I'm 15, I lost a child and I'm still craving one!
Q. I'm 15 years old and I'm craving a child. I know many other people have asked about this but I feel my situation is somewhat different and would like specific advice please. 11 months ago today I had a miscarrige; I was almost 4 months pregnant...
A. 23 September 2010: First off, I'm sorry for your loss.
Secondly miscarriages are more common in the very young, because you are not fully mature and able to carry and deliver a child.
Seek help. You need to deal with the loss of the baby. Having another one will... (read in full...)
This random girl claims my boyfriend got her pregnant, and there is lots of evidence to prove she is lying, so why do I still think about it?
Q. Recently a girl tried adding my boyfriend on facebook but as he didnt know her he ignored it, she also added my friend and started messaging her saying that my boyfriend got her pregnant and she really needed to talk to him. He thought it was a joke ...
A. 23 September 2010: Stop looking at her FB page if it upsets you and BLOCK her from yours and your pictures.
It's that easy.
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He promised to marry me but now it isn't happening?
Q. hi,i m jyoti.i have a physical relationship with my boy frnd.i want to marriage with him.he promised me for the marriage.but he do'nt.i m very disturbe.plz help me....
A. 22 September 2010: Do you think he just promised to marry you, so you would have sex with him?
If so, you deserve better.... (read in full...)
How can I make my cousin have sex with me?
Q. I am 16 years of age and my girl cousin is 15 and a want to have sex with her so badly but i dont know how to ask her, or what to do to make her have sex with me!! I have been trying so hard since 14-15 to have sex with her and i dont know if she ...
A. 22 September 2010: Keep it in your pants. And never try and force the issue.
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He was convicted for theft! Should I ask him about this or just stop replying to his texts altogether?
Q. Found out my potential new boyfriend has a criminal conviction for theft!!. I met him online and have been chatting for over a month on the phone. We got to really like each other and planned to meet on Friday for the first time but I googled his ...
A. 22 September 2010: Hmm, personally I would let this one go. And.. fast. This is not some boyhood stupid stunt, he did it last year while being a grown-ass man.
He may not have told you yet, because you have only known each other a month.
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One of my close friends likes my boyfriend and its making things awkward between us!
Q. Hey all. I havent got a major problem, just a little one. So il try keep it as short as possible. Last year i started college, as people do all my friends mixed in with the new football boys from other schools, the basket ball boys and the gol...
A. 21 September 2010: Honestly, I would give him an extra good snog if I knew she was looking!
I don't see a problem really, you all thought he was gorgeous before you started to date him, so it's not fair that he can't be McDreamy to others any more ;)
Though,... (read in full...)
I like this guy but my friend likes him to, what should I do?
Q. i have this problem i like this guy alot i told him his one of my friends i wanna get with him but he's kinda a player an goes out with one of my homegurlz an i dont wanna hurt her by gettin with him but im not sure i should get with him becuz hes ...
A. 21 September 2010: If he is seeing someone else (specially a friend) he SHOULD be off limits to you.
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Why can't I climax from sex?
Q. I know this is a common problem and still I cannot seem to find the answer I am looking for. Are there any special techniques to help make me come during sex? I enjoy sex so much with my partner and feel fully satisfied after, yet I never climax. ...
A. 21 September 2010: You could do it while spooning ( him behind you) you crossing your legs.... he can still penetrate you.
Many women find it easier to climax while on top as well since they can control speed and depth.
And relaxing really does help ;)... (read in full...)
Stressed in South Carolina
Q. I'm married, but not happily. A few months ago I met a woman at a large gathering of mutual friends and we ended up spending the night together. She had been in a long relationship that had ended recently. She wasn't dumped, per se, but she ...
A. 21 September 2010: You really should shit or get of the pot, dude.
If you want to be with this new women, divorce your wife. You wrote so flippant about you feeling sorry for yourself that you can not have your cake and eat it.
