How can a woman cure her fishy odor?
Q. I feel helpless, I am very clean, and been to my doctors and she tested me. every thing can back normal, no infections. My boyfriend has stop having sex with me, because he say i smell fishy real bad, when he pre-cums, and cums. he even gag's. He ...
A. 23 May 2012: I think HE has problem with perhaps ED? Or something psychological? and is trying to blame it on you, claiming that YOU smell fishy so HE can't/Won't have sex with you. Sounds like he is actually resenting having sex and that has NOTHING to do with ... (read in full...)
Why won't he video chat with me?
Q. So i have been dating this guy online for about 2 months.. We knew eachother a long time ago via facebook. There was a break in the middle and we started talking again. And few months ago he told me he wanted something more than plain friendship and ...
A. 21 May 2012: Start with an audio chat over Skype? And then once he feels ok with that, do video. If he can't do that either I would start to worry that he is no who he claims to be.
I would NOT meet some (almost( random guy of the internet if he can't even vid... (read in full...)
He said I stink down there and it's probably the food I eat!
Q. Hey friends, me and my guy were out today evening and we were talking about having sex 2mrw at his place. He asked me if he should full shave? i said its your wish but just wash your men hair down there, so it smells good. He suddenly said that i ...
A. 21 May 2012: First of all if you do smell, wouldn't you rather that he tell you? It sounded like he wanted to get back at you for telling him to wash his man-bits. Not sure if he really meant it. But I think you should be frank and ask him. If you do have a not ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to give me more sex?
Q. I'm 33, my boyfriend is 31 and we've been together about 10 months. We only see each other on the weekend because we live an hour away from each other. He usually comes and stays at my place Friday night thru Sunday. Pretty much since the beginning ...
A. 21 May 2012: I think your best bet is telling him that you would like to have sex more often with him. Hinting isn't working. And the guy isn't a mind reader, so talk. Tell him how attracted you are to him, tell him how much you enjoy the sex, but that you want ... (read in full...)
Is it me? Are my expectations on how life should be realistic?
Q. I'm looking for advice on really what is acceptable Or is me? Are my expectation on what life must be like how it is realistic? My belief is that a person must not have more than one partner. Sometimes I feel like I'm different, or there's somethin...
A. 21 May 2012: Do you mean one partner through your whole life or one partner at a time?
If it is the first, I say it's admirable, but may not be totally realistic these days, but still if that is how you feel, stick to your gun and find a man who feel the same... (read in full...)
A boy I barely know just told me he loves me
Q. This boy at school told me in the library that he loves me. He has never even talked to me before. How can boy just blurt that out? I just froze. Didn't know what to day. I probably looked shocked. I felt shocked. Then i think i messed up because ...
A. 21 May 2012: You did the right thing, you were HONEST.
I can't see why you could have messed anything up by being yourself and by being honest. Telling an almost total stranger that you love them is surely a crush, as he IN FACT do not know you.
If he i... (read in full...)
How bad has porn addiction got to be before you dump someone?
Q. How bad has porn addiction got to be before you dump someone? I would like to hear other people's stories.... I had a bit of trouble with my boyfriend at the beginning I know he's not as bad as my first boyfriend but he masturbated everyday he ...
A. 21 May 2012: I think if he rather masturbate then spend time with you or have sex with you, the relationship is over. I don't think it can get much "worse" then that.
I think most guys (and plenty of women) masturbate daily, yet they are still able to have hav... (read in full...)
Will flowers win back my teenage, but legal ex-girlfriend?
Q. Hello everyone. Tricky and possibly a bit of a controversial situation here. Keeping it as short as possible. I love my ex girlfriend, Im 24, shes 15 (age of consent in Sweden = 15 so relax). Anyways she broke up with me almost 2 months ago, as she ...
A. 21 May 2012: I don't think trying to FORCE her to tell her parents will make her want to date you again.
Honey, she ISN'T ready to tell her parents, she isn't READY to date.
I suggest you either wait til she FEELS ready or try dating someone closer t... (read in full...)
Could this be a latex allergy, or is this normal for your first time?
Q. So I just lost my virginity yesterday to my boyfriend. (It hurt a lot, so there wasn't more than just a little bit of thrusting before we stopped) And he wore a condom, of course. I don't want to get pregnant! But about five or so hours lat...
