Is the volume or distance of a man's ejaculation important?
Q. I was hanging out with a friend over the weekend and somehow after a few beers the topic of sex came up (small wonder among men drinking beer, right). He said since he turned 40, the force and volume of his ejaculations has gone down. He said his ...
A. 20 October 2010: Honestly, I couldn't care how far or how much my husband can produce - I doubt any women do. It's not like you need a man around to put out fires with it....
But in your friends case, I don't think it's about his wife at all, it about him. For... (read in full...)
Should I follow my dream?
Q. I am 23 and currently studying for a degree in history which has been my dream since I was 14. The problem is I also have a dream about studying or volunteering abroad after but I have a boyfriend of six years and he wouldn't be able to come with ...
A. 20 October 2010: Follow you dream 100%. Trust me, I didn't and there are definently times I regret NOT doing so.
If he is THE ONE, you two will figure out how to make it work.... (read in full...)
Should I meet the girl from Facebook?
Q. I did post this question earlier but I can't get any more replies for some reason: I really like the sound of a girl that I saw on Facebook. We have been exchanging emails for a couple of weeks now. Should I meet this girl, she is younger t...
A. 20 October 2010: I would meet her somewhere public for the first time, maybe not with a LOT of family and friends around because that can become very awkward fast. (I think you are old enough to meet her 1 on 1.) Personally I wouldn't want a chaperone when meeting ... (read in full...)
Should I let my ex's girlfriend know he is cheating on her?
Q. I am on my second marriage. During my first marriage, my spouse and I each had affairs. Obviously we had a lot of issues and thats why we got divorced. I initiated the divorce and i got married to a friend of ours. I have been married again for 4 ...
A. 18 October 2010: Nope. What you did in order to find this out is illegal and.... stupid.... (read in full...)
I am so angry he cheated on somebody with me!
Q. So i invited this guy from my college round for a party, by the end of the night it was just me and him, we spoke for ages and felt closer to him, which later led on to the most amazing sex i've ever had. a couple of nights after i went to talk to ...
A. 18 October 2010: Shit happens :( Let it go, he is just not worth the hassle.... (read in full...)
Does everyone here think I am about to make a huge mistake if I go out on a date with him?
Q. Hi everyone. I got some good advise over here in the past so thought I'd try again. So, a few months ago I was involved in a very awkward situation with two childhood friends both in love with me (rather, one in love, the other one confused as it ...
A. 18 October 2010: I'd go for a date with B. A is not in love with you, maybe in lust.. ... (read in full...)
How can I get control of myself? I get so upset when my husband spends time with his friends!
Q. well i need some advice about this problem that ive been dealing with for a long time.well me and my husband live in another state and we come down to see family once in while,and my husband tends to hang out with his friends sometimes. the problem ...
A. 12 October 2010: Maybe you need to take some time off to spend with YOUR friends.
Though I have to ask this, does he leave you every time to go hang out? Why aren't you tagging along every now and them?
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Can you date your half brother?
Q. is it ok to date your half brother?i didint know him till the start of summer, i didint know i had a half brother till dad died then mum said we had a half brother...
A. 12 October 2010: No, legally that would be incest.
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Is this feeling normal? Do any other girls get this?
Q. im not really worried about what im going to share but i just want some answers lol :) im only 13 and im going to be honest about it, so already any readers will be thinking shes just a kid it dosent matter but i feel im mature enough for a ...
A. 12 October 2010: Yes, it's normal. You body is reacting to the stimuli your brain is getting from talking about these things. It's all part of growing up. Hormones are weird :)
However, don't let it confuse you into thinking that because you FEEL excited,... (read in full...)
Should I see a dietician before I embark on this new healthy lifestyle?
Q. Trying to improve my health and get into a healthy eating routine and start jogging to increase my energy levels and improve my libido drastically. Would it be advisable to see a dietician first to get started as I have no idea where to start a...
A. 12 October 2010: I think it's ALWAYS smart to talk to a dietician/doctor when embarking on a lifestyle change.
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Should I disclose a past prostitute visit to my girlfriend?
Q. I am in a committed relationship now. However, a few years before, I lost my virginity to a prostitute. I did so because I was feeling depressed, things were looking bleak, and thought I wouldn't be in a relationship. I don't have any desire to ...
A. 12 October 2010: Honestly, I wouldn't bring it up.... (read in full...)
Ex-boyfriend buys you drinks all night, then makes out with another girl infront of you.
