My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 23 July 2010: Of course there is a difference. But it's still something absolutely pointless. You can not go back in time and give her a good childhood or take her off the streets.
It's obviously something that nags you a lot. I'm just saying YOU need to find ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 23 July 2010: You don't sound snarky.. But the fact that you MARRIED her knowing she had a rough childhood and you HAVE BEEN married to her for 20+ years and NOW POP out of the blue (well maybe not totally out of the blue) pops all these thought of her past from ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 22 July 2010: Good luck. I hope you still see the counselor and deal with some of your issues, regardless.
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My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 20 July 2010: OP, I know you didn't want it to happen, I'm not suggesting you just pulled it out of a hat for the fun of it.
But this is mainly about YOU, not her. There is a reason why all this is resurfacing so many years after the fact. Think about it. Eith... (read in full...)
Could this be breast cancer?
Q. i recently had a lump in my cheast. Usually this indecates breast cancer :(.. i havent seen my doctor yet becacause of my insurance. However the lump has faded and gone away.Looking at information on the internet the lumps from breat cancer ...
A. 20 July 2010: It can easily be harmless, still go see your doctor.
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He led me to believe he was someone else and now we are married he has shown his true colours, am I being too harsh or should I get a divorce?
Q. Me and my husband chose to date for a year before getting married, and we did not live together previously. Now we all know with every relationship comes baggage, but Ive been married before, and outside of that, I was in another long 8 year ...
A. 20 July 2010: I think you jumped into that marriage with your eyes closed. You saw what you wanted to see.
You could have paid $14.99 and gotten a back ground check on him, before getting married.
I don't blame you though, don't get me wrong. I would g... (read in full...)
Is there any way for me to make it taste better when she goes down on me?
Q. Hi, I've been with my girlfriend 9 months and she will not let me cum during oral - the slightest taste of pre-cum and she makes me put something on. It really annoys me as I regularly spend 30 plus minutes going down on her before sex, as she love...
A. 20 July 2010: Eating fruits such as papaya, mango, pineapple (no citrus fruits) for breakfast can make a big difference in the "flavor".
Quitting coffee, cigarettes, alcohol and pork/red meat as well.
If you eat the fruits ( maybe 3-4 serving with you... (read in full...)
How can I bring back my interest in sex?
Q. Hi there, I am currently in a very serious relationship with my fiance who i have been seeing for 6 years. We have a little girl of 2 years. Lately, within the last 6 months i have had no desire to want sex (at all). I had the mirena coil put ...
A. 20 July 2010: I read that a sex therepist said to women with low libido to have sex EVERY day for 30 days straight.
And I agree it can definently be the Mirena coil.
And your partner is NOT as OK with it as he claims, he jsut doesn't want to put pressure ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 20 July 2010: You really need to quit dragging up more dirt to trow at your wife. To me it seems like you are not happy with yourself, your life and your marriage, but you put the blame on your wife and her past..
Let me quote you:
*I was buying a home at the ... (read in full...)
I feel betrayed by what I thought was my good catholic wife!
Q. I recently went to my wifes 20th high school reunion. I was ok with the fact that some of my wife's ex-boyfriends were there and unfortunately I personally know them all. My problem began when i read the last wills and tenaments from their senior ...
A. 19 July 2010: Honestly, stop living in the past, this happened 20 years ago.
You already knew she wasn't a virgin, and now you know she wasn't a saint either...
Live in the now. ... (read in full...)
I find this strange but also erotic what should I do?
Q. my sister moved back to my house, not working just lazing around the house. she loves watching porno, we don't have any kids, but sometimes i come home from work early and she is masterbating. I find this strange but also erotic. what should I ...
A. 19 July 2010: I think it's the taboo that gets your blood going not so much who is doing what.
If you don't like it.. tell her to keep her "fiddling" to her room.
I'm assuming she is a grown up like yourself, so she should understand the general idea of ... (read in full...)
How do I keep track of my period?
Q. I had my last period on June.24 or 25 .. Ended in about a week .. Anyways when will I get my next period .. I don't keep track so I'm going to starts doing that now :)...
A. 19 July 2010: How long your period lasts, how many days in between varies from woman to woman, the only way to get a fairly clear picture is to write it down and see.
Here is a great website for you to check out:)
http://www.be... (read in full...)
Help! The condom split!!! Could I be pregnant?
Q. Basically, me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 months had sex last week when the condom split, even though im on the pill im still worried i could be pregnant?!?! I know what your all say that if i've been using the pill properly it wont happen, but.... ...
A. 19 July 2010: Keep using two types of birth control. They can both still fail, chances are they won't at the same time.
It's nice to see someone of the posters age group taking ACTIVE initiative to avoid pregnancy and STD's.
And No. if you are clean you wi... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex in the bathroom??
