He says we need to stay away from each other for 2 months, does he love me?
Q. I have been going out with this guy for a for a month now. We slept together twice, since that day he has been telling me we need stay away from each other for two months and talk on the phone. Please help me I really luv this guy I don't know if he ...
A. 28 March 2011: That is about the dumbest reason I have ever heard for needing a break! so having sex for a while then a long break ensures you won't get pregnant? ILLOGICAL! IT only takes 1 time. 1 little swimmer.
WHY are you risking pregnancy? STD's?
Also... (read in full...)
We had a fight and he just walked out! Can I stay with someone who would leave like that?
Q. Please help me! My husband walked out on my 6 days ago after a fight. He said he was going to stay at his mothers. I don't like a husband can just up and leave like this I never would do this to him. He has try to call but I'm to hurt to answer I ...
A. 27 March 2011: Seems like you two could use some help. Have you considered some marriage counseling?
Obviously the communication between the two of you is not working.
Also, if he keep running off every time you two disagree how is anything going to get res... (read in full...)
So confused, he's upset over a picture on my facebook after a game of truth or dare.
Q. okay things with me and my bf have been great! i basically live at his house! he lives with his cousin and his cousin wife. well i stayed with him tuesday wensday and thursday and his cousins like me and everything they told me that he was gonn...
A. 27 March 2011: Next time you want to post pictures of him, ask him first?
If he breaks up with you over this, he's not worth the trouble.... (read in full...)
Why is he treating me so badly?
Q. I met my boyfriend online......1 year 6 months back... He is older than me I am 16 and he is 27...After 1 year he started ignoring me...started ignoring my calls.....I sent him e-mails....He didn't replied then I decided to move on....But he came ...
A. 27 March 2011: He's playing you. He sounds like a controlling, sick manipulative bastard.
Block his number and email and move on.
Nothing good can come from talking to him.... (read in full...)
He has a perfect body and I'm insecure about mine.
Q. Hello everyone, I think it would be best if I just ... got straight into it. I am a virgin, and nothing is changing that anytime soon - not even my boyfriend (regardless of how he stands on the subject). However, I do believe that considering my m...
A. 27 March 2011: Sounds like your Bf is having a hard time keeping his hands off you. That usually means he is really attracted to YOU, not some skinny chick.
He WILL enjoy touching you, because YOU ARE YOU. He is not expecting you to look like Cindy Crawford... (read in full...)
His story doesn't add up!
Q. My boyfriend who works away in the week now says to save petrol money he will be staying near where he works every other week. He told me that he was going to visit his aunts today (and told me that he visited her a couple of months ago). I rang ...
A. 27 March 2011: Ask him how the visit went. If he starts telling you about how nice it was to see his aunt, you know he is lying.... (read in full...)
She didn't even look my way.... What to do?
Q. There is this girl I like.......... we met on a Saturday out with mates we didn't really speak much but then two days later I got her number and text her we texted each other alot only general chat. After a while she wouldn't reply or kept the texts ...
A. 27 March 2011: Stop texting, call her and talk to her.... (read in full...)
A young girl head over heels for a boy who's grown up
Q. Hello. In order to ask this question, I'll have to give just a tad bit of personal background information, without giving too much away. I am currently in high school -- I moved here last year due to the fact that my mother was unable to car...
A. 27 March 2011: You don't have to "let him go". You can still talk, you can write letters, e-mails. Be each others "cheer leaders" in life.
He needs to grow, you need to grow. For him The Navy is what he believes will help him grow. Will make him a better v... (read in full...)
Can someone explain what bukkake is?
Q. I recently met this freaky girl, and she is into all kinds of things and she said she wants to perform bukkake with me. What exactly is this?...
A. 27 March 2011: Why not ask her to explain what exactly it is that she wants?
If she only mean you and her, she's got the expression wrong.... (read in full...)
He says we need to stay away from each other for 2 months, does he love me?
Q. I have been going out with this guy for a for a month now. We slept together twice, since that day he has been telling me we need stay away from each other for two months and talk on the phone. Please help me I really luv this guy I don't know if he ...
