Should I Continue to talk to him?
Q. I'm talking to an army guy who has post tramatic stress should I continue to talk to him?...
A. 29 July 2010: Well, now you story makes more sense.
Dealing with PTSD is not an easy feat. Some soldiers DO come back from deployments with PTSD and if not treated can lead to serious anger issues, domestic violence, suicide, depression, stress, night terrors.... (read in full...)
She's 13, I'm 16 and we like each other but her mom wont let us see each other!
Q. i am 16 and there is a girl that is 13 and we both like each other one day i told her she was pretty and her mom wont let her hang out with me!!! wat should i do???? i need some help...
A. 29 July 2010: Legally she is too young for you anyways, sorry. You need to find soemone your own age to play with.... (read in full...)
How long should a guy last in bed?
Q. To the ladies what's the least a guy should last in bed?...
A. 29 July 2010: I don't think there is a set timer for how long a guy should last... However I DO think it's nice if the guy can get the girl of BEFORE he's done.
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Should I Continue to talk to him?
Q. I'm talking to an army guy who has post tramatic stress should I continue to talk to him?...
A. 29 July 2010: Do you want to?
And does he want to talk to you?... (read in full...)
The other women, cheater, extra marital affairs
Q. I need to know if I should talk to his wife? I had an affair with a man that I knew was married. He has four beautiful kids. We only saw each other while we were in Germany together over a 5 month period. He told me his wife was divorcing him ...
A. 29 July 2010: She can be blocked from your daughter's Facebook, that is simple. Or you can report her to Facebook for harassment, you may deserve some harassment, but your daughter doesn't.
Maybe you don't "owe" her anything. If you can't talk to her, send her... (read in full...)
I really don't like kissing, is this normal?
Q. i really don't like kissing, i waiting so long for it andi just think its so boring and eugh wet felt the same way when its been with different people i just dont know why i don't like it i feel so odd, can someone else tell be if they dont like it ...
A. 28 July 2010: Yes you are totally normal, you have just been kissing too many frogs, honey.
Save the kissing for when you met THAT guy... You will know.... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out but I don't want to bother her with too many texts! What should I do?
Q. Hi there I have a problem which I really need help with. A week ago I was out with a group of friends from work and with them was one of their friends who I have met before. We spent the whole night talking and while my friends kept telling me ...
A. 28 July 2010: Well you can still call her and chat, can't you?
Texts seems so impersonal to me.... (read in full...)
Should I just ignore these girls who hate me? I'm scared this might turn into a fight...
Q. please note: this is really long, and if you have time to read, then i thank you so much. i just don't know what to do anymore.. i got into a yelling match with a couple of girls today. for a while now there has been a bit of tension between ...
A. 28 July 2010: Why not go see the girl who "hates you" face to face with no friends around and ask her what her problem is?
This whole passive aggressive girl clique thing is just ridiculous.
If you know where she lives I would go see her and talk to her. You... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out but I don't want to bother her with too many texts! What should I do?
Q. Hi there I have a problem which I really need help with. A week ago I was out with a group of friends from work and with them was one of their friends who I have met before. We spent the whole night talking and while my friends kept telling me ...
A. 28 July 2010: CALL her - screw texting. You want to ASK her out, pick up the phone and call her.
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Can this relationship survive the "no-sex" test?
Q. I am dating a great woman for almost a year now. She is the first relationship I have had after my divorce, but she is not the "rebound chick" as they call it. I met her after my emotions had calmed. We are considering marriage. Our relationship ...
A. 28 July 2010: Maybe you should just talk to her about it....
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He turns his phone off at night - does this mean he is cheating on me?
Q. Do you think a guy is cheating if he use to turn his phone off at night during our relationship? He saids it was because he didn't want no one to wake him up while he was sleeping or no one look through his phone, meaning his parents because they ...
A. 28 July 2010: Too many secrets can often lead to lack of trust. I know you say you love him, but still... you are being regarded as his little dirty secret. That would not sit well with me.
As for tuning your phone off at night... I did that. It's night, I... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't go down on my unless I'm shaved
Q. My boyfriend and I were talking about "what ifs". and it came up, "what if i was nine months pregnant and couldnt shave "down there"?" his response, "i wouldnt go down on you". my thought was arent you suppose to love someone even in there natural ...
A. 28 July 2010: I can't see why this would be a deal breaker either.
A little trimming of the hedges is not going to kill you. Personally totally shaved makes me think prepubescent and not sexy at all, but EACH to their own.... (read in full...)
Teenage questions about sexual health....
