Should I tell him about my STD?
Q. Soo I have this nasty ass ex boyfriend i've dated for 3 years and we had sex maybe a month ago. I heard he was sleeping around and sure enough he gave me clamidia. I took the z pack a week an half ago. Now i have a boyfriend and i don't know ...
A. 13 July 2010: Try find a free clinic and get retested.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is looking at videos of him and his ex having sex
Q. If my boyfriend is looking at videos of him and his ex having sex should I confront him or leave? ...
A. 12 July 2010: Wow, I would be out the door i 3 seconds flat. I think that is utterly disrespectful to you and your relationship.
Leave him and his homemade porn and his right hand, who knows, he might even notice you left.
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Anyone ever had small pains in their ovaries when they weren't ovulating and found they were pregnant?
Q. im on the 2nd day of my missed period and have these little sharp pains that come and go and last about 2 seconds or so each time in what feels like my left ovary. I took 4 hpt's, 2 I took last week and 1 on jan 1st and the last one yesterday and ...
A. 12 July 2010: It could also be Endo
http://www.womenshealth.gov/faq/endometriosis.cfm#a
I still say have an GYN do an ultra sound and check for abnormalities. It can be benign, but very painful.... (read in full...)
Is it better to be wanted or needed?
Q. Here's a bit of a hypothetical question which has been bugging me... In a relationship do you think its better to be wanted or needed? Why? ...
A. 11 July 2010: I guess it depends won WHO is wanting/needed you.
Partner = wanting
Kids/family = needing.... (read in full...)
Woman of my dreams left me for her abusive ex. What do I do?
Q. Sorry in advance this is going to be a long one! I met a woman at work about a year ago and we clicked. Problem was that she was with someone else, but the relationship was rocky. As time went on we got closer and closer, even though I'd been ...
A. 11 July 2010: She seems all over the place, not knowing what she really wants.
As much as you want to be that Knight on the White horse, ultimately SHE makes the choices in HER life.
If I was you, I would let her go and move on. It's really hard watching so... (read in full...)
Husband in Love with me and his old girlfriend, help
Q. My husband and I have been married 4 years separate for 3 years on and off. After all this time we have finally decided to give it a try again living under the same roof he moved back in to the home. I had kicked him out 3 years ago because he was ...
A. 11 July 2010: I think you need to sit him down and tell him he needs to make a choice. Unless, ofcourse you are willing to share his affections with another women.
Personally, I would move out. IF he then realize that it's "me" he wants he will drop the othe... (read in full...)
The man I am dating talks to his daughter about our personal issues and I've never even met her yet!
Q. I have been dating a man who is 50..I am 44..We both have children..He has a 23 year old married daughter whom he is very close with..I have not met her but have been looking forward to it..He and I are just getting to know more about each other..We ...
A. 11 July 2010: Hi.
I think it's a great thing that he has a female whom he can ask questions, advice, talk to about his relationship. Him getting a female perspective is helpful, even if it's from his daughter. (rather her then, let's say, his ex wife?)
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Boyfriend doesn't want me to wear makeup!
Q. hey, im having a bit of a hard time with my boyfriend atm he doesn't want me to wear makeup , get my eyebrows done or anything its killing me i cant keep him telling me what to do . I dont wanna give up makeup or stop getting my eye brows done but ...
A. 11 July 2010: Seems a tad controlling to me. Next you can't wear the color blue, or drink anything red, then you can't talk to so and so.. you heals can only be 1 inch...
Seems like micro management.
I would explain (without fuss or tears) that having your... (read in full...)
He went on a vacation, cheated, then left me! Now I am an emotional mess with low esteem!
Q. So me and my now ex boyfriend dated for seven months. I was totally in love with him, and he told me that he loved me too. Five months into the relationship, he went on vacation, and when he came back, he was different. He wouldn't text me, or hang ...
A. 11 July 2010: It's not you that aren't "good enough" - it's HIM that is lacking. He is lacking commitment, morals and values, which I might add, is sadly normal for someone in your age group.
Take this as a lesson. If a guys start to ignore you and generall... (read in full...)
Men, how do I get a guy to ask me out on Facebook, with subtlety??
Q. question for the guys - how do I get a guy I've known since I was little to ask me out on facebook, without being so obvious?...
A. 11 July 2010: Well you can either SIT on your HANDS and WAIT for him to ask you out, which.. might never happen...
OR you can take a little CHARGE of your own life & destiny and ask him out..
Just because other people in my "neck of the woods" likes to ... (read in full...)
He doesn't like my son, treats him awful, is he resentful because he is not his father??
