nothing at ...
A. 27 August 2009: The signs could be real could be out of worry. I would suggest you get a blood test/urine test done at your doctors office to confirm or deny it. Home pregnancy test can give of fast negatives and false positives. You could have taken the test work, ... (read in full...)
What is the exact trigger point for an affair in the work place?
Q. Hello there! Just conducting a quick poll amongst those naughty rascals out there who have indulged in an office romance. Not the usual romance. I'm talking the one where both parties are married. For those of you who have experienced this, what ...
A. 27 August 2009: I don't believe in cheating, nor do I believe in "crapping" where I eat.( Meaning I have never dated a co-worker) I don't go get a job so I can extend my "dating" pool... I do, however make friends, male and females with my co-workers. Guess I'm... (read in full...)
My fiance said he would leave me if I got pregnant and now I am - how do I tell him?
Q. Me and my fiance have been together for awhile we just recently got engaged a few months ago. We have talked about our future a lot. I have 3 kids and he has accepted them. He loves them very much and they love him. We have talked about having k...
A. 27 August 2009: I'm sorry he sounds utterly immature.
He rather die then take are of a fourth child? That doesn't sound very smart nor mature.
You will have to tell him, no matter what. If he sticks around then maybe he isn't half bad if he doesn't? Well, t... (read in full...)
My new partner can't understand why I let my ex see our daughter when he gives me no support
Q. I'm in need of advice. I've been separated from my ex 3years now and I have a daughter by him. Now I am in a relationship with a man who can't understand why I let my daughters father see her when he gives me no money. He does not want me talking to ...
A. 27 August 2009: I agree with both Quiet and Old Guy.
Whatever agreement you made with your ex about the child you two have together is between YOU & YOUR ex. None of your BF's business.
As far as being friends or friendly with an ex, well, I believe that it ... (read in full...)
I have been fooling around with a guy and now I cant seem to get an erection when I'm with a girl!
Q. Im a 23 year old guy, and i have a couple of problems that i think are interlinked. I lost my virginity pretty late, i was 18, with my girlfriend at the time. We had sex a few times and then broke up after a month or two. After that i started ...
A. 27 August 2009: Don't you know that certain drugs can really do damage in the erection department?
You might be at a stage in your life where you are doubting your sexual orientation. That is pretty normal. I know LOTS of guys who had "semi-gay" experien... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my boyfriend or leave him but run the risk of being alone forever?
Q. Hi im 22 and im so confused....I dont know if i should leave my partner or stay...im a single mom off a gorgeous little boy...my partner used to be such a nice guy...now his dad has terminal cancer hes changed so much...a few hours ago i refused to ...
A. 27 August 2009: First off you are 22! You will NOT be alone forever if you dump this guy. He might be feeling powerless over his Dad's disease, but that is NO excuse to abuse you. And even more so NOT in front of your child.
You need to cut him out of your lif... (read in full...)
Can you stop taking the pill, then start again when you know when you are next having sex?
Q. Hello, I have a very simple question. I am on the Pill (Yaz) and have been for the last 4 months. I will only be seeing my boyfriend in 4 months (december) and was wondering if I could like , pause on the pill and then start re taking it again....
A. 27 August 2009: I would not suggest it at all. The pill makes a cycle if you start messing with that you might end up with quite a mess.
If you really want to know then I really suggest you call your doctor. ( or A doctor) Maybe you can ask on WebMD.
If you ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend that I want to be with a female without him wanting to join in?
Q. i am a bisexual female and i do have bouyfriend. now the thing is lately i've been feeling like i want to be with a female. how do i tell this to my boyfriend without him wanting to join or something stupid like that?...
A. 27 August 2009: So basically you want to cheat with his blessing ? Or an "open" relationship.
As I see it you need to figure out if you want HIM or you want to be single and screw around.
It's actually pretty simple.
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Is the feeling of being ignored common in threesomes?
