I don't want to go to my husband's father's funeral because the women he had an affair with will be there, is this wrong?
Q. My husband has been having an affair with a friend of his family. This has been going on for a while and although my husband is sorry I am still trying to come to terms with it. This lady is well liked by his family and I have never met her. My ...
A. 24 March 2011: Sounds like a nightmare, I'm sorry. I think you did the right thing to show up. Maybe it's time to figure out what YOU want and go for it?!... (read in full...)
He seems to value his money more than he values me!
Q. Ok there is this guy that I've been dating for 6 months he is very nice and we have our problems but we always fix them and we connect on a big level.. Ok there is this just one problem he is obsessed with money he is divorced and has 2 kids so ...
A. 10 January 2011: Honestly, he doesn't seem like a "keeper" - he obviously have poor self control when it comes to spending and a LOT of baggage. Could be his shopping sprees is his way of "self medicating" a depression.
I think if you can you should talk to him. ... (read in full...)
Why are men players?
Q. Why are men Players??? Why do they have a daytime girl and a nite time girl?? ...
A. 10 January 2011: I think there are just as many women doing that as men, they are just a bit "sneakier" about it.
Seems like you got your hands on one, so let him go. He's find someone else to "play" with.
Sometimes you have to kiss a few toads.... (read in full...)
I don't enjoy masturbating!
Q. I am a 16 year old girl and I do not enjoy masturbating. I have masturbated before, I've tried different techniques, I've watched porn, and I cannot enjoy it. All it does is frustrate me. Is there anything I can do or any suggestions on how to enjoy ...
A. 10 January 2011: If you don't enjoy it, don't do it. It's not like breathing.... you don't HAVE to masturbate.
At some point in your life you will find the right "method" that works for you, until then, just relax and don't fret.... (read in full...)
Is she covering up an awful danger?
Q. she may very well be a perfect match for me, but for this one possibility--namely, that she is actually like Sharon stone from Basic Instinct. So how do I determine whether the sweet, wholesome goodness she is so pro at presenting is not covering ...
A. 10 January 2011: I think I would just take it slow and get to know the real her.
Why would you think she is a "bunny boiler"? (aka Sharon Stones character in Basic Instincts?
And... what does you gut tell you? Too good to be true? If so, she properly is. If ... (read in full...)
He wants to video tape us having sex and I'm not comfortable with it
Q. Okay so I've dating my boyfriend for 5 months I love him more then anything. I'm in college and he works. He's 34 years old and I'm 19 years old. I know there is a big gap but I love him and I feel like he does loves me back. so we had issues in the ...
A. 10 January 2011: Trust your gut, honey.
Your gut tell you no. A no is a no.
If he wants to "watch" the two of you, set up a bunch of mirrors and go at it, you really don't need a "sextape" Sex tapes are for losers.... (read in full...)
He asked me to marry him and then took it back, now he is engaged to somebody else!
Q. HELP!!!! ok here is the thing ive been friends with this guy for 8 years we know absolutly everything there is to know about eachother i know things that not even his supposed wife to be knows. he only trusts me with most things we are best friends ...
A. 10 January 2011: I would take a step back and slow the heck down. There is NO NEED to get married so soon or so young.
Get yourself an education, make something of yourself and your life THEN find someone to share it with.
If he REALLY wants to be with you, he ... (read in full...)
I am being forced to go to boarding school by my parents!
Q. My parents is forcing me to an all boys school which is the top school in the UK. I do not want to go to it because I will be a full boarder in that school, which means I will be in the campus 24/7. I seriously can't tolerate that. What c...
A. 10 January 2011: Wow, I know so many kids who would JUMP at a chance like this. It may seem intolerable right now, but I think you should seriously give it a chance. What you get (educationally wise especially) is not something you can get elsewhere.
I say give... (read in full...)
Do others get caught having sex?
Q. I have been caught several times by my parents and my boyfriends parents "messing around"/ foreplay and once having sex, I am so traumatized! Does this happen to a lot of people? ...
