Can my new Facebook friend be trusted? Should I send him the picture he wants?
Q. I met a guy on Facebook, he said he likes me, he is really nice and sweet. But there's something weird about him, he wants me to send him my picture but he doesn't want to give me his phone number. He said he is just being careful and I'm being ...
A. 24 November 2011: READ Maverick answers again... she hit the nail on the head:
"Quote"
1. The phone mystery: why would a young, genuine guy be so careful with his phone around a cute girl? "end quote"
Anyways, good luck with your most likely married 35+ perv... (read in full...)
We fight so much! What should I do?
Q. I have almost been with my boyfriend for a year and we fight so much. I think I love him but then theres days when I just dont know anymore. how do I make things better and save our relationship ?...
A. 21 November 2011: 1. What exactly do you fight over?
and 2. all relationships takes work, but if it is more hassle then "enjoyment" people start to lose how they felt initially for the other person. You are both still young and forming your own personal... (read in full...)
He's 15 years older than me and from another country so his English is not great....should I ask him out anyway?
Q. Ok so im 21 and live in the UK....as most of us know the UK is full of people well not from here and I happen to work in a place where there is more non-UK workers than UK workers. I love my job and my old department was great as I had such a lau...
A. 21 November 2011: Stay away from dating co-workers and honestly.. don't pity date.
Find someone near your age that you have more in common with and one you don't work with.... (read in full...)
She didnt tell me she loves me before she went to sleep and now I'm really hurt, am I overreacting?
Q. Hi. My girlfriend and I were texting each other late at night like we usually do, and joking around and everything. She told me she was tired and night. She always tell me 'night babe I love you'. I asked her if she was mad at me and she said no, ...
A. 21 November 2011: I agree - major overreaction.... (read in full...)
He took part in a golf tournament with another woman because I'm not good enough! Now we cant stop rowing about this, what should I do?
Q. My husband and I both play golf. He has been a member for years and plays regularly, but I am a beginner and only get chance to play occasionally. At the weekend the club were holding an Open Doubles Competition which he wanted to play in. All ...
A. 21 November 2011: I agree with the other answers, YOU were in the wrong. I don't think your husband expected you to be a pro all of a sudden but do do this with him, you turned him down and he asked someone else. I really don't see the problem, it's not like the lady ... (read in full...)
Is he only interested in sex? This guy has confused me.
Q. Me and this guy work together and have known each other for a while. The night we were out with co workers he admits to having his eye on me for a long time. (this wasnt the first he told me that a few months ago but I was on the rebound and wasnt ...
A. 21 November 2011: Well, one way to find out is to hang out with him and NOT have sex. If he keeps wanting to see you and doesn't pester you for sex ,maybe he is more serious.
If YOU jump right into bed with him, he might feel he doesn't have to put in more effort i... (read in full...)
I'm FWB with my younger ex, but he has another girl as an FWB too! How do I get him to like me more than her?
Q. Hi everyone, well I really need help in this situation and please reply with honesty. well here we go first of all im a 16 yr old girl and I have an ex bf that my lil brother present to me, my ex is 14 and not turning 15 till 8 months and im ...
A. 21 November 2011: First off, don't try to get pregnant, it's not going to keep him around or make your life easier.
2. He's 14, so drop it.
3. If he is fooling around with more then one girl, he isn't really for a relationship and honestly FWB is ridiculous a... (read in full...)
He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?
Q. I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...
A. 21 November 2011: Buying a house together will not "change" or "fix" him. Honestly it sounds like you have the kids and a grown up kid too to take care off, that must be exhausting.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for someone 50 to ask their parent if its ok to take a bath?
Q. do you think its normal asking your parent that you will take a bath at the age of 50?someoene i know ask this question everytime want to take a bath in the night. i find it so weird? for me its wrong because personal hygiene.. why ask other people. ...
A. 21 November 2011: She does it because THAT is how she has been raised. I see nothing wrong in it whatso ever.... (read in full...)
Isn't 6 months enough time to get over a break up?
Q. Hi there... so... i broke up with my bf 6 months ago. we were together for 5 years and i know i did the right thing, 'cause he didn't treat me well... the thing is, i've been having a rough time forgetting him... he was my first bf and i know ...
A. 21 November 2011: Unfortunately there is no expiration date on a broken heart.
But the more you wallow in your sorrow and pain, the longer it will take. To be honest, it took me almost 2 years to truly get over my first love. Since we moved in the same circles ... (read in full...)
Extremely insecure about my small breasts! I want to go out with my friends and not feel inferior, because they get more attention than I do. I want to feel like a sexy woman!
Q. I have small breasts and this makes me feel insecure, especially because my ex was more into bigger ones. I have also noticed that most men prefer big ones. I know looks supposedly don’t matter, but men, even other women, seem to make such a big ...
