Does this count as rape?
Q. I am a 20 year old male who has been screwing around with my 35 year old married neighbor for 5 years. She is a beautiful woman who has introduced me to many things sexually. She is very kinky and very persuasive. Over the years she has given me ...
A. 25 August 2009: If you did not consent or know about the husband joining in then YEAH rape big time. I would turn then in, that is just sick when is it not consensual.
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Deeply in love with a married man and at an impass
Q. Almost a year ago I met this man. I was married, (unhappily) He was in the same boat. We both have kids as well. We got together. Not only did we become physical but we were actually bestfriends and talk everyday, had drinks and did stuff together. ...
A. 25 August 2009: You need to grow up!
If you want to be with someone else then your husband then you need to END your marriage before you go DEMAND "labels" and such from another guy.
No one in this day and age are together JUST for the kids. Usually there is... (read in full...)
She told me I must get her pregnant in the next few weeks and we've never had sex!
Q. I'm 18, left college, going to university in September, my girlfriend's 17. She's told me I must get her pregnant in the next few weeks. I told her this is just not going to happen, and I said I will leave the relationship if she attempts this. ...
A. 25 August 2009: I think she is a really immature girl. She might be 17 but her behavior seems more like a 12 year old... Pregnancy, childbirth and child rearing IS no FUN game. Besides she will ALWAYS end up spending WAY more money then the State gives her in ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks it was ok for his friends to spike my drink!
Q. My bf's friends spiked my drink with alcohol. This really upset me because I dont drink. He thinks its ok that they spiked my drink. He doesnt understand why its upsetting and completely wrong. Why doesnt he understand? I was sick for the nex...
A. 25 August 2009: I agree with Eyeswideopen..
Time to dump this fella, he does not respect you at all.... (read in full...)
I want my married boyfriend for myself
Q. i lost my virginity to my married boyfriend...as started out, i never had a boyfriend and was never "explored" by any male...with that, he told me that i should regard him as my husband as he's the first to explore me..his wife is not really a good ...
A. 25 August 2009: He is using you, no doubt. Of course his wife is a horrible person... ( NOT) He will not leave her for you, because right now he can have you both.
What you are doing is not right. Even IF his wife truly is horrible, dating and having sex with... (read in full...)
I am 18, she is 13, can we get engaged?
Q. i like a girl in Mansfield but she love me will it be ok to get engaged to her, they are 13 years and i am 18 years old ? ...
A. 25 August 2009: I hope not. That is just wrong. She is a CHILD. Sorry.
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I'm pregnant & he isn't taking it seriously & is even messing about in txt with my mate! Help!
Q. hey i need some advice. iv been with my fiance for a year, im pregnant with his baby and we moved into our own house 3weeks ago my bf has lied to me in the past and iv always been worried hes cheatin on me as he hides his phn and deletes msgs, on...
A. 25 August 2009: Wow, That was HARD to read, is that like net speak or text English?
Anyways, short of the long is you two have trust issues, and are soon to be parents. If you two don;t start working on things NOW, you will both be miserable.
You both need... (read in full...)
How do I go about finding someone that will accompany my sexual fettish for being treated like a baby?
Q. hi i'm not quite sure how to word this so i'll just spit it out. i have been looking for someone to to diaper me and treat me as a baby. but not having any luck. could you please help me? i suffer from acute infantilism disorder because of the ...
A. 25 August 2009: I agree that it does sound like you need therapy more then baby-role playing.
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How do I go about finding someone that will accompany my sexual fettish for being treated like a baby?
Q. hi i'm not quite sure how to word this so i'll just spit it out. i have been looking for someone to to diaper me and treat me as a baby. but not having any luck. could you please help me? i suffer from acute infantilism disorder because of the ...
A. 25 August 2009: I agree that it does sound like you need therapy more then baby-role playing.
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My husband and I always fighting about his adult children, and he also refuses to go to counselling. What should I do?
Q. help! when i married my husband, he had 3 grown children who are now 26, 29 and 30. they have not achieved as he would like and hold menial jobs though all are college educated. they don't accept his counsel or advice and often start disastrous ...
A. 24 August 2009: Why don't you get out of the house when his kids are coming over? that way HE can cater to HIS kids.
I see some lines very clearly drawn in the sand between you and yours and him and his. Not too cool when you both call this your family. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to remain just friends after an affair?
Q. My situation is this, I am best friends with a married man and we have crossed the boundary. We both know what we have done is wrong and have committed to each other that we would stop. We would like to remain best friends without the sex part as we ...
A. 24 August 2009: I agree with Gina, NOTHING good can come of this. Not for you, the guy OR his wife.
Let him go. HIS wife deserves better.
