Got drunk, flipped out and now my guy doesn't want to be with me!
Q. Help! I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. Wev'e had some problems in the past with me drinking hard liquor which made me crazy and flip out. Plus I've lost my job almost a year ago so I am stressed to the max. So we broke up got back ...
A. 16 September 2010: It's hard to say, but I think you need to focus on yourself a bit more here. IF it is a pattern that you "behave badly" when drunk, you need to stop drinking.
If not, I doubt you will have a successful relationship.
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If someone ignores you does that mean that they like you?
Q. Apparently a method of telling someone you like them without saying anything is by ignoring/not talking to them. To what extent is this true and is this a popular method to use when you like someone? And is there any way at all if you can ...
A. 16 September 2010: If you are immature or insecure - MAYBE ignoring someone can mean you care.
Personally, I think it's the silliest way to show you are interested.... (read in full...)
I can't stop eating! Pregnant?
Q. Hi everyone, Ok here goes; recently I have been feeling a little strange. For starters I cannot stop eating! I am always hungry. I had no idea why, i'm quite a small girl and I dont usually eat a lot, but right now I literally cannot seem to fill ...
A. 16 September 2010: If you think you are, take a test. If you are positive, see a doctor.
It is also VERY normal for people to consume more once the Fall season kicks in.... (read in full...)
Should I apologise to a girl that thinks I'm a stalker???
Q. This girl really hurt my feelings when she called me a stalker... but I was not stalking her - or harrassing her. I just sent her messages on myspace saying 'hi' and that I hoped she had a good day... and then I left her alone. She then came into ...
A. 16 September 2010: I agree, IGNORE! & let it go.
And..... take yourself off her Facebook page. I don't think you need to apologize at all, and I'm pretty sure she doesn't want you too. IMHO if you apologize you are admitting to some wrongdoing, in this case, st... (read in full...)
Can anybody tell my why your vagina feels different from one day to the next?
Q. My husband accuses me of cheating all the time. His reason is one day we will have sex and my vagina is tight and the next time he says its loose. He tells me a man can tell when another guy has been in his "stuff". I'm NOT cheating on him. Can an...
A. 16 September 2010: He's got to be crazy!
No he can not TELL if someone has been in your vagina. What absolute crazy-talk.
That is just to paranoid and controlling.. and well, crazy.
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I feel like I have to be around when he drinks so he wont do anything stupid.
Q. I don’t feel comfortable with him going out without me. In the start of our relationship he did some things to loose my trust. Now over a year and a half later, we have been doing really good (had our up's and downs) but have really came a long way, ...
A. 16 September 2010: I understand where you are coming from, but with this lack of trust, your relationship will not go the distance.
I know he may be hard to trust, but the only way he can PROVE he is trustworthy is by him taking some responsibility for his own acti... (read in full...)
Wedding already paid for but I'm not attracted to her and don't think I love her!
Q. Hi im a 25 yrs old man. I find very difficult for me to say no to other people or to tell anything that will make anybody feel bad. I been almost all my life a strong christian, trying to save myself to my wife. in until i was 23 i had never been in ...
A. 16 September 2010: I agree with the other two Aunties/Uncles.. You need to cancel this wedding or at least postpone it.
I don't know if what you are feeling is a case of cold feet or something deeper.
By getting married when THIS is how you feel, you are not doin... (read in full...)
HE has a facebook account but doesn't want me to have one!!!
Q. My boyfriend of a year and 7 months has a facebook account but doesn't want me to have one. We have trust issues. Is that like fair? Is it right of him to do that? I dont talk to any of my friends anymore because of our trust issues and i think it ...
A. 16 September 2010: I'm sorry, actually I'm not. If he break up over something like that he isn't worth a pot to piss in.
What would have been next? You can't talk to dark haired men? Or you can't wear red clothes? You can't watch HBO?
What I AM sorry about, is ... (read in full...)
My friend keeps flirting with my boyfriend and I hate it... what can I do?
