I'm in love with both of them, why cant we just have a 3-way relationship!
Q. I am new to this site so please don't laugh at what I am about to say. Almost 8yrs ago I met and got involved with a woman who is 10yrs older than me. Everything was going well until like the fool I am I cheated on her with a woman 8yrs older than ...
A. 5 November 2010: Unless the women are into plural relationships there is nothing you can do or say for them both to stay with you.
Sorry, I seriously doubt you are that much of a price that they would be willing to share.... (read in full...)
Its the drugs or me!
Q. I'm 20 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and few months. I feel like my boyfriend is choosing drugs over me. I've asked him to stop but every single morning he wakes up and smokes it. He isn't at work atm either so he's just at home ...
A. 5 November 2010: Why are you trying to have a baby when he is doing drugs? Having a baby, being a mother, father WILL NOT cure an addict. He has no job? So you would be pregnant and supporting the family as well?
Move home, dump his dumb-ass.... (read in full...)
He lied about his age, and now I have found he is registered on Adult Friend Finder! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend of 4 months is perfect in every way, apart from when I read the history on his laptop. He has been going online with Adult Friend Finder. He did a search for women seeking men!! He registered!! This was last week when I was out with ...
A. 5 November 2010: Dump the old geezer! Fins someone who will love and adore you for you.
He may have been bored and signed up for Adult Friend Finder, but.... that is only step one.
You deserve better.... (read in full...)
My fiance has been cheating for the last 3 years! What do I do?
Q. Please help! I have been with my fiance for over 7 yrs and just found out he has been cheating on and off for the past 3 yrs! I am scared to be alone and would take a huge financial hit if we separate as we own businesses and real estate together. ...
A. 5 November 2010: Buy him out if you can or let him buy you out, I would trust that man in ANY aspects of life, let alone with your money, since he was so flipping careless with your heart.
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Before we even started, he was finished!
Q. Well a couple of days ago it was my boyfriend and i first time that we had sex. We had been wanting to do it before but we didnt have a chance to. So everytime we made out i would turn him on. And when we finally had the place to have time together ...
A. 4 November 2010: Give him a chance :) Hopefully he will be able to have a second erection and figure out what to do to pleasure you as well.... (read in full...)
My drunken mother says I'm a kid and my feelings don't matter
Q. Okay me and my mom don't get along she is always drunk and yelling at me. I try to explain my feelings to her but all she cares about is herself she always says I'm a kid I don't have feelings. I don't live with her. She lies to me and everyone ...
A. 4 November 2010: There will come a point in your life where cutting out toxic people is the only way to maintain a grasp on sanity and normalcy.
Since you don't live with her, maybe cut the contact to a bare minimum and find a teacher/counselor who can help you... (read in full...)
Is wrong to have a boyfriend but to practice sex with a friend to get ready for boyfriend?
Q. I have a boyfriend now but one of my guy friends wants to be friends with benefits. I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend but is it wrong to have a friend with benefits to practice for my boyfriend?...
A. 4 November 2010: Yes and PLEASE don't have sex for a LONG LONG time, you don't seem to grasp the emotional side of sex. AT ALL.... (read in full...)
Online guy won't talk to me when he's at home. Why is that?
Q. I met this guy through a dating site and we have been chatting online for about 3 months now. We chat almost everyday. He always leaves me offline messages like, 'Hi, beautiful. How's ur day? I miss u.' We see each other on cam often. He says he ...
A. 4 November 2010: He is seeing someone else. Married or GF. Otherwise there would be no excuse to not talk to you.... unless he lives in his Mom's basement with no Internet........ (read in full...)
Watery bath???
Q. What does it do if you inject water in your ass? Can it be harmful?...
A. 4 November 2010: Why would you do that in the first place?... (read in full...)
I snooped through my husband's phone and now he is distant!
Q. A fleeting moment of insecurity had me snoop through my husband's phone while he was in the shower. Now he is distant. What's my next move? I'm 95% of the time very confident but I get these fleeting moments of insecurity from time to time. I ...
A. 3 November 2010: You need to talk to him. And own your own actions. Why so insecure?... (read in full...)
He is getting me a sexy outfit from an adult store for my birthday present, despite knowing how I feel about this! What should I do about this?
Q. My birthday is coming up soon and ill be 21 I asked my boyfriend what he was getting me for my birthday he told me it was from a (Adult store) and he wouldint tell me anything else. Even tho i asked him not to get me a sexy costume! I recen...
A. 3 November 2010: Return it :) Pure and simple, if you are not wanting to wear sexy costumes ( yet or ever) he needs to respect that.
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For the girls: Would you dump your boyfriend if you found out he was a 25 year old virgin?
