Should I tell my mother in law I find her sexy?
Q. I'm 28 and very sexually and emotionally attracted to my mother in law. she is 45. I have known her for 8 yrs and we get along very well. she knows I check her out every chance I get and has never said anything, she has checked me out before and ...
A. 8 December 2010: What would be the point to it? Flattery? I feel sorry for your wife. You may not have intended it, but you come off as pretty sleazy...
AWKWARD!... (read in full...)
Cheated but it was protected sex, now I am pregnant but don't know who this father is!
Q. I had protected sex during my ovulation week. I had a lot to drink that night and it was a big mistake. But at least we used a condom and correctly. But i have a boyfriend that i had been trying to have a child with. And we have unprotected sex all ...
A. 8 December 2010: No one here has an Magic 8 ball who can tell you exactly who the father is.
The only way to TRULY know who the father is, is to do a DNA test.
You will HAVE to tell your BF. He deserves to know.... (read in full...)
Has he always felt disgusted by my past and my son's ethnic origin? Or is it just an excuse to dump me?
Q. My boyfriend is a bit older than me, we've been together for about 18months. I have a son from a previous relationship who is 5 years old, he idolizes my bf and I thought the feeling was mutual until just recently. We have been having a lot of ...
A. 8 December 2010: I think he is making up dumb excuses. Stop taking him back, please. For your own same and for the sake of your son.
He seems immature and slightly ridiculous.... (read in full...)
Is it possible I'm pregnant even though the test came back negative?
Q. ok well about six months ago i was with this guy who i just met and he was 20 at the time and i was 16. we had sex using no protection or anything and now i think im prregnant. ive taken preg test but all but 1 said no and i cnt go to my parents. i ...
A. 7 December 2010: Have a blood test done. Most modern "pee" tests are pretty accurate but, the blood tests are more accurate.... (read in full...)
He claimed he was going to tell his girlfriend about me, yet I have not heard from him!
Q. ok so I met this guy about six months ago and we really liked each other so we started hangin out n getting to kno each other but after a couple weeks i started to notice that alot of times he wasnt answerin my calls or texts but i let it go i didnt ...
A. 7 December 2010: My questions is this.... Why did you still sleep with him after knowing he had a GF?
If she and her family is so horrible why is he still with her?
Wake up, the guy is using you, sorry.... (read in full...)
I'm not happy about my girlfriend's pregnancy, I don't want to let my dreams and goals go down the drain!
Q. I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 20. We found out a couple weeks ago that she is pregnant, and she's ecstatic, I am more reserved. When we found out our reactions were very different, she was happy, I was upset. To cut a long story short she has decided ...
A. 6 December 2010: Well there isn't much you can do about the pregnancy now. I say this, support her during the pregnancy and support you child when she/he is born, that is all you can do.
Pregnancies is a fact of life. If a couple aren't careful they can happen. ... (read in full...)
It takes him a day to respond to my texts!
Q. so i met this guy on line, we hanged out and it was great he told me lots of things about his life. He even told me about his ex fiance, he told me your lucky im telling you this because i normaly never do. So after that night we made out and just ...
A. 6 December 2010: Iwould move on, I just don't think he is that into you. I'm not saying people should text back rightaway, but the next day? Sounds iffy.
Ps. Why not call? I don't get how people rather text then call....... (read in full...)
We took a break for him to be sure I am the one, and he slept with so many women! Now we are back together he doesn't trust me, what do I do?
Q. We took a break for ten months just so that he was sure i am the one wants to spend the rest of his life with but now i have changed as i am pissed and hurt because he slept with so many women now we are together and he says he doesnt trust me.... ...
A. 6 December 2010: He doesn't trust YOU because of his OWN behavior/actions while the two of you were apart.
Taking a break in a relationship can happen but a 10 months long one? To figure out if you are meant to be together or not? That is not a break, that is ... (read in full...)
I've finally stopped denying that I am gay, but I have zero experience with men!
Q. Hey guys/gals, So I have a bit of a problem; I've basically lived my entire life in sexual self-denial. I've been with girls, had girlfriends, I've been told I'm good looking, etc ... but I'm gay. I can't deny it any longer and the thought of b...
A. 6 December 2010: It;s like everything else in life, some start young, some start later in life.
The fact that you have overcome your initial denial is huge.
I seriously doubt any guy out there would have a problem with dating a guy who had no experience. We a... (read in full...)
He went behind my back last year with an ex, and now another ex wants to meet up with him! What should I do?
Q. After the first year of being together my boyfriend went behind my back, met up with for coffee, and saved half naked photos of her on his computer. He didn't tell me, but it all came out in the end. We rowed and decided to give it one last go. It's ...
A. 6 December 2010: Seems like he thinks he is still single. I would sit him down and ask him why he can't let the past go. No, actually I not be with a guy who is still so invested in ex's.
