Anyone ever had small pains in their ovaries when they weren't ovulating and found they were pregnant?
Q. im on the 2nd day of my missed period and have these little sharp pains that come and go and last about 2 seconds or so each time in what feels like my left ovary. I took 4 hpt's, 2 I took last week and 1 on jan 1st and the last one yesterday and ...
A. 12 July 2010: It could also be Endo
http://www.womenshealth.gov/faq/endometriosis.cfm#a
I still say have an GYN do an ultra sound and check for abnormalities. It can be benign, but very painful.... (read in full...)
How can I get my 7 year old to stay in bed and sleep???
Q. Hi i know this is a site about relationships, and this problem is about my relationship with my 7 year old daughter in a round about way. I'm at the end of my tether with her at bed time, for the first few years she went to bed with no trouble, but ...
A. 29 January 2010: Awesome, glad it is working for you all!... (read in full...)
Two days and no call. Should I wait a bit longer?
Q. Ok, Here's the scenario.. 10 years ago I was in a relationship with this girl..She was 18 and I was 20... I just got out of the Army and came back to the state. I passed by her town (80miles from my home town) and picked her up and took her home ...
A. 29 January 2010: Good luck Jay.... (read in full...)
My dad and brother pop in to my head when I am masterbating! Do I need professional help?
Q. Okay so I'm 16 and I've just recently started masturbating. The problem is though, sometimes while I'm doing it, my brother or my dad will pop into my head. I don't imagine them doing anything or even want to think of them; I know its wrong and ...
A. 27 January 2010: They are the two closest MALE rolemodels in your life. I don't think you need professional help, but maybe you need to work on your imagination a bit more. :)
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My g/f sometimes sleeps in the same bed as her mum
Q. My gf (she's 22 years old) some times she still sleeps with her mother when her father is at work on the night shift. She is not the only daughter but she only does sleep with her mum, I find it kinda weird ?How do you view it? Thanks ...
A. 27 January 2010: My mom go seriously ill when I was 26 - she nearly died twice that year. When my Dad had over night business elsewhere I would come home and sleep with my mom ( well, NEXT to my mom). I am and always have been very protective of my mom. And.. I'm ... (read in full...)
Two days and no call. Should I wait a bit longer?
Q. Ok, Here's the scenario.. 10 years ago I was in a relationship with this girl..She was 18 and I was 20... I just got out of the Army and came back to the state. I passed by her town (80miles from my home town) and picked her up and took her home ...
A. 27 January 2010: Go to Walmart, but her one of those prepaid phones and a phonecard for her then you two can always keep in contact.
Also I would ask what actually happened 10 years ago. It obviously had an impact on the both of you.
Thirdly but not last, Sh... (read in full...)
Is being gay and christian all right?
Q. I've been a converted chrstian for a year now. Most of the time, i'm into guys and its great. But recently i've been liking this girl whom i'm not sure is into girls. That aside, what i'm more worried about is 'is it ok to b gay and christian?' ...
A. 27 January 2010: I would guess that depends on who you ask. I can not speak for God ( nor should ANYONE else) but in my personal opinion - I can not see why being gay goes against Christ's teachings. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 9 years has been cheating on me with another woman for more than 2 years. WHY, do you think?
Q. Hi, If you've ever cheated on your partner, then I need your advice. I found out a week ago that my boyfriend of nine years has been cheating on me with another woman for more than 2 years. Other than feeling like I've been hit by a bus...
A. 27 January 2010: You BF is messed up. Simple as that. As for the exact reason to why he cheated? Because he is lacking in the morals, ethics and quite frankly in the faithfulness department. He carried on seeing her for 2 years before ending the life he knew and ... (read in full...)
Love triangle and a baby!
Q. hey huge problem, i a 19 yr old mum with a 2 year old lil boy. i have a fiance in bristol which ive been with 7 months now...before i got with my fiance i was seeing some1/not in relation but we had sex and other feelings, i was hed over heels for ...
A. 27 January 2010: I don't think you are looking at the bigger picture here.
You are cheating on the rebound guy (bristol boy) with the ex, yet want to keep both men in your life.. Not fair to rebound guy.
I have no advice to give you, because I feel like saying... (read in full...)
