This random girl claims my boyfriend got her pregnant, and there is lots of evidence to prove she is lying, so why do I still think about it?
Q. Recently a girl tried adding my boyfriend on facebook but as he didnt know her he ignored it, she also added my friend and started messaging her saying that my boyfriend got her pregnant and she really needed to talk to him. He thought it was a joke ...
A. 23 September 2010: Stop looking at her FB page if it upsets you and BLOCK her from yours and your pictures.
It's that easy.
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My partner wont pay a penny towards our family, yet he takes our loans and gives the money to his mother!
Q. I am 8 months pregnant with our first child but also have a little girl from a previous relationship who lives with us. My partner and I have been together for 5 years and he just hasnt contributed to the household bills, ever. I have spoken to ...
A. 3 August 2010: Kick the loser out.... (read in full...)
Is it my boyfriend's or the other guys baby?
Q. Could really need some help please, im pregnant 7weeks i had sex with another guy a week before my period and the rest of the time with my bf so how do i know its my bf? its on the 22 july i did it with the other guy and found out today im 7weeks ...
A. 3 August 2010:
Ask your doctor what the time of conception would be, and what your due date is guesstimated at and it wold be a whole lot easier to figure out..
What a mess.... (read in full...)
After the abortion I am feeling depressed but I cant talk to my partner about this.....
Q. i had abortion 6 weeks ago i know it was for the best because i got a 6 month old baby and i got 2 older kids but i just feel so depressed, one min i want to cry the next im lashing out i cant talk to my oher half about this cus he think i want an ...
A. 3 August 2010: Aside from CaringGuy's advice you REALLY need to start being on birth-control if you don't want any more kids right now.
Men in general don't understand how devastating an abortion is for a women.
Find a hot line or a support group, talk to o... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my boyfriend going into the military?
Q. I'm currently in a relationship with my 23year old 2nd cousin and he is going into the military and I don't know how to react to that. we have had sex many times and that makes it even worse because I won't get to see him yet I want him more and ...
A. 3 August 2010: I think as long as you guys are smart and do some genetic counseling before marriage you should be ok.
2nd are perfectly legal in the US.
2nd cousins can be pretty far removed genetically, and sometimes they are "cousins" through marriage... (read in full...)
Do I respond to an email from a 14 year old when I'm 30?
Q. I got to work this morning to find an email that I don't know what to do with, so I'm looking for some help here. It's from a girl who I'm pretty sure has a crush on me. I'll give you a little backstory. I work for a local bank. I used to manag...
A. 2 August 2010: NOPE I would not do it.
If you run into her mom, tell her.
She has no reason WHATSO ever to e-mail you. Customer or not.
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Straight BF seeks M2M
Q. My bf of 3 yrs who is 6 years younger than me recently posted an ad on Craigs List seeking for a m2m encounter. He claims he was curious to see what the difference if any was between receiving head from a man than a women. I believe this is the ...
A. 2 August 2010: Curiosity is one thing.. Doing it is a whole other.
Sorry, I would be out the door.
Next time it wouldn't be getting a BJ/Head he would be curious about.. ... (read in full...)
Think I caught an STI during a threesome
Q. I'll be very upfront, I had a threesome with a couple and we used various dildos.. I had sex with the man unprotected also, since then, I've been having a powdery looking substance come from my vagina, i can take a shower and it'll still smell after ...
A. 2 August 2010: Little *better" care of yourself.... (read in full...)
Think I caught an STI during a threesome
Q. I'll be very upfront, I had a threesome with a couple and we used various dildos.. I had sex with the man unprotected also, since then, I've been having a powdery looking substance come from my vagina, i can take a shower and it'll still smell after ...
A. 2 August 2010: First off, WHY all this risky sexual behavior?
Go to the doctor and get checked out and ASK for a full run of STD's/STI's and for goodness sake take a little bare care of yourself.... (read in full...)
We wants to bring another man into the bedroom! I don't know what to think of this!
Q. I have been Married for 12 years and with my husband for 14 years. we have 4 wonderful children together. Friday night in the midst of our sexcapade in the bedroom out of the blue he asked if i would be ok with him bringing his male friend into the ...
A. 2 August 2010: I think no matter how sexually liberated you are, inviting a third person into the bed is going to be a big huge mistake.
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3 times I've asked him to go out but he always cancels!
Q. I met this guy on my birthday at the resort we were staying at (he works there) well that night we kinda hit it off and we talked for hours well then he went home but we stayed up til 3 a.m. texting. The next day we hung out and had a lot of fun! ...
A. 2 August 2010: I would stop asking him out and move on. I don't think he is in to you.
Sorry.... (read in full...)
Is the age difference between me and my future wife too big?
Q. i am 28 years an i will marry a girl younger than me by 7 years she is 21 ,is the age difference large or it is a normal age difference? ...
