My boyfriend through me into the snow during an argument! I'm not sure what to think!
Q. I was walking outside with my boyfriend of 6 months, when we got into a small disagreement. We were holding hands, when he suddenly flung me across his body and into the snow on the side of the road. I landed, unhurt, but shaken. He is much stronger ...
A. 11 February 2011: No one can give you a probability of whether it will happen again or not, I think it's more LIKELY that something (violent/abusive) will happen again, then nothing will ever happen again.
Just remember this, YOU CAN NOT CHANGE HIM. No matter h... (read in full...)
I want my family's blessing for my wedding
Q. I'm 17 and getting married to my older brothers friend who is 31 and also were trying to have a baby. he has two kids from a former marriage. we love each other so much more than anything in the world. but im afraid that my family or his wont ...
A. 10 February 2011: Wait til about a year after you guys get married to try for a baby. Live as husband and wife first. Trust me on that. There will be PLENTY of time for adding a child.
Also, if anyone stands up it would be to object not reject.
WHY has he (y... (read in full...)
I drink a bottle of wine almost every day. Is this ok?
Q. To make this short and simple I drink a bottle of wine every day, well almost every day!!! is that to much. I dont start drinking in the morning, only at night when my son goes to bed, I contiue to carry on with my life through out the day. I get up ...
A. 10 February 2011: No it's a bit much with a bottle a day.
What would you do if something happened in the middle of the night to your child? You would be incapable of realizing it or even doing the right thing.
They say 7 "drinks" a WEEK for women and 14 for... (read in full...)
He gets SOOO angry! Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend grabbed my head and slammed it against the door. He said that I wouldn't shut up (we were having an argument) and that because I followed him through the house (I was trying to get him to talk / listen) then I tip him over the edge and ...
A. 10 February 2011: Get out now, while you are still alive.
It is NOT normal. ... (read in full...)
Do girls like to be touched there?
Q. I feel that my current gf doesn't like me touching her pussy when we kiss because I always thought that girls, like us guys, liked to be touched there when petting but my current gf passed a comment while I put my hand inside her panties the other ...
A. 9 February 2011: Maybe she fgeels you are being too pushy. If it seems like she doesn't want to be poked and prodded while kissing why not just run your fingers over all her body, not just focusing on her vagina. There is more to her you know ?! ;)
She might wa... (read in full...)
My partner wants sex every night! How can I convince him to cuddle with me when I am too tired to perform?
Q. I recently posted about my partner wanting me to dress up in sexy underwear before I get into bed, i somehow got through to him that it was getting unreasonable.. the problem still remains however that he wants 'a load off' EVERYNIGHT! I already ...
A. 9 February 2011: You talk to him! If you don't he won't know any better. The man is not a mind reader nor will he ever be.
I think he is being utterly selfish. ... (read in full...)
My husband's mistress faked a pregnancy!
Q. My husband's mistress faked a pregnancy and he asked her to terminate the pregnancy. They had many ugly fights following that. Then he finally told me yesterday that she said she isn't pregnant and just wanted to see if he cares about her. Since ...
A. 9 February 2011: Why are you still with your husband? He obviously is cheating on you and disrespecting you and your marriage.
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Is my husband gay or bi? What should I do???
Q. My husband (of 27 years) was sexually abused when he was 8, by a man. Over a year ago I caught him looking at gay porn. He said he does not enjoy it does not masturbate to it, that it is just some sick obsession he has, almost like a self ...
A. 9 February 2011: I think he is trying to comprehend what happened to him as a child, trying to see what the fascination was. Why it happened to him.
I also think you are being pretty insensitive.
However, I would suggest that he consider counseling.
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Will our different religious beliefs clash too much? And would he compromise his beliefs about sex?
Q. Hello there, agony aunts. (: I have had a relatively close male friend who I have known for several years. We went to high school together and have always gotten on great. Almost the whole time I knew him, I had been with my ex boyfriend (who I...
A. 9 February 2011: Then maybe it's better to 'just" stay friends, if you honestly don't think you can have a relationship without sex or that he can fully respect your beliefs. Maybe talk it over with him.... (read in full...)
What should I do about my child's deadbeat daddy? I'm a tornado of emotions!
Q. My ex was cheating on me, when I busted him and his mistress. He lied to both of us, and I told him to leave. She ended up marrying him 6 months later. The problem is I was 6 weeks pregnant (and yes he knew), now I have an 18 month old. He is taking ...
A. 8 February 2011: I would contact a lawyer. YES you should get child support. And yes, most likely he would get visitation rights, but not custody. Or you can ask him to sign over his parental rights and he would have absolutely NO rights when it comes to the child. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend through me into the snow during an argument! I'm not sure what to think!
