My girlfriend thinks I should "let her off" and allow her to cheat!
Q. My girlfriend confessed to cheating on me by saying that she's developed feelings for another guy, who also happens to be an old friend of mine. He knows that i and her are in a relationship but even then she was attracted to him after he said that ...
A. 9 September 2010: The "I don't know" is just the best excuse she can come up with that she think may not hurt your feelings too much.
She wants to do it and for whatever reason she feels entitled to do it. If I'm not wrong she will do it anyways with or with out... (read in full...)
G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years
Q. When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...
A. 9 September 2010: So you firmly believe that a girl with a regular sex partner is a whore and a guy in the same situation is a stud?
WOW talk about being a big time misogynist! Good luck with finding a women with that mindset.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend thinks I should "let her off" and allow her to cheat!
Q. My girlfriend confessed to cheating on me by saying that she's developed feelings for another guy, who also happens to be an old friend of mine. He knows that i and her are in a relationship but even then she was attracted to him after he said that ...
A. 9 September 2010: Ask her how she would feel if you wanted to FUCK (pardon the bluntness) her best female friend.. just once?
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G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years
Q. When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...
A. 9 September 2010: I think you are over reacting a tad as well. So she was in a "fuck-buddy" relationship.. So what?
The fact that she continued it into YOUR relationship is more worrisome and could cause some trust issues.
I don't think that she is some dude's U... (read in full...)
Which gender of a baby will generally prefer boy or girl??
Q. Hi I would like to ask you people that which gender of a baby you generally prefer either a boy baby or girl baby. Because my wife is a pregnant and she wants a boy baby. For me anyone is fine. I am worried that she may upset if we get a girl ba...
A. 9 September 2010: To me the gender was unimportant, I just wanted healthy happy babies.
I have 3 daughters and I couldn't be happier. If one or all 3 had been boys, that would have been just fine too.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend thinks I should "let her off" and allow her to cheat!
Q. My girlfriend confessed to cheating on me by saying that she's developed feelings for another guy, who also happens to be an old friend of mine. He knows that i and her are in a relationship but even then she was attracted to him after he said that ...
A. 9 September 2010: Why not let her go PERMANTLY? Find yourself a girl who wants YOU and no body but you.... (read in full...)
Why does he talk to other girls when he says he loves me?
Q. I have this boyfriend. I've heard rumors. I've asked him about them, but he denies them. The first time i heard something about him, I asked him, and he said they were just friends. Today, i wake up, and on his status he's talking about a ...
A. 9 September 2010: Sometimes life sucks. Sometimes people suck. When we get into a relationship with another person and open up, share, love and live with them, we sometimes overlook things we don't like or don't want to see.
You had( have) feelings for this guy... (read in full...)
How can I tell him I just want to date and not be his girlfriend?
Q. I have a really HUGE problem. This really sweet guy friend of mine asked me on a date. I said yes, and at the time I thought it would be a nice experience for me. It will be my first date (and I've been holding off on this for a while). Soon aft...
A. 8 September 2010: Just enjoy the date. Who knows maybe he isn't looking for "happily ever after" either.
You can date without wanting a long term relationship, a house with a white picket fence, 2.5 kids.... :)
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Why does he talk to other girls when he says he loves me?
Q. I have this boyfriend. I've heard rumors. I've asked him about them, but he denies them. The first time i heard something about him, I asked him, and he said they were just friends. Today, i wake up, and on his status he's talking about a ...
A. 8 September 2010: Honey, he bought the ring to keep you around.. Some men thinks that if you offer a girl a ring (promise of a future together) the girl can't think straight, she is so happy with giddiness that she will overlook any and all things/flaws.
A ring wil... (read in full...)
Is he waiting for someone else or just really wants to take things slow?
Q. So, I met this guy at a party and never gave him my number... he searched for me and then asked for my number, we talked for a week and the first time we hung out he tried having sex with me.. I denied him and told him that i thought we were looking ...
A. 7 September 2010: Honestly, I'd move on. He might be hanging onto you till something "greener" turn up.... (read in full...)
I don't want to be hurt because he's confused!
Q. For the past few months I have been dating a guy that has been seperated from his wife for over a year. There is a part of me that has always been bothered by the fact that he is not "divorced". Everything is going fine and we talk and text ...
A. 7 September 2010: I don't think he is over his ex either, which unfortunately for you... makes you the rebound girl. The girl he will screw around with, hang out with when he can't be with the ex.
If he needs to ""figure" anything out in relationship to his ex..... (read in full...)
Why does he talk to other girls when he says he loves me?
Q. I have this boyfriend. I've heard rumors. I've asked him about them, but he denies them. The first time i heard something about him, I asked him, and he said they were just friends. Today, i wake up, and on his status he's talking about a ...