I like it tight! Do you think I should only go for virgins?
Q. Hi,this question might sound funny,but it's troubling me so much.I've had sexual experience when i was very young and it felt so good,now i'm in my mid twenties and all the girls i've dated in my adult life are loose,even my present girl's pussy is ...
A. 27 January 2010: I think I agree with the small dick theory here.. sorry no more virgins for you.... (read in full...)
Should I break my own hymen?
Q. So yesterday while masturbating I felt my hymen and I now I don't know if to just pop it or leave it be? So should I pop it or not?...
A. 27 January 2010: Why would you feel a need to do so?
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Tried to hack my girlfriends hotmail and got locked out! how can I tell her?
Q. i tried to log onto my girlfriends hotmail and got the password wrong too many time and now she has to enter security questions and is going to know that i tried to hack her account. how can i say i did it by accident?...
A. 27 January 2010: If you can't be honest about this, what else are you lying about? Not really a good way to be having a relationship there...
No trust, hacking and lying... don't bode well..
M advice is to be honest. Tell her WHAT you did and WHY. though I se... (read in full...)
Do women enjoy this during sex?
Q. Do women like a nice 'pounding' session? I KNOW it depends on the woman, but generally speaking do you enjoy it? whats so intriguing about it? Tips would be helpful thanks...
A. 27 January 2010: That is called a quickie! And sure it can be nice if done right and at the right time:) ... (read in full...)
Sick of being treated like my sisters personal slave!
Q. I,m 18 years old in a few weeks and I,m the youngest in my house. I have an older sister (26) and I feel like her personal slave. everyday I have to clean up after her and Make things for her. She acts like a 5 year old! I could never say no to ...
A. 27 January 2010: You both still live with your parents? If so talk to your mom and Dad about this. If you let your sister WALK all over you know, how will others not do the same later?
I would seriously stop doing what she asks. Unless it is your mess don't cl... (read in full...)
His ex is causing trouble! Is he telling the truth?
Q. i`m having a bit of trouble i talked to a girl who claimed to be my boyfriends ex girlfriend and she told me that he asked her out a few weeks ago when we have been going out for 5 months he has already been out with her and she went out with him ...
A. 26 January 2010: Well, this is really about trust. Do you trust your BF or someone you don't even know? ( his ex gf?)
What does your gut tell you?
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She cheated and is unappreciative and I don't want to leave her because she's pregnant.
Q. Hi everyone! Let me thank you first for reading this topic ,all your advice is really appriciated ! I am in a quite difficult situation now, my girlfriend is pregnant ,but our relationship has been really hard for me ,since this was my f...
A. 26 January 2010: That seems like a whole lot of stuff going on.
Do you plan to stick with her and suck it up for the next 18 years? If so why? You can help out and still be a good dad without having to live with her or be in a relationship. All that takes is... (read in full...)
My son's 18 year old friend wants to have sex with me - I'm 45! What do I do?
Q. I'm a 45 year old woman and I have a eighteen year old son. My son has a friend who is also eighteen. Yesterday I found out he is possibly going to Iraq within a month. He told me he's had a huge crush on me and that he wanted to have sex with me ...
A. 25 January 2010: Personally I wouldn't. I can't ( never could) do sex casually.
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Virginity question
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship with a great guy,love him to bits. The problem is we had sex a while ago for the first time and we both said it was our first time. The thing is I had dated another guy (for like 2 years) before going out with the...
A. 25 January 2010: To quote another AUNT/UNCLE
A male reader, Sal84 +, writes (23 January 2010):
Hi, Do u play any sports? Go Trekking? Physical excercise or Work out? Ride Horses?(The Real Ones)or any other strenerous physical activity? If yes then there is an... (read in full...)
She wont do what I want sexually, should I break up with her?
Q. Hello, I'd appreciate if it were girls who answered my question, it's not that guys don't have good advice to offer me but it's just that I'd prefer a girl's advice on this one. (Although if you're a guy and really think your piece of advice would ...
A. 25 January 2010: You could buy her this:
https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_2_15?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=tickle+his+pickle+by+sadie+allison&sprefix=tickle+his+pick
Maybe she just don't know what to do.... (read in full...)