Q. Me and my best friend have known each other for 8 years and have been best friends since then, she's always been a bit jealous of my other friends and how i look but now ive been in a relationship for 5 months with a boy i know from air cadets and ...
A. 15 September 2010: Well, I think she actually likes starting drama. Maybe you need to talk to your BF? If she is flirting with him, he can stop it easily.. by not flirting back.
I think she is not being a very good friend.
And maybe.... you need to trust your BF... (read in full...)
I asked my boyfriend a question should I be mad for the answer he gave me?
Q. [Mod note* poster your suggested title was already taken]I asked my man, an "If we were to break up" question. I asked would you still love me? his answer was "probably". But If I was asked this question I would say I def would, without a doubt ...
A. 15 September 2010: Would it even matter? If you were broken up wouldn't it be better that he didn't love you so the both of you can move on?
I think you are making a mountain out of a molehill.... (read in full...)
Aids & Bj's?
Q. what is the chance of aids from a blow job...
A. 15 September 2010:
Why even risk it? You Can give & receive a BJ with a condom on.. yeah it may not be the same, but at least you are safe.... (read in full...)
Why does my husband want me to "whore" myself out?
Q. My husband is always after me to reveal my private bits to other people. For example, if we are going out for the evening with another couple, he loves it if I wear a sheer bra and a blouse that gapes open. We went biking on the path and he got me ...
A. 15 September 2010: Since you seem to get something out of this, I'm not sure why you are disliking the idea so much. It is because you THINK you should feel differently? That you "ought" to be modest?
Personally I find people showing off their bodies pretty normal. ... (read in full...)
Did I over-react to the nurses comments?
Q. My boyfriend had knee surgery today. We r both in our thirties and the nurse looked about our age. Well she called him sweetie which didn't bother me but then she said babe r u ready to go in,well that mad me mad and I walked out. As I was walking ...
A. 15 September 2010: I think it's REALLY unprofessional when a nurse calls her patients honey, sweetie, babe.... She has his chart she can call him by his name.
Though I wouldn't be upset. Some women just talk like that.... (read in full...)
We've both cheated and I think we're better off not together
Q. He dumped me (again). Now he wants me back (again). ): I love him and want him back but I'm starting to think it would be better if we weren't together! - we've both cheated. It was ages ago, but it's still there, hanging over the relationship. Ca...
A. 15 September 2010: No a good reason in sight to stay together.
LEARN from this relationship and move on. It seems to me the expression: "better the devil you know" is WHY you two are still together. And honestly, that is NEVER a good reason.
You both deserve hap... (read in full...)
Why can't I conceive yet?
Q. hi i and the coil in for 4 years and i got it took out last tuesday this month i had intercourse wit my husband and he came and i done the test on monday but it came back negative can you tell mewhat the problem could be that i can't conceive yet ...
A. 15 September 2010: Conceptions doesn't always happen BANG! when you want it too.
Relax and enjoy the baby making process. You can also start an ovulation tracker to see when you are the most fertile.
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Why does an ex act mean for no reason?
Q. What does it mean when an exboyfriend or exgirlfriend acts mean to you for no reason at all? ...
A. 15 September 2010: They are showing their true colors. I would stay away from them and be glad they are an ex.
Time to cut them out of your life and move on.... (read in full...)
Do I chose the ex fiance or the new guy?
Q. How to choose between 2 guys I am currently in a similar position me and my ex fiancé were together for 5 years we would have been getting married this November then in may of this year he cheated on me with this woman close to his work he says it ...
A. 15 September 2010: This is a choice only YOU can make.
Your ex cheated on you and then consequently blames you for his actions, doesn't seem like he really have a lot of respect for you or women in general. Just because you two were together for a long time doesn't ... (read in full...)
I don't know which way is which anymore!
Q. So it started about 4months ago... I was with someone and had an interest in someone else. I've been really good friends with this guy and having relationship problems and I hooked up with him. Well we were just the usually friends with benefits but ...