Q. [Moderator's Note: 3 questions from the same poster have been merged into this one post] Question 1. Okay, so I take a shower everday, and wash my clothes on a daily basis. But my pants still smell around my crotch area. I'm a virgin, and i've had...
A. 28 July 2010: I would suggest you DON'T use douches or scented stuff to wash your privates in. IT ABSOLUTELY ruins the PH balance and can cause dryness, itchiness and...... infections.
1 Understand that the vagina is a self-cleaning organ. Discharge is a normal... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't really know much about her own body, so what else might turn her on?
Q. Hey, from my past experiences with girls some like being bitten lightly or having teeth run across their erogenous spots. but I dont quite know what to make of my girl...the other day while exploring some things about each other I found out that she...
A. 28 July 2010: Here is a great link for you and your GF.
http://www.whitelotuseast.com/TantraMassage.htm... (read in full...)
My partner left me after I asked for him to show me more affection!
Q. I am posting this topic to receive as much advice as I can. I have been involved with a man for 6 months now, he was an ex cop but left the force in order to take care of his child full time and I had taken on the immediate role of an unofficial ...
A. 28 July 2010: I agree totally with Oldersis. The dude already had a TON on his plate and then he is getting more demands?
Maybe you need to look for a guy with no kids who can put you #1 not #2. Because when a single parent is raising their child/ch... (read in full...)
My bf doesn't believe that I was a virgin!
Q. hello my name hach i was a virgin 4 the first time i have sex with my bf on my 18th bday i wasnt bleading he said that i lie to him because i wasnt bleading thats mean i wasnt a virgin is that true. but he is the first person i did it with how can ...
A. 28 July 2010: Well, I'm sorry to say your BF is a stupid wanker.
Many women bleed the first time they have sex, but not all do. Some women have pain the first time, but not all do. Lack of blood or pain does *not* mean that a woman is not a virgin.... (read in full...)
How do I make him like me?
Q. *OP's suggested ttle* I really like this guy at my church. He's obviously very shy, and I'm kinda shy too. I've never talked to him but he said hi to me once. He looks over at me too kinda often. I know that I should "make him like me", but I don't ...
A. 28 July 2010: Honey, you can't "make" someone like you.
But you can let him get to know you. Next time you see him (not during service though) say hi my name is.... and go from there.... (read in full...)
Should I marry someone who betrayed me like this?
Q. I recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me 1 time. We've been dating for nearly 5 years, and we recently got engaged. I found out that a year ago he slept with this girl, after major flirting went on between them for a few months (i.e., ...
A. 27 July 2010: What else is he hiding? For me, this would be a deal breaker.
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Boyfriend got roommate pregnant...what to do?
Q. OK, my question is what should I do??? My boyfriend broke up with me six months ago for less than a week and slept with his roommate and got her pregnant. Apparently she just realized NOW that she's pregnant and told him just the other week. What...
A. 27 July 2010: Her body - her choice.
Pregnancies are never fair on the dude. That is a fact.
Another fact is this... HE COULD have used a condom, I doubt he did if this was the second time he knocked her up. And yea she sounds shady, I'm guessing her rea... (read in full...)
He Wanted Me For 2 Years, Got Me - Then Changed Almost Overnight!
Q. [sorry for such a long question]Well my boyfriend and i have just recently got together and it has now been at least a month and a half. he told me before we got together that he had liked me for almsot two years and that he was so happy that i ...
A. 27 July 2010: I agree with the other aunties and unlces.
He didn't want YOU, he wanted the chase.
Let him go.... (read in full...)
Don't want to lose him because of that bitch!
Q. Well my x I like him so much and I'm berly getting over him it's beeen 2 or even 3 years. And a month ago he had to leave with his mom to another state we tryed a long distNce relationship but It didn't work out.. Umm now I've found out dat he has ...
A. 27 July 2010: Wow, why is your anger directed at her? She didn't leave you, he did.
And yeah, bitterness doesn't become you.
Let him go, you don't really have a choice. The more bitter and resentful you become the more he will want to distance himself... (read in full...)
Should You be Together a Few Years Before you Get Engaged?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months. Everything moved very fast with us, which has suited both of us very well. We'd both been single for about 6 months before we met and got together, I'd moved in to his place after 2 months (it wasn't ...
A. 27 July 2010: I think living together for a year or two is a sensible thing to do before considering marriage.
However, I think being evenly matched means more then how long you have known each other.... (read in full...)
Whenever I'm Not There, This Girl is All Over Him Like a Rash!!