Q. I was walking outside with my boyfriend of 6 months, when we got into a small disagreement. We were holding hands, when he suddenly flung me across his body and into the snow on the side of the road. I landed, unhurt, but shaken. He is much stronger ...
A. 8 February 2011: I'd run. The relationship would be over instantly. Sorry I would not tolerate any kind of abuse ot violence.
What's next? a broken nose? Heck no!
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I cheated on my girlfriend with a kiss. Should I tell her?
Q. i cheated on my girlfriend, it was only a kiss, i know its wrong still yes, i'm not on here looking to be judged, what i want to know is, should i tell her, she'll be destroyed, it was only a kiss and she's cheated on me a few times before in the ...
A. 8 February 2011: I think CaringGuy his the nail on the head...
There is a reason why she cheated and why you cheated. A kiss is not "just" a kiss. Usually it's an expression of mutual attractions, lust or love.
Maybe it's time for you both to be single and do... (read in full...)
Will our different religious beliefs clash too much? And would he compromise his beliefs about sex?
Q. Hello there, agony aunts. (: I have had a relatively close male friend who I have known for several years. We went to high school together and have always gotten on great. Almost the whole time I knew him, I had been with my ex boyfriend (who I...
A. 8 February 2011: I agree with dirtball. If the two of you can agree to and respect each others views without wanting or expecting change you stand a pretty darn good chance.
From what you described hi mas he is worth a date or two to see how it goes.... (read in full...)
Why swallow? whats the pleasure?
Q. dear readers, i would like to ask the men out there and possibly the women why men like a girl to swallow their semen? why is it attractive to men to see there girlfriend swalllowing the product of their energy? some women say it tastes awfu...
A. 1 February 2011: To me it just seems more natural. Spitting seems nasty and "unsexy".
Personally, I think it's also a little bit to do with "territory." When a woman swallows she 'own' that part of him. And some men think because she swallows he "own" her. Odd... (read in full...)
I have just found out that my ex was seeing another woman in the months before he left me, how do I deal with this?
Q. I'm not sure why I am writing this but, somehow I feel if I write about what I am feeling right now it will help. My ex fiance left me after 7 yrs. together basically for someone else. When he first ended it with me he told me after a huge argument ...
A. 1 February 2011: Take JOY in the fact that you aren't with him and his lying/cheating ass any more!
Take to heart that he's not the man you thought he was.
What's going on in his mind? ho knows, he sounds like a selfish narcissistic bastard.
BE glad you are... (read in full...)
He is a nice person, but I don't think he knows who I am. What should I do?
Q. Hi. Any kind person please help. I have been with my boyfriend for a few years and the problem is that we have went through soo much, he treated me badly (aggressive, inpatient, etc) and i really lost my confidence. He wants to marry me,but i dont ...
A. 1 February 2011: Why settle for this guy?
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My husband is sucking me dry... emotionally. Need advice!
Q. I don't even know why I am posting this here or how to phrase this so that I don't seem like the bad guy...but I am. And I know it. And yes, feel free to tell me so. I tried to tell my hubby that if he posted here with this problem you would all ...
A. 1 February 2011: I think you are right in stating that if YOU should give up your friend he should give up his. Tit for tat.
It might come across a little immature, but there is no way I would "dump" a friend because my husband felt insecure. Yet he would be "free... (read in full...)
Is this age gap too big?
Q. how big an age gap is too big? the guy i like is 24, and i'm 17. that's quite a big gap, but i was just wondering if it's too huge or if it's acceptable because my opinion is just what i want to hear so i wanted to know other opinions....
A. 1 February 2011: Honestly it's hard to say. But at that age 7 years might be a quite a gap.... (read in full...)
Just split up with my girlfriend, now do I respond to this text?
Q. Right guys/gals. I got a question for you. I just split up with my girlfriend. We absolutely adored one another. Really in love. Practically joined at the hip. Anyway, my last ex was a bit crazy when I was with her and still is. She foun...
A. 1 February 2011: Reply to the text, tell her how you feel. Just don't be over dramatic. I think she had enough of that from the ex-gf.
You might have to accept that the drama with your ex is more then she feels she can/want to handle. Doesn't mean you can end thin... (read in full...)
My ex is ruining my new life!
Q. Hello everybody. Here goes. I split up with my ex about 6 months ago. It turned out she was having an affair. I basically lost everything. She now lives with him in our flat, etc. The thing is I'm not bothered about this and I'll tell you...
A. 31 January 2011: I think YOU need to take some time being single and figure out who you are and what you really want. STOP letting all these ladies use you as a door mat.... (read in full...)
How do I persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me?
Q. How do i convince or persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me,i have talked about it a couple of times but he said that he is not comfortable with it.What else do i do cause i really enjoy oral,moreover he doesnt last long during sex and i ...
A. 31 January 2011: Maybe suggest you do him while he does you? Straight up 69 might work.
Though if it is something he really doesn't want to do why try and "make" him?... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend after we had anal sex?
