My ex knows my Facebook password, do you think it's him deleting my male friends???
Q. Hey cupid my ex had the password of my email when we were together he went into my myspace account when we was broken up and I was very upset we still didn't get back together... I just realized that on my facebook that every time I request a guy ...
A. 22 April 2010: He is not with you, yet still wants to control you... Can you SEE the RED flag here?... (read in full...)
My ex knows my Facebook password, do you think it's him deleting my male friends???
Q. Hey cupid my ex had the password of my email when we were together he went into my myspace account when we was broken up and I was very upset we still didn't get back together... I just realized that on my facebook that every time I request a guy ...
A. 22 April 2010: I don't mean to be mean... but DUH! change your passwords and then you can stop worrying about people getting deleted.... (read in full...)
Is it okay to show off my new body?
Q. I am a girl that was 25 pounds overweight. I have been working out and have lost the weight and am in the best shape of my life. Summer is coming and I have purchased some skimpy clothes, such as short shorts, micro miniskirts, tubetops, and some ...
A. 22 April 2010: Why not? You worked hard to shed the pounds you didn't want. However like one of the aunties pointed out, you might get the kind of attention you don't want.. So BARE that in mind :)
Sometimes something as simple as the right fit can make a HUGE d... (read in full...)
He's in no hurry to divorce his wife! what should I do?
Q. I have been dating this guy for two years who is separated. he is so good to me and we have such a great relationship. I could never imagine my life without him in it but my problem is everytime I mention him getting a divorce he gets offensive and ...
A. 19 April 2010: It's his excuse to not having to be fully committed to you. Basically he is having you, his girl friend, but do to whatever reason he "can't" divorce his wife.... Sure he can.. He just won't.
For his all this works. His wife can't be mad at him f... (read in full...)
My fiance wants to adopt my eldest son but biological father needs to sign forms though he's conpletely out the picture...
Q. Heya, Well I'm a busy full time mum of two beautiful, adorable little boys. My eldest is nearly 18 months and my youngest just turned 7 weeks. I'm very happily engaged to my partner whome I met about 16 months ago now. Althought our eldest son isn'...
A. 19 April 2010: Get a lawyer, have him served. Unfortunately you can't "MAKE" him sing it, but.... I would let him understand that if he does, he won't have to worry about child support. Now if he doesn't sign the papers, I would ask for child support.
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If I didn't know she was married at the time I flirted with her and felt her up, could that get her thrown in jail on an account of prostitution?
Q. Last March, a 21-year-old girl I met let me come down to come see her. She was my girlfriend, and this was the first time I was meeting her in person. However, I broke up with her a week after we met because she was teasing me and all of that and it ...
A. 17 April 2010: Did she charge you money for sex?
If so, that is prostitution.
I think you meant adultery (as in cheating) and you unfortunately can not charge a person with amoral conduct.
Dump her and move on... She is obviously a slag/skank.... (read in full...)
Do guys get erections over any girl, ... or just ones they like?
Q. Hey there, Just wondering, when I've kissed boys they've all got erections afterwards. Do guys get erections with any girls or just ones they like???...
A. 17 April 2010: I agree with most of the aunts & uncles, at your age... it really doesn't matter WHAT girl they kiss...
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Boyfriend told me he'd leave if I got pregnant, and I tested positive.
Q. I am 15 and i done a pregnancy test this morning it was positive.My boyfriend said he would leave me if i ever was what should i do?...
A. 17 April 2010: Well, not much YOU can do about him right now, you need to focus on YOU and what you are going to do about the pregnancy. You can not "force" him to be there for you so make sure you really understand that.
Talk to your parents, you are too youn... (read in full...)
Why is NOT wearing a bra so important to my husband?
Q. Whenever I am away from work, and I am talking nights, weekends, and vacations, my husband insists that I don't wear a bra. I thought you had to be 18 and/or flat chested to do that. Being 31 and having a full bosom, I have been worried that my ...
A. 15 April 2010: With as many cool and pretty bra's out there I think you need to let him know how important the support is.
