Caught wife in a car going down on another man, what to do?
Q. I was at a party this past weekend with my wife and in the middle of the party I lost my wife. When I tried to find her, she was nowhere to be found. Finally, I went out to chekc our car and she wasn't there. Ont eh way back I noticed a guy ...
A. 10 May 2010: Yuk! Sorry, drunk or not, that is unacceptable behavior for a married person to do. Being drunk is no excuse.
I'm sorry.... (read in full...)
He's sending explicit photos to me and wants the same back!
Q. This guy im talking keeps sending me non stop nude photos of him... they are veery explicit and wants the same from me. He sometimes begs for photos. I never have sent a picture but shouldi be worried? I have a feeling this guy is jut using me for ...
A. 10 May 2010: Sounds creepy to me.
One thing you may never know is just how many people he can send any pictures too. And ... if he is sending explicit photos to you... chances are he is sending them to others girls too.
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My new boyfriend wants to research my past! Does he not trust me?
Q. hello friends.. am very worried, my one month boyfriend and i are very open to each other but the problem with me is he wants to know my friends and classmates.. he also want to know about my past ,he even told me hes going to make a research about ...
A. 10 May 2010: I agree with Laura1318, if you have nothing to hide why worry?
Some people who have been hurt/burned before are more cautious entering a new relationship, maybe taking the time to "investigate" your past will make him feel more "secure". Hard to ... (read in full...)
Why did he cheat on his wife and take our affair to an emotional level?
Q. I'm trying to understand the situation better. I'm married and I cheat for about a year with another man, who was also married (even though I didn't know at the time). I understand my reasons for cheating (abusive relationship), but I don't ...
A. 10 May 2010: I suggest you analyze yourself more then him. His behavior and action are totally outside of anything you can do anything about or even fully understand. Maybe yo need to figure out WHY you had no problem being " the other woman".
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Why did he cheat on his wife and take our affair to an emotional level?
Q. I'm trying to understand the situation better. I'm married and I cheat for about a year with another man, who was also married (even though I didn't know at the time). I understand my reasons for cheating (abusive relationship), but I don't ...
A. 5 May 2010: I'm sorry I can't totally answer you question. Maybe HE ( the married guy) can. I can try though.
Could be that even the near perfect wife of his wasn't spending enough time "stroking" her husband's ego. Maybe some of the passion between them had... (read in full...)
Is he lying about his financial situation?
Q. please can anyone explain this-i feel like im going insane i work with this guy who ive developed feelings for. hes unaware but likes me a lot and we do get on really well. hes had a lot of stuff going on-his marriage ended last year and he hasnt ha...
A. 3 May 2010: He might be lying... but obviously he is still getting you to loan him money, so his "scam" seems to work just fine.
I would honestly back off.... (read in full...)
Since I lost the baby we just exist together, nothing else!
Q. Ok here's my problem: I started dating my at the time boss 2 years ago. I liked him so much I gave my notice and quit just so I didnt feel weird about us working and being together. That was 2 years ago, we now live together and for the most part I ...
A. 3 May 2010: Maybe you are both grieving, but not sharing the grief. I would suggest you find a counselor or third party to help the both of you move past this together.
*Hugs*
I'm sorry for your loss.... (read in full...)
Is she going overboard with the privacy?
Q. Why does my girlfriend countinue to talk shit to me when i get into her personal business when she is on her phone online and she ignores me when i ask her questions bout what she does or who she with?...
A. 3 May 2010: I guess it depends on a lot of things. Your description is painfully vague.
Maybe you sound accusatory or controlling in wanting to know every little detail? Maybe she is hiding something, it really is hard to guess.
I think you two need to ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and like a 14 year old!
Q. I am 18 and I think I am starting to like a guy who is 4 years younger than me. I know it is wrong, but I don't know what to do about it. Please help me...
A. 3 May 2010: You know it's wrong. Don't act on it. If he is still interesting in 3-3 year, then maybe you truly have something. Right now, it's just not right. Legally or morally.
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I blame his alcohol abuse for his actions, should I leave him?
Q. Hi I met this man around 4 years ago, he told me he had had a drink problem but it was behind him now. any way it turns out not to be true he became ill once well he came to stay with me untilhe got better thats about 3 years ago. All in the gard...
A. 3 May 2010: If he is an alcoholic you can not cure him with love. It is something he has to realize, understand and WANT to put behind him.
If he seeks help, maybe you two have a chance, without help.. I don't think you do.... (read in full...)
Still having nightmares because of the abuse
Q. when i was 14 (4 years ago) i was abused, and left alone..i was scared and i didnt know what i had done wrong.. i thought i could trust the boy. but i was wrong and stupid. he was 14 too.. i just didnt think things like that went through boys hea...
