Ready to throw in the towel!!
Q. I have known my girlfriend for 15yrs, we have been in a relationship for 6yrs. this month I asked the big question and bought her an engagement ring. My co worker family owns a jewelry store so i bought a second hand ring that has been appraised for ...
A. 26 July 2010: She sounds a little ungrateful. ... (read in full...)
Risk of diseases from anal sex
Q. Hey guys, whats the risk of diseases of doing anal sex? by the way im (13). My boyfriend (16) wants vagina sex but im not ready so we do anal and i want to know what risks there are of doing it? Im also really horney all he time and he wants me ...
A. 26 July 2010: You are 13! You dhouldn't worry about sex at all least of all anal.
Anal sex may make a person more susceptible to bacterial infection around the anus and rectum. This is because the lining of the rectum is not as heavy as the lining of th... (read in full...)
Relationship failing because of my step-son.
Q. I have been dating this guy for four years now. We have a chld together and one on the way. We both had son's before we got together. I have tried to get along with his son, but have found it impossible. His son is a lot older than mine and he is ...
A. 25 July 2010: You need to nip this in the bud! Which mean you need to sit down with your BF and go over what rules you accept and what punishments you will dish out.
Then you need to sit your step-son (and your other children down) and go over the rules. Y... (read in full...)
Does penis size determine if a woman will stay in the relationship?
Q. Is penis size a major deciding factor on if a women will stay in the relationship, or leave?...
A. 25 July 2010: Nope. Unless you are totally unable to perform/pleasure due to the big/small size.... (read in full...)
Can a player change? how do you know if he has?
Q. there is this guy that i really like that i would pretty much do anything for. he has been a player for along as i have known him and has always told me the truth. he says he has changed so i guess my question is how do you know when a player is not ...
A. 25 July 2010: Anyone can change if they truly WANT to.
But in general I would say no, because YOU think YOU can make him change or "fix" him, that is not going to happen.
Find a Guy you don't feel a need to fix in order to have a relationship.
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Ex-boyfriend said eeeew referring to me in a bikini. Do I confront him?
Q. Well, me and my best fried were swimming and having a wonderful time, when my boyfriend texts me I get her phone, because mine was practically dead, and when I get her phone she gets a text message from her boyfriend and he is talking about me, I go ...
A. 25 July 2010: Honey, there are more guys out there then jsut that ONE.. First off I would ignore his comment, but I really wouldn't be chasing after him either.
After you guys broke up HE chose to date your friend and your friend obviously had no scruples... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him to spill his guts like this on a first date?
Q. ok here is the scenario... I met a man online through a dating site and we went to have lunch the first date then bowling the next. On the second date the man spilled his guts to me about his past issues and said he hasn't told anyone about this ...
A. 25 July 2010: I think the guy has read to many books on what women like. Honestly.
Personally, it would make me cringe if someone I barely knew spilled his guts on the second date, on the other hand, now you may have a better view of the guy.
And I agree t... (read in full...)
Why is she so shy about showing physical affection? Our 6-month relationship is in trouble.
Q. My girlfriend of 6 months is everything to me. We quickly fell in love and never looked back and i couldn't be happier. This is until a slight problem i thought was cute at first turned into a real annoyance. You see when we first got together she ...
A. 25 July 2010: I think ( and I know this is hard) that you are going to have to accept that she is shy and need for things to go slow. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you as much as some girl who would be all over you.
What's the rush?
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Nervous about meeting online b/f for first time!
Q. Hi! I live in Washington state and I've been in a LDR for a couple months now with this guy on the east coast. I'm going to visit him in 4 weeks and I'm extra excited! Only thing is, I'm kinda nervous too!! I've been in a couple relationships be...
A. 25 July 2010: How old are you?... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose her but I'm not sure how to keep her?
Q. CAN ANYONE TELL ME WHAT TO DO PLEASE.About four months ago,I met the most wounderfull girl ever,and after not beening in a relationship for four years it was realy great to finialy find happness after so long.I am 46 and she is 38 everything was ...
A. 25 July 2010: Maybe you need to respect her and back up, she clearly need to focus on her health only, mental and otherwise.
I'm sorry.... (read in full...)
I feel I'm being used by my friend but I have no one else!
Q. Hello Everyone, Would be really grateful if you could share some advice! At present I feel like I am being used by my friend although I dont stop hanging out with her because I have noone else. Ive always been the girl who gives so much into a frie...
A. 25 July 2010: Honestly, you are using her as much as she is using you. You just don't see that.
Maybe you need to spread your horizon. Meet new people, get a new hobby, make new friends.
It's not about how many friends you have, it's about the quality of f... (read in full...)
Not sure if I want to get her pregnant, but the clock is ticking
Q. I'm in a real predicament. I am recently divorced, and have a new GF that I am in love with and plan on marrying if all continues to go well. Well, we are middle age (40), and she has never had children and really wants to. So do I, but I also ...
