If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 11 January 2012: http://psychology.about.com/od/nonverbalcommunication/tp/nonverbaltips.htm
Check out this link about non-verbal communication, maybe it can give you some tips?
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If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 10 January 2012: It's not yelling on my part just emphasizing - because this is important.
If you took it as yelling, my apologies.
Yes, you can look a pasing glance, 2-3 seconds, more then that and it starts to move into the creepy zone.... (read in full...)
If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 10 January 2012: If a guy wear really tight pants and you can obviously see "everything" - would I stare? No.
If a guy on a hot summer day takes his shirt off, would I stare? no. I would look a few second and then find something else to look at.
JUST because ... (read in full...)
If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 10 January 2012: If a guy wear really tight pants and you can obviously see "everything" - would I stare? No.
If a guy on a hot summer day takes his shirt off, would I stare? no. I would look a few second and then find something else to look at.
JUST because ... (read in full...)
Family members trying to get my kids taken away from me!
Q. Hi , i am 19 years old and I had 3 kids but my oldest son(6 years old) passed away. So I have a 2 year old son and a 7 month old daughter. And my daddy mother keeps bothering me and my family by calling DSS , cops , etc on us saying we live in a ...
A. 9 January 2012: It IS illegal for her to file false claims of "child abuse" or "imprisonment" with CPS. CPS gets quite ticked off b/c people like her are wasting what little time and resources they have to help children who ARE being abused with their own personal ... (read in full...)
I don't want to mess things up but I think he has gone to far with this comment to another woman....what should I do?
Q. Hi, my boyfriend is quite a private person or so i thought esp in facebook, we have been in relationship for 13months now,few months ago i found he skyped a woman and in there conversation ,she asked wht he was doing and he replied,nothing,horny in ...
A. 9 January 2012: Translation:
woman...want to be in a hot tub with a dougie.
(you want to be in a hot tub smoking pot/weed)
Him...i thought you would rather be in there with a willie.
(I thought you would rather be in there with a penis - aka HIS penis I wo... (read in full...)
Boy troubles! Do I tell the boy at school to get lost? And is there hope for me with the 19 year boy in the army? I like the army guy.
Q. Mod Note: two adjacent questions from same poster have been combined. I'm a freshman in high school and I'm having major "relationship" problems with this senior boy. I don't even know what's going on between us. The other day I was walking in the h...
A. 9 January 2012: No, no no, you are 14! You should not be dating a 19 year old. And not one who is enlisted, for now he will be moving around the country and possibly overseas and could even get deployed, all things that are HARD to cope with for an adult much more ... (read in full...)
Was I right to send him this text? He still hasn't responded and I'm devastated....
Q. So I've been dating someone for a while who treated me so well he was incredible. It felt like we were falling in love I noticed very positive changes in him. But then IMMEDIATELY after, he switched up. He started treating me so different I've been ...
A. 9 January 2012: The fact that he didn't reply is your answer, he isn't DENYING the accusation.
Delete him number and forget about him, he's a loser and he just LOST you.
I'm thinking he was giving you the brush off, to make you the "dumper".
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7 months of dating, boyfriend has no job, no income, doesn't seem to care
Q. Hello, i really would like some advice. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7 months and the whole time he has had no income and hasn’t been studying or attempting anything really. I have two jobs, looking for another, live away from home and am a ...
A. 9 January 2012: Seems to me you are more like his mother and gravy train then his GF. You fill out his applications too? With you "enabling" him why would he even WANT to go get a job?
Sorry, I would dump him, he needs to grow up! He is not going to change ... (read in full...)
Fiance's family treats me terribly and his never does anything about it
Q. I'm going to keep this simple. My problems with my fiance's family are on-going. One example of these problems occurred during one of his sister's birthday parties. She decided to call me a cunt for no reason. She humiliated me in front of her ...
A. 9 January 2012: If he can't stand up for you now, you really think he will once you wear a ring? Seems to me he takes THEIR side over yours, that doesn't bode well for the future.
Honestly, you need to stand up for yourself. Next time she talks trash - walk out... (read in full...)
