Found videos of my girlfriend on the internet...should I tell her I've seen them?
Q. I have been dating a girl for about 3 months and things are starting to get serious. We just started referring to each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. A few days ago, I was looking at an adult video site and noticed a newly uploaded video was ...
A. 26 April 2012: This is what happens when people communicate instead of guess:) I'm GLAD you talked with her and got to the bottom of this.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
Sleeping with my boss and dating a new guy
Q. hi i have been sleepin with my boss for around six months now but we made an agreement to keep it just sex cuz it wud never work. hes about 20 years older than me, very busy wudnt have time for me properly. i started to get attatchd so i get piss...
A. 7 January 2012: Your boss clearly don't care about you, he just wants sex. Pretty simple.
Time for you to figure out what and who YOU want.... (read in full...)
He won't come and say goodbye to me ....
Q. Dear Cupid I am leaving in 2 days out of state for few months for my work. It would be difficult for my bf to visit me once i leave, its very expensive. So i asked him to come and visit me once before i leave, i cannot visit him right now cause ...
A. 7 January 2012: I agree with CindyCares, if he is sick, why don't YOU take the train and see him? Ask some friends to help you pack whetever needs packing and go see him.... (read in full...)
I want to finish breaking up with him but it is so difficult!
Q. I find my boyfriend quite controlling and am trying to break up with him. Last weekend I went out with a girl friend and he was texting all night saying he missed me and then at 2:30 he phoned me when I was asleep, saying I should be with him and ...
A. 7 January 2012: Stop talking to him, stop reading his texts, stop replying to them. Basically, tell him, I'm done and then BE done.
Block his number, un-friend him from your FB, cut him out of your life and move on.... (read in full...)
I'm no longer the popular girl and I don't like it!
Q. Hello. I've had this big problem with some friends. I have always been that popular person and I'm happy with that. But recently this girl started getting popular and I got really jealous cause most of my friends would rather hang out with her...
A. 7 January 2012: Why can't you try and be friends with her too? ... (read in full...)
Told my married man who was deciding between me and his wife that I wasn't playing second fiddle, not sure I did the right thing!
Q. i have been working with this married man for 4 years everyone at work including him has told me that he really liked me, i asked hes best friend to tell him to leave me alone,as i knew he was married as the years went on we became really good ...
A. 7 January 2012: Only you can say if you did the right thing or not, what I just don't understand is that you seem to have absolutely no moral scruples "dating" a married man.. Why do you think it's OK?
And why would you even WANT to be with a man who doesn't ... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend just can't seem to have sex!
Q. i have tried to have sex twice with my boyfriend but every time, it really hurts and he makes me bleed. the first time we tried it, it didn't get very far in and i started bleeding. the second time which was two days ago he put it all the way in but ...
A. 7 January 2012: I would suggest a Gyno visit. And stick with non-penetration sex for now.... (read in full...)
Would you read your partner's diary if they accidently left it out?
Q. If your significant other left a notebook or journal at your place by accident, would you read it? Do you think you could resist, or would curiosity get the best of you?...
A. 7 January 2012: Nope wouldn't do it.... (read in full...)
I'm having second thoughts about meeting this online guy
Q. Hi guys, so i have a bit of a dilemma. well i met this guy online about 5 months ago now. and we've been in constant contact and been getting on really well and so far really like each other. we havent been able to meet because he lives quite a...
A. 7 January 2012: I would break it off now, before you meet up and possibly get more involved. ... (read in full...)
Wife looses interest while having sex
Q. my wife is behaving a bit strange. since last 3 months we are trying baby and now while having sex she doesnt enjoy it a bit. we tried many new things, having it in different places around the house, going away on weekend to stay overnight etc etc. ...
A. 6 January 2012: Talk to her, maybe sex feels like a chore.
I would actually take a total break from sex 2-4 week, no sex.
That should get ya both back in the mood.... (read in full...)
Why does he choke me or restrain me during sex?
Q. The guy im having sex with will start to choke me or pin me down right before im going to orgasim. if i push his hand away from my neck or move away from his hold he will stop and hold back for a bit. then it starts all over again. he wont let me ...
A. 6 January 2012: I'm with Chigirl, WHY are you letting him? Heck that guy wouldn't get another roll in the hay with me.
Down right sick.... (read in full...)
Why are people extremely against abortion?
Q. abortion is accepted in society now, its not an illegal act and a majority of people worldwide have had it. i understand that there are extreme ethical and social issues, and dont get me wrong, i dont aprove it, i would hate to kill a precious ...
A. 6 January 2012: Because it's not THEM going through the pregnancy. Because to some babies are all rainbow and happy unicorns.
I'm pro- choice for sure. I couldn't do it myself (only in an extreme situation) but I do believe there would be a lot less neglecte... (read in full...)