Q. This question mainly applies to women but I was wondering if you would dump your boyfriend if he told you one day that he was a virgin and that he was over the age of 25 (I'm 23 but considering the worst case scenario for me). I could have lost it ...
A. 3 November 2010: No. I see nothing wrong with it. I think I'd rather sleep with a virgin then a he-whore any day.... (read in full...)
Help! Why won't my husband perform oral sex on me?
Q. Why won't my husband perform oral sex? I've been married for 10 years my husband first told me he had never performed oral sex and wouldn't do it. Recently he told me that he did twice before. I'm upset and sometimes feel like cheating. I've never ...
A. 2 November 2010: Some women don't like to give blow job, some men don't like to give oral.
You need to talk to him about how you feel.
Cheating is NEVER the answer. If you don't feel sexually fulfilled with your husband then MAYBE he isn't fulfilled with y... (read in full...)
Very small penis, now I don't fancy him!
Q. I'm in a bit of a cuffuffle. I started talking to a lovely guy a few weeks ago, we have been on 3 dates and I stayed at his house last night. I'm 21 he's 31. We ended up getting naked and feeling each other. I noticed that when his penis is e...
A. 2 November 2010: Obviously you two don't have comparative sexual chemistry.
It could be first time jitters, but it could also be that you two just aren't well-matched.
If you do break up with him DO NOT mention his size. ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to stop him?
Q. hiya everyone, feeling troubled at the moment. I'm fourteen and have fallen in love with a seventeen year old who lives on the same street as me, one day he came over and we started kissing (we've been friends for months) and it got quite intense ...
A. 2 November 2010: No you did what was right for you. Keep having trust in your own instincts. Being able to say no, is never a bad thing.... (read in full...)
Should I take the morning after pill to stop my period when I go on holiday?
Q. This is a bit of an embarassing situation... ok, i have really heavy periods which means that my next period will be due when i go on holiday in four weeks time! or at least, i think it will be as my period should end by next monday. i was wondering ...
A. 2 November 2010: The morning after pill is made to prevent a fertilized egg to implant. IT will NOT stop your period, more likely the other way around, it will make it start.
The only way to almost control your period is being on Birth Control.... (read in full...)
Does wearing tampons make your vagina looser?
Q. I decided to wear Pads instead of Tampons because i think if i use Tampons for almost a week out the month 'it will cause my Vagina to be looser.. so my Q is Does it matter or make a difference if i dont use Tampons because i dont want my Vagina to ...
A. 2 November 2010: LOL, who ever told you that is full of crap. ... (read in full...)
We had sex and now he threatens to tell my husband if I don't do what he wants!!! Help!
Q. Long story short, I met a guy and we ended up having sex. I'm married. Now he threatens to tell my husband if I don't do what he wants, when he wants. How do I get out of this? Please help me....
A. 2 November 2010: Fess up. He has absolutely NO HOLD on you if you tell your husband.
Now you know, cheating has repercussions.... (read in full...)
My fiance has been cheating for the last 3 years! What do I do?
Q. Please help! I have been with my fiance for over 7 yrs and just found out he has been cheating on and off for the past 3 yrs! I am scared to be alone and would take a huge financial hit if we separate as we own businesses and real estate together. ...
A. 1 November 2010: You leave him. He cheated on your for 3 YEARS? And you want to stay? Getting married will NOT make him stop cheating. Being engaged certainly didn't either.
There is nothing to forgive, time to lose the loser. Only thing that will hurt him is h... (read in full...)
Do I tell her that her boyfriend slept with me?
Q. I'm in fairly tricky situation at the moment. For the past year and a half me and this guy had a serious thing going on. Anywho, we broke things off, and he got himself a girlfriend, whilst I stayed single. A few months after, he randomly co...
A. 1 November 2010: I guess since you have the texts to prove it, I would tell her, I would also block him and ignore him for the rest of my life. He is a total douche.
But I DO agree that you shouldn't expect her to thank you. She will most likely think it's all... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and dating a 42 year old married man!
Q. I've kind of dug myself a grave here. I'm dating a man who's 42, and I'm only 18. But there one huge problem that I used to let slide but now it's starting to get to me. He's married. I used to just brush it off, but every time I see his and her car ...
A. 28 October 2010: Honey, he will NOT leave his wife for you. It will not magically become TRUE LOVE or Pretty Woman....
He is a cheater and a liar. What he is doing to his family is devastating and YOU are PART of that. Think about it.
Why be with a married m... (read in full...)
Do men really get afraid?
Q. My boss and I have been fooling around for about 6 months, no sex, no kissing, just fondling. We haven't gone further as he is very afraid of my husband finding out and hurting him. We are both married with children. Yet we continue to fool around. ...