He wants pictures of my private bits, what should I do?
Q. I talked to this guy once on the phone, i'm not sure how old he is, he is divorced and has a daughter that lives with his ex and he sees his daughter on the weekends. we chatted a little bit and he wants me to send pictures of my breasts and my ...
A. 9 January 2012: WHY? You don't even KNOW the guy and you want to send him pictures of your privates? Really?
You haven't even talked to him or met him in person - yet you are ready to share picture of yourself that you normally don't go around and show off to s... (read in full...)
I feel like he has only come back to hurt me and play with my emotions out of his anger to me for kicking him out my home whenever we argued
Q. my bf goes out about 8pm and says he wont be long he'll be home soon. his mum came to pick him up as he is on holiday a week off work so hes going to be using her car as his company van is back at his company where he works till he returns back to ...
A. 9 January 2012: You two have unresolved issues that stem back to before the break up, you can't just get back together and assume it's going to be all smooth sailing, if the issues haven't been addressed and worked through. Did he ever admit that what he did was ... (read in full...)
How do I answer his question? I don't know what he meant
Q. Hello, ok I was asked this question by a guy whoo recently got in contact and we have been messaging and he asked me this question and I was wondering if I can have some advise on what he's asking..ok the question is; are you inlove in life? Is he ...
A. 9 January 2012: Best way to figure this one out,ASK him. What did you mean but you question?
Pretty easy, even if you are shy.... (read in full...)
I love my wife, but lately I hate her! Will a divorce make me happy?
Q. I hate my wife more than I have ever hated another person! I also love her more than I have ever loved snother person! I have read that love and hate are the opposite sides of the same coin and that indifference is far more damning...
A. 9 January 2012: Maybe go for trial separation? It might give her a much needed wake up call and give you a chance to see if life without makes you happy.
I agree with tobson, could it be worse being single?... (read in full...)
Is there really someone out there for everyone?
Q. Do people actually always find someone.....? I'm 28 and am wondering if there really is someone out there for everyone. I have friends and am comfortable enough in a crowd but I just can't seem to meet anyone. Everyone keeps saying to be pat...
A. 9 January 2012: Yes, but if you sit at home hoping one will drop in your lap, you might get disappointed. :)
Go out be social, get a hobby, take a cooking class... Try new things and maybe you will meet new people.
And never settle, you will regret it.... (read in full...)
He's confusing me. Sure I have jealousy issues. First they were major to him, now not so much? But does he want me back now, or not?
Q. Hi I broke up about a year and the reason it happened was because i had jealousy issues and which made us fight, even though he did nothing to be jealous about , i used to be jealous of the past. He used to say it will only push him and it happened...
A. 9 January 2012: I think the best thing you can do (for you) is to tell him you need space to work on yourself. And let him go, let the past go.
I agree with Tisha and the retrograde jealousy. This is something you might want to consider finding a counselo... (read in full...)
What should I do? I love showing my body on Cam to other guys but I already have a boyfriend!
Q. I have an issue... I was just in chatroulette and pretty much showed myself half naked to some random people, and well.. i wonder if it's alright, i mean if it's a big deal.. if i should admit it, i actually love showing my body to others but the ...
A. 9 January 2012: So you like attention and the power your body has over guys, THAT is normal.
However, what you are doing is NOT smart and it's NOT OK when you are in a relationship. How did you feel when HE showed off his privates on web cam to total stranger... (read in full...)
Not really a relationship question, but is anyone else downright disgusted by feet?
Q. Really weird question, but I was wondering if there was anyone else out there like me. I guess you could say it is sort of a relationship question if you tilt your head sideways and squint... But I have a horrible aversion to feet. I don't wa...
A. 9 January 2012: Yeah Shadow, I can not do pedicures and honestly manicures makes me gag, mostly because I don't think the work spaces at nail salons are all that clean and the instruments.. well, they have touched other people.. and maybe their feet/toes.. ... (read in full...)
He's touching me and he's my boss! what should I do?
Q. My boss' boss and I have had this weird thing going and I need help! We've already told each other our attraction but he wrote to me that he likes me but can't do anything because of marriage, job, etc. I'm married as well and he started touching ...