Q. ok so me and my bofriend want to have sex.......but the thing is hes not a virgin and i am.......he wants to do it in the bathroom and idk if i could do it in the bathroom.........and idk if i want to do it with him or not.......how would we do it ...
A. 19 July 2010: I wouldn't want to have my first time in a bathroom either, if he doesn't get that, he isn't the one to do it with.
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Is it better to have someone perfect who feels "wrong" or someone imperfect who feels "right?"
Q. what would you rather have: someone who satisfies and anticipates your every need, but feels "wrong" or someone who makes mistakes and is oblivious to your wants, but feels "right"?...
A. 19 July 2010: No one is perfect:)
It all depends on what YOU want out of the relationship and how well you are matched.
I would say neither. None of them are "right" in any way form or shape!
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He proposed!! Do I share the excitment??
Q. My now fiance just proposed, he is in basic training so he did it over the phone, he told me to pick out three rings and he wants to choose one and ask again when he get back. Is it wrong to say we are engaged? He said that that was him proposin...
A. 19 July 2010: I don't think he will be mad:) It's something that would be hard to keep to yourself isn't it? You kind of want the world to know :)
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He proposed!! Do I share the excitment??
Q. My now fiance just proposed, he is in basic training so he did it over the phone, he told me to pick out three rings and he wants to choose one and ask again when he get back. Is it wrong to say we are engaged? He said that that was him proposin...
A. 18 July 2010: I would wait for him to finish Basics pick out the ring and properly propose, that way you guys can tell family and friends together, before you all have to ship off to his first duty station.
^Congratulations^... (read in full...)
I got my teacher pregnant, now she won't talk to me!
Q. UH Hi. Its been awhile since I've asked a question but here goes. The woman I was with last year was a FORMER teacher of mine and we were hiding our relationship because we didnt want to deal with anything that might damage her career. Well the ...
A. 18 July 2010: What kind of support does she expect from you? Does she wants you to drop your schooling and get a full time job to financially support her or does she want you to put in as much time as she does?
Taking care of the home, the baby.... It's a l... (read in full...)
I know he cares about me... so why is he still with his stupid horrible girlfriend???
Q. Dear Cupid, i have a big situation on my hands. There's this guy who i've been hanging out with A LOT and I started developing feelings for him but the thing that sucks is that he has a gf. She shows him no type of respect and over all she's not ...
A. 18 July 2010: You are delusional if you think this guy is a good faithful guy. No matter how horrible his current GF is, matter of a fact is, he is currently dating HER and CHEATING on her with you. That means he is no where faithful.
If his GF is so horrible... (read in full...)
Help! The condom split!!! Could I be pregnant?
Q. Basically, me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 months had sex last week when the condom split, even though im on the pill im still worried i could be pregnant?!?! I know what your all say that if i've been using the pill properly it wont happen, but.... ...
A. 18 July 2010: Only one way to tell - none of us here have a magic 8 ball to check on your cycle.. so take a pregnancy test if your period doesn't start as it should, just be aware that it may be a little out of sync of you took the pill during the time where you ... (read in full...)
Why does my fiance' treat me like crap when he doesn't get any sex?
Q. Why does my fiance' treat me like crap when he doesn't get any sex? We have been together since December of 2008, (it's now july 2010), and lately his attutude towards me when he doesn't get any is ridiculous. He makes me feel like I'm worthle...
A. 18 July 2010: It's OK for a women not to want sex, as it is OK for for a women to want sex - Same with guys. Sometimes in a relationship you both don't feel like having sex at the same time, if he can't respect that, he doesn't respect you.
But.. playing ... (read in full...)
Does cybersex equal cheating?
Q. hi, well im in a complicated situation right now. I have a boyfriend we've been together for longer than 6 months. I love him like i never thought i would love someone, he loves me really much (i know that)but the thing is... ive been lately sexu...
A. 18 July 2010: Yes, it's called emotional cheating. Consider this, for most women cheating is ANYTHING you could not do with your significant other looking over your shoulder...
So... ask yourself this: are you cheating or not?
You Said it yourself, YOU wo... (read in full...)
Regretting an awkward text!
Q. Hello, right, I recently came out of a rather abusive long term relationship. Just as the end (a few months ago) I met a man who I have now met up with a few times. He has textedit me every at since we met and has always seemed keen, sometime...
A. 18 July 2010: I wouldn't text him again. And I would quit "drunk-texting" from now on ;) It always ends up awkward.... (read in full...)
His ex-girlfriend won't let him go!
Q. i am looking for some advice. my fiancee has this ex-girlfriend who won't let him go. i have found notes that she has written him and they make me feel uncomfortable. i have talked to him about this and he swears up and down that he doesn't ...
A. 18 July 2010: Yuck to crazy ex's... Wish they would all just take a one way cuise to Mars.
Be honest with him, tell him how those letters make you feel. If he is engaged to you, you have the right to assume he is over her, which mean cutting contact with her... (read in full...)