A. 15 September 2010: Maybe you need to find a Planned Parenthood and get some help, whether you want to abort,keep or adopt the child you need to make plans and start taking care of yourself.
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Embarrassing! mom gives me a curfew!
Q. Wow this is embarrassing but my mom gives me a bedtime on weekdays. Its really early and I don't get to hang out with my friends. I want to tell her about it but I'm scared to. She never let's me do a lot of things. Please tell me what to do! Please ...
A. 15 September 2010: Sorry honey, as long as you live in your mothers house it's her rules.
If you are between 13-15 there is NOTHING wrong in having a curfew. MAYBE if you stick to her rules and she sees you can trust her, you can get some slack on certain rules.
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Disturbing boy in my class
Q. There is a guy in my class who iz always rubbing me.!!!! Rubbing my back legs chest hips butt and trys for my other part also. He trys to put my hand in his pants. He acutualy one stuck his hand down his pants then when I was not paying attentio...
A. 15 September 2010: What a sick bugger. You need to tell your teacher now. It will only escalate. Who knows what he is capable off.
Also talk to your parents, this needs to stop.
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End of marriage, what do I do with everything?
Q. Hi there. I am divorced, it was not what I wanted, he did. It has been a year. Our marriage was loveless for several years. The 4 kids are all adults and they struggle with it some. My question is this: What do I do with things like our wedding ...
A. 15 September 2010: The questions is not what to do, it is what do YOU want to do with them?
Do YOU want to keep them? If not, talk to your kids. If they want any of it let them, if not.. toss them. The memories will always be with you, mementos or not.
If you ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend only want sex?
Q. My bf and I hangout out more now, bt the problem iss thatt he will only take me to his house, to have sex, and thats all. I know he is busy with school and stuff, bt come on,, only sex. Am i right or no???...
A. 15 September 2010: He does it because you LET him.
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Married man says he needs a "cure" to marry me?? What does that mean?
Q. i have just came back from turkey i meet a lovely kurdish waiter i spent two days with him before returning home he was lovely to me treated me like a princess he has a kurdish wife and daughter back home in east turkey he told me about his wife he ...
A. 15 September 2010: Is he a Christian or Jewish Kurd?
"Cure" might mean permission from his priest/rabbi.
However, I feel a need to STRONGLY warn you to slow down. You spend 2 days with this man and you already talk marriage? WHILE he is still married? Be it a... (read in full...)
My heart says not to end this buy my head says I should? interracial relationship
Q. I am a white male, live and have lived in a mainly white suburb all my life, and most of my associations have been with others of my race. We are a pretty liberal family and I have always been raised that everyone is equal, but that being said our ...
A. 15 September 2010: Thank you for your comment :)
I hope the two of you can be happy together, regardless of everything.
And no, I didn't grow up in your neighborhood, I grew up in a small town in Denmark.
Change starts at home. It can spread (good or bad) lik... (read in full...)
Grey crusties on my nipple? what could cause this?
Q. i had a nap after work today while dinner was cooking and when i woke up my boyfriend noticed what looked like a dirt smudge on my nipple. i dont think it was there there before my nap sonim assuming it happened while i was sleeping. i tried to rub ...
A. 15 September 2010: Like I said, women who aren't pregnant can lactate too. So if you are big milk drinker, switch to organic milk.
I hope it turns out the way you want it too with regards to the pregnancy test.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has an oversized-women obsession!
Q. I found out that my boyfriend has cheated on me with oversized, unattractive, low class women. I thought this had been put to rest but recently discovered that he masturbates with the use of Voluptuous magazine as well as other big girl materials. ...
A. 15 September 2010: I still say you focus you anger at the wrong people. HE cheated. HE is the one in a relationship with you.
Why not move on and find a decent fella? ... (read in full...)
Period is late -- could I be pregnant?
Q. Alright. I am 19 and My fiance and I just started having sex. It was my first time with him. I am 4 days late on my period could I be pregnant? He used a condom the first time, but he did not use one the second. But he did pull out before anything ...
