I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 19 December 2011: I honestly think you are making a bigger deal out of this then you need too, but again, that might just be the difference in personalities.
My husband is a soldier and have deployed 3 times (in the last 7 1/2 years), which mean that while he is go... (read in full...)
I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 9 December 2011: Cerberus I think you are spot on, but I do think that OP assumes her man is, on top of all his "husbandly duties", a superb mindreader.
I can't imagine why any woman would want to be so dependant on a man (or partner) that she can't think or... (read in full...)
I started the relationship for all the wrong reasons and now I am not sure how to go on! help!
Q. I have been with this guy for 2 years, he's divorced 2 kids. I did not want to date divorced guys with baggage but I couldn't seem to be getting anywhere fast so I went out with him after meeting via internet dating which I started because I hadn't ...
A. 8 December 2011: So he wasn't the "right" fit for you, doesn't mean you have to stay with him. End it with him, the sooner the better. Take some time to figure out WHAT/WHO you want from a BF/partner and work on that.
Sometimes we make mistakes, but they are only... (read in full...)
Jealous of my bf's female colleague... thinking of breaking up with bf! Help!
Q. i have been with my bf for 3 yrs and we love each other. i am sure he will not cheat on me, but there are other times that i felt offended or hurt unintentionally. specifically, there's this one female coworker that i am very jealous of. she hitched ...
A. 8 December 2011: You need to work on yourself, of this will not be the last relationship you mess up with jealousy and distrust.
I think your imagination is getting the better of you.
He's had AMPLE opportunity to cheat with this girl, yet he hasn't and most lik... (read in full...)
He's a great guy and he's dating trash
Q. Okay so there's this guy. I've had a crush on him for a while but then it turned into more of a brother/sister relationship. We still flirt and all but this isn't what this question is about. He just got into a relationship with absolute TRASH. She ...
A. 8 December 2011: Tell him to save his touchy feely stuff for his GF. ... (read in full...)
She won't tell him why she wants a break!
Q. My best friend's fiancée just told him she wants a break for no reason or she isn't giving one. this is completely killing my friend and I cant console him. they where together for 5 years and now this. does anyone have suggestions how ...
A. 7 December 2011: Well, in my book, she owes him an explanation.
There isn't much YOU can do, but help him work through it and help him figure out what HE wants.
Personally, I don't believe in breaks. They have been together 5 years so by now they should BOTH... (read in full...)
My Baggage Is Making Me Paranoid
Q. Hey aunts! I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and he is honestly my whole world! Even though I am only 17 I feel that I will marry him and have a family with him! But my problem is that the previous relationship which I was in was a ch...
A. 7 December 2011: How do you stop being paranoid? You tell him, and he in turn will be complete open with you (hopefully). Also, don't stalk his phone, email and Facebook/whatever page in hope to find dirt.
Trust takes a bit of work to build and maintain. So if yo... (read in full...)
My ex wants me back but I don't know what to do?
Q. I've been broken up with my ex gf now for 4 months after having been together 5 years. Our relationship didn't end on a good note, the entire break up process was really ugly as a matter of fact which I won't get into detail, but never the less it's ...
A. 7 December 2011: I don't believe in going back to an ex. There is usually a darn good reason for a break up and building/rebuilding trust is hard enough in a working relationship, but in a "re-stared" one it's REALLY hard.
My Mom always said, and I live by that,... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my sick ex, or go with my new love
Q. I am driving myself crazy and feel like I am tearing myself into two!! A few months back I left my ex because I had really strong feelings for another guy and felt I couldn't be with my ex because it wouldn't be fair on him and I really wanted to ...
A. 7 December 2011: I think you need to realize that the online guy is "fiction". 8 years and you guys have never met? It absolutely makes no sense to me. And for you to string him and the ex along for 8 whole years seems a little unfair to me, I'm wondering if it's ... (read in full...)
Fiance joking about me at work with female coworker, too much?
Q. Hello, I'm in a situation with my fiance, and he has a past for not doing the right thing. A few times this past year, he's gone to his ex to complain about his family issues (mom/dad/siblings) because I was sympathizing and trying to help him work...
A. 7 December 2011: I think you are a "fixer". When you hear about bad stuff, you want to FIX it. You need to learn how to just listen and let him vent. I honestly do the SAME thing you do, I want to FIX it all, sometimes though I know hubby just wants to bitch, so I ... (read in full...)
How do I prove to my friends that I am capable of getting a boyfriend?
Q. hello aunts! I have a small problem. I recently got out of a relationship with a guy that went to a different school than me. When we were going out, none of my friends believe he existed. There were rumors going around that i faked a boyfriend just ...
A. 7 December 2011: You don't need to prove a darn thing to anyone. Tell them to go fly a kite.... (read in full...)
I'm married, met someone online and thinking of going further. Will I regret it?
