Going to his house to do oral...does he like me?
Q. Hi um recently I've been talking with this guy and he is in my science class. I've known him for two years now and were friends. Not close but were friends. And recently we've gotten much closer than ever. It started over Christmas break. He texted ...
A. 24 January 2012: Honey, please read the answers from Miamine & ChaliceODamnation and I mean REALLY read them, because they both hit the nail on the head.
Sex isn't like playing tag or Nintendo. And yes ORAL is SEX, whether you like it or not.
The guy wants... (read in full...)
I want to end the friendship with this obsessive, controlling girl.
Q. I have a friend (im 15 btw) (N) that I no longer wish to be friends with. Heres why: me, N, and my best friend (B) used to be good friends, but B and N fought a lot. It was mostly about stupid things, but many of them had to do with N feeling like B ...
A. 24 January 2012: I think YOU are not being a very good friend to N either. You need to "man" up and tell her that you feel you two have grown apart.
From what you wrote, you actually comes off as creating a drama with B, just to make N upset. I could be wrong, b... (read in full...)
The new wife acts up in front of the child!
Q. Im having major trouble from my exhusbands 6th (and current) wife. My child tells me that everytime my child visits, its a none stop picking and fighting with my ex and his wife. My child feels uncomfortable being there. Well thro out their marriage ...
A. 24 January 2012: Talk to your Ex and tell him how the "new" wife makes you child feel. I would tell him flat out that I have no intentions of letting my child be verbally abused by anyone, least of all his wife.
You need to talk to him calmly, this needs to be ni... (read in full...)
I am on my way out the door and about to separate from my wife!
Q. This will be a long post and I would like honest comments to each point. I am on my way out the door and about to separate. I want to break down the problems so I can improve myself. I'll start with some things that have bothered my wife: -...
A. 24 January 2012: End it now. Why keep putting yourselves thru this? I highly doubt it can be fixed as you are both so sure you are 100% in the right.
Get out, move on, live life.... (read in full...)
I want to stop obsessing over my husband's female friend!
Q. I would like to stop obsessing over my husbands friend that I have mentioned in other postings. I don't want this to be an issue anymore. I just really do not like her or think she is good for our family. Please, anyone, any suggestions????...
A. 23 January 2012: Have as little contact with her as possible?... (read in full...)
How do I keep things casual in a message?
Q. I sent a message to this guy that i like on friday night on facebook asking if he'd like me to go to his place the next day. he sent me a message back today saying " i can't believe this !. i only use the internet on weekdays, 9-5 ". I'm guessing he ...
A. 23 January 2012: Yes, that sounds like a just fine and casual answer/reply.
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Am I right in wanting more time?
Q. I have been seeing my gf for 10 months now and it has now become apparent that she wants me to decide pretty shortly if I want it to be a lifelong commitment ie marriage and kids. Or not = end of relationship. We have lived together for around 6 ...
A. 23 January 2012: Honestly, I would say that 2 year is kind of the timeline to figure out if the person you are with is someone you want to be married to or not, 10 months is (IMHO) too soon.
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Can I wear black to a wedding?
Q. HELP NEEDED!!! I know this has nothing to do with relationships but all input wanted!! My cousin gets married in April...and from my direct family (mum, dad, brother) im the one who has to attend the whole day (as in ceremony at church and party...
A. 23 January 2012: If you don't want to wear black you could go with a dark green or navy, but personally I think black is fine for any occasion.
It's usually safer to dress up then down for weddings :)
What does the invitation say? Formal/semi-form... (read in full...)
Should I be upset and jealous over his remarks??
Q. I was watching TV with my boyfriend and Faith Hill came on for a moment. This is what he said.... "Mmmm Faith Hill is a scrumptious treat. I want to eat her up. She is sooooooo fucking hot!!!" I got upset and we had a huge argument about it...
A. 23 January 2012: How ridiculous!For him to say that he wants her MORE then you is the dumbest thing ever.
He sounds like an immature dumbass, honestly.
First off, Faith Hill is happily married and would most likely never meet your BF or if she did have nothing... (read in full...)
How can I stop cum leaking out after sex?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but there is this thing thats been annoying me for some time now... Whenever my boyfriend cums in me after sex, it never like stays in me? whenever I stand up I can feel it leak out, especially ...
A. 23 January 2012: Even if you are on BC, you really should use a condom, BC pill doesn't prevent STD's, condoms can. BC pill can fail, if you have sever diarrhea, get antibiotics. It's never 100%. Using both is just smart.
I can't see why it's awkward, there is... (read in full...)
Why do people think it's wrong of me to not date within my own race?