I'm in love with him, but he's still with his girlfriend!
Q. im in love with my boyfriend but he still has a girlfriend i knew he had a girlfriend before we got together but i let my feelings get the best of me and started going out with him anyway.. he tells me he's not happy with her anymore and what they ...
A. 18 July 2010: You are "the Other Women" not the girlfriend. Obviously the guy has no morals and no problem stringing along two girls...
He isn't going to dump her and be your man or he would a long time ago. And ... have you considered that IF he does leave he... (read in full...)
What does "its nice" mean?
Q. OK, so when I'm out among (good) friends, and the women talk, and they happen to talk about lovers, the phrase "he has a nice cock" often pops up. Never "he has a big cock" or "he has a wide one"or whatever. So what the hell is a "nice" cock, ...
A. 18 July 2010: Nice is nice. ^shrug^ Maybe the speaker didn't want to go into further details.
I guess you could compare it to a guy saying: : "She's got a NICE rack"..
I think someone been watching too much Sex And the City.
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I regret not giving him my virginity. We broke up so how can I get him back?
Q. My boyfriend has left me for another girl, as i did not satisfy him sexually. We have been together for 9 months and all i have given him was 2 blow jobs which i did reluctantly. His last attempt to have sex with me was rejected by me. Thereafter he ...
A. 18 July 2010: He wanted sex - you wanted a relationship..
Face the facts, honey.
Move on and find a guy who wants ALL of you, not just to get into your pants.
Having sex with someone doesn't always mean you LOVE them. It doesn't mean that they will LOVE... (read in full...)
Having his baby and he don't love me... how do I get over him?
Q. I'm 14 years old and I'm pregnant by my ex boyfiend and he's made it clear he dont have any feelings for me, I'm really in love with him. I wanna get over him and I'm not quite sure how to get over him if he is gonna be in my life now that the baby ...
A. 18 July 2010: Concentrate on you and the baby, for now he is just not important.
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Do women feel sexier when they are a bit chubby?
Q. I have to be honest. I find women cuter when they are carrying a bit of weight (as long as they are not huge). But I want to know how women feel? Do they feel embarrassed if they are a bit overweight or do they feel sexier? Or would they prefer to ...
A. 18 July 2010:
I think it's something you can't really generalize about.I guess it depends on the individual woman.
If you grow up skinny and then later gains weight, you might not be as confident with the few extra pounds/kilo.
Some women are comfortabl... (read in full...)
Why he left our friendship for his girlfriend's selfish insecurities?
Q. Just as I was having the most spectacular day, my friend (guy) MSN's me saying we can no longer interact over MSN and of course, that ruined my day. I didn't want to get emotional over It 'cause I knew that wouldn't change anything. I kept needling ...
A. 18 July 2010: Obviously the girlfriend are having insecurities about him & you.
Sometimes those friends of the opposite sex are not "just" friends, they want more then friendship. Other times they know more about the relationship and the trouble then the GF. ... (read in full...)
Do most girls shave down there? And how do you do it anyway?
Q. do most girls shave down there? do guys like shaved or hairy or trimmed? how do you shave it, dont the hairs get caught in the shaver?...
A. 18 July 2010: I don't think a 13-15 year old girl need to shave it all off.
IT is a LOT of work to maintain. Once you start shaving it is very easy to get ingrown hairs, if not done correctly or with a blunt razor - ingrown hairs in that area is not comforta... (read in full...)
Girl question but guys can respond too!
Q. I have a scar that was caused from a bullies incident and I'm wondering if girls find any scar attractive or is it something they don't like?...
A. 18 July 2010: If she can't see past the scar and see you, she isn't worth a darn.
Scars are a part of you. There is a story behind every single scar.
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Did I sexually assault someone?
Q. Hey Everyone. Sorry that this is so long, but it’s been bothering me and I have to get it off my chest, and see what people’s opinions are so hopefully I can put my mind to rest. Here is my story as I best remember it and as truthfully as possible. ...
A. 18 July 2010: No I don't think I would call it sexual assault either. She may not have wanted a kiss and a hand on her ass, but unless she was passed out drunk, she could have told you to buzz off, slap your or just a simple no, frig off.
Stop beating yourself... (read in full...)
It’s so unfair that this slag can just move on with her life and I’m left to pick up the pieces of this damaged relationship.
Q. I just really have to get this out of me or else it's going to drive me crazy. I don't expect any helpful advice, as right now I don't feel like I deserve anything like that.. I just need to vent this. Last year I volunteered to work on an excit...
A. 18 July 2010: I think you are doing the "typical" thing. You are wasting energy being mad at her, for things you are really mad at yourself for. She pulled a fast one on you.
You fell for her BS, you didn't trust your man. Truth to be told most women would ha... (read in full...)