I have no other advice for you, ... (read in full...)
My husband tells me not to move during sex. It's strange.
Q. In my past relationships, I never had a problem with a man stopping me from moving with him during sex. My husband tells me not to move, and let him do the work. Do anyone know a reason why? It's strange...
A. 21 September 2010: Is this every time you guys have sex? If so, I would suggest you talk to him. Personally I couldn't "play" dead fish in the bed. ... (read in full...)
I've been talking to this guy online for a year. Should I meet him?
Q. Hello all, I have been talking to this guy online for a year and half. I have seen him on webcam. I have seen his facebook and myspace. I am not sure if he is tryly interested in me because I am usually the one who starts conversations wit...
A. 21 September 2010: How well do you feel you know him?
That fact that he wants to meet you a place away from where he lives could be red flag ( as in, he is married and wants some fun while he is away on work) Also, if he is there for work, you will not see that muc... (read in full...)
My friends are taking advantage of me! what should I do?
Q. When I started a new school two years ago i was really popular mainly because im the sort of person who looks good but im quite shy around people. so i started off with lots of friends but when the other popular kids noticed i just hung around in ...
A. 21 September 2010: Find friends whom you like, not just the ones that are popular......
And honey, you need to learn to stand up for yourself. They AREN'T being your friends. ... (read in full...)
He put 4 fingers inside of me????
Q. Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, and have been sexually active with him for about 8 months. On Monday we had sex and half way through he pulled out and fingered me for a short while, until I orgasmed, ...
A. 21 September 2010: Kegel exercises - goggle it, honey.
And no, doesn't mean you are loose, it mean you are very flexible. ... (read in full...)
Hes pretty much got a whole porno store should I just move on?
Q. My situation is this....I am 46 and my boyfriend of almost 2 years (whom lives with me in my house) he is almost 41. Little age difference there but not a LOT. Well, the first week after he moved in, I caught him in the office at his computer with a ...
A. 21 September 2010: I think I would end it, not so much because of all the porn but all the lies, flirting and being secretive with his phone. Those are HUGE red flags.
Also, I can understand that he feels defensive about this, but that he blames YOU for your rel... (read in full...)
Is online flirting and porn entertainment... a sort of infidelity?
Q. My wife is really upset that I log into dating chatroom websites, sex webcam sites, and porn sites and view the contents and talk to online flirts, such as myself. I see this as a bit of harmless flirting and a diverting form of entertainment. Why ...
A. 21 September 2010: You know it is.
All that energy you are spending creating these fantasy scenarios and "relationships" should be spend with your wife not some people you don't even know.
The fact that you feel you have to LIE about it, means it's something y... (read in full...)
My friend wants to have a threesome!
Q. I have these friend that wants me to have threesome with him, but he is married, the party is his friend a male, and I'm confused since I have nt tried it before, so what should I do??...
A. 21 September 2010: I would walk away from that asap. Nothing good can come from it.
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Why are his parents so over protective towards us?
Q. I am 16 and almost 17. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now. I want a baby and so does he... but his parents say and tell use that we cant do anything till were out of college and a lot older. WE are not allowed to do anything, we ...
A. 21 September 2010: I agree 100% with k_c100
I didn't have kids til I was 30. I have 2 college degrees, had a career, saw the world before I settled down and had kids... I'm still seeing the world ;)
What is the hurry? I think his parents are really smart. Wa... (read in full...)
After cancelling a date due to illness, should I be the one to make the next move? Or should I wait for him to ask me out again?
Q. Can anyone help me please with a quick dating etiquette question? I cancelled a date as I was unwell and now I'm wondering if I should be the one to make the next move and invite him out or if I should I wait to see if he asks me again? I don't want ...
A. 21 September 2010: Well why not give him a call? If he thought you faked being sick and find out you actually were sick he might be really glad to hear from you ;)
Worth a shot in my book. ... (read in full...)