A. 7 September 2010: This is not about you, honey. It's about his EGO. You are not around to "stroke" his ego constantly so he seeks attention from other girls.
I think what you need to learn how to trust is your GUT instinct. It seems like it's telling YOU that you... (read in full...)
Magic Number - 5 too many?
Q. I told a close (male) friend of mine my magic number the other day (5). He seemed to think it was pretty high. I can account for these: 1. first time 2. 3 yr relationship 3. short relationship 4. 1 night stand 5. current relationship. I hav...
A. 7 September 2010: I don't think it's a high number. I think the whole disclosure of numbers and who/when/what is ridiculous. Is it ever really important how many/few your partner slept with?
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Help me translate what he meant by his comment!
Q. Hey, so I need some help to translate a comment this guy made. I know him through work, he asked me out at the weekend, had a great time, went to a movie. Then asked me out again last night. Again, had a great time. He sent me a text saying ...
A. 7 September 2010:
I'd take that as a very great compliment! :)
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She says I'm better even though they were bigger!
Q. ive been with the same woman for 14 years.i just found out that she slept with 3 of my friends four yrs ago.one a really close friend.iam now very insecure and hurt cuz i knw that they are bigger than me in penis size.so i knw she enjoyed it ...
A. 7 September 2010: I agree with Dirtball. Penis size should be the least of your worries... she slept with 3! of your friends?
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My boyfriend is too friendly with the ladies!
Q. My boyfriend continues to greet other females by giving them an embracing hug and an affectionate kiss in front of me, after I have asked him not to....
A. 7 September 2010: If that is how he's always greeted females friends why is it a problem now?
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Being called their partner--meaning?
Q. if you are in a long term relationship with someone, and they call you their partner, what does that mean exactly?...
A. 7 September 2010: Most likely he doesn't like the expression GIRLFRIEND, so partner is the better expression.
I do like Cerberus explanation. It makes sense.... (read in full...)
How long do I wait before she leaves her boyfriend to be with me?
Q. Hey, i'm a genuine guy from Australia who fell in love with who i think is the perfect girl for me. I met her on holidays 5 weeks ago and only spent 5 days with her. She was travelling with her best friend both from Slovakia. We spoke of a future ...
A. 7 September 2010: How do you know for sure that you weren't "just" a holiday romance? And...... Do you really think you can trust a girl who has a fling with one guy while still dating another?
If she really did care she would not be living with him at all after me... (read in full...)
Why cant I stop being used?
Q. I have been seeing a guy that has a girlfriend for nearly half a year. It all started with a drunken kiss after a night out then things started to get a little serious. I know it is wrong and I would be so hurt if someone did it to me so i dont know ...
A. 7 September 2010: You are using him just as much as he is using you.
Obviously you want your needs met more then you want a guy in your life, who loves and respects you, or you wouldn't be screwing around with a guy who is taken.... (read in full...)
I think he sees me as whore
Q. Ok, I started a relationship with a guy that I have just meet like 2 months ago. He said that he really likes me, I don't really like him like for a boyfriend, but he's really nice with me and seems that we have some things in common si I wanted to ...
A. 7 September 2010: 4 days after meeting you he asks for webcam sex? Seems to me he is thinking with his nether regions and is not really after a GF, but someone to share webcam sex with.... (read in full...)
Women was very bold right in front of my eyes toward my husband
Q. My husband is a constant lier, we went to a collegue of his wedding, and there was a divorced women constantly talking right at him. It was as if we were not there, this collegue, I have heard her name mentioned numerous times in our home but very ...
A. 7 September 2010: I think the woman was WAY out of line, but I think you your husband was really disrespectful to you.
Sorry, I would sit him down and talk to him.
They may be good work colleagues, but that doesn't mean he can't respect his wife at a wedding/fun... (read in full...)
Friend wants me to spy on her ex husband
Q. My colleague wants me to spy on her ex husband... They are now divorced and he left her for someone else 2 years ago. I believe my colleague is very much in love with him still and doesn't accept the fact he's moved on. My colleague has 2 c...
A. 7 September 2010: I would tell her that she needs to do her own "dirty" work. She is borderline obsessive about her ex. Which in turn means she isn't moving forward in her life at all.
Kids or no kids, she needs to find a way to let go or she will go crazy.
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Why do men like shorter women and shy away from tall ones?
Q. I am a 5'7 3/4" female. I'm proud of that quarter inch below 8, because I hate being tall. So guys, honestly, what is the real reason why you flock to short women and pass over the tall ones? Is it because they're cuter and more fragile and make ...
A. 7 September 2010: I'm 5 foot 7 and I don't regard myself as tall, AT ALL. My husband is 6 foot 3 though.
And I doubt shorter women are "tighter" anywhere.
I think it's a primitive instinc in men to want to protect the "weaker", a short female makes the male f... (read in full...)