Q. why does he dislike my son? My partner and i have known each other for 11yrs, when we first met my son from a previous relationship was only 18mts. This guy and i dated for roughly a yr when suddenly he ended it saying he couldnt be a father to my ...
A. 11 July 2010: I think you need to sit your partner down and explain that the KIDS are ALL your kids and that HE needs to treat them equally well.
If you husband doesn't "invite" your son along why don't YOU do it?
STAND up for your son.... (read in full...)
Big age difference, he has left wife with five kids, can this relationshio survive??
Q. What should one do when they have met a guy who is a lot older than themselves and married with five children but the marriage is not good. That guy then askes you out and this then causes major upset for their family. I mean real upset, parents ...
A. 11 July 2010: Since he is married I would back off and walk away.
Honestly how bad or good or messed up a marriage he has doesn't really matter, matter of facts is this : HE IS MARRIED.
If you two get into anything now, YOU will be seen as the Home-wrecker... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 20, he wants a commitment, I don't, how do I get him to stop texting me??
Q. this boy i was with brought me gifts and said he wanted to get married and have kids and get our own place as soon as possible. im only fourteen and he is twenty. i just founf out he has a four year old daughter with his ex and i ended it, he keeps ...
A. 11 July 2010: Tell your parents right away, block him number and if he keep harassing you, have your parents call the police.
A 20 year old guy have no business courting or chasing after a 14 year old girl.
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Is 160 pounds a healthy weight for my height?
Q. Im 16 and i weigh 205 im around 5"7 ish and i want to be around 160 lbs i dont want to be super skinny so is that a good weight? Im not asking for any dieting or exercising help cause i have that part handled..... I also have a big lower back hump ...
A. 11 July 2010: It kind of depends on your build as well, at 16 and 5 foot 7 - I would actually aim for 145-150 lbs.... (read in full...)
He wants friends with benefits but I'm a virgin. Do I tell him?
Q. I'm 20 and part of me is worried I'm still a virgin but the other part i don't care and it's something I am proud of because I have done it out of choice. I don't want to lose it in a one night stand even though theres been several oppotunities. I ...
A. 10 July 2010: I agree 100% with CaringGuy.
He is not interested in a relationship, this is not about feelings or love. It's a wham-bam-thank you ma'am relationship he wants.
I don't think it would be a smart move on your side, to have your first experience... (read in full...)
She keeps requesting me as a friend on Facebook, and I keep denying her, but she's persisting! What is she thinking?
Q. Alright to make this short and quick as possible, my ex dragged me on with her for 6months. I basically waited for her. I decided to move on and so I'm like alright imma just delete her off facebook and I did this was like a week ago, and like a ...
A. 10 July 2010: She wants to be in your "friends-list" so she can keep taps on you.. Keep ignoring/denying her and move on.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I think my b/f may have slept with my sister -- should I confront him?
Q. I've been dating a guy for just under 3 years and, up until now, we've been so happy. About a fortnight ago, I went away for four days to celebrate the wedding of a family friend in Paris. My boyfriend stayed at home. I phoned him every evenin...
A. 10 July 2010: Yes I think you should confront him. Unless you plan on living in a relationship with a guy who will sleep around the minute you aren't there, and.. with you sister no less.
Talk to him, try not to accuse him - see what comes up. Watch his bo... (read in full...)
What is so special to women about having a baby?
Q. [OP's original title] You're all not going to like this...But I am a guy and I don't think there is anything special about having kids. I had a vasectomy years ago, and there's some lunatic woman I've met, who I'm having it off with, who wants a baby...
A. 8 July 2010: Why do you think there are still people on this Earth? Why do you think the sex industry is booming? Because one of our strongest "needs" is to procreate. We would still do it even if sex wasn't fun.
Not all women wants children, not all men want... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says we're over the "lovey-dovey" stage!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year and it was fine at first all the lovey dovey holding hands and kissing. now he says we are over that stage. i don't understand why it stopped. i still want to do all that what should i do?...
A. 8 July 2010: Talk to him. I have been married 12 years, we still hold hand and we certainly still kiss. ;)
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My husband won't go to anger management, is it time to divorce?
Q. My husband gave me an ultimatum last week which was I needed to return home by Thursday otherwise he was going to his scheduled appointment with his attorney to end our marriage. I really need him to go to anger management or something since his ...
A. 8 July 2010: It doesn't really sound like he thinks it's HIS fault you left. Seems more like he is blaming you for his actions and inability to take it seriously.
Personally, I would contact a lawyer. I think your safety is WAY more important then his ego.... (read in full...)
