How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!
Q. My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...
A. 1 December 2011: thank you for the update.
I'm sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted it to, but it's good to see that you have taken it in strides and are working to move on.
As much as it sucks to know that the marriage failed, sometimes it's just not me... (read in full...)
Girls, what does it mean when my wife takes her sexiest panties for a girls weekend?
Q. My wife recently went for a weekend girls trip to Atlantic City. Her girlfriend is recently divorced and is on sort of a sexual rampage, where she has had sex with lots of men in what I would consider immoral circumstances (married guys, MMF, ...
A. 18 August 2010: THAT is great news! Sometimes the simplest little things can make a big difference I guess that is why :
Do onto others.... Or Karma.. have been around for so long :)
Marriage is not a give & take - it's a share and receive ;) ... (read in full...)
Is it disrespectful for him to ask me to sauna with his friends 3 hours after meeting him?
Q. i wanted to know if its disrespectful when you just met a guy gave him your number then 3 hrs later his calling you asking you if i wanna go sauna with him and his friends?? ...
A. 18 July 2010: Well now you know.. He was a loser trying to get into your pants..
Buh Bye to him! Be glad you ducked that bullet.
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Is it disrespectful for him to ask me to sauna with his friends 3 hours after meeting him?
Q. i wanted to know if its disrespectful when you just met a guy gave him your number then 3 hrs later his calling you asking you if i wanna go sauna with him and his friends?? ...
A. 18 July 2010: I don't know if it is disrespectful, but I think its' a little creepy, UNLESS the sauna was something you two had talked about previously.
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Is it weird to be a virgin at 24?
Q. I haven't found a girl yet. I could if I wanted to. In college I had some chicks reject me. I could have gone for girls that I wasn't interested in. I could have hooked up with them, but I didn't. But now I'm 24, and haven't had sex. I'm ...
A. 18 July 2010: Nope it's not WEIRD to be a virgin at 24. It may be a little uncommon, but really who wants to be common?... (read in full...)
Why would he send me nude pictures of himself?
Q. This guy i like knows i like him and he likes me and wants me to be his gf, i have told him i am ok with being his friend soi giess he is ok with it since we still text, but just recently he ignored more for a week and i texted but no response, then ...
A. 17 July 2010: I guess he is being up front. He sends you nude pictures in hope of you returning the favor.
I don't think this guy is looking for a Girlfriend or even a friend.. unless you come with benefits.
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Were you a virgin when you met the person you are married to?
Q. Were you a virgin when you met the person you are married to? Were they a virgin? Were you a giving oral virgin? Were you a recievimg oral virgin?...
A. 17 July 2010: Nope,
Nope,
Nope, and
Nope.
Didn't marry til I was 28.... (read in full...)
Parents and girls...
Q. I live in Germany and my parents want me to have a German girl friend cause i moved from the states in august and my German isn't that good and had a hard time in school. The only problem is that the German girl are very pretty but smoke and that ...
A. 17 July 2010: I would ask your parents for the German/English teaching tool, Rosetta Stone and learn German that way. ;)
You can always make friend with Germany girls/guys to practise your language skills but.. as far as WHO you should be dating, I think th... (read in full...)
How should I react to his text?
Q. I broke my phone this week and unfortunately I lost quite a few numbers on it. I text my husband's friend and asked him to text me a one word answer just to confirm I had got his correct mobile number. We get on well and we have a laugh together but ...
A. 17 July 2010: I would ignore it and move on. Most likely it was done with a sense of humor. I wouldn't read more into it then that. personally.
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Help! I'm disgusted with myself!
Q. Hey everyone! Ok so I met this guy at a mall and we got talkin,and that went on for a few days after which we exchanged numbers..so he asked me out on a date he really liked me..and then we went out had dinner it was fun,he dint want to drop me back ...
A. 17 July 2010: So first of DID you have a BF at the time or was that your "excuse" to not go any further?
If you do/did have a BF you need to stop yourself from exchanging numbers, be upfront right of the bat that you are in a relationship. Then not go out on d... (read in full...)