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Tips to break up with my boyfriend please!
Q. Help! ! I need to break up with my boyfriend but I don’t know how; I’m 17 my boyfriend is 18 with a 10months old baby, we’ve been going out for 6months now and at the time when I went out with him I didn’t think about the emotional problems I...
A. 24 August 2009: Be honest with him. Tell him that the relationship is more then you feel you can handle. Rather you do it now then later on.
A lot of people don't realize that when you take on a partner with "that" ( as in kids) kind of baggage it is not always s... (read in full...)
Broken up as he didnt love me, but he still wants to have sex with me
Q. Hi I am gay my boyfriend has just broken up with me 3 weeks ago. He says he wasnt in love with me as he lost the spark for me but said he still found me amazing in bed so the sex has not stopped. We continue to have sex when we meet. I am trying ...
A. 24 August 2009: He is confusing LOVE with LUST.
If you don't want to have sex with a guy who doesn't LOVE you then you need to stop having sex with him. He will NOT start to love you because you put out.... (read in full...)
Me and my husband had a threesome with my friend, he wants to try it again but It's worrying me. What can I do?
Q. Hi, My husbamd and I have been married 6 years we are in our 40's my husband and I have sex and talk naughty about threesomes often it is very hot. about 4 years ago we went to a hotel and I got him a stripper it was hot as hell. there was no invas...
A. 24 August 2009: I suggest that you be honest with your man. IF you don't wish to go further in your exploration of sex or try a tree-some again, be honest. Be prepared to explain WHY you don't want to try again.
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He hides his phone from me and I found condoms in his car when we don't even use them! Do you think he's cheating?
Q. Is he cheating when i find condoms in the car and i know that we dont use them. but he say that they been in there. unused but its the fact that he has condoms in the car.... also is he hinding something from me when he wont let me see his phone ...
A. 24 August 2009: I don't think it is your "right" as a GF to check his phone or his car. But.. maybe if he has nothing to hide he would let you have at the phone.
Condoms in the car? Odd. How long have you been dating? Any expiration date on condoms? There ca... (read in full...)
We're getting divorced...so why is she flaunting our wedding pictures on Myspace? Is there more to this?
Q. I'm going through a divorce right now and I'm just confused by what my ex does. It was her decision for the divorce and all that, which leaves me more stunned by her Time and time again she makes her default picture on her myspace,facebook...
A. 24 August 2009: Because she looked absolute gorgeous at her wedding? Felt adored, special, loved, wanted.. I think she is trying to recapture those feelings.
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Why does a wife need to know every detail of her husband's affair?
Q. Why does the wife need to hear every detail of the affair to be able to move on. Husband has said, yes he had an affair and it's over now, why isn't that enough for the wife. Your opinion please....
A. 24 August 2009: I think it is because we women ANALYZE everything to death, so we Want ( not need) all the info we can get. It is a way for us to KNOW that our spouse is not only understanding our pain, but helping us deal with it.
I think most women can not "jus... (read in full...)
Had a holiday romance, the guy doesn't seem interested now we're back home, and I can't get over it! What should I do?
Q. Hello all. I am still upset, and grieving after a one week holiday romance that happened 6 weeks ago now. I don;t know what 's the matter with me, but I run it over and over in my head, and miss him so badly, night and day. I tried contacti...
A. 24 August 2009: I'm guessing he isn't single, but behaved as such on the vacation. ( is he married by chance?)
I think (as much as it sucks) that you need to think of it as a one week fling nothing more.
No matter how long you wait he will not want to pick... (read in full...)
He likes shemales porn!?!?!? Can I still marry him??
Q. My boyfriend of nearly a decade recently asked me to marry him and I accepted. Just about a month later I now find that he's been watching shemale porn on the internet! He was certainly enjoying it too! When I confronted him he tried to deny it ...
A. 24 August 2009: I think any guy with a curiosity and an open mind find Shemales very attractive. They are basically "chicks with dicks", so if they have fantasies about anal penetration it would feel "less" like being gay if the guy looked like a girl.. If that ... (read in full...)
I'm having a hard time being "just friends" with my wife..
Q. My wife and I ran into some serious relationship issues back in March/April of this year. We started counseling in May/June and after 3 sessions (the 3rd one being a private one with my wife) I was told and I quote "to prepare for the end of ...
A. 24 August 2009: Other then her "maybe" depression what else caused these MAJOR problem in your marriage that you needed counseling for in the first place?
I think you leave out the important stuff here.
However, a marriage can not work unless both parties put... (read in full...)
If he calls me, should I go back to him?