A. 9 January 2012: Stop the little personal one-on-one conversations. If he tries to start one, tell him you have to go. Cut down the chatter to work related stuff.
Don't share anything with this guy. No poetry, no personal info. He is playing with fire and whenever... (read in full...)
Exes and Facebook etiquette!
Q. When should I return to facebook? My ex who has been deleted once then re-added (because I thought we were errrr ...friends??) has met someone else, and is in a relationship...facebook has noted this...lol!! I am kinda happy for him... but he was a ...
A. 9 January 2012: Honey, get on FB, delete HIM. He won't be upset. If he does ask you why just tell him, it's out of respect for him and his new girl and leave it at that.
Don't fret so much, you two are over, maybe part of moving on (for you) will be to hit that... (read in full...)
How can I get a guy to fall in love with me?
Q. how can i get a guy to fall in love with me, even when he says he likes me and other girls?...
A. 9 January 2012: You can't MAKE people fall in love with you. You can show them who you are. You can be yourself.
If you have to chase down a guy and try to "make" him like you, he most likely isn't that into you. So don't waste time on him.
If he says he... (read in full...)
Please offer suggestions to help me please my wife in bed.
Q. I have been married to my wife for 9 years and in that time I have only been able to make her orgasm during sex a handful of times. She doesn't feel comfortable with oral (giving or receiving). I can make her cum by rubbing her clit, but she sa...
A. 9 January 2012: Do you guys have kids? Cause it could be, that her muscles aren't what they used to be "down there".
Also, getting her a vibrator I think is a good idea, depending on what kind you got. A huge 9 inch is flipping scary for many women for instance... (read in full...)
He treated me like his doormat! Should I meet up with him again?
Q. I am in a huge emotional turmoil these days. I was in a serious relationship with this guy for almost a year and a half but soon things turned sour for the worse. We did LOVE each other A LOT. There was nothing left but fights and tears and most of ...
A. 9 January 2012: You already know the outcome, so why do it?
It really doesn't matter if you "think" he loves you or not, you should want better for YOURSELF. Don't be with someone because you think "better the devil I know" - no take the time to get to know a g... (read in full...)
I'm joining an expensive matchmaking service and need some encouragement!
Q. My relationship with my youngest child's father has been on the rocks for some years and I kept trying. Xmas I made it clear I was not happy and now what to move on. I have not allowed him to use me sexually for months.(does not take me out, does ...
A. 9 January 2012: Never settle.
When you go out on the dates:
- don't talk "I want to get married-talk" right of the bat.
- don't talk about the ex's in ad nauseum, they really don't want to know, they want to know you.
- don't get drunk.
- don't have... (read in full...)
Differences in views and clingy insecure boyfriend is driving me insane!
Q. I've been in a long distence relationship for almost 5 months now. He is a very nice guy. We get along. He makes me laugh. But sometimes If he's just with me because he's desperate. We met an a convention in the summer. at the convention he had his ...
A. 9 January 2012: Seems to me that you don't have the same "level" of feelings for him as he "claims" to have for you.
You say you sometimes "think" you love him, but is that because you think you SHOULD love him, since he is so into you?
I think he is an a... (read in full...)
There's an 8 year age difference, is that OK?
Q. Hi agony aunts, i need some advice on what to do with this older man I have been seeing. He is 25 yrs old (8 yr age gap, I'm 17) i have met him only a few times in the month and a half i have known him and other than that mostly keeping in touch ...
A. 9 January 2012: Honestly, I think he might be a little to "experienced" at 25 for a 17 year old girl.
You are still ( I know it sucks to hear) an adolescent, and he by all accounts is an adult.
If you sincerely care for him,, I hope you really take your time g... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to be having a relationship with my 19 year old relative? HIs Mom is my half sister
Q. Im asking for help im 28 years old and im having sex with my 19 year old nepheew. Is that wrong. we both love each other every much. his mother is my half sister (like it makes a diffence) and she knows and she doesn't approve of it what should i ...