A. 25 July 2010: If you don't want a child now use a condom. Be honest about how you feel, I think you are ABSOLUTELY right in not wanting a child til the two of you feel ready. BOTH OF YOU.
You can't blame it on her and her biological clock, you are LETTING ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for not feeling like I cheated on her??
Q. Me and my girlfriend had been together for 4 years. It was getting to the point in the relationship where I had to decide if I was going to marry this person or not. In thinking about this for a while I became really confused and asked to take a ...
A. 25 July 2010: THIS is why I think taking a "break" from a relationship is pointless.
You didn't "technically" cheat on her. But you DID assume that being on a break means being single and unattached.
I think what is hurting her the most is the speed which ... (read in full...)
I hate my ex-boyfriend's new girlfriend
Q. i hate my ex boyfriends new girlfriend cause she started trouble between us so we dnt talk no more what do i do...
A. 25 July 2010: Move on. Obviously he is insecure and jealous of his ex-gf.
Let it go, he is an ex for a reason.... (read in full...)
Can you have a healthy, committed relationship without sex?
Q. Is it possible to have a healthy, loving, committed relationship without sex? I am 25, and I have had two serious boyfriends -- the longest relationship lasting for a year and a half -- and several shorter relationships. I do not date anyone ...
A. 25 July 2010: If you find someone with the same level of "lack of libido" it might just work fine.
A relationship works be when the two people in it are matched in many ways, specially sexual.
Good luck,... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to kiss me but I'm not ready...
Q. hi, i'm 19 and my girlfriend is 22, and we have been in a relationship for about 6 months. well recently she told me that she wanted to kiss me, now ive never been with anyone before (whereas she has), and i dont feel very confident kissin...
A. 25 July 2010: Are you waiting for the perfect moment? Or do you think the longer you wait the better at kissing you get?
Honestly, no one starts out being great kissers, it's something you can only learn by doing. Like riding a bike.
If you care for h... (read in full...)
Everyone is rude to me!
Q. I live in the Greensboro/High Point area of North Carolina, and I've gotten to the point where I can't stand it. People here are obscenely rude to me on a regular basis, and I don't tolerate it. It happens to me several times a day! For exampl...
A. 25 July 2010: I honestly think people react to the negative energy/vibes you are sending out. You have some high expectations of other "servicing you" - like they were put on Earth to make your life happy.
I think you need to get over that. Also your social s... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin after our messing around session?
Q. Ok ive been trying to find an answer to this but just don't seem to find the right one. Well like 2 days ago my boyfriend and i were just messing around, and well he fingered me and then well it led to another thing. He told me he wanted to just f...
A. 25 July 2010: If the penis entered your vagina you are not a virgin. End of story.
And for crying out loud, PELASE stop trying things like anal when you have no clue what sex really is.... (read in full...)
My wifes was not a virgin how do I get even?
Q. hai, ok my wifes sexual past haunts me. Married 6 years and i am recently just finding out about her.i was a virgin when i married her and when we talked during our dating years she implied that she was pure. I came acros her diary and yes sorry i ...
A. 24 July 2010: I agree with Nightfairy..
WTH do you need to get EVEN with her? If you can not handle that she had a sexual past divorce her.
You do NOT read any one's diary. You know the saying if you listen at the keyhole you are sure to hear something u... (read in full...)
Is my fiance controling, neglectful, abusive, plus more?
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship for about three of the four year relationship. I knew him much longer than we have been together, I would say approximately seven years in total now. He joined the navy about a year after we became a...
A. 24 July 2010: Honey, I read so many red flags that I feel like a bull at the bullfight.
1. No matter how much you love this guy he will not change.
2. You can not fix this guy.
3. He is very controling.
4. He is borderline abusive.
5. He has got anger i... (read in full...)
He DOES want me back. Should I take him back?
Q. I first wrote on here asking for advice on how to handle my boyfriend telling me that he loves and cares about me but isnt in love with me anymore. I got loads of advice telling me that he is unlikely to come back after saying this. Well its a...
A. 24 July 2010: I agree with the other aunties and uncle Ron.
If you DO want to be with him again, TAKE IT VERY SLOW.
Talk to him. He really needs to explain himself.
From what little you have told me it seems like he wants to keep you around til he finds ... (read in full...)
If he really DOES like me then why hasn't he asked me out?
Q. I'm wondering if my male coworker, who's also my friend at work, is interested in me. He always finds a way to touch me, either on my arm, my face, or my leg. He's joked about us getting married a few times, even though he says he's not ready to ...
A. 24 July 2010: He may not be interested. If he is a very out going person, the whole touchy/feely is part of his personality.
Also, dating on the job... not so smart.... (read in full...)