Q. Should i go back to the man who just left me if he ever calls me back? I have loved this man for 21 yrs now. By the way we are not married, he is single and so am I. I hope to hear from you soon. This is such a wonderful website - the coolest yet. ...
A. 24 August 2009: I agree with Uncle Phil..
Like WHY did he leave ? How is your relationship in general and so forth...
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My boyfriend has alot of baggage!
Q. Hello people, i need some advice on my situation.i have been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year he's a really nice guy we both have children, i have twins from a previous relationship and he has 5 kids by 4 different women. there's no ...
A. 22 August 2009: I agree DO NOT rush into marriage. Even if he is a good guy. Financially he will be paying out his ass (pardon the language) for 5 kids. THAT is LESS money for you and your ( in case you get any) KIDS.
There might not be any baby mama drama ri... (read in full...)
Just had back surgery but want to have sex & try anal
Q. okay me and my boyfriend want to try anal sex and we will use lube and a condom. he is very trusting and i know he loves me and he said he will take it slow. anyways like a month ago i had back surgery, i had scoliosis and they put rods on my spine ...
A. 22 August 2009: Best way to know is to ask your doctor. I'm sorry if I sound prudish but a 13-15 year old SHOULD NOT have anal sex. No way. Nor regualr sex if you ask me.
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How do I get over this awful feeling of not being the first with her?
Q. My wife of 48 years lost her virginity when she was 14. To this day I cannot get over it even though she told me about it while dating prior to getting married. How do I get over this awful feeling of not being the first with her especially since...
A. 22 August 2009: There are NO take back's on virginity. So why 48 years of marriage later does it still bother you? It makes no sense to me at all. If her virginity meant THAT much you should never have married her in the first place..
Now you look back on those... (read in full...)
My new husband has never introduced me to his parents/siblings/family ...
Q. I recently married my husband in his country of residence, and although we married in the same city as my spouse's parents live in, he did not invite them nor did he ever introduce me to them. He claims it was because he was "on the outs" with them ...
A. 22 August 2009: I think you are doing the right thing. For most cultures FAMILY is a BIG thing.
Good luck on the annulment. ... (read in full...)
What can I do to not get worked up over little things that he does?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months..I love him a lot and he helps me through everything. He treats me well and lets me do everything I want to do. Just he annoys me and since I have really bad aniexty it drives me nuts like ...
A. 21 August 2009: Be patient with him and with yourself. When you start to stress about his actions you set yourself up for an anxiety attack.
I would actually recommend either therapy or yoga - or even better both. Learn to tune things out from time to time.... (read in full...)
He wants to go on a date with my cousin to see which one of us he prefers!
Q. hey guys i need your advice please.... i worked as a customer service and i met this guy wich he gave me his cell number. by all means,i never thought to call him because i wasn't really interested on him or on dating anybody anyway due to ba...
A. 21 August 2009: You saw the red flags but went ahead. Listen to that little voice that tells you something is off...
The guy is a looser.
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Is being fingered considered as losing your virginity?
Q. is being fingered considered losing virgin? please answr me,i really need the answer...
A. 21 August 2009: Couldn't have said it better then what Sincerly Yours wrote
~No.. and please don't lose your virginity unill you have more basic information on the topic. ~... (read in full...)
My new husband has never introduced me to his parents/siblings/family ...
Q. I recently married my husband in his country of residence, and although we married in the same city as my spouse's parents live in, he did not invite them nor did he ever introduce me to them. He claims it was because he was "on the outs" with them ...
A. 21 August 2009: If your gut is telling you something then you need to listen.
I can not begin to guess WHY he has not yet introduced you. It makes no sense to me.
Maybe you should have asked to meet them before you actually got married?... (read in full...)
Did I make a mistake?
Q. I was seeing a guy (not officially) for 4 and a half months. For the past month I'd been arranging everything, initiating most contact, whereas before he did everything. Last friday he told me he wanted to take a step back and he didnt know if ...
A. 21 August 2009: It does sound like you were the rebound girl :( As much as that suck, I think you need to understand that you did the right thing here. You went with your gut and broke it off.
People don't need a break 4 months into a relationship unless they eit... (read in full...)
Guy likes girl, best friend says don't get involved with her! What reasons could there be?
Q. if a guy liked a girl but then his best friend told him that he shouldn't go for her, what reasons could there be behind this if the friend was dating and the girl wasn't that pretty but had a nice personality? ...
A. 21 August 2009: A. He likes her.
B. She has a bad rep.
C. He has dated her.
D - Ask your friend. If he is your best friend he might just have your best interest at heart. I know I could have avoided some heart ache if I had ALWAYS listened to my best friends ... (read in full...)