A. 21 May 2012: Work on getting wet before sex. It will make it all SO much easier. It could be that you guys used an oil or water based lubricant. FOREPLAY is to sex (for women) as coffee-beans are to brewing coffee. VITAL.
Water based tend to dry out (as it e... (read in full...)
Am I naive in thinking that on a first date nothing more than kissing should happen?
Q. am i naive in thinking that on a first date nothing more than kissing should happen? My friends and I were discussing this today and when I said i would never sleep with someone on the first date, they all said they wouldn't rule it out... But ...
A. 21 May 2012: There are no set RULES for how fast or how sloe you need to go, other then what feels RIGHT for you.
So if you don't want to have sex with a guy you are dating til 3-7 weeks/months after you have met him, go for it, if your friend wants to hook ... (read in full...)
Facebook misunderstanding--does she think I am stalking her?
Q. Sometimes I wish there is no such thing as facebook. Why? Because a 4 months ago I met this cute girl at a party and Ive sorta had a crush on her ever since. Just recently I look her up on facebook I dont friend her because im a bit shy. Two days ...
A. 21 May 2012: I would just send her a private message saying hi, thanks for adding me - how are you doing? and forget about her stalker comment. It may not be directed at you AT ALL.... (read in full...)
How can a woman cure her fishy odor?
Q. I feel helpless, I am very clean, and been to my doctors and she tested me. every thing can back normal, no infections. My boyfriend has stop having sex with me, because he say i smell fishy real bad, when he pre-cums, and cums. he even gag's. He ...
A. 21 May 2012: I agree with DoubleM - no douching. that totally destroys the PH balance and the natural bacterial balance in your vagina and that in turn can make you smell below.
1. I would honestly tell your man to be tested for a yeast infection, because ... (read in full...)
Suggestions please? What do YOU do when a guy hits on your girlfriend in a club?
Q. Me and my girl go out to bars / clubs quite a lot and a lot of the time,she dances with her girlfriend(s) and if i don't dance with her, i chill at the bar with my friends. She says to me how she loves what i do, as it shows i trust her and i know...
A. 21 May 2012: I think wanting to protect your GF is a basic instinct. You didn't overreact, you ended the situation. Some guys would have beat the living daylights out of the guy others would have been mad at their GF, you know? Every person reacts differently to ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why I hate doing it but I love reading erotic stories.
Q. Dear Cupid my problem is quite different. i like to read erotic stories, tried to watch some porn movies but didn't like it much. So basically i like sex, but when it comes to doing it, i don't like it at all, i mean i hate it. i wanted it to...
A. 21 May 2012: I think women in general are bigger fans of erotica then porn. I don't think there is anything wrong with it per say, as long as you accept and acknowledge that they ARE just stories. But that they can (like porn for some) be an inspiration.
If yo... (read in full...)
My prom date just updated her status to 'in a relationship' and now I'm wondering if I should talk to her about it or just go with it?
Q. Dear Cupid, basically i'm really confused at the moment. I am taking this girl who I've liked for a long time to my end of year prom and was really looking forward to it. However I have always been wary whether the feelings were mutual and just ...
A. 21 May 2012: I would not get into it just yet. Could be she put it up there to ward off some dude or impress another.
Personally, I would let it be.
Do you think she believes she and you are in a relationship because you asked her to the Prom?... (read in full...)
Is this fair? our relationship is over because I cheated over tens years ago!!! help!!
Q. How do I handle the fact of the man I have loved for 14 years wants to leave because of some things I did over 10 years ago. Even after him telling me that he love me and we were going to get through this together. Now it's I am inconsiderate, I do...
A. 20 May 2012: So he has know for 5 years, if I get this right and NOW he has decided he can't stay because of it?
I would have to say there is something else going on. Unless he has been mulling over it for 5 years.
There is more to the story then he is... (read in full...)
Is this fair? our relationship is over because I cheated over tens years ago!!! help!!
Q. How do I handle the fact of the man I have loved for 14 years wants to leave because of some things I did over 10 years ago. Even after him telling me that he love me and we were going to get through this together. Now it's I am inconsiderate, I do...
A. 20 May 2012: Did he recently find out about the cheating? Or has he know the last 10 years that you cheated on him? I'm confused.
... (read in full...)
I'm hurt and I don't understand what went wrong!
