We broke up and I slept with someone else, but now we are back together she wants a break just to sleep with another guy to get back at me!
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me 8 months ago and i slept with someone else after a few weeks. After this she wanted me back and i told her what happened and she still wanted to get back together with me. It was OK for a couple months but then she ...
A. 18 May 2010: Seems utterly immature of her.
I see nothing good coming from this. If you don't "let" her she will obsess about your "fling" and if you do let her, you will both regret it, but the blame will fall on you.
A no win/no win situation.
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Is he pretending to be busy or is he honest with me?
Q. Hello! I need your help. I have been chatting with him for 5 months.We live in different countries. We understand each other very well. We are like real friends. Recently he has become a manager of very big company and he rarely writes to me. We ...
A. 18 May 2010: If you are 16-17 and he is a manager in a real big company I think he is WAY older then you.
Could be a lot of reasons, not of them good.
I say move on, girl.
Find someone who wants to be there for you. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has had a tattoo of my name, now I am wondering if I should do something more than just kiss him?
Q. Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 9 months...and about two months ago he got a tattoo of my name, a pretty big one...everyone who's seen it asked him if he slept with me yet..he always replies no..I feel bad about that...I ...
A. 18 May 2010: Getting a TATTOO is HIS choice. Getting one with your name on doesn't mean he all of a sudden owns you or that you OWE him a darn thing (sexually or otherwise)
I think he sounds creepy, to be honest.. If you are in the age range of 13-15 he is 14... (read in full...)
My ex contacted me, but now what I've read on his dating profile has shocked me!
Q. Alright Sunday night a guy I dated briefly contacted me via dating site we met on two years ago and I should probably mention that it ended ugly with his last words to me being F-off or something to that effect when I told him I was pregnant. Anyway ...
A. 18 May 2010: Don't go see him. Cancel the dinner and CUT the contact, he isn't interested in your as a person but as a cast in his "play" - maybe he wants to see if he can convince you to play the "third wheel" in a 3-some.
Honestly you have nothing to gain ... (read in full...)
Is there's any thing I can eat or drink that would make my belly stop hurting?
Q. Hey, I'm 17 and i was wondering if there's any thing you can eat or drink that will make your belly stop hurting or not hurt as much when your on your period? I tried taken tums it dint help, Also is there drinks or foods that will make it worse ...
A. 17 May 2010: There a loads of things you can do here are a few:
More than one study has reported less menstrual pain with a higher intake of omega 3 fatty acids (fat compounds found in oily fish, such as salmon and tuna).
Salt Restriction. Limiting salt ma... (read in full...)
Why would my girlfriend say she lost her virginity to me?
Q. My girlfriend already lost her virginity but she regrets losing it to her first because it was rushed and it was a bad experience etc. and wished she had done it with me. She refuses to claim him and when people ask her who was her first, she ...
A. 17 May 2010: Maybe because in her heart she wants you to be "the first". Maybe because it was "sex" the first time and "making love" with you :) You pick.... (read in full...)
How much "groping" is too much?
Q. I love my girlfriend, and like I have seen both of our fathers do, I like to (in private) randomly grap my girlfriend's butt or boobs and maybe squeeze them, but never anything forceful. She'll laugh or say something like "oh yeah" in a "naughty ...
A. 17 May 2010: It's too much when she slaps you hand away :)
OK? If you pat her on the rear, stroke her arm, leg what not, in passing I think that is nice. Most women likes little sign of affection, specially if it is done for HER benefit only ( as in not when... (read in full...)
What does it mean for her to call me her Cabana Boy?
Q. My girlfriend says I am like her cabana boy. What does that mean? I do cater to her as far as giving her massages and serving her drinks in bed at times....
A. 17 May 2010: I think it's a pet name for you, meant in a good way.
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Who is the father of my baby?
Q. hi ok i had sex with my x december 19,20 that is the last time i had sex with him then had sex with my friend the next day for the rest of december and january my last period was january 1st i want to the doctors and he told me i am 19 weeks and 3 ...
A. 17 May 2010: Ask a doctor to help you pinpoint the date/dates for possible conception. And.... get a DNA test done when the baby is done, that is the only 100% fool proof way to know who the baby's daddy is.... (read in full...)
Do we have a second chance at love after 30 years apart?
