Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis if size doesn't matter?
Q. Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis (like bigger than they've ever had before) if size doesn't matter? Why did men evolve big penises (length and girth) compared to other primates if size doesn't matter?...
A. 26 May 2012: Why did men evolve big penises (length and girth) compared to other primates if size doesn't matter?
Genetic fluke? ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend brings my confidence down!
Q. My x bf and I still talk after 2 years of being broken up. Well recently I found out he got his 15 year old fiance pregnant when he's 19 and in the Army! So I decided to ask him about it because I saw pictures/status's from his friends and family on ...
A. 26 May 2012: Stop talking to him, block him, remove him from FB and your life and put him in the past where he belongs.
Not very smart for a 19 year old to knock up a 15 year old.
Thank your lucky star it wasn't you.... (read in full...)
Is he bailing out on me?
Q. Hello, I've known this guy along time. We had a great connection and began dating. We had a lot of fun together and I found myself developing some deep feelings for him. He explained early on he was "burnt" in a relationship years ago and aft...
A. 26 May 2012: I don't think he is bailing on you per say, but I think you just got put in the "friends zone".
So it's up to you if you want that or not, but you might want to move on.... (read in full...)
Drunk, hooker and emails to exes (
Q. Hi, I've engaged for 3 years, planning to married soon around this year. We have up and down relationship, as we have different culture (I'm Asian/Indonesian and he's an Australian), but so far, we're trying to get it through. 2days ago, i call...
A. 26 May 2012: Honestly I couldn't forgive this betrayal and the lies he tossed out to try and cover his ass.
Do you really think a ring on your finger will stop him from getting drunk and screwing other women? He can't even own up to hid own actions.
Seems t... (read in full...)
Does it ever happen that the guy falls for the girl who's been standing beside him all along?
Q. Hi, just wondering what are the possible outcomes for my situation here. This guy Josh is one of my closest ever friends..we tell each other absolutely everything, have helped each other through our hardest times (parents divorce, death). We had a ...
A. 26 May 2012: Well, I think since he is currently dating a FRIEND this is NOT the time to put it out there for him to see.
And I CERTAINLY wouldn't put the moves on him either. But I don't think I could give him dating advice for a while.
I would suggest yo... (read in full...)
If you love someone will you change for him?
Q. If someone expects you to change for him, is it love? If you love someone will you change for him? My boyfriend and I have been in disagreement recently. He expects me to understand his religion so that I can understand why he is a vegetarian a...
A. 26 May 2012: I would only change if it was something I could stand behind and that I would be comfortable with. Otherwise it would feel fake to me. You can't just pretend to be something you are not, at least not long tern and not with honesty.
For some rel... (read in full...)
B/f has a small penis. What sexual positions would be good?
Q. Hi everyone I have just started having sex with my new boyfriend but his penis is very small he is really good at other things but when he inserts it I cannot feel anything hardly what positions are good for making him feel deeper I'm not going to ...
A. 26 May 2012: Cow girl, spooning or doggy can work well.
I wouldn't tell him that it is because you feel he is on the small side.
And start working those Kegels.... (read in full...)
Do I tell him to get new swimming trunks?
Q. My best friend and I go swimming all the time. We have a great time and have lots of fun, the only problem is his swim trunks. He has worn the same pair for years. They are white and have a black pattern down the leg. This was fine when the were new ...
A. 26 May 2012: If it offense your sensibilities I would tell him, Hey, bro you DO know your swim trunks becomes kinda see through when wet, right?
Unless you rather keep enjoying the view.... (read in full...)
Complicated crush on a soldier
Q. I am 17 and I like my friend who is 21. He's in afghanistan right now and we've always kept contact sinc he's been in the service. I told him before he left that I was interested in him, but he said he wanted me to be 18 before we started to flirt ...
A. 26 May 2012: Seems like he is doing the RIGHT thing in waiting for you to turn 18.
Does it mean it will work out for you two? That is hard to say. Military life is not for everyone and keeping a relationship going while one partner is sent all over the plac... (read in full...)
