Is she avoiding sex just to get gifts?
Q. Hi Girls, I am with my girlfriend for the last few weeks and we have known each other for the last 6months. I am doing evry thing I can to woo her even at this point by giving her expensive gifts, flowers every week, expensive dinners etc.. T...
A. 20 August 2010: So she is not exclusive with you. If you want her to be exclusive, DUMP her and find someone who can appreciate you.
Seems to me she was just playing you to get something.
Move on, man.
Delete her number ( and block it) same with her e-mail... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out or is it just too weird with her facebook page?
Q. First let me start by saying that this is my sisters page I am not a female I am a male age 30. I am interested in this young lady age 23 and I just saw something on her twitter page that bothered me. She posted "what.the.f**k. some chick just ...
A. 19 August 2010: You can't guard your and and find happiness at the same time. Love is like Russian Roulette.
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Does this virgin have the equipment to satisfy her?
Q. dear cupid, i've been going out with her for a month now. she has invited me to stay the night with her. but i'm nervous that my penis will not be big engouh for her. i'm 6inches when i'm erected and the girth is 1.5 and i have still got my forskin. ...
A. 16 August 2010: You need to stop the pity party waggon right now. Or you will never get laid or have a girl friend.
Find a hobby, get to know people - RELAX! you don't have to be someone you are not. There are PLENTY of shy people out there. However, if you don'... (read in full...)
How could my husband be so coldhearted and leave me on my birthday?
Q. I have posted on here before regarding whether my marriage should continue the way it is... anyway, just to make it even more fun, my husband ended our marriage on my birthday. I am devestated. Reasons why he says are that he will never trust me. ...
A. 16 August 2010: Honestly he seems like a controlling SOB. Why stay in a relationship like that? He surely doesn't love you, respect you or even trust you... what else is left?
I do think women in the military have a VERY tough job keeping their family together... (read in full...)
Is she avoiding sex just to get gifts?
Q. Hi Girls, I am with my girlfriend for the last few weeks and we have known each other for the last 6months. I am doing evry thing I can to woo her even at this point by giving her expensive gifts, flowers every week, expensive dinners etc.. T...
A. 16 August 2010: I'd say tell her she is in control. You follow "orders" and no I'm not meaning in a Dom/Sub relationship, but you need to take it a bit more gentle.
A rough quickie is FINE every now and then, but LOVEMAKING is preferable in the beginnin... (read in full...)
Is she avoiding sex just to get gifts?
Q. Hi Girls, I am with my girlfriend for the last few weeks and we have known each other for the last 6months. I am doing evry thing I can to woo her even at this point by giving her expensive gifts, flowers every week, expensive dinners etc.. T...
A. 14 August 2010: Stop with the gift giving and see how it goes. I think it's ridiculous that you think you have to BUY her and that she has to REPAY you with sex.
People have different standards, morals & values, maybe you two need to talk about those and either g... (read in full...)
Shouldn't morning sickness have finished by now?
Q. Im just going to get straight to the point. 5 months ago i had unprotected sex and you guessed it got pregnant, i know it was stupid but me and the guy were and still are in love i dont regret my decision just wish i could of changed the timing. ...
A. 14 August 2010: Some have morning sickness all 9 months, some only a few months/week and some none at all.
If you ARE pregnant you NEED to see a doctor, the baby and you should have prenatal care. ... (read in full...)
How could my husband be so coldhearted and leave me on my birthday?
Q. I have posted on here before regarding whether my marriage should continue the way it is... anyway, just to make it even more fun, my husband ended our marriage on my birthday. I am devestated. Reasons why he says are that he will never trust me. ...
A. 14 August 2010: Why does he not trust you any more?
Just like you can MAKE anyone love you you can't MAKE anyone trust you.
If he wanted to work things out I would suggest you guys found a neutral third party, such as a priest, pastor, rabbi or even jsut a m... (read in full...)
Guy threatening to give my boyfriend proof that I cheated!
Q. I had an affair with A, a guy from work. And I called it off after 2 weeks, no more texts, phone calls, email, facebook. I felt really bad and guilty towards to my bf, because deep inside me i know it is not his fault that he has to work long hou...
