I want to be with my male cousin again but he said he doesn't want to do it again, how can I make him more comfortable?
Q. hey guys, I am 17 yo old and Bi-curious. A while ago my cousin and I masturbated together and this included doing it for each other. I thought it was great and at the time he enjoyed himself too. However, it has been some time since we did thi...
A. 25 August 2010: You need to respect that fact that he doesn't want to do it again. Sorry.
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I trusted him and he cheated on me
Q. well my boyfriend and i have now been going out for two months and the other night i trusted him to go to a party while i was at a dance class, he tells me two days later that he cheated on me and now i don't know what to do, so i guess my question ...
A. 25 August 2010: He couldn't even keep it in his pant for 2 months? Wow, I'd dump him asap. He's going to do it again and again and again.....
Don't let any guy treat you like a doormat.
Just do yourself a favor and don't mistrust the next guy you meet. ... (read in full...)
Dealing with drama because of my ex.....
Q. After my ex left me for his female friend he claimed ! He told Me not to call no more so i say what ever! i havent call him , now he callin me cause she wants to speak me woman to woman that some body been prank callin her and i told him look nobody ...
A. 25 August 2010: Block him number.Tell him to go jump in a lake.... (read in full...)
16 and wanting to be pregnant need advice!
Q. alright, so im 16 years old, alot of people around me are all having babies or just getting pregnant,plus the fact i looooove babies,i also have a really horrible family life, and sometimes just need to know someone cares about me i know i have all ...
A. 24 August 2010: Get a puppy, hun. You don't need a child now.
And read K_C100's post a few times, she is absolutely right.... (read in full...)
What is worse: Cheating because you find someone attractive or cheating because you are in love with the other person?
Q. would you think it was worse if someone cheated on you just because they thought someone was good looking and there were no feelings involved, or if they were in love with someone else they knew well (a good friend) and got drunk and and cheated on ...
A. 24 August 2010: Cheating is cheating.... (read in full...)
Is he just playing me?
Q. i have a boyfriend and we've been dating for about 5-ish months. his facebook relationship status is 'married to...' (i won't put the actual name) and her wall is public, so i've been on it, and he commented on her profile picture saying 'thass ...
A. 24 August 2010: I think he's playing you, it is ALL out there in the open.I'm just wondering WHY you are still with him/talking to him?
He's a player and proud of it. If you don't want to be "played" with dump the loser.
Doesn't the status :MARRIED = red f... (read in full...)
After my husband cheated and I moved out I slept with another man, it feels so good to get revenge for what my husband did to me! Was I wrong to do this?
Q. After i realised that its not working out, we both agreed that i should move out and get a place of my own, i moved out and i was still angry at him for cheating and all the bad treatment i got from my mother in law.i have been staying alone for ...
A. 24 August 2010: Two wrongs never make a right.... (read in full...)
Was there another girl involved or was I assuming things?
Q. I was dating a guy for 3 months! He spend everynight at my house but everything we did was out of town never in the city we live in! He started putting his phone on vibrate or turning it off all together at night! He started to show up at my house ...
A. 20 August 2010: It's hard to tell. Maybe you were over analyzing his every move, which indicate that you didn't trust him any further then you could throw him, but.... with that said, a girl's got to trust her gut instincts.
Whether he cheated or not, you need... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have been sleeping with my cousin since the age of 15?
Q. well... i was 15 at the time,and was staying over at my cousin's house, me and my cousin (female) would always play fighting and that.. except this time it got out of hand and we ended up sleeping together... she was 14 at the time... since then ...
A. 20 August 2010: I don't think I would call it normal. But it's not unheard off.... (read in full...)
Will an abusive ex boyfriend contact again after being warned by the police?
Q. Will an abusive ex boyfriend call after restraint order? i broke up with him for hitting, calling me names, cheating on me when we used to off and on, pushing me and when i decided to break up he was begging, pleading and stalking till i told par...
A. 20 August 2010: I hope he NEVER calls you again, honey. But I don't know if he will or not. Men like that have big problems with limits and being "told" what the can and can not do. YOU need to stay safe.