A. 2 August 2010: I think it is fine. You are both considered adults. By 21 most people have a clearer sense of themselves.... (read in full...)
If your partner has a child does that mean you can't have any plans to yourself anymore?
Q. I like to make plans, my career is an event manager so naturally i am an organized person who likes to plan things. This has been hard for me because my boyfriend has a 2 yo daughter. I would love to make a plan for a romantic weekend away or even a ...
A. 2 August 2010: You can make plans, but you will have to realize that you come second, after the child.
Maybe it would be a good idea if you intend on having a long term relationship with this guy to get to know the Mom a little bit? So you can plan and not get ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is uncomfortable with me modelling clothes for my ebay shop, now I am confused what to do.....
Q. Hello, I found this site and thought it might be a good place to ask for advice. I had an issue come up recently with my boyfriend of 5 years. We are very close and respectful of each other and try our best to communicate and sort out issues....
A. 2 August 2010: First of all, YES you sell a lot better on Ebay if clothes is modelled, no doubt.
I think it's actually pretty cool that you do that for your customers. You mentioned you were a shy person but you are still able to pose in the clothes, so honey, K... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated now I don't know what to do ? Please help..
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 10 months and im super in love with him , lately since its summer we barly see each other and weve been fightin so this weekend on fri he went to go eat with this friends and my bestfriend called me ...
A. 2 August 2010: Trust me honey, he is not the only guy out there.... (read in full...)
Do I tell him that I love him? Or do I hide it seen as he has a girlfriend and is going to a different college?
Q. I recently connected with a guy. We talk everyday and all night. I knew he had a girl friend and i respected that. I even kept my distance. The other day he insisted that we meet up before we both leave for college so i did. It was amazing. We went ...
A. 2 August 2010: Good girl,
YOU deserve better! And he deserves a kick in the nuts.
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This random girl claims my boyfriend got her pregnant, and there is lots of evidence to prove she is lying, so why do I still think about it?
Q. Recently a girl tried adding my boyfriend on facebook but as he didnt know her he ignored it, she also added my friend and started messaging her saying that my boyfriend got her pregnant and she really needed to talk to him. He thought it was a joke ...
A. 2 August 2010: JUST tell your friends to stop talking to her and you stop too. It is not really your "job" to ferret out the truth, you never will, especially if this girl is a liar, which I think she is.
Let it go. Ignore her. Want to bet that she will either t... (read in full...)
What did Bambi do????
Q. I am breaking the cardinal rule – I know it. I can’t help it. I’ve worked with this guy for a few months now. And initially we came to a mutual decision that relationships with the people you work with just don’t work out. And all was well in...
A. 2 August 2010: Maybe looking for a new work environment could be a good thing.
And yes, you can dislike Bambi all you want ;) But facts are he is trying to play a game of control. He wants to control the females he works with by setting them up against each oth... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 2 August 2010: Uncle q1605 is absolutely right:
There will be no winners here.
Just varying magnitudes of losers.
Unfortunately, you can't seem to get in our head that you are just being used. He's done this before, hence the secrecy and the fact tha... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated now I don't know what to do ? Please help..
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 10 months and im super in love with him , lately since its summer we barly see each other and weve been fightin so this weekend on fri he went to go eat with this friends and my bestfriend called me ...
A. 30 July 2010: What about next time you guys fight? He might not stop at kissing... And the fight after that.. and after that?
What he is saying is it's YOUR fault he made this mistake because the two of you fought. He will NOT own his actions now nor in the f... (read in full...)
What's so good about big penises?
Q. Granted I myself am not very well equipped, unless you consider 5 inches long and 4 inches in girth as well equipped, I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Do big penises actually feel be...
A. 30 July 2010: I think you are watching too much porn if you think ALL women want huge "hung like a horse" guys.
WHAT is really good is a couple who are matched in appetite and physically FIT each other. Be he small or big.
Girls who makes fun of small d... (read in full...)
I had an abortion over 2 months ago and its killing me!!!
Q. Hey, i made the silly mistake of having unprotected sex with my boyfriend and as a result became pregnant. I never found out i was pregnant until i was over 7 weeks gone like the feeling sick and tiredness etc. I had missed my period so decided to ...
A. 30 July 2010: I suggest you find a support group or call a hot line. It's pretty common for women to go through a HUGE amount of guilt, loss and self loathing after a abortion.
I had a miscarriage 20 years ago. It was a pregnancy I didn't want either and as m... (read in full...)
Never had an orgasm at 22....
Q. I previously posted a question regarding lack of sex drive with my amazing partner and how its been really getting me down. A few people have suggested it may be due to never having had an orgasm. Not even with previous partners. Does anyone have ...
A. 30 July 2010: It could easily be hormonal. I think you should go get a GYN check up. TELL your GYN that you ave no sex drive.