Maybe he is a breast man... ... (read in full...)
Is sex something bonding for women?
Q. Do women become more attached to men they've had sex with? I've had a drawn-out flirtation with a woman. We are never single at the same time. I sometimes wonder if she thinks about me (we were pretty inappropriate for a while at one point when I ...
A. 14 April 2010: In short. YES.
Not that women bond with every single man they have sex with, but most do. It's kinda primal and your Dad is giving you some really good advice there.
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I'm about to run away
Q. [Moderator note: this post has been edited for clarity] my mom promised me a phone for christmas. She said the place was too busy and she said we'd get one 'tomorrow'. That happened again and I still didnt get it. Today she got a phone (for herse...
A. 14 April 2010: Are you kidding?
Wow, Whine much? I know you are 13 but you are acting like a 3 year old.
A 13 year old should not be running around Las Vegas either.
IF YOU seriously want a phone I would start negotiating chores so you can EARN enough m... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for considering abortion over bringing a child in to an unstable environment?
Q. Well, I been dating a guy for about seven months. I notice that he had several woman friends. I have issue with trusting him. I went by his house and notice a car park in his driveway, next to his. I knocked on the door several times he didnt answer ...
A. 14 April 2010: I don't think it matter whether I think it is right or wrong. What does matter is what YOU think.
No matter what you choose I strongly suggest that you seek counseling (call/visit Planned Parenthood for instance). Having an abortion is mentally... (read in full...)
The sex is very bad. I have to keep reassuring him about his penis, he has some annoying habits in bed and he keeps forgetting where my clitoris is! I'm tired of faking it!
Q. When I have sex with my boyfriend he does some really annoying things. He likes to listen to the radio and sing in my ear while he's on top of me. I hate that. I told him that I didn't like that and he got his feelings hurt. So every now and ...
A. 14 April 2010: Stop faking! That is the #1 rule of good sex. IF you fake the guy will ASSume you are enjoying it and the HE is doing all the right things.
#2 rule is to STOP criticizing what he does wrong - SHOW him what you like or want him to do. Get on the c... (read in full...)
I want to be with someone my own age, but can't afford to leave my older boyfriend.
Q. I been dating my boyfriend off and on for ten years now and have been living together for the last six, not only has there been no mention of marriage, he is also very dull and boring, see he is 41 and I'm 28 and he never wants to do anything or go ...
A. 14 April 2010: If you can pay his half as well as your own, you can get a smaller flat/apartment on your own.
Why stay when the love is gone?
Why string him along?
And IF you did sign a lease/mortgage together you need to find out how to get out of it. YO... (read in full...)
Am I a normal size?
Q. I'm going to be 15 in August and I am an adult 34A. I've always been really self conscious about my little breasts, I was flat chested until I was 14. I'm not saying I want double D's, a friend the same age as me has them (not fun) she hates them. ...
A. 12 April 2010: I was a 32A up until I had my first child at 30. It's just two handfuls. I ended up on bed rest with my second child and some 36E and I HAVE to say I missed my A's very much!
Tehre is more to a woman/girl then the size of her chest.
And lik... (read in full...)
Passing gas
Q. is it awkward to fart in front of your boyfriend? Does it turn them off?...
A. 12 April 2010: Everybody farts. THAT is a fact. I would ask him. Personally I can not stand when people fart in front of me.. even when it's my kids or my husband, heck even if it's my cat.... :)
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Should I just isolate myself from women forever?
Q. I unfortunately lost my virginity at the age of 30 to a prostitute, and I have gone through a lot of mixed emotions since. Does this mean I am abnormal? I feel disgusted with myself. Can someone say something to put my mind at ease? I am still 30 ...
A. 12 April 2010: Maybe you felt having sex with a prostitude would "knock" out the virginity issue.
I think you might consider some counseling.
I DON'T think you should give up on women... or on yourself.... (read in full...)
Childhood stalker is claiming I am her daughters father - but I am not!