Q. Hello. I dumped someone I was dating for 2 years. I tried to be as nice to him, such as telling him it wasn't his fault, and that it was mine. However, there was quite a few things that WERE his fault. I just kept it all to myself, until he...
A. 20 May 2012: I think you need to give him space, I can't see why he would want to be friends with you, at least not right now, he is still hurting.
In a relationship lying and "trying" to not hurt a partner can easily backfire. So learn from it and be open and... (read in full...)
Am I being played by letting him woo me all over again?
Q. Ok so after four months of being broken up my ex contacted me to tell me how mich he missed me and that he missed everything about me and has thought about me everyday since the split which was his decision. We were together for about a year i meet ...
A. 20 May 2012: You know the guy, I don't. I would take it extra slow this time around and ONLY date him if you really think he is someone you want to be with long term, not just because HE wants back together with you.
Why did you two break up?... (read in full...)
How can I get my hunny to enjoy more sexcapades with me.
Q. I am a 46m and me and wifey have stayed at a few swanky hotels to enjoy each other and have long awaited sex sessions due to kids at home.But when we get there it never fails I get real horny and she just wants to cuddle, WTF! So I go down stairs ...
A. 20 May 2012: I think you need to SIT your wife down and talk to her. I am willing to BET she knows WHY you two are going to a nice hotel for some privacy and "fun".
Warm her up with some cuddling, some Champagne & strawberries or whatever she likes. Woo her,... (read in full...)
When she watches porn it makes me feel I am not satisfying her. Is this the likely truth?
Q. My wife chooses to watch a lot of porn and this upsets me, and as she knows this now she shuts screen down as soon as i come in the room. I tried to see if wants me to act like the pictures she watches,but she says no. Would her actions suggest she ...
A. 20 May 2012: I think she IS dissatisfied with the current sex life. However she doesn't seem to do anything to spice it up or try and fix it.
I think I would sit her down and talk to her. Tell her how it makes YOU feel. Tell her to be honest about the sex. LOT... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any experience with Micronor?
Q. Hello, thank you for reading for question and hopefully being able to help me. I have been on the contraceptive pill Micronor for at least six months (that I can remember), but over the past three months or so I have been experiencing ver...
A. 20 May 2012: I would talk to your doctor. You might have to switch to another pill/contraceptive.
Have you read the leaflet that comes with the pills for side effects?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called my phone but called me someone else's name??
Q. Hi My bf fought with me couple of days back, because i called him twice when he was hanging out with his friends. After that I didn't call him and neither did he. Today he sent text, saying sorry for his shouting at me and i didn't resp...
A. 20 May 2012: Do you still have the voice mail? If so play it to him and tell him you found that rather odd.
... (read in full...)
My wife had sex with 10 guys by the time she was 19 Is that normal?
Q. I am 35 and my wife is 34, and she has had sex with 11 men in her life including me. That might not sound like a massive number of partners relative to her age, but the other 10 guys were all between the ages of 15-19. From 19-30 she was with one ...
A. 18 May 2012: I wasn't aware that there was a "normal" number of sexual partners a woman was allowed at a certain age.
Some women do casual sex, some don't.
Seems to me that she outgrew the causal sex and matured.
I don't see why you are looking into the... (read in full...)
I fear my vagina isnt good enough for my boyfriend
Q. So, my boyfriend and I have sexual relations. He isnt my first, and well I feel ashamed to have sex with him for that reason... We were watching this t.v show, with Wesley Snipes(black guy) and he was married to an Asian woman, they showed a scene ...
A. 18 May 2012: Wow, I would tell that jerk that you vag is fine, but his penis is just too small.... See how he likes them apples?!
WHY are you letting him treat you like this? I'd dump him in a heartbeat and find a guy who will appreciate 100% of you.... (read in full...)
How can I get girls to think I'm mature rather than thinking I'm an asshole?
Q. i am very social have a bunch of friends but when theres a girl i like there are few that understand my humor. most girls when im trying to flirt with them they think im being an asshole. every once in awhile ill find a girl whos cute and doesnt ...
A. 17 May 2012: You can't really "fake" being mature. At least not for long.
Maybe you can try and tone down the jokes til you know them better. I have to say I don't mind bawdy humor, but if it came from someone I barely know I would find it tacky and less fun... (read in full...)
Do women really hate porn?
