Should I see what he has to say?
Q. A male friend or ex "fwb" you might call it, ended up sleeping together a few weeks ago. BIG mistake because he has a girlfriend. I spoke to him about it a few days later, and told him i felt like an idiot about what happened. He asked why, and i...
A. 6 December 2010: Let it go, honey. Live and learn!
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Should I see what he has to say?
Q. A male friend or ex "fwb" you might call it, ended up sleeping together a few weeks ago. BIG mistake because he has a girlfriend. I spoke to him about it a few days later, and told him i felt like an idiot about what happened. He asked why, and i...
A. 2 December 2010: I think if you feel unable to control your own actions (as in cheat with a guy who has a GF), it might make you life easier to just stay away from him.
He obviously doesn't care what you think really and he certainly doesn't respect his GF eithe... (read in full...)
Should I move on?
Q. I will try to make this short I have dated this guy for almost two years and he works a lot which doesn't allow us to spend a lot of time together which i understand but what i don't undetstand that on his days off he would tell me that he would see ...
A. 2 December 2010: Go out there and get to know people. If you run into someone you find interesting, go on a date.
And, honey.... Don ever settle. Life to short for that.... (read in full...)
I found out the guy I was dating was a registered sex offender
Q. HI. I just started dating this guy, when I found out that He was a registered sex offender. I found out through his ex mother in law that I happened to work with. When he was 15 he sexually molested his sister over a time frame of about 3 months.. ...
A. 2 December 2010: Personally, I think people who abuse children and animals can NOT change. I think they should be put down, seriously.
I would walk, no actually, run. Run like Forrest Gump.
No matter how much you LOVE him you CAN NOT fix that in him. You can ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to move on when its clear the relationship will not work with his baby mama?
Q. my boyfriend has recently had a baby with his ex, he is now seven months old. we got together eight months ago and i new about the birth coming along. he had broken up with me a while ago and begun going out with his ex only to realise once aga...
A. 2 December 2010: I think (and I'm sorry if that hurts your feelings that is not my intention) that you are his rebound-girl.
He will keep going back to her over and over. Personally, I would end it and find someone more compatible, who is also totally availabl... (read in full...)
Should I move on?
Q. I will try to make this short I have dated this guy for almost two years and he works a lot which doesn't allow us to spend a lot of time together which i understand but what i don't undetstand that on his days off he would tell me that he would see ...
A. 2 December 2010: Tell me 5 things you LOVE about him..
The fact that he treats you with disrespect?
The fact that He treats you like a booty call?
The fact that he doesn't really want to take the time to be with you?
The fact that he is manipulative?
The f... (read in full...)
Should I attempt to find this person? I have a strong desire to reconcile with her for what I did
Q. Twenty five years ago I had a brief affair (I was married at the time) with another woman that I cared for deeply. I was in the army and left for Germany without telling her I was leaving. (doing what I thought was the 'right' thing by my wife at ...
A. 1 December 2010: I think contacting her would be a bad idea. If you need to talk it out, talk to your wife, she what she thinks.
You are not really thinking about the woman you hurt all that time ago, you are thinking about YOURSELF, again.
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Two lives, two women......who does he really love?
Q. Ten years ago I met a guy and we quickly fell in love ..long story short he became violent, controlling along with plenty of other issues. At that time we were living together and I had a young child in the home. With that said my family became ...
A. 1 December 2010:
That sounds absolutely TOXIC! Why are you denying yourself some happiness in life? He surely can't provide that for you.
You need to let him go, to NOT worry about WHAT he think or feels (if the guy have any feelings at all). Focus on yourself.... (read in full...)
I slept over at his place and he pulled out a vibrator! Why would he have this?
Q. My ex had a really small um, "member", mentioning only for reference, it wasn't an issue. We are both in our 30's. So, when I slept over at his place and we had sex and he pulled out a vibrator. All I could think of the whole time is...where it ...
A. 1 December 2010: yikes, That would be a huge turn off. Someone using a "used" vibrator on his date/gf... definently eww.
He MIGHT however have bought one because he wanted to be able to please you no matter his size. So it might not be all eww.... (read in full...)
Lunatic ex wife!
Q. How are you supposed to react when the ex-wife is insane, constantly texting, calling, leaving nasty voicemails saying the kid needs something and how terrible of a person I am to their kid, when she agonised my son for ten years calling him names, ...
A. 1 December 2010: Honestly I would refuse to talk ot her at all. If she can not be civil, it's a hang up. And if she wants to talk, she can talk to your husband. HE will HAVE to deal with this, not hide behind you and let YOU take the whole "blame" for this.
Also,... (read in full...)
I pressured him into leaving his wife for me and now I havent heard from him in 2 weeks!