A. 27 March 2011: You guys went out for a month and he is asking for space already? And right after you two slept together? It sounds all together odd.
I would seriously ask him why. ... (read in full...)
Should I try, even though it may be short and unenjoyable?
Q. I have known this girl 4 a long time now,i like her and i think she likes me too. I want 2 ask her out but my fear is dat the relationship might be short and unenjoyable. should i express my feelings 4 her or not, even though the relationship might ...
A. 27 March 2011: You never know if you don't try.... (read in full...)
Friend's boyfriend is manipulative, how can I convince her to end it?
Q. A friend of mine is in a toxic relationship that has been going on for a year and a half. But she won't end it with him for good. Earlier in the year he hit her multiple times and I begged her to stop seeing him. She did break up with him and went ...
A. 27 March 2011: I don't think you can do much. I would tell her how destructive the relationship looks. Voice your opinion, but you can't "make" her do anything she doesn't want to.... (read in full...)
Should I shave my pubic hair?
Q. [Mod note: Combined two questions] i was talking to my male friend who said that girls should only have hair on their head, arms and eyes/brows. the problem is i have pubic hair, i am 13 nearly 14, should i be shaving ? i am really scared to shave...
A. 27 March 2011: At 13? No, I don't think you should shave it off. You can trim, keep it "short" ( makes life easier) But clean shaven shouldn't be a must at 13. You shouldn't even worry about this IMHO. If you want to shave pits and legs, I get it, no one wants to ... (read in full...)
I hate my body! He says I'm beautiful, but I don't believe him.
Q. I hate my body? I despise it that I find I am crying over it now! This guy says he is falling in love with me, and he hasn't even seen my body and says he doesn't mind my curves and that he thinks I am beautiful and never met anyone like me...
A. 27 March 2011: Believe him, he sees all of you, not just what you consider your physical flaws.
Only YOU can makes these changes. Obviously certain things you can not change. We ALL have something about our bodies we don't like.
I have HIPS. I always wished ... (read in full...)
My ex and I are friends, I told him I had sex with someone else and he screamed at me!
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of over a year a few weeks ago. Still wanting to remain friends, I decided we should still be able to talk about anything. I had sex with a friend of mine a few days ago. For some INCREDIBLY stupid reason, I told my ex. ...
A. 27 March 2011: Well it's only been a few week and you moved on? I think he felt hurt. *she got over me THAT fast?*
YOU decided that you two should talk about everything. How would you have felt if the roles were reversed?
Obviously being friends with an ... (read in full...)
Father's strange behaviour is making my life so difficult!
Q. I feel like my father is trying to drive me to a breakdown. I think he has severe mental problems, but he has never been diagnosed. When I was growing up and well into my twenties, he would give me and my Mum the silent treatment (but not my ...
A. 27 March 2011: Time to move out. You can do it.
It's quite hard to say what's really up with your dad. Could be a sort of bi-polar or even early onset of dementia, but you didn't mention forgetfulness, that is a very typical sign. Could be he is just a narcissi... (read in full...)
Should I delete my ex off my Facebook?
Q. Basically I was wondering if I should delete my ex girlfriend off of Facebook? We broke up two months ago and three weeks after the break up, she got into another relationship with another guy! I kills me to see pics with her new bf etc. But I ...
A. 27 March 2011: I would delete her. It will be "easier" for you to move on with out having her in your "face" daily. If she really wanted you back, don't you think she would call you or contact you, not your friends?... (read in full...)
I can't have sex for a month, but my husband is desperate. How can I satisfy him?
Q. recently i got a surgery but my doctor told me I cannot have sex for a month, but my husband is desperate for sex, so any recomend that he can reduce his sexual desire, or any pill or herb that he can take it while I am Okay again. thanks for any ...
A. 27 March 2011: Um, oral, hand jobs?... (read in full...)
I can't stop craving a baby! Is there a way to put it on hold?
Q. I have always wanted a baby but it's got to the point where I'm literally craving one. I know this is long but it's the full story so you can give more suitable advice :) Me and my boyfriend are both 17 and although we are young, babies ha...