A. 13 August 2010: It's Karma knocking on your door.. Be honest with your BF & open the door.
TAKE responsibility for YOUR actions.... (read in full...)
Withheld Unknown number keeps calling my cell!
Q. i have a problem that has bothering me for the couple of days...i have a new number on my cell and someone has been calling me for the couple of days with the withheld number and unknown number....please i need to know the number of the person who ...
A. 13 August 2010: Just answer the phone and PRESTO you might find out!
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Urinary tract infections
Q. okay so I gotta question about Urinary Track Infections... well I'm going on like my 3rd one!!! does anybody know how to not get them?? I was told to drink ALOT of water and not alot of dark soda, well that hasn't worked. Could I get some help?...
A. 12 August 2010:
Cranberry and Other Helpful Herbs
•Cranberry is the best herbal remedy for urinary tract infections. Drinking cranberry juice produces hippuric acid in the urine, and through acidifying the urine, bacterial growth is inhibited. Other chemical... (read in full...)
I want to break up and he said that "You can't get by without me"
Q. Some advice please from you aunts,I have been in a relationship for many yrs with someone. but i feel it's going nowhere and i want to end it. so i told this other person today and his response to me was I don't believe you can get by without me.has ...
A. 12 August 2010: Please!! prove that asshat wrong.
Find yourself some happiness! ... (read in full...)
I caught him cheating for the 3rd time! He says he won't do it again?
Q. i had a relationship for 3years with a guy.i love him very much and had changed myself so i would get along with him.but he never seem to be pleased no matter wat i do for him. he says he loves me too but the problem is that he keeps on cheating. i ...
A. 12 August 2010: Learn from this relationship. Learn to look out for yourself and that some men (and women) will assume that when their partner sticks around, cheating isn't so bad.
It's not worth the heart ache to be in a relationship with a cheater. And no matte... (read in full...)
I don't know how he'd cope if we broke up, but I have this desire to be single and free!
Q. Hey, Basically, I've been with my fiancee for nearly 5 years, since I was 17. It was a long distance thing at first but when I was 20 I started University near him so stayed at his every weekend and in all the holidays, so basically moved ...
A. 12 August 2010: Be honest with him. To me it seems that the two of you just aren't in the same place right now.
He will cope. He will HAVE to. You CAN NOT stay in a relationship that doesn't make you happy, just to please this guy. And as wonderful as you are,... (read in full...)
Does this virgin have the equipment to satisfy her?
Q. dear cupid, i've been going out with her for a month now. she has invited me to stay the night with her. but i'm nervous that my penis will not be big engouh for her. i'm 6inches when i'm erected and the girth is 1.5 and i have still got my forskin. ...
A. 12 August 2010: In case you haven't heard it before, it really isn't the SIZE that determine whether a women enjoys sex or not.
TAKE your time with foreplay. Get her of first using fingers and mouth and there will be nothing to worry about.
ASK her what ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out or is it just too weird with her facebook page?
Q. First let me start by saying that this is my sisters page I am not a female I am a male age 30. I am interested in this young lady age 23 and I just saw something on her twitter page that bothered me. She posted "what.the.f**k. some chick just ...
A. 12 August 2010: Nope thanks, I'm old and happily married.
My husband don't do Facebook or any other social networking sites, he's too busy living life and working. BUT I DO have to deal with two his EX's. Since there are children involved, I can NOT dictate ... (read in full...)
Can this relationship with my married boss work?
Q. Right so apparently this is a "common" thing. Being in love with a married man. I %100 believe he loves me too. To further complicate the situation he is my boss. I've worked day and night with this man 6days a week for 4years. Also his wife. They ...
A. 11 August 2010: Karma, honey.. it's a bitch.
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Older boyfriend's fetish is all he wants to talk about.
Q. I have just started dating a man who is a lot older than I am (20 years). He has told me that he has a "golden shower" fetish. I'm okay with it, don't understand it, but ok with it. The only thing is now it seems that's the only thing he wants to ...
A. 11 August 2010: Personally I could not be OK with it. I just find it nasty, but each to their own I guess.
If you don't want to do something sexually you TELL him. TELL him what turns YOU on, what YOU want in the bedroom, sex is a two way street. Having a fantas... (read in full...)