A. 10 January 2011: Maybe it's a sign.... to not mess around in your parents house....
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Can a relationship recover after cheating by a partner?
Q. I'm very curious about this because I have been cheated on. I would reallly like to move past it, and still be in a relationship with this man. He has done everything he can to earn my trust back and I do completely trust him again. I don't think he ...
A. 10 January 2011: I think it can, IF the one who cheated is remorseful and willing to step up and own their actions. It takes a LOT of time and a LOT of effort (on both parties) to get past it.
Personally, I would have walked away if it was only 4 months into the... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a "friend" she doesn't even know.
Q. My girlfriend is meeting up this this guy she barely knows(they met once a few years ago that's all) and she has been buying new clothes, getting a haircut, dying her hair (she would never dye her hair) and suddenly making herself all stylish and ...
A. 6 January 2011: Red flags all over the place. However, what it boils down to is trust. Do you trust her or not?
... (read in full...)
I contacted my LDR BF through a fake profile to see what he's up to
Q. I did something I probably shouldn't do...sigh! Now I need some advice! My LDR boyfriend is on a travel site which has a setting that looks exactly like match.com (one to one, not a forum), in fact I think it's a combination of dating and meeti...
A. 6 January 2011: I think you should try and quit "tricking" him. It's what the law would call entrapment ;)
Obviously you have some trust issues with your man. Figure out why and deal with it openly and honestly.... (read in full...)
Does it mean anything when a man holds your face when he kisses you?
Q. Does it mean anything when a man kisses you and holds your face? He cups your face with both hands but is he sending you a message also? Not all men do this? Just looking for opinions? thanks!...
A. 6 January 2011: I'm guess that is HIS way of kissing, most likely because it gives the desired effect :)
It sounds very romantic & sweet.
... (read in full...)
Should I not have mentioned my late period to my BF?
Q. I just want to know, is this my fault? I have been on and off with this man for 5 years. He is the only man i've loved in 5 years. We just got back together and things (I thought) were going really well for the past 3 months. He had told me he...
A. 6 January 2011: If there was a chance you could be pregnant I don't see why you should tell him. WHY should you be the only one freaking out and being scared/exited to find out?
This is not about him though. Why are YOU letting a guy treat you this way? After 5 ... (read in full...)
He's too broken to fix!
Q. Hey there again. I have another issue. So I've been with my guy for about 1 year and 7 months. I love him to pieces, but I'm not sure where this is going. [I'm 21 he's 29] 1.He continues to tell me that he is not interested in marriage but wou...
A. 6 January 2011: Time to move out then and be on your own, let him be miserable alone.... (read in full...)
Why has she kept my number?
Q. i met a girl at college and she seemed to be giving me signals of interest. anyway, we eventually exchanged numbers and began flirting and texting until almost 2am on college night (something i wouldnt expect friends to do on a college night). her ...
A. 5 January 2011: Stop over-analyzing her and give her a call.... (read in full...)
She's getting too much attention after losing over 100 pounds!
Q. My girlfriend is and always has been gorgeous. I love her dearly and since we've started dating she's lost over 100 pounds! She looks even more incredible than I ever could have imagined although she was always stunning to me. My problem is ...
A. 5 January 2011: ~congrats to your GF!~
Now is the time she REALLY needs you. I'm pretty sure it's not easy for her either with all this attention, so be YOU and love her as you know her. And.... don't marry her "just" to keep others away. That just ain't right.
... (read in full...)
I don't want to go to my husband's father's funeral because the women he had an affair with will be there, is this wrong?
Q. My husband has been having an affair with a friend of his family. This has been going on for a while and although my husband is sorry I am still trying to come to terms with it. This lady is well liked by his family and I have never met her. My ...
A. 5 January 2011: Go, if you liked/loved/cared for your Father in Law. This is not about HER/YOU or the affair, it's about honoring the man who just passed away.
Keep the petty differences aside. I just wouldn't talk to the lady. Not too hard to avoid her if you r... (read in full...)
For the girls: Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker?