I'm not happy in my marriage!
Q. I am living in an unhappy marriage. We have been married for 10 years and have a beautiful little boy, who was born just before we got married. I guess my unhappiness began a couple of years after we got married. I was finishing school and he was ...
A. 17 July 2010: Tell him how you feel.
I think it's one of those times where you will have to sit down and figure out what YOU want and then go for it.
Is there any way he can get a change in work hours? Work days instead or at least get some day, some n... (read in full...)
My friend said he's just using me for sex!!!
Q. i've been having a fling with a guy for 3 months, I've grown strong feelings for him, i think about him day an night, he says im too emotional and he dont do emotional talk. once he told my friend all he wanted from me is sex and im not getting ...
A. 16 July 2010: You are mistaken being USED for being NEEDED or LOVED. He is USING you. And he is being straight forward about it.
This is not a relationship, you are his "fuck-buddy" his toy, that he wishes had a mute button. Other then the sex, there is nothi... (read in full...)
How do I give off signals to make women stay away?
Q. I would appreciate it if someone could give me some sound advice here. I am in a difficult situation, and I want to make women stay away from me (sexually) because I am scared that if I meet a lovely woman, she might pressure me into starting a ...
A. 16 July 2010: Be honest. If you get hit on by a women tell her, no thanks. Some women will see it as a challenge though..
Good luck, ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and think my guy might be having sex with other men!
Q. Im really stuck in a rut and have no idea what to do. First off i am seven months pregnant with my first child, also in been in a relationship with my partner for a year and a half, there was a time when he loved me so much, but since falling ...
A. 16 July 2010: I agree with *sexlessintheuk* I don't think he is having gay sex either.
I think he is stressed about the future.... (read in full...)
This sounds like borderline prostitution to me!
Q. I recently found out my girlfriend did sexual favors for a mechanic who worked on her car. This incident(s) happened after we met, but when we were friends and before we got romantically involved. When I first met her, this guy was texting her all ...
A. 16 July 2010: I would doubt her set of morals. And yes, I agree that they are still in contact of some sort.
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We had a quickie and now he acts differently to me!
Q. I have a friend. Last week our playful wrestling got the best of us and we ended up having a quickie, because we were in a public place and in danger of getting caught... It was really nice and there has been no awkwardness, since the incident...
A. 16 July 2010: How about YOU ask him out? TELL him you would like a repeat performance or 100...?
Of couse he doesn't like your dates. He may be a little shy, but I DO think he likes you.... (read in full...)
Girls, what does it mean when my wife takes her sexiest panties for a girls weekend?
Q. My wife recently went for a weekend girls trip to Atlantic City. Her girlfriend is recently divorced and is on sort of a sexual rampage, where she has had sex with lots of men in what I would consider immoral circumstances (married guys, MMF, ...
A. 16 July 2010: You can wear a sweat suit with sexy panties. It's not always because you want a guy to SEE your panties, wearing them and knowing can be quite a "high".
I don't think your wife would cheat on you, just because her BFF is on a sexual rampage,... (read in full...)
Sex while swimming! Could I be pregnant?
Q. Okay, So I had sex with my boyfriend while we were swimming. im on the pill i take it everyday at 9 sometimes 10 if i forget. we had sex 2 0r 3 days after i missed a pill due to the drug store closing. he pulled out before he came like i said we ...
A. 16 July 2010: You CAN get pregnant in the ocean, in a pool and YES, even in a hot tub. Chances are lower but it can happen.
STOP having sex if you know you have a gap in your birth control pill routine or at least do it on dry land with a condom on...
Good... (read in full...)
Why do you men act like this the morning after?
Q. I am so sad. This is what happened yesterday. I am traveling now, in a small town, where i only know one person. He took me out to this upscale place. We are just friends, i know him for 15 years, so when we are out we can do whatever we want. ...