A. 3 May 2010: Maybe you need to talk to someone who understands. I suggest you look up some teen hot-lines, they can point to you a professional person in your area, as well and give you some guidance and help.... (read in full...)
What does a wet vagina mean?
Q. when my girlfriend and i have intercourse without a condom(dont worry were adults and shes on the pill, were careful) she gets wet before we have intercourse, she gets wet while we kiss and make out but when i'm in her and penetrate her nice and ...
A. 3 May 2010: You sure you are 30-35 years old?... (read in full...)
Should I bring my ex a souvenir?
Q. Me and my ex are friends. I still have feelings for him, I think he does for me though I can't tell. I'm going on vacation, should I bring him a souvenir? ...
A. 3 May 2010: Why not? ... (read in full...)
Do you think my doctor likes me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been seeing my doctor for 2 years now. Lately he's started calling me sweety or saying i'm a sweetheart when I see him. He's always asking me about my love life lately, he also touches my shoulder when i'm leaving, do you...
A. 3 May 2010: I think your doctor is inappropriate and a touchy feely kind of guy.. Pretty creepy for a family physician..... (read in full...)
Girls and sexual peak
Q. Why can't women reach their sexual heith at 18 like guys instead of 40! I hate it! (Im a virgin.)...
A. 3 May 2010: Just because women peak in their 30's doesn't mean they aren't horny at 18........ just like the guys.
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I miss the man that sexually abused me as a child! I want a friendship with him but can a leopard ever change it spots?
Q. I need some advice, When I was 13 I met a man who was almost 60, and we struck up a bizarre friendship. He understood me and advised me as I was having a lot of personal problems. He took care of me, he gave me lifts places, he listened to me, and i ...
A. 3 May 2010: Should I just ignore the nice things he did and treat him as though he is all bad?
No, you should just IGNORE him. PERIOD. He is not a good person, he is not good for you. I hope you will seek some counseling and learn to respect yourself a L... (read in full...)
My girlfriend got so jealous she threw an iron at my head. Should I dump her?
Q. I have been dating someone for a year now and it has gotten to be very serious. I work the graveyard shift at a resturaunt and a few weeks ago I was very sick and didn't finish my shift. One of the waitresses is a very dear friend of mine liv...
A. 29 April 2010: What will she throw next time you do something she deems stupid?
I say get out now while you are still standing.. and breathing.
I agree with CindyCares when she said: *But I am- well,amazed. Is it just me who thinks it's NEVER OK being physica... (read in full...)
Our daughter went missing whilst oversea's 4 years ago. How do I let go?
Q. Everything I'm about to tell you is true. Four years ago, we had a horrific tragedy occur in the family. We lost our 19 year old daughter to human trafficking. She was a very bright girl; got A's in all her classes and even graduated third ...
A. 29 April 2010: First off, I'm so sorry. I have 3 daughters so my heart is breaking for you.
I don't think you can ever let go, fully. All you can do is keep looking, keep trying and pray that she gets away and comes home.
As for your youngest. Exeter... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I am only dating him because he is a Doctor?
Q. Hi guys , This isn't so much as a problem but I would just like some thoughts. Last month I was on my mates hen weekend and whilst we were in a local pub another group of guys started chatting to us. None of them particulaly good looking. N...
A. 29 April 2010: Hmm, that just seems so shallow, sorry. (no offense)
However, if you think there might be more to it, I would go out on a date and see. Maybe once you spend time the whole "doctor" thing will not be important. He might be a real nice guy (aside f... (read in full...)
I miss the man that sexually abused me as a child! I want a friendship with him but can a leopard ever change it spots?
Q. I need some advice, When I was 13 I met a man who was almost 60, and we struck up a bizarre friendship. He understood me and advised me as I was having a lot of personal problems. He took care of me, he gave me lifts places, he listened to me, and i ...
A. 29 April 2010: He did what many pedophiles do, he "groomed" you, by being nice, being helpful, giving you rides, pretending to be your friend... all so he could eventually molest you.
He is one sick FU..!
What I would advice is that you talk to you school co... (read in full...)
I'm 9 weeks pregnant but have no symptoms! Is my baby ok?
Q. im 9 weeks pregnant. im worried because i haven't had hardly any pregnancy symptoms, i have not had any sickness, at first i had really sore boobs but now they are fine and not sore at all, the only three things i have had is urinating a bit more ...
A. 29 April 2010: Every pregnancy is different. I have had 3. With my oldest I threw up for 9 months... With my middle one I didn't even know I was pregnant til she started to kick me.. With m third I only threw up in the first trimester.