A. 27 October 2010: Sure men get scared too, but right now he's thinking with his dick, not his head... hence you two continue. I'm not sure WHAT you are thinking with but why are you doing it? Why do you think it's OK?
You are both married. Does your wedding ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy tests have come back negative, but could I still be pregnant?
Q. My periods are 4 days late. I took 2 pregnancy tests and they both came out negative. I've never missed periods before and they are always on time. I had sex 2 days after my last periods. Could i be pregnant?...
A. 27 October 2010: You can not fully trust a pregnancy test 4 days after a missed period. Stress & anxiety can delay a period easily.
The pregnancy hormones show up in a blood test 7-12 after a missed period. Some... urine tests can detect pregnancy as soon as 5 day... (read in full...)
Is the pill making me emotional or is this normal?
Q. Girls. I am really very emotional and to be honest, a bit of a mess everytime my period arrives. I get so low and cry at pretty much anything that makes me even remotely sad. I am on the pill. Is it the pill or just normal? I can deal with it mys...
A. 27 October 2010: It can be the pill is not the right fit for you (hormonally) It can be that you suffer from PMDD
https://health.google.com/health/ref/Premenstrual+dysphoric+disorder
Make an appointment and talk to your doctor about it.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
Why wont my ex return my belongings?
Q. My boyfriend and I split up about two weeks ago, and he still has some of my stuff at his place. I have asked for these things to be retuned, and a week ago I got some of them, but not the most important ones. Last meeting ended up with a fight as ...
A. 27 October 2010: He might be holding on to your stuff because he hopes you changes your mind.
Honestly, I would find a neutral third person, that you both know, to pick up the rest. Find a day that works for the ex and whomever you can find to pick it up and get ... (read in full...)
He's proposed, but where is the ring?
Q. My boyfriend proposed to me a few weeks ago...Kind of. Basically, the subject has come up once or twice, in passing. He knew I would say yes if he asked. We were lying in bed, drifting off to sleep, and he started to speak, being very hesitant ...
A. 27 October 2010: He replied "OK, one day soon I'll get a ring".
So he wanted to put a feeler out on how you would react, before getting a ring. I would let him do his thing. Maybe the guy is planning a "proper" proposal.
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In the heat of the argument I told him he has a tiny penis! I know I have screwed up, so how do I fix this?
Q. Ok so ive been seeing this guy for a while now almost a year. He told me before that he always thought he had a small penis (he had been drinking, in fact i dont know if he remembers telling me that) but hes not small hes like 6.5 in. Ive been told ...
A. 27 October 2010: Wow, that is a low blow!
If I were you I would be up front and tell him, sorry I was a bitch, I said it only to hurt you, not because it's true. Whether he will actually BELIEVE you is a whole other matter...
No one ever really WINS an argument... (read in full...)
I think he rejected me by ignoring the bit about dinner, was he ever interested in me or was it just a bit of fun?
Q. 3 months ago I started a new job. I never go into work situations thinking I'll meet anyone who might be boyfriend material, so I never expected this... I start work late, a guy in my team starts early, so he's always there when I walk into work...
A. 27 October 2010: I think you put the ball in his court very nicely (with the dinner question) Now it's up to him. Give him a few days (if you want) and see if he get up the courage to ask you out or not, you could also tell him that the dinner invitation is still on ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend asked who I was attracted to when I first started school, I told her the truth and now she wants a break!
Q. Hi everyone. Thanks for checking my post So here's the situation. Yesterday, I had a VERY rough day. I was talking to my girlfriend, when all of a sudden she asks me this question. "Who do you find attractive when you first entered school?"...
A. 27 October 2010: Obviously she didn't want the truth. she wanted you to say YOU!.
I think she is being really silly about this. I would point out to her that not only did you WAIT for her to NOT be in a relationship, but that you didn't hook up with girl X (the g... (read in full...)
Threesome lead to wife giving something that I had always wanted
Q. Awhile back, my wife and I got drunk and lost our inhibitions and did something we always fantasized about, but should have left as a fantasy. We had a threesome, with a complete stranger. We picked a stranger, because we thought the chances of a...
A. 26 October 2010: Yeah, good luck with that one.... ... (read in full...)
I found naughty texts do I confront her?
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over 3 months. My friends don't think she is trustworthy. The other day I was going through her phone and I noticed a text from a guy named John. I clicked on it and it said thing like I want you so b...
A. 26 October 2010: You have only been dating her for 3 months, I say dump her. Sorry I don't have any patience for cheaters. And in my book she is cheating on you. Maybe not physically, but emotionally she she definently "screwing" around with the other guy.... (read in full...)