Q. Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker? Only for women...
A. 5 January 2011: Nope, couldn't care less. It's the person said penis is attached to, that makes or break the deal for me.
No matter how you dress it up.. a penis is just a penis.... (read in full...)
This girl keeps coming to me, then going back to the ex, again and again, why?
Q. I need help LADIES please answer this one, as you're the only ones that can... So I've been dating this girl, who is conflicted about her ex, but since I was so persistent, I guess she gave me a chance perhaps as a payback to her ex. My question is ...
A. 5 January 2011: *chuckles*
I fully agree with Tisha!
Did you expect her to be monogamous with you while you "date" several other women? Seriously?
And as far as morals go... I see nothing "more" wrong in her actions then I do in yours.... (read in full...)
This girl keeps coming to me, then going back to the ex, again and again, why?
Q. I need help LADIES please answer this one, as you're the only ones that can... So I've been dating this girl, who is conflicted about her ex, but since I was so persistent, I guess she gave me a chance perhaps as a payback to her ex. My question is ...
A. 4 January 2011: Because you keep taking her back :)
Stop having anything to do with her and move on.... (read in full...)
When guys ask women about their sexual pasts, do they really want an honest answer?
Q. This question seems like a no-brainer at first... who's going to say they DON'T want honesty? But then I read all the posts on here from people (mainly guys, it seems) who are insecure about what their partners have done before them, and with whom, ...
A. 4 January 2011: I would ask him what he wants to know. And tell him what you are comfortable with. Personally, I don't want to know the details. They aren't going to help me in anyway. Same as I do not accept being compared to an ex, I just flatly refuse to listen ... (read in full...)
Ladies if a guy lacks in looks but is dynamite in bed, would you still date him?
Q. Girls, If you knew of a guy who was incredible in bed, TRULY amazing, like he could give you many intense amazing orgasms and could go for as long as you needed, would that make you start flirting with him and trying to get with him on that fact ...
A. 4 January 2011:
Would I ever have dated a guy because he was "supposedly" red hot in bed? Nope.
Maybe there is more to him then what you can see? Like a great personality, sense of humor ?
... (read in full...)
In love with a bad boy: Should I give him more time to change or am I being too caring?
Q. Alright so, I figured I'd try a website like this out so I could get the opinions of people that arent biased. I've been dating this guy for almost 3 months now, and makes me happy, He's an overall good boyfriend, and never ceases to try to make m...
A. 4 January 2011: Run honey, run like the wind.
And I agree with the other Aunties & uncles... Stop being so naive.
And remember YOU can not change another person. You can change how they look or how they talk, but who they are YOU can not change. ONLY the... (read in full...)
Is this all normal behavior during sex?
Q. Im in a new relationship and recently had sex with this man for the first time, during the act he spoke out about what he was seeing ie youve opened your legs wide for me, he shouted out on 3 occasions while looking away "fuckoff" as if to someone ...
A. 4 January 2011: Total turn off!
I can't say what "normal" is and s not, but it is THANKFULLY not anything I have ever experienced.
I'd be freaked the heck out.... (read in full...)
I am falling in love with my dead boyfriend's brother
Q. I think I may be falling in love with my deceased father of my children / boyfriend's brother. It's been 2 months now and we have this connection where we both can't stand going a day with out speaking to eachother. He has been great with me and the ...
A. 4 January 2011: I don't see anything "wrong" in it, but you need to take it very slow. Not just replace the BF with his brother.... (read in full...)
He's too broken to fix!
Q. Hey there again. I have another issue. So I've been with my guy for about 1 year and 7 months. I love him to pieces, but I'm not sure where this is going. [I'm 21 he's 29] 1.He continues to tell me that he is not interested in marriage but wou...
A. 4 January 2011: I think he is "just not" that into the relationship. I think the "faults" you mentions are pretty vital for a good relationship. (except the kid & marriage part).
However, IF you at some point in time wants kids, finds a guy who feels the same way... (read in full...)
He wants to keep things casual and now I'm pregnant!