Does our age difference make this wrong?
Q. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 34. We met on the Internet, but met at the mall to go see a movie where there were alot of people. At first I thought all he wanted from me was sex, but i was wrong he treats me right, doesn't pressure me to do anything ...
A. 11 August 2010: I think it's kind of wrong. 18 yearsage gap at this stage is a HUGE gap. YOU are an adolescent - He is a mature adult. I'm sorry, for me it's borderline pedophile behavior. Seems like he is grooming ( & molding) you for when you are of legal age and ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend thinks my breasts are too big, is he right to ask for a reduction?
Q. I'm going out with my boyfriend 10 months and everything going well except for in the bedroom. He prefers women with smaller breasts and I've become very conscious that my 32f breasts must be a turn off to him. I used to love having my breasts ...
A. 11 August 2010: If you are fine with your breasts he should be too, be they small or big. It seems like he is being possessive and controlling... Red flags right there. Most guys would be proud that other men find his "mate" attractive.
SURGICALLY altering... (read in full...)
Are there are any men left that won't just use me for sex?
Q. How do I find a boyfriend? Iv only slept with two people and they weren't even my boyfriends, they got what they wanted and left me. Iv been used twice now and just want a boyfriend who'll want me for me, not just my body. Are there any men like ...
A. 11 August 2010: I'm sure there are guys out there who would want a real relationship, not just to use a girl.
TAKE your time getting to know a guy. Figure out if YOU like him. Figure out if he likes you for you, or just wants sex.
TAKE the time to figure o... (read in full...)
Is her preference for married men and casual attitude towards affairs a red flag?
Q. My girlfriend has been with predominantly married men in her past. All of her relationships prior to me were FWB. The guy she lost her virginity to was married, the next was single, but she did him while she was still with the first. The third was ...
A. 11 August 2010: I think its a HUGE red flag. I don't think her morals matches her values.
1 affair or 20 - doesn't really matter. Cheating is cheating.
She seems very casual about sex & relationships - and I don't mean that in a good way. More like a careless ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to ask a girl if she's interested in casual sex?
Q. Is there a proper way to ask a woman you meet if she is interested in casual sex? I know there are many ways, and simply asking over the phone "Hey, do want to just sleep together?" Would not be acceptable. So if you experienced and mature men a...
A. 11 August 2010: Maybe have to ask her straight out if she is interested in a "friends with benefits". Be aware that some women would regard is as a "something is wrong with me" or " Am I not datable", but I'm SURE there are women out there who just wants a ... (read in full...)
I am being overcome by retro-jealousy, please help!
Q. I hope someone can offer some words as I feel a bit overwhelmed at the moment. I suffer from retroactive jealousy and I have for the past year been working on it. Its a conscious effort and an ongoing process but sometimes, like today it can get too ...
A. 11 August 2010: I think maybe he isn't for you. Too much baggage for you to handle. Nothing wrong in admitting that.
But if you want to stay with him you need to look at the picture as a whole. PUT yourself in his shoes.... (read in full...)
How do I get out this mess with minimal damage?
Q. A while ago I wrote on here about an annoying colleague who liked to cause drama at work and was difficult to get on with. I got some fantastic replies which hit the nail on the head about her being insecure and selfish. The good news is she...
A. 10 August 2010: Well if you aren't the kind of girl to be "blunt" with people then block her number. Sooner or later she will catch on.
Though, it would be 10 times easier to just tell her that you don't feel you two have anything in common and that you just don... (read in full...)
I like my oldest step brother but my mum told me not to fool around with him!
Q. I'm getting 2 step brothers and I'm sorta starting to like the oldest one, B.he's the same age as me and about a month ago he wanted to fool around but I stopped it cause my mom had a chat with me saying it was wrong to fool around with each other ...
A. 10 August 2010: Sorry honey, but a step-brother should be out of limits. Any guy can break your heart, but you don't HAVE to live with any of those guys.
YOUR mom is right.... (read in full...)
Does semen volume impress the ladies?
Q. Hi aunts, All the questions about penis size and female squirters got me wondering about another "size" related topic that many men obsess over...semen volume. But I wanted a womans take on it. Men are sometimes obsessed with producing a volu...
