Why did my teacher stop responding to me?
Q. As of a couple of months, I have kept in touch with a teacher of mine, whom I once had a crush on. We agreed to remain friends, and much like when I was still his student in high school, we began to have a small debate about some hot topic issue. ...
A. 3 June 2012: Is he married? Maybe he didn't find it appropriate to keep in touch with students? Or maybe his wife didn't find it appropriate.
Could be that his life is busy and he doesn't want to "argue" with people online?
Could be since it's vacation ti... (read in full...)
Does this constitute sexual trauma or am I overreacting?
Q. For two years - from the time I was 17 to 19 - I was involved with a man 20 years older than me. It was strictly an online relationship and I never saw him in person. Six months ago I finally saw him for what he was and dumped him, and haven't ...
A. 3 June 2012: I'm glad you saw him for what he is. A USER and a total sexual predator. The man "groomed" you to do his bidding.
I would say it was traumatic in more ways then sexual. The fact that you are having a hard time dealing with it and what happened... (read in full...)
I'm over eating and trying my parents alcohol as a solution. Could it be depression doing this to me?.
Q. Hiya everyone, I'm feeling a little bit worried about myself recently as I've been feeling really down and miserable for no reason. I'm 16 and thought it was just my hormones but since I was 14 going on 15 I have always felt a little bit down and...
A. 3 June 2012: IT seems like you know instinctively that something feels "wrong".
1. Over eating can lead to a deep resentment of food and/or yourself and eating disorders.
2. Alcohol can emphasize feelings and mood swings, so drinking can actually make ev... (read in full...)
Guys, how would you feel if an old flame sent you a message on facebook?
Q. This is a question for the guys.. how would you feel if an old flame sent you a message on facebook? just to ask if they had the right person? (am pretty sure it is the right person) Would it be a shock to see an ex after 17 years? I sent a messag...
A. 3 June 2012: Awkward. That is how I would feel. Unless it was a person I really wanted to chat with/catch up with, I would probably ignore it.
Hubby talks to his High School Sweetheart on Facebook. Doesn't bother me. ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend keeps asking for money. plz help?
Q. hi im 32 and my girlfriend 42. we dont live together and im at parents but stay with her some nights. when shes paid she gets food and yes does get it for us both but when im paid she keeps asking for things like fags and milk and cakes and also has ...
A. 3 June 2012: Why are you still living at home at 32?
I would help her with whatever you eat/drink. If you can't afford what she "wants", tell her.... (read in full...)
Help me! My wife has become stupid!
Q. When I met my wife I was mesmerized by her beauty and brains. Somewhere over the last 20 years, although she is just as beautiful, she has lost all of her wits. She throws tantrums after not being able to figure out the most mundane things like pri...
A. 3 June 2012: Have you considered that she "plays" dumb or helpless in order to spend more time with you? To get more attention?
Does she have a close female friend? Maybe if you can talk to a friend the friend can bring it up, IF she sees the same things a... (read in full...)
Tips for changing the timing of my period?
Q. Right... So basically, im going on holiday on the 1st of August, but im due to be on my period then. I dont want this to ruin my holiday, so i want to dely my period? Im not ready to use a tampon and i dont want to go on birth control.. Does a...
A. 3 June 2012: Without the hormonal influx from birth control, I doubt you can "magically" change the time of your period.
Sorry :(... (read in full...)
Guys: Is a bossy girl a massive turn off?
Q. Hey, i was talking to my friends the other day about guys we've hooked up with and now im a bit worried. When im with a guy i tend to sort of tell them what I want them to do...like if they're not turning me on, i'll say 'do this is me...'. But my ...
A. 2 June 2012: Knowing and vocalizing what you like is never a bad thing. As long as you do it in a positive way it's a win/win situation.
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I'm 17 and don't know if I want to lose my virginity or not
Q. I'm 17 and basically, confused about weather I want to loose my virginity or not. I'm one of the oldest of my friends and I'm the only one to be still a virgin. I know that at least a small part of me wants to loose it, but the other half of me is ...