I'm growing bored of my boyfriend...
Q. I've been dating my bf for 2 years now. I've grown bored of him. I had an emotional affair for 4 months, but ended it when I decided I wanted to stay loyal to my bf. I've tried to rekindle the romance, I've tried special dates, new activities, ...
A. 18 July 2010: Let him go, he deserves a girl who treats him right, doesn't cheat and makes him happy...
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What I told my teacher was totally confidential. Is she allowed to tell anyone?
Q. okay this is more just about me getting closure but im fourteen and i got pregnant when i was thirteen, the day after my fourteenth birthday i told a teacher at my school that im close to and she tried to convince me to get an abortion but i said ...
A. 18 July 2010: I think you should LISTEN to your teacher and talk to your mom. If it will make it easier ask your teacher to be there with you.
I'm sorry you are in this situation at such a tender young age.
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How can I talk to my doctor about this when he's male?
Q. Hi there, this is a pretty personal question and i am a tad bit embarrassed although it must be addressed. my husband and i have been together for 6 years, and up until about a year ago i used to like intercourse to be deep and rough. we experi...
A. 18 July 2010: He won't judge you. And I'm pretty sure he's heard/seen many stories that would make you blush. Write them down ( the questions) it might make it easier as well.
If you eel uncomfortable look around for a female GYN, make an appointment and talk... (read in full...)
Condoms! We don't use them, why do you have them?
Q. Serious problem! I've been in a relationship with my guyfriend for the last three years, and during this time we have never used condoms during intimacy. A couple of weeks ago, I discovered condoms in his nightstand, and he hurriedly rushed over ...
A. 18 July 2010: Eh! Sounds awfully fishy to me. First it's old condoms then it's a "friend" who screws him mistress in the BED you two sleep in? Can you say EWWW?
Something is very off.
What does your gut instinct tell you?
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Is it disrespectful for him to ask me to sauna with his friends 3 hours after meeting him?
Q. i wanted to know if its disrespectful when you just met a guy gave him your number then 3 hrs later his calling you asking you if i wanna go sauna with him and his friends?? ...
A. 18 July 2010: Well now you know.. He was a loser trying to get into your pants..
Buh Bye to him! Be glad you ducked that bullet.
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After I deleted his facebook post he won't talk to me!
Q. I met a guy about a month ago at a club in my hometown and we really hit it off. I liked him, but he was way more into me than I was into him. Since he lives about 6 hours away, we would mostly text/im each other. He came down again to my hometown ...
A. 18 July 2010: I would send him an e-mail explaining why you deleted the post and see where the leads, since he won't pick up the phone.
Good luck, and I suggest you two deal with stuff over the phone and of the Internet if you don't want your business out ther... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 18 July 2010: If she WAS a prostitute at 14 I can understand why she is hiding it. I'm pretty sure is was a rough horrible time in er life that she doesn't want to re-visit.
Yes, it would be nice if she could own up to it and be honest, maybe it's just too... (read in full...)
I think my husband might be gay?
Q. Is my man gay? When I asked him on a scale of 1 to a 10 how good looking is you male friend, his answer was a 20!!! Is my husband gay?...
A. 18 July 2010: Was the guy hot? Either your husband wanted to end the discussion or ha thought the guy was/is good looking. Doesn't make him gay.
I think Heather Graham, Hally Berry or Angelina Jolie, just to name a few, are a 20 on a scale from 1-10. And I'm ... (read in full...)
How do I get my wife to stop using her teeth during oral sex?
Q. How do i get my wife to stop using her teeth during oral sex? There are times when it is amazing and she doesn't use them but then there are times she does. We always have told each other what feels good. Sometimes i feel bad when i tell her it ...
A. 18 July 2010: Buy her the book:
HOW to tickle his Pickle, by Sadie Allison. Very great book in learning a quite a few good tricks. And most of all have fun with it, she isn't going to bite your wiener off.. ... (read in full...)
It bugs the crap out of me that he blocked me on Facebook!
Q. He was flirting and I knew he didn't want anything serious but he freaked out as he got closer to me and blocked me off, changing his status to "having no regrets" I found out from a friend in class who was one of the ppl who noticed how he paid ...
A. 18 July 2010: Get over it. It's the Internet. Why people don't live in the "real" world more and forget about all that Facebook/Myspace drama is beyond me.
I doubt he hates you. Maybe he just doesn't want you on his page. *shrug*
If you see him talk to him.... (read in full...)
Is it disrespectful for him to ask me to sauna with his friends 3 hours after meeting him?
Q. i wanted to know if its disrespectful when you just met a guy gave him your number then 3 hrs later his calling you asking you if i wanna go sauna with him and his friends?? ...
A. 18 July 2010: I don't know if it is disrespectful, but I think its' a little creepy, UNLESS the sauna was something you two had talked about previously.
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