A. 10 August 2010: More cum more mess.. Sorry, don't impress me either.
I honestly think the volume show more how often you have sex then how great the sex was. I could be wrong though.... (read in full...)
Is it just me or am I just not accepting this?
Q. Ugh..I hate this. I can't tell whether it's her, or is it me just not accepting this. Okay, so I'll be honest overall people tend to say I'm quiet. To me I say, if I don't have/want to interact with you why should I? Which is alot of people you can ...
A. 6 August 2010: I think you over analyzed what she said a bit too much.
I think they see you as a shy wonderful girl and they want you to enjoy yourself and meet new people. She just wants more people to ENJOY you too, because she does. And she cares. THAT is ... (read in full...)
What do women think about a man getting hard while dancing?
Q. What do women think when they are dancing with a man and he gets an erection? I recently went dancing with my wife and a group ofnour friends. It was a really crowded, kinda dark and sweaty dance floor. We were all drinking and dancing. By virtue ...
A. 6 August 2010: I wouldn't worry. If she had felt creeped out she would have ended the dance ASAP. It's kind of like a compliment to a women so, don't feel bad.... (read in full...)
Do all women squirt?
Q. do all women squirt ??? and can all women cum from clit and from vagina??...
A. 6 August 2010: Very few women actually do it. Quite a few never want too.... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out or is it just too weird with her facebook page?
Q. First let me start by saying that this is my sisters page I am not a female I am a male age 30. I am interested in this young lady age 23 and I just saw something on her twitter page that bothered me. She posted "what.the.f**k. some chick just ...
A. 6 August 2010: I agree 100% with Eyeswideopen.
Chill. Some people end relationships amicable and stay in touch. Some only through Facebook and not outside the net.
I think you are totally OVER analyzing this poor chick.... (read in full...)
My ex husbands wife is causing alot of problems
Q. I'm not really sure if this is the right place to ask this. About 3 years ago my husband of 16 years started an online affair with an internet whore she was actually a whore she advertised on Myspace all she did and what she was into after about a ...
A. 6 August 2010: Jebus!
Block her from your MySpace and DELETE yourself from hers, STOP looking at her MySpace,if it is absolute BS what she writes ignore it.
You COULD report her for libel to MySpace.
Consider this though....... MAYBE, just maybe, the s... (read in full...)
Women desire to fondle testicles?
Q. How do girls feel about men's balls? Do women find the sexually exciting? Disgusting? Or, do they not factor at all? My last girlfriend was alwYs playing with them, and once I started shaving them ( at her request) would often take them in her ...
A. 6 August 2010: I think it totally depends on the girl/woman.
You could tell her, that YOU really like this & that, but PLEASE do not bring up the ex and how great she was at it, or... you may never get them fondled again by your current GF.... (read in full...)
My husband believes this woman is from his past and him and her are getting too cozy for my liking!
Q. My husband met a married woman at a conference in January this year. She came to our house on a recent visit and I simply assumed that there was nothing to it. I later find out that he has been seeing the woman in his dream before actually meeting...
A. 6 August 2010: Honestly, I would sit him down and tell him to shit or get off the pot.
You should have to wait around for him to make up his mind. He might think the grass is greener with her, but i'm betting he is in for a RUDE awakening.
Now, do YOU w... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him even though he wont wear condoms and I'm not on birth control?
Q. i've been with my bf for 1year. hes my first love and im his he's two years older than me.. we are both vigins.. and homecoming night b4 his big game.. i well lets just say i wanna have sex with him.. he gave me i ring and we are getting married ...
A. 5 August 2010: No No No. START with having some SELFRESPECT! If the guy won't buy and wear a condom, there is no sex. EVER! ( or at least til you are old enough to take care of a child)
Be smart. Don't be a statistic. Do be on here in a few weeks/mo... (read in full...)
Do men ALWAYS KNOW if they have had sex?
Q. {Mod Note - OP's own title] Help! Can your man ALWAYS tell if HE'S had sex in the morning? My guy is telling me he didn't because he would KNOW, but when I came back in the room 30 minutes later, he had no boxers on and was cuddling, when I clearly ...
A. 4 August 2010: Did you mean he "did" himself? Or were there someone else in the bed? It's not really clear.... (read in full...)