Q. I just want to begin by saying I trust my boyfriend totally. We have been together 9 months and he has never given me a reason to doubt him. I am not generally a jealous person when it comes to boyfriends. There's a girl who is in the same circ...
A. 27 July 2010: It comes down to one thing. Trust.
If you trust your BF everything is OK. She can hit on him all she wants but if you trust him, you also trust him to do the right thing.
I honestly would talk to him tell him how you feel about her. It's ... (read in full...)
Guys: is this normal or a fetish?
Q. A guy I'm seeing right now likes me to suck on his penis, literally, as hard as I can while giving him oral sex. I don't have man parts, but when he mentioned it to me it sounded really painful. But anyhow, I did as he asked (and have done so eve...
A. 27 July 2010: There are more ways then one to give oral ;)
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Do you think this makes me a bad person?
Q. Ohkay,Ive just gotton back from my best friends house and The last time I was there, I had gone half way with her cousin which is 16, Im 13 and yea,half way means he went in me half way and thats all.. I know I made a mistake and Im sorry..DOnt we ...
A. 27 July 2010: It makes you curious, not a bad person. But you need to start thinking BEFORE you act.
If you tell someone NO, then mean it. If they don't respect you (keep pressing you or keep asking you) then walk away. Stop putting yourself in a situatio... (read in full...)
Guys: is this normal or a fetish?
Q. A guy I'm seeing right now likes me to suck on his penis, literally, as hard as I can while giving him oral sex. I don't have man parts, but when he mentioned it to me it sounded really painful. But anyhow, I did as he asked (and have done so eve...
A. 27 July 2010: Honey, Buy this book. READ IT and memorize it..
http://www.ticklekitty.com/base/content.asp?section=products&dir=products&page=book-tickle_his_pickle... (read in full...)
Is it best I walk away from this relationship?
Q. I really need some good advice. I've recently split with my boyfriend of 14months because his friend told me he cheated on me when we were first together. My boyfriend admitted it but says he wants to move on. Furthermore, his friend told me more ...
A. 27 July 2010: WHY would you go back to him? Because HE feels bad? Screw that.
Go out there and find a guy who will appriciate you, respect, honor and love you. A guy who makes you see fire works in bed.
WHY SETTLE ? EVER ? ... (read in full...)
He Cheated, We Broke Up, He Wants Me Back But I Don't Think I Want a Relationship Yet - But He Says He Won't Wait
Q. i recently split with my boyfriend because he invited another girl round to his and she stayed the night. we had been together for a year and i was deeply in love with him, now were not together, im finding it hard to get over him. then yesterday he ...
A. 27 July 2010: The guy is a loser and now he is making demands? LOL Sorry, I find that funny.
Concentrate on your school, grades, friend and family and let this guy do his "thing" elsewhere.
I think he could easily be the kind of guy who once forgiven wi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend got roommate pregnant...what to do?
Q. OK, my question is what should I do??? My boyfriend broke up with me six months ago for less than a week and slept with his roommate and got her pregnant. Apparently she just realized NOW that she's pregnant and told him just the other week. What...
A. 27 July 2010: I'd dump the guy and feel sorry for the room mate. She got knocked up by a moron.
Sorry I think you should start looking for a guy with more.. self control.
To be honest you are being TOTALLY unfair in making this sound like it was all the room... (read in full...)
Can you get over a threesome gone wrong?
Q. Can you get over a threesome gone wrong? Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years. Our sex life is good and has never become dull. We had in the past (usually after a few drinks) talked about a threesome (with another woman- he wouldn't ...
A. 27 July 2010: I think a 3-some is a bad excuse to cheat "Scott-free". Many men (and women) believe that if you have a 3-some it's not cheating, because their partner is there and willing.
For the most part I think having a 3-some is cheating by proxy. But in y... (read in full...)
His Ex Stalks Him on Facebook
Q. My boyfriend's ex is all over his Facebook page, and it's recently started to bother me, especially as his family (who are also on FB and I am very close to) have started commenting on it. They broke up over a year ago, he had 6 months being sin...
A. 27 July 2010: Who doesn't he just block her from his FB? *shrug* I'm guessing he likes the attention.
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My Sister Bullies Me, But I've Been Forced to Invite Her to My Wedding
Q. hey i need some advice. my problem is i hate my sister and my mum made me send my sister an invite to my wedding. i dont want her there! shes always been so jealous of me, to the point she used to physically, mentally and emotionally abuse me. ...
A. 27 July 2010: Call your sister and un-invite her, inform your mother of your decision. Tell her it's NOT debatable.
IT IS YOUR WEDDING!