Q. I think I have an original story. I was 19 and away at college. When I came home for the summer my dad took me over to his friends house. I went to school with his kids. We all took the bus together. I was friends with his son who was one ...
A. 12 April 2010: WOw, what a crazy ass witch! I'm so sorry that you have had to deal with this, that is just ridiculous.
Obviously she knows you aren't the father or she would have tried to claim you for child support.
I would still try and have the DNA tes... (read in full...)
I slept with a guy who then told my friend he was seeing someone else! Why didn't he just tell me?
Q. to be hinest with you and very screwed up at the moment, And also compleatly devistated Ok i really liked this guy(still do) And this is whats making me really upset, ive met him 3 times, speak to him most days on line and sometimes txt an...
A. 12 April 2010: I'm pretty sure he didn't tell you because you might not have slept with him if you knew.
Does it matter if he likes you or not? He obviously just wanted a booty call from you, not a relationship.
Next time..... take the time to get to know t... (read in full...)
My friends aren't loyal
Q. I had this best friend for about the past 8 years. She started being rude and two faced and she started hanging out with the "popular/known" group. Eventually we had lost our closeness and she was ditching me. My friend then developed an attitude ...
A. 10 April 2010: I think it's time for YOU to meet new friends. :) You obviously is a good friend and your "ex" best friend wants you around. Maybe she has realized that the people she keeps ditching your for aren't really good at being friends like you are, but she ... (read in full...)
Should I file divorce? Is enough enough?
Q. Do I leave my husband?? I need help please. I have been married for 17 years and have two beautiful children. However I feel that I need to put an end to a failing or failed marriage. I feel that I am in it just for the sake of the children. S...
A. 10 April 2010: You already know what to do. Start saving up and looking for a place for you and the kids. Also contact a lawyer and get your immigration status/papers in order so you CAN leave his sorry ass.
YOU DO deserve better.
Do it for YOU and your KID... (read in full...)
Why did he forward an email to his son to me?
Q. My married online BF of 4 yrs and I had a big fight and I ended my relationship with him. Worst of all, his son and wife knew about my illicit affair with him, an emotional affair, and for the past 6 months we don't have communication. Yesterday...
A. 10 April 2010: Most likely a mistake. Don't answer it, jsut delete it and move on... And... stay away from married guys.. They aren't worth it.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to google a guy your dating to find out info on him?
Q. Hi everyone. So I posted yesterday about me finding out that the guy I'd been seeing had lied to me about his age. I googled him because I do that with guys I date just as a precaution because I like to know who I'm dating, about a year ago I w...
A. 10 April 2010: I think you did the SMART thing, so don't feel bad. You are RIGHT in your assessment of him. Only a guy with something to hide or someone who lies a lot would get mad. BE glad you checked him out and that he freaked out, now you won't waste any more ... (read in full...)
Was not - Was! Boyfriend lying about virginity!
Q. Well my boyfriend and i have been dating for 6 months and before we dated he told me he wasn't a virgin and that he wished he wasn't because it hurt me when we did start dating. he knew i cried and tried to talk me out of it all of the time but i ...
A. 7 April 2010: Why does it matter so much to you? Either way?
Do you love him for him or for the potential that he may or may not be a virgin? ... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to hate my brother even though I don't remember what he did to me?
Q. Hey well im 15. But when i was 2 from 3 years old my older half brother molested me he was 12 threw 13 at the time i think. I dont remaber it at all. I only know what my mom said. He thought they were next door but my mom wasnt an she cought him in ...
A. 7 April 2010: He is a pediophile.. and unfortunately your brother as well. To be frank I would cut all ties with him. He is NOT a good person to have any kind of relationship with.
*hugs* And I'm sorry someone hurt you. ... (read in full...)
She informed me after the fact that I was her first, now she's avoiding me! I don't know what I did wrong!
Q. I met this girl and i thought she was really nice, we became friends and things moved on from there. After a few months she says she's ready to have sex. After she tells me it was her first time, and i thought it was cool that she chose me. But af...