A. 8 January 2012: Yeah and you know it's wrong too or you wouldn't be on here to ask.
You BOTH need to find people you aren't related to.... (read in full...)
What is a tactful way to introduce people without looking like a match-maker?
Q. I'm not sure if this is a problem or if I'm making a big deal out of nothing. I met a guy a few months ago via a social group that I joined when I moved. He was very warm, very kind, and later sent me a message from his personal email and that is ...
A. 8 January 2012: I think your plan to let her tag along next time is the right thing to do. Just ask him first if he minds if you bring a friend. Don't go into details, if they hit it off, good if not.. no loss.... (read in full...)
Gift of the Magi Gone Wrong
Q. Okay, this is a sort of late question but I've been hesitating. I didn't want to resort to this website but here it goes. My boyfriend and I love the story The Gift of Magi. It's a short story about a young married couple that struggles wi...
A. 8 January 2012: I too think you are totally OVERTHINKING it all, sorry but that makes the story lose meaning if you just plain "copy" it.
And I too would pay attention to his cues when out and about and plan accordingly. He might like certain music, headset ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my first cousin?
Q. MOD NOTE: In some parts of the world this is a crime. Hi all, I'm a 25 year old male and I have a female cousin who is 23 (our mothers are sisters). We have grown up together since we were babies. We're both single adults now, and in the past ...
A. 8 January 2012: Really? you both can't get laid any other way? I'm sorry if that is harsh, but really... there just something creepy about having sex in the family like that.
I think you are little too old to not know better.
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I'm soo confused, and I genuinely like this guy. So what am I to make of him for turning into a totally disrespectful drunk?
Q. Gonna try make this short but please someone help me here or give me some insight. I like this guy and we talk and text alot and always flirt...I stayed over at his flat on friday night (no sex) and we talked for hours and watched movies and we ha...
A. 8 January 2012: I would drop him like he's "not" hot~
Alcohol or not, he is an asshat.
The reason he told you he was looking for a NSA (no strings attached) girl that night was to see your reaction.
He seems like a really immature brat and honestly, this ... (read in full...)
Not really a relationship question, but is anyone else downright disgusted by feet?
Q. Really weird question, but I was wondering if there was anyone else out there like me. I guess you could say it is sort of a relationship question if you tilt your head sideways and squint... But I have a horrible aversion to feet. I don't wa...
A. 8 January 2012: I'm like you. I don't like feet at all or ears.. Same thing.
I actually RARELY wear socks ( flip flop girl lol) only in sneakers and boots do I wear socks. I would rater shoot myself (in the foot) then have a pedicure. *shivers*
It's not unco... (read in full...)
How do I impress him? Why did he stop flirting with me? And what do boys look for in a girl?
Q. i am 15 and I like this boy. he is smart intelligent and cute. he isnt a boy people would put me with but there is something about him. However, he has had this girl he likes in my friendship group for a few years and i think he still does. He give...
A. 8 January 2012: I agree, be who you are. That will impress people you meet in your life FAR more then pretending to be someone you are not.... (read in full...)
I don't feel aroused when he goes down on me! Is there something wrong with me?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are a sexually active couple, we have sex say about 2-3 times a week! the sex is great and everything, but the only problem is that i dont feel aroused when he goes down on me, neither do i orgasm when he does it too.. im not ...
A. 8 January 2012: I agree with Person 12345, some women just don't enjoy it. Personally, I'm not a fan of it. I get bored.
If you don't really enjoy it why not suggest something else? No one says you HAVE to receive oral to have a good sex life, mine is JUST fin... (read in full...)
He's touching me and he's my boss! what should I do?
Q. My boss' boss and I have had this weird thing going and I need help! We've already told each other our attraction but he wrote to me that he likes me but can't do anything because of marriage, job, etc. I'm married as well and he started touching ...
A. 8 January 2012: Moo is right.
Don't even go there. Tell him it has to stop. If he continues, tell someone, report him.
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If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 8 January 2012: It depends if that was the only thing he stared at. Did he follow the conversation or was he "hypnotized" by my chest?
You know what I mean?
You could talk to the girl and tell her, that you don't mean to be rude, but you have a habit of stari... (read in full...)