A. 27 March 2011: Get a puppy. It will curb the "cravings" and give you a tiny sense of responsibility a baby will require.
I think one day you will be a great Mum, but honestly, live life a little first. Have some goals for yourself. See the world! Taking a break ... (read in full...)
How can you be good in bed and without your guy thinking you've been around the block with many men?
Q. My boyfriend have been asking me questions lately that makes me feel really bad. Well everyone knows most guys like a freak in the bed they can still take home to momma. Well I consider myself that. There was onne guys I was with in the past that ...
A. 27 March 2011: Wow, I'm sorry but he is an ASS! I hope he kicks himself DAILY for the rest of his life!
Be who you are! Find a guy who will APPRICIATE you for you! I can't imagine any man not being SUPER THRILLED to share the bed with a woman, who truly knows ho... (read in full...)
Is there any advise on how to motivate a lazy man?
Q. I've been with my husband 6 years, married for 3. Throughout that time I've constantly been aware of his lack of motivation but I love him and I married him anyway. Five years ago, he took a really low paid job (just because it was the first on...
A. 27 March 2011: To OP
I wasn't shouting, just emphasizing. If I was shouting (and I am not really one to shout) it would be all caps.
And I sorry you didn't like what I said, it was just my opinion based on what you wrote.
... (read in full...)
Is there any advise on how to motivate a lazy man?
Q. I've been with my husband 6 years, married for 3. Throughout that time I've constantly been aware of his lack of motivation but I love him and I married him anyway. Five years ago, he took a really low paid job (just because it was the first on...
A. 27 March 2011: To OP
I wasn't shouting, just emphasizing. If I was shouting (and I am not really one to shout) it would be all caps.
And I sorry you didn't like what I said, it was just my opinion based on what you wrote.
... (read in full...)
Why do people curse during sex?
Q. Will someone please tell me why men or people in general curse during sex? When guys do it, it makes me feel like I'm hurting them or something. I've never felt the need to yell expletives during the moment...it's something I have trouble relating ...
A. 26 March 2011: I don't get it either, I'm not a screamer or "yeller", but I DO know how to have a great time without trying to sound like a bad porn.
Everyone is different, for some it's yelling or screaming or grunting or howling.. ... (read in full...)
How to flirt...advice please...
Q. I always see guys my age flirting with girls, chatting with them, making them laugh, even touching them just casually and I feel left behind because I have no idea how to flirt or make a girl attracted to me. I need to know EXACTLY what to ...
A. 26 March 2011: Flirting to some is an ART. WATCH people who are good at it. It needs to be subtle and genuine. You can not FAKE flirt, if not done right it, just comes across and slimy or lame.
One main thing though, YOU have to be YOURSELF.... (read in full...)
Is there any advise on how to motivate a lazy man?
Q. I've been with my husband 6 years, married for 3. Throughout that time I've constantly been aware of his lack of motivation but I love him and I married him anyway. Five years ago, he took a really low paid job (just because it was the first on...
A. 26 March 2011: It seems to me he is acting like a child and you his mom. You really think he would make a good dad, being this uninterested in helping out?
You knew going into it how he was. People don't "just" change because others want them too, THEY have to ... (read in full...)
Is it disrespectful for my boyfriend to talk about how hot girls are?
Q. Do you think it's disrespectful if my boyfriend always talks about how hot a girl is? It could be an actress on tv or in the movies, or just some girl walking down the street in front of us. I don't like when he does this. Yes part of it is je...
A. 26 March 2011: Have you tried to put the shoe on the other foot? Comment on hot guys. MAN that guy had an ASS on him! Wow, now THAT is a hottie!..
Personally, if my husband thinks an atress is hot, *shrug* he is usually right. It wouldn't bother me. But he D... (read in full...)
Am I a sucker and he's taking me for a ride?
Q. I met a man via internet dating a few months ago. He seemed very nice, we got on really well and started seeing each other exclusively. We have a lot in common and I enjoy his company. He claimed on his profile that his income/standard of living ...