A. 21 November 2011: Think of all the things you can do when you have a smaller bosom!
You can run without fear of black eyes.
You can jump without having to worry about backache.
You won't have tits on your knees when you are old.
You can actually wear tighte... (read in full...)
Living a forbidden love and we just want to see each other!
Q. Hi, so me and my girlfriend are living a forbidden love. Both of us are madly in love, but were of different age 5 yrs apart I'm graduated from high school she still has two yrs to go. I recently moved to the city two hours away. We started tlkng ...
A. 21 November 2011: So wait.
She is 16, no matter how "mature" she seems she is still a youngster, far from adult.
She needs to finish school and think about the future, not just about moving in with a guy. She needs to have some kind of hopes and dreams for her f... (read in full...)
He's called it quit 4 times! How do I cope with this?
Q. How should I deal with my partner who has called it quits for more than 4 times? How should I interpret the following said by my partner:"There are times when I don't feel like talking to anyone, including you"...
A. 21 November 2011: "There are times when I don't feel like talking to anyone, including you"
Meaning he needs space, from everyone. Maybe he is a little depressed?
If he keeps dumping you why you you stick it out? I honestly think he's got commitment issue... (read in full...)
Living a forbidden love and we just want to see each other!
Q. Hi, so me and my girlfriend are living a forbidden love. Both of us are madly in love, but were of different age 5 yrs apart I'm graduated from high school she still has two yrs to go. I recently moved to the city two hours away. We started tlkng ...
A. 21 November 2011: What are you ages?... (read in full...)
Should I report my sister for fraud?
Q. My sister is claiming child benefit for a child that my mother is raising. She still lives at home and pays for no rent or and living cost for herself or her child and she is also claiming single mother's allowance. my mother minds her child while ...
A. 20 November 2011: I think if anyone should report her it should be your mom. If she isn't using this money to take care of the child, then yes I don't think she deserve it, your mother does.
... (read in full...)
Is it normal for someone 50 to ask their parent if its ok to take a bath?
Q. do you think its normal asking your parent that you will take a bath at the age of 50?someoene i know ask this question everytime want to take a bath in the night. i find it so weird? for me its wrong because personal hygiene.. why ask other people. ...
A. 20 November 2011: If there is only one bathroom and it's not his/her house, I think it's the right thing to do.... (read in full...)
I like this married guy but I'm not sure that I want to be a mistress!
Q. hey, this is the first time writing to one of these agony aunt things so i'm sorry if this is long winded. long story short, a guy i'm attracted to has asked me out. he's cute, funny, intelligent.. everything i would want in a guy but never se...
A. 20 November 2011: So live a little - there are PLNETY of single guys out there who can provide you with a bit of "amusement"
Don't be "that" girl.. the one people will NOT call the mistress, but the whore. YOU (and the wife) are the ones who will end up getting ... (read in full...)
My sister was exposed to TB. She lives with us, should I be concerned?
Q. My sister went to the doctor the other day for some tests and she was told that she has been exposed to TB,she is staying with me and my three young boys are there,should i be worried,am confused please help. ...
A. 20 November 2011: Call your doctor set up an appointment, he/she can clam your fear or help you take whatever steps are necessary.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend may have gotten my cousin pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend are on again off again in a 2 year relationships. we have both screwed up hooked up with each others fiends and worked passed it. recently we broke up and i just got told my cousin is pregnant and there is a 50/50 chance my boyfriend is ...
A. 20 November 2011: What are you most upset over?
That he slept with your cousin or that he might have fathered a child?
Since you were both screwing around I don't really see why you feel like HE is the only one at fault.
Personally, I think the relationship i... (read in full...)
Braces! rubberbands! I feel so ugly. All my photos next year will be ruined. And I'm a dancer. What can I do to get through this?
Q. I'm 16 years old, and in my 3rd year of high school. I recently just got braces on, not to straighten my teeth (they were already straight), but, to fix my bite. I have to wear rubberbands and all of that. I can't stand to even look at myself anym...
A. 20 November 2011: Honey, this too shall pass. And when it does you will have a perfect "bite".
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He's had 6 gfs before me and I need to know the details. Should I ask?
Q. My bf is the first proper bf I have had and the person I lost my virginity too. However, before me, he had a bout 6 proper gfs and has had sex with them all. This makes me feel a bit uncomfy, but I realise you can't usually get boys without history. ...
A. 20 November 2011: I agree, you don't NEED the details you WANT to details. And then when you get them... you wish you hadn't.
WHY do you "need" them?... (read in full...)
Can my new Facebook friend be trusted? Should I send him the picture he wants?
Q. I met a guy on Facebook, he said he likes me, he is really nice and sweet. But there's something weird about him, he wants me to send him my picture but he doesn't want to give me his phone number. He said he is just being careful and I'm being ...