A. 2 June 2012: Then wait til you feel like you are ready. This is a no-take-back thing. So why NOT wait for the right guy and the right time? Instead of doing something you will regret?
The thing you are feeling is peer pressure. What if your friends all want... (read in full...)
Should I feel badly that I dated him 3 years ago and now have given his brother a kiss?
Q. Ok , so three years ago I dated this guy, me and him broke up,he had 2 babies when he was a teen ,now I recently hooked up with his brother at the club. Didn't go further than a kiss. Should I feel guilty or bad about this ? It was just a one night ...
A. 2 June 2012: Why should you? Though it would makes more sense to hook up with people who aren't related to exes, just to keep the drama down.
But should you feel bad? Not at all.... (read in full...)
Are all women capable of having orgasms through intercourse? Anyone know a good technique?
Q. Are all women capable of having orgasms through intercourse? I think they say only a small percentage of women can orgasm just from intercourse. I'm 33 and it only happened once for me. I would love to figure out how to have more. I can climax from ...
A. 1 June 2012: Honestly, Learn how to get one by YOURSELF. Then show your partner. Insertion doesn't = orgasm.... (read in full...)
My wife says I'm a worthless man because I cheated. She cheated first!
Q. My wife keeps calling me a worthless man. I work two jobs to support three kids plus my wife and I feel she is being ungrateful. My wife cheated and I cheated after to get revenge, she has been calling me this ever since. She also says I have don't ...
A. 1 June 2012: If you two plan on staying together you need to find some kind of marriage counseling or couples therapy.
And, sir... two wrongs never make a right.... (read in full...)
One question I get asked a lot is about my past relationships. The problem is, I haven't had any!
Q. I'm over 27 and dating. One question I get asked a lot is about my past relationships. The problem is, I haven't had any. I've had one problem or head trip after another. I've also been a bit of a nerd. I can honestly say that I am over all of t...
A. 1 June 2012: Be honest. Tell them that relationships haven't been a focus in your life when you were younger.
I think if a women "screen" you out as you call it, because you haven't been through several relationships by now, she isn't for you. So in a sense th... (read in full...)
I don't want to know about a girl's sexual past. Why do women find that shallow?
Q. Why do women find my rule shallow? I have this rule when dating that I absolutely DO NOT want to know anything about a girls past sexually. I have this rule because I'm a virgin and I already know that everyone else has a past and to refrain from ...
A. 1 June 2012: I think your rule makes sense, up to a point. Discussing past partners and past sexual experience can often lead to drama.
However, I think you are going a little overboard with the : "OMG she broke the rule, off with her head" attitude... (read in full...)
Is he just waiting for someone better to come along?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months long distance. Only see him about once a month. He did at one point want me to move with him but then after a few arguments he decided against it. He says he still loves me, but he never texts or calls ...
A. 31 May 2012: He might already have found someone else and is keeping you as his backup. Drop him. Find someone who is honest and who ACTUALLY wants to spend time with you.
Sorry, he sounds like a guy that doesn't take relationships serious at all.
Good lu... (read in full...)
He already has a girlfriend of a year and has been married twice
Q. A man recently added me on Facebook through a good mutual friend. First we just made friendly conversation and such, then he asked if I wanted to meet up for coffee. I agreed. We got along really well. He already has a girlfriend of a year and has ...
A. 31 May 2012: He sounds slick and kinda nasty.
I would NOT date, sext, text or hang out with this guy. The fact that he "hunts" through his friends FB is really creepy too.
I wouldn't trust him any further then I can throw him.
He want to BE with you even... (read in full...)
Would you date a woman/person who is separated?
Q. Hi everyone. I am especially interested in MEN'S opinions but this question is open to everyone: Would you date a woman who is separated if you liked her or would her separated status stop you from asking her out or considering her for a lon...
A. 31 May 2012: Personally, I think it's better to wait til the divorce is final to start dating, but from what I see it's quite common that people who are separated start dating before the divorce.