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My Brother is Lazy & Selfish, & Abusing Me on Facebook!
Q. Please Help! I know its long but i'm desperate...I dont know what to do about my brother. I am a full time University student working full time for the summer even though I am considered as being a student with a permanent disability(due...
A. 27 July 2010: Stay at your aunts. Print out all his rants and bring it up in front of your parents when they get home. I wouldn't try and confront him with out "back-up". What did you aunt say to the abuse he was throwing at you in her house?
He seems like qui... (read in full...)
Do you ever really forget your first love..
Q. I met mine almost 3 years ago, we were together for a year and a half, and yeah things went quite badly towards the end, he changed and what not. But it's been almost 2 years since we broke up and I still think about him every single day, I st...
A. 27 July 2010: Nope, I still remember him and remember him fondly. We weren't meant to be together forever, but the years we DID have were very fond memories.
He was a big piece of my life.... (read in full...)
Where and how should I meet up with the older man I'm falling for?
Q. Hi. I'm a 17 year old girl from the uk. I have been online dating since o was 16 because I felt like no one who actually knew me would ever want to get with me. I lost my virginity at 15 to a boy who was 19 and I haven't had sex since. About ...
A. 27 July 2010: I'm 41 so closer to the guy you are "dating" in age then you are, and I have to say... I would not be to keen on a guy who is 46 dating a 17 year old. There is just such an unevenness to it all. He has TONS of life experiences you have barely any. ... (read in full...)
Why is he acting stupid and naive?
Q. I don't get it. My boyfriend of two and a half years ended our relationship for silly reasons that are his to blame also. He said that I never did enough romantic events for him, I was to independent and didn't ask him to do everything for me, not ...
A. 26 July 2010: JEBUS he sounds like a crazy one, be glad it's over.
Relationships is a two way street, not a 90/10%, but a 50/50% or even better a 100/100%.
Find yourself a guy who is less demanding and crazy and more loving. You seem like a nice guy, you de... (read in full...)
Is my partner correct to want me to ask for his permission to answer the phone late at night?
Q. 22.15hrs I was having a talk with my partner about an important matter to us both. My mobile phone rang in the room next door, and he got up first to fetch it and brought it to me for me to answer which I did. It was a short message from a friend. ...
A. 26 July 2010: No, I think he is ridiculous. Unless you guys were in the middle of a great shag/roll in the hay. I can't see WHY you need HIS permission to answer your phone.... (read in full...)
Sexual emails to ex could come back and hit me in the face
Q. ok here my prob i sent some sexual emails to my ex boyfriend now he might use them against me by showing them to my parents etc which also can be used in court. reason why im saying in court because i'm pregant and he doesnt want to pay money tow...
A. 26 July 2010: Take it as a learning experience.. Don't email stuff you don't want thrown in your face later. ... (read in full...)
I feel like my photos are TOO good, and end up feeling self-conscious when attractive guys talk to me on my online dating profile. Help!
Q. Four months after leaving my ex for cheating on me, I decided I'd go ahead and sign up with eHarmony, or try the online dating thing. There are several guys whom I've hit it off with, in addition to 3-5 requests for communication each week, many of ...
A. 26 July 2010: Relax, honey. If *Ryan* wanted a size 2 he would be looking for a size 2. I think it could be that *Ryan* found you not only attractive but interesting/smart/clever/funny/charming...... you name it, enough to want to get to know.
Good luck on ... (read in full...)
Should I revamp his ex-fiance's engagement ring?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting engaged for the past few months and he has a simply gorgeous ring that his ex fiancee wore about 5 years ago. He says he wants to sell it and buy me a new ring but I really do love this ring. I'm ...
A. 26 July 2010:
Honestly, I would let him sell it and buy you a new. Let him pick one out JUST for you.... (read in full...)
Her parents want us to take a test to see if we had sex
Q. MOD NOTE: All signs point to the fact that the poster cannot be 33. okay i had sex with this girl and her parents kinda know so now they want us to go take a test to see if we did and i never cum in her would they still find out?...
A. 26 July 2010: How can you TEST a guy to see if he's had sex? THAT I want to see.. well maybe not see.. ... (read in full...)
Ready to throw in the towel!!
Q. I have known my girlfriend for 15yrs, we have been in a relationship for 6yrs. this month I asked the big question and bought her an engagement ring. My co worker family owns a jewelry store so i bought a second hand ring that has been appraised for ...
A. 26 July 2010: She sounds a little ungrateful. ... (read in full...)
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