A. 26 March 2011: Seems like you guy is either depressed or living in a fantasy world. He also doesn't seem like a very responsible guy, and well, a liar to boot. I'm pretty sure he knows that putting "below average income" in his profile would keep a LOT of decent ... (read in full...)
He's older and a friend, but I think he likes me??
Q. So here is my dilemma...I know some of you ladies have seen this before. I have a great guy friend who I met a year ago. I fell for him right away,(hes older by 8 years which I know bugs him) but I kept my distance because of a girlfriend that lives ...
A. 26 March 2011: I honestly wouldn't become involved with a guy who claims to have a GF. You know it says a lot about you that even without knowing her or really much about their relationship you write her off a FCk buddy. Maybe because it would be "morally" easier ... (read in full...)
I like him, he's not into his g/f, but I'm afraid of being labelled a 'man-stealer'
Q. My friends boyfriend has never shown a big interest in me besides little signs that always make me think he sort of liked me. And my friend has been dating this kid for not a long time and he even admitted to me that he isn't feeling it with her. ...
A. 26 March 2011: Stick with your friend. If he doesn't want to be with her he should break up with her not string her along while flirting with you.
Number 1 rule in the Girl Code... ... (read in full...)
I know I did wrong. But how can I help improve the situation with her? And be forgiven?
Q. My wife and i recently had a bad fight. all the info about it is in a question i posted previously. I completely broke her trust. she is still with me, but not really. we haven't been intimate in over a month. she hates coming to bed unless i'm alre...
A. 26 March 2011: Well, fist thing I would suggest is for you to get help. And stop drinking. Drinking exacerbate that kind of behavior.
You need to show her that this is NOT going to happen again. Actions speak louder then words.... (read in full...)
My problem is his pregnant partner. Is there a chance he will just love me and leave me?
Q. Am girl who is 21 years of age,there is this guy I just met and I love him and I do want to have sex with him, but my problem is his pregnant partner. What if he loves her more than he loves me? What if he just want to have sexual relations with me ...
A. 25 March 2011: Me might leave her.. knock you up and leave you too for someone NOT pregnant.. He sounds like a loser, sorry.... (read in full...)
I know I did wrong. But how can I help improve the situation with her? And be forgiven?
Q. My wife and i recently had a bad fight. all the info about it is in a question i posted previously. I completely broke her trust. she is still with me, but not really. we haven't been intimate in over a month. she hates coming to bed unless i'm alre...
A. 25 March 2011: Trust is SO hard to regain, both for you and for her. You two need to figure out how to move forward. She shouldn't feel like "dreading" to go to bed. If she isn't able to be intimate with you ( I'm guessing you cheated?) You need to respect that. ... (read in full...)
What do I say to my daughter who wants birth control?
Q. My 16 year old daughter came up to me last night while I was making dinner and asked for birth control. At first I didn't say anything I was in total shock. Let me give you some back story. She's a good kid. She's no straight A student and she'...
A. 25 March 2011: You did fine. I have 3 girls and I'm scared to death for that day to come. However, mum, your daughter is being responsible, sensible and SMART! She might be thinking of sex, unfortunately both good and bad kids that age THINK about it. A lot.... (read in full...)
We broke up and he hasn't even tried to get me back. I need closure!
Q. I split up with my boyfriend about a month ago and I am finding it really difficult.We were in a LDR but he hardly ever got in contact which really hurt me. We'd been together 2 years and he wasn't really treating me like a girlfriend, i always came ...
A. 25 March 2011: You obviously didn't get what you needed from the relationship so you ended it. You don't always GET closure. But if he isn't MAN enough to want to talk to you, know that you didn't break up with someone worth hanging on to. Accept that you... (read in full...)
Why after months is my ex driving by my house and telling friends he screwed up losing me?
Q. Please, help me understand what is going on with a situation involving my ex whom I have not spoken to since he left me 10 mths. ago and soon after became involved with someone else. We were together for 7 yrs. and engaged to be married when he ...
A. 25 March 2011: You feel hurt because you are not quite over him. And that is ok.
But the sooner you let go emotionally and mentally the sooner you can actually move on.
Yes, don't look at her FB and don't listen to his friends and their stories about hi... (read in full...)