Will I find someone who doesn't believe in sex before marriage?
Q. Hi, I am a Christian and I believe in no sex before marriage, however I don't know that I will ever find someone who feels the same and is also a virgin, are there any people like that out there??...
A. 26 May 2012: Maybe though your church or church activities you can find someone with the same values and morals as yourself.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get it right the first time?
Q. I am seventeen and a few months into my first real relationship. Everything about it seems more perfect than even the most sticky-sweet fairy tale could possibly imagine but it terrifies me to think of it being really serious because it seems ...
A. 26 May 2012: I'm pretty sure it's possible. IT may not be probable for everyone, but WHY not you two?
I think you should just enjoy it, be ready to work on it when needed and be honest with yourself and your partner.
I don't believe in Happily Ever Aft... (read in full...)
Is it common for an uninterested married man to get hit on in a bar?
Q. OMG I am married and I got hit on at a bar today. It felt awful plus I had to chug a really expensive, very very good beer! This has never happened to me before but I don't go to bars very much. Is this common, to hit on guys that are wearing...
A. 26 May 2012: Some women hone in on married guys. They think it's less "complicated", but who knows maybe she DIDN'T notice your ring and just found you interesting/attractive/safe.
I have gotten hit on in the grocery store a few weeks ago with 3 kids in tow..... (read in full...)
His penis is too big!!
Q. Im seeing this guy for a few months. He has 8 inches, and says that he is being very gentle with me. This one time we had sex it hurt so bad, that I had lingering pain for 6 days, took painkillers. He said that was going about half as hard as he ...
A. 26 May 2012: So sex ids ALL about HIS enjoyment? The fact that you are in pain, crying and CERTAINLY not enjoying SHOULD make a decent man STOP.
And honestly DO NOT dull your senses with alcohol so HE can enjoy himself.
I would personally, tell him to go F... (read in full...)
I told my husband I want to end the marriage and now he's acting all pitiful
Q. After being married for 12 years I've told my husband I can take it no more and I want out. He's been cheating which I found out and even after that I've put up for 3 years. We have 2 kids and I have been telling him since a year that I am not happy ...
A. 26 May 2012: Just start filing. That is what I would do.... (read in full...)
Should I ask my mom why she hates my boyfriend?
Q. Should i ask my mum why she hates my boyfriend? I’ve been him for 18 months however we were friends long before this, however she has never taken to him and is often rude to him and about him. She tells me not to get serious, accuses me of not ...
A. 25 May 2012: I would ask her.
It might be she is trying in an odd way to "spare" you or protect you, but it's not very helpful to you, so talk to her. She might not even be aware of how negative she comes across when the subject is your BF.... (read in full...)
Is it a turn off/negative thing for a male to be a virgin?
Q. Hello. Is there a limit on how long you should be a virgin? I'm a male, turning later this year. I've never had intercourse before! What worries me is if that will put off a potential partner down the road? I'm not sure if that's a negative ...
A. 25 May 2012: Not at all.
Personally, I find a guy who is very promiscuous a turn off. But not all women see it that way.
Either way, YOU are who you are, so be who you are. ... (read in full...)
A hook up from 3 years ago suddenly wants to see me. He just broke up with his girlfriend. Am I rebound?
Q. About three years ago (summer 2009), I hooked up with this guy who I thought could be more than just a friend (and it was a mutual feeling). We tried to make things work between us (sexy/ flirtatious texts), and logistically it never did/could ever ...
A. 25 May 2012: Yes, you could easily be a rebound or .. booty call.
Now if you two hang out and do NOT have sex and see where it go, if he SERIOUSLY want to be with you he can wait for sex.
BUT if you don't feel you are in the same place in life, maybe he i... (read in full...)
I don't want to have sex anymore with my boyfriend!