The reason WHY I think it's better to wait, is that the time it ... (read in full...)
She said she didn't have a Facebook page and lo and behold, I find pictures of her with another guy! What do I do?
Q. Ok so I dont have a huge problem persay with this,more rather I want some opinions on the matter. Ive been seeing this girl for about a week now,weve been talking for over a month now and things seem to be going well. Last Saturday we went...
A. 31 May 2012: I'd just drop her. And move on. That is a shady girl with shady behavior. If she is willing to screw her BF of 3 years over, she will screw you over too.
You already know she is a liar and now you know, she is a cheat too.
She doesn't sound li... (read in full...)
I'm married but involved with a 25 year Russian girl. How do I know if my feelings for her are true? How do I know if I still love my wife? Should I try having a baby with my wife to improve our marriage?
Q. How to start...I am 44 years old and have fallen in love with a 25 year old Russian girl who I met in Moscow while working there for 2 years. I am married (for 18 years) and my wife has never been able to have children. We have recently started...
A. 31 May 2012: Please do NOT have a child with your wife, adding a child to this mess is just cruel. You and your wife have had 18 years to look at alternative ways to have children and you haven't so far, so why now? You think if you toss a child in the mix your ... (read in full...)
Do guys my age automatically expect sex?
Q. Hey there! So, I'm 18 and I'm getting ready to head off to college soon. Like most kids (I guess some would consider me a "young adult"?) my age, I've been pondering the possibilities of what the future might bring. This includes relationships and ...
A. 30 May 2012: Well, honestly I would guess that MANY guys your age expect/want sex. But that doesn't mean you HAVE to have sex with anyone.
I would suggest that when YOU are ready to start dating ( And I don't mean having sex) that you look for guys with si... (read in full...)
I'm bleeding again even though I've had my period this month! What is wrong with me?
Q. I am constantly having something wrong with me. this time,,, today I started bleeding but I have already had my period this month, the bleeding only lasted the day and it was very very dark(almost black) and very thick. not a slimy thick but an a...
A. 30 May 2012: Consider visiting your doctor/gynecologist. Anytime something is out of the ordinary with your body it's always a good idea to check in with a doctor. The dark dark blood can be symptoms of all kind of issues (some are not serious so please don't ... (read in full...)
Subtle ways needed. Is there a way of bringing him round to my wish for slow lovemaking?
Q. I am very happy in my relationship. My partner and I enjoy our time together and have regular sex. But the problem is, it's always hard, fast sex, if you know what I mean! It's good and he drives me wild but sometimes I just want to 'make love' as...
A. 30 May 2012: I agree with Tisha... Take control, set the pace.... (read in full...)
What did my boss at the restaurant mean when he said "Clean the shaft too"? Was he hitting on me?
Q. Maybe it's just wishful thinking but I think my boss was coming on to me a couple of days ago. I work at a restaurant. I'm still kind of new to the place, only a few months in. I was cleaning near the latte machine and one of the spoons was dirty...
A. 30 May 2012: If it feel like he is hitting on you tell him to knock it off. Or ignore it. (though that may not make him quit it).
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Internet encounter ended after numerous suggestions of a three-way!
Q. I got in to a situation with a guy from an internet dating site. I am there to meet with guys to eventually find a boyfriend, and this guy was quite clear from the start that he was just out of a relationship and was looking for "a lover". I thought ...
A. 28 May 2012: I too doubt that ever ever really split from her, he was just trolling dating sites for a possible willing girl to add into his fantasies.
Take it as a lesson of WHAT not to do in the future. IF a guy is just looking for "lovers" and you are look... (read in full...)
Can you get sick from touching a penis then putting your hands in your mouth?
Q. If you touch a guys penis, then you end up putting your hands in your mouth during that night and in the morning without having washed them... can you get ill, or any infection or disease? Because that happened, now today I feel really sick! But i'm ...
A. 28 May 2012: I highly doubt it. Unless that penis was a bacteria infested cesspool, and I would have to question what you were doing with a penis like THAT in your hand.... (read in full...)