Q. I am a hormonal emotional wreck. The man I hv been with for many years just informed me he wants to keep things the way they are at the moment. We live in separate homes . The twist in this I am 3 months pregnant . He wants things to remain...
A. 4 January 2011: I'm sorry, his behavior seems all together immature. Did he say he would be there for you, but not that baby or did I misunderstand that part of your post?
If so.... He can go fly a kite. ... (read in full...)
Is a girlfriend really worth fighting for?
Q. A question for both girls and guys. Is a girlfriend really worth fighting for? i dont mean like you meet a girl and you try to make yourself better than the other guys shes with, but i mean if both you and the other guy have been with her and you ...
A. 3 January 2011: Yes, you need to remove yourself from that drama.
She needs to shit or get of the pot. If she wants HIM, she needs to cut you lose and not string you along. If she wants YOU she needs to cut the the other guy totally lose.
... (read in full...)
He wants to keep things casual and now I'm pregnant!
Q. I am a hormonal emotional wreck. The man I hv been with for many years just informed me he wants to keep things the way they are at the moment. We live in separate homes . The twist in this I am 3 months pregnant . He wants things to remain...
A. 3 January 2011: I think you need to prepare yourself on being a single mom. Doesn't seem like he is willing to put forth the effort of a dad.
Was the child planned? ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend just being disrespecful and a prick?
Q. Dear cupid, So i have been dating this guy for 4 months. At frist he was really sweet. However, lately he has been very sexual. He always asking me to send him dirty pictures, make a sex video, and do naughty things. Also, for x-mas all he wan...
A. 3 January 2011: Whoa! kick that creep to the curb.
Honestly I think he is being both. Both a prick and disrespectful as all heck.
And no, that is NOT normal behavior. Seems like he is on some ego trip there.
NEVER EVER do thing you don't feel comfortable w... (read in full...)
Hickey on my boyfriend's hip?
Q. Ok, i found a hickey looking mark on my boyfriend's hip. He said he hit it back i just dont know. what do i do?...
A. 3 January 2011: Could be a bruise, easily.... (read in full...)
How can I have safe sex without the use of birth control and condoms?
Q. how can I have safe sex without the use of birth control? My boyfriend doesn't like to use condoms and I trust him to pull out but sometimes I'm afraid. I would like to be on birth control but I can't be prescribed because I'm on chemotherapy pil...
A. 2 January 2011: You can't. You don't want STD's or getting pregnant, then you HAVE to use some form of birth control.
Good luck with your teen pregnancy.. all because he doesn't "like" to use a condom..... Hopefully he will like to change diapers and not get any ... (read in full...)
I sent a boy embarassing pictures of myself
Q. Hello I'm seeking good advice these are the details to my DilEmma I'm an 18 tease old female soon to be 19 in a few months,I'm not a virgin but in FebuAry it will be a year since I decided sex is for marrige,the begginibg of my abstinence. Six mont...
A. 2 January 2011: Well, now you know. Don't do it in the future. It might seem fun at the time, but remember to stop and think.. will I regret this in the morning?
Don't beat yourself up, just don't do it again.... (read in full...)
My husband wants me to abort our baby because his parents will otracise us
Q. I have been married for 1 year and have been with my husband for two (2) years. We have a 13 month old daughter together and he has a three (3) year old boy from a previous relationship, whom we have part-time custody of. My husbands parents were ...
A. 2 January 2011: If you guys didn't want a pregnancy WHY on Earth did you not use birth control? pill & condom?
I don't know what else to say. When you have unprotected sex, the possibility of a pregnancy is there.
Abortion is a very personal thing, only YOU ... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't want sex and I don't want an affair
Q. My wife has not wanted sex for over 2 years. Should i consider a prostitute. I do not want an affair....
A. 2 January 2011: No, you should consider asking your wife what she thinks. ... (read in full...)
I want to initiate an affair with a married friend of my wife and mine
Q. I am a married man,38. I have strong feelings for an older woman who is also married and is a friend of us. I can tell from her looks that she has the same feeling. Nothing has happened up to this moment, not a word expressed, nothing at all. Ca...