Q. Why would an ex-bf buy you drinks all night then make out with some girl at the bar almost in front of you? My ex, who broke up with me 8 months ago recently asked me to go out for a drink with him to "catch up". I said "sure" but next week someti...
A. 8 October 2010: I think he was trying to show you that he doesn't need you.
And.. that he is somewhat of a douche bag.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a ''threesome''!
Q. Hi there, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He's lovely and I love him so much. I lost my virginity to him and want him to be the only one in my life. Few months ago, he said something that hurt me. He said ''what do you think abou...
A. 5 October 2010: JUST say NO. You will absolutely regret this if you do it.
Not all fantasies needs to be lived out.... (read in full...)
My ex tried to commit suicide and I don't want to talk to her
Q. My ex-girl friend tried to commit suicide. she has been through a lot in her life and said she wanted to give up. I told her thats not the answer. When she calls i barely speak to her because im upset and mad at her and dont wanna speak. she asks if ...
A. 2 October 2010: Honestly, I would tell her that you can't handle talking to her right now, that she needs to back off and seek some professional help.
Suicide is such a HARD thing for the people around the person who tried to take his/her life, to deal with.
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Can I divorce him or get an annulment? What about property?
Q. My husband and I separated, we've been married under a year. we married in march this year, I want a divorce. I have two questions. 1. can I divorce him now? Or get an annulment? 2. I want to buy a property within the next 2months, if I buy the pro...
A. 2 October 2010: Like Caring Guy wrote:
1, find a divorce lawyer
2, don't buy anything while married.
An annulment is not easier then getting divorced ( in most countries). Se seek legal counsel.... (read in full...)
Does breast feeding mess up your breasts?
Q. Hey well i heard that breast feeding messes up your nipples like makes them not soft any more and stuff and that they wont go back to normal is that true?...
A. 2 October 2010: It can change the look of your breasts, some get bigger and darker nipples, some get bigger boobs, some actually smaller. The change has WAY more to do with the hormonal changes due to being pregnant & giving birth then the actual nursing.
I hav... (read in full...)
My friends want to take me to a stripper or pro, but I want to wait for a true lover
Q. My birthday had just pass and i turned 18 i am a virgin and never had a girlfriend friends had asked me when im i going to lose my virginity and because iturned 18 they wanna take me to lose my virginity to a prostitude or stripper but i dont know ...
A. 1 October 2010: Eww why would you want to have sex for the first time with a person who couldn't care less about you?
Tell them if they like prostitutes/strippers so much that they can have at them..
Take your time.... (read in full...)
Do you always have a thing for the guy that took your virginity?
Q. Wanted to ask a question toward the women, because i think it happens to them more than guys. Do you always have a thing for the guy that took your virginity?...
A. 1 October 2010: I think it depends on a lot of things. Personally, I have a HUGE soft spot for my first BF and I always will have.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend expects me to have sex with him he's 14 I'm 15!
Q. Im 15 years old,and im having problems with my boyfriend last night he asked me what my bases are and i told him and now he wants to have sex with me! he is a year younger than me too! I love him and i dont want to break up with him cause that will ...
A. 1 October 2010: He is not "sad" - he is pissed off and trying to pull the routine of a 3 year old... You know, the one where the child either looks really sad or cries to get what they want?
It's called EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL. It mean he doesn't really respect ... (read in full...)
Should I move to my ex's city like I had planned while we were together?
Q. Here's my situation my girlfriend and I recently broken up we were together for a year and it was mainly a long distance relationship. When we were together I was planning on moving to her city and whenever I would visit her city I fell in love with ...
A. 30 September 2010: I see nothing wrong in you moving there, after all it is not "her" city ;)
As long as you understand that you moving there will not "win" her back, if that is what you were hoping for.
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Is it normal for 13 years old to want to have sex?
Q. I'm 13 years-old and my boyfriend is 13 too this weekend my boyfriend want's me to give him a hand job and a blow job , is it normoal for kid;s our age wannaing to do that ??? Thanks i hope some one can help me with my Question xx ...
A. 30 September 2010: Adolescent/puberty males, I think, beings wanting all things sexual a little earlier then girls. So yes, it's "normal" that he wants it, but it's not "normal" to demand it of his girlfriend.
You may be physically able to have sex at 13, but most... (read in full...)
Woman says she is pregnant with my husbands twins!
Q. Ive been with my husband for ten years we have three kids together ages 3,4,8. and he amitted that he cheated on me with his manager . He said he slep with her three times he claim he dont remember when because he was really drunk and she agreed ...