Q. Well I have been threw many ups and downs in my relationship . It was very long and ans stressful experience for,but my husband actually made a 360 degree improvement .So I should be happy right ? The truth is I don't really care .He did not care ...
A. 7 December 2011: Slut no, cheater yes.
If you are done with your husband and marriage - get a divorce before moving on to the next guy. Not just for the sake of your husband, but for your own sake and the sake of the guy you met.
An affair will not fix a darn t... (read in full...)
Would you be willing to be friends with a transgender?
Q. I suppose this is more a question than seeking advise but as a person that is transgender I am curious to know how people really view someone like me. I'm female born in a male body. I've never known anyone els like me and friends from my youth put ...
A. 7 December 2011: Wouldn't matter to me. I don't fully understand it, but there are many things I don't understand when it comes to human behavior.
If you are a good person I'm going to treat you like that, regardless of your gender.
Growing up I had a few gay ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend accuses me of cheating all the time, does this mean that he is likely to be cheating on me?
Q. Hi everyone this is more of a question really, my boyfriend is always accusing me of cheating even though I'm not, I've never cheated on anyone in my life. is it true what people say about the one that accuses you of cheating are usually the ones ...
A. 7 December 2011: It's not uncommon that "cheaters" accuse their (faithful) partners of cheating - a good defense is a good offense type deal.
Also it seems like he has some rather serious trust/insecurity issues.... (read in full...)
My partner couldn't be bothered that I miscarried our baby, and he's been busy texting his ex while I'm going through hell!
Q. Hi I've been with my partner for 3 half years. I was due to move on with him next month. In October I found out I was pregnant and was so happy. I'm 41 and my son has left home. My bf wasn't too keen at first but eventually began to get excited....
A. 7 December 2011: Sounds like he 1. didn't want to be a father, 2. is an uncaring a-hole. 3.Keeping in contact with the ex because it's easier then to deal with you and your feelings.
Sorry about the miscarriage.... (read in full...)
He called it "SPAM" I think he is cheating. Should I leave him?
Q. I need some help big time with my relationship! My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years!! Recently I have suspected him of cheating on me and its driving me insane! A few months ago I noticed that he wouldn't let his phone out of his s...
A. 7 December 2011: I agree if he doesn't know after 6 year if he wants to marry you, it isn't going to happen. IF he is a guy who believes in marriage.
In my opinion you decide that with in the first 1-2 years, though, my brother and his now wife have been together... (read in full...)
He called it "SPAM" I think he is cheating. Should I leave him?
Q. I need some help big time with my relationship! My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years!! Recently I have suspected him of cheating on me and its driving me insane! A few months ago I noticed that he wouldn't let his phone out of his s...
A. 7 December 2011: I think it's a good thing he hasn't asked you - it's just one less complication.
Besides 6 months is kinda fast to get engaged at your age. IMHO.... (read in full...)
Aske me home for a drink - What are his intentions?
Q. If a guy asks you to go to his place for a drink, is he only after one thing ?. He doesn't live comepletely on his own. He has housemates, but he does have his own room. He did ask me when i was going to be out around town again at first, but i said ...
A. 7 December 2011: If you don't really know him I wouldn't go home and have drinks. Now if he has asked you over for coffee it would seem more innocent ( not that it necessarily is).
Since you aren't really sure on the guy, I would just tell him no, but thanks.... (read in full...)
I'm starting to lose trust on my fiancée. She lived with a male roommate and when I visited her, her sofa smelt like sex!!
Q. Dear Cupid I'm becoming not to trust my bride. Tobe. She had a male roommate for about a year he recently moved from her home. Just a few blocks away I live farther distance. I. Viset her and her sofa smelled like sex.I got angrry and left after co...
A. 6 December 2011: Seriously?
I think you have some rather serious insecurity and trust issues you need to deal with asap.... (read in full...)
Is this how cheats normally behave?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend almost 5 years. She is 10 years younger than me. We go out,and without fail she chooses out a girl in the crowd and when we get home she has accused me of looking at her chosen girl all night or says we couldnt take ...
A. 6 December 2011: Some do, it's easier to accuse others then own your own actions.
Why are you with this drama llama?... (read in full...)
He called it "SPAM" I think he is cheating. Should I leave him?
Q. I need some help big time with my relationship! My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years!! Recently I have suspected him of cheating on me and its driving me insane! A few months ago I noticed that he wouldn't let his phone out of his s...
A. 6 December 2011: He might not be actually physically cheating but he has been emotionally cheating with that other girl.
He never explained himself? He never did anything to help you deal with it? So basically he told you to "get over it" and accept whatever... (read in full...)
Love of my life tells me I don't love you anymore and left me for someone else
Q. Hi There, Need some advise as I'm not sure really how to handle this or what to do. I was engaged to get married and last week my partner told me out of the blue she doesn't love me anymore has not done for a long time and has feeling for so...