A. 20 November 2011: Don't send him any pictures til you fell like he is worthy of some trust. LISTEN to your gut, it's telling you something is hinkey.... (read in full...)
He chose to spend our 1 year 10 month anniversary with his college friends!
Q. Ok I know this sounds a bit stupid but yesterday was our year and ten months anniversarie but he kept telling me last week that he was gonna surprise me wit breaking Dawn tickets and so I was just thinking it comes out Friday it's our day Friday ...
A. 20 November 2011: Yes, you were overreacting. It's not an anniversary, it's a milestone.. No need for drama.
However, if he PROMISED to get tickets for a movie on said date and broke the date to hang out with friends I'd be a little ticked.... (read in full...)
Can you really just be friends with your Ex?
Q. My ex and I said when it ended that we wanted to remain friends. For the most part, we are. We keep in touch, and see each other now and then. My problem is, every now and then, we have these "moments" together. We end up in a place where I see it ...
A. 20 November 2011:
Some can, some can't. My first BF and I broke up some 20+ years ago and we still talk. However, we didn't become friends til about 1-2 year after the break up.
You don't have "moments" with a friend.... (read in full...)
My husband's mother wants to move in with us and I want a life!
Q. my husbands mothers husband just passed. she is 55 and he was 84, with money. they were married 4 years. so now she wants to move in with us. no one asked me how i felt. i love her with all my heart, but i didnt sign up for this. i know it sounds ...
A. 20 November 2011: Unless she needs care, I would say no. She doesn't need to move in with you guys. She needs to live life.
Now if it's only a shorter stay, you need to set a # of days you can accept. Maybe look for a place for her close by.
You all have 3 kids ... (read in full...)
If I send him a gift would that make me look desperate or obsessive?
Q. Hello, is it ok to send a gift (nothing expensive) to someone I have not met in person yet? -We have been writing emails to each other for about a month, and lately he has not written much, but he sent me an email a week ago saying that he was very ...
A. 20 November 2011: Don't. Send him a silly card (or E-card) but I would keep the gift giving for later.... (read in full...)
What are symptoms of a ruptured uterine fibroid, and treatment?
Q. Havent been feeling well all week. Fatigue, adominal pain... woke up this morning with exteme adominal pain and bleeding. Have a history of uterine fibroids. Had intercourse on wednesday and it was a little painful. Is it possible i had one and it ...
A. 18 November 2011: See your doctor, none of us can treat you.
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Is she interested? Whenever we are together all she does is talk about other guys!
Q. I have a girlfriend, who I think is totally amazing. She tells me she misses me, that she loves me, and wants to be with me forever. That's all when she texts me, when we're in person, she constantly talks about other men. I don't mean every 6 ...
A. 18 November 2011: I would tell her how it makes you feel and if she doesn't get it start talking about female celebrities.. see what happens if the shoe is on the other foot.... (read in full...)
He moans about giving me oral, am I being unreasonable?
Q. Do I have the right to be upset? Thank you for all advice and for your time! I appreciate it all so much!!! I have been dating my boyfriend for six months. About two and a half months into our relationship we began to become intimate. I go d...
A. 18 November 2011: Maybe he is just not a fan of giving oral? I like to give but I don't like to get.
I really doubt he has any problem breathing. He just didn't want to do it.
I would look into trying something else other then oral to please you.
Just lik... (read in full...)
Sex is all about him - he does nothing for me and I feel unsatisfied
Q. What do you make of this? My husband and I have been together for 10 years.. married for 7. We have 2 children. OK this is going to get kinda graphic.... so we recently went 18 months without having sex. If he ever wants it, it completely ...
A. 18 November 2011: You need to talk to him, explain how you feel your exlife is very one-sided.
Does he by chance have trouble "performing" (as in lasting) and is his sex drive really low?
... (read in full...)
Met him online, love him, but he wants sex before marriage
Q. Gud evening , my question is . I met a guy online he live in abroad so since then we have been chatting on november 2011 he propose to me he said he's coming back next month and we will make love before marriage and am not ready to make love ...
A. 18 November 2011: It does sounds like he is after sex, not marriage.
If he is a good guy, he will respect you and your wishes and not push for sex any more.... (read in full...)
How can I change my G/f's mind about sex? She's had some nasty experiences in the past but my friends' are nagging me about why its taking so long with her
Q. Hey guys, me and my gf have been dating for 5 months already. The thing is she's a virgin and I'm not, I of course care about her and do not want to pressure her into doing anything shes uncormfotable with. We've been talking about sex (well maybe ...
A. 18 November 2011: You are making the idea of SEX worse for her with all your "talking". I'm pretty sure she feels pressured by you.
And your friends... tell them to go fly a kite, find a girl of their own to have sex with.
It Seems to me that she isn't ready ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of 11 months broke up with me out of the blue!