I never had any weird cr... (read in full...)
Does watching gay porn mean I am a lesbian?
Q. hi last night i had a dream i was having lesbian sex with a stunning blonde girl, and lately i have also been masturbating to lesbian porn. im a girl and have a boyfriend who i love been with him for years and im definatly sure of my sexualit...
A. 29 April 2010: No, it doesn't automatically make you a lesbian, what it makes you is curious.
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I love her but she doesn't want me to join the military
Q. I'm sooo confused about this this girl I know doesn't want me to join the marine corps and basicly I love her a lot idk what she thinks of me but everytime I ask her what would she think if I join the military she always said nooooo don't joi...
A. 28 April 2010: I agree with the anonymous poster.
Having been a military wife for almost 12 years, I can tell you it's not a bed of roses. Like so many other things it is what you make it.
However, if the Marines is your dream, I say follow it.
My husban... (read in full...)
Why did wife lie about her past? I have a right to know!
Q. I found out my wife lied to me about how many guys she slept with before me. When the topic first came up when we were dating she told me there was three. I had a very hard time with this because i felt very insecure about myself. At that point i ...
A. 27 April 2010: Unfortunately people lie. Some more then others. Women of a "certain" age lies about their age, weight, cup size, men about their height, penis size and what kind of car they drive. (generalization)
Why did your wife lie? Maybe because she wasn... (read in full...)
Do you think he is playing mind games with me?
Q. i feel so down,in march this year i took my mum out one wednesday afternoon to a place for lunch,unknown to us they had a guy playing a piano.i didnt take much notice to be honest my 80yr old mum enjoyed it! at the end this guy came straight over to ...
A. 27 April 2010: I think he is doing his PR thing. Charming women to get them to buy tickets......
Sorry ... (read in full...)
Does he want me to take my shirt off during sex?
Q. So whenever me and my guy have sex, he never takes my shirt off or tries to get me to take it off. I have had a breast reduction a few years back, and I think he probably knows that I'm a little self conscious because of the scars from the surgery. ...
A. 27 April 2010: If you want it off take it off. Or even easier, ask him.
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I don't want to hurt him, but staying doesn't seem very fair either.
Q. I don't want to hurt him, but staying doesn't seem very fair either. What should I do? Okay, so me and this guy were dating for about seven and a half months before we eventually had some issues and we broke up. Not long after, i started dating t...
A. 27 April 2010: "You are damned if you do and damned if you don't. "
Which means... no matter what you do, you are bound to hurt your current boyfriend. I would just be honest and take it as it comes. You HAVE to own your own actions and your feelings. ... (read in full...)
Please Help Me Get A Divorce
Q. I have been married for 3 years now, and we have a child together. My husband is physically and verbally abusive daily, and the only time we ever talk about anything is when he is yelling about something. It was never like this until our child was ...
A. 27 April 2010: I agree with the aunts and uncles who suggest you take your child and go to a woman's shelter. They can help you with a restraining order and divorce as well.
Get out of there now.... (read in full...)
My bf wants me to change the way I look in exchange for his love!
Q. My bf wants me to change the way I look in exchange for his love... We started with an internet relationship and everything was perfect until we met in person a few months later. He was the perfect fairytale bf. After he saw me our relation...
A. 27 April 2010: Dump him. Wow. I'm glad you lost weight, if that was something YOU wanted to do and maybe needed to do. Do NOT turn yourself inside out & upside down for a man. Certainly not someone who is negotiating love.
You either LOVE someone for who they... (read in full...)
Am I just a game to him?
Q. Help!! This is alittle confussing and may be long..Sorry..I am a married women of about 19 years and have kids. A couple of years ago a old friend of mine came home for and we ran into each other. We exchanged numbers and then things started t...
A. 27 April 2010: It really doesn't matter if he is married or not. YOU are!
If you are so bored in your marriage and some guy from the past can get in your knickers THAT easily... You need to take some time and figure out what to do about your marriage. Work on ... (read in full...)
Should I do as my separated husband wishes?
Q. I been separated for nearly an year.This guy that Ive been seeing decides to call my husband. His intention was to find out what was going on between my husband and I. Well my husband told him that we were gettting back together and that I was ...
A. 27 April 2010: Finalize your divorce. Shouldn't be too hard. After that cut all contact with him. He's a loser. TOTAL loser!
You new guy needs to trust you and quit talking to your ex. Nothing good can come from that.
Who CARES what your soon-to-be ex wa... (read in full...)
She seems far too focused on moving into our own flat, funded entirely by me!
Q. I am getting frustrated with my GF I have been toying with the idea of moving to rent a flat for a while, my gf also wants to move in with me but have little commitment in what she has to pay, this is going to be my home only kind of thing. wha...