How do I get my mom to understand?!?!?
Q. OK so I'm 13 years old and lots of people say i look way older and there's this guy whos 18, he goes to my church. he is very nice and all we text a bunch....but lately we been txt kinda sexually and well I know it sounds kinda whore-ish but ...
A. 24 July 2010: I think your mom is being smart. A 13 year old and an 18 year old shouldn't be trying to hook up. You are WAY to young, I know that's not what you want to hear.
For you it may have been a bit of fun, but he might actually think it would lead to ... (read in full...)
Condom "popped" could I be pregnant?
Q. Hi im 16 and i think i might be pregnant..i had sex with my boyfriend who is 18 and he did cum inside me a little bit after the condom popped..and now im worried cause im not totally sure yet if im pregnant or not..so my question is how long should ...
A. 24 July 2010: Get yourself on birth control if you are not pregnant and keep using condoms as well.
Being a teen mom is not what it is cracked up to be.
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Ex-boyfriend said eeeew referring to me in a bikini. Do I confront him?
Q. Well, me and my best fried were swimming and having a wonderful time, when my boyfriend texts me I get her phone, because mine was practically dead, and when I get her phone she gets a text message from her boyfriend and he is talking about me, I go ...
A. 24 July 2010: Ignore it, ignore him.
Live life & be happy - WHO CARES what he thinks?
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I believe this married man is attracted to me, too
Q. I am friends with a married man and have been for a couple of years. Our children are friends and we have socialised together once with his family at our place. We were to go to their place for dinner one night, but my friend told me his wife was ...
A. 24 July 2010: I think the wife have a bigger "right" to be concerned. If you are worried I would talk to the wife and ensure her that you are not interested in her husband. And then STICK to it.
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Can I get pregnant from him rubbing his penis on me?
Q. If me and my boyfriend were messing around and he rub his penis on me up around the top of my virgina. Like the skin near my waist, and he didn't cum, and there was barely a trace of precum. Could there be any chance I could get pregnant. Plus I'm ...
A. 24 July 2010: I think you need to read up on reproduction.
Why do you think you could be pregnant?... (read in full...)
Deployed and trying to deal with anger issues
Q. so... I am deployed overseas. and lately I've been having some anger issues that I never had before... I don't like it and i don't know what to do. but i get mad over little things. Its very stressful over here n I don't know what to do! :( I just ...
A. 24 July 2010: Go talk to your Chaplain. I think it's pretty normal to build up a lot of unspoken feelings in a situation like yours.
You need to deal with this and do it now.
Also working out is not a bad idea as well, you can let off some steam.
Deploy... (read in full...)
Could it be that my wife was not a virgin when we married 6 months ago?
Q. Hi, My Name is Premkumar. I have got married six months before. My wife is 19 years old, she is very healthy, according to her age her weight is more. her weight is approx 65 kg. on my first night with my wife while intercourse blood does not f...
A. 24 July 2010: She could easily have been a virgin, like the other aunts said, not all virgins bleed.... (read in full...)
I need to know... is he using me?
Q. I have been going out with a guy for a few months now, I like being with him but I can't help think that he is only using me for sex. We only usually meet at night, there is a small distance between us (a train journey) so he always comes to me. We ...
A. 24 July 2010: The quick answer is yes, he is using you for sex.
That hard question... why are you satisfied with this ? Why are you letting a guy treat you like this?
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My dad is going to press charges against my 21 year old boyfriend!
Q. i am in a relationship with a 21 year old guy, and im only 16, i had kept this away from my parents but one night they heard me talking on the phone with him, and they asked my sisters who it was and they told my dad i had a 21 year old boyfriend. ...
A. 24 July 2010: You can help him by staying away. Legally in some states HE can get in serious trouble, such as being labelled as a sex offender. THAT label will follow him for the REST OF HIS LIFE! Which mean he will have trouble getting a decent job anywhere.
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How do I prove I'm not gay/bi ??
Q. I'm 15 and i got drunk at a beach party last week i ended up making out with 2 girls and 2 guys. 1 of the guys wasn't drunk and apparently really like me but i REALLY don't like him and he wont leave me alone no matter what i say or ask. And ev...
A. 24 July 2010: You don't have to PROVE anything to anyone. If you don't want to kiss/date the Guy (or girl) you kissed, tell them you are not interested. And honey, stop drinking if you can't control yourself or you will end up in a dangerous situation real quick.... (read in full...)
Husband Swinging Without Me
Q. About 5 years ago after 20 years of marriage, my husband started to talk about swinging. I thought he was kidding at first and he got angry when I siad absolutly not. We had a good sex life and had been faithful to each other. To please him I agreed ...
A. 24 July 2010: Honestly, you should never have agreed in the first place, obviously it was against what you feel, but.. hindsight is always 20/20.