What did my boss at the restaurant mean when he said "Clean the shaft too"? Was he hitting on me?
Q. Maybe it's just wishful thinking but I think my boss was coming on to me a couple of days ago. I work at a restaurant. I'm still kind of new to the place, only a few months in. I was cleaning near the latte machine and one of the spoons was dirty...
A. 28 May 2012: Honestly, I think it was what's called a double entendre.
A double entendre is a figure of speech in which a spoken phrase is devised to be understood in either of two ways, one simple and one a little "dirty".
IT WAS A JOKE, even if it was a... (read in full...)
Partner doesn't think of me during masturbation
Q. Hi, this question is for women and men, would it bother you if your partner only thought about you briefly or sometimes not at all during masturbation at the start of a relationship? For some reason it bothers me, I would wonder why they hardly ...
A. 28 May 2012: It is VERY normal to think of others when masturbation, maybe not EVERY time but really, it is pretty normal.
Could be you had just seen a movie with some "hot" actor in it and HE/SHE pops into your head. It doesn't mean to "think" you are havi... (read in full...)
Bad sore throat after a bj
Q. My boyfriend is clean, and we know that for sure. Him and I had our first experience together, and I gave him a blow job. When I was doing it, all went well, except he started to push my head down a little farther, which resulted in me starting to ...
A. 28 May 2012: Make sure you BF get his throat check out to or you two can pass that Strep back and forth, and Strep is no joke.... (read in full...)
Bad sore throat after a bj
Q. My boyfriend is clean, and we know that for sure. Him and I had our first experience together, and I gave him a blow job. When I was doing it, all went well, except he started to push my head down a little farther, which resulted in me starting to ...
A. 27 May 2012: A female reader, person12345 + ?, writes (27 May 2012):
The remedy is you stop giving this guy oral until he can treat you like a human instead of a hole.
AMEN!
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Is there a chance that a virgin won't bleed on her first sex?
Q. I just had sex with a girl, younger than my age. She claims that she has never done anything like that before and was REALLY innocent on our first try, so do I. I know nothing in making a distinction between the virgin one and the experienced one. ...
A. 27 May 2012: Yes.
If she was into any kind of sports, rode horses, bikes. Some bleed, some don't.
A woman who isn't a virgin can actually bleed as well. If fingers were inserted and a nail snagged her inner walls.
So you can't say bleeding = virgin.
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Was that outburst a signal that I should end it?
Q. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past 1 and a half years. Before we hooked up, he was a total playboy -- flirting with girls, encouraging them on to flirt with him, a new girl every week...and so on. Then after we got committed, ...
A. 27 May 2012: You sound (and I don't mean to be rude) very insecure, lacking trust and a bit controlling..
You didn't allow him to talk with his EX? That statement really baffled me.
He can't talk to exes but it's perfectly fine for you to invade his priva... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friends took him to a strip club for his birthday...and I was there with them!!
Q. Well, my boyfriend recently had a birthday. We have been happily together for over a year and I love him more than anything on the planet. I even moved from Ohio to Hawaii to be with him! Anyway, my boyfriend and I went out with a bunch of his good ...
A. 27 May 2012: Honestly, I think it was a dumb move to take a birthday boy to the strip club, but wouldn't you RATHER be there when it happened then them going without you, and left you speculation what DID happen?
Talk to him (one-on-one) and explain why you ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend asked me to stop the handjob I was giving him, because he didnt want to ejaculate and make a mess!
Q. We were making out on his bed and it was intense ....he fingered me..he always cares a lot about my pleasure and makes sure to please me...and so far i never did anything for him...he'd say he just loves seeing me happy because it makes him happ...
A. 27 May 2012: Could be that it was starting to get more painful the pleasurable and he didn't want to ruin the moment.
Or maybe he didn't really want to make a mess.
Try it in the shower next time.... (read in full...)
Need some info and insight about having sex on a girl's period. Help?