She wont do what I want sexually, should I break up with her?
Q. Hello, I'd appreciate if it were girls who answered my question, it's not that guys don't have good advice to offer me but it's just that I'd prefer a girl's advice on this one. (Although if you're a guy and really think your piece of advice would ...
A. 22 January 2010: To be honest I think you should look for a girl that you have more sexual chemistry with.
She have some serious hang up about sex I think.
I understand that there are plenty of women who aren't a big fan of getting and giving oral. The thing ... (read in full...)
Do I "hang on" or "move on"?
Q. I met an awesome guy online last September and thought we were going to be freinds, but he had other ideas, as he wanted to meet and I was over the moon. However, the day before we were supposed to meet, I guess I got a weird vibe, as he still ...
A. 22 January 2010: I agree - that "weird vibe" - I'm BETTING he was already in a relationship or even possibly married, looking for a fling.
Always listen to your gut instinct.
And stop contacting him. He is not interested no more, the more you keep trying the ... (read in full...)
Am I just fantasizing about other people due to boredom in this relationship?
Q. Ive been in a relationship for 13 months and it has been quite turbulent to put it politely. The guy im with i have been friends with for 4 years before we got together. I have recently stopped smoking cannabis after years of smoking it and i am ...
A. 22 January 2010: You have a worthless partner who mooches off you, no wonder you are having fantasies. But, instead of jsut day dreaming about a better man, how about dumping the old one and go looking for a better one?... (read in full...)
Endometriosis Surgery Aftermath?
Q. Okay everyone, im an 18 year old female and i have a few questions to ask, theyre about my health. A few weeks ago the doctor found out that i have chronic endometriosis, a bad appendix, and a cyst on my uterus. I had surgery to have all this ...
A. 21 January 2010: Please go back and see your doctor, he will be able to tell you how your surgery went and how your body is recovering.
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How can I get him to like me again now that I've lost weight?
Q. i really like this boy but i dont no if he still likes me i mean like we went out and stuff but i got fat and i he called me fat and no thaqt im skinny again i dont no wat to do i want him to like me and i want to get back with him i need help can ...
A. 21 January 2010: Grats to loosing weight ( IF THAT IS WHAT YOU WANTED) and if that will keep you healthy.
But honey, if you feel you need to change your looks dramatically for a man to respect and love you, you have some serious issues. Self esteem issues. ... (read in full...)
I'm quite daunted by the idea of first time sex.
Q. I'm quite daunted by the idea of first time sex. I'm almost 22 and still a virgin. Not to mention I hear that women prefer men with experience and are quite turned off of having to 'teach' someone at all. I know there may be 'some' that don't mind, ...
A. 20 January 2010: Who ever told you that all women wants a guy with experience is lying. Yes it is nice if he knows the various body part and what goes where, but really I think exploring sex with your partner is way more fun then having sex with a guy who thinks ... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with another guy who wants nothing to do with me, how can I forget about him and focus on my boyfriend?
Q. I can't stop thinking about this guy but I have a boyfriend. My boyfriend knows but still is with me. I want to forget about him because he wants nothing to do with me. If I were to pick between him and my bf I would pick to be with him. So if I ...
A. 20 January 2010: I agree with Caringguy.
It is time to set your BF free, you obviously don't care for him as much as he cares for you. Staying in this relationship is not fair on him, nor on you.
As for obsessing over another guy. Well if could be that yo... (read in full...)
He wants his ex gf back but doesn't want to lose me! What should I do?
Q. I've met the guy im with from work, I have liked him for over two months and we have been together for two weeks, I'm normaly a really hard person to get through to as I have low trust in men due to past experiences and I always put up the barrier, ...
A. 20 January 2010: You are his rebound girl :( I know that sucks but if he still carries a torch for his ex I would end it. Starting up a new relationship before you are all the way over an old one is never a good thing.
I'm sorry, but I would let him go.
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Bleeding while using the bathroom..sore insides! My bf is going a bit rough on me..help!
Q. Okay my fiance and I fool around alot. We do alot of kinky things. We have not had sex yet though. When he is fingering me or something I think he gets to rough maybe. Because now the my insides kinda hurt it only hurts on one side though. I am...