Q. I've had people telling me that I cant "like" other people from different cultural/racial background. I don't understand why because as far as I'm concerned getting to know the individual is far more important. E.g The guy I like is mixed race (ha...
A. 22 January 2012: Love is more then skin deep. Date whom your heart, mind and soul wants to date and screw the comments.
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Do I give up on me orgasming so he can? My Boyfriend says I Squeeze too Much, too Early during Sex :(
Q. OK, so here's my problem. My boyfriend says I squeeze my vagina too much too early during sex. All I'm doing is involuntarily starting to have a orgasm, which happens multiple times during sex IF i'm enjoying it. But he won't let me! He tol...
A. 22 January 2012: Oh no! Don't stop it or try and stop it, if he can't handle that.... He can't really handle sex with a woman.
I haven't been with a lot of men but I have only heard good thing about the squeezing.
If he goes limp, that is on him.. Maybe that... (read in full...)
Should I go to Paris alone?
Q. My parents have offered me an amazing deal, but i'm not sure if I should do it.. They asked if I wanted to go to paris for the weekend by myself, as an independent experience and to see Paris as i've always talked about. Sure it'd be incredible an...
A. 22 January 2012: I'm not really one for travelling alone, but I think if you plan ahead it can be quite an experience.
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How can I stop cum leaking out after sex?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but there is this thing thats been annoying me for some time now... Whenever my boyfriend cums in me after sex, it never like stays in me? whenever I stand up I can feel it leak out, especially ...
A. 22 January 2012: Use a condom. At your age that would be the smartest anyhow.
Where do you think it would go otherwise?
And no, you can't expect the laws of gravity to exempt you.
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What is this older man thinking?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts. What conclusions can be made from this? I'd been seeing a 27 year old for a while. I had only just recently turned 18. I decided to take things veryy slowly with this man as I wasn't too happy with the age gap, but sadly began to f...
A. 22 January 2012: Ewww what a mega creep!
Stay away from him, ignore his texts and calls. Block his # if you can and move on, STAY AWAY from guys like him. He is trying to groom 15 year old? How disgusting.
There is nothing in what you wrote about him that m... (read in full...)
He's divorced but I found out he has a longterm gf! He's just contacted me and I am unsure how to deal with all this!
Q. Hi, I need some advice because my heart I think will rule my head. I was seeing this guy and things were ok, he told me was divorced and just wanting to keep things casual, I was disappointed but truthfully I was flattered that this guy was inte...
A. 20 January 2012: I wouldn't waste another minute with this guy.
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What makes a girl a "safe bet"?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says you are 'a safe bet' ???????...
A. 20 January 2012: Can mean several things, but mostly, that you are going to sleep with them at the end of the night.
But it can have other meanings too, depend on the situation.... (read in full...)
What are girl's erect penis shape fantasies?
Q. I Always wonder what erect penis shape makes girls more horny when they look at it (upward , downward or straight) ? and why? what shape of erect penis(upward , downward or straight) do you girls imagine in your fantaces? PLEASE answ...
A. 20 January 2012: I have to agree with the rest of the ladies, I'm not "awed" but the look of a penis, erect or not. It's not a instant turn on to see one.
Knowing that the guy you are with is affected by me is a much greater turn on.
It's the GUY who comes wi... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to be angry with him?
Q. I need to know if I have the right to be angry. Whats Happened: I was supposed to be going my boyfriend's this weekend to spend some time with him. Friday I would go to his, Saturday we would go bowling with friends and then back to his and the...
A. 20 January 2012: I would be angry that he changes plans on you like that and more angry that he lied (said he was painting his room but had friends over instead) to me it shows little regards for you and little inclination to wanting to spend time with you.
I thi... (read in full...)
Is he only looking for sex?
Q. I ve been talking to a guy on the phone and through text for over a month. We decided to meet soon and he often mentions he cant wait to hug and kiss me. I asked him exactly what hes looking for and he said for u to be good friends that hang out and ...
A. 20 January 2012: No, it doesn't sound like he is looking for FWB.
But once you meet up I guess you will have to figure out if his words matches his actions.
Taking it slow is never a bad idea.... (read in full...)
Multiple issues here. Help!!!
Q. A lot of help needed on this. Ok so I'm in a relationship with this girl who I will call X. Well X is quite young 18 to be precise. Now X and I have been dating for around 9 months, where she's known me and helped my out through my ex and was al...
A. 20 January 2012: Nothing wrong in getting turned on by the fact that your GF is turned on by you. Dressed or not. Most people don't need to "see" a naked body to get turned on.
As for being good or bad with sex, well practise makes perfect.... (read in full...)