A. 6 December 2011: It takes time to get over a broken heart. Take the time to do so. Cut the contact with her, don't call her, text her or check her Facebook whatever page either.
Be GLAD you found out now that she wasn't happy instead of after the wedding. She wasn... (read in full...)
My husband's family dislikes me and its making me want to leave the marriage
Q. hi - i would be so grateful for advice as I am at the stage of walking out on my husband. For nearly all of our 8 year marriage (and 3 years prior) his family (specifically his parents) have disliked me. To start with they were not overly obvious ...
A. 6 December 2011: Do you live near them? If not, then I would grow a thicker skin and ignore them. However, your husband's behavior is also really wrong - I don't think you can totally blame your depression on his family, but I can imagine being constantly belittled ... (read in full...)
My Dad hates body modification. Should I tell Dad or keep my new large tattoo a secret? My husband says to keep it to myself.
Q. hello, this is a bit of a trivial question but i'd like peoples opinions. Im a gothic girl and love tattoo's and piercings. My dad is a lot older then my mum, my dad is in his 70s and is very traditional, he hates beauty and body modifica...
A. 6 December 2011: It is something you feel a HUGE need to share with them? Personally I wouldn't. You know they don't like and approve of it, but it's your body and your choice, so why "flaunt" it in their faces?
... (read in full...)
I don't have much experience but I think I get more turned on by affection and romance. Should I tell my Bf how I feel?
Q. I'm with my first boyfriend and not very experienced. To me his penis looks really small when he is lying down and not erect, but his erection is a good size. He thinks me looking at him naked (without erection) should turn me on but I just find ...
A. 6 December 2011: Tell him what you need. Don't say your limp dick is NOT a turn on.. but tell him, what really turns me on is ... (insert explanation). If you need touch over visual, tell him.
I doubt there are many women who finds a non erect penis a total tu... (read in full...)
He's a great guy and he's dating trash
Q. Okay so there's this guy. I've had a crush on him for a while but then it turned into more of a brother/sister relationship. We still flirt and all but this isn't what this question is about. He just got into a relationship with absolute TRASH. She ...
A. 6 December 2011: Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Maybe HE likes her, her stuffed bra, bad make up and hygiene.
Maybe she has a killer personality and yea, it's none of your business.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my b/f about a random text I received from a guy who means nothing to me?
Q. hey I'm 26 and been with my boyfriend for 16 months. basically I received a really random text from a guy I know but not seen in years and we weren't close....just general at first...( I don't have his number so dsaid idnt know who it was at ...
A. 6 December 2011: I would - and I would show them to him as well. ... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 6 December 2011: Tell your mom, it's not like this is something you can hide. You need her help and support whatever the outcome.
... (read in full...)
Why do men focus so much on female orgasm?
Q. Why do men focus so much on female orgasm? My bf is insecure because he's only been able to make me orgasm twice orally in the 4 months we've been together and if I don't orgasm, he sees it as failure and it prevents him from being hard again to ...
A. 6 December 2011: I think most men wants to make sure the women gets "hers" too. And I agree with *Odds* that a guy might think if he keeps his woman satisfied she won't look elsewhere or get bored with the whole sex act.
No one likes to fail at anything. That wou... (read in full...)
I think I like her but I am not sure if she feels the same way. Should I play it cool?
Q. Hi, need some genuine advice. Me late 30s. Met a woman online, slightly older than me, we HAVE NOT been on a date, just met for coffee twice, after each time we said bye "keep in touch". We got along ok,(despite not having heaps of common i...
A. 6 December 2011: Pick a date (or two) and ask if they will suit her or ask her if she wants to go Christmas shopping or something.
She may not get your little hints :) ... (read in full...)
What's on this older guy's mind? Why doesn't he text me like he used to?
Q. Hi i'm really confused... There's a guy i've been texting for sometime now. We have an age gap of 9 years but i really like him. We used to text throughout the day. When we first met, i really thought everything went well because he did text and...
A. 6 December 2011: He is not over his ex.
You can't have a successful relationship by poking each other on Facebook and thru texting.
I would honestly back off, if he IS interested he will contact you.
... (read in full...)
He said I don't text enough. He accused me of seeing someone else. Not true. Now his texts are sporadic. What is going on?
Q. Hi everyone this is the story. I met this man in march he asked me out. I agreed. We saw each other maybe every two or three weeks. He lives six doors away from me. It has been like this since I have been patient with him, but it is starting to ...
A. 6 December 2011: He is being an ass wipe! Seems to me that he really isn't that into you. You have known him since March and only go out every 2-3 weeks? Seems more like a friendship then a budding relationship.
... (read in full...)
My LDR owes me money. He's coming to stay with me. How should we work out who'll pay for what while he's with me?