Q. Recently my wife and I carried out a threesome with my best friend that she had been fantisising about for some time now.She had this night all planned out with a dinner and drinks to follow.She was dressed in a transparent white spandex dress that ...
A. 27 August 2009: I guess your 3-some was actually a glorified "cheating" on your wife's side.
I think you need to talk to her. I can not imagine she would have enjoyed it any more then you if there had been 2 women - and the other woman seemed to satisfy you more... (read in full...)
We hardly ever have sex anymore! Is my vagina too big, or is his penis too small?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year. When we first started dating, we were very sexually active. However, we aren’t anymore, well we have sex but its barely ever and I have make him want to and when we are laying in bed and i ...
A. 26 August 2009: I doubt it has anything to do with the size of any of your bodyparts, but with the lack of communication.
You two need to talk. Together. Tell him how you feel. Be open and honest, but don't "blame" him for the lack of intimacy, yo uwill get no w... (read in full...)
What's going on? Isn't he man enough to tell me it's over instead of messing me around?
Q. Hey people. Please advice a sister. I had an argument with my boyfriend of long distance. Weve been dating for 3years but we barely see each other. I came back home and his best pal told me the guy has another girlfriend which he denies. I tried not ...
A. 26 August 2009: You know, you don't have to sit around and wait for him to dump you?
If it seems like he isn't the one for you, dump his sorry behind and don't look back. He seems like he like to play on more then one horse.
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Girls: would you prefer for guys to shave all their pubic hair or trim it?
Q. i'm 14, do you think that i should shave my pubic hair fully of or should i just trim it, this questioni is mainly aimed at the girls reading this...
A. 26 August 2009: I think at 14 you should keep your rug, or you will look, well.. pre-teen?
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How can I change her mind about going to this party?
Q. Hey i have a weird situation this girl i like and she knows i like her invited me to her friends b'day party only thing is it's a sex fest party they only want one guy there and theres like 4 of her friends. Im not really keen on the idea of having ...
A. 26 August 2009: What the heck happened to cake and beer on birthdays?
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My ex terminated our pregnancy
Q. I was with a girl I thought was forever, but we no longer clicked I guess. We were together for a significant amount of time, and we tried to conceive. She calls me three months after we broke up, saying shes pregnant and terminating the ...
A. 26 August 2009: If she needs support be there for her. ... (read in full...)
His wife refused him a divorce now we cant be together!
Q. i have known someone for twelve years only as a customer to him. we have spoken to each other on lots of occasions outside his work place up to recently he asked me to go out with him as he was divorcing his wife he also asked me to wait for him. ...
A. 26 August 2009: I guess that really only leaves you with one choice, respect his words and move on.
Take from this experience and learn from it.
Married men rarely are a good choice for a future partner.
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What should I do if my girlfriend is having phone sex with another guy?
Q. She usually sends erotic messages to him right when he gets out of work. They are co-workers, so she knows his schedule. I found out she was sending him dirty stories about themselves and ones she would make up. How I found out was that she would be ...
A. 25 August 2009: Ask her how she would feel if you did the same thing. If it didn't bother her at all, she just isn't that into you. IF it bothers her she is being unfair.. :)
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Do I have the right to not want my wife to see naked men?
Q. My wife went to school for massage therapy. She was in childcare, but not certified, so not making much money,, and wasn't happy. She's now working in a massage place. Not a seedy place with oriental showers and the such you might think of, ...
A. 25 August 2009: I think it would be UNNATURAL if it didn't upset you at all. If my husband was rubbing/massaging women all day I would have a fit. It's about trust. Do you trust her?
My thoughts, if you have seen one you have seen them all..
Does she othe... (read in full...)
Does this count as rape?
Q. I am a 20 year old male who has been screwing around with my 35 year old married neighbor for 5 years. She is a beautiful woman who has introduced me to many things sexually. She is very kinky and very persuasive. Over the years she has given me ...
A. 25 August 2009: If you did not consent or know about the husband joining in then YEAH rape big time. I would turn then in, that is just sick when is it not consensual.
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