My b/f posted for men-to-men
Q. Help! My boyfriend of 4 years posted personals Men to Men on Craigslist. I was totally shocked. In addition he semed to know all the lingo and I am totally disgusted by reading it. Appears he is not new at this. I even replied to one of his ...
A. 3 September 2010: Wow, it would be over for he. Men don't post MFM on Craiglist for fun.
Can you imagine what kind of STD's he can be running around with is he does casual sex, be it gay or bi? THOSE he has no problem passing on to you.
Get an appointment and ... (read in full...)
I feel double betrayed by my husband
Q. I am 25 years old, my husband and i have been married for 5 years and we have 3 children together, ages 4, 3 and 1. My husband walked out on the kids and me the day i was discharged from the hospital with our newborn babygirl (12 months ago) and he ...
A. 3 September 2010: Divorce his cheating ass, contact Child support services and seek child support and full custody.
Honey, focus on you and the kids, he isn't worth a pot to piss in.... (read in full...)
Should I avoid the picnic my ex might be attending?
Q. I've been broken up w/my boyfriend for about a week or so and I've been invited to go to a Labor Day Picnic on Saturday. All the advise I hear is stay away and if he wants to call he will, but should I attend a party that he MIGHT be at? He has his ...
A. 3 September 2010: I agree with Cindy. Go, have fun. If he shows up be polite but keep your distance. If it gets too much head home..
WHY should you sit at home, because he "might" be some place?
Live you life!... (read in full...)
Has anyone actually become pregnant after the pulling out technique?
Q. Hey Me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex but he doesn't actually ejaculate inside me.. I've been hearing mixed comments about this as some people say it is very unlikely to get pregnant and some think it is very likely.. Has anyone ...
A. 3 September 2010: It all comes down to two things.... Her cycle and how many sperms are in his pre-cum. THAT is all you need to get knocked up.
To think it's a safe method at all... is very naive.
Why play with fire if you know you can get burned?
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After I got proof of him with another girl, he called me a psycho and broke up!
Q. I was with my boyfriend for four years, everything was going well till early this year. He quit his job and started his business. He was stressed out and start hanging out with his friends alot more. He joined church groups and start riding his ...
A. 3 September 2010: Honey, he's abusive and he cheats... BE glad he showed his true colors before you decided to make this relationship more then it was. (such as marriage)
WHY would you need to talk about it? You have the proof? He is just REALLY pissed off that not... (read in full...)
What is her problem? I have never seen this side to her before!
Q. I got married recently and I really regret inviting an ex colleague of mine which I thought was a friend! Since I've been back from honeymoon all she has done is slag off my wedding, not only to me but to some mutual friends and god knows who e...
A. 2 September 2010: Let me guess.... SHE is not married herself?
Forget about her. If she slags any more on your wedding, tell her to SHUT up and find another topic. Poor btich is green with envy, that is for sure.
And honestly, I would stop having anything ... (read in full...)
Has my ex just come back to me to take my virginity?
Q. Dear cupid,i was dating my ex for 9 months and we never had sex,and i found out that he was cheating and ended it,we got back together this year(june)and he think we should have sex,did he come back to get what he never got at the first place?my ...
A. 2 September 2010: I think you already know. Don't have sex with anyone til YOU want to and feel ready.
I think, personally, that is wants to be the "one" to pop your cherry.... (read in full...)
My wife likes to be completely dominated, and while I enjoy this there are a few things worrying me about this.....
Q. the back story... After 8 years of marriage my wife has suddenly discovered that she likes to be completely and utterly dominated. She has always been that way to a point however now she wants to take it to a whole other level. She likes it when I h...
A. 2 September 2010: I want to ask you this, WHAT has changed in HER life that she made such a huge leap?
I think you two need to seriously discuss this. I can't imagine how you two can not want to discuss it. You could find a counselor, who specialize in all things s... (read in full...)
I'm 21 she's 15. Is morally it ok that I want to date her?
Q. So I've recently met this girl, she's 15, but she seems so nice and mature, but ok she can also be quite childish as well. But she seems really into me and I'm 21, now the legal age for stuff I know is 16 but I wouldnt do anything with this girl ...
A. 2 September 2010: I think you need to be VERY careful around this girl. You said she was nice and mature, but really WHAT do you guy have in common?
You life as you know it can be over in a flash if you guys have sex and she regrets it or even mention it to anyon... (read in full...)
He blames me for not being able to cum! Help!
Q. I've met this much older man after my divorce. We have sex like we were in our thirties. Four years on he is strugling to satisfy me. And I am near 50 and I am not so crazy about sex. It doesnt matter to me we have less sex. The thing that ...
A. 1 September 2010: NOT your fault honey. I want to tie a knot on his junk for trying to pin it on you.
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Is it wrong to have sex with a prostitute? I'm married.