After cancelling a date due to illness, should I be the one to make the next move? Or should I wait for him to ask me out again?
Q. Can anyone help me please with a quick dating etiquette question? I cancelled a date as I was unwell and now I'm wondering if I should be the one to make the next move and invite him out or if I should I wait to see if he asks me again? I don't want ...
A. 21 September 2010: If you want to see this guy, yes call him. Though I have to agree with "sexlessintheuk" - he ought to have called and checked up on how you were feeling.
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Should I go ahead and have sex with this guy when he doesn't want a serious relationship?
Q. I'm stuck and need advice, I have never had a proper boyfriend and I am in my late 20s, I just never feel attracted to anyone or if I do they never feel the same. I feel for someone at work and he said he was interested in me but doesn't want...
A. 21 September 2010: I like the saying: Don't crap where you eat... (don't date/sleep with people you work with)
Just remember that if you sleep with him, there is no guaranty that he will all of a sudden want to have a relationship. If you are not a casual sex kind... (read in full...)
Why does he type my name in his texts?
Q. Ok this is going to be a little short but I'm very curious of this. When ever me and my boyfriend text eachother, he'll say my name in every text (10 times out of the 34 he sent). Sometimes it'll be a little more often than that and I was just ...
A. 21 September 2010: Maybe he likes the sound of it or... he hasn't found a nick-name for you yet.... (read in full...)
Are women satisfied with average size penis or do they fantasize about bigger penises?
Q. hello everybody, thanks for the time i would spend in order to answer my question :D mu question is mostly for women who are married to men with average penis size, i just wanna know are the women in this situation really satisfied with their hu...
A. 21 September 2010: Women fantasize about just about anything. The size is really the least of it, specially if you know how to put what you got to the best of use.
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Embarrassed by my father's affair!
Q. My dad has been having an affair for the last 6 months to a year and has now asked my stepmom (whom I am very close with) for a divorce after 18 years of marriage. To make it worse my dad is 59 and his the girl he has been having an affair is 32 ...
A. 20 September 2010: It is devastating when people you love and trust turns out to be doing things you consider wrong. Honestly I would be furious too.
The thing is he is OLD enough to know what he is doing is wrong.
YOU are also old enough to decide if you wa... (read in full...)
I never wanted to marry so young but I have come to accept my situation, but my husband is making life difficult plus there is another man......
Q. Yes... Mine was arranged marriage.. And I never wanted to marry so early... After marriage I realize that this is life and I have to live like this.. But... People are around me, they are not leaving me to live my life happy... Including my hus...
A. 20 September 2010: Getting involved with another man because you home life is unhappy, will not fix your problems or your unhappiness. It's like adding fuel to a bad fire.
You need to figure out what WILL make you happy and work on getting that goal.... (read in full...)
Should I put up with her behaviour for the sake of the relationship? Or is this just unacceptable?
Q. My girlfriend continues to force things I don't like on me after I told her I don't like them [ie I tell her I'm not a cat person/allergic, she keeps dumping her cats in my lap; I tell her I don't like going certain places and she still always ...
A. 20 September 2010: Seems like she is pushing and testing your boundaries, like a 5 year old child does with his/her parents. In a relationship that is really immature, IMHO.
The whole "if you don't do what I want you don't love me" attitude screams of insecuri... (read in full...)
My husband cheated and got the girl pregnant
Q. I am a woman that has been married for 3 years just found out that my husband may have a son. I will not leave him but we are both trying to deal with the problem i personally think it was a trap for him because he was being stupid its not ok he ...
A. 20 September 2010: Not dealing with this, will come back and bite you in the ass. You can not sweep another women & child under the rug, it doesn't work that way.
IF you think this is a man you want to be with, and that it is the relationship you want to have, yo... (read in full...)
I feel bad for not contacting him, should I say sorry?