Why does he talk about his ex all time????
Q. I have been dating a guy for 4 months... were both in our 40's and have adult children from our previous marriages. His 24 old daughter is very demanding... he runs every time she wines about something... which is daily... she doesnt get along with ...
A. 6 January 2012: In my humble opinion and man who can do nothing but talk trash of his ex, doesn't own his own actions and is always blaming the ex for whatever bad happened. They also tend to not "get" women in general.
I told my husband a long time ago that I'm... (read in full...)
"I'm Not Your Trophy Girl".
Q. I have been talking with this guy for the past 3 months. He wants me 2 Be HIS WOMAN.BUT i havent really said yes 2 him. THIS IS WHY... We Talk alot on the phone. I Told him im pretty much a"Jeans and T-Shirt " laid back kinda woman.He tells me if ...
A. 6 January 2012: He sounds dumb as a rock.
I'm just wondering why YOU are actually listening to him.... (read in full...)
My mom will not help. How old do I need to be to get birth control without a parents permission and without prescription?
Q. I was just curious about how old i have to be to get birth control without a parents permission or without prescription. I'm 14 now, and i know i shouldn't be on it now, but it's not what you think. I have horrible cramps to the point that i stay ...
A. 6 January 2012: You need to see your doctor or even better a gynecologist. I agree the Pill is not the only fix for cramps. And for many 14 IS too young for it. Midol, Pemberin and something as simple as a Ibuprofen or a hot bottle. Also plenty of water and ... (read in full...)
How can I stop making a fool of myself with this guy I had a fling with a while back?
Q. I had a gay guy fling back in 1997. At that time I didn't know what I wanted. But recently I got in touch with this guy through fb... I can't figure him out, he will not answer my texts nor take my phone calls. Yet he had the cheek to send two...
A. 6 January 2012: You know what to do, delete him from FB and block his number. I'm guessing he is in a relationship right now and is toying with you.
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I love him. Want to be with him. But how do I stop him from getting so mad at so much I do?
Q. Dear cupid, My and my boyfriend have been togther for one year... And hes my life and i love him very much. But there has beeb such a big problem for a long time, he gets mad at almost everything i do, wearing the wrong cloths, even having lint...
A. 6 January 2012: Sorry he will not change, he is quite happy with who he is. He wants YOU to change, he wants YOU to be controlled.
Sound toxic and unhealthy.
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Are a drunk man's words a sober man's thoughts?
Q. Hi all is this saying true a drunk mans words are a sober mans thoughts I was wondering because when my fwb is drunk he says things to me loving boyfriendy things and when he is sober he is different still cuddly but he doesn't say these things I ...
A. 6 January 2012: I agree with Cerberus.
Ask what he means next time he gets drunk and lovey dovey.... (read in full...)
Should I confront my ex about what she said or let it go?
Q. Hi everyone, my girlfriend and I broke up about 1 month ago now, we broke up because she didn't feel the same way. She had sent me a text that was meant to go to her ex saying that she was glad when I wasn't around the day before though. But today I ...
A. 6 January 2012: Let it go. She is obviously angling for sympathy from her ex, saying whatever comes to mind.
It's not going to "fix" anything and honestly if that is HOW she felt, then that is how she felt. You can't change that by confronting her. Instead ... (read in full...)
This new guy is different. I like him so much. But why can't I stop sexual texting and flirting with all the other guys, still?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together about a month now and I have started to really care about him but I dont want to hurt him. Before I met him I use to talk to a lot of other guys some I just flirted with but other I use to text sexual thin...
A. 6 January 2012: You know a lot of people calls sexting cheating? And in my book it is too.
You seem a little insecure or immature. Maybe you need to figure out WHY you can't "help" yourself.
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Why do I stay even after he's been guilty so many times?
Q. I am an attractive, young hearted, full of life woman. I've never had any problems with finding a man, but for the last 3 years, I have been in a very disfunctional relationship. We've both made huge mistakes that have damaged the relationship, ...
A. 5 January 2012: Sorry, honey he is NOT going to change or be the man you want him to be, why drag it out?
I understand the being mad at yourself more then him, but you have to realize that you are not MAKING him do what he does. HE is in change of his own acti... (read in full...)
Boyfriend cheating with S and M mistress?
Q. My boyfriend is into S and M (bondage) He doesn't want to do it with me because he thinks I'm only doing it to please him. Our sex is not great. He complains that he cant get into it because the S and M is what turns him on the most. He is meet...
A. 5 January 2012: I think it is cheating, and I think you only gave him your "permission" because you want to keep him. You are obviously not OK with it, and you need to talk to him.
Personally, I would let him go, you two are not very well matched when it comes... (read in full...)