Q. I'm in a real pickle about this one. My current girlfriend and I trust each other enough to have unprotected sex, and of course I get that feeling that I want to cum inside of her, although I can always control that urge. Me and her were talking ...
A. 27 May 2012: Once is all it takes and NO you are NOT safe during her period.
Why risk a pregnancy just so you can go "bare"? Seriously?
Educate yourself.
And IF it's so important to you to have unprotected sex, maybe she needs to consider birth-control?... (read in full...)
Girl on top. How is it done without being totally awkward?
Q. Ok, so I recently had my first time, but it hurt a lot, so I did some research and got some advice to try me on top next time. Only problem is, it seems like a really awkward position... But I'm sure you Aunts can help explain this to me so i...
A. 27 May 2012: If you are embarrassed sit facing away from him so he can see your back/butt.
Another thing that makes it less awkward is dim the light or have 1-2 candles going only.
Most of all have fun with it. I bet you HE will.... (read in full...)
Would you date someone with scars from self-injury?
Q. Would you date someone with scars from self-injury? I recently went through a pretty rough period while I was far away from home at college, and I became so mentally worn that I resorted to cutting as a coping method. I know it's bad, and I kn...
A. 27 May 2012: I have more scars then the average person for sure, all because I have always been a tad clumsy mixed with having no fear. One of them is on my wrist from the hand almost to the elbow (underside of the arm) from walking through a glass door (not on ... (read in full...)
Ifeel like she expects us to take care of her baby!
Q. Hey everyone in need of some good and honest advice because im not really sure what to do or how to feel. So here goes... I have a 9 month old daughter and I have a friend with 4 kids being 6,5,2 and a 5 month old. Now she doesn't work and uses go...
A. 27 May 2012: IS there a Goodwill, Once upon a baby, Secondhand store or Thrift shop nearby? You can find plenty gently used baby stuff there ( or rather your friend can).
You can give her stuff IF you want to. And if you DON'T then remember that you ALREADY ... (read in full...)
My fiance likes to act out that I'm a virgin and he's dominating me when we have sex. Is this normal?
Q. Most of the times that my fiance Nd I have sex he plays out me to be a virgin and that his taking over me and he says things such as, ( no one can hear you, can you feel that pressure while its ripping your thinght virgin p***y.) Or he covers my ...
A. 27 May 2012: Creepy and scary.
Role playing should be consensual, just like the sex.
I'm glad you turned the table on him, he REALLY needed a wake up call.... (read in full...)
I have found out A LOT of dirty secrets about my boyfriend!
Q. My relationship has had it's ups and downs from the beginning.. now almost 3 years in, I have never felt more lost. Over the duration of the relationship, I have found out A LOT of dirty secrets about my boyfriend. For months, he would do nothing...
A. 27 May 2012: Time for you to set yourself free. How can you leave with your pride intact? BY walking away. The longer you stay the more you will "hate" yourself and resent him for it. So USE that pride and say, you know what, I think you and I are done.
It's ... (read in full...)
Do I send him a nasty letter or completely ignore him ?
Q. Hi everyone, well the last couple of days have been traumatic for me to say the least, we had finished the relationship and i was doing fine, i text him to say basically do what you have to do but dont include me. He then said I had his motivati...
A. 27 May 2012: IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE. Best way to get rid of a moron like that.
If you still have some unresolved feelings, you CAN write a letter (pen & paper) and when you are done, burn it or shred it. It would be wasted to try and explain how he made you feel... (read in full...)
Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis if size doesn't matter?
Q. Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis (like bigger than they've ever had before) if size doesn't matter? Why did men evolve big penises (length and girth) compared to other primates if size doesn't matter?...
A. 26 May 2012: Why did men evolve big penises (length and girth) compared to other primates if size doesn't matter?
Genetic fluke? ... (read in full...)
Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis if size doesn't matter?
Q. Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis (like bigger than they've ever had before) if size doesn't matter? Why did men evolve big penises (length and girth) compared to other primates if size doesn't matter?...
A. 25 May 2012: We do?
That is news to me.... (read in full...)
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