Shouldn't he pay for the toys?
Q. My internet friend would like me to purchase a suction dido 10 inch, anal beads and anal butt plug to take with me on my holiday to see him and for me to use prior to my departure on Skype. I'm feeling hesitant considering I have never met him th...
A. 29 December 2010: Well done!
I don't think he wants a woman, he wants a fantasy. Sounds rather creepy to be honest. I think you just got yourself out of a potentially bad situation.
And good for you. NEVER go with a person you don not feel safe with and NEVER s... (read in full...)
Scared, pregnant, freaking out and nowhere to go.
Q. I'm still in highschool. I was with this guy for like a year now. We had sex and we used a condom. But the condom broke. And now I'm pregnant. My boyfriend broke up with me after he found out. Now he's with this girl that was supposed to be my best ...
A. 27 December 2010: Look into open adoption and good luck!... (read in full...)
Shouldn't he pay for the toys?
Q. My internet friend would like me to purchase a suction dido 10 inch, anal beads and anal butt plug to take with me on my holiday to see him and for me to use prior to my departure on Skype. I'm feeling hesitant considering I have never met him th...
A. 26 December 2010: Sorry correction.. should have said I WOULDN'T Buy........ (read in full...)
Scared, pregnant, freaking out and nowhere to go.
Q. I'm still in highschool. I was with this guy for like a year now. We had sex and we used a condom. But the condom broke. And now I'm pregnant. My boyfriend broke up with me after he found out. Now he's with this girl that was supposed to be my best ...
A. 26 December 2010: I think you only have 1 option and that is to move in with your brother. However I strongly urge you to look into adoption. You can't expect your brother & GF to take care of BOTH you and a small baby, babies are expensive. Maybe an open adoption ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't he pay for the toys?
Q. My internet friend would like me to purchase a suction dido 10 inch, anal beads and anal butt plug to take with me on my holiday to see him and for me to use prior to my departure on Skype. I'm feeling hesitant considering I have never met him th...
A. 26 December 2010: No, I would buy a darn toy or do a web show either.. YOU do know that he can "tape" a Skype session and then post the little movie on the net for the world to see?? and there is NOTHING you can do to remove them?
I think if he wants to see that... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend yet he flirts with me!!
Q. Hey guys, so im 18 and recently started a new job, i really enjoy it and get on with everyone, especially this one guy. We started talking alot recently and i have started to have feeling for him, i think he feels the same as he majorly flirty, we ...
A. 26 December 2010: Let me ask you this: IF that was Your BF how would you feel?
I think you have to consider that he's a flirt.
You will have to decide what YOU think is appropriate behavior, not so much HIS behaviour but how you react and behave and WHAT ... (read in full...)
After 3 years he wants to start seeing me?
Q. Okay so I've been best friends with my guy friend for about 3 years and it was never intimate until recently and he says he wants to start a relationship but something tells me its all bullshit and hes just trying to sleep with me? He still talks to ...
A. 26 December 2010: I would ask him point blank. If he wants to date you.. I'd say no sex for 6 months. If he can do that..
Also you never mentioned how you felt about him? Do YOU want a relationship? ... (read in full...)
He lied to me about where he lived. Should I just show up and then dump him?
Q. Hey I want to know if I should do this. Ok so I had enough of my exbfs bs so I breoke it off and starting going out with other guys. Anyways I gave him another chance and he knows if he mess up this time it's never another chance for him. Well ...
A. 26 December 2010: I agree with the other two Uncles & Aunties - jsut jump his lying ass and be done with him. He's not with the gas-money to even drive over there.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is being a jerk, my mom blames me that I'm not married!
Q. Hi, I need so much help that I don't even know where to start. First of all, I need some help understanding my boyfriend. Secondly, I need help dealing with my mum in response to my boyfriend problems. My boyfriend of 10 months has been ...
A. 26 December 2010: You need to dump your BF, he is not what you need. (Heck I doubt any woman needs a guy like that...)
As for your mother... well.. I'd take what she says with a grain of salt. SHE didn't know the ins and outs of your previous relationship. SHE knew... (read in full...)
Should I go out with man I dated from 9 years ago again?
Q. I recently bumped into a man i dated 9 years ago,we never ended it we just drifted apart and pursued other lives,the attraction was still there and he asked if he could see me again and i said no as im not ready to be with another man due to past ...
A. 26 December 2010: Do you remember why you two broke up?
And I think you really need to listen to your gut on this one, seems like your gut is telling you this isn't a good idea. (for whatever reason).
However, if you enjoy his company, a few dates may not be... (read in full...)
I have an online friend that I confide in rather than my boyfriend. Is this wrong?
Q. Hi everyone .. Please help me think.... Ok...I've been living with my boyfriend for 3 years now. We love each other. We like doing things together and spend 24 hours a day together coz we have the same Job and work at the same place and same ...