Though, I don't see why you can't keep in contact with an ex, but.... ... (read in full...)
What did we do wrong?
Q. Me and my fiance' tried the squirting thing we just couldn't get I was embarrased because I accidentally pissed on myself, what did we do wrong?...
A. 6 December 2010: I would have no idea, I jsut don't get the whole "squirting is hot" thing.
Try and google it and see if you can find a good website that can give you "play by play" help.
Personally, I think women should leave ejaculation to the guys.... (read in full...)
Interracial 3some
Q. I have been married for 8 years. We have hit the point where I think some spice in the sex department would be nice. My wife is pretty conservative when it comes to sex, but I also know she can really get into it sometimes. I also know, it is a ...
A. 6 December 2010: Adding a 3 person to your sex life is RARELY a good idea, it might seem HOT as far as fantasies go, but in reality it causes more drama then excitement.
I think most women takes it as an insult when asked to be in a 3-some, as in they are not good... (read in full...)
Are mens egos that fragile
Q. I broke up with a man a little over two years ago. We dated for six months,but didn't consummate the relationship due to some health issues he had. We ended up friend despite him playing games like trying to make me jealous only six weeks after ...
A. 6 December 2010: As far as your ex and his motivations, only HE knows why he does the thing he does. If I'm guessing he's hugging and sitting next to you, to show you that he isn't affected by your close proximity, but that he enjoys your company.
But in all hone... (read in full...)
Is it weird to be horny during your period?
Q. I guess women when there on their monthly period say Sex is off limits because being on their rag messes up their mood..but i am different 'i still want to have Sex when i am on my period, so is this Normal..and i hate guys that thinks it is gross ...
A. 6 December 2010: Not weird at all, it's actually pretty normal. If he is too squeamish, get yourself a rabbit.
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He called me a prostitute! I'm his mistress!
Q. I'm having an affair with a married man. Well today his wife caught us in a hotel and called me a prostitute? Then she started fighting my man and in the midst he told her I didn't mean nothhing to him but a prostitute! Wtf?! I'm a mistress! Will ...
A. 6 December 2010: Honestly he's the slut and you are his whore.. prostitute is jsut another word. You sound almost proud of being someones mistress... Someones dirty secret, that says a LOT more about you then him.
If you don't WANT to be called bad names, don't do... (read in full...)
I feel like this relationship is a waste of time when all he does is play Warcraft!
Q. hey. ive been with my boyfriend a while now. and just recently he has been playin Warcraft a lot.. it doesnt bother me that he plays it.. but i only see him on weekends and just recently, he been just been playing this game for like 6 hours at a ...
A. 6 December 2010: I agree with Mifbla. If he is playing WoW, go home. Do something with friends. Eventually he will realize that he needs to cut down on his play time.
I'm a gamer, have been for 11 years. But it doesn't control my life, nor do I play games when I c... (read in full...)
He is separated from his wife, but they are yet to proceed with a divorce. Does this count as cheating?
Q. I had sex with a guy who has been separated from his wife for a year. He has a 2 year old daughter with his wife, and that is why he claims it is "complicated" and they have not yet decided whether to move forward with the divorce. Does that count ...
A. 6 December 2010: Depends on who you ask I would guess.
In my book - Yes. As long as he's married, he's married and anyone he sleeps with (other then his wife) is committing adultery with him.
Sounds like a lot of potential drama. If they can't even work out th... (read in full...)
Should I see what he has to say?
Q. A male friend or ex "fwb" you might call it, ended up sleeping together a few weeks ago. BIG mistake because he has a girlfriend. I spoke to him about it a few days later, and told him i felt like an idiot about what happened. He asked why, and i...
A. 6 December 2010: Let it go, honey. Live and learn!
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Wide set vagina?
Q. well here the thing me and my boyfriend was together a year and half he never really pleasured me and i relised i have a large vingina .. i ask him this and he said he can't feel the wall's plus he manage to stick 4 fingers up me.. but part of the ...
A. 6 December 2010: Honey, as a woman you do Kegels til the day you die. EVERY DAY. It's like brushing your hair and teeth. You can do them EVERY WHERE at ANY time.
They can help later in life too, women who do Kegels are less likely to have incontinence problems... (read in full...)
Are these signals to have sex with her?
Q. I am a 32 years old virgin male and I am working in gulf now. Before I was working for a Indian boss and his wife was good with me even after I left that job they still call me and I am in good in terms with them. The problem is that whenever my ...
A. 3 December 2010: VERY bad idea.... (read in full...)
STD HPV2.. tell him or not?
Q. I have hpv 2 and i'm starting to see this guy. Should I tell him? I really like him, and i want him to leave his girlfriend for me. But I have this issue, and I think if I tell him he wont leave her for me. But we have been hanging out and talking a ...