Q. I married my first love in 1979 and we have 2 kids together but due to him cheating on me I divorced him. We both remarried the wrong people and always kept in contact over the years and I never stopped loving him.Now we started back seeing each ...
A. 17 May 2010: As long as you both realize that you BOTH are different people, then who you were back then, and DON'T dig up old bad stuff from the past, I can't see why you wouldn't have a good chance.
Go for it. Enjoy it!... (read in full...)
Attraction killers?
Q. What things do men typically do that kill any attraction a woman may have felt for him?...
A. 17 May 2010: Catching a guy in lie after lie. Big no-no Lies don't impress me. Be who you are.
A guy with no sense of humor. Huge no-no.
A guy who talks super smack about his ex's. I really don't want to hear all about them, you are with me now, right? So w... (read in full...)
Pregnant and still have a period?
Q. so I had sex a day before my period was due. It was unprotected but he pulled out. I know that method isn't always reliable. So I don't need to hear that. my period started today, 4 days late. But I heard you could still be pregnant while o...
A. 17 May 2010: Yes it is possible. I had what I thought was my period during the whole 9 months of my second pregnancy. So, if you are smart get a pregnancy test. ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'm going to get Aids or HIV from him!
Q. Hi everyone. I'm 22 years old woman.I have sex with my ex boyfriend. We are dating about like a 6 months. and now we already broke up. The reason I broke up with him because I found out he's using drug. Like cocain, rock and all kind of drug. I dont ...
A. 17 May 2010: Yes, it is possible for you to get HIV, so go get tested and re-tested 6 months later, and......... stop having sex with him or any one else unprotected. It might just save your life.... (read in full...)
Problems with condoms?
Q. in my past, present, and probably future relationships i have never liked using a condom. i dont know if its just me, the brand, or what. i think that smell like plastic, ranted they are, but still not a turn on. they inhibit my..pleasure. to ...
A. 17 May 2010: TROJAN Ultra Ribbed ECSTASY Condoms
Try them you won't hate comdoms after those :) I'm serious.
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How can I say "no" to my neighbors without becoming the building bitch?
Q. this isn't about a romantic relationship, but moreso a neighborly one. I just moved into a new building. I live on the first floor and these kidsare ALWAYS out by my patio. They ask for food, gum, something to drink, etc. At first I would an...
A. 15 May 2010: The sooner you tell people no the sooner they will stop asking for stuff.
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Is it safe to have sex during periods without using a condom?
Q. hi is it safe to have sex during periods without using a condoms...
A. 14 May 2010: Nope.... (read in full...)
Are there any ways to get rid of excess skin after losing weight?
Q. I'm 5' feet tall, I recently lost weight ( and continue to do so in a healthy way) I went from 170 to 150 in four months, eating healthy food and going to gym, since January of this year. I am wondering if I will need surgery to remove any fat ...
A. 14 May 2010: Weight training can help with some of the excess skin. Losing 20 lbs in 4 months is not what I would consider unhealthy.
Talk to a trainer at the gym about the areas that concern you the most.
However it will take at least 6-8 months to tighte... (read in full...)
Does my fiance have something to hide?
Q. My fiance and I bought a house in July. Turns out, a woman he knew in high school (also friends with her family) lives 1 mile up the road. He hadn't seen her since high school, but when she found out where he lives, she stops to see him. She has ...
A. 14 May 2010: I agree with CaringGuy. However it might be nothing, so I would honestly observe and trust your gut instincts.
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Should I stay? He has broken up with me 22 times since we first got together.
Q. Ok, I might bullet this to make it clearer I am 23, Female, been with my boyfriend for two and a half years We live and work together in a pub and I am currently finishing my degree He has broken up with me 22 times since we first got to...
A. 14 May 2010: Wow. Why are you still together ? He is like a 3 year old throwing fits ( aka breaking up with you) every-time he doesn't get what he wants..Who wants to date a 3 year old?
You really think he will EVER change that pattern? YOU are enabling... (read in full...)
When I turned down his marriage proposal he went and married his ex instead!
Q. i was living with a man he ask me to marry him and i wouldn't because i was mad at him that day. so he went and married his ex. he was gone living with her for 2 weeks before he moved back home. we have been living together now for 2 years sence ...
A. 14 May 2010: Yes. They may have "broken up" but their are still married... move on and find a man who is all yours, not someones leftovers.
It makes no sense to stay with him.... (read in full...)
Does age really matter in a relationship?