Should I cook for a girl on Valentine's if we're not officially Bf/Gf?
Q. Hey guys, Basically I know it's still quite a way from Valentine's day but i'm going to try and be organised for this :P I've been meeting up/dating(if you like) a girl for about 5 months now and we're basically going out together just without ...
A. 8 January 2012: I think it's sweet.
My friends and I used to have dinner on Valentine's, but only the single ones lol Great times!... (read in full...)
I've moved on , he hasnt... what should I do?
Q. Basically my boyfriend and i have been together for several years on and off. He left for New Zealand in october and i was just starting my first year at university. I'm 18 hes 22, and he has been away for 4 months and he is back in 2 months. We ...
A. 8 January 2012: You are ONLY 18, you have to live you life. Does he really expect that you sit on your hands while he is out thee doing his thing?
I think you need to figure out what you want and who you want. And stick with it.
You said it yourself, you an... (read in full...)
Unfaithful husband with problems. Should I keep trying to fix our marriage or just call it a lost cause?
Q. I have been married for 4 year with a beautiful son. I have found out my husband was having a affair with his ex friend's girlfriend and that he was using again. So christmas eve of 2010 he had broke up with me and for the past year we had argu...
A. 8 January 2012: I think that is totally up to you. I personally wouldn't. He has just crossed too many of the lines. My limits to what I will accept from a spouse, friend and strangers might be very different then your limits.
Only you can know if you can live... (read in full...)
My debaucherous past is ruining my present
Q. Hi, I have a bit of a bad history in terms of getting myself into stupid situations and doing bad things (to myself not others). I have just rekindled an old friendship that I was really happy about as I am trying to move on from my more d...
A. 8 January 2012: Putting the past behind you is a good thing and something you CAN tell others if they bring it up. However, you DID do these things in the past, they are part of who you were, not who your are now.
EVERYONE has done things they are not proud of... (read in full...)
Are men intimidated by smart women?
Q. Before i start rambling and telling the story behind my question..guess i should jump straight to it. Are men intimidated by smart women? So i'm 17, and not gettin into this whole subject, but i'm really close friends with a 35 year old that i'...
A. 8 January 2012: Yes, he doesn't like to feel inferior to a 17 year old. That is jsut THAT guy, not all men are like that.
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Is a 3 year age gap too much?
Q. Ive recently met a girl who i like. We havent done anything yet, but we get on really well and have been seeing each other a bit. Thing is though, there is a bit of an age gap. Im 20 and she is 17. Is that ok? Im from the UK and the legal age of ...
A. 8 January 2012: I think 17 and 20 is fine for the most part, just remember that she IS younger then you, even if she seems mature.
Take it slow, let your family and friends see that you really care about each other.
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How do I tell my fwb guy that I am pregnant?
Q. Hi everyone I really need your help I have just found out I'm pregnant by my fwb of 9 months I have asked him if we are gonna be together someday and he said yes but how am I gonna tell him I'm pregnant he has a daughter from a previous relationship ...
A. 8 January 2012:
The sooner the better, whether you decide to keep it or not. And honestly, I don't understand why people who have casual sex such as FWB don't use double protection.... (read in full...)
The elephant in the room wont go away
Q. I wrote several months ago about my husband's old secret destroying both a marraige and friendship. Friend turned out to be an uknown to me old lover who was trying to destroy my marraige over the years by saying nasty things. I was so called ...
A. 8 January 2012: Is the friend your hubby won't give up her or her husband? I'm not really sure who these friends are you want HIM to give up, if it's HER then I think it's fair enough to ask him to stop contact, if it's her husband, I can't see why your hubby and ... (read in full...)
Sleeping with my boss and dating a new guy
Q. hi i have been sleepin with my boss for around six months now but we made an agreement to keep it just sex cuz it wud never work. hes about 20 years older than me, very busy wudnt have time for me properly. i started to get attatchd so i get piss...
A. 7 January 2012: Your boss clearly don't care about you, he just wants sex. Pretty simple.
Time for you to figure out what and who YOU want.... (read in full...)
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