A. 3 December 2010: I agree FULLY with CaringGuy.. What a mess.
And YES, go see your doctor, this can potentially cause cervical cancer later on in life in not treated and YES you have to tell potential bedfellows/sex partners about any and all STD's. ... (read in full...)
How do I stop him smoking?
Q. hi today this boy i have the biggest crush we talk in class alot but never outside class got caught smoking and sent home cause hes under age , also today we had an exam and he missed it cause of it, im not just doing this for me but for his heal...
A. 3 December 2010: You most likely can't "MAKE" him stop smoking. What does his parents say? Were they not informed? that 1. he smoked and 2 that he was sent home?
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Does my guy friend like me romantically, sexually, or is he just joking around?
Q. A guy friend of mine often calls me 'ugly', 'fat', 'idiot','stupid' in a joking way but I'm really skinny and not bad-looking...He always mocks me. Every time he sees me, he just winds me up! Once when I was cooking in our friend's house, he threw ...
A. 3 December 2010: Personally, I wouldn't date a guy who "jokingly" called me 'ugly', 'fat', 'idiot' or 'stupid'.
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I loved her first but now she's dating my best friend and he's cheating on her!
Q. I've been best friends with this guy, we'll call him "Jack" for about eight years now. He's a real player and I'm starting to resent him for it. A few years ago, we met this one girl, we'll call her "Vera", at the same time. I took an immediat...
A. 3 December 2010: Honey, she picked the wrong horse. (your friend) I think there is Nothing you CAN do til she decided they are through.
Though, you CAN take your friend aside and tell him, that he needs to fess up. He needs to shit or get off the pot.
Seems t... (read in full...)
Revealing too much at the swimming pool
Q. There is this girl at the gym who wears a bathing suit that is way too revealing! It only covers half of her breasts and only a quarter of her ass. It is almost seethru, and she always has T.H.O.'s. She makes a point to walk slowly around the pool ...
A. 3 December 2010: Who cares? Honestly?
She is obviously STARVED for attention, stop looking if it annoys or offend you.
Or she is just really happy about her body. Either way, it's up to you, to look or not.
There is a very big lady at my gym, who likes to ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my girlfriend's weight gain?
Q. Hi Ive been with my partner over two years now, and over that time she seems to have gained a lot of weight. When we first met, she was a 14-16, curvy, but absoloutly fine. Since then, shes gone to a size 20. And is eating lots/ not doing...
A. 3 December 2010: Start to do ACTIVE stuff in your time off with her. Go for a walk, go to the pool for a swim and YES! get a WII Fit, they are not only hilarious they actually work.
Do not suggest diet pills. They might work for a short period of time, but real... (read in full...)
I don't want children and its affecting my dating relationships
Q. I am really close to just throwing in the towel. I'll try and summarise as much as I can! My first girlfriend died in a car crash when we were 19. We'd been together 2 years and I know first love is always a biggie but to lose someone like tha...
A. 3 December 2010: Maybe you have to cast a wider net, so to speak. Tehre ARE women out there who do NOT want children, but DO want a long term relationship.... (read in full...)
After 10 years of faithfullness he evicted me and divorced me
Q. At 34 i became divorced form my husband (MAJOR ISSUES and we had a friendly divorce) I had two children age 5 and 7. A year later I met the MAN OF MY DREAMS..a gift rom God. Although the man was divorced and 18 years older. He acted young and fu...
A. 3 December 2010: First off I agree with Cindycares! Jewish men in general do not cheat, whomever told you that crazy story must be delusional (or your ex husband).
I'm sorry you got replaced. I don't think a guy like your husband knows what love is, if he keeps ge... (read in full...)
"He's single, he can do what he wants" I'm told. But in MY house with MY friend?
Q. I'm 20, he's 22. We dated for two years before I broke up with him. Very bad breakup because I ended up dating someone else soon after and he thinks I was cheating on him. I wasn't, he just got really hurt by everything. He has been totally ...
A. 3 December 2010: Look at it this way, He showed you jsut how LITTLE he actually care about you and unfortunately so did your friend the *friendly neighborhood skank*.
He is single, but honey, SO ARE YOU!
Time to move on.... (read in full...)
There wasn't alot of chemistry on our 1st date, should we try again?
Q. 2 days ago I had a first date with a guy I met online. the date, while not a complete disaster, was not the best. i think we were both a bit nervous. At the end of the first part of the date, he asked me out to dinner (he like purposed doing ...
A. 3 December 2010: First dates can be really awkward. Even if there was INSTANT chemistry, maybe it's worth another try?
One thing though, If there was NOTHING that made YOU think; "hum... I want to talk to him some more, get to know him." Then DON'T go out with him... (read in full...)
What is wrong with me? I want to help Karma out!