And i truly hope you fill find yourself a therapis... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 6 years breaks up with me almost every week!
Q. I have been with my bf almost 6years now and he breaks up with me every week. We always get back together cos i love him. When ever he doesnt like when i do something he leaves me. I dont know what to do this time? I love him as he is my first ...
A. 20 August 2010: He sounds manipulative and controlling - honey? THAT ISN'T LOVE.
How do you stop yourself? You block his number/facebook/e-mail and take some time to evaluate your life and your goals. IS this really how you want a guy ( or even a friend) to treat... (read in full...)
Bought the dress, picked the venue.. now he doesn't want t get married!
Q. after i picked out my dress, and we found a venue, my fiance broke up wit me. it was 2 days ago when it happened. he said we can live together n have kids together but he doesnt wanna get married. when i told him im not willing to shack up wit him, ...
A. 20 August 2010: Sell the dress. Cancel the venue and move on. DO NOT fall for his crap again. Find someone who has the same values and beliefs as yourself.
And I'm sorry he's a douche.... (read in full...)
Ever since he came back, he hasn't been the same!
Q. I have been with my husband for almost 4 years. We were together a full year before he got sent to Iraq. When he got back he just wasn't the same person. He was always sweet and caring and buying me roses for no reason. Now he is so short tempered ...
A. 20 August 2010: I agree that he could be suffering from PTSD. It is common for guys coming back from deployments.
You can check out www.armywivesforums.com for advice and support
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In love with a virgin but he cant be with me because I am not a virgin!
Q. So i am about to be 20 years old in month, during my freshman year i met this guy who was out of the ordinary. Hes 22 years old, and hes a virgin for religious reasons. But yet hes messed around with girls, including myself. We are in a ...
A. 20 August 2010: Sorry, this is something that can not be fixed. Find a guy who can accept ALL of you, not just use you til a virgin shows up..
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I want to end this affair but she is always saying how strong her feelings are for me!
Q. I am having a relationship with a work collegue, who is married. She keeps saying she has feelings for me but only stays in her marriage because of her children. This has been going on for about two years. Certain things dont add up and I want to ...
A. 20 August 2010: You are being used, but... YOU ARE ALSO LETTING HER USE YOU.
Obviously it's not a very healthy relationship, I strongly suggest you a. look for a new job and b. stop seeing her.
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Is she avoiding sex just to get gifts?
Q. Hi Girls, I am with my girlfriend for the last few weeks and we have known each other for the last 6months. I am doing evry thing I can to woo her even at this point by giving her expensive gifts, flowers every week, expensive dinners etc.. T...
A. 20 August 2010: So she is not exclusive with you. If you want her to be exclusive, DUMP her and find someone who can appreciate you.
Seems to me she was just playing you to get something.
Move on, man.
Delete her number ( and block it) same with her e-mail... (read in full...)
Wide hips: good or bad?
Q. I have an average body type, I'm 5'6, I'm athletic and try to keep in shape and I'm content with my body ..... Recently while getting dressed, my friend (a male) said to me that my "hips are wide" ... should I take that as a compliment or as insul...
A. 19 August 2010: It means you are shaped like a woman.
CURVES, honey ;)
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Why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones?
Q. I guess this question is more for guys but women your advice helps to. So my question is, why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones. By hot I mean girls who have a lot of sex apeal and of course they are beautiful. The ones ...
A. 19 August 2010: Hot girls will put out sooner then a cute girl.. So why not have a hot GF?
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I think my boyfriend is using me for sex!
Q. I think my bf is using me for sex...wen I never gave my bf sex we whre all lovey dovey until the day we had sex...it al changed ..now evrytime I see hm he wants us to have sex anywhere or anytym we've did it inda car ,under the tree even at the back ...
A. 19 August 2010: Either slow down and take a step back or accept that once he got some, HE WANTS it all the time.
I agree wit hEyeswideopen, using your body to keep a guy is not worth it.... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want our third baby!
Q. Hi I am 24 years old and have been married for four years.I recently found out that I am pregnant for the third time and was scared but excited.My husband does not want me to have the baby and says he will leave if I do.I can't understand how he can ...