Relationship with a married man who doesn't leave his wife
Q. I met a man online. He is still married, but she has moved out of the home. They run a business together and to date they still draw from the same money pot. I have told him from the beginning that my values want a legal separation and/or divorce, ...
A. 7 July 2010: He's got his cake and eating it too... why change anything?
I doubt he will divorce her any time soon, it all just works too well for him as is.
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Is his behavior about control?
Q. My ex-boyfriend is still a bother - why does he insist on finding out what I am doing and with whom? He is jealous of me going out with a guy we both know. But the ex-boyfriend has been living with another woman for over a year! And he doesnt care ...
A. 7 July 2010: He sounds like a jerk and a loser. Cut him loose.
Ignore him, block his calls/e-mails and move on with life. I'm pretty sure you can find a better man and attached to said man.. a better cock.... (read in full...)
Should I date older guys or stay single until highschool?
Q. hi i'm really good at getting people together. i talk to the guy i talk to the girl and bam their together. i even have to get people together on my little brothers video games. im pretty popular and i guess kinda attractive, (i have self asteem...
A. 6 July 2010: Wait til you find a guy who YOU really like, who treats you like you deserve to be treated. Don't date out of sympathy or just because.
I agree wit hChigirl.. Don't ever settle.... (read in full...)
Scared I'm no longer a virgin!
Q. well i need help. i am so scared that i am not a virgin, because my boyfriend and i decided to play around and i want to know if am still a virgin if he fingered me...
A. 6 July 2010: Re-read CaringGuy's reply til you FULLY understand it.
And start to think. Just like it's SMART to think before you speak, it's also VERY smart to think before you act.
You aren't ready for sex, so as tempting as it may be... EDUCATE yourself... (read in full...)
Can I get in trouble at work for what I post on FB?
Q. Need some advice and have been on internet but can't find any info. I basically need to know if your manager is on maternity leave can she get you in trouble? I have acess to my facebook and usually update my status on breaks etc.. Now I ...
A. 6 July 2010: Sorry q1605
I keep forgetting Common Sense isn't so common these days...... (read in full...)
I was happily married, until I found out he cheated!
Q. ive been with my husband 19 years married for 13 with 2 children 16 and 14 but recently found out he slept with another woman 16 years ago a couple of times and he may have fathered a child im in pieces what do i do i love this guy to pieces...
A. 6 July 2010: Talk to him. Then decide what you need from him in order for you to trust him again. This is not a little fling or a "mistake" he slept with another woman and was stupid enough to not use protection.
How did you find out?
It may not be a bad... (read in full...)
Should I stay in London now that things seem to be getting better?
Q. am a 43 year old female, childless and single - and not unhappy. I came to London 3 years ago. I had been struggling to find enough freelance work as a designer in Munich, Germany and it seemed there were more opportunities for me in London. So far ...
A. 6 July 2010: I loved living in London *back in the days*, but having moved all over the world, I can tell you this, being close to family BEATS everything for me.... (read in full...)
Can I get in trouble at work for what I post on FB?
Q. Need some advice and have been on internet but can't find any info. I basically need to know if your manager is on maternity leave can she get you in trouble? I have acess to my facebook and usually update my status on breaks etc.. Now I ...
A. 6 July 2010: Sorry *newsflash* no one is that important that they need to update their "STATUS" all hours of the day... Really..... (read in full...)
Is if fair that my sister would invite new roommates without consulting me?
Q. This is a sibling relationship I have a problem about. I live with my sister overseas, she is a single mom with 2 kids from different men, I am single. Well, we agreed to live together with all household expenses cut into half. Even for the house ...
A. 6 July 2010: Wow, I would move out. Find a place of my own. She CHOSE to have kids. WHY should YOU pay for her choices?
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I left my husband, but now the guy I had feelings for won't see me.
Q. I'm married (now separated). While still with my husband, I met a guy online who I knew years ago. We flirted with each other off and on for months. We didn't meet up because of my marriage. We still flirted and fantasized about being together. I ...
A. 6 July 2010: Maybe it was more of a fantasy *make believe* for him then it was for you.
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Would you (as a guy) turn a girl away over something like this?
Q. Bonjour, I just wanted guys opinions because even though I know it's normal, as in it's not unhealthy, I don't like it. On my left side I have always had one long inner labia. I feel like it will freak guys out and/or get in the way!! Argh I hate ...
A. 6 July 2010: Honey, no two (private parts) be they on a male or female look alike. Some have huge outer labia, some huge inner. That is just how THAT person was made..