Q. Me and my girlfriend had anal sex for the first time and the next day she was complaining that her butt-hole hurt and it bled when she tried going to the restroom. is this serious should I be worried?? Please help!!!! (Note this was our first time)...
A. 31 January 2011: It could be serious. Specially if she keeps bleeding. Anal is NOT a smart thing to start out with, it is for experienced people.... (read in full...)
I have an annoying friend that I want out of my life!
Q. My friend..lets call her A..is the most annoying person i have ever dealt with. She is judgemental, ego-centric, rude, inconsiderate, annoying, won't shut up, and...how do i say this...she does stuff "just because its popular". For ex. She tried out ...
A. 31 January 2011: Stop hanging out with her, just taper off the time you spend with her. Find some real friends, but do me a huge favor, don't talk smack about her to others. Be a decent person.... (read in full...)
I'm giving my girlfriend her fantasy to be with a former lover/friend. Will I regret it?
Q. I would appreciate any help and comments on my situation. I met a wonderful woman last year and we had an immediate connection. Stronger than any I've known before and she said the same thing. On our third date we were talking openly about fan...
A. 31 January 2011: I don't see anything good coming from fulfilling this particular fantasy, sorry.... (read in full...)
Both virgins, on birth control pills.... do I REALLY need a condom?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are both virgins but we are planning on having sex in a couple of weeks. She's started taking birth control pills so there is no chance of her getting pregnant. We havent had sex so STI's are also out of the equation so do i ...
A. 31 January 2011: You might as well get in the habit of using a condom.
And there is ALWAYS a chance for pregnancy. ... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to get a boyfriend
Q. Hi all, I am happily married for over 20 years, with children. My husband is great in bed, he can make me come several times a night and I have no further need for anything else. Problem is, he wants to explore the wilder side of sex, and since I...
A. 27 January 2011: Hmm, honestly... This is what I think. He wants YOU to get a BF, so he can get a GF or a sexual experience with MMF. This is not really about you or what you want but what HE wants.
I would shot his idea down ASAP. Specially if this is not some... (read in full...)
My husband wants a quick divorce but then why does he call me every day and talk?
Q. my husband left me almost a month ago said he didnt love me and that he wanted to be friends after the divorce and then maybe more, i dont know about all of that but he acts as if he doesnt know if he is sure of himself or if he isnt,my mom and ...
A. 27 January 2011: I agree with chocoholic as well. I think she is absolutely right.
He wants to have his cake and eat it too. Meaning he wants to be single but still have you in his life. Why? Because it's nice to be single, but not nice to be lonely or alone.
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My 19 year old boyfriend wet the bed! Why?
Q. PLEASE TELL ME WHATS WRONG! Me and my boyfriend are sort of living together for like 2 months. And he has an early shift so he gets up 06:00AM. (we sleep together). He woke me up and told me that he peed the bed! AND HE IS 19! HE seemed really f...
A. 27 January 2011: It can happen. Now if he always sleeps with rubber sheets he might have an actual problem.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I can marry her now I know about her past!
Q. I have been with this woman for 10 months now, i recently even got engaged with this women, at first she did tell me that she was seeing women when her mental health was not fine, recently i proposed marriage to her and moved in with her, since ...
A. 27 January 2011: I think you better end the relationship. There are too many things about her that I just can't see you ever let go off. Some of them stem (I'm guessing) for you having low self esteem, some stems from you have a whole different set of morals and ... (read in full...)
One month into this LDR and he wants to move in together, marriage, babies....the lot! Should I run away as fast as I can?
Q. Hi. I am in a LDR with someone I've only known for a month. Never met and ended up talking over the internet on my web page. I have been trying to avoid relationships at any cost because I was engaged back in October but I broke it off with my ...
A. 27 January 2011: I agree. Run, run like Forrest Gump!
You see all these flags and for whatever reason you are questioning yourself and doubting that you can make the right decision.
You already know that he is all wrong for you.
He doesn't respect you at a... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to expect that my husband spend time with me on the few Sunday's that I'm free?
Q. Hi, Im. 25 yrs old and married for 2 yrs and been together for 8 yrs . Im a doctor and have a a very hectic life . My husband has always been the guy who likes his alone time , and " space " . I get about a sunday or two free in a month rest of ...
A. 27 January 2011: Maybe you could (when you DO have some time to talk about this) can sit down with him and PLAN what to do on your days off TOGETHER!
I agree with CaringGuy that it is odd that he doesn't want to spend more time with you. Seems to me like he is pu... (read in full...)
Was it a good idea to let him go as a friend?
Q. My best mate treats me like crap..ive tried so hard for my mate and my boyfriend to be friends so i can have both the people i love around me and i want to spend time with him and my boyfriend at the same time ..but hes just being so stubborn..he ...