Q. I have lot of porn dvds at home. My wife rarely watches it. My question is, do all women hate to watch porn or is it some?. If some women like porn what are the categories they like to watch. say, lesbian, taboo, straight, BDSM, oral.... ...
A. 17 May 2012: I don't like porn at all. But I don't all out hate it. I just find it sad that it's such a big business degrading women. I don't watch it, but my husband does from time to time and that is OK with me.
... (read in full...)
I don't feel good enough for my boyfriend after his comments about these models and how he wanted to give me 'the boot'....
Q. Hello, I really hope someone can give me some advice with my problem..here goes..! I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half years and it has been a great relationship. Before we got together he had a reputation of being a flirt, e...
A. 17 May 2012: Is being WITH him worth throwing your self esteem, self respect out the window for?
Seems to me that he is taking you for granted and think he can "do better" then you. Which is rather callous.
If you keep "forgiving" him disrespecting yo... (read in full...)
My partner as just started army training.. Does this get any easier?
Q. Iv been with my partner for 2 months now and before we got together we spoke loads and he told me he had applied for the army. I told him I would stick by him with whatever decision he makes. He went to army training and has been there a week and ...
A. 17 May 2012: Basic is hard on the recruit and hard on their family and partners.
They do NOT get much time off to call/write, but I would suggest you write him (snail mail AKA real letters) to cheer him up, while he is gone. Depending on how his group do... (read in full...)
Lump on my foot, what could this be?
Q. Hi I'm just wondering what this could be my feet were all normal until one day I got a sharp pain on the side or my pinky toe and since then I never took noticed but I have like a lump inside my skin which has nothing in it like a splinter or what ...
A. 17 May 2012: I would venture a guess and say a bunion.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0002211/
But I would still go see the doctor, if for no other reason then peace of mind.... (read in full...)
I've been interested in my friend for over 3 years and our mutual friend asked me not to tell her yet, only for me to find out that he's been having sex with her!! I feel so betrayed by both of them!
Q. I have been interested in a girl for over three years. I've never looked at another woman the same way. We are very good friends and we share a mutual friend. The reason I never said anything to her was because I discussed it with our mutual friend ...
A. 17 May 2012: I can't see why you want to blame her. She had no idea you liked her and I guess she was doing the FWB with him because she didn't want a RELATIONSHIP with him.
He on the other hand sounds like a douchy friend who just wanted to use the girl a l... (read in full...)
He likes me...I like his friend
Q. Okay, so i'm 15, and friends with 2 guys on my bus. The one guy will be called R, the other M. R is...for lack of a better word, a creep. He latches on to girls he likes, and acts really creepily around them. He begs them to go out with him when ...
A. 17 May 2012: Just because R likes you doesn't mean you have ANY obligations to like him back.
Though, I wouldn't go after M either. If he passes on what his friend said to you, who knows what he will tell his friend. I don't think he did it to ruin R chances.... (read in full...)
My ex lover is married and looking to continue the relationship....
Q. I was sleeping with my best friend for 2 1/2 yrs after he broke up with his ex girl after 7 yrs of an on and off again relationship. We had a great time together. We are compatible and love each others company, sex was awesome but it would have ...
A. 17 May 2012: I wouldn't worry about his motives honestly, I would look at your own. WHY are you having sex with him? Obviously he doesn't have much care or respect for you or his GF/Wife. And obviously he has no morals or values.
You are doing yourself... (read in full...)
I want my dad to come to my graduation but not his wife and kids
Q. So first thing, I haven't spoken to my father or that side of my family for almost 8 years now, after my dad kicked me out of his house when I was 14 (I lived with my mother after that - they were divorced). I'm graduating this Saturday from co...
A. 17 May 2012: Thank you for the update, I'm glad it went so well. ... (read in full...)
Wondering if this is normal for a vagina?
Q. Hi, Well recently I am curious to know whats normal about vaginas. I've been checked for STD's and i'm all clear. But my vagina is redish colour and if I touch around the hole it can be quite tender. I find sex uncomfortable-but I put that down to ...
A. 16 May 2012: Could be that you are allergic to the tampons/pads you are using and the redness is a result there off, or it could be the detergents/fabric softener.
I would go get checked out. JUST to be on the safe side.... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he told his parents, his friends, anyone about our wedding?