A. 20 January 2010: First of all I think you are fooling yourself if you think having ANAL sex isn't having sex.
Secondly, if you bleed when you have anal sex you need to stop. Let your poor bum heal and find some decent lube. Make sure that the two of you know wha... (read in full...)
What does he mean when he says I'm in trouble?
Q. I made a silly mistake of having a one week affair with a man on my job. He was the cutest thing I had ever seen. I just wanted to sleep with him and nothing more-especially since he is married 33 yrs. I heard he was a play boy and run through ...
A. 20 January 2010: Eww he sure doesn't sound CUTE at all.. Go get check out - I totally agree AND stop sleeping with married men. Who knows what he is telling people about you...
Eww... (read in full...)
She cheated, made promises to me and then sent nude pics to another guy...what is her mentality?
Q. My girl friend cheated on me we broke up, she made a lot and a lot of promises. She told me and messaged the guy in front of me that they should not meet or contact. Recently I found out that she took photos of herself nude and sent it to the g...
A. 20 January 2010: I agree with most of the Aunts. She will not change. (and why should she ? (from her point of view) when you always take her back and forgive her?
At some point you are going to have to have had enough. 3 times in 3 years is 3 times to much if ... (read in full...)
What should I do? Continue pursuing Sofia and see where it goes? Or end it with her and tell my friend he can have her?
Q. Well I am in a wee bit of a predicament. So last Friday I met this cute girl at a party and chatted her up. I think we hit it off pretty well, I knew her friend from class. For these purposes, her name will be Sofia. The following night at an...
A. 20 January 2010: Why not get to know her before you "give" her away to another guy?
Obviously he likes her, but what IF - SHE likes you?
I don't think he has slept with her either. He might want too, but really if he is talking about her like all he wants is ... (read in full...)
I know I've been played so how do I redeem myself?
Q. At one time, I was close with this guy. We were constantly in touch, whether it be online, texting, talking on the phone, or meeting up. I tried my hardest not to open up to this guy too much. But I couldn't help but trust him. First we started ...
A. 20 January 2010: No need for redemption. Just need for you to take it slower next time. I know it is easy to be "caught" up in the moment, when you chat to someone (text.e-mail. IM whatnot) but next time, take your time to SPEND time with him. GEt to know the REAL ... (read in full...)
I'm deployed and my wife has gone through some changes! Help!
Q. Hi I need help im so confused...im deployed and my wife has been acting really strange or i dont know what it is...before she always say she loves me and now she dont say it anymore...i ask her why and she says why does she need to say it when we ...
A. 12 January 2010: I know you said you don't want to talk to the chaplain, but I think you should. He has (I'm willing to bet) seen and heard it all. And I am sure he can help you out. There is nothing to be embarrassed about.
There are many reasons why she is actin... (read in full...)
Why do men lie on social networks?
Q. Why do guys lie on "social network" sites? He lies about how much money he makes,how successful his little business is, his personality, his past, you name it. He has also asked women from other countries to come here (USA) after exchanging just a ...
A. 10 January 2010: Men lie because they feel a need to make themselves look better then they do. Did you know that 90% of men lie about their actual high on their drivers licence? LOL
And we all know that LOADS of women lie about their age..
People lie. B... (read in full...)
He says he wont do it again, but then he does ..........
Q. I'm so mad right now i really need some advice! Yesterday i went to my friend's house to watch a movie and talk. Before, I called my bf to let him know where i was going and that i wasn't going to be home, so he should call me on the cell phone l...
A. 8 January 2010: How childish is he? Wow. He seems like a petty control freak.
Why does he keep doing it you ask?
Because, YOU let him :) Sometimes life is simple.
Move on before he decides to run your life for you.... (read in full...)
He stood me up to be there for his ex. Should I give up on him?
Q. I met this guy at a get together I was at with some of my friends. We ended up talking for the whole time and by the end of the night we had exchanged numbers and were planning to talk/hang out sometime. He asked me to be friends on facebook and it ...
A. 8 January 2010: Yes, give him up. He still has a LOT of baggage and unfinished business with his ex.
Can you imagine every time things get going for you and this guy and his ex decides she wants to end her life? The drama, the fights... SO not worth it.