Q. What's wrong with me? I broke up with my bf of 5 years, it has been the most difficult thing I have ever had to go through. A year and a half later and I still feel as if I got kicked in the gut. I caught him cheating, he is now living with the ...
A. 3 December 2010: Whatever the reason was why he cheated KNOW, ACCEPT and UNDERSTAND that is wasn't YOUR doing.
So....
1. forgive yourself if you even thought it was your fault (or if he made you feel like it was your fault he cheated.)
2. Forgive the chick he... (read in full...)
Am I going to be too small for the guy to fit?
Q. Hello all! this is my first time writing asking any questions! but i was wondering if u guyz might be able to help :) I'm a virgin and i've notice that my vagina is pretty small...i honestly can only get one finger in... is this normal? and when...
A. 3 December 2010: When you DO have sex for the first time - TAKE your time, LOTS of foreplay to get everything going. Also I would make sure the guy you are having sex with knows, so he can take it slow.
Ever owned a pair of kid gloves? Tight fit, right? They ten... (read in full...)
Why do I always have this white stuff after sex?
Q. every time my boyfriend and I have sex I get white stuff in my vagina about a day later. we don't use a condom and the white stuff smells kind of fishy? it usually goes away in about a week, but this time it hasn't gone away yet and it's been a ...
A. 3 December 2010: If this keep happening after you have unprotected sex why not use a condom?
Also, go get checked out. If it is thrush or an infection (yeast or fungal). Have it checked out and treated ( your BF should get checked out and treated too, since he... (read in full...)
Should I leave my husband and kids for this unemployed guy?
Q. Iam married and I have two kids. I've been married to Paul for 7 years. I was never really sexualy attracted to him and he never made me feel good when we had sex! I married him because in our religion if the girl doesn't get married young then ...
A. 3 December 2010: I'm sorry, but you must be an idiot.
honey, stop thinking with what's below the belt and GROW up. You CHOSE to marry and have children with a man you don't love because of your cultural/religious background, yet you ALSO chose to stray from you... (read in full...)
Am I a virgin even though I use tampons?
Q. I have never had sex, no penis have enter my vagina, but I have used tampons so my question is am I still a virgin???...
A. 3 December 2010: Yup still a virgin.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with these horrible girls in college?
Q. There's been a lot of drama going on! I try to ignore it, but they've been going back to the teacher saying that I've been saying these awful things about them, and spreading rumors that really embarrass me! I don't say anything to them, I just ...
A. 2 December 2010: 1. you can contact Facebook, if they use your picture or name, that is a violation. And yes, you can also contact the police, as it is considered cyberstalking" or bullying. They can track their IP's.
2.Also have a meeting with your school c... (read in full...)
What should I do if a girl gives me eye contact?
Q. When the girl I like stares at me I tend to look quickly away because I get nervous. Can someone give me tips on what to do if this happens again. Should I maintain the eye contact?...
A. 2 December 2010: Wink at her or smile at her if you like her ;) That way you can see if she has a sense of humor, if she is interested or just happen to look in your general direction.
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Does my guy friend like me romantically, sexually, or is he just joking around?
Q. A guy friend of mine often calls me 'ugly', 'fat', 'idiot','stupid' in a joking way but I'm really skinny and not bad-looking...He always mocks me. Every time he sees me, he just winds me up! Once when I was cooking in our friend's house, he threw ...
A. 2 December 2010: I agree 100% with Dirtball...
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We opened up and shared dark secrets, although his might have been better off left in the closet!
Q. Well, I am 19 years old. I have a wonderful boyfriend who is 21, and we have been dating for 2 years, and altogether I've known him for about 5 years. Recently we opened up and told "dark secrets" He told me about how he use to be friends with this ...
A. 2 December 2010: Lots of guys experiment with other guys without being gay. I think he may still be embarrassed about it, unsure about it, but I think it's a HUGE point for him that he shared this with you. HUGE.
honestly, I would let it go.... (read in full...)
Wide set vagina?
Q. well here the thing me and my boyfriend was together a year and half he never really pleasured me and i relised i have a large vingina .. i ask him this and he said he can't feel the wall's plus he manage to stick 4 fingers up me.. but part of the ...
A. 2 December 2010: Kegel exercises, honey... FTW! Google them and DO them!... (read in full...)
Should I see what he has to say?
Q. A male friend or ex "fwb" you might call it, ended up sleeping together a few weeks ago. BIG mistake because he has a girlfriend. I spoke to him about it a few days later, and told him i felt like an idiot about what happened. He asked why, and i...
A. 2 December 2010: I think if you feel unable to control your own actions (as in cheat with a guy who has a GF), it might make you life easier to just stay away from him.
He obviously doesn't care what you think really and he certainly doesn't respect his GF eithe... (read in full...)
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