Q. i just broken up with my ex bf for 5yrs.then i met a man who made me happy.im at first we met on friendster and said he was single.he lied..he is married. We are madly in love with each other.he told me that he will divorce his wife. I pressured him ...
A. 1 December 2010: I think you need to let it go. I know you want some sort of closure, but that is not something you get every time a relationship is over. Sometimes you do, sometimes you don't. All you can do is look back at what it was and learn from it.
1. i... (read in full...)
I pressured him into leaving his wife for me and now I havent heard from him in 2 weeks!
Q. i just broken up with my ex bf for 5yrs.then i met a man who made me happy.im at first we met on friendster and said he was single.he lied..he is married. We are madly in love with each other.he told me that he will divorce his wife. I pressured him ...
A. 30 November 2010: The whole "Woe is me" and my wife don't love me.. is very typical cheater "hook liners". I mean REALLY? this is not the 1940's. Not THAT many men will stay for the sake of their child. And with a good lawyer she can't rip him off totally. Even so, ... (read in full...)
What could I do to get him? Should I try making him jealous?
Q. Heey. I recently broke things off with the guy i liked because he said he isn't looking for a relationship as he isn't willing to work and is too immature for one. He said that he prefers to be single. He also implied he isn't looking for sex beca...
A. 29 November 2010: I think you need to forget this guy. Let him grow up a little.
Playing games never really work as YOU want them too.... (read in full...)
I don't love him anymore, help!
Q. I'm only 19 years old and i've been dating this one guy for about 4 years. But our relationship is far from perfect. I dont even know why i'm still with this guy. I know that sounds mean but he has done soo many things that i should have just walked ...
A. 29 November 2010: Grow a backbone honey!
He is using you, and YOU are using him right back. Whatever it is that you get out of being with him, you need to figure that out and consider if that is worth staying for, if not... Move on. You are way to young to get stuc... (read in full...)
I pressured him into leaving his wife for me and now I havent heard from him in 2 weeks!
Q. i just broken up with my ex bf for 5yrs.then i met a man who made me happy.im at first we met on friendster and said he was single.he lied..he is married. We are madly in love with each other.he told me that he will divorce his wife. I pressured him ...
A. 29 November 2010: To be perfectly honest with you, I think he's out looking for a new "mistress", he obviously have no intentions of divorcing his wife.
My advice.. STOP dating married guys. ... (read in full...)
I am very interested in my co-worker, my wife doesn't deserve this
Q. I have been married only two years now, known my wife for three. For the first time in the relationship I am having strong feelings and desire for another woman. The other woman is a co-worker, we are both quiet natured but talk to eachother quite ...
A. 29 November 2010: Well, it's time to shit or get off the pot.
Consider this, you divorce your wife for the co-worker and the co-worker doesn't really want a relationship with you. Or The two of you just don't work well together. In real life the fantasies you harb... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't have time or money for me!
Q. Please help me with your opinions; My boyfriend of a year over commits. I was aware before i got into a serious relationship with him that he is very busy but i can not help but feel he has his priorities wrong. He puts his massive sport comm...
A. 29 November 2010: Let me ask you this, is he good at this sport? Is it something he could potentially become professional at and make a career doing?
Have you ever had a dream? A passion?
If so, I think his GF should support him as much as she can (I don't mea... (read in full...)
Good or bad idea to get ex girlfriend a present?
Q. Getting an ex girlfriend a christmas present, is that a good thing or is it a bad thing? I was just curious about other peoples opinion. ...
A. 29 November 2010: Life is easier if you don't. Unless you are both single and still friends, then you can get away with it, BUT you really have to watch what you buy, in order for it not to be misinterpreted.... (read in full...)
Is the age difference a problem if neither person acts their age?
Q. if a 15 year old girl is dating a 22 year old wrong if they both are attractive to one another and they both don't look there age and both don't act there age?...
A. 29 November 2010: How they look and act doesn't matter much when it comes to the law. The LAW says it's illegal.
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Should I apologise to my ex?
Q. So my ex kept booty-calling me, and I finally stopped that. I told him to leave me alone but before I was able to achieve full closure, I decided to tell this girl he was seeing, that he wanted to keep me there as his second option. Now, they're ...
A. 29 November 2010: Nope, you SURELY do not owe him an apology. He is just pissed of that he got caught doing something "wrong" and who is easier to blame then you? If he can blame you, he doesn't have to take responsibility for his own actions.
Let the loser go... (read in full...)
I don't think my wife will go for the "two wife thing"
Q. Ok I'm in.love with two women ones my wife the others is both of ours best friend . My wife is some what open about sex and we had a 3 som . Ok and then after me and her keeped in tuch and talked about eveything we ended up saying I love you and we ...