Q. I have this boyfriend whom i met a while back. We've been together for 3 months, he's amazing. I feel like we connect. He understands me, he listens to my doubts. I am 20 years old, he is 28, I have my doubts sometimes. I don't want this feeling or ...
A. 12 May 2010: I think once you get past the 18-21 years of age, it really doesn't matter much.
If it works for you two go for it.... (read in full...)
Is this guy a creep I should avoid?
Q. A few years ago, I started working for a local buisness. I immediately fell in love with the job. The people I work with are so fun to be around and I enjoy going to work everyday. I'm 19 years old. There is an older 25 year old guy who also works ...
A. 12 May 2010: You know the expression:
Don't crap where you eat?
Same goes with dating and the work place :) You did the right thing. You weren't/aren't looking for a casual sexual relationship, so you said no thanks.
I would just back off from him a tad a... (read in full...)
I accidentally offended my colleague, what should I do?
Q. I have a workplace problem. I am a 40-year old male, and I have a female colleague of about the same age. It is very clear that neither one of us cares much for the other. A week ago, I got into a very embarrassing situation. I stood up to ask ...
A. 12 May 2010: If you hang your "girls" out for all to see ( in in her case show of a the cleavage) you can't really get offended when a guy looks.
Now of you paraded around the office in a pair of spandex shorts and she looked at your... package.. would yo... (read in full...)
Am I still covered by the morning after pill that I took in the morning?
Q. I took the aftermorning pill yesturday and had unprotected sex again on the night time, will that pill still cover me or will i have to go for another one?...
A. 12 May 2010: Stop having unprotected sex.
Don't use the "morning after pill" as contraceptive.
Go see your doctor.... (read in full...)
I'm an emotional mess after my miscarriage
Q. I need help, i thought i was coping but i'm really not. I had a miscarriage, found out nearly 2 weeks ago and apart from the initial shock and then the tears when it sank in, it hadn't really affected me. But i've noticed myself drifting away from ...
A. 12 May 2010: I suggest you call your doctor and have him refer you to a counselor. It is pretty natural to go though a roller coaster of emotions ( and don't forget the hormonal surge from pregnancy) you need to deal with this the sooner the better.
You c... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 12 May 2010: I think you need to stop having your world revolve around this guy. He isn't in love with you and he rather be single then date you. That should say it all.
Him contacting you is kind of proving that he can still sucker you in.
Do I think he... (read in full...)
Finally I've been accepted into a new school, but because I have been bullied for years I have annoying habits! How can I stop so I don't annoy my new friends?
Q. Today, I got amazing news! i've been accepted into a new school! but the reason i wanted to move was because my cousin was bulliyng and i was tired of faking that i did'nt hear his insults about my weight and apparently too nice personality! I've...
A. 11 May 2010: Why haven't your family done something about this bullying? If he is a cousin they ought to sort this out.
Just BE yourself at the new school. ... (read in full...)
Lately, my husband's lovemaking behaviors have been different! Just wondering why this has happened?
Q. My husband and I have been together for 7 yrs married for 5yr. We have always had a great relationship and a great sex life. Recently he got a new job that takes him out of town for the first week of every month. Ever since he came home the last ...
A. 11 May 2010: Maybe he wants to spice it up? I would ask him. So many married people don't talk about sex. They really should.
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My teacher won't mark my work!! What should I do?
Q. I did all my work. I went to hand it in and my teacher opened the door she said no. She then shut the door in my face. What am I gonna do?? if she doesnt mark it I've failed:(2 years in college(not university):( I dont know what I have done...
A. 11 May 2010: Go talk to the guidance counselor or senior staffer. Sorry that really sucks.!... (read in full...)
While overseas my husband refused to meet or talk to my family
Q. Recently, we met up with members of my family from overseas. My husband refused to meet with them or talk to them, and I was so embarrassed that we left early and came home. He made no effort to take part in any of the joint activities arranged, ...
A. 11 May 2010: How can he so hate people he doesn't even know? Is he jealous or just stupid?
Maybe he is both? Or super insecure. You need to sit down and talk this out with him. Do no accept a " I don't know" or " I didn't feel like it" excuse.
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He slept with someone during the time I needed space to think about my ex, what did this girl mean to him?
Q. I went out with James about 5 times and we hit it off really well. I didn't sleep with him, just went on dates. My ex then contacted me and I was in a mess trying to figure out what to do. I broke it off with James because I wasn't sure how I felt. ...