I no longer trust my friend because of her promiscusous ways
Q. A very good friend of mine is very promiscous. She has a very high sex drive and does it like a guy. A few years ago, we were at a party and a guy who liked me was also there. He liked me and I didn't like him coz of his casanova ways. We all hung ...
A. 20 August 2009: If you don't like her set of morals and think that will make her less of a friend then maybe you should stop hanging out as much with her.
Some people believe that having the same values and morals is vital to a good friendship. Personal... (read in full...)
Is it too soon after getting back together to lose our virginity to each other?
Q. im a virgin(17yr) and so is my bf and The thing here is ive been with my boyfriend for a month.i met him a yr ago on aug.2008 and he asked me to be his gf so i said yes then after 1 mon and a half i broke up with him because of some personal ...
A. 20 August 2009: I think you need to tell him how you feel. That you want to have sex with him, but that you feel you want to have known him longer before that happens.
I knew my first BF for close to 9 months before we had sex, and I have no regrets at all for ... (read in full...)
Why does his family call me his "secret lover"?
Q. i have been dating a boy for 5 months now. his family call me his "secret lover". ( i never met his family in person) what does this exactly mean?...
A. 20 August 2009: Maybe because they have never seen you just heard about you. :) Could be something as simple as that. :)
Maybe he just want to get to know you really well before introducing you. ... (read in full...)
How do you deal with someone who only seems interested when you back off from them?
Q. how do you deal with someone who constantly makes excuses for their behaviour as though they are trying to test just how far they can push you? Example, they didnt email you back for a week as they said they didnt check their emails, or they dont ...
A. 20 August 2009: I think more controlling then insecure. He might claim he didn't read his e-mail, but if he has an ounce of interest in you he will check it more often then that.
Or, maybe he just isn't that into you.
Personally, I would back away, and turn m... (read in full...)
Toxic relationship!
Q. I have an online male friend that tells me he loves me. I love him as well but not quite the way I think he wants me to. Any time I try to put some distance between us he goes of his nut and acuses me of using him and not loving him anymore. I speak ...
A. 20 August 2009: I think his insecurity is due to the distance, and maybe partly because he is a little controlling and "needy".
I doubt your relationship with this man will ever be really healthy.
Have you considered WHY you are dating this man, instead of ... (read in full...)
How can I prepare myself for giving my boyfriend a blowjob?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about three months. We've gotten more physical lately, and he's fingered me before. I'm thinking a blowjob or handjob is in the future, and I've read a million things online, but I'm just not comfortable ...
A. 20 August 2009: Yes it is ok to ask him how he likes it. If you want so ideas I would suggest you read "Tickle his Pickle" by Sadie Allison. It is a nuggest of information and ideas!
http://www.amazon.com/Tickle-His-Pickle-Hands-Pleasing/dp/0970661126
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My wife got a tattoo of my name on her... does this mean she's sorry and her love for me is stronger?
Q. ok, got a question if anyone can help shed some light on it. from my previous posts you can see my wife and l have a very messy separation for some time. since she has been back she has been a lot more loving towards me and that is great, im loving...
A. 20 August 2009: I think it is her way of not only telling you but SHOWING you that she has every intetion to stay with you.
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Did he play me or what? He had g/f he never told me about
Q. I met a guy in a dating site. I am from the Philippines, he is from USA. We have lots of things in common… we agreed to no commitment with anyone, just stay as pals and someday meet in person. He kept telling me that he will not commit, he can’t ...
A. 20 August 2009: Yes, I'm pretty sure he did. A LOT of guys ( and girls) get on online dating sites even if they are in a relationship, and they do pick a "partner" who is physical far away, that way it is usually easy to claim that nothing is going on because she/ ... (read in full...)
Can my virginity affect my growth?
Q. hi, I am 22 and I am a virgin. I am slim, I want to ask can my virginity affect my growth? because people say that if u are a virgin that u will not be fully developed. ...
A. 19 August 2009: No, virginity have NOTHING to do with your growth. AT ALL.
Your growth has to do with your genes, nutrition, general health.
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Why is my boyfriend acting like this?
Q. Is it abuse if your bf tries to force you into sex through making you feel guilty? By saying things like 'if you loved me' or 'if you wanted to see me happy you would do it', 'if you cared about me' etc. Is it abuse if he doesnt respect you when...
A. 19 August 2009: It means he is a controlling sick jerk and you need to drop him fast, he isn't healthy for you to date. He will keep trying and trying til you give in because you think it is easier or even worse you start to believe his crap.
What's next? Or... (read in full...)
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