Just like not all guys look alike below, some are straight, some bend left, some right, s... (read in full...)
Opinions on what constitutes cheating?
Q. My boyfriend has a close female friend who he used to like. I'm wondering what are people's opinions on what would be classified as cheating( apart from kissing and having sex)? Thank you...
A. 6 July 2010: Like Anon wrote...
EVERYTHING you can not do in front of your GF/BF/DH/DW..
... (read in full...)
From "Too Good to be True" to not answering my calls. Help!
Q. I have been dateing this guy of the late 3 months. when i met him I questioned why he wanted to date me. He has dated lots of beautiful women and is Friends with pro football players and nba players Me im just the girl from the neigborhood. I just ...
A. 6 July 2010: Now he is blaming YOU for him not calling? Wow he's got a set on him...
Sounds like a narcissist... google it.... (read in full...)
He got married to someone else due to pressure from his parents, will he divorce her and come back to me?
Q. My BF got married under parents pressure but ran towards me in just a month.For 1yr, we are again dating.will he divorce and come permanently? We were in serious relationship for almost 5 yrs. But, he had to get married under parents pressure...
A. 2 July 2010: I highly doubt it. I think TimmD gave the clearest advice and I agree 100% with him.
Move on.. Get a life, be happy, live, love, laugh.... (read in full...)
Why won't he unblock me from facebook
Q. Why won't he unblock me from facebook? He started to flirt really obviously in class, so much so that people in class noticed. Initially he thought I was the party type, like he is. I dress the act, and act the role. However, I'm really a nerd...
A. 2 July 2010: It's Facebook ... why care?
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Is it a loser thing to go on vacation with your parents at 30?
Q. Hey aunts! I'll be 30 in a few months. I have bf, a house of my own and a great job. My parents asked me to go on a 10 day trip together- on them! I said hell yeah! After all, it's a free vacation, right! And I love them. Then I thought... is it a ...
A. 2 July 2010: I am 41 and I would go on vacation with my parents ANY day! :) Then hubby could have fun with the kids, house and pet!
You betcha!... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about my STD?
Q. Soo I have this nasty ass ex boyfriend i've dated for 3 years and we had sex maybe a month ago. I heard he was sleeping around and sure enough he gave me clamidia. I took the z pack a week an half ago. Now i have a boyfriend and i don't know ...
A. 1 July 2010: PLEASE take Kc100's advice.
And if you can't be honest with a guy about your sexual past (which I might add include STD's) DON'T HAVE SEX!... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if I put sperm from my mouth into my vagina?
Q. can I get pregnant if I put sperm that was in my mouth into my vagina, but I wasn't on my period and I was ovulating either?...
A. 1 July 2010: What an odd question, and... slightly dumb (sorry).
First off, WHY would you do that?
Secondly, sperm can survive outside of the body for no more than about an hour. In general, if the semen is still wet it may well have live sperm. ?
Thri... (read in full...)
Who should buy the condoms?
Q. Hey, who do you think should supply a condom the boys or the girls? or should they take turns? Thanks....
A. 1 July 2010: Well, I think every smart woman would have a supply of her own, just in case. Same goes for every smart guy.... (read in full...)
One night romance with co-worker gone bad.....
Q. I have an office mate. He is my crush and I did everything so that he will knew it. One night. He invited me to join clubbing with his friends. After that, he took me back to my place. He wanted to stay for a while so I let him. We started to ha...
A. 30 June 2010: Never Eat where you Crap...
Which means...... don't date in the work place.
Did you hope you would be BF/GF if you slep with him? IS he single?
So many questions..... (read in full...)
From "Too Good to be True" to not answering my calls. Help!
Q. I have been dateing this guy of the late 3 months. when i met him I questioned why he wanted to date me. He has dated lots of beautiful women and is Friends with pro football players and nba players Me im just the girl from the neigborhood. I just ...
A. 30 June 2010: Is he by any chance seeing someone else?
I'm sorry you CAN'T MAKE him talk to you. I would let this one go.... (read in full...)
Anyone ever had small pains in their ovaries when they weren't ovulating and found they were pregnant?
Q. im on the 2nd day of my missed period and have these little sharp pains that come and go and last about 2 seconds or so each time in what feels like my left ovary. I took 4 hpt's, 2 I took last week and 1 on jan 1st and the last one yesterday and ...
A. 4 January 2010: It could be cysts. (benign ones that is)
Go see your doctor/gyno and have a blood test of you are in doubt, the cysts can be seen on an ultrasound. Some pregnancy test can give false positive/false negative but a blood test never lies.
Get it ... (read in full...)
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