A. 29 November 2010: Wow, apart from the atrocious spelling I have to say, you have no respect for your wife what so ever. I doubt you would know what love is if it came and bit you on the ass.
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Do women always find out when they're cheated on?
Q. I used to be a pretty positive person but within this past year i've become increasingly negative with regards to relationships and guys. I think the thing that really pushed me over the edge was a guy i liked, who knew i liked him, asked if we...
A. 29 November 2010: No you certainly don't always know. Many cheaters (women & men) are also very good liars. It's a "survival" mechanism.
And GOOD for you to tell him go fly a kite! He most likely will try with another girl, and another til he finds one with low... (read in full...)
Too embarrassed to dress up for my boyfriend!
Q. my boyfriend wants me to dress up for him and i get embarrassed and once im dressed up what should i do???...
A. 19 November 2010: Do you mean in pretty clothes, costumes or lingerie? Big difference there.
If it's pretty clothes (let's say a hot dress and heals) DRESS up for yourself. Wear either the naughtiest panties or some hilarious granny panties - and here is why. YOU... (read in full...)
Is my ex mentally ill and dangerous?
Q. why does my ex bf breakup, forget me for long time then out of the blue appear when i get a new bf and then disappears out of the blue when i forget about my new bf for him???? This happened 4 times. I know its part my fault but why does he keep ...
A. 19 November 2010: He likes to play emotional yo-yo with you. He doesn't want to be with you, but he doesn't want you to be with anyone else.
I would think you would have cut him off after the first or maybe second time.. but I seriously think that he is convince... (read in full...)
Why is he ignoring my texts so soon after I heard he liked me?
Q. hey, on a recent night out it got back to my crush that I liked him. his friend told a mate of mine he liked me too and although we didnt get a chance to speak properly that night, he put his number in my phone and said to give him a text. i did so ...
A. 19 November 2010: Why do people not just pick up the phone and call?
I don't know why he is ignoring your texts, but I wouldn't text him any further, I would call him and TALK to him, now if he doesn't answer, I wouldn't try again. The ball would be in his court.... (read in full...)
He wants a second chance after cheating on me but all he talks about is sex, is he just using me?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had a little problem, he went really weird with me and he didnt speak to me for a while, i'd never usually speak first but i started making more of an effort with him and he then began ignoring me, i then caught him cheating and ...
A. 19 November 2010: I absolutely agree with CaringGuy. Don't take him back, he will fail again and yes, he is after sex.
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I'm worried he has told other people at school that I'm a virgin after our failed attempt at having sex! What should I do?
Q. so i'm just going to start with my question. few weeks ago, a new guy in my class began to send me messages. i wasn't interested i'm not even now. but anyways i talked to him. he told me he likes me and so on. because he wanted to meet with me so i ...
A. 19 November 2010: First of all, I don't think virginity is a thing you have KNOCK out with the first available guy.
So WHAT if you are known as a virgin? Honestly, at your age I think it's a good thing.
Be yourself. Virgin or not. Whether you have had sex or ... (read in full...)
Are these signs of cheating?
Q. Hi everyone, I am suspecting that my bf is cheating on me. There are many reasons why I feel this way. - I came home to him today showering, which he would never do this late in the day - he wanted to change the sheets because he claimed tha...
A. 19 November 2010: A female reader, Hillary30 +, writes (18 November 2010):
Hillary30 is verified as being by the original poster of the question
And to be honest everyone...I've been looked at all the signs of a guy who cheats and he only has many one, or top... (read in full...)
Am I angry she was taken advantage of or angry that she's been with other men?
Q. Right, I dont really know how to put this simply.. Basically my girlfriend of 18 months, has only slept with 2 guys other than myself, and both have been bad experiences, Partially down to naivety/vulnerability, and them also being complete a...
A. 18 November 2010: Well, honestly the anger won't do you any good. Won't do her any good either.
So she was naive/stupid in the past, she is with you now, so it's time for YOU and HER to let the past be the past.
Maybe this article can give you some ideas:
h... (read in full...)
I want to go out with friends on my birthday and now she's threatening to break up with me!
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for 6 years now. Since the beginning she's always been hard to deal with when a disagreement arises, and she always refuses to compromise. It seems to me that she blames every fight on a failure on my part. Most ...
A. 18 November 2010: Seems like you are dating a 3 year old.
I can't see WHY you had to apologize for going out with friends on your B-day... unless she had a surprise party planned or something like that.
Also I can't see why the two of you couldn't celebra... (read in full...)
Too tight and dry to have sex!
Q. i am married but my vagina is too tight and dry that my spouse can't enter me. please help me...
A. 18 November 2010: Lubrication might help a little. FOREPLAY might help a lot.... (read in full...)
Are these signs of cheating?