L... (read in full...)
Are his dreams normal?
Q. so ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years and every night i wake up beacuse the bed is shaking. its shaking because my boyfriend is having a sex dream, hes fully erect, and he is acting exactly like we are having sex i mean hes ...
A. 8 January 2010: I think your man is just a normal young man, with a big libido.
Is he trying to have sex with you while you sleep or is it a one man show?
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How can I get my 7 year old to stay in bed and sleep???
Q. Hi i know this is a site about relationships, and this problem is about my relationship with my 7 year old daughter in a round about way. I'm at the end of my tether with her at bed time, for the first few years she went to bed with no trouble, but ...
A. 6 January 2010: I think you need to get your ex-partner and you mom all together and sit down and talk strategy that EVERYONE will follow.
Them you all (preferable together) needs to sit her down and talk to her. See if she can open up a little. Somethin... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is giving me ultimatums because he wants to build a family with me!
Q. I am so confused I need help..This is the scenario I'm a mom of two boys ages 15 and 8 from a previous relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 5yrs thru bad and the good..He already has a daughter who is 11 and he is giving me ultimatums ...
A. 4 January 2010: A baby will NOT make your relationship any better. So you have yours and his children but if you love and respect each other THAT is a family right there.
I think you need to tell him that you don't feel ready for another child ( you sound li... (read in full...)
Size matters...is it safe for me to buy condoms before I leave?
Q. Okay, this might sound ridiculous, but I'd rather be safe than sorry... I'm going to visit my LDR who lives overseas in 2 weeks, for 3 months. I'm 18 and his 18th birthday is the day after I arrive...you get the idea. For the sake of cost effi...
A. 4 January 2010: Or maybe just buy some in different sizes :) But don't offer him the "hung like a horse" ones unless he tells you the mediums are too small ;) ... (read in full...)
Anyone ever had small pains in their ovaries when they weren't ovulating and found they were pregnant?
Q. im on the 2nd day of my missed period and have these little sharp pains that come and go and last about 2 seconds or so each time in what feels like my left ovary. I took 4 hpt's, 2 I took last week and 1 on jan 1st and the last one yesterday and ...
A. 4 January 2010: It could be cysts. (benign ones that is)
Go see your doctor/gyno and have a blood test of you are in doubt, the cysts can be seen on an ultrasound. Some pregnancy test can give false positive/false negative but a blood test never lies.
Get it ... (read in full...)
Throwing in the towel
Q. hello all! so ive decided to throw in the towel with this guy finally.I have had it with the mixed feelings thing.So my question is do you think it would be to stupid or childish if i wrote him a letter explaining why im doing what im doing ? when i ...
A. 4 January 2010: ~CONGRATULATIONS!~... (read in full...)
Should I care what others think?
Q. Hello dear cupid. I’m with my GF 3 years already, and on Christmas she told me she wants a « heart breakable « jewellery for the both of us. She told me that it would represent our eternal love, and relationship. Well at the beginning I didn’t ...
A. 2 January 2010: It has nothing to do with age - if YOU like it and SHE likes it, who cares what everyone else thinks?
I think it's rather cute to be honest, not all men can do a think like that. It takes a bit of gut!
It's not like it is jewelry from a g... (read in full...)
Throwing in the towel
Q. hello all! so ive decided to throw in the towel with this guy finally.I have had it with the mixed feelings thing.So my question is do you think it would be to stupid or childish if i wrote him a letter explaining why im doing what im doing ? when i ...
A. 5 January 2009: If you are done, you are done. I know it's hard to break someones heart, but if you are already starting to disengage from the relationship there really is no point for you to just "wait" for him to be something he obviously isn't.
I'm sorry.... (read in full...)
Throwing in the towel
Q. hello all! so ive decided to throw in the towel with this guy finally.I have had it with the mixed feelings thing.So my question is do you think it would be to stupid or childish if i wrote him a letter explaining why im doing what im doing ? when i ...
A. 5 January 2009: You should tell him face to face. Write down what you want to say and you have trouble telling him it all, tell him you wrote it down, but that you thought he deserved to hear it from you. Can always give him the letter after that if you can not ... (read in full...)
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