Q. i have been with my partner for over 3 years. basicly on and off. ive noticed that i dont want to have sex with him, i dont get in the mood. while on the other hand hes always on me wanting to have sex. when he kisses me and caress me it doesnt ...
A. 25 May 2012: How is the sex? Part from no orgasms in 3 years?
I think you need to find out how to make yourself come, and when you do show it to your BF (if you want to stay with him)
When people aren't satisfied by their partner it is NOT uncommon to temp... (read in full...)
Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis if size doesn't matter?
Q. Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis (like bigger than they've ever had before) if size doesn't matter? Why did men evolve big penises (length and girth) compared to other primates if size doesn't matter?...
A. 25 May 2012: We do?
That is news to me.... (read in full...)
I want out! I have no car, money or job!
Q. Well I really dont know where to start. My boyfriend of four year's, is not the man I thought he was. we have known each other for 5ys. as friend. and then one day he wanted to be more then friends. deep down i did to. so we crossed that line of ...
A. 25 May 2012: Time to find a job, save up and get the heck out of Dodge.
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Wife and I have been married 10 years. Should we throw out photos of our exs?
Q. My wife and I have been together for over 10 years but have just had some old possessions dropped off at our house by our parents / parents in law. Funny timing that they all dropped off boxes at about the same time. A lot of this is stuff fr...
A. 25 May 2012: I have a box in the garage with all kinds of pictures from my childhood, teen and 20's basically before I met my now hubby. I haven't opened the box since I packed up my house about 14? years ago. But I don't see why I have to throw it out.
If yo... (read in full...)
Tell me what went wrong?
Q. I need you to please tell me what happened here: Last year, I became really good friends with a boy in my choir. We spent one whole night together for a feild trip and, suddenly, we became really close. He had such a fun, cute, personality and ...
A. 24 May 2012: Honey, you are still thinking with your mind and your heart, your "friend" is thinking with something below the belt.
You did nothing wrong. He had ideas and notions about being "real" and friends with everyone, til he got a chance to be "friends... (read in full...)
Is it bad that a boyfriend asks her girlfriend to cook?
Q. I have a problem. I have a girlfriend of 2 years and 5 months and you see, she has a friend who has a boyfriend. Well I use to have a crush on her and now that I see her with him...it gets me jealous. I mean she let's me be 'Me' compared to my ...
A. 24 May 2012: I think you have TOTALLY unrealistic view of what a GF should "do" for her BF. And to be honest I applaud her statement :
"I'm not your mom, I'm trying to teach you independence"
If you want a "Susie Homemaker" then yes, you current GF is al... (read in full...)
I've started to form a sassy attitude since dating this guy!
Q. Hello. So I'm always trying to make people happy, To make people smile. To make a difference in anyones life. I focus so much on others that I sometimes forget what I want. I realized I wanted to start hanging out with my old highschool frien...
A. 24 May 2012: I don't think you can put the blame on HIM for your new attitude. I think you need to look into WHY you all of a sudden thinks that being "sassy" is the way to go.
Think before you talk. Maybe that will lessen the rudeness.
... (read in full...)
Caught my boyfriend masturbating to porn 4 hours after I gave him oral. Does that mean I didn't do it right?
Q. Okay so I went to go to sleep last night but my boyfriend stayed up. I was playing games on my phone because i couldn't quite fall asleep. I decided i would smoke a cigarette before i finally decided to sleep. I realized that I didn't have a ...
A. 23 May 2012: Could be that he was actually thinking of what you did for him earlier, hot horny popped the porn on and went at it.
At least you guy has a healthy appetite.... (read in full...)
His lack of kissing skills mean I lack .... well, read the rest, people!
Q. My bf's never really been a good kisser. I like real french kisses with a lot of tongue action and that's what really gets me going down there (meaning i get wet with a long passionate french kiss.). When he kisses me, it's a lot of kisses on the ...