Q. This is bit of a read sorry, but I'd really like some outsider input on this. I guess I now can no longer call him my boyfriend, so my ex, let's call him A, broke up with me tonight. We're both eighteen, he graduates school tomorrow, I grad...
A. 18 November 2011:
I'm sorry he broke your heart, and I'm sorry you postponed Uni for a guy. (and a guy who wasn't worthy).
He has decided you two are over, no amount of anger, hurt or love from you will change his mind.It might have felt out of the blue, but I ... (read in full...)
Me and my friend told our other friend's mom she was cutting herself..
Q. Hey, my friend and I told our mutual friend's mom that she was cutting herself and we don't know what to do! So last year the friend that's cutting herself, aka E, had alot of guy drama. She really liked this guy and a friend of hers told him twice ...
A. 18 November 2011: You did the right thing telling her mom. She was "crying" for help.
I just hope her mom actually does something about it.... (read in full...)
He was too cool, but I still see his old personality
Q. My ex and i broke up after a year about a month ago. Hes moved on from me but im still madly in love with him. He broke up with me because he was "too cool" for me, but I still see the old personality in him. How can i get him back? Please answer as ...
A. 18 November 2011: Don't waste another breath on this guy. No one is EVER too cool for another. If they think they are, they are delusional.
Let him and his over inflated ego go.... (read in full...)
We have an awkward past, do I go to her 18th birthday night out?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm back with another dose of my disastrous love life and am (as always) looking for a bit of advice! So not long ago I wrote http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-she-doesnt-like-me-in-that-way.html and I still have the same proble...
A. 18 November 2011: I'm kind of torn whether you should go or not.
On one hand I think you should go, have fun, support your friend.
On the other hand, I think you shouldn't, because you have doubts whether you can control yourself or not.
IT IS her birthday pa... (read in full...)
Email traffic with my first love suddenly quit?
Q. A few months back I started talking to my first love. It started off innocent and then got flirty. He told me that he couldn't stop thinking about me and I said the same. We made plans to meet but it didn't work out. Our emails started getting ...
A. 18 November 2011: Two possible scenarios:
1. his GF/Wife found out and told him to make a choice. He didn't choose you.
2. He grew a conscience and figured what he was doing is morally wrong and he quit talking to you.
What should YOU do?
Well, focu... (read in full...)
Not sure I can put up with this troublesome "friend" any more. What to do?
Q. I just don't know what to do anymore. I've gone on here more than once about this particular subject, and every time it just gets worse and worse. It's about my friend who can't make up her mind on whether or not she wants to be a good friend o...
A. 18 November 2011: She sounds like she is really unhappy with herself. It it easier to criticize and push others around then take charge of yourself and your life.
Honestly, I would avoid her as much as possible. And yes, DO forgive her, not for her sake, but for ... (read in full...)
I don't want him to be around our baby ever, am I doing the right thing?
Q. Hello viewers...I'm back and now I'm shy if 27 weeks pregnant. Things aren't the greatest for me but better.I'm having my third boy and the father still has nothing to do with us. and is mom and brother has accepted the fact and he has beaten his ...
A. 18 November 2011: Honestly, you have to do what you think is right for you and the baby.
He sounds like a douche.... (read in full...)
Can a guy's car make him more (or less) attractive?
Q. Here’s a bit of a strange question. Does the type of car a guy has make him more attractive or less attractive? Does it have an influence on women? The reason I am asking this question is because of this, I used to have a classic BMW, one with ch...
A. 18 November 2011: For me personally, no.
Now if I get to look inside... then yes. A guy with a car full of trash is a lot less attractive then a guy with a tidy car.
Though, with that said BMW Suzuki if I were to buy me a new car.. Actually Audi all others... (read in full...)
My marriage isn't working, I'm involved with a married woman and I cant even divorce my wife and be with her, because she says her husband is abusive and will harm us both.
Q. I am 38 and I have been married for 19 years to a woman 2 years older than I am. My marriage has been difficult. We even separated for a year 10 years ago. Our sex life is poor and we have some really deep issues that we cannot compromise on. One ...
A. 17 November 2011: You can still do right by your wife and divorce her, you come across as having a huge resentment towards your wife. Whether your "lover" finds a way to leave her husband and her abusive situation is on her. ... (read in full...)
Do cheaters usually regret cheating?
Q. About a month ago my boyfriend of three years told me he cheated. He told me a couple days after it happened. This was the first time he had done it. As he was telling me he was very apologetic and he cried. That was the first time in three years I ...
A. 17 November 2011: Some do, some don't.
I think the fact that he fessed up, apologized and felt remorseful for it, shows that he DID regret it. He didn't wait til he got caught.
However, it doesn't change the fact that he DID cheat.
Hopefully HE learned ... (read in full...)
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