A. 30 September 2010: You husband is a douche bag. Drunk my tail! Being drunk is absolutely NO excuse for cheating and CERTAINLY not for having unprotected sex with anyone else either.
Could she be telling the truth? Absolutely. If she claims him as the dad, he will ... (read in full...)
My (ex?) wife's schemes
Q. My wife gets big ideas and they cost a lot of money. These ideas involve significant amounts of risk and also breaking the law sometimes. I'm just a regular guy and I object. As a result she told me we're getting divorced and she's paying me out. ...
A. 30 September 2010: I guess it comes down to WHAT DO YOU WANT?
Sounds like she is a borderline criminal and if she gets caught, you will be on hot water too. ... (read in full...)
I want out, I don't love my husband
Q. I've been married for 2 years and I got to the point where I don't know if i love my husband anymore...we were a couple for 2 years before we got married, long distance relationship, since then we've had lots of problems. He's jelous, immature, he's ...
A. 30 September 2010: You can not STAY married out of guild and feeling sorry for the guy.
Like Tisha-1 said, get your ducks in a row. Find a place to live, pack your bags, make sure you have all the papers you need for a "new" start and leave him. Then get an attor... (read in full...)
Too much talk of sex ruining relationship
Q. NOTE: Self Titled by asker. I'm in a relationship for about a year with an amazing girl that I have so much in common with. We are beginning to make wedding plans, but I don't feel totally ready for a few reasons. First, I am still getting ...
A. 30 September 2010: That is a tough one. I totally get you feelings. It seems like you have a very liberated girlfriend/Fiancee. She isn't just all talk, she is action too when it comes to sex.
I can see why it would be hard to tell her how you feel, but unless y... (read in full...)
Would it be selfish of me to have another child without being in a relationship?
Q. i am a single mother and i have a gorgeous 3 year old son. For the past year i have been wanting another baby but i don't want to be in a relationship. I'm happy being on my own. Would it be selfish of me to have another child?...
A. 29 September 2010: I don't see why it would make you selfish. There are MANY great single parents out there.
I do think, however, that if possible a child should have as many as possible good adult role models of both genders.
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When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 29 September 2010: Of course. Clothes makes no difference.
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Can masturbation break your hymen?
Q. i am 16. i want some tips about how to masturbate to make it more fun. i also wants to know if masturbating has risk of breaking the hymen?? am a virgin...
A. 29 September 2010: If you stick to pleasuring the clitoris you won't break anything.
If you insert anything in your vagina, you will.
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Boyfriend wants to do stuff with guys. I didn't know he was bisexual!
Q. right where do i start.... me and my bf have been together for nearly 2 years and are living together and everything, however 7 months into the relationship he told me he was bi sexual. he had never done anything with a guy, but i found out 3 mo...
A. 29 September 2010: Would he be OK if you slept with other guys, you think?
What he wants is not a relationship, he just wants to hang on to you while he does whatever he wants.
Personally, I would have walked away the first time he got caught cheating. WHY do... (read in full...)
Still bleeding after 1st time sex 8 days ago. Is something wrong?
Q. Dear Cupid This is really embarrasing, basically i had sex with this guy who had a very large penis and it did hurt as it was my first time, but you see i have been bleeding for longer then 8 days i think. I thought it was my period that star...
A. 29 September 2010: You need to talk to your mom and make an appointment with your doctor or a gynecologist. It is not normal to bleed for 8 days after having had sex.
This may also be the PERFECT time to discuss birth-control with your mom and doctor.
If you ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend expects me to have sex with him he's 14 I'm 15!
Q. Im 15 years old,and im having problems with my boyfriend last night he asked me what my bases are and i told him and now he wants to have sex with me! he is a year younger than me too! I love him and i dont want to break up with him cause that will ...
A. 29 September 2010: Tell him no. It's really simple even if it may seem hard to do. You are not ready, and THAT is OK!
If he then breaks up with you for telling him no, you know he really didn't love you or care for you. When you LOVE &CARE for someone you respect ... (read in full...)
He said we are on a break, what does that mean?
Q. Well my boyfriend came to talk to me last night and asked for a break. I wouldn't call it asked though cause I did not really have a choice, and I know why we are having this break. There are a lot of things in his life he needs to get together ...
A. 28 September 2010: His wife suspects he is cheating and he is covering his dirty little secret (YOU) up.
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Was my boyfriend's behaviour appropriate?
Q. my boyfriend is in real estate. He went to a closing with his female agent. even though she lives closer to the closing site, she drove back to the office to meet y boyfriend so they can go together. I had no problem with that but after the ...