A. 2 January 2011: Wow, go out and get yourself some morals dude!
I hope she turns you down and tells your wife, then you will get all the drama you can handle.... (read in full...)
Why didn't she tell me she was married??
Q. I don't know what I should do about news I got last night about my partner. We've been together for just over 1 year. SHE'S MARRIED TO A MAN AND LIVING WITH HIM! This explains a lot of odd incidents. Where and how do I handle this mind fck Newyears ...
A. 1 January 2011: She kept it a secret because she KNOWS/KNEW just how wrong her actions are/were towards YOU and her HUSBAND. I'm guessing she wanted her cake and eat it too. And she did.. for a whole year. On the expense of you and her husband.
Dump her. Dump her... (read in full...)
After 5 years together she dumps me by email!
Q. I ws with my partner for the last 5 years. 3 years ago things got tough as I was diagnosed with "depression" and was put on horrible, personality changing medication. 3 months ago I was dumped by email 2 days before she got back from her month ...
A. 1 January 2011: I'm sorry I don't think she handled the break up very nicely or in a very mature way, but... maybe she did it that way to try and spare herself, mainly, of a lot of drama & heartache. That rarely works though.
If I were you, I would write her a le... (read in full...)
His dad read our MSN conversations and stopped him from seeing me...and its pretty much over now.
Q. About a month ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and two months. I still love him, and he says he still loves me. It's all very confusing. Basically, his Dad installed a tracking device on his laptop, and read through our MSN conversa...
A. 1 January 2011: How old are the two of you? Are you under the sexual age of consent? Maybe that has something to do with it. As a parent his dad might be trying to keep his son safe - not necessarily from you, but from the potential issues such as teen pregnancy, ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't he pay for the toys?
Q. My internet friend would like me to purchase a suction dido 10 inch, anal beads and anal butt plug to take with me on my holiday to see him and for me to use prior to my departure on Skype. I'm feeling hesitant considering I have never met him th...
A. 29 December 2010: Well done!
I don't think he wants a woman, he wants a fantasy. Sounds rather creepy to be honest. I think you just got yourself out of a potentially bad situation.
And good for you. NEVER go with a person you don not feel safe with and NEVER s... (read in full...)
Scared, pregnant, freaking out and nowhere to go.
Q. I'm still in highschool. I was with this guy for like a year now. We had sex and we used a condom. But the condom broke. And now I'm pregnant. My boyfriend broke up with me after he found out. Now he's with this girl that was supposed to be my best ...
A. 27 December 2010: Look into open adoption and good luck!... (read in full...)
Shouldn't he pay for the toys?
Q. My internet friend would like me to purchase a suction dido 10 inch, anal beads and anal butt plug to take with me on my holiday to see him and for me to use prior to my departure on Skype. I'm feeling hesitant considering I have never met him th...
A. 26 December 2010: Sorry correction.. should have said I WOULDN'T Buy........ (read in full...)
Scared, pregnant, freaking out and nowhere to go.
Q. I'm still in highschool. I was with this guy for like a year now. We had sex and we used a condom. But the condom broke. And now I'm pregnant. My boyfriend broke up with me after he found out. Now he's with this girl that was supposed to be my best ...
A. 26 December 2010: I think you only have 1 option and that is to move in with your brother. However I strongly urge you to look into adoption. You can't expect your brother & GF to take care of BOTH you and a small baby, babies are expensive. Maybe an open adoption ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't he pay for the toys?
Q. My internet friend would like me to purchase a suction dido 10 inch, anal beads and anal butt plug to take with me on my holiday to see him and for me to use prior to my departure on Skype. I'm feeling hesitant considering I have never met him th...
A. 26 December 2010: No, I would buy a darn toy or do a web show either.. YOU do know that he can "tape" a Skype session and then post the little movie on the net for the world to see?? and there is NOTHING you can do to remove them?
I think if he wants to see that... (read in full...)
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