Q. I asked this guy out. He cancelled on me once and we rescheduled for later in the week. Then he ignored my attempts to contact him about our plans. I got mad and sent a text to him calling him an ass. He sent a smiley face back. And then i sent ...
A. 20 September 2010: I wouldn't apologize to that prick. He isn't interested, stop wasting your time on him.
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Can you still have your period even if you are pregnant?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for four months and one month i didn't have my period but the beginning of the next month i had it but i still have the feeling that im pregnant. can you have your period even being pregnant?...
A. 20 September 2010: Yes, you can have what seems like periods, however they will not be regular. I had what I thought was my period with my second child for all 9 months of pregnancy. ( Didn't find out I was pregnant til 4 months in, once she started kicking and ... (read in full...)
Why would he lie about having a girlfriend and why is he so persistant on keeping me in his life?
Q. a guy I've been talking to for 4 months lied to me about having a girlfriend,even though I asked him specifically if this girl was. we're only "friends" but we do have an intamate relationship.. when i found out i told him i didnt want to be his ...
A. 20 September 2010: He wants to keep you both interested so he can pick and choose who to sleep with.
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I'm sick of my boyfriend!
Q. Iam sick of my boyfriend of 6 years, I DONT LOVE HIM NO MORE. i been with my man for 6 years and first been great, but he made me to give my child up and my home, my car, a year of the relationship he started abuse me, gripping me back the neck and ...
A. 20 September 2010: Why are you staying with him if he has abused you in the past and you don't love him?
Why wait til after the hodiday to walk out?
Don't you want to live?
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What does it mean when women press their boobs into you?
Q. What does it mean when girls push their breasts against you, or brush their breasts against you, when in conversation or whatever? Over the years I have met many women who do this. It is not the majority, but certainly not a small minority e...
A. 17 September 2010: I think either she is a tad rude ( invading someones space) or she is just one of those types who hug & touch people a lot.
I would not make more out of it then that.
IF a women does it in a sexual context, you will know right off the bat, the... (read in full...)
I pay for everything except his credit card bills and his hobbies. I'm starting to feel used.
Q. I live with my boyfriend and I pay all the bills (rent utilities groceries) I have an average paying job but work extra hours for overtime, he's self employed and pays his credit card bill, and for his hobbies...hunting fishing backpacking. I moved ...
A. 17 September 2010: Sit him down and make budget. He pays half ( and his CC & hobbies) you pay half and your own CC ( if you have one)
That would make sense to me.... (read in full...)
I feel sick in my belly... advice appreciated!
Q. hi I am 29 years old and was with my boyfriend for a few months he is in the military, we had our disagreements before he got deployed, he was the perfect guy at the beginning, then all changed, he started getting upset every time i want to talk ...
A. 17 September 2010: If all this happened within the short time you two have been dating, I would just walk away now.
The Adultfinder account could be from before he met you and he just haven't used/deleted it. Don't forget the guys over there have restricted access t... (read in full...)
Problem dad!!!
Q. I really need help. I am a freshman in highschool, and my crush asked me out today. I said yes but, my dad is super overprotctive. So how do i tell my dad that i want to go out with this guy?...
A. 16 September 2010: Not much you can do, but ask and accept what you Dad tells you, be it NO or Yes.
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Should I confront her on calling me a loser?
Q. Today was not a good day. First of all, I horribly failed a test in my best subject. Now, my friend is telling me that a girl that I am mutual friends with calls me a loser. I have never called her a mean name in my life. She is a social drifter ...
A. 16 September 2010: Honestly, her opinion doesn't matter. All you will get out of this is drama.
Since you already sent the e-mail, I guess I would wait and see if she responds. Give her a week if not, drop it and delete her info.
Don't waste time on this, sp... (read in full...)
Girlfriend says "its him or me" in reference to my friend!
Q. So i told my girlfriend of a year and four months that my friend, one of my best friends, want to come visit me at my college for a day. she goes here to but she hates him. the only reason she hates him is because she thinks he got me to break up ...