A. 27 April 2010: I think you need to move at YOUR pace. When you feel like you are financially able to move out, then do so, when YOU find a place YOU like (and can afford).
IF she wants to move in with you I strongly suggest you two make a budget and stick to... (read in full...)
Why is it taking me so long to orgasm? And how can I make sex go from feeling good to feeling great?
Q. What do you think about when u orgasm? lately its taking longer than usual, the things that turn me on, really arent anymore...i feel like i need to concentrate on an image of something really sexy in order to orgasm along with getting oral done. ...
A. 27 April 2010: 1 word...
FOREPLAY! You might require a longer warm up then you used too. Also trying new positions might be a good idea.
And YES! find your g-spot and teach/show your man to get at it. ... (read in full...)
I'm not in love with her but she doesn't want an abortion.. I don't want to hurt her.
Q. ok here goes. im from scotland and i got my american girlfriend pregnant. at the moment both of us are living and working in south korea ware we met about 7 months ago. our contracts run out in august and she wants me to move to america with her. i...
A. 23 April 2010: The sooner you own up the better.
She deserves the truth.... (read in full...)
Bisexual boyfriend has cheated twice but I can't leave!
Q. So my bi-boyfriend, the man I have loved for the longest time, the man I have sacrificed so much of my time and have given my entire self to, has just revealed to me that he cheated on me twice: once when we just got to gether, and the second with ...
A. 23 April 2010: I'm not sure why you ask for help when you know most people will tell you to drop him, move on.
You need to start thinking about WHAT you want, WHO you want to be and be with. If you can't leave him because of financial/housing issue you NEED to ... (read in full...)
Should I call off my wedding to a man who finds me unattractive?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we're engaged and getting married this summer but lately he's been acting weird towards me he complains about my weight he tells me that I'm not attractive anymore, the sex is awesome, he wants it all ...
A. 23 April 2010: He seems really unsupportive and controlling, I doubt he will "magically" find you attractive once you have a ringer on your finger.
I would not marry someone if I knew they didn't find me attractive, that would seriously give me some self est... (read in full...)
Will I look back and regret sleeping with a 46 year old man?
Q. Hi, thanks for your time, I'm 17 and the guy I'm having casual sex with is man who is 46, with the benifit of hindsight will I look back and think what he is doing is wrong? It's just a pattern I've noticed throught life, as I get older I look bac...
A. 23 April 2010: I think it's a little worrisome that a 46 year old man actually thinks he has a lot in common with a 17 year old.. Other then sex...
Will you one day look back and regret it? I don't know I think that is up to you. I believe in having no regrets.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend told he his fantasies, and asked about mine. But I don't know if I have any! Help!
Q. my boyfriend has a few fantasies and told me them. he asked me if i had any. thing is he is one of my first boyfriends so i don't really know any. what are some of them?...
A. 22 April 2010: Be honest and tell him you aren't sure what your fantasies are when it comes to sex. Don't just make some up to sound cool or whatnot.
They will come as you mature. ... (read in full...)
Is visiting a live porn room with cameras the same as watching porn videos?
Q. How do I interpret the fact that my boyfriend of over 10 years visits live porn rooms? I found out about the online porn videos and live rooms 5 o 6 years into our relationship and found it in my heart to get past it after he agreed not to visit ...
A. 22 April 2010: PORN is PORN is PORN.. ... (read in full...)
Why does everybody think it's bad when girl cheats but cool when a man cheats?
Q. I would like to know why when a gurl cheat everybody think it's bad but when a man did the samething they think it's cool I would like to know why? Please...
A. 22 April 2010: IT isn't cool no matter what you gender is. However, it has been the "norm" that it was OK for men to cheat for centuries, changing that attitude will not be done over night.
It is comparable to the "myth" that a MAN with many sexual partners... (read in full...)
My ex knows my Facebook password, do you think it's him deleting my male friends???
Q. Hey cupid my ex had the password of my email when we were together he went into my myspace account when we was broken up and I was very upset we still didn't get back together... I just realized that on my facebook that every time I request a guy ...
A. 22 April 2010: He is not with you, yet still wants to control you... Can you SEE the RED flag here?... (read in full...)
My ex knows my Facebook password, do you think it's him deleting my male friends???
Q. Hey cupid my ex had the password of my email when we were together he went into my myspace account when we was broken up and I was very upset we still didn't get back together... I just realized that on my facebook that every time I request a guy ...
A. 22 April 2010: I don't mean to be mean... but DUH! change your passwords and then you can stop worrying about people getting deleted.... (read in full...)
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