A. 31 March 2010: If she won't talk to you on the phone or in person I would send her a letter. Maybe that will give you a little sense of "closure" and her a little nudge to talk to you.
Could be she regretted it. Could be someone told her something about you she ... (read in full...)
Why is my son's father refusing to introduce me to his new girlfriend?
Q. my son father and I are not together we haven't been even before my son was born. We have been having "relations" off and but when I found out he have a girlfriend it stop but he still asks . Just recently he has a girlfriend all of a sudden and ...
A. 31 March 2010: If she is in your child's life I think it would be smart to meet her. Obviously he doesn't want you two to met because who knows what's he's been telling her about you and goodness knows what you could tell her about him...
He seems a little p... (read in full...)
How can I convince him to take the next step?
Q. i in iove with a married man and he feels the same but he is afraid to leave his wife. we get on together and share a lot. how can i convince him to take the next step? We are same age, we trust each other too....
A. 31 March 2010: You can't MAKE him leave his wife. Most likely he won't. If what he felt for you were so overwhelmingly right, he would have left her BEFORE starting up a new relationship.
As it stands now, he has his cake and gets to eat it too. Why would he... (read in full...)
I was mortified by his comment! What did he mean?
Q. ive known this guy for 7 months and weve become close friends in that time. i really like him but notice sometimes he says things which dont add up for example he owns 3 houses, has 60 k in savings and want to buy a 350 k house in london. hes ha...
A. 31 March 2010: I think I would step back from this relationship. And stop paying for his coffee you aren't his mum!
As for what he said. Well, maybe he was being honest. Brutally honest, mind you. Don't forget you saw him though things when he was rather p... (read in full...)
My ex getting engaged with her one and a half month new guy?
Q. Hello! I found out that my ex, (we broke up about 3 months ago after a year of beeing together) is getting engaged with her rebound relationship. I could tell even after she broke up with me that she was attracted to me and we kept contact cos ...
A. 31 March 2010: He may be HER rebound buy, but unfortunately it is also HER mistake to make.
All you can do is wish her luck. And move on.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had an affair and now he has a child with her, I want us to work but I am just so hurt!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 yrs and have 2 children together. Last year he was having an affair and the other woman now has his baby. He loves his child and wants to be a part of his life. My problem is I know he and this woman have ...
A. 31 March 2010: Seems like he isn't a keeper honey.
*hugs*
I'm so sorry, not only did he betray the fidelity of your relationship, he betrayed your trust, he betrayed your private innermost thoughts and feelings.
You may not believe this, but you DO... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have sex, I don't...but he keeps threatening me
Q. um my boyfriend keeps talking about sex and that he wants to um "do it" soon but im not ready and i dont want to do it with him but he keeps threatening me and has rased his hand to me. i dont know what else to do!...
A. 29 March 2010: I second the TELL YOUR parents and tell him you are done dating him. And drop all contact with him from now on. DO NOT be alone with him at any time.
He is a LOOSER! And a dangerous one at that.
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My ex is back in my life, and I don't really want her there
Q. Hey guys and gals, Recently my ex-girlfriend contacted me. We haven't spoken in 8 months or so, (she broke up with me). Now she Kind of entered my life again, she had a very nasty time last couple of months. She kind of blamed me for not be...
A. 25 March 2010: There is a reason she is your ex. To be honest I would not open up that can of worms again.
SHE broke up with you, ergo it was HER choice to NOT have you in HER life. Stop taken the blame for something that is so out of your hands.
I would... (read in full...)
I am scraed something is going wrong with my pregnancy
Q. Ok I think im going crazy. Im 15 weeks preg.... and I have pains. And im haveing cramp like pains. Some times if I move 2 quick its a sharp pain. It don't last long less then 3 sec... and also if I sneeze pee comes out. Also sometimes I feel like ...
A. 25 March 2010: It could be so many things. Pleas see your OB/GYN.
I had contractions though out my second pregnancy and was put on bed rest to avoid loosing the baby.