I found my wife's sex tape with two guys. Should I moved out for a while to clear my head? I don't know if I can recover from this
Q. I really don't know if this is the best place to be asking for advice, but I can't afford a counselor and I'm too embarrassed to tell any of my family or friends. I'm hoping someone on this site can help me. My wife has always been the keep sa...
A. 25 March 2011: She wasn't WITH you when this happened. She was young, drunk and stupid. Allow her to have made mistakes in the past without you DRAGGING it up. Haven't you done something STUPID in your younger days?
And really? Who cares what those two guys thi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend stopped talking to me and a girl answers his phone every time I call!
Q. Hi aunts! So I need some advice on what to do in this situation. Me and my boyfriend of 2 months broke up 2 days ago. He was at a party and I was going out to. Well I called him and was asking who was ther and stuff nothing mean though. And he said ...
A. 25 March 2011: I would consider the relationship over and forget about him, he's obviously too much of a chicken to be up front and honest about breaking up.
... (read in full...)
My girlfriend seems really knowledgeable about sex and I am worried she will laugh when she sees my penis!
Q. Dear Cupid, Ive recently met this girl and shes ready to have sex, shes let it be known that she wants to but im not sure, theirs multiple reasons but one of the larger reasons is because my penis is sort of thick but only 5.5" i don't know what ...
A. 24 March 2011: I doubt any girl will be laughing at your penis. Unless you promised her it reached your knees, I'm willing to bet it will be just fine.. Would you laugh if her breasts were smaller them they looked? (Padded bra can add 1-3 cup sizes easily) Wh... (read in full...)
Sometimes I get so wet, he slips out. Is this normal?
Q. This is probably a stupid question but is this normal? During sex and foreplay I get incredibly wet!! When my boyfriend touches me I get wet and the more aroused I get and the longer the wetter I get and I mean really wet. Sometimes so bad t...
A. 24 March 2011: Yes it's pretty normal. You on top might make it harder for him to "slip" out.... (read in full...)
Maybe you are the right one and his wife is the wrong one?
Q. Hi everyone. This is my question. Is it possible a married man could be falling for you instead of wanting an affair? Or are all these guys the same, wanting their cake and eating it, too? How do you know he is not truly happy in his marriage ...
A. 24 March 2011: A HONEST man would divorce his wife is he was truly unhappy with her. Divorce these days are a dime a dozen(though a LOT more expensive). If you are currently in a relationship and HE is currently in one, figure out WHAT and WHO you want and mak... (read in full...)
I don't want to go to my husband's father's funeral because the women he had an affair with will be there, is this wrong?
Q. My husband has been having an affair with a friend of his family. This has been going on for a while and although my husband is sorry I am still trying to come to terms with it. This lady is well liked by his family and I have never met her. My ...
A. 24 March 2011: Sounds like a nightmare, I'm sorry. I think you did the right thing to show up. Maybe it's time to figure out what YOU want and go for it?!... (read in full...)
Why do guys beep their horns at girls? It is really embarassing!
Q. Everytime I go out, with my mom, my friends, ANYONE, people would do that whole 'I beep the horn because you're attractive' thing. Before, when I was an insecure person, i would feel really flattered. Now, it's just really embarassing and my parents ...
A. 24 March 2011: Because idiots like to honk the horn too!
It's not just to let someone know;" YOU look good!" it's also a "HEY HEY look at me ma, no hands..!!"
If you feel annoyed or irritated by it, best bet is to ignore it. Pretend you didn't hear it a... (read in full...)
I don't want to go to my husband's father's funeral because the women he had an affair with will be there, is this wrong?
Q. My husband has been having an affair with a friend of his family. This has been going on for a while and although my husband is sorry I am still trying to come to terms with it. This lady is well liked by his family and I have never met her. My ...
A. 5 January 2011: Go, if you liked/loved/cared for your Father in Law. This is not about HER/YOU or the affair, it's about honoring the man who just passed away.
Keep the petty differences aside. I just wouldn't talk to the lady. Not too hard to avoid her if you r... (read in full...)
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