I saw him kissing another girl before he kissed me
Q. Really could do with advice, so please be honest guys and tell me what you really think of the situation. I've tried to put it as short as I can, so it doesn't sound like an essay of a story.. This guy I met in a bar just over two weeks ago, we've...
A. 20 January 2012: I think you should tell him what you saw and that it hurt your feelings.
I'd take a good hard look at his actions overall. To me it seems like he isn't looking for a GF but for a "good time - girl".... (read in full...)
Am I Playing Hard To Get?
Q. A guy I went out with twice texted me on the fourth day saying he had fun but he'll be out of town on business during the week. He asked to see me on the following weekend but we didn't say when, what time, etc. There was no other contact during ...
A. 20 January 2012: I would have been "busy" too, washing my hair or some such.. *just kidding* I don't think he can have any expectations of you just holding your entire weekend open "just in case" he wants to do something, but I do agree with Tisha you could have ... (read in full...)
Multiple issues here. Help!!!
Q. A lot of help needed on this. Ok so I'm in a relationship with this girl who I will call X. Well X is quite young 18 to be precise. Now X and I have been dating for around 9 months, where she's known me and helped my out through my ex and was al...
A. 20 January 2012: OK, first off..
You two need to let the past be in the past. She is not YOUR ex and YOU are not her ex.
This is now, the ex's are in the past, let them stay there and their actions.
Next time she mention that she doesn't believe you love... (read in full...)
Career or women?!
Q. I'm about one third of the way through a one year postgraduate degree in science, and I'm really down about it at this stage. I only chose science initially for university because I was in a bad place at the end of high school and despite my real ...
A. 20 January 2012: I didn't follow my dream either, I did what was "expected" of me. I wanted to pursue arts, my parents wanted me to have a degree in (as they put it) something you can make a living doing. So I did. I got a degree in marketing (since I figured there ... (read in full...)
My wife wants kids and I don't!
Q. I'm 26 and married for 4 and a 1/2 years and my wife wants kids, but sometimes i don't. Yesterday we were in her friends home and i saw their kid energy all night and i thought to myself: "My GOd! I don't want kids, i dont want that hell! I dont ...
A. 20 January 2012: Honestly, that is something that should have been talked through and agreed on before marriage.
It might be you NEVER want to have kids, and that is OK. But you wife does, so maybe you two need to find out if you want to remain together, because ... (read in full...)
Why would someone cheat and then come up with excuses?
Q. Just out of curiosity I would like to hear other opinions on why someone would cheat on either a wife/husband or a live in BF/GF? and then come up with all kinds of excuses as to why they can't give the other person what it is they want IE; "i have ...
A. 20 January 2012: If they have to admit that they "failed" at being faithful, they have to won their own actions. Some people rather sweep in under the rug and polish their pedestal and lie their ass off..
Why?
Cause they are weak.... (read in full...)
Is he toying with my feelings?
Q. Hi everyone I have been in a fwb situation for 11 months now none of us planned for it to be this it just kinda happened anyway this is the problem I had a lot of family problems recently so I kept in touch texting him n that but I got a text back ...
A. 20 January 2012: I would honestly drop him and stop seeing him. If all he wants from you is sex (FWB) then it's none of his beeswax if you DO see other guys.
I think he wants YOU to only see him and he can do whatever he wants..
He has accused you of "cheating... (read in full...)
Am I to blame for getting dumped?
Q. I used to talk dirty with my very close guy friend P (read: sexting). We had a deal that it was just for fun and only talking and it wasnt gonna go anywhere. But one day we had a drunken makeout session. Soon after our friendship soured and we ...
A. 20 January 2012: Honestly, be glad he "dumped" you, he sounds like an immature tool.
1. learn from the mistakes you make, it's part of growing up. So in the future don't be sexting anyone for "fun", because someone will get hurt or hurt feeling and let's face it,... (read in full...)
Is he into me or what?
Q. I have fancied this guy at university for a year now and although we haven't talked much through the year, we went on a dinner date a couple of days ago. We got a bit drunk after dinner and I went back to his and we kissed and cuddled all nigh...
A. 18 January 2012: I think it's pretty obvious that he fancies you. Go on dates, get to know the guy. Have fun.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says the mark on his neck is a bruise. I say it's a love bite.
Q. Thanks in advance for your answers! Last night I noticed what looks like a lovebite on my boyfriends neck. When I mentioned it he said it must be a 'bruise'. Since when do love bites look like bruises? When I tried to bring it up again he got angry, ...
A. 18 January 2012: I would never "fake" concern, I would be mad. I bruise easily too, but the only bruises I have ever had on my neck were "love bites".
I wouldn't believe him for one minute that he doesn't know how he got it.
Sorry, you BF is a liar.... (read in full...)