I need to learn more about the Spanish language...
Q. For this one I'll need the help of some native Spanish speakers (preferably Mexican Spanish). There's this girl that I have been out with a few times. She's from Mexico and even though her English is fluent there are times when she doesn't catc...
A. 26 October 2010: Go to the library, check out the Rosetta stone language teacher. They have them in all language, expand your horizon.... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend coming to see me and wants me to sleep with him but I don't want to
Q. I live in Australia and my boyfriend lives in India. Now he is coming to visit me in Australia and wants me to stay with him in a hotel. I don't want this coz i dn't want to hurt my parents since we are not married. How do i tell him this? I tried ...
A. 26 October 2010: Write him an e-mail BEFORE he comes to visit. TELL him that you look forward to seeing him, but that you want to make sure he understand that there will be NO SEX. Now if he gets all upset and don't want to come, you know all he wanted was sex.
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I acted like an idiot whilst drunk, what should I do when I go back to school to minimise the damage?
Q. Last night i was at a party and was completely drunk and I started acting like a chav and all my peers were giving me dirty looks and stuff and taking the piss, and i gotta go back to school in 2 weeks... what do i do so i dont look like a complete ...
A. 25 October 2010: It will be forgotten real quick. Just remember to not drink if you can't handle the liquor. And honestly... most teens can't.
So next time you go out, have fun without the booze, laugh at the other dumb drunks.
Chalk this up to a lesson in life... (read in full...)
DO women have better sex than men???
Q. My partner was basically saying in not so many words that I should be jealous that women have better sex than men. I.e. better and longer orgasms. I felt quite annoyed about this, as I had never really thought about it until this conversation. No...
A. 23 October 2010: I have no idea how it feels for a man, so I can't say that MINE is better.
^shrug^ I don't think it matters really, since for me at least, it's not a competition.... (read in full...)
Is porno all the same to women?
Q. Ok so if a girl finds evidence of her guy using "porn", does it make any difference what kind? like would some swimsuit issues be as bad as an X-rated video? Does the type of content matter? What exactly is porn to you? When people hear the ...
A. 23 October 2010:
What do I consider porn? Um.. everything out there on the web or on DVD/video/magazines with people having/faking sex. To me it's all fake. Fake boobs, fake pleasure, fake people....
I don't consider pictures of nude/semi nudes porn.
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How can I stop being a menstrual bitch?!
Q. It's my time of the month at the moment and I am being such a miserable cow. All I want to do it sit on the sofa, watch tv and eat Chinese food and chocolate cake. The worst thing is that I'm being so horrible and mean to my boyfriend. He's ...
A. 23 October 2010: I agree with jmc930. Go talk to your doctor, it can be PMDD or it can be your hormones are severely messed up around the time you are due for your period. Either way you can get help for it. Beats being a bitch without wanting to be one.
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Are there any symptoms after having sex for the first time?
Q. I had sex for the first time almost 4 weeks ago and i was supposed to get my period 4 days ago but it hasn't come yet. my period is usually irregular, but i'm worried. we used a condom and we stopped after he came. i feel like my boobs have been ...
A. 20 October 2010: For your age - weight fluctuation is normal (as long as it is not huge differences). The sore boobs, can be hormonal. Since it's been 4 weeks a pregnancy test can show you with pretty good accuracy if you are indeed pregnant.
Better safe then sor... (read in full...)
I didn't tell my online guy that I had a daughter till after we met, now he won't talk to me!
Q. I met a guy online he was in iraq at the time.I never belived in dating sites before,it was my first time chatting with someone oline we start chatting and he was so sweet the more we chat the more I liked him,on one of our chats he asked me if I ...
A. 20 October 2010: Next time don't lie. I can understand not wanting to tell him EVERY little detail, but lying is never good.
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How often should I swallow cum?
Q. Me and my boyfriend like to do sex everynight.I really enjoy to give him a blowjob.He tells me to swallow his semen.I don't like swallowing.Is it harmful for body?Is it helpful?How many times in a week should i swallow cum?...
A. 20 October 2010: Semen can't harm you, but really if you don't WANT/LIKE to swallow then don't. Sex is not MAGICALLY better for a guy because you swallow.... (read in full...)
Is the volume or distance of a man's ejaculation important?
Q. I was hanging out with a friend over the weekend and somehow after a few beers the topic of sex came up (small wonder among men drinking beer, right). He said since he turned 40, the force and volume of his ejaculations has gone down. He said his ...
A. 20 October 2010: Honestly, I couldn't care how far or how much my husband can produce - I doubt any women do. It's not like you need a man around to put out fires with it....
But in your friends case, I don't think it's about his wife at all, it about him. For... (read in full...)
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