A. 26 December 2010: I DO think it's wrong. It is what I would think falls under emotional cheating. You are sharing feeling and thoughts with a "stranger" that you REALLY should share with your BF. And you are becoming emotionally attached to the online guy..
I thi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend saved my life and is now handicapped. Should I stay with him?
Q. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. He is the best thing that's ever happened to me. It almost sounds unreal, but he saved my life about one month ago. He pushed me out of the way from getting hit by an oncoming car, but he was badly injured. Right now, ...
A. 26 December 2010: Wow, I'm sorry but you should awfully selfish and materialistic. And your family? Wow.. I'm speechless. How cold hearted.
How about YOU reach YOUR potential? Why believe that it is the man's place you "take care" of YOU?
He's only been in reh... (read in full...)
I may be in love with my stepdaughter...
Q. I married my ex wife with her having a 8 month old daughter.I stayed married to her mother untill she was 13.than me and her mom got a divorce and me and my stepdaughter built a incredible relationship up to that point.(know by incredible I mean ...
A. 24 December 2010: Frank B Kermit is ABSOLUTELY right. This is VERY VERY inappropriate. So wrong on SO many levels. You need to re-think your feelings here.... (read in full...)
Sparks and excitement but unreliable guy VS boring but stable and committed guy.
Q. If you had a choice, what would you pick? A relationship where you feel a lot of sparks, there is a lot of physical attraction, and there is a lot of passion and excitement. BUT where the partner is unreliable and has so much baggage that you...
A. 24 December 2010: Neither.
I agree with Jonas. You don't really love either or you would know. Don't settle....... (read in full...)
Am I a horrible person because I told all of his girlfriends what he does?
Q. I've heard of second chances but never 14th chances.. Me and my "Friend" have been "Friends" for about 2 years roughly 3. We went out for about 6 months till we broke up then he started getting with girls that were frieds of ours. He made me mad ...
A. 24 December 2010: Jealous much?
Honey, stop messing with people in HIS life and LIVE your life. If he makes you so upset and make you feel like you HAVE to hurt other people to get back at him, it's time for you to step away. Stop talking to this guy, move on.
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I am sleeping with my husband's best friend
Q. I am sleeping with my husband's best friend. It started a year and a half ago. Every time we spend together is just amazing. He says all the right things and makes love to me in ways I cannot describe. Trouble is, I love my husband very muc...
A. 24 December 2010: You don't love your husband if you are sleeping with his best friend.
I doubt you even know what LOVE is.
Good luck with your life......... (read in full...)
Am I wasting time on my husband?
Q. It has been a month since I found out my husband was having an affair (he didn't tell me, I found out). After a lot of talking, I've taken him back (he agreed not to have anything to do with her again)and we have been to counselling and that seems ...
A. 24 December 2010: I'm so sorry. At least now you know for sure that he isn't a "keeper". Honestly, his "mistress" and him are a perfect fit. Both lacking in the morals department.. Won't be long before he cheats on her.. or she on him.. After all, he may not be so ... (read in full...)
My partner and I had a really nasty violent argument... I don't know what to do?
Q. I really done know where to start... my partner and I had a really nasty argument,to the extent he physically hurt me. He is being very secretive with his phone and says its about his divorce, but normally he would show me. I did discovered a few ...
A. 17 December 2010: It really doesn't matter what time of year it happened. He hurt you, it ought to be over.
Next time you may not be so lucky.
I absolutely agree with CindyCares and her statement:" To me, physical aggression is the ultimate, instant deal bre... (read in full...)
Friend of a friend fancies me, but I don't feel the same! How do I tell my friend I don't like him?
Q. I'm not sure how to tell my friend that i'm not interested in her male friend. Her friend fancies me. I have met up with him twice, and it was only for a couple of hours each time. Both times i saw him, he got hold of me and gave me a kiss on the ...
A. 17 December 2010: Be honest. Tell him you just don't feel any chemistry with him. The sooner you tell him, the sooner (hopefully) he will move on.... (read in full...)
If I get near his phone, he flips. Am I wrong to think he could be cheating?
Q. Ok here is my problem. Me and my husband have two kids and have been together for six years. I recently discovered he's been watching porn behind my back after promising he wouldn't but I let that go without even getting mad at him. Well, I was ...
A. 17 December 2010: Can't you just look at the bill? See incoming and out going numbers? Then check them with white pages.com?
His actions sounds mightily suspicious.
Oh and I really think Auntie Jilly hit the nail on the head.... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend but I still want to be me!
Q. I'm 15 and have never had a boyfriend but I am more than ready... How do I make myself more attractive to guys but still be me???...
A. 17 December 2010: Be yourself. Someone will like you for just that.
Never try to be something you are not, just to "get" a guy.... (read in full...)