Q. My boyfriend works in another city and is coming to stay with me for 4 weeks on his holiday. He's coming to my place because he lives with his mom and I can't go there, and also I am not going to have time off until next year. He borrowed mon...
A. 6 December 2011: This is something the two of you need to figure out. I f you want him to pay half, then tell him, don't just assume that he will do so.... (read in full...)
I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 6 December 2011: I think your husband's armor is still pretty darn shiny from where I sit :)
If you wanted him to drive behind you the whole way, you should have told him.
Be glad to know that he has faith in you and your abilities.
Put on them big girl ... (read in full...)
Chronic ED for a guy in good health??
Q. Is it possible for a man to have a chronic erectile dysfunction, for 5 years,for psychological causes, what he does not know what are they? Its my husband, he is in perfect health, but we are unable to have sex,as he has no sexual desire, and when ...
A. 6 December 2011: There are many things that can lead to ED. Hormonal imbalance is much more common in women, but DO happen to guys to. Thyroid problems can lead to lower libido, low testosterone ditto.
I think he ought to go talk to his doctor, I don't think I ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my ex? Should I just get over her?
Q. Hi there, basically i'm in desperate need for some impartial advice as i am literally going out of my mind here. it's hard to take your own advice, so i need someone else to give me some, please. Me and my ex were together for over a year and ...
A. 5 December 2011: You two wasn't a match and the sooner you realize that and accept it, the sooner you can heal. I would suggest you keep the contact to a minimum with her though, the more you keep in touch the longer it will take to heal.
It wasn't a mistake ... (read in full...)
How many weeks/months should you wait before having sex?
Q. I have been browsing the site for an answer to: when is it best to have sex for the first time in a new relationship? Most replies were about the date number ...(1st to 5th etc.) but what I would really like to know is a time frame: how many ...
A. 5 December 2011: Depends on you. Personally, I would take a good long time to get to know the guy (a LOT more then 5 dates) more like 4-6 months. Because for me sex means a lot to me emotionally and I just won't be casual about it.
But someone else might do diffe... (read in full...)
Why do guys think it is ok to kiss women they have only just met?
Q. Am i strange, or do other people think the same as me ?. I hate it when i go out to bars and a guy who i have only just met expects me to kiss him, especially if he tries to force me to kiss him, by grabbing me or holding my face or something. And i ...
A. 5 December 2011: I think kissing a total stranger is a little odd and well, pointless. It makes you come across as "easy" and not in a good way.
I guess everyone have their level of how intimate they want to be and how fast.
Personally, I would remove a g... (read in full...)
Why do we want people who hurt us back in our lives?
Q. Here's something Ive always wondered, when we love somebody, and let's say they take off with someone else, cheat, etc. outside of feeling the anger, how come so many people are inclined to take the person back so quickly? and overlook the fact that ...
A. 5 December 2011: Well i think there are many reasons why people take others back.
1. They rather be with someone familiar (AKA Better the devil you know)
2. They are optimists and think things will be better. Love will cure all.
3. They can't accept defeat... (read in full...)
Should I sell her engagement ring?
Q. Me ard my partner were Engaged to get married next year last week she told me she does not love me and has not loved me for a long time. She doesn't want to make things work as she has feelings for someone else. Question is do I sell her engagment ...
A. 5 December 2011: I would. Selling can be part of the healing process for you to get over her, don't hang on to it and certainly don't keep it for the next girl .... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he hasn't let go of his wife!
Q. I have been with a man over a year now..he hasnt stopped with communicating with his ex wife..he hasnt stopped hacking into her email He has told me several times that he wishes she would move on but when she has a caller he turns into this ...
A. 5 December 2011: Wow, put the blame on the not-yet-exwife huh?
Can't you see he is a douche? IF he truly loved YOU and wanted to be with YOU he would have left her ages ago?
He isn't over her by a long shot.
Save your sanity and dump him. Tell him to look yo... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he hasn't let go of his wife!
Q. I have been with a man over a year now..he hasnt stopped with communicating with his ex wife..he hasnt stopped hacking into her email He has told me several times that he wishes she would move on but when she has a caller he turns into this ...
A. 5 December 2011: Wow, put the blame on the not-yet-exwife huh?
Can't you see he is a douche? IF he truly loved YOU and wanted to be with YOU he would have left her ages ago?
He isn't over her by a long shot.
Save your sanity and dump him. Tell him to look yo... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend to have orgasm through penetration?
Q. Alright:L So, I'm currently in the midst of my 2nd long-relationship. I'm not particularly experienced, having only been with 3 girls including my present girlfriend and was inquiring as to which positions/rhythms and how much staying power wo...
A. 5 December 2011: Honestly, I think you have a better chance at helping her orgasm if you don't try and make it into something akin to a science project.
Read up on G-spot though, but your best best is learning how to stimulate her clit while having sex.... (read in full...)
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