When he crashed out and went to sleep I kissed him, now I'm not sure if he even was asleep....what should I do?
Q. My best male friend and I have been friends for about 3 years, and we're very close. We're college sophomores and we talk about school, parties, sex, orgasms, etc. -- we're really open with one another, which is great...and it's nice to have a guy ...
A. 18 January 2012: Don't worry about it. If you want more from him then being friends, maybe you need to decide if you are ready to tell him.
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I'm engaged, but still in love with my ex who has got back in touch and wants to see me! Help!
Q. I'm in love with and engaged to a wonderful man. He is everything and more that I've ever wanted in a partner. It would take me centuries to share how amazing he is and how he worships the ground that my children and I walk on. But there's a problem ...
A. 18 January 2012: The ex is part of your past, and honestly you need to decide what you want. You can't be engaged to one man and then claim you still love the ex, that is just not fair on your fiance.
You need to take those rose colored glasses of and take a g... (read in full...)
How close is too close?
Q. Hi Advice sought on how to handle a prospective 13 year old step daughter. She came to stay with us for the school holidays (nearly 5 weeks). It has been one of the most stressful times for me as she seems to have set up some kind of competit...
A. 18 January 2012: I get the "feeling icky" or "wanting to hurl" when you see her act like it, but I think she does for two reasons, 1 to show you that he is HER Dad and 2 she is insecure with everything else that has been going on with divorce, 2 homes and new ... (read in full...)
Can all women have squirting orgasms?
Q. I'm in my early 40's and my question is about squirting orgasms, which I have never had. I have had a vaginal orgasm only twice, both on my own. Most of my orgasms are clitoral and extremely satisfying. Do you think it is true that every woman...
A. 18 January 2012: No I don't think all women can do, and I know not all women want to as well.
IF you want to achieve more O's I would suggest you think about getting a G-shot.
http://thegshot.com/... (read in full...)
My chatroom guy keeps pulling me back in right when I think I've moved on. Help!
Q. well where to start. i met this guy online through a chatroom almost a year ago. at the time he was sleeping with someone, and i was properly single. we liked each other met and fell in love. however the problem is that we are of different ethnic ...
A. 17 January 2012: So stop contacting him, block him, delete him, ignore him. You can't make him care.
He's not pulling you back in, you are LETTING him. ... (read in full...)
We were planning to move in together and then he texted he didn't want to be in a relationship anymore!
Q. Hi Everyone, I've been in a relationship with this guy now for four months. We seem to understand each other from the very start. Our chemistry is like crazy when we are around one another. We fell in love pretty fast( too fast for me). He seem lik...
A. 17 January 2012: Well, be glad he didn't move in first before he decided he didn't want a relationship. That would have sucked more.
Block him number, let him go. He can't play with you and your emotions. Seems to me that he is just not wanting YOU to move on,... (read in full...)
He rings me every day but I'm getting mixed signals
Q. A guy friend of mine and I live far apart and have only met a couple of times. Initially, he was into me as a girlfriend, but I was on the fence about it (because we don't know one another very well in a physical space) and he had other issues that ...
A. 17 January 2012: Seems to me that he likes you, but not enough to date you seriously, yet he keeps you busy from pursuing someone more available?
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I went first but my friends didn't follow
Q. Yesturday i went with my 2 best friends that are twins to get friendship tattoos, turned out it was at the mans house. My friends didn't want to go first so i did. Our plan is to get all the same tattoo in the same spot, a Cherry blossom. So he goes ...
A. 17 January 2012: I agree 100% with Marieclaire - spot on!... (read in full...)
He wanted sex. I had my period. Finally I agreed to do it, as I was horny. But it all ended badly, with him freaking out. Was his reaction excessive disgust?
Q. This may gross some people out with I need some honest opinions... I have a fwb and we have sex on a regular basis. Well the other night he came over and I was on my period (a very light one) so I declined sex and just gave him head. Well the ...
A. 17 January 2012: What a total DOUCH-BAG! why are you wasting your time on him? and WHY are you letting someone like that walk all over you? Girl, grow some self respect!
Next time you are with a guy and you have your period, TELL him, if he still don't care, th... (read in full...)
He and his wife are separated but he's in no hurry to obtain a divorce
Q. I met a man 6 months ago. I knew he was still married. His wife left him after an injury a year and a half ago and is involved with another man. This has been the best 6 monthd of my life. I have been single for a couple of years with two young gi...
A. 17 January 2012: So he is still married. He may not live with her, but he is married, to HER.
Honestly, I would tell him to give me a call when he is free and single. I would NOT want to date a married man, even IF he isn't with her anymore. Married is married.... (read in full...)
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