A. 11 May 2010: She was a rebound AKA "I-still-got-it girl". Some people deals with break up differently. Some jump the nearest "bicycle" others take their time to move past the break up.
If you love him - Let it go.... (read in full...)
I haven't had an orgasm within the 8 months of being with my boyfriend!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months and I have not orgasmed AT ALL. He goes down on me, try different positions and everything, IT JUST WON'T WORK. Maybe I think about getting one while we're doing it, I don't know. The weird thing ...
A. 11 May 2010: SHOW him next time. Show him exactly HOW you reach climax. It's a lesson he won't forget. :)
Maybe you are both trying too hard and sex becomes more "mechanical" and less enjoyable. Also maybe read up on g-spot pleasure. ( Google is your friend) ... (read in full...)
I have a constant fear that my penis is too small!
Q. my penis is around 8 inches long and 6.5 around and i read that is kinda ideal size but i constantly have this fear that i m small or something. what can i do to make it go away?...
A. 11 May 2010: 8 inches is NOT small.. Average is 6 inches.
So stand tall and be proud of the junk in your trunk.... (read in full...)
Why is the man I am having an affair with behaving this way?
Q. Could someone please explain what this guy is doing to me,by the things he is saying. Well for starters he is married and we have been having an affair on and off now for 30yrs, with some breaks in between. I know his wife but only on a very cas...
A. 11 May 2010: He's an ass. Pure and simple.. nothing to figure out.
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Itchy skin problems! My doc thinks it's allergies...but I'm not sure. Any input?
Q. I am having a problem. It started when I just got to America in January. Frequently, I experience itchy skin in the cold and sometimes when I am on my own and not in the cold. I also have a lot of pimples on my forehead until i started using a good ...
A. 11 May 2010: Which state are you in? It can be the change of climate, pollution, allergies.
I would listen to the doctor. And if you want to know WHAT exactly you are allergic to, you can have tests done.... (read in full...)
What will happen after no sex for 8 months?
Q. if a woman doesnt have sex for 8 months will her vagina tear the first time she does ...
A. 11 May 2010: A women could NOT have sex for 8 years and still be JUST fine.
Does a man's penis falls of he he doesn't have sex in 8 monhts? Nah... It's still there, just a little frustrated :)... (read in full...)
My bf took me off his Top Friends list on Facebook!! Why would he do that?
Q. My boyfriend has a top friend list on his face book for 15 people and i was in it. Today for some reason he took me out of it! We see each other everyday and he is so loving and kind. And when i got home from his house i noticed he replaced me with ...
A. 11 May 2010: Because it's a LIST OF FRIENDS! you are not a friend you are HIS girlfriend:)
Chill - it's only Facebook..... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 11 May 2010: I think honestly that he misses the control he had over you and therefor wants to be in your life again.
Don't let him. Tell him to go fly a kite. Delete/block his number/e-mail and forget about him.
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Blood when I pee. Is there something seriously wrong?
Q. This is slightly embarassing but i have researched it and cant get a definate answer. Me and my long term boyfriend broke up about 8 weeks ago and since then i have got a new man in my life. Now i am not a virgin and had sex hundreds of time...
A. 10 May 2010: Since having blood in the urine isn't normal I strongly suggest you go see a doctor. ... (read in full...)
My friend's fiancee has given bj's to probably 30 or more guys and he can't deal with it!
Q. My 'work friend' is engaged getting married next year. He has a problem with his fiancee's past. She is still a virgin and wants to wait until they're married. He is fine with that, however, due to what she calls 'sexual pressure' by guys she has ...
A. 10 May 2010: That's a WHOLE lot of blow-jobs..... I don't get how people think they are PURE because they still have a hymen after THAT many blow-jobs.... That is pretty promiscuous.
*shrug* Not sure what to give as far as advice, other then to say.. he shoul... (read in full...)
Caught wife in a car going down on another man, what to do?
Q. I was at a party this past weekend with my wife and in the middle of the party I lost my wife. When I tried to find her, she was nowhere to be found. Finally, I went out to chekc our car and she wasn't there. Ont eh way back I noticed a guy ...
A. 10 May 2010: Yuk! Sorry, drunk or not, that is unacceptable behavior for a married person to do. Being drunk is no excuse.
I'm sorry.... (read in full...)
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