Also. Have you never made your self come? I find that incredible. Does your partner "warm" you up first? You might be in dire need of ... (read in full...)
Guilt about cheating...
Q. Can a relationship survive one partner's guilt over being unfaithful, and keeping it a secret? Will our relationship be able to grow and survive if I don't tell my partner that I cheated on her and vow to myself to keep it a secret forever and never ...
A. 30 July 2010: If you don't come clean it will eat at you. IF she finds out anyways.. you will look even worse then you do right now. Then you won't "just" be a cheat, you will be a cheat & a liar.
Don't you think it's up to her if SHE still wants to be with you... (read in full...)
One of my breasts is much larger than the other.
Q. I have a lot of problems and don't know where to begin but I guess I'll just start. I have one breast that is much larger than the other one. In school kids called me quasimodo. I have to be specially fitted for bras. I have never had sex. I am ...
A. 30 July 2010: He is a JERK! Sorry.
I think you should go have a reduction if it will help you back and your self esteem. I went to school with a girl, who was an A cup and a D cup, so uneven as well. She had reconstructive breast-surgery and ended up with "ma... (read in full...)
What did Bambi do????
Q. I am breaking the cardinal rule – I know it. I can’t help it. I’ve worked with this guy for a few months now. And initially we came to a mutual decision that relationships with the people you work with just don’t work out. And all was well in...
A. 30 July 2010: Maybe he started chatting up Bambi, because he knew you saw through him, and didn't think he was "all that & a bag of chips" no more.
Guys like that needs to have women "worship" him, he has to be the center of attention, which makes sense si... (read in full...)
I'm terrified of what might happen next after the police caught us talking to 2 underage girls, but all we did was talk!
Q. This is probably the worse place to ask for advice on this topic (No offense I appreciate all the help I've received over the years) but I don't know where else to turn. My best friend and I have two female friends (ONLY friends) that are 13 and 14. ...
A. 30 July 2010: If you didn't do anything wrong, you have nothing to worry about.
I agree with West1000 that in the US people freak about and assume everything teens do is sexual or pedophiles waiting to happen. I know why though, lots of sick people out there.
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This random girl claims my boyfriend got her pregnant, and there is lots of evidence to prove she is lying, so why do I still think about it?
Q. Recently a girl tried adding my boyfriend on facebook but as he didnt know her he ignored it, she also added my friend and started messaging her saying that my boyfriend got her pregnant and she really needed to talk to him. He thought it was a joke ...
A. 30 July 2010: Well, all you can do is wait on the DNA test... IF there even IS a baby.
I think your BF is innocent, and I think you should treat him as such. His initial reaction (thinking it was a joke) kind of did it for me. No guy who screws some random g... (read in full...)
Do I tell him that I love him? Or do I hide it seen as he has a girlfriend and is going to a different college?
Q. I recently connected with a guy. We talk everyday and all night. I knew he had a girl friend and i respected that. I even kept my distance. The other day he insisted that we meet up before we both leave for college so i did. It was amazing. We went ...
A. 30 July 2010: You KNOW he's got a girlfriend and you still don't see that what YOU and HE are doing is wrong? Then YES, you are not a good person. That makes you selfish and heartless in my book. And it makes him a selfish cheating horndog.
Dump the guy. If ... (read in full...)
Should I even stay with him through all of this?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 and a half years, and I found out he cheated on me. I asked him plenty of times if he had cheated, or if he ever would; and he just kept denying. Finally a couple days ago I confronted him with actual proof, ...
A. 30 July 2010: No I would no stay in this relationship. No way, no how.
He will continue to cheat on you. He will just be better at hiding it. I also want to BET he didn't tell the other girl about you. So basically he was stringing along two girls... or more?... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my boyfriend going into the military?
Q. I'm currently in a relationship with my 23year old 2nd cousin and he is going into the military and I don't know how to react to that. we have had sex many times and that makes it even worse because I won't get to see him yet I want him more and ...
A. 30 July 2010: You can join websites like www.armywivesforum.com LOTS of nice military wives, fiancee and girlfriends on there.
They can help you with question you may have or just give a shoulder when needed.
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Should I get a checkup?
Q. i have a small flesh coloured bump on my right vaginal lip, i dont know whether its genital warts or an ingrown hair from shaving, but today i squeezed it and a small bit of pus came out now it looks like a spot? last year i caught chlamydia and then...
A. 29 July 2010: 1. YES go get a check up. Sounds like a shaving bump, but better be safe.
2. USE a condom. STD's can be cured, but some will linger in your body and can be transmitted to others, for the rest of your life.... (read in full...)
It stings when he tries to finger me
Q. My boyfriend and I have been sexually active for about the past two months (we are both sophomores in college). It's been a month since he's been "fingering" me. I put that in quotations because he can barely get his finger in before I tell him that ...