A. 23 May 2012: There are MANY ways for a guy to turn a woman on, besides kissing.
I have to say though a good SNOG can make everything better and IMHO there is nothing worse then a "bad" kisser. But at least that is something that can be improved upon.
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My husband keeps cards from his ex wife out in the open and hangs around with a psycho ex girlfriend claiming that they're "friends"! What is going on?
Q. My husband and I have recently moved house, and we are still in the process of putting things away. Today, on a shelf in the den/study, where he had just put everything where he wanted it, there was this card in plain sight. It said,'To my husband', ...
A. 23 May 2012: Do you two often discuss his ex? Or does he bring her up a lot? I would honestly keep the "chatting" about his exes to a minimum, no matter how nuts they are. Switch the subject onto YOUR little family unit.
I'm glad you made him chuck the card... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be stuck with somebody?
Q. is it possible to be stuck with somebody? is my question to you guys. ive been with a guy for 5 yrs and we are going no where in life. im getting my life together on my own i just recently got my GED and im 3 classes shy away from getting my a...
A. 23 May 2012: No, it can just means it's harder to walk away. But at some point it may be what YOU need to do for YOU.
Obviously he is still stuck in his teen years and you have grown and moved on. Time to let him go and build a future YOU want.... (read in full...)
Can you really be attracted to someone by their scent or is it just lust?
Q. Is it possible for 2 people to be attracted by their scent, or by their odor? I met this chick about 2 months ago and we really like each other, almost as if we're in love. This chick told me not too long ago that the first thing that attracted her ...
A. 23 May 2012: Read up on pheromones. Human might not have the best sense of smell, but we do use it a lot. I DO think it's more about lust (at least at first) then actual love.
Ask any European about walking into a bakery, a butcher and they will tell you what... (read in full...)
How do porn actress do things with no health risks?
Q. How do porn actresses do things like a2m and rimjobs without any health risks? And how do they prep for anal to make it look so easy?...
A. 23 May 2012: The do it because they are paid to do it. I seriously doubt the companies who produces porn give a darn. They are however tested for STD's more often then your average person. But that doesn't mean they can't get sick,std's and so forth.
I don... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend gets testosterone treatments will it change him?
Q. Hi guys, My boyfriend thinks he may have low testosterone levels and he has a doctors appointment for it. My question is that if he does and he gets treatment, will his personality change? He has a low sex drive at the moment but this hasn't alwa...
A. 23 May 2012: He will still be who he is, but his sex drive might go up. And if he is moody now that might stop or get worse. He won't go from Dr. Banner to Hulk :)
It's hard to say how people react to an increase in hormones, but he most likely won't change d... (read in full...)
How can you tell if someone is crazy?
Q. How do you tell if someone is a bit off thier rocker or just needy/bored/alone? So i posted an ad on craigslist in the platonic section. Just wanted to meet some new friends around my area that can hang out from time to time. Nothing sexual or ...
A. 23 May 2012: I'd rather not try and met people through Craigslist.
Take a cooking class or something that you like to do and get out and meet new people. She doesn't sounds exactly crazy but, she seems to have no tact and no social skills.
I would just ... (read in full...)
How can a woman cure her fishy odor?
Q. I feel helpless, I am very clean, and been to my doctors and she tested me. every thing can back normal, no infections. My boyfriend has stop having sex with me, because he say i smell fishy real bad, when he pre-cums, and cums. he even gag's. He ...
A. 23 May 2012: I think HE has problem with perhaps ED? Or something psychological? and is trying to blame it on you, claiming that YOU smell fishy so HE can't/Won't have sex with you. Sounds like he is actually resenting having sex and that has NOTHING to do with ... (read in full...)
Can I hear from some women whose husband are either in the military or they are fireman?
Q. I need advice from ladies whose boyfriends or husbands are in the army! My boyfriend is considering a career either in the army or as a fireman although I think he would prefer the former. While I am supportive of whatever choice he makes, I can't ...