A. 14 September 2010: Like said below, the PULL out "method" is NOT a safe way to practise safe sex.
No glove, no love - EVERY TIME!
I suggest you go buy yourself a pregnancy test. ... (read in full...)
My parents have always treated me poorly, preferring my sister to me. Time to walk away?
Q. All the time I was growing up my parents made no secret of the fact my younger sister was the preferred child. From the day she was born they compared us, always to my detriment. Everyone was told that I’d been a horrible baby, forever crying a...
A. 14 September 2010: Why are you still competing with your sister? You do know you still do, right?
Honestly, I would walk away, give the lot of them some space to miss you and if they don't, it surely is THEIR loss.
Even if it is family, it sounds toxic for you.
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My boyfriend has an oversized-women obsession!
Q. I found out that my boyfriend has cheated on me with oversized, unattractive, low class women. I thought this had been put to rest but recently discovered that he masturbates with the use of Voluptuous magazine as well as other big girl materials. ...
A. 14 September 2010: Why are you being so judgement of these women? they didn't do a DARN thing to you. YOU BF is the one who deserves your anger.
Why are you with him if he constantly cheat is more the question.
The hope I see.... Is you having some self respec... (read in full...)
I have problems with my violent teenager son, who doesn't want me to date!
Q. I am having problems with my teenager. He's 13 and doesn't want me to date or talk to anyone. I decided not to bring any man around until I felt that it was serious. I have found someone who I am very happy with. My son won't accept it. He is very ...
A. 14 September 2010: Your son needs help. I would start with Anger Management. HOW can you let him control your life like that? HOW can you let him punch you? Do you even consider WHAT you are teaching you son about relationships?
YOU are the parent - BE the parent n... (read in full...)
My heart says not to end this buy my head says I should? interracial relationship
Q. I am a white male, live and have lived in a mainly white suburb all my life, and most of my associations have been with others of my race. We are a pretty liberal family and I have always been raised that everyone is equal, but that being said our ...
A. 14 September 2010: I grew up in a VERY tolerant and VERY white society ( I'm NOT American) and I honestly have such a HARD time when people in this day and age, think that color is what makes people different.
I think the LESS people worry about skin color/et... (read in full...)
Why is my cat always hungry?
Q. Hello there I have a 7 month old neutered boy cat! He's very lovely and cute but I think he has some behaviour problems. He meows quite a lot and is ALWAYS hungry. I feed him twice a day (wet food) and dry food is always available. Whene...
A. 14 September 2010: He could have worms. He could be bored or just simply have learned that when he does XYZ behavior, he gets fed.
Do you fed him regular meals or does he have a bowl of food to "graze" on during the day?
Cats in general don't go in their toy box... (read in full...)
I'm not even divorced yet and my girlfriend is talking marriage and kids!
Q. I'm in the tail end of a long divorce following a dragged out separation (long story) and am with a partner whom I love dearly. We have talked about marriage and she really wants kids, and while I am all for it, it is very hard for me to think ...
A. 14 September 2010: Well, you need to SIT her down and tell her how you feel. By NOT telling her you are basically leading her on in her "imaginary" little world.
Be honest.... (read in full...)
Do guys like calm girls or hyper girls?
Q. I read somewhere that guys don't like hyper girls, who are always excited all the time. Like they think that the girl is trying to get attention and its lame that they are so excited about little things. It has been researched that most guys don't ...
A. 14 September 2010: Be who you are, not pretend to be something to please a guy or two.
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How to change the taste of vaginal fluids?
Q. I want to know how to make vaginal fluids taster sweeter, besides eating pineapple.....because I don't really care for pineapple lol. Does cranberry juice work? And maybe an increased intake of peaches and melons? If so, how much juice do I need to ...
A. 14 September 2010: Mango, strawberries, peaches... most fruits low on acidity can slightly alter the flavor.
Also not smoking, not drinking coffee, not eating too much red meat can help.