A. 16 July 2010: I'm assuming he thought all you wanted was a roll in the hay, maybe he is not equipped for a sober conversation. Some dude just don't like to chat/talk in the morning. Or.. he figured WHY pretend it was more then it was?
I don't know why it bothe... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my husband leave me alone about smoking?
Q. I'm a smoker, and my husband doesn't like it. I don't understand why he thinks he is allowed to tell me what I can can't do. He said he likes it better when I hide it from him, but I don't see the point in having something so stupid be kept a ...
A. 16 July 2010:
I'm guessing that he wants you to stick around longer. He wants you to quit and I guess his method of convincing you is by nagging.
I can't see why you have to "pretend" to hide that you smoke, since he obviously know.
Good luck,
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What should I do if my partner is lying to me about guys she is seeing when I am not around?
Q. What should I do if my partner is lying to me about guys she is seeing when I am not around? I am either at work or in the evenings she will stay out late some nights. We know each other very well and have spoken about this but with no solution. ...
A. 16 July 2010: Seems like she doesn't really want you in her life.
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My daughter's lie about her dad raping her broke up our marriage...
Q. Please help me on this.... How can you get your family back on track when a lie so big destroyed it. It started on 7/7/09. I've been with this man since I was 18 at that time I had 2 kids and later found out I was pregnant but not from him with my ...
A. 16 July 2010: Sorry I miss-read the story.
First off, I think as a mother you did the right thing. You BELIEVED your child, you took her to the hospital, you files a report. Any good parent would do that.
Yes, I feel bad, horrible for your husband. To be ... (read in full...)
Should I feed neighbor's baby, I am lactating??
Q. hello reaers i am lactating, so my neighbours left their baby to me to look after for 4 hours,bcos they were going for a movie, she told me to feed if needed, my neighbour knew i am producing milk, i would like to know whether i can feed my breas mi...
A. 15 July 2010: Your neighbor should PROVIDE you with formula or pre-pumped breatmilk for you to feed the child.
But, I guess it is up to you and the parents of the child.
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My best friend's bf kissed me plus, what should I do now??
Q. My bestfriend and I were supposed to hangout. It was gonna be her and her boyfriend me and my friend Brent. Her boyfriend was driving us. Both Brent and my bff had to cancel to do something else so me and her bf decided to just go hang at the mall ...
A. 15 July 2010: Well there goes that friendship!
I know some impulses can be hard to control, but really. You need to realize that EVERY action has a reaction.
She will find out. One way or another.
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I like him but I think he smokes pot
Q. I really like this guy but I think he smokes pot and what if I go back out with him and kiss him some day what should I do?...
A. 15 July 2010: Sounds like a future loser, sorry.... (read in full...)
How do I let my suitors down gently?
Q. I have two guys in love with me, three who really like me, and five I "talk" to. I'm sleeping with ONE. No matter what I refuse to sleep around. But, here's the thing, I'm hurting the two who claim to love me. They're very nice, I consider them ...
A. 15 July 2010:
Honesty is the best policy.
Tell the two guys you are stringing along that you have a BF and can not/will not be dating anyone else.
I have always had guy friends, but it was a RULE that I never dated/slept with any of them.
Don't flirt... (read in full...)
What do girls prefer?
Q. what does a girl prefer? to be honest, i'm going into college with absolutely no experience with girls. the most i've done is kiss/made out with a girl. i want to go farther, but i'm scared of what a girl may think of my "down under". do girls pr...
A. 15 July 2010: I really thinks it comes down to the individual girl.
A little trimming & manscaping is fine. Totally shaved I find a total turn off.. Like little boys *eww* And it takes a LOT of upkeep.
But if you ask someone else you will get a different ... (read in full...)
Is squirting is normal?
Q. so i lack of sex with hubby, and i use a dildo. Today i have used my dildo and for the very first time i have had a orgasm squirt, is that normal, is guys attracted to females squirting, where does it come from and what is it. How can you squirt?...
A. 15 July 2010: USE GOOGLE! ... (read in full...)
I blocked him because it hurt too much to see him moving on with his life, but why has he now blocked me?