A. 16 September 2010: I thought the saying:" Bro's before Ho's" was the typical for guys? ;)
I would talk to her again and ask her how she would feel if you told her to cut out her BFF.... (read in full...)
Daughter is having an affair/baby with a married man...
Q. Hello. My 24 year old daughter is having an affair with a 30 year old married man. It has been going on, correspondence/physical since the end of 2008. Before he was deployed to Iraq, she got pregnant and soon will be giving birth to his son. She ...
A. 16 September 2010: If he is in the military, he can not be a dead-beat dad, the DOD do not allow it. THAT is a FACT. Any soldier with a claim for CS has to pay, it will actually be taken out of his pay before he even sees the money.
You daughter will have to get a... (read in full...)
My husband promised not to watch porn, but ...
Q. Hi Everyone.Im glad i found this site.Im really depressed and angry that my husband watches porn every chance he gets behind my back.we have been maried for 6 years.we used to atch porn together but suddenly he told me he does not feel comfortable ...
A. 16 September 2010: Seems like your husband is having some issues here. Might be porn/sex addiction.
I would sit him down and tell him WHY (even if you have done this before) you don't want him to watch it alone. Or at least ask him to explain WHY he will not watc... (read in full...)
This email made me suspicious
Q. where do i start, my partner of 3 years works away so only see him every 3 months which is hard we get on really really well we never argue. but suddenly i got an email of a girl saying oh i know ur boyfriend we got out for drinks together when im ...
A. 16 September 2010: I see nothing really suspisious about the e-mail. She said she met him for drinks in Saudi? If she is 16, I seriously doubt she can even drink. Secondly Saudi have some VERY strict rules about teen-agers, SPECIALLY females.
Even if she DID have... (read in full...)
He tolerates my bad attitude...so should I rethink about breaking up with him?
Q. I met this nice guy online last year. we have not met as of yet because of my blowing up. I guess I blow up because I am not understanding of what is going on. and when I blow up he does not know the reason why I did that. so we have had some bad ...
A. 16 September 2010: Well, being deployed and being in the military can really cut into the time and ability to communicate. He may still be transitioning to the right FOB, he might be pulling a lot of missions, he may even be on a FOB with little or no Internet, THAT ... (read in full...)
Got drunk, flipped out and now my guy doesn't want to be with me!
Q. Help! I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. Wev'e had some problems in the past with me drinking hard liquor which made me crazy and flip out. Plus I've lost my job almost a year ago so I am stressed to the max. So we broke up got back ...
A. 16 September 2010: It's hard to say, but I think you need to focus on yourself a bit more here. IF it is a pattern that you "behave badly" when drunk, you need to stop drinking.
If not, I doubt you will have a successful relationship.
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This random girl claims my boyfriend got her pregnant, and there is lots of evidence to prove she is lying, so why do I still think about it?
Q. Recently a girl tried adding my boyfriend on facebook but as he didnt know her he ignored it, she also added my friend and started messaging her saying that my boyfriend got her pregnant and she really needed to talk to him. He thought it was a joke ...
A. 2 August 2010: JUST tell your friends to stop talking to her and you stop too. It is not really your "job" to ferret out the truth, you never will, especially if this girl is a liar, which I think she is.
Let it go. Ignore her. Want to bet that she will either t... (read in full...)
This random girl claims my boyfriend got her pregnant, and there is lots of evidence to prove she is lying, so why do I still think about it?
Q. Recently a girl tried adding my boyfriend on facebook but as he didnt know her he ignored it, she also added my friend and started messaging her saying that my boyfriend got her pregnant and she really needed to talk to him. He thought it was a joke ...
A. 30 July 2010: Well, all you can do is wait on the DNA test... IF there even IS a baby.
I think your BF is innocent, and I think you should treat him as such. His initial reaction (thinking it was a joke) kind of did it for me. No guy who screws some random g... (read in full...)
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