Q. Hello. I'm getting married in 5 months, my bf proposed a few months ago. It was an out of the blue proposal, we never discussed marriage and I'd never forced him into proposing at all. I love him so much and he sure loves me back a lot. We're both ...
A. 16 May 2012: That IS super weird!
Why on Earth wouldn't he want his family to share in the joy too? And for them to know you, his soon to be wife?
Does he plan on them attending? If so ideally, invitations should go out six weeks before the wedding, so gues... (read in full...)
Turns out my FWB was married and lying to me! He doesn't know I know. What now?
Q. Hi everyone I have just founf out my fwb is married with children and now I feel so guilty I have ended this with him but still see him every day as we live in the same place I know what fwbs all about but I had fallen in love with him and now I ...
A. 16 May 2012: I would cut the contact cold turkey.
You may think you love this guy, but do you really know him? Or then in the carnal sense? Obviously he is a good liar. I'm sure he is lying to his wife too. I don't think he is worthy of your love. After al... (read in full...)
Found that my husband had a membership on a tranny dating site
Q. I have been with my husband for 12 years married for 7. In that time we have had a few problems and have split twice for short periods of time for stupid petty things, the last time being Oct 11 but i was thrilled that we got back together on new ...
A. 16 May 2012: I for one think he knows exactly why he went and signed up for a tranny dating site. Now if it was just impulsive he wouldn't have gotten a membership, he would just have lurked. IMHO
I would sit him down and talk to him about this. I would no... (read in full...)
My mom is dating a 33 year old guy, who's closer in age to me than her! Its so embarrassing!!
Q. My mom who is 49 years old is now dating a guy who is 33 years old and I don't know how to feel about the whole situation. I mean he's closer in age to me than her, she's never done anything like this before so I don't know whats going on. She has ...
A. 16 May 2012: I think you need to be happy for your mom that she have found someone she wants to be with.
You aren't the judge & jury over who she can date. I think you need to chill and maybe take the time to get to know the guy before you oppose this match. H... (read in full...)
Need help! Really need to get the liar back for what he did.
Q. So basically it's been a long night, my boyfriend well now ex has decided to tell me that he cheated on me, obviously it has really hurt, but I need a way to get him back. I know I shouldn't sink down to his level but I'm going to do it anyway, he ...
A. 16 May 2012: No matter what kind of revenge or "get even" scheme you can cook up, he is not going to care. He will not be hurt like you were hurt.
All you can really do is thank your lucky star you found out and dumped him. And learn from the "mistake... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have sex with a shemale.
Q. I don't know if I should worry or not. My boyfriend and I have been together for 10months. He is 20 almost 21 years old. And well... My boyfriend wants to have sex with a shemale. The other day I found out that he's on craigslist looking to have sex...
A. 15 May 2012: He is looking for someone to cheat with and honestly I don't care HOW big boobs a "shemales" has.. it's STILL a DUDE with boobs. Seems like he wants to have sex with a man. And he thinks it's less "gay" if the dude has boobs. He could be bi-sexual ... (read in full...)
Is it worth commiting for a visa?
Q. I have recently traveled to a European country to be with my boyfriend of a year and a half. He is both a US citizen as well as a citizen here. He was able to get a research position that will take another 3 or 4 years to finish and asked me to join ...
A. 15 May 2012: Have you contacted the US Embassy to see if there are other options for you to stay longer without getting hitched?
If not, I would do the 90 days at a time tourist visa, a few times and see how you both feel.
This might help you get some ide... (read in full...)
I want my dad to come to my graduation but not his wife and kids
Q. So first thing, I haven't spoken to my father or that side of my family for almost 8 years now, after my dad kicked me out of his house when I was 14 (I lived with my mother after that - they were divorced). I'm graduating this Saturday from co...
A. 11 May 2012: Good luck I hope it turns out better then you expect.... (read in full...)
I want my dad to come to my graduation but not his wife and kids
Q. So first thing, I haven't spoken to my father or that side of my family for almost 8 years now, after my dad kicked me out of his house when I was 14 (I lived with my mother after that - they were divorced). I'm graduating this Saturday from co...
A. 7 May 2012: I would just tell him that the invitation is for him only. That you want to see your dad, but that you don't want to see Cheryl and your half-sibling.
Now, he might not like that idea at all and tell you it's either his whole family or none, an... (read in full...)
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