Are my feelings normal?
Q. Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and I'm feeling a lot of pressure to do things, you know the kind of thing, like touching etc. We've done some things that I wouldn't normally consider appropriate for my age, but I feel our ...
A. 17 December 2010: I think if YOU feel it's something YOU don't want to do, then don't do them. If others do them *shrug* that is their deal. You do NOT have to do what "everyone" else is doing.
Some start out with sex and sexual things early, some wait til they... (read in full...)
Why does my ex still hurt me and string me along?
Q. Dear all. please help. I split with my ex bf a few months back, and have been trying very hard to get over him, which has been really difficult as I loved him a lot. He has a lot of family and finance problems, and was controlling. Anyway, we tried ...
A. 17 December 2010: Change your phone number and move on.
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She's tame in bed with me, but I know she's been wild with others. How do I bring this up?
Q. I feel a bit strange asking a question about sex, but I guess why not? I met a girl backpacking. We traveled together for a month and things moved pretty fast. To the point that I find myself living with her in Canada. I enjoy having sex with h...
A. 17 December 2010: Give her the coffee table version of Kama sutra for Christmas... Lots of fun ideas in there.
Also, some women start out as wild and "untamed" in the bedroom but starts to slow down and be more reserved over the years, usually because some guy said... (read in full...)
Bigamy in my family. How can it be resolved?
Q. My sister got married 10 years ago in India. Her husband is working in Abu Dhabi. They have three daughters. For some reason her husband got an affair with another girl in india (through internet) and they got married without divorcing my sister and ...
A. 17 December 2010: Tricky! Personally I would (if i were your sister) file for divorce with the reason for it being... that he has remarried someone else, and go from there. And, I would take him to the cleaners.... (read in full...)
What are your top 5 "Must haves" and "Can't stands"
Q. Poll (just for fun). For women and men, for you, what are the top 5 "MUST HAVES" and the top 5 "CAN'T STANDS" when evaluating members of the opposite sex as a potential lifelong partner? I guess mine would be Must Haves: friendly dispos...
A. 17 December 2010: Likes:
1 - Sense of humor. (the good kind ;) )
2 - Honest.
3 - Intelligent.
4 - Faithful.
5 - Attractive & Attentive.
Dislikes:
1 - liars.
2 - abusive.
3 - lazy.
4 - stupid/ignorant
5 - having an Ex wife... ... (read in full...)
I want to try anal but she's really against it. Can I convince her?
Q. So I have been having sex with this girl for a while. We jumped into bed together really from the start of things, but that was really the only quick thing about it. She for almost a yr never entertained the idea of her on top or doggie, she just ...
A. 17 December 2010: Get the Kama Sutra... It might inspire the both of you.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kama_Sutra... (read in full...)
Am I wasting time on my husband?
Q. It has been a month since I found out my husband was having an affair (he didn't tell me, I found out). After a lot of talking, I've taken him back (he agreed not to have anything to do with her again)and we have been to counselling and that seems ...
A. 17 December 2010: You say you need the strength to let go.
Let go of him? or let go of the hurt and drama that was sent your way?
Sit down and figure out what he can do to regain your trust. Maybe start with him getting a new phone number/ e-mail addy. He ... (read in full...)
I think I'm with the wrong person and don't know what to do!
Q. Hello, I'm 23 and living with my boyfriend of two and a half years. I really think I'm with the wrong person, but I don't know what to do. We have been living together since about three months into our relationship and it's been a mess the whole...
A. 16 December 2010: It sounds like a misserable situation.
What I would suggest is that you sit down and make yourself a budget. Cut out ALL things you really don't need, cell phone.. yes, you REALLY don't need one if it cost you more then $20-30 a month ( get a pr... (read in full...)
When a guy is all over you, is it a turn on or turn off?
Q. girls; if a guy is constantly all over you, praising you (telling you how hot you are, randomly buying you things, texting you all the time, etc), while trying to court you is that a turn on or turn off? ... do you find that by his doing this y...
A. 16 December 2010: Hard to say, never met a man like that, I think I would gag though, it seems a bit much.
I don't like the idea of a guy thinking he can "buy" my good graces.
The texting all the time - huge no-no for me.
Compliments are great... (read in full...)
I want to try anal but she's really against it. Can I convince her?
Q. So I have been having sex with this girl for a while. We jumped into bed together really from the start of things, but that was really the only quick thing about it. She for almost a yr never entertained the idea of her on top or doggie, she just ...
A. 16 December 2010: No means no, dude...
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Testosterone supplements?
Q. I am a healthy guy in his early 40's, and I have a bit of a reduced sex drive from when I was younger. I had the doctor give me tests, and found I had normal testosterone (around 500), but I have all the symptoms of low T...reduced sex drive, ...