Q. On facebook, i block stuff off so I couldn't see updates about my ex. For the time being, it hurts too much to see him moving on with his life. I recently created an event of me going and clubbing and partying with friends, and i guess he saw it, ...
A. 15 July 2010: It's Facebook. Get over it. Delete him so you can't see what he does on the Internet.
If you want to get over him, do so. Don't dwell on what he does or why.
Ex's rarely makes good friends. Set him free. Live life.... (read in full...)
I use the morning after pill instead of contraception after sex, is this going to affect me in the future?
Q. Dear aunts..im in a LRR, but i see my boyfriend 2 or 3 times a month.we dont use a condom.i use morning after pils.my question is: are they not gonna affect me when the time of having babies has arived,like by 'washing away the sperm' ? Do y...
A. 15 July 2010: YOU need to go see a doctor. YOU also need to get on birth control pills/patch. OR stop having sex.
EDUCATE yourself. USE condoms as well as BC pills.
If you can not take/use contraception more serious then you do, stop having sex and please d... (read in full...)
Why do nice guys end up last?
Q. Hello ladies, I have a really deep question which I'm having trouble getting the answers. I'm currently 26, and I've had over 30 Relationships failed, I never gave up but I keep asking myself why. My friend (who is a gal) says that I'm "Too Nice", ...
A. 15 July 2010: Maybe... Just maybe it's not you? It's the women you tend to hook up with? Maybe the type you are unconsciously drawn too are the women who rather date a jerk?
Get back on that horse.... (read in full...)
12 years and 4 kids.. now how did I go from the wife to the mistress?
Q. 12 years and 4 kids.. now how did I go from the wife to the mistress. We broke up 6 months ago due to him cheating with this 20 year female and now as we supposed to be trying to work things out he has moved her in with him. Now we took a step back ...
A. 15 July 2010: Why should he choose to do anything? Even mend the broken marriage? He's got you to take care of his kids and whatnot and a 20 year old GF, who he doesn't have to pretend he will ever marry.. Since you, the "evil" wife will not give him a divorce.. ... (read in full...)
My daughter's lie about her dad raping her broke up our marriage...
Q. Please help me on this.... How can you get your family back on track when a lie so big destroyed it. It started on 7/7/09. I've been with this man since I was 18 at that time I had 2 kids and later found out I was pregnant but not from him with my ...
A. 15 July 2010: A two year old said her Daddy raped her? Where did she get those words from? My kids were pretty well-spoken from an early age, but NONE of them would have words like RAPE or SEX in their vocabulary age age 2.
Something is totally OFF here.... (read in full...)
LDR things are getting weird and I'm not sure where to go with it
Q. so i met this really cute guy on a dating site and he came to where i live, which is like 2 hrs away from where he lives, 2 days after we started talking. the first date went great. we kept talking constantly sometimes until about 4 o clock in the ...
A. 15 July 2010: If you think he is a keeper I would talk to him. Or write him a long e-mail. As long as you don't do it in a accusatory way (as in,, you do this wrong and this wrong, know what I mean?)
He's got a pretty trying job, that is another thing you have... (read in full...)
How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!
Q. My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...
A. 15 July 2010: I'm sorry I think she's been wanting out for a long time and didn't know how or when to tell you. So she used the excuse of being unemployed to move home. To start over.
As someone who had to give up more or less, my entire life for my husband ... (read in full...)
Crush on older woman
Q. i have had a crush on a woman that is almost 16 years older than me for the last 4 and a half years and she barely knows i exist any suggestions on how to get her out of my mind ...
A. 15 July 2010: Meet some girls or A girl your own age. You will soon forget your crush :)
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Oral sex and contraception.....
Q. Can a guy/man go down on me when I use a sponge contraceptive in? ...
A. 15 July 2010: I'm pretty sure he can, but if you think it may lessen the effectiveness I would ask your doctor. ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep bleeding after sexual intercourse ?