A. 29 July 2010: You really should go see a GYN. And if he wants to pleasure you sexually he can do it by stimulation the clitoris instead of putting a finger in your vagina. Nails can be sharp and are filled with bacteria, not what you want in there. Even if they ... (read in full...)
How do I stop feeling hurt about the fact that he's off and dating now?
Q. He's dating a new girl a few weeks after we broke up. I am very hurt and he wasn't emotional at all during our break up, it was very easy for him. How do I stop feeling hurt about the fact that he's off and dating now?...
A. 29 July 2010: By realizing it's over. Take some time to mourn the relationship then YOU need to let go and move on too.
Maybe... he mentally left the relationship a LONG time before you and thus can move on faster/sooner.
Not all people move on with the same... (read in full...)
My friends are envious but I hate being so skinny!
Q. This doesnt really have anything to do with relationships but i am and always have been skinny, i absolutely hate my arms they're the worst, my legs are getting better. Loads of my friends think i'm lucky to be this thin but i would rather jus...
A. 29 July 2010: Exercise, such as weight training/ swimming/ bike or horse riding can help you build more muscles and make you less skinny.
And eating right is always a good option.
We are not all build the same, embrace who you are.... (read in full...)
Is it bad to have a fantasy like this?
Q. So ive had a fantasy of hooking up with a random guy, not for sex, but for oral and stuff, and like, meeting him in a club or somewhere and doing stuff like that somewhere risque. Is it bad to have a fantasy like this? Is it unhealthy or healthy to ...
A. 29 July 2010: I think having an active imagination is a great thing. I think if you start to feel/think/believe that you have to ACT them out, you have a problem.
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Two days after anal sex and I'm still bleeding. Is this normal?
Q. I tried anal sex for the first time with my bf, and it hurt so I told him too pull it out even before it got all the way in. When I got home, and used the restroom -number2- I realized my anus was bleeding. This is the second day that it's been ...
A. 29 July 2010: PLEASE PLEASE STOP having Anal sex.
Anal sex may make a person more susceptible to bacterial infection around the anus and rectum. This is because the lining of the rectum is not as heavy as the lining of the vagina, so it is more suscepti... (read in full...)
I got a call from a woman who said my partner of 8 years was her fiancee! He said she was just playing a joke!
Q. hi im 32,ive been with my partner for eight years. he keeps saying he isnt ready for children and doesnt want to get married. just lately he hasnt been coming home and says he's worked late and is staying with a friend? a few months ago he went to ...
A. 29 July 2010: I think you need to listen to your GUT INSTINCTS and dump the dude.. If he is not ready after 8 years, he never will be...
And.. I think there is a good chance he is cheating.... (read in full...)
Should I Continue to talk to him?
Q. I'm talking to an army guy who has post tramatic stress should I continue to talk to him?...
A. 29 July 2010: Well, now you story makes more sense.
Dealing with PTSD is not an easy feat. Some soldiers DO come back from deployments with PTSD and if not treated can lead to serious anger issues, domestic violence, suicide, depression, stress, night terrors.... (read in full...)
Regretting my decision to have unprotected sex with an older boy....
Q. last night i had sex with an older boy i just met, i feel like i made a big mistake im really scared and we didnt use a condom.I kinda wanted to do it but at the same time i didnt..it just happened so fast i dont really even want anything to do with ...
A. 29 July 2010: I would go get a Plan B pill right away. Just to be safe.
Also, maybe it's time for you to consider birth-control pills.
As for the sex. Well, many many women regret their first time. What YOU need to do is learn from what happened. Learn ... (read in full...)
Can I harm my unborn child if I smoke and drink around my pregnant wife?
Q. [Moderator's Note: Question edited for clarity] i drink wine regularly, my wife is pregnant, is there any effects on my unborn baby because of my drink? is there any risk of smoking and drinking wine on my child which is not come in this world? ...
A. 29 July 2010: Smoking around pregnant women, infants and children is just plain wrong.
If you have a beer or 10 it won't affect the child, on if the pregnant woman drink. Unless you turn into a violent a-hole when you drink...
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She's 13, I'm 16 and we like each other but her mom wont let us see each other!
Q. i am 16 and there is a girl that is 13 and we both like each other one day i told her she was pretty and her mom wont let her hang out with me!!! wat should i do???? i need some help...
A. 29 July 2010: Legally she is too young for you anyways, sorry. You need to find soemone your own age to play with.... (read in full...)
Should I Continue to talk to him?
Q. I'm talking to an army guy who has post tramatic stress should I continue to talk to him?...
A. 29 July 2010: Do you want to?
And does he want to talk to you?... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 22 July 2010: You already know the answer. Not only is it morally dumb to do this, emotionally it's not smart either.
YOU are starting to have feelings for him, he loves his wife, I smell drama and heartache..
Go find a single guy. ... (read in full...)
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