Q. Hi everyone, I am suspecting that my bf is cheating on me. There are many reasons why I feel this way. - I came home to him today showering, which he would never do this late in the day - he wanted to change the sheets because he claimed tha...
A. 18 November 2010: Maybe. Something is up for sure.... (read in full...)
Fiancé wishes my penis was bigger, do you think I'm big enough?
Q. I need help. Me and my fiancé been together for over a year and I have to admit...we are both sexually active. She says she loves my penis size but constantly reminds me that she wish I was bigger. My penis is 6" long with 3.5" girth but she says ...
A. 18 November 2010: Is she high?
What if you started to tell her you wish she was tighter?
I think I would seriously re-consider marrying this girl... ... (read in full...)
No trust or breathing room in our relationsip!
Q. I am not allowed to go have quality time with my close friends after work at there place. I am not allowed to go have a drink with my close friends after work. I am not allowed to go to the room and use my computer when I am at home If I ...
A. 18 November 2010: Sounds like he is your prison warden and you his prisoner. Or like a father/child thing going on.
My question to you is this, WHY do you let him control you like a puppet?
If you want to have dinner with your mom, why don't you? What will h... (read in full...)
My ex won't leave me alone!
Q. I hate my ex, he's so selfish. Ever since we broke up in May, things have been his way. When he wanted to talk, we talked, when he didn't want to talk, we didn't talk. When we broke up I met another guy, who was interested in me and told me he l...
A. 18 November 2010: Well I think your ex is a lunatic and that's it is a good thing you two aren't an item anymore.
I strongly suggest you cut ALL contact with him. No more texts, e-mails, phone calls NA-DA! Block his number and ignore his shenanigans. HE wants yo... (read in full...)
Office gossip about my boss and me! What should I do?
Q. i am having problems with this women at work she has started spreading lies about my boss and i that my boss and i are having sexual relations via texts which isn't true and that i'm wanting to sleep with my boss its gone around the workplace, and i ...
A. 18 November 2010: Personally, I'd confront her in front of everyone. She won't do that again.
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I feel like I'm wreaking everyone's lives!
Q. i left my wife 2 yrs ago after a long marriage that went wrong and met up with a girl i had gone out with 18 yrs earlier , she is a lovely girl but took alot of flac from my mood swings after me trying to get over the marriage. She then caught me ...
A. 18 November 2010: Well, I think this happens a lot when a person goes from one relationship into another, before being really over the first one.
If you keep seeing the girls on the side, YOU will at one point or another end up alone. Eventually even she will hav... (read in full...)
His ex still runs a business in his house, what the heck?!?
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been seeing this incredibly cute, sweet and well mannered guy for the past month. We see each other about twice a wk and he's wonderful about scheduling dates a wk ahead of time - I just love that!! He's what I want in soooo ma...
A. 18 November 2010: You two have been dating for a month so it's all kind of "new". I would ask him point blank what's up with the ex and her running HER business out of his house. Who knows maybe she is part owner in the house?
I think being up front about how you ... (read in full...)
Why does he always tell me there's someone else when we fight?
Q. Am i insecure when me and my boyfriend get into a argument he saids he got somebody else thats better than me he dont want me he dont want to sleep with me im a turn off he just living with me cause i let him. am i wrong for being insecure? Then ...
A. 17 November 2010: Because he play dumb games or fights dirty, call it whatever you want..
Honestly that wouldn't fly with me, because I Know in the heat of the moment I would kick him out telling him to GO STAY/LIVE with that "other woman" I don't care if she is a... (read in full...)
We keep breaking up and getting back together all because of his flirting with other girls!
Q. my boyfriend and i have broken up and gotten together 2 times and i really do love him! We broke up the first time because he just use to flirt too much to an extent that he didnt even notice himself! 2nd time was because i went overseas for about 3 ...
A. 16 November 2010: So why do you keep taking him back? You KNOw he will do it again.. and again......... (read in full...)
How should a single guy's bedroom look?
Q. Women, if you were at the house of a guy you liked and peeked in his bedroom, what would make a better impression on you: if it looked as though he entertained females there occasionally (candles, incense sticks, queen-size bed, tiny bottle of ...
A. 16 November 2010: A female reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 November 2010):
Definitely not the playpen, clean would impress me.
I totally agree.
NO, I do NOT want to see lubes and oils you used on other women or that you intend on using on me.. Tota... (read in full...)
Should I accept her back in my life or just be done with her?
Q. 11 days ago my fiancee broke up with me, she wanted to be with another guy. After all the break-up arguments were over she has been texting me and hinting about getting back together. I do love her but I don't enjoy the way she has treated me ...
A. 16 November 2010: Was she cheating on you with the other guy?
Honestly, i would take someone back knowing that I was that person's second choice. That is just not something time could erase.... (read in full...)
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