A. 27 January 2011: Yes, you did the right thing. He wasn't a friend at all. He didn't WANT to be your friend I think, he wanted to be your BF.... (read in full...)
His kids are always sick!
Q. I am currently pregnant and expecting my first child with a man who has 3 children from a previous relationship. His children come over and visit every 2nd weekend. One of his kids is ALWAYS sick though... Ever since I first met her she either has a ...
A. 27 January 2011: To Annalisa, Yes, Chicken Pox vaccine is included in most Immunization in the US. It's called Varicella (Chickenpox) Vaccination.
Just FYI.
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Boyfriend of 3 years got a random chick pregnant!
Q. My boyfriend and I were together for 3 years. and In October before halloween we had broke up. For a while he made me believe that he wanted to be single and have fun with his friends, but comes to find out he got someone at his work that he works ...
A. 27 January 2011: Honey, wake up!
He was either already sleeping with her before your "break" or he decided to have a "break" with you so he could sleep with her.
Either way, the first thing he did after getting a break was having unprotected sex.. lovely
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His kids are always sick!
Q. I am currently pregnant and expecting my first child with a man who has 3 children from a previous relationship. His children come over and visit every 2nd weekend. One of his kids is ALWAYS sick though... Ever since I first met her she either has a ...
A. 27 January 2011: I agree 100% with Caring Guy's post.
Though I do think your husband and his ex needs to figure this out, if a child is sick he/she needs to be seen by a doctor not just "carted" off to the other parent. ... (read in full...)
How do I get off this pedestal she's put me on?
Q. So I’ve been casually seeing this girl as a FWB for about 6 months. She’s been a good friend for about a year and a half. She’s been quite overtly keen on me for over a year and initially I distanced myself from her, but gradually ended up ...
A. 27 January 2011: I can't see why you can't take it slow with this girl. Single mom or not, I'm sure SHE wants to be sure as well.
Oh and just had to say this... just because she has a child doesn't mean you are "settling" for a girlfriend who isn't "top shelf". ... (read in full...)
Shall I apologize over the phone, by text or to his face or not at all?
Q. Hi, I just spent 5 days with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for 18 months and have spoken about marriage. In the last month we have been spending more time together and bickering more and more. I have been particularly needy and i...
A. 26 January 2011: I wouldn't apologize either, if you feel crappy you are allowed to feel crappy!
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How do I get off this pedestal she's put me on?
Q. So I’ve been casually seeing this girl as a FWB for about 6 months. She’s been a good friend for about a year and a half. She’s been quite overtly keen on me for over a year and initially I distanced myself from her, but gradually ended up ...
A. 26 January 2011: You are damned if you do and damned if you don't.
If you dump her you will hurt her, if you stay with her because you aren't sure of your feelings, you will hurt her.
So, you need to figure out, if SHE is someone you can see yourself with lo... (read in full...)
I'm devastated, what can I do? He's blocked from his life over an email.
Q. He saw an email to my ex - it was bad. I admit that. But it wasn't from present day! And although he saw it recently, before that he saw my messages telling the ex to leave me alone cuz I was happy with my boyfriend. The email was from a stage in ...
A. 26 January 2011: Well you have 2 options that I can see.
One, write a "real" letter and send it through the mail.
Two, Give him some time & space.
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Should I walk away and hope he finds someone on one of his dating sites?
Q. My partner and i parted at the beginning of the year, it was i who ended it, as i felt we couldn't carry on anymore as we were. He and i have 2 kids and he now lives with his mum. There were many issues relating to us splitting. Far too many to ...
A. 26 January 2011: I agree, walk away.
I don't think it matters if he is trying to make you jealous or if he is looking for someone new. He is a father of two yet act more like a 15 year old, who runs to his "mum" every time things get rough. He seems immature... (read in full...)
Was she trying to avoid awkwardness?
Q. The story is, I see my ex-girlfriend (was seeing another guy during our relationship and lied to my face bout it, reason for "ex" we aren't friends.) at a bus stop and I was with my other friend and just hung out there. she's usually around her ...
A. 26 January 2011: Let it go. Think of it as - Her Loss!
She most likely was uncomfortable, but whether there were any deeper thoughts then that? *shrug* who knows?... (read in full...)
Why would she say her baby daddy is 'irreplaceable' if she supposedly doesn't have any feelings for him?
Q. so, I was talking to my girlfriend last night. and we were talking about her friendship with her baby daddy. and she told me, that i was replacable and he was irreplacable. after she tells me she hates him. i can understand keeping a friendsh...
A. 26 January 2011: I think it comes down to the fact that there will always be a connection between her and the baby-daddy, which is the child. No matter how much of a douche-bag that guy is... he will always be the father of her baby.
She most likely DO NOT have... (read in full...)
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