A. 16 December 2010: I think this is something you need to talk to your doctor about. Hormonal supplements need to be accurate and monitored.... (read in full...)
Is this weird? Are we doing it wrong?
Q. I really don't like being fingered. I don't like doing it to myself and I do not like my bf doing it to me either. Is this weird? Are we both doing it wrong? It's just a shame because it turns my bf on more than anything :/...
A. 16 December 2010: I don't think it's weird at all. If he wants to stimulate you he really doesn't need to insert a finger at all, he can just concentrate on stimulating your clit. Now when you are enjoying that... you might enjoy a finger or not.
No matter, ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting time on my husband?
Q. It has been a month since I found out my husband was having an affair (he didn't tell me, I found out). After a lot of talking, I've taken him back (he agreed not to have anything to do with her again)and we have been to counselling and that seems ...
A. 16 December 2010: Ask him that question. MAKE him see that he needs to be responsible for his actions.
YOU are NOT his mother and shouldn't have to "scold" the truth out of him, nor should you have to check up on him (not that I blame you, but that is what I would ... (read in full...)
Did I make the wrong choice?
Q. i really need someones help. for more than one year now i have been talking to a man who lives in argentina, we met on xbox and we have done a lot of stuff together. i live in the uk. we keep meaning to meet but problems occur which means we have ...
A. 15 December 2010: CindyCares is absolutely right on!
Guy Z is a fantasy. He is not there for you. He put you down, call you names and string you along... sorry, time to put the Xbox away and step into reality. Go on a date with X, who know this REAL guy may be f... (read in full...)
Drunk and possibly cheated, this is so out of character for me! Should I come clean?
Q. I have been with my partner for two and a half years and we are amazing together!many peole comment on what a close and genuine couple we are! we are so happy! But a couple of months ago he left the pub early and i stayed out with his friends....
A. 15 December 2010: I agree fully with CaringGuy. Since you don't really know what happened how can you fess up?
I think you need to stop drinking though. Yes, you drink could EASILY have been spiked, but you could also have had a low tolerance to alcohol that day... (read in full...)
She is dating someone else, but asks me for help with everything!
Q. hi, i have a friend who is a girl. yes I am sweet on her a little,but I was okay with being her friend because she has a guy she is seeing but here is the thing, the guy is a big shot sort of and is always busy. so she ends up asking me to do ...
A. 10 December 2010: Just say no :)
If you feel like she is taking advantage of you (and honestly, it seems like she knows how you feel and play "the helpless chick" with you, to get you to do what she needs done.
Maybe you need to take yourself a little break fro... (read in full...)
I can't bear to leave my 'underground' lover!
Q. A senior added me on msn and started talking to me after orientation and things were going platonic for a month or so before we started going out on dates. But he doesn't ever want to be seen with me in public and is afraid of meeting our ...
A. 9 December 2010: I think you need to reevaluate your sense of morals and values. It is not too young an age to figure out what you believe is right and wrong to do in life.
For instance, many people believe in "The Golden Rule" and try as best as they can to live ... (read in full...)
Ladies, I need your female insight on this one!
Q. Female insight needed please!!! I broke up with my gf (of nearly 3yrs) 5 months ago as I felt I wasn't making her happy and that made me unhappy. Iv'e since done a lot of soul searching but know deep down I still love her. We agreed to me...
A. 9 December 2010: It's hard to say, to me it seems like she wants to be friend and is happy to have you back in her life. (AS a friend.)
Seems like you think she wants more then just be friends though. You ought to be perfectly honest with her about how you feel... (read in full...)
I am afraid I am infertile and wont be able to have a child!
Q. i am starting to get more and more of a fear of not been able to have a child when i am older.... i have had loads of health problems these past 2 years i dont mean with my periods or any thing... but i do get really bad periods bad pains and ha...
A. 9 December 2010: I agree with the two uncles, get a STD check. Chlamydia can make you infertile. My favorite aunt couldn't have kids due to chlamydia being left untreated for way too long (she simply didn't know she had it til it was too late).
It could be that ... (read in full...)
His former hookup is trying to worm her way in our relationship by suggesting a threesome!
Q. Sorry, this might be a little long. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months. There's this girl that he use to hook up with. They stopped talking about 6 months ago and about a month ago she texted him asking to hang out. He told her no that ...
A. 9 December 2010: I think you ought to focus more on WHY he is still talking to her knowing how uncomfortable and insecure it makes you feel.
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Should I tell my mother in law I find her sexy?
Q. I'm 28 and very sexually and emotionally attracted to my mother in law. she is 45. I have known her for 8 yrs and we get along very well. she knows I check her out every chance I get and has never said anything, she has checked me out before and ...
A. 8 December 2010: What would be the point to it? Flattery? I feel sorry for your wife. You may not have intended it, but you come off as pretty sleazy...
AWKWARD!... (read in full...)
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