A. 19 August 2010: What DOUCHE LORD! Sorry. He should have gotten a vacectomy if he didn't want any more kids OR used condoms 100% of the time..
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How do I tell my ex I'm pregnant? Is it okay to write a letter?
Q. I split up from my ex in February. It has taken 4 months for our solicitors to try to resolve our seperation and as yet it is not complete. Since February I have met an amazing new guy, unexpectedly I have become pregnant. We were obvioulsy shocked ...
A. 19 August 2010: I don't know why it is any of his business. Does he know you are in a new relationship?
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Should I ask her out or is it just too weird with her facebook page?
Q. First let me start by saying that this is my sisters page I am not a female I am a male age 30. I am interested in this young lady age 23 and I just saw something on her twitter page that bothered me. She posted "what.the.f**k. some chick just ...
A. 19 August 2010: You can't guard your and and find happiness at the same time. Love is like Russian Roulette.
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Cystic fibrosis and pregnancy.
Q. Me and my partner are trying for a baby and i have cystic fibrosis, i have heard rumours that being pregnant with cystic fibrosis can cause heart failure and other problems but i think its people just trying to scare me, is this true?? Is there ...
A. 19 August 2010: TALK to YOUR doctor, he knows YOUR case and any and all problem there can be connected to your illness.
EDUCATE yourself! Find a cystic fibrosis forum or support group, talk to people who have it and have children.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
Girls, what does it mean when my wife takes her sexiest panties for a girls weekend?
Q. My wife recently went for a weekend girls trip to Atlantic City. Her girlfriend is recently divorced and is on sort of a sexual rampage, where she has had sex with lots of men in what I would consider immoral circumstances (married guys, MMF, ...
A. 18 August 2010: THAT is great news! Sometimes the simplest little things can make a big difference I guess that is why :
Do onto others.... Or Karma.. have been around for so long :)
Marriage is not a give & take - it's a share and receive ;) ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to love my brothers best friend?
Q. Okay I'm 15 and my brother is 17 his best mate is 18. 3 year differance. My brother and him have always been best mates and I have always got along with him, we always mess about and joke on. I have felt that I have realy liked him for over a y...
A. 16 August 2010: I don't quite think it's wrong, but it will be a BIG mistake if you get involved. Consider how HE would feel when/if you guys broke up? How YOU would feel and last but not least... how your brother would feel...
Awkward!... (read in full...)
He's blackmailing me since I broke up with him...
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 14 months and he he will not accept that it is over. He keeps threatening to come and house and tell my parents all my secrets and if i don't reply to his texts he rings the house phone which means i have to ...
A. 16 August 2010: I fully agree with C. Grant as well. GET him of your back now. DON'T let him run your life.
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OCD in a relationship
Q. Is there anyone out there in a relationship with someone who has an OCD. I have just started a new relationship and she has told me about hers. I have read a bit about them but don’t fully understand the implications yet. I will read more over t...
A. 16 August 2010: Seems like hers is VERY mild. As long as you are both aware of it and work WITH IT/AROUND IT you can be just fine. She should try counseling again. Not many counselors are actually very knowledgeable in this, because of the huge variation in ... (read in full...)
In love with my stepdaughter...
Q. I recently slept with my step daughter, she's 20 i'm 40 and now have these deep, deep feelings of love for her and everything I try to I can't get her out of my heart, she has mentioned to other family members that she has feelings for me as well. ...
A. 16 August 2010: That is so messed up from every angle. I can not see something good coming from this AT ALL.
Good luck with that hot mess.... (read in full...)
A question about precum?
Q. This is probably a rhetorical question but is there any way to control precum? I seem to be getting it even just when kissing with my girlfriend, it can get to a point where it can be a bit embarrassing....
A. 16 August 2010: Not that I know of. I think you just need to remember that it happens because your GF REALLY turns you on. THAT is a good thing ;) ... (read in full...)
OCD in a relationship
Q. Is there anyone out there in a relationship with someone who has an OCD. I have just started a new relationship and she has told me about hers. I have read a bit about them but don’t fully understand the implications yet. I will read more over t...