A. 22 May 2012: My husband had been in the Army for little over 20 and we have been together for 15 of those.
So it wasn't MY choice but his :) He loves his job, most days and some days he really hates it too. There has been a lot of missed birthdays, annivers... (read in full...)
My husband keeps cards from his ex wife out in the open and hangs around with a psycho ex girlfriend claiming that they're "friends"! What is going on?
Q. My husband and I have recently moved house, and we are still in the process of putting things away. Today, on a shelf in the den/study, where he had just put everything where he wanted it, there was this card in plain sight. It said,'To my husband', ...
A. 22 May 2012: Sounds like he takes you 100% for granted, which is sad.
To me when people desperate wants to be "friends" with ex's it always makes me think that they have unfinished business with these people. (unless there are kids involved the obviousl... (read in full...)
I fantasize about other men during sex
Q. I fantasize about sleeping with other men when Im sleeping with my husband. It makes me sick just to type that. I really love him. We have dated on and off since highschool, and after a big break up in college he got really physical with mu...
A. 22 May 2012: It's normal. Just like you can't control your dreams you can't always control your thoughts (specially during sex).
Look at him during sex, it tends to block out the other fantasies you might be having.
And stop beating yourself up.... (read in full...)
I think my wife is lying about cheating on me
Q. My wife and I maybe have sex 2 times a month and all of a sudden she feels way too loose ,so much so that i cannot stay erect and I know this is stupid but i asked her if she was using toys or if she was having sex with someone else ,her reply was ...
A. 22 May 2012: I don't think your wife will be "loose" from having sex with someone else. that is not how the vagina muscles work. It's more likely from having 2 kids more then anything.
When you got an std, what kind was it and was she checked too?
There h... (read in full...)
Why do guys have to give up their porn but girls get to keep their toys?
Q. So I've been reading post about women upset about their boyfriends using porn and post about guys upset about their girlfriends using a vibrator. It strikes me odd at the double standard women have for vibrators and porn. Every post I read consist ...
A. 22 May 2012: Why not find a women who sees it your way? So she can keep her toy and you can watch your porn?
I don't think every woman hates or vilify porn. Usually when they do, it's either due to have been neglected due to the man's OVER USE of porn or self-... (read in full...)
Is the guy interested in me?
Q. Hi, I have not seen this guy for 8 years. We ran into each other on a train. He looks cute to me and he gave me this compliment when he saw me at the beginning "you look pretty, where are you heading?". We chatted on the train ride and exchange ...
A. 22 May 2012: I wouldn't over think it either, but it seems to me that he wants to spend more time with you.
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Why do guys have to give up their porn but girls get to keep their toys?
Q. So I've been reading post about women upset about their boyfriends using porn and post about guys upset about their girlfriends using a vibrator. It strikes me odd at the double standard women have for vibrators and porn. Every post I read consist ...
A. 22 May 2012: Says who?
Toys are to many women what your "right" hand is to you, when BY yourself and want a fast orgasm.
... (read in full...)
Why won't he video chat with me?
Q. So i have been dating this guy online for about 2 months.. We knew eachother a long time ago via facebook. There was a break in the middle and we started talking again. And few months ago he told me he wanted something more than plain friendship and ...
A. 21 May 2012: Start with an audio chat over Skype? And then once he feels ok with that, do video. If he can't do that either I would start to worry that he is no who he claims to be.
I would NOT meet some (almost( random guy of the internet if he can't even vid... (read in full...)
How can a woman cure her fishy odor?
Q. I feel helpless, I am very clean, and been to my doctors and she tested me. every thing can back normal, no infections. My boyfriend has stop having sex with me, because he say i smell fishy real bad, when he pre-cums, and cums. he even gag's. He ...
A. 21 May 2012: I agree with DoubleM - no douching. that totally destroys the PH balance and the natural bacterial balance in your vagina and that in turn can make you smell below.
1. I would honestly tell your man to be tested for a yeast infection, because ... (read in full...)
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