I need someone to help me control my resentment toward my husband's ex. She's taught their daughter to want everything!
Q. Hi "b I need help I.just got married with my husband who.has a daughter that is seven I love that lil girl bit the mom I just don't know what to say! in first place they live in Mexico we send money every two weeks and before the two weeks are over...
A. 5 January 2012: I would suggest that your husband get a court order agreement set in place with a SET amount of $$ per month, and if the child indeed need something he can CHOOSE to help out.
As for the child, she is a kid and have no idea what things cost and... (read in full...)
Confused, but wanting to love.
Q. I met this girl at a party and I kissed her in my drunkeness, among a few other girls. I found her interesting and got her facebook details I added her and we started to chat. After weeks of chatting online noticing we get along really well and ...
A. 5 January 2012: She isn't ready, so either let her go or keep taking it slow. Having sex with her so she might commit is just not right.
I think you have become a friend-zone guy, which means.. she isn't that into you :(
And she certainly isn't over the "... (read in full...)
I cheated and not sure if she can/will take me back! Adivce?
Q. I cheated twice with hookers she found it on my laptop i admitted it she stayed with me but now 3 months later she says its over. I love her more than anything and cant believe wat a fool i have been she is beautiful and really loved me i know i ...
A. 5 January 2012: You seem to promise a lot, but you actions don't match your words.
You need to respect the fact that she doesn't trust you any further then she can throw you, and, if she says she wants space and DON'T want a relationship with you, she most lik... (read in full...)
Any advice on dealing with rejection? And how to hold out hope that one day I will find someone?
Q. I'm feeling a bit sad about the possibility of being rejected by someone who I was convinced that was interested in me. I posted a question on here asking if people agreed with me that the fact that he has not replied to a message I sent him mean...
A. 5 January 2012: How do you deal with it? Know that you put yourself out there and dodged a bullet. He could have faked interest and used you, he could be talking to you out of pity, boredom, he could be married.. It could always be worse..
Some times you have to ... (read in full...)
My ex is spreading rumours that I'm stalking him and it's ruining my reputation! Will this blow over?
Q. my ex is spreading around that im stalking him! His saying i drive by his house (yeah i have gone past he lives on the main street of the town!) he says i go out in the only club in my town because his there (the ONLY club!!) iv been told his seen ...
A. 5 January 2012: Ignore it, the more he gets you upset, the more he "wins". If someone tells you he said that, laugh and ask them why on Earth you would waste any more time on that loser...
People will talk no matter what. Let it roll of your back, sooner or later... (read in full...)
My ex was sending very lewd texts to me but denies it....Did I handle this the right way?
Q. Hi everyone. Over my school's winter break, an ex of mine started texting me. Our relationship didn't end on good terms, and I didn't text back. He started sending sexual texts, each increasing in lewdness. After recieving a few of these, I texted ...
A. 5 January 2012: Block his number if you can. If he (and you) are in the 13-15 age group) TELL your parents and go from there.
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I cooked a special dinner for my boyfriend but he spent the entire time on the phone with another girl! Am I right to be mad about this?
Q. My boyfriend of one year is from another country and talks from time to time about foods he misses that aren't common here. Thinking I would surprise him, I went out of my way to make a dish he had been reminiscing about. Since I'd never tasted it ...
A. 5 January 2012: Yea I would have locked the door behind him. That is disrespectful to the max.
You do not TEXT or talk on the phone over dinner, at the check out, while driving...
He doesn't sound like a winner to me.... (read in full...)
Thinking of moving abroad for a few months....how will this work when I have a son?
Q. Hi all, I wasn't too sure were to place this question but I like all of your advice so thought I'd ask it today. In the next few months I'm being made redundant and I've been seriously thinking about trying for a 12 month visa for america(...
A. 5 January 2012: I agree with CaringGuy talk to the Embassy.
3 month seem like a waste of time though (IMHO) Considering all the hoops you will have to go thought with medical insurance, school, job, place to stay and so forth.
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Found videos of my girlfriend on the internet...should I tell her I've seen them?
Q. I have been dating a girl for about 3 months and things are starting to get serious. We just started referring to each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. A few days ago, I was looking at an adult video site and noticed a newly uploaded video was ...
A. 5 January 2012: I would tell her. She obviously isn't going to be mad that you surfed porn so you have nothing to hide. She might not even know they are out there, so yea, tell her.
My husband's ex sold some dirty picture the two of them made when they were tog... (read in full...)
How do you deal with people you cant trust?
Q. How should one deal with people who you can't trust? I know this one guy that keeps saying things that I later find out aren't true. He comes up with excuses that can easily be seen through, and I know it isn't correct. When confronting him he gets ...