I can't say this strongly enough GO SEE YOUR OB/GYN as soon as possible.... (read in full...)
Is it safe to have another abortion when my last was only in December 09?
Q. I recently went through an abortion in December of last year. The baby was my current boyfriend's. Well, I'm extremely worried that I could be pregnant again. I'm not 100% certian. I'll take a test in about a week. But I'm having similar symptoms as ...
A. 25 March 2010: Get on birth control as soon as you have had the abortion. And also have your BF use condoms. JUST in case.
Your body can take minor damage from abortions ( as in the day you DO want children you might not be able too due to scar tissue and othe... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel pity for your ex if you think they might be getting cheated on?
Q. Is it normal to feel pity for your ex's current situation? I mean, in my case, the guy I used to date "suddenly had a change of appetite" and went for another girl. Or in other words, he dumped me for someone else. Yesterday he wasnt in cam...
A. 25 March 2010: Like Aunty BimBim said:
"You are basically a nice person, who don't like seeing people getting hurt."
Personally I would NOT tell him about his new GF escapades, leave them both out of your life. It will just cause drama, you don't need or want... (read in full...)
I am not interested in maintaining a friendship with my ex
Q. I was with my gf for 7 years and all of a sudden out of no where after this past xmas she turned around and left me saying she didn't feel the same and wasn't happy (mind you no signs of being unhappy) but needed to know if she was going to miss ...
A. 25 March 2010: She wants to share her life with you due to your past, I think for some women it is pretty normal. You Are considered "safe" because she knows you.
I don't know if it is because she wants you back or just back in her life, either way I don't th... (read in full...)
My elderly neighbour had a go at me for dressing too revealing!
Q. my question is regarding wearing saree, i am a housewife. i wear sarees only, recently was hurt when my neighbour, an old lady rebuked me for wearing a saree sexily, whe said that i should not expose hips n navel when i wear saree. i have got used ...
A. 24 March 2010: As long and YOU and your husband don't have a problem, I wouldn't worry.
Who does she think she is? The Fashion Police?
I think Sarees looks gorgeous no matter how you wear them!... (read in full...)
Why do people think there can ever be a 'bright side' to a break up?
Q. Why do people always think "there's a silver lining in every ordeal we come across?" How do you apply this in break-ups? Why do people always say "Look at the bright side of the break-up"? What's the bright side of it?...
A. 24 March 2010: The bright side is that you are no longer in a relationship that didn't really work.
The bright side is HE/SHE wasn't the last of the opposite sex out there.
The bright side is LIFE does go on.
The bright side is maybe the BOTH of you wi... (read in full...)
How short is too short to date?
Q. hi is it true that girls wont even notice a guy shorter than 6" ? i heard that they always say "at least taller than me" but they are actually looking for tall ones right? can girls tell how short is too short to notice? and how short is too ...
A. 24 March 2010: I think if you run into girls who are only concerned about a guys height you are looking at the WRONG girls.
I might have a preference to guys who is taller then myself, but I did date a guy (we dated almost 5 years) who was the same height a... (read in full...)
Fear is getting in the way of satisfying her
Q. One night my girlfriend got really carried away when she was on top and it slipped out. She sat on it and it hurt really bad. I was lucky that she didn't break it. Now when she gets on top I go limp. I get hard again real easy but the only way ...
A. 24 March 2010: First of all OUCH! And glad you are OK.
Second of all, just because the EX could only get her of that way doesn't mean you you can't find other and more creative ways to have her enjoy and orgasm. Don't worry about the ex or her previous sex life... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had an affair and now he has a child with her, I want us to work but I am just so hurt!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 yrs and have 2 children together. Last year he was having an affair and the other woman now has his baby. He loves his child and wants to be a part of his life. My problem is I know he and this woman have ...
A. 22 March 2010: Talk to him. If you have any questions then sit him down and explain to him that you need answers.
You two have a LOT of unfinished business with the whole infidelity YOY TWO need to deal with that before moving on to the now and the future. ... (read in full...)
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