Q. hello , imm 15 years old and i had sexual intercourse with my boyfriend for the first timee , my boyfriend fingered me couple times and everything was alright , thann about 2 weeks ago he fingered me again and i started bleeding , we thought it was ...
A. 15 July 2010: I think you need to see a GYNOCOLOGIST and get on birth control first of all. Then you BF needs to keep dirty finger and sharp/chipped nails out of your vagina.
Most girls don't bleed a whole lot if at all when they "pop" the hymen as you call it.... (read in full...)
I still love my ex-boyfriend, and my current boyfriend keeps pressuring me for sex!
Q. ok so i really dont know what to do and i really need help. I had a bf before whose my ex taht i really still care for kinda care for and im kinda guy crazy. my ex is extremely sweet. not sex crazy like the guys now a days.hes respectful of my body ...
A. 15 July 2010: Wow. That just gave me a head ache reading.
Girl, dump your NOW BF. Take some time to get over the ex. If you don't want sex or be touched say no and mean it. Don't let any guy pressure you into anything you don't want to do.
Use Spell Che... (read in full...)
Does he hate me or does he like me?
Q. I was staying with my cousin but he would totally ignore me. The only time he didn't ignore me was when I was next to him or when we were alone. It seemed like he liked me but it also seemed like we were cousins. He would drink from my pop so would ...
A. 15 July 2010: He is young, his hormones are whack. I doubt he hates you, most likely he is like most other males at that age.. FACINATED with girls. Be it a cousin or not.
I'm pretty sure his most coherent words in his minds are O.o Boobies..
He seems like... (read in full...)
No response to my text -- should I go back to where she works?
Q. Hey aunts and uncles, So I met this girl one night at her work place (a pub, so i know where she works and what time this week) and we decided to hangout the next day as causal friends at the beach. She gave me her number on a piece of paper (i...
A. 15 July 2010: Could be she saw your number when you texted her, but she wasn't sure who you were and didn't reply?
Or... she gave you a fake number..
If you know where she works, you could show up and talk to her some more, if she seems distant or don't... (read in full...)
I don't know how our relationship can succeed?
Q. I'm with a guy that i known for a year and some months. When ever we aren't talking through webcamming (because he lives in another state, 10 years older than me, and we neva met physically except through the internet and webcam)I feel like our ...
A. 15 July 2010: I'm sorry you are in this mess and I hope you don't mind me being totally honest with you.
If you are in your early 20's and he is in his 30's he should have his SHIT together by now. If he doesn't he may never have it.
Having a virtual relati... (read in full...)
PLEASE HELP - I'm jealous and I shouldn't be!
Q. My wife and I have been together for 7 years and married for 2. A year or so before we got married we broke up for 6 months and ended up getting back together. Everything was going well (leading up to the wedding) and then she told me th...
A. 15 July 2010: Wow TOTAL NO-NO! Why are you letting her emotionally BLACKMAIL you?
When you guys broke up was it because you cheated and THIS is her way of getting "even"?
I'd be packing her bags and put then on the front lawn.
Good luck,
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How do I keep my man hard enough for penetration?
Q. Hi, just wondering if any woman or guy could help me with this... Im in a relationship now with a guy for nearly a year now, who i love very much. He's great fun outgoing and treats me perfectly..except in the bedroom. I get turned on by being with ...
A. 15 July 2010: Try having him wear two condoms, it seriously cut out the sensation and for guys what aren't GREAT at staying hard it can be helpful. Sounds silly, but it does work.
Cock rings can do the same.
It can be something like performance anxi... (read in full...)
LDR things are getting weird and I'm not sure where to go with it
Q. so i met this really cute guy on a dating site and he came to where i live, which is like 2 hrs away from where he lives, 2 days after we started talking. the first date went great. we kept talking constantly sometimes until about 4 o clock in the ...
A. 15 July 2010: Maybe this whole LDR is not for you? How much do you know about this guy? His job, his family and so forth?
LDR are hard hard work and you need to have decent communication and a whole lot of trust.
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