A. 5 January 2012: I cut them out of my life. I had throughout college a really good friend (or so I thought) when she stabbed me in the back twice (first time I thought she wasn't aware) but second time my eyes were wide open. She still try and be "friendly" 20+ ... (read in full...)
My Mum's a tacky dating tramp all over Facebook. Help!
Q. My mum's using the fb date site and she adding all these guys for friends and flirting with them. I want her to stop because it shows up on fb to everybody thats her friends and some of them are my friends and relatives. She's acting like a slut and ...
A. 5 January 2012: I agree with Tisha! Well put.
And I'm sorry you Mom is acting like this. ... (read in full...)
Are we ready for a threesome?
Q. Hi! Want to know if you think we are ready for a threesome. We have been married for 6 years and have children. We both come from a conservative Middle Eastern background, we are not fully liberal but both are relatively open minded. W...
A. 5 January 2012: Stick to roleplaying. And honestly, this is YOUR fantasy, not hers.
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His crazy ex endlessly contacts him and now knows our address, and sent him a card, what should I do?
Q. Hi aunts... I need some help. My boyfriend of two years had a very mentally unstable girlfriend about 6 years ago. He still cares about her and wants to help her be happy, but they aren't talking atm because she is inappropriate when it comes to...
A. 5 January 2012: Honestly, I would tell him to shit or get off the pot. She is obviously not good for the relationship and I can not SEE what he gets out of the contact either, other then stress.
Either he sorts her out or I would walk. I have dealt with 2 odd ex... (read in full...)
What was he after and why did he pursue me for so long?
Q. I met with this guy about 4 times. We also kept in touch by phoning and texting each other. He agreed to taking things slow with me and insisted that he wasn't after me for just sex. After our date he invited me to his place. We were both drunk and ...
A. 4 January 2012: Seems like you need to learn how to say no, or better Hell no!
He seems rather odd and honestly, I would stay FAR FAR away from him. He is a creep that doesn't respect your verbal wishes. He thinks no means yes.
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Wife doesn't want to get rid of pictures of her ex. Am I being unreasonable?
Q. We're only married 6 months and already we have an 'issue'. When my wife and I got serious and started talking about getting engaged, we both deleted 'exs' from our facebook accounts, deleted them from our contacts in our phones. I even threw out ...
A. 4 January 2012: I think you are over reacting big time. They are in a photo album, not on her computer or on the walls. It's part of her history.
Let it go and stop being petty.... (read in full...)
Sex turned into love with my boss 20 years older than me
Q. im 20 i started texting my boss after a few months of working for him, hes 20 years older than me and things started to get steamy he wanted things to move on but i wouldnt because of the age the whole work thing. but we kept.texting then i agreed ...
A. 2 January 2012: End the relationship or whatever it is. He isn't going to want anything but sex from you. So, stop the texting, slow sleeping with him. Remove yourself as much as you can from him. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about something going horribly wrong the first time we have sex
Q. I was wondering how to prepare for losing my virginity. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17 and he is a virgin also. We both want to have sex, he's just a little more confident about it. I'm scared that something is going to go horribly wrong. So what are ...
A. 2 January 2012: 1. Don't do it in a car or somewhere nasty.
2. make SURE he wears a condom - and knows how to put it on right.(and you might even consider going on the pill beforehand)
3. go slow, take the time to explore each other.... (read in full...)
Should I go out with a girl who isn't a Christian?
Q. Dear Cupids, I am a very strong Believer and follower of Jesus Christ (in other words, I'm a Christian) and I think I'm in love with a girl that isn't Christian. Is this alright? Should I go for this girl and ask her out? Sincerely, ...
A. 2 January 2012: If you can accept that she doesn't have the same belief as you and doesn't live in the same way, then sure go out with her.
If you think you will make her see the "light" so she can be your perfect mate, then no.
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Pregnant to my married ex lover!
Q. Hi I had been having an affair with a married man for nearly two years when it came to an abrupt end 6 weeks ago when his wife caught him on the phone to me. We have not spoken since however we did work at the same company and he got me dismissed...
A. 2 January 2012: He surely has financial responsibility toward the baby, but you can't "make" him the daddy in any other way. I'm sorry you got pregnant with a man who cared so little for you and so little for his wife's feelings. I would make sure you keep his... (read in full...)
How do I stop crushing on him?
Q. How do I stop crushing on someone I have to see and work with everyday. The other night we were at a sleepover. He started sleeping by my side, holding on to me. At sometime during the night, I realized he had his back to me and was making out with...
A. 19 December 2011: Well, honestly I don't see why you even have a crush on this guy, none of his actions (that you have mentioned) seems like the kinda guy a girl would WANT to crush on.
He seems like a total horn-dog ( a guy who will sleep/make out) with anyone a... (read in full...)
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