Should I give my ex the money she is asking for even though she hardly ever paid anything and let me pay for most things?
Q. Hi everyone. Me and my girlfriend split up about 7 months ago. We have both found it really hard and she is the one that walked away from me without fighting. When we were together, we bought a flat together. It was solely in my name as i was the ...
A. 4 August 2010: I think you should go with adifferentperspective's advice:
Tell her you were paying most of the stuff so if she really wants to go into detail about what you owe her, then you will make a list of all the bills, rent, car, everything and split it... (read in full...)
Should I text this other woman, not to confront her, but to introduce myself?
Q. Mods Note...OP's own title: Hi. I've been with my BF *Jack* for 6 years. I admit, I had trust issues before our relationship started, thanks to my ex. But I've never had anything to worry about. So 6 months ago, our relationship started to get ...
A. 4 August 2010: Why confront her? You are not living with HER, you are living with HIM. YOU are in a relationship with HIM, so if you need to confront anyone that would be HIM.
My advice... Jump Jack, forget about Zee. Those two losers deserve each other.... (read in full...)
Is tossing the salad a reglular part of lovemaking?
Q. Mod Note...OP's own title: Hey everyone. Is it normal for a man to be turned off by the idea of having anal sex with a woman and by the idea of tossing a woman's salad (pleasing her anus orally). I'm in love with my girlfriend and I find h...
A. 4 August 2010: I don't care how much anyone love anyone, eating out someone's anus sounds utterly disgusting and not at all a turn on.
Yes, I think it's NORMAL for anyone not being into the HYPE of anal. A lot of people regard it as an EXIT only....
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Wife wants an open relationship so that I will stray and she can walk away
Q. My wife proposed that we have an open marriage because she refuses to meet my sexual needs and expectations. She wants me to find a "whore" who is willing to attach herself to my crotch and she can find someone who will meet her emotional needs. ...
A. 4 August 2010: Why not just divorce her? Find someone who will fullfill your sexual needs and she can find someone who can fullfill her emotional needs... OR you two can sit down and figure out how to do that for each other... If you two have no clue to do this, ... (read in full...)
Who's the Daddy?
Q. Morning everybody well i have something to ask im 7weeks pregnant and very happy about it but something is bothering me , well you see me and my husband have regular sex but then we tryed something else for 1 day i had sex with someone else i was ...
A. 3 August 2010:
How to Determine the Conception of Pregnancy
Step 1
Determine the date that your last period started.
Step 2
Count 12 days after the date your last period started. This is the time just before most women ovulate, although your menst... (read in full...)
Why have I had 2 periods in one month?
Q. Hi, just need some advice re menstrual cycle. I've always had really irregular periods, as in 2 or 3 months, never the same amount of time between them. anyway i started taking vitex tablets (supposed to help regulate periods) and tried them for a...
A. 3 August 2010: I don't know the product Vitex, but it is common that anything you take to regulate periods can make them irregular, short, long, light, heavy in the beginning til your body adapts.
Call your doctor and ask, to be sure that is it normal.... (read in full...)
Wait for what I want or settle for the guys who want me?
Q. I am 21 years old girl and i have never had a boyfriend but i would love to have one. There are a few guys that i know are interested in me but none of them are the kind of guy i am attracted to. But my question is, should i continue waiting un...
A. 3 August 2010: Never settle.
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How do I tell my mum I am pregnant at 13 by a 17 year old guy?
Q. Hey, I am 13 and pregnant. :| My boyfriend is 17. I want to keep the baby. But, my parents would never allow it. How do I tell my parents I am pregnant. I know automatically my mom would call me a slut. I just found out today. But, I was thin...
A. 3 August 2010: I'm sorry honey, but You have to tell her.
since you are only 13 I will make this post short, because I don't want to scare you. TELL your parents now.... (read in full...)
My partner wont pay a penny towards our family, yet he takes our loans and gives the money to his mother!
Q. I am 8 months pregnant with our first child but also have a little girl from a previous relationship who lives with us. My partner and I have been together for 5 years and he just hasnt contributed to the household bills, ever. I have spoken to ...
A. 3 August 2010: Kick the loser out.... (read in full...)
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