A. 28 September 2010: If this is new behavior from the both of them I would think it was odd, if they hang out at work from time to time, I don't think I would worry.
I think your gut is telling you something?
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The man I love has HIV, how can I help him?
Q. Hi there, There is guy I work with. He is such a great guy and I've really started to get on really well with him. But he said to me we could never go out because we work with each other. I kind of accepted this and moved on. He then got a boyfr...
A. 28 September 2010: These days having HIV is not an automatic death-sentence, if he sticks to his medical regiments he can live a full life like most others.
He really SHOULD tell his partner, the partner has a RIGHT to know. Not telling is not fair. Just like you... (read in full...)
I cheated on him with his brother, then he found a new girlfriend but came back to me.....and now he it seems he is cheating on me with his ex! Where does this leave me?
Q. Dearcupid,i had a lover of one year and i cheated on him with his brother and he dump me,after a year i found that he has a girlfriend of nine moths,they had a misundrstood and she dumped him,and i startd dating him again.they have been separated ...
A. 28 September 2010: HOT MESS! Drop the guy, find a new one you have less baggage with.
And.... don't cheat, it WILL come back and bite you on the arse.... (read in full...)
Age taking it's toll...
Q. I am about to meet up with an old friend the same age as me. He remembers me fondly, we went out once 40 years ago. I am probably fairly attractive, but I wear a hearing aid and have false teeth. I have already put him off once but am meeting this ...
A. 28 September 2010: Well maybe his comment about you "dating" a married man hit a soft spot? I won't get on my high horse about affairs and cheating, but he might not agree with your morals and values, if you think it's OK to date a married man.. ( no matter how ... (read in full...)
Should I send him pics, or should he be respectful of my decisions?
Q. My boyfriend of almost a month wants pics but im not that comfortable about it. He is sorta mad about it because I said idk. Its also a semi long distant relationship. I really like him! Should I do it or should he be repectful of my decisions? ...
A. 23 September 2010: Has he sent you any pictures of him?
And are we talking about a picture of your face or something else?
If he really likes you, I think we ought to wait til you feel comfortable sending him a photo.
However, DON'T EVER send any "sexy" - n... (read in full...)
I don't feel bad for cheating on my boyfriend...
Q. I cheated on my boyfried of 4 years. I am 22 years old and I never thought that I would do such a thing. My boyfriend is an extremely nice person. He has incredible values and he appreciates me very much. Now this is my dillema, I cheated on him 2 ...
A. 23 September 2010: Be a good person and set your BF free. Go live that single life you seem to crave.
And I agree with CaringGuy, you don't love your BF, you jsut think you do/should.
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My mother emailed this friend and told him I loved him and now he's uncomfortable!
Q. I'm sure this sounds unusual, especially being I'm 31 yrs old and my mother's 50, but the guy I love knows I love him, because my mother told him. I'd already told him I like him, but not that I love him, until after my mother did. We were ...
A. 23 September 2010: Tell your mother to butt out of your love-life.
there isn't much you can do other then let him mull this over, either he can handle this or he can't.... (read in full...)
Serial cheater? 3rd relationship I've cheated in
Q. I have been in a good relationship for about 9 months but in these 9 months I have managed to cheat on my partner several times, he has forgiven me for this but this is the third relationship I have done this in, I never used to do this before then, ...
A. 23 September 2010: It sounds like you are sabotaging yourself. Maybe you jsut aren't really for a real relationship.
Cheating is not "just" something that happens. It's a choice and an action. You CHOOSE to either cheat or not. Maybe you need to figure out WHY you ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, I lost a child and I'm still craving one!
Q. I'm 15 years old and I'm craving a child. I know many other people have asked about this but I feel my situation is somewhat different and would like specific advice please. 11 months ago today I had a miscarrige; I was almost 4 months pregnant...
A. 23 September 2010: First off, I'm sorry for your loss.
Secondly miscarriages are more common in the very young, because you are not fully mature and able to carry and deliver a child.
Seek help. You need to deal with the loss of the baby. Having another one will... (read in full...)
Age taking it's toll...
Q. I am about to meet up with an old friend the same age as me. He remembers me fondly, we went out once 40 years ago. I am probably fairly attractive, but I wear a hearing aid and have false teeth. I have already put him off once but am meeting this ...
A. 13 September 2010: Aww you made me smile :) I had my first hearing aid at 35, I unfortunately have a degenerative defect in the tiny bones in my ears, which resulted in loss of hearing. Not total loss, but I'm sure I will get there at some point. I didn't want surgery ... (read in full...)
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