A. 16 August 2010: I'm OCD with certain things ( OCD comes in MANY variations and mine, thankfully is very mild).
Mine is with even numbers, germs and certain patterns I HAVE to follow. I'm married ( 13 years) and have 3 kids, so I obviously can function just fin... (read in full...)
Does this virgin have the equipment to satisfy her?
Q. dear cupid, i've been going out with her for a month now. she has invited me to stay the night with her. but i'm nervous that my penis will not be big engouh for her. i'm 6inches when i'm erected and the girth is 1.5 and i have still got my forskin. ...
A. 16 August 2010: You need to stop the pity party waggon right now. Or you will never get laid or have a girl friend.
Find a hobby, get to know people - RELAX! you don't have to be someone you are not. There are PLENTY of shy people out there. However, if you don'... (read in full...)
How should I bring this up?
Q. I am physically unable to have sex. How and when do I bring that up to a potential partner?...
A. 16 August 2010: I would definently bring it up early and honestly.
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Does having sex while on my period pose a health risk?
Q. Dear folks. Is sex during periods(w/out a condom)a health risk?...
A. 16 August 2010: Please use a condom. But unless wither of you two have an STD there is no real health risk, but I think it's a little unhygienic to NOT use a condom that time of the month.... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and a virgin!
Q. i'm 19, a virgin, and deeply ashamed to be one. what's worse, is that I have absolutely no experience, not only when it comes to sex, but with anything concerning affection (kissing, ect). recently i've been talking to this guy and I think something ...
A. 16 August 2010: I was a virgin til 19. Nothing to be ashamed of AT ALL. No, my first time wasn't that bad. It was actually quite funny. M first BF and I had been dating for 6 months before we had sex, so we knew each other pretty well and even if the first (and ... (read in full...)
I can only climax when I masturbate, would this take a long time for my boyfriend to learn?
Q. My boyfriend and I have a good sex life. We do it at least twice a week. But recently, with curiosity, I started masturbating. All this time I've never really masturbated to a point where I would climax. It makes me realize that my boyfriend has ...
A. 16 August 2010: SHOW him how you get off. If he is smart he'll pick p on how to get you off REAL QUICK...
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I am worried the 13 year old I had sex with is pregnant!
Q. I am 13 i had unprotected sex with a girl my age but now i have a weird feeling that she's pregnant,and i need some advice...
A. 16 August 2010: What do you need advice on?
The birds and the bees? Well that is a little late I guess.
She CAN be pregnant. What will you do? Has she missed a period? If she misses her period she can test about 5 days after the first missed day. BUY a pregn... (read in full...)
I found out my wife was gangbanged by 4 guys and it turns me on
Q. I found out my wife was gangbanged by 4 guys. This was before we met. I am very turned on by this and would love to hear full details. My wife however, says she was drunk and ashamed Afterwards and won't open up about it. She did admit to having m...
A. 16 August 2010: She is ashamed. DON'T YOU GET IT? She didn't WANT to do it, but due to her drunkenness she did. Most likely she was one of those girls who would do just about anything to feel loved, including being gang-banged. Multiple orgasms or not... She re... (read in full...)
How can I avoid mother-in-law conflicts?
Q. My boyfriend wants to marry me and and wants us to live with his parents, all together. His parents like me, but I have a prejudge concerning the "mother-in-law/son's wife" wars, I'm afraid she might start to hate me. I have concrete examples in my ...
A. 16 August 2010: Tell him or show him your post.
IF you DO move in with your in-laws, talk to her. Maybe she can TEACH you how to cook. How to wash clothes and so on. Don't you think it's about TIME you learn some of these simple things?
Personally I ... (read in full...)
I get sick from the birth control pills!
Q. Hi :) i'm currently taking the pill (Microgynon 30) and it makes me feel so nauseus for a few hours each day and I hate it! I started it about 2 months ago and took it for a month, it made me ill but I continued taking it. Then I had the week's ...
A. 16 August 2010: Call your doctor (who prescribed the pill to you and talk to him) This may be a short term side effect, it may be a "permanent" (as in while you take that product) thing. So call him and explain how it makes you feel, maybe you need to switch ... (read in full...)