Oh and also, don't use douches/soaps with scent, it can utterly screw wi... (read in full...)
HE has a facebook account but doesn't want me to have one!!!
Q. My boyfriend of a year and 7 months has a facebook account but doesn't want me to have one. We have trust issues. Is that like fair? Is it right of him to do that? I dont talk to any of my friends anymore because of our trust issues and i think it ...
A. 14 September 2010: I think that is really controlling. As much as I detest the whole "social networking online" I can't see why you NEED his permission to make yourself a Facebook. I don't understand why you let him dictate your life.... (read in full...)
Women, why is fitting into your "thin clothes" more important than your health?
Q. Hey guys, I've recently found out a female friend of mine is starving herself with the sole aim of fitting into her old clothes. It's mind boggling to me for a number of reasons. Firstly, when I say starving herself I'm talking about her on...
A. 14 September 2010: No it's not just to fit into her clothes, your friend has an eating disorder and needs help. ... (read in full...)
I hit her when I was drunk... how can I make it up to her?
Q. I've been with my wife for 4 years and we had a wonderful relationship when I was sober. But one night I got drunk and we both started arguing and out of anger I hit her. She has told all of her family and friends she is done with me. Is there ...
A. 14 September 2010: AA and Anger management is a good place to start. And respecting your wife's decision to stay or go.... (read in full...)
I don't want to eat but I have to. How to lose weight?
Q. I want to lose weight. I exercise every day but I eat a lot. I don't want to eat but I just have to. I don't know what to do! Help!...
A. 14 September 2010: Then EDUCATE yourself in nutrition. Know what the "right" things to eat are. Learn about portion control.
That is a start. You can go to the library (or use Google) and see what you can find on the subject. ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to ring me? I really like him!
Q. I've been getting to know this guy. He thinks I am not your every day girl, there's something different about me and that I amuse him:) He's always complimenting me and really caring. He said if I were his girl he would be kissing me all the t...
A. 14 September 2010: How about you call him? What's holding you back ? This isn't the 1950's where girls sat at the phone and waited for a guy to ring them....
Go for it.... (read in full...)
My sister in law doesn't mind being naked with me!
Q. My sister-in-law (single and attractive) graduated college and recently took a job near where my wife and I live. My wife told her to stay with us in the spare bedroom until she found a place of her own. Initially, she wore a robe over her ni...
A. 14 September 2010: To me it seems all wrong. If I was you I would tell the wife that you were a little uncomfortable with the nudity.
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My heart says not to end this buy my head says I should? interracial relationship
Q. I am a white male, live and have lived in a mainly white suburb all my life, and most of my associations have been with others of my race. We are a pretty liberal family and I have always been raised that everyone is equal, but that being said our ...
A. 14 September 2010: I know you are saying you are "liberal" but the fact that you keep bringing up her skin color tells me that THAT is the biggest issue for you.
I DO think you are a guy having JUNGLE FEVER (as you put it) If you truly loved her, her skin color or... (read in full...)
Grey crusties on my nipple? what could cause this?
Q. i had a nap after work today while dinner was cooking and when i woke up my boyfriend noticed what looked like a dirt smudge on my nipple. i dont think it was there there before my nap sonim assuming it happened while i was sleeping. i tried to rub ...
A. 14 September 2010: Could be you are actually lactating slightly. (even if you aren't pregnant) or it could be an infection. I would keep and eye on it and if you see it again call your doctor.
PS, you might want to lay off milk products for a bit or switch to organ... (read in full...)
I don't want to eat but I have to. How to lose weight?
Q. I want to lose weight. I exercise every day but I eat a lot. I don't want to eat but I just have to. I don't know what to do! Help!...
A. 13 September 2010: You can't starve yourself skinny. It's absolutely the wrong way to go about it. The less you eat, the slower your metabolism gets, the more FAT your body will try to store.
Eating 5 meals/snacks a day and drinking plenty of water is the way to g... (read in full...)
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