I don't think he understand WHY you don't want to do it with him. He doesn't get it. For him it was the opportun... (read in full...)
He never bought me a gift from his travel abroad?
Q. What does it mean if you date a guy for five months, during which he travelled once abroad and he never buys you a gift even when he returned from his trip? ...
A. 24 July 2010: I don't know. If you expect things/gifts maybe tell him before he travels to bring you home a T-shirt/mug/magnet.. whatever.
I don't think it's a big deal.
Maybe he didn't want to seem pushy by buying you something or maybe he is just really s... (read in full...)
Is home schooling your child free?
Q. i want to home school my child for 8th grade this year at colorado vitual academy it says its free but i want to know if it true if anyone has a child going there tell me if its free or not please and thank u... ...
A. 23 July 2010: Um is your age wrong? Because it says 13-15 and you can't really have an 8th grader if you are that young.
Call them. Ask question. Educate yourself.... (read in full...)
I'm an antisocial teen and need help talking to people!
Q. I need some help here!!! I am a very shy person, there are a few people I talk to at school but I wouldnt call them friends there more like lets say "Aquantices" because I dont talk to anyone on the phone or anything or hang out w/ anyone I just ...
A. 23 July 2010: Is there something you are passionate about? Books, movies, photography, art, cartoons? what not?
find a club or take a class (outside school) and observe others and learn from them. Social skills are vital.
If there are people you want to talk... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 23 July 2010: Of course there is a difference. But it's still something absolutely pointless. You can not go back in time and give her a good childhood or take her off the streets.
It's obviously something that nags you a lot. I'm just saying YOU need to find ... (read in full...)
How do I get my friend to kiss me?
Q. how do i get my close friend to kiss me (he i a boy by the way) i have liked him for a while and my friends have told him but he still doesnt seem to like me in the way i want him to:|...
A. 23 July 2010: Why would you want a guy who doesn't like you "that way" to kiss you?
Save those lips for a guy who DOES like you as much as you like him.... (read in full...)
How can I have sex with a girl without a condom and not get her pregnant?
Q. How can you have sex with a girl with out a condom, but have sex like putting it in and out with out getting her pregnant? ...
A. 23 July 2010: Not using a condom is dumb, plain and simple. DUMB!
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Usually friends just drift apart but these girls seem to want revenge of some sort. How do I find peace and move on with my life?
Q. I feel stupid and way too old to be writing about this, but I need to clear my head and get some outside perspectives on this situation. I have ex-friends from childhood with whom I used to be very close with. Over time, I realized they always had ...
A. 23 July 2010: Because they are unhappy with their own little lives, so taking it out on you makes them feel better. THAT is what bullies do, honey.
Ignore them, pretend they don't exist. If they start to harass you talk to a teacher or school counselo... (read in full...)
Can anyone suggest a proper gym routine?
Q. topic- weightloss i need to lose a stone minimum before my holidays... i have controlled my over eatting and excercise 4-5 times a week and i have lost 7 pounds i am down to the last 13 days before holidays and need major help to shift the...
A. 23 July 2010: Make sure you "split" your work out up, so you do upper body one day and lower the next. And take at least 1 day off a week.
Also do work out evenly. We all have a strong and a weak side. Work them both equally.
I would also suggest you ask ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 23 July 2010: You don't sound snarky.. But the fact that you MARRIED her knowing she had a rough childhood and you HAVE BEEN married to her for 20+ years and NOW POP out of the blue (well maybe not totally out of the blue) pops all these thought of her past from ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 22 July 2010: Good luck. I hope you still see the counselor and deal with some of your issues, regardless.
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Usually friends just drift apart but these girls seem to want revenge of some sort. How do I find peace and move on with my life?
Q. I feel stupid and way too old to be writing about this, but I need to clear my head and get some outside perspectives on this situation. I have ex-friends from childhood with whom I used to be very close with. Over time, I realized they always had ...
A. 20 July 2010: Start to ignore them. They will seem like the crazy drama Llama's they are. You can be the butt of anyones joke if it's not funny.
YOU are moving on with your life, they are still stuck in High School.
Take them off your phone, Facebook,... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 20 July 2010: OP, I know you didn't want it to happen, I'm not suggesting you just pulled it out of a hat for the fun of it.
But this is mainly about YOU, not her. There is a reason why all this is resurfacing so many years after the fact. Think about it. Eith... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 20 July 2010: You really need to quit dragging up more dirt to trow at your wife. To me it seems like you are not happy with yourself, your life and your marriage, but you put the blame on your wife and her past..
Let me quote you:
*I was buying a home at the ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 18 July 2010: If she WAS a prostitute at 14 I can understand why she is hiding it. I'm pretty sure is was a rough horrible time in er life that she doesn't want to re-visit.
Yes, it would be nice if she could own up to it and be honest, maybe it's just too... (read in full...)
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