Q. I love my wife, and have never cheated on her, and have no fantasies about doing so in the future. However, what if your wife just flat out refuses to do something that you are curious about? What if you want to experience a threesome at lea...
A. 1 September 2010: I think you need to stop thinking with your "lower" head and get over your teenage sex fantasies.
You REALLY don't have to live out all your fantasies. Most of them are WAY better if they stay in your head any how.
I can not understand why y... (read in full...)
I'm serving in Iraq, and My wife has cheated on me.
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title.Sorry, i could not use the one you requested, as its already been used. Hello, I'm 31 yrs old and currently deployed in Iraq. About 1 month ago my wife told me that she had gotten drunk after work one night and ended sl...
A. 1 September 2010: I'm an Army wife, have been for 13 years. I have never cheated nor do I ever think I will, but that is another matter.
I'm sorry this happened to you. I don't really think there ever is a good excuse for cheating, but still it happens and it happe... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slapped me and told me I deserved it
Q. hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out with each other for 6 months now, one night we were drinking and we got into an argument, and he slapped me, and told me i deserved it, i said you shouldnt of hit me, he said no, i havnt hit you, ive only ...
A. 30 August 2010: In my book people don't hit and no one ever "deserves" to get slapped, kicked, punched....
It will escalate. My question to you is this:
WHY are you accepting this treatment from any one and specially from someone who supposedly love and care for... (read in full...)
Online date doesn't look at all like her photos. I'm not attracted, even a little repulsed by her appearance!
Q. I met this woman online, very quickly the relationship escalated emotionaly, we exchanged many pictures and shared with eachother about our feelings, hopes and fears on a very deep level. We decided to meet, so i went down to where she lives ...
A. 26 August 2010: If the physical chemistry isn't there, it isn't there. You can not force it.
I would let her down nicely though.
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Will taking 12 diabetes pills have any affect on me long term?
Q. hey, basically about a month ago i took 12 diabetes pills, (they were my grandmas coz she has diabetes, mum was going to chuck them) i didnt take them to kill myself, just to be sick because id eaten too much that day and wanted everything out of my ...
A. 26 August 2010: That is not very smart. I hope you stop taking them, they are your gran's MEDICIN and it;s not made for people to use all willy nilly.
I am not a doctor and can't tell you what will happen if you keep doing this, but your body's own insulin ... (read in full...)
Does familiarity kill desire?
Q. Do all men lose desire for their partner when they've been together for a while? Does familiarity kill desire? It is my dream to have a relationship with someone, that lasts, with someone who I can connect intellectually and emotionally with, sh...
A. 25 August 2010: I think the only time familiarity kills desire is when both parties aren't fully pleased and/or isn't matched in their sexual appetite.
Of course sex can get boring. That is why having an imagination is key.... (read in full...)
I was really offended. Am I being silly?
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. He is really great and we get on so well. Just the other night we where lying in bed as usual watching tele and he said to me “if you gave me a blow job for everytime I've watched porn you have a ...
A. 25 August 2010: I agree he was hinting in a OH so NOT subtle way for you to give him a BJ.... Just a bad attempt at hinting.. and humor.. Let it go.... (read in full...)
How do I to get friends wives to go topless too?
Q. I asked my wife to try to go topless in our hot tub in front of two other couples - and she did! It was our plan for me to say something as a joke, like, "house rules, everyone has to go topless". And then my wife was to say OK, and hopefully the ...
A. 25 August 2010: I'm betting you and your wife made a lot of people uncomfortable. Specially if they have different values.
I suggest you two find some swinger club or find people who wants to do that kind of thing instead of this.
I tell you right now if you... (read in full...)
He locks up his PORN!!
Q. My lover lives abroad but we see each other as often as possible. However there is something that bothers me about him, he keeps his porn actually locked in a drawer and wont let me see it (although he did once ask if I wanted to watch a porn film ...
A. 25 August 2010: I wouldn't assume it child porn or bestiality/SM/BM - it could be very vanilla, unless you are WAY younger then him?
I would guess he IS offended by you thinking he could go for that kind of porn.
Some men guard their porn from their partner, b... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his sister cut my hair, but they wont own up to messing it up!
Q. dear cupid , a year ago i let my partner and his sister cut the ends off my hair , something was going on as i could tell from the way thay where giggling his sister kept goin over to the bin an putting things in , i told my friend about what had ...
A. 25 August 2010: Wow, are you dating a 4 year old?
I know it's "just" hair but who DOES that?
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I want to be with my male cousin again but he said he doesn't want to do it again, how can I make him more comfortable?
Q. hey guys, I am 17 yo old and Bi-curious. A while ago my cousin and I masturbated together and this included doing it for each other. I thought it was great and at the time he enjoyed himself too. However, it has been some time since we did thi...
A. 25 August 2010: You need to respect that fact that he doesn't want to do it again. Sorry.
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