How could my husband be so coldhearted and leave me on my birthday?
Q. I have posted on here before regarding whether my marriage should continue the way it is... anyway, just to make it even more fun, my husband ended our marriage on my birthday. I am devestated. Reasons why he says are that he will never trust me. ...
A. 16 August 2010: Honestly he seems like a controlling SOB. Why stay in a relationship like that? He surely doesn't love you, respect you or even trust you... what else is left?
I do think women in the military have a VERY tough job keeping their family together... (read in full...)
Is she avoiding sex just to get gifts?
Q. Hi Girls, I am with my girlfriend for the last few weeks and we have known each other for the last 6months. I am doing evry thing I can to woo her even at this point by giving her expensive gifts, flowers every week, expensive dinners etc.. T...
A. 16 August 2010: I'd say tell her she is in control. You follow "orders" and no I'm not meaning in a Dom/Sub relationship, but you need to take it a bit more gentle.
A rough quickie is FINE every now and then, but LOVEMAKING is preferable in the beginnin... (read in full...)
Is she avoiding sex just to get gifts?
Q. Hi Girls, I am with my girlfriend for the last few weeks and we have known each other for the last 6months. I am doing evry thing I can to woo her even at this point by giving her expensive gifts, flowers every week, expensive dinners etc.. T...
A. 14 August 2010: Stop with the gift giving and see how it goes. I think it's ridiculous that you think you have to BUY her and that she has to REPAY you with sex.
People have different standards, morals & values, maybe you two need to talk about those and either g... (read in full...)
How could my husband be so coldhearted and leave me on my birthday?
Q. I have posted on here before regarding whether my marriage should continue the way it is... anyway, just to make it even more fun, my husband ended our marriage on my birthday. I am devestated. Reasons why he says are that he will never trust me. ...
A. 14 August 2010: Why does he not trust you any more?
Just like you can MAKE anyone love you you can't MAKE anyone trust you.
If he wanted to work things out I would suggest you guys found a neutral third party, such as a priest, pastor, rabbi or even jsut a m... (read in full...)
Does this virgin have the equipment to satisfy her?
Q. dear cupid, i've been going out with her for a month now. she has invited me to stay the night with her. but i'm nervous that my penis will not be big engouh for her. i'm 6inches when i'm erected and the girth is 1.5 and i have still got my forskin. ...
A. 12 August 2010: In case you haven't heard it before, it really isn't the SIZE that determine whether a women enjoys sex or not.
TAKE your time with foreplay. Get her of first using fingers and mouth and there will be nothing to worry about.
ASK her what ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out or is it just too weird with her facebook page?
Q. First let me start by saying that this is my sisters page I am not a female I am a male age 30. I am interested in this young lady age 23 and I just saw something on her twitter page that bothered me. She posted "what.the.f**k. some chick just ...
A. 12 August 2010: Nope thanks, I'm old and happily married.
My husband don't do Facebook or any other social networking sites, he's too busy living life and working. BUT I DO have to deal with two his EX's. Since there are children involved, I can NOT dictate ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out or is it just too weird with her facebook page?
Q. First let me start by saying that this is my sisters page I am not a female I am a male age 30. I am interested in this young lady age 23 and I just saw something on her twitter page that bothered me. She posted "what.the.f**k. some chick just ...
A. 6 August 2010: I agree 100% with Eyeswideopen.
Chill. Some people end relationships amicable and stay in touch. Some only through Facebook and not outside the net.
I think you are totally OVER analyzing this poor chick.... (read in full...)
Girls, what does it mean when my wife takes her sexiest panties for a girls weekend?
Q. My wife recently went for a weekend girls trip to Atlantic City. Her girlfriend is recently divorced and is on sort of a sexual rampage, where she has had sex with lots of men in what I would consider immoral circumstances (married guys, MMF, ...
A. 16 July 2010: You can wear a sweat suit with sexy panties. It's not always because you want a guy to SEE your panties, wearing them and knowing can be quite a "high".
I don't think your wife would